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1

Yo! I'm interested.
/r/seduction14/10/18 01:52 AM
2

Do you mean she smells like stripper? Look up booty dust. This isn't an accident it's by design. I do appreciate a nice smelling woman though.
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:07 PM
1

Look into Robert Glover. No More Mr Nice Guy It's a quick read. Similar to the Mason way of going about things. You dont have to be Machiavelli to get the girl, unless that is the kind of girl you want. https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:59 PM
2

It drains me too. Delete all forms of social media. Dont think maybe I can use this one day just trash everything. You'll feel much better.
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:10 PM
6

Stop watching porn, get off facebook, get off instagram, stop watching TV. You'll see the average is a 5, as is the vast majority of people you will interact with daily. Take a step back and realize if you were an 8 you could get 8's easy. Understand that 9's and 10's are an impossible level of beauty and most likely you will only see one monthly. You should see 8's weekly and 7's are typically the the hottest girl at the bar. Go on hot or not. Find out what you are. That should help lower your …
/r/seduction10/02/17 09:20 PM
1

Sexlexia? The most sexy disorder.
/r/seduction10/02/17 08:42 PM
1

He seems nice enough, just a bit too on edge all the time. Maybe he's got the ADHD? On the plus side this is a good place for such public speaking practice. Denton chill out dude go slow. If you talk to fast it looks like you are trying too hard. Or most likely didn't script what you were going to say and are just having a bout of verbal diarrhea. Obama leaves big spaces between his words it makes each word more memorable. Study powerful speakers they all use the same way to build tension and ad…
/r/seduction10/02/17 08:36 PM
4

Yes. Women spend a fortune on clothing. You can get away with ripped jeans if its your style but the guy that walks in wearing a bespoke 3 piece suit will always have the room looking at him. It's like a cheat code for pickup.
/r/seduction24/01/17 04:48 PM
1

You are putting too much pressure on it. Women can smell desperation and it doesn't smell good. You need comfort. Find something comfortable keep at it. Tinder wont work ever neither will okcupid the quality of women on there sucks anyway. Match if the closest thing to a good way to meet women online.
/r/seduction13/01/17 04:12 PM
1

Lol. You've never met a pua have you? They fail 90% of the time. Its all a number game.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:38 AM
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Make her jealous. Get out and get with other girls introduce her to other girls. Next time you make a move she'll want it. Stop acting low value.
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:25 PM
1

It sounds like she's not into you in that fashion. Advice from a PUA would be try someone else and stop being hung up on it.
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:51 PM
1

You seem to be having a hard time understanding what a submissive is and what a dominant is. Stop using those terms. Again if you want to be pursued you need a reason to get people to pursue you. So you can either be a 10/10 physically, be in a position of power where everyone wants a piece of you, or dress so well that you bleed class and wealth. Those things are guaranteed to get women to chase you. There are hacks to this. Find a niche group and be the shit out of it. For instance: Are you go…
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:42 PM
4

You are screwed dude. Think about it. You want to be desired right. So does everyone. You are just being lazy. The lazy person does not get the promotion, the lazy person does not get the girl, some people are high achievers and others are not. Stop being lazy. If you were a submissive you would be going to these fetilife things and rubbing girls feat. You would go to them and ask them to rub their feet. If you put in the effort you get the girl. Do you understand the difference now? The fact is…
/r/seduction22/12/16 08:55 PM
64

I wouldn't worry too much about this. With enough build up she'll put it where it needs to be. We all need alittle help sometimes
/r/seduction21/12/16 07:16 PM
95

I strongly agree with this. Women dont want that pressure. Just act like its totally normal. Do lots of dry humping and foreplay to get comfortable. Here is the major secret. Be hard for as long as possible (hence the foreplay). Really make her beg for it. It will help you last longer, even if you totally bungle everything up, in your mind, in hers its all about the build up. Do that right and you are a rockstar.
/r/seduction21/12/16 03:35 PM
2

