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No if you want/fantasize about having sex with someone, but when it comes down to doing it you lose interest, that doesn't mean you are asexual. It probalby just means you have hangups about it. Either you aren't comfortable, you are stressed, you are pressuring yourself too hard to do it, the guy isn't right for you, etc.. Also physical attraction is physical attraction. Just because someone is smart and nice doesn't make them physically attractive. They are just smart and nice. I know society …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/21 01:45 AM
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Sounds like a topic for r/Dating or r/Relationships lol I mean bro, it's just everyday life, who knows what she's thinking. She probably finds you funny and nice but she has a husband. That's about it, end of story.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 06:44 PM
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That will always be our difference then. I usually give help if they ask or there's a strong sense they want help but otherwise I usually let people be. Otherwise I'm being patronizing and making the assumption they need help.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 06:30 PM
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Everyone's different so of course you are going to get mixed messages. Oh and besides sex, connection. Not everyone connects with everyone, so if you are looking to hop into a relationship for more than just kids and a home, a connection is key. Anyone who has had some dating experience realizes it actually can be difficult to find someone that relates to them as opposed to 'gets a long' and 'make it work'. If you want appeal, just copy a seductress. Sex, connection, and being rare/unique beauty…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 06:32 AM
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Yeah who uses ho and unicorn in every day speak. Trying to hard.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 02:49 AM
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It's internet people. Different crowd of people than in real life. You are gonna get fringes on the internet. Plus people say random stuff/lie/show true colors who knows, on the internet. It's like most of Reddit is very different from real life people too - since most of Reddit is super blue pill. Basically what I am trying to say is don't extrapolate from the internet to real life. Most people who are doing well in life and have lots of things going on don't have time to comment on the interne…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 02:47 AM
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lol that's kinda troll tbh
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 06:01 PM
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Just bust his balls a bit and maybe ask him if he's a hypochondriac. Sometimes you just gotta change the dynamics a bit and not have it be touchy, feely, or sobby all the time. You guys have been in a relationship for 5 years so its obv that you guys know how to be emotionally available or emotional supportive to each other. Now just change the dynamic up so you don't have to be supportive for small things. When he has a minor sob story, say something canned, try to change the subject, etc.. Or …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 05:56 PM
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I'll never understand people who proselytize or think they know what's best for others. The only explanation I can come up with is that they think generating awareness is good for their cause, but that comes from selfish motives. Or they just like to tell others how great they are. Wish I could understand.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 05:50 PM
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I'd personally place most your focus on how he treats you. If he's spending time and resources on them, that's not good. But if its just texts here or there, who cares. It's people from the past. But I'm shady and the people I tend to get along with are shady as well so we'd probably all make up stuff about our past. So what people say doesn't matter for me as much as what people do. The girls I've dated and I tend to not poke and prod each other's history too much, given that whatever comes out…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 10:44 PM
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if kids is something you want, you should definitely figure out that time line. people at 25 don't usually have kids until they are 30, so you'd be 37
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 10:37 PM
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It's just common sense. Being traditional means you actually want a traditional life. Common sense just means you want something that makes sense. It just happens that common sense tends to err on the traditional side of things - if you have empathy and want to actually create a 'home' / family. I know people that use nannies to raise their kids cuz both parents want to work. Will that turn out for the kids? Who knows, they may not even like their kids that much. I know rich kids who's parents w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 07:00 PM
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What's sad about it? Simps gonna simps and girls can smell out simps in an instant. No one's getting raked as no one told anyone to simp for anyone. Feminism doesn't tell guys to simp, it just tells girls that they are equal/better than males and do the same things that guys do when biologically we are different. And so issues arrise when girls doctrined by feminism one day realize that males and females are not equal because bioligcally we are diferent. (which anyone who took an anatomy class w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 06:42 PM
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Pretty much this. On Reddit, which is mostly blue pill, they will say degree and education makes women more attractive. Like you said, it's not as simple as that. For me, I don't care about education, because for me education doesn't correlate with the stuff I care about when looking for a partner. You can be compassionate and empathetic with/without high levels of education. You can be good with kids/people with or without education. And you can be physically attractive with or without educatio…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 03:04 PM
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Well if you don't do the thing that makes you happy, of course you are going to be miserable. If your heart says SAHM, then go be SAHM. If your heart says be a CEO, go be a CEO. Unfortunately most people don't listen to them selves and just follow what society tells them to do, which right now is feminism and go be a CEO.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 02:43 PM
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That’s nuts, but true. Feminism has taught women not to do a whole lot, but also demand a whole lot