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| 2 | What the point of getting married for men? M18Sorry if I sounded snippy, that wasn’t my intention. I was honestly curious what you meant. And I agree with you, I think single parents can raise great kids. | /r/RPChristians | 02/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What the point of getting married for men? M18Having kids while single is a sin? Are you including adoption in this statement? What about parents who are divorced or widowed? | /r/RPChristians | 02/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Desire and ObjectificationAgree wholeheartedly | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Need help regaining my ability to talk to girlsAs long as you’re being polite and respectful, I wouldn’t take your friends’ comments too seriously. Although I can’t say for sure because I don’t know them or you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How much do you spend on dates?$150 a week on dates isn’t being “cheap”, but there are plenty of free dates you could do like taking a walk. OP, why do you need a woman to be drinking in order for her to like you? That sounds sketchy. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Update: 2nd update on my cold approach successMaking a sign for a party isn’t weird :) it sounds like a decoration. It could be a legit excuse, or maybe not. If she actively tries to reschedule with you I wouldn’t worry. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Need help regaining my ability to talk to girlsRE 4, if women you talked to responded positively to how you approached them, I wouldn’t worry that your friends thought it was “cringe”. If it was cringe, wouldn’t you get that reaction from the women you talked to themselves? | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | An embarrassing question.It’s hard to tell why people react a certain way without observing it happen. Saying good morning and asking for a towel is not creepy in and of itself. As for the sidewalk thing, it could just be because you’re a man. So many women have had negative or scary experiences with street harassment that they are very wary of men following them. (Even if you’re not intentionally following them, just happen to be walking in the same direction, it could feel like following). I know that sucks, but it su… | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Pro Tip: Stop using women for “practice”.I don’t think you need to feel guilty. You learned from your mistake, you’ve grown as a person. Time to stop punishing yourself for it and just enjoy the amazing woman you have in your life :) | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | I finally did a cold approachI am in therapy. It has helped a lot. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Beginners shouldn't use NegsYeah I agree not generally a good approach. But I could take it as a joke if I was being teased by a friend about wearing vintage tweed or something that’s a style choice. But not policing my modesty. Even as a joke that would be a red flag for control issues. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.Sense of entitlement that’s completely misplaced. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 4 | I like to be friends with women and find it amusing. Of course I never have sex with them.It’s not weak to have platonic friends you enjoy hanging with. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachIt is scary. I’m an assault survivor, so even though the chance of a person getting aggressive/violent/stalkerish if I turn them down is statistically small, the possibility is always in the back of my head. That’s great that you used the experience to develop more empathy. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I finally did a cold approachThat makes sense, and social media stalking is also horrible. Sorry that happened to you. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Got rejected again, this was probably the best rejection I’ve gottenThis. She could be immuno compromised or live with someone who is high risk. Just because your area isn’t too hard hit doesn’t mean this isn’t a legit reason. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Beginners shouldn't use NegsTelling a woman she needs to cover up more isn’t a critique of style, it sounds very controlling of bodily autonomy and a red flag. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachThat’s fair. I’ve had harassment giving out my number (not actual stalking) so I’m careful. It doesn’t hurt to ask for a number, but if someone declines and shares another messaging app instead it doesn’t automatically mean they’re not interested. At least, that’s how I handle it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Why is this so hard?No one owes you attention or a relationship. It’s not necessarily personal if a date doesn’t work out. I know rejection sucks, but it doesn’t make you worthless, and it doesn’t mean you’re being discarded. It’s just that not everyone’s compatible. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachPhone numbers can be traced to addresses. Lots of people don’t give out their number to strangers for safety reasons. (Most strangers are nice people, but you never know. Social media is safer.) | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:20 AM |
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