You have Impostor Syndrome Learn about that. Sometimes it only takes understanding whats happening to alleviate the symptoms.
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:29 PM
3

Dude. It's ok. You don't have to have sex with every woman in the world. This isn't the locker room at a highschool. You are physically attracted but there is more to it. A woman would say its a lack of chemistry. You can tell her look I really appreciate how into me you are but it wont go beyond this, the chemistry is off. Lets just be friends. Maybe you have some younger friend that's looking for a Mrs Robinson type. Women think all that locker room talk is the real deal like if they just pres…
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:13 PM
4

This is oneitis. You are being selfish and clingy. You are not only hurting her but yourself too. If you are any sort of decent you will let her live her life and be supportive so that you can hang out again in the future. Just the fact that she had to tell you she plans on friendzoning this guy tells me you are being way too creepy in regards to her. The shoulder pat is called a pity pat. Understand how you must look to receive a pity pat. To hammer this in you are most likely embarrassing your…
/r/seduction18/11/16 04:52 PM
1

You mean in a bar/club setting. Of course pick and chose your targets. High energy girl will be an easy pull for the high energy guy. But if that's the crowd you want prepare to be the bouncing ball or she'll get bored and find something else shiny as soon as you stop. Low energy girl is just as easy a pull for the low energy guy. Change the social setting to a Museum reception or gallery opening. It only takes a couple soft words then don't fuck it up. Everyone just needs to be true to themselv…
/r/seduction18/11/16 03:50 PM
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Enthusiasm is closely related to comfort and especially comfort in one’s skin. ... That’s a very critical point to understand especially for introverts. I know that some of you who identify yourselves as introverts Why do extroverts continuously feel the need to hammer this into introverts? Stop telling introverts there is something wrong with them. There is nothing wrong with being standoffish, which is referred to as mysterious/strong/silent by women. Enthusiasm has nothing to do with comfort …
/r/seduction17/11/16 04:39 PM
1

Confirmation bias. They read about it and now "yup thats why I'm not good with women" opposed to I'll try to get better. It's so much easier to see things as unfixable then to struggle and change. OP you have free will use it.
/r/seduction11/05/16 03:20 PM
1

Find alt parties. Goth, fetish, pretty much anything out of the norm. There you will find a larger spread in sexuality. Some women will be very submissive others will be more dominant, it will be clear which is which though.
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:02 PM
1

Anxiety is a problem for strait dudes as well. Consider xanax one night stands are usually very stressful. With your partner there it might be easier or more stressful, unfortunately this might be one of those you wont know until it happens situations. I typically do better the next morning then the night of its less tense.
/r/seduction25/02/16 07:34 PM
3

hot girls fall under this category Thats just like your opinion man.
/r/seduction16/02/16 05:26 PM
1

Honestly even if that is the case there is always some flexibility. Continue on your path to mPua you'll get there.
/r/seduction01/02/16 03:30 PM
2

I had the same experience, foot thing and everything (just not in a gym). Are you in nyc? You know what my take away was. All guys get weird and nervous around people they find attractive. I've never been a creep in that way, but you are right it's all about authenticity.
/r/seduction29/01/16 01:23 AM
1

I don't count.
/r/seduction11/01/16 05:49 PM
-2

Some girls want to be chased. This is common with eastern Europeans. They want to feel like a prize. Of course you should not instantly put them on a pedestal, but being aloof might mean try harder.
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:07 AM
5

Be understanding and masculine. When you see her having anxiety reach out and hold her hand as to comfort her. Thats pretty much all you need to do.
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:32 PM
2

On my own but with friends close by that I can change sets to. Keeps me from looking desperate.
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:55 PM
2

Short answer yes. Don't compliment them on the physical and try not to use things they may have heard in the past. Be creative these things should take effort. Honestly you could lock eyes with her and tell her "I find you attractive". The more insecure the better direct game works.
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:05 PM
2

You don't have to game them. Make them feel sexy, it's what they need. If your game was on point you could make any girl feel sexy.
/r/seduction21/07/15 03:59 PM
26

Your looks are above average, they aren't holding you back. That being said even asking such a question makes me wonder if you are going around with some sad desperation in your voice, women are very good at picking up on these things. You have to change your attitude (very hard).
/r/seduction13/07/15 04:29 PM
0

I would like to read more of these. The blog post about the pouncer was very good. The one about the short bald man felt rushed and sparse, you need more emotional details and less physical ones. Good effort though!
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:44 PM
5

So very much this. I know of a guy that did that during the appetizer because the girl was such a cunt.
/r/seduction27/05/15 08:45 PM
2

You scare them/ look like your about to squeeze the life out of a bunny.
/r/seduction19/05/15 04:59 PM
1

I've gotten this before. I just sort of let it hang while giving her a look of "seriously" and she filled in the blank for me.
/r/seduction06/05/15 01:44 PM
1

So whats your answer to "do these pants make me look fat?"
/r/seduction29/04/15 03:05 PM
3

That joe camel is pretty cool looking Unfortunately it doesn't work as well with an ecig. Toothpick might work. Lollipops work. The small ones though. What about modeling yourself on Han from the fast and the furious. Just always be snacking. Edit: for Han
/r/seduction27/04/15 07:17 PM
1

Agreed. Count it. Think of all the IOI's you are missing that she is putting out.
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:51 PM
1

Holiday inn bars
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:38 PM
4

No it's called social proof. Approach the prettiest and just be cool. Then focus on someone else.
/r/seduction02/04/15 06:58 PM
7

Calibration. Start by talking to everyone! You'll be so talkative when you see the right girl it shouldn't be a problem.
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:54 AM
2

That age difference isn't that bad. Suck it up and make with the seduction! As he is shy/quiet you'll have to be very clear you are a sexual person and into him. Best way to do this is to play never have I ever, and steer the convo to sexual things.
/r/seduction23/01/15 05:14 PM
7

You seriously date the third one that makes you completely forget about the other two. When you find someone you hang out with because you enjoy it and stop caring about the others thats the one.
/r/seduction20/01/15 09:34 PM
-2

That's because they do and you don't have enough balls to get with them.
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:40 PM
1

Depends on the quality of pussy. Sometimes the girls with the sort of busted faces are absolutely amazing. If she's not pretty enough to bring home for dinner make sure she's ok with being just a friend with benefits.
/r/seduction05/01/15 04:29 PM
3

Very hard to pull while drunk. Just have your wits about you if you want to pull. Otherwise fun is fine! Just don't expect to be at your best.
/r/seduction26/11/14 03:50 PM
1

Protip: Prick a boring movie. So she can focus on you instead of the movie. If you don't get through it you've done good.
/r/seduction25/11/14 06:16 PM
1

It's called talking to girls. That's the only secret.
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:40 PM
1

Are you wearing boxer briefs? The kind that support and push the package forward? Could be the problem.
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:43 PM
1

See /u/StevenLaBerge 's comment; an AA program!
/r/seduction23/10/14 11:53 PM
1

Bars are a huge no no. I've never tried and know the dangers. The smallest bar is 4x my dose.
/r/seduction23/10/14 11:52 PM
1

Um don't take that much of it. One 25mg is more then enough.
/r/seduction23/10/14 07:53 PM
2

He's probably nervous, when a guy is nervous the dong no work. Adding more pressure makes it worse.
/r/seduction23/10/14 07:44 PM
1

That route is only if you have absolutely no way of approaching people without breaking into a cold sweat. If your AA is giving you heart palpitations it's truly debilitating then you should be on something at least at first. If not stop being a pussy.
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:21 PM
1

I think it happens as we get older we just get more anxiety ridden. As we interact with less people each day things just get harder. Just need to get out there and see things aren't that scary. I recommend going out alone. If it's way too much for you talk to your doc about xanax, seriously it takes away all the fear.
/r/seduction22/10/14 10:43 PM
1

Churchill?
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:47 PM
1

It's a social trick. Try shutting up and actually listening.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:55 PM
1

We've all been there. Take home the hottest girl in the room only to realize wait I'm just not that into her, and she's dumb as a brick!
/r/seduction06/10/14 09:05 PM
2

I'm in a similar boat. /r/NoFap It will help somewhat. Mainly by making you think of sex more. When out on a date with someone picture having sex with her and play everything out in detail in your mind. I find this helps tremendously. Are you a smoker, if so stop it. My libido went through the roof when I quit. Maybe you're just spending time around the wrong people. Lol you aren't required to be average. Unfortunately this isn't something that cut and dry. Let me know if you make any more inroa…
/r/seduction06/10/14 09:01 PM
1

Just leave a copy of she comes first on the coffee table.
/r/seduction24/09/14 03:03 PM
3

Claim it's studded for her pleasure.
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:22 PM
1

Very nice. I don't see it as creepy. I'm walking to my car, someone else might get the spot if you want it give me a lift. Total class.
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:39 PM
1

Reschedule with a new time/date. It's the only way its acceptable.
/r/seduction02/09/14 07:43 PM
-2

Something newish. As long as they aren't pilling up they are fine.
/r/seduction28/08/14 06:46 PM
15

Wear tighter shirts.
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:58 PM
1

Lounges
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:24 PM
2

I believe that's what they call a cab.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:13 AM
1

Women walk out of your apartment and get a date before they get to the corner. It's just that easy. You sit at home crying for months. When you should be out being that guy getting that date. Get outside stop feeling bad. She doesn't.
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:26 PM
1

A vast majority of people arent that deep.
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:51 PM
1

Never let them know. Girls want men with experience. Fake it until you make it.
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:03 PM
1

Look up pitty pat.
/r/seduction11/06/14 04:43 PM
1

It's muscle memory. You've spent 20+ years hunched over, straiten your back until it becomes instinct. 1-3 years. In the mean time build the muscles that support your posture. Abs and glutes. It makes it a bit easier.
/r/seduction11/06/14 04:07 PM
1

I'm in. You might end up leading a seminar with a pitch like that! Nice.
/r/seduction23/05/14 08:43 PM
1

100's of girls that don't look a thing like their picture, thanks to Photoshop and using pictures from 10 years ago. IF you can pull a 4 on tindr you can pull a 9 in real life. Try and work out how many men are on tindr, its numbers game (neck beards that dont go out and think swiping right on their phone will get them laid + everyone else vs just normal people in bars).
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:43 PM
1

If you're that good looking you don't use tinder anyway
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:03 PM
3

Um... Your first problem is using tinder, the results can only be visual. Do you honestly expect to find women of quality on a hook up app. Be honest with yourself, understand that if a girl is just going for a hookup she wants the guy with huge muscles that will fulfill her wildest dreams of getting twisted out and thrown around. If you aren't that guy stay out of the meat market. The scrawny pasty guy needs to get her interest through mystery (this is old-school pickup).
/r/seduction22/04/14 04:07 PM
5

Hit the gym and dress right. It's easy for a guy to be good looking (enough). Women aren't as visual as we are.
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:42 PM
1

Cocky funny != alpha. Millennials prefer old school stoic masculinity. True confidence works better on them.
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:29 PM
1

I have this issue too. I usually wait for them to go to sleep then tiptoe out. Women seem to have the ability to sleep in all conditions.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:52 PM
1

You could be confusing desperation with kink. Lots of girls are desperate.
/r/seduction07/04/14 04:20 PM
2

Um you won't be building more attraction at this point, you have built enough of that if she is still around. Just do things together and include her in everything.
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:39 PM
7

This is either way too dangerous or way too creepy. Either way I ride, I don't ride drunk, and I especially don't ride 2 up with someone inexperienced on the back. Your choice, I would never risk the life of another person. My own not an issue.
/r/seduction10/03/14 08:14 PM
2

You are wrong in your understanding of our society. The less you say the smarter you look, just occasionally make it look like you understand whats going on. People fear thinkers because they don't know what your angle is, or better yet they think you are judging them. Being loud and obnoxious wont get you laid, bring smooth will this is the introverts power play. The downside of being an introvert is you go out and only hang out with your friends that are grabbing on you and telling you to "loo…
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:37 AM
4

Tinder and OKC will open your eyes to the amazing powers of photoshop. Expect most girls to be at least 15 lbs heavier then their profile pictures. Also on OKC "about average" = whale.
/r/seduction27/01/14 11:56 PM
0

Domineering.
/r/seduction24/01/14 08:16 PM
1

You got the date. So .... keep doing what you are doing.
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:28 PM
1

The entire pick up community only exists to give you the confidence needed to get out there. Get out, be seen in a positive way, and close. Anything past that is just tasty fluff. In reality it doesn't matter what canned crap is coming out of your mouth as long as you are brave enough to approach. By the time you get confident enough to approach naturally you aren't reading up on new techniques to apply them, its entertainment. Too many keyboard pickup artists on the scene, don't hold yourself t…
/r/seduction31/12/13 07:18 PM
3

Always underplay it so when they find out its a pleasant surprise.
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:17 PM
2

Looks like pre-teens have discovered seddit. you know what to do
/r/seduction10/12/13 03:36 PM
10

Seriously just sit back and let her do the work. Being inexperienced has nothing to do with bleeding insecurity. You seem to be escalating too soon, wait for more IOI's. If you work her up enough she will be fooling around with you.
/r/seduction09/12/13 09:23 PM
2

Everyone can be on fire this time of year, its human mating season, expect women to be very receptive until December. You are gaming the season perfectly keep it up!
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:49 PM
2

You ask directly and wear a condom anyway. Just as much as you don't want to catch something they don't want to catch something. You will gain respect for your blunt honesty. Pay close attention to her response fyi, make sure she answers with total confidence. If she tries to flip it on you be wary.
/r/seduction26/09/13 06:21 PM
1

It's not worth it. That feeling of heart ache won't go away even after you have her back. That pain is permanent. Invite her out to brunch, spend some time around her with a clear and level head. You will remember why you broke up.
/r/seduction19/09/13 07:56 PM
2

Going out with models is a neat trick the first time. I say that because generally after one or two you will never want to date another model and will avoid them like the plague. Generally sex is bad and they are very needy. See how she needed her friends to drive her, models don't do anything for themselves. Understand that these are girls that got everything their heart desired at 17 from an unending army of male admirers. Play your game and avoid acting like an AFC. I can only speak to what I…
/r/seduction17/09/13 07:20 PM
6

You need to absolutely rock her world next time. Invite her to your place for dinner. Make something simple. Have wine and interesting drinks for her. Do not sound like you're apologizing for anything when you invite her. Your goal is to make her feel as sexy as possible. You have already had sex once, it's much easier the second time. When you get that second chance, usually after a drink but before dinner is done, rock her world. Put serious effort into this. If things go well, you are going t…
/r/seduction30/08/13 04:43 PM
8

Do you carry around a spare helmet just in case? I always get asked to go for rides but I only carry the one lid. :( But yes once a girl gets on a bike it's on
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:13 PM
1

You are trying hard to not look like an AFC. Stop with the qualification behavior it is AFC. Just continue not caring. It's not about being sneaky or looking like the man. You and her are not exclusive, next time she brings up the whole "don't feel bad" just remind her.
/r/seduction29/03/13 04:13 PM
-12

Bail. She isn't over her ex, little to no long term potential. If it's only once not a problem, if its consistent understand that this girl might still make a good booty call but not much else.
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:49 PM
-1

You don't. The idea is to become this new persona. Fake it until it becomes real.
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:49 PM
8

You are correct some hostels are friendlier then others. When I'm really bored I might check into a hostel for the night just to chill with interesting people. New friends beget more new friends odds are good eventually you'll run into someone DTF and in the short term you meet with tons of interesting people.
/r/seduction14/08/12 08:28 PM
1

He's already lost her the least he can do is have some fun. That girl has clearly moved on to the next shiny thing.
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:22 PM
3

It's rock solid advice but I just find it so depressing to think I have to play these games into my old age. I think the real secret is to find a woman that won't spend her life trying to break you down.
/r/seduction19/03/12 05:58 PM
2

Just red the above link. Sounds like time to get alot more red shirts.
/r/seduction28/02/12 10:38 PM
1

As this is seddit. What color should men wear to get that same effect in women?
/r/seduction28/02/12 10:02 PM
2

Yes. I noticed it recently, I just don't care anymore. Most people are too boring to get to know. Its tough to even get up and go out socializing. The real problem is a lack of quality people, IMHO the chick I'm picking up at the meat market is generally not the brightest bulb. I've taken some drastic measures that will get me downvoted to all hell but you might get some use out of it. Try raising your testosterone. 1. Stop jerking it for at least a week 2. start working out regularly 3. if all …
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:36 PM
1

IMO don't ask. You don't care or need to know if they are with anyone. Its like what Badboy says, if a girl tells you she has a boyfriend its like her telling you she has shoes, in this age society expects pretty girls to always be with someone. Even if they are single they might be telling people that are in a relationship. The best advice is to not care about it, if she is with someone you want to be so much more fun they she forgets all about the other guy.
/r/seduction31/01/12 06:20 PM
1

You aren't proud of what you spend the majority of your life on? I'm going to try a little game. Ask yourself what would a person of extremely high value (both monetary and socially) say to such a question. I have never seen a hedgefund manager stand around boasting about what they do and how much money they have, but I do see admins and analysts doing it everyday (even if they don't have a crumb of what the manager has). I'm going to say that whenever I tell a girl what I do for a living she th…
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:46 PM
14

"So let's just say in 2 years I'll make facebook 2.0 and be swimming in money." This is too much, def listen to Sneets on this one. Give a passionate story about something you worked on. Push the emotional buttons.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:56 PM
-2

You are not your job. To me its almost as bad as asking what car do you drive, or what watch do you have. These are topics that come up when the conversation has already headed downhill, and you have nothing else to talk about.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:45 PM
-6

Do not answer the question, its a shit test. I used to make things up and have fun with it. These days if a girl asks me what I do I usually dodge the question. If your surrounded by people that spend all day talking about their jobs (NYC for instance) just learn to avoid those people because your about to be in for a vapid conversation. If someone has any substance at all just tell them your an engineer and it should be fine. To impress people I answer back with a project I've worked on recentl…
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:20 PM
3

I totally agree that all things are possible in a healthy long term relationship. I do not believe a weaker relationship built only on animal attraction and being alpha could handle it. Your welcome to refute that, its just what I've seen from experience.
/r/seduction10/01/12 07:08 PM
5

You don't follow, it wasn't a dead end job he was doing great. He is a good guy and I still respect him. But he lost the girl. Note: she is the most kinky girl I've met. Bisexual like swinger parties the whole 9 yards. I'm just saying that if she couldn't deal with it I don't know who could. EDIT: You can find a girl thats down for it. I belive its possible but I feel she has to be a perfect match outside of the whole seduction thing.
/r/seduction10/01/12 06:48 PM
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You need to keep your frame as an alpha at all times in all contexts. This means no pegging. Story time: My long time pivot met this guy lets call him Dude. So anyway Dude was a boss, big time construction guy, don't give a f attitude, with the best natural seduction skills I've seen. This guy would go clubbing with his girl (my pivot) and pick up other girls while at the club. After months of dating Dude asked this girl to peg him. She did but she immediately began making fun of him to everyone…
/r/seduction10/01/12 06:26 PM
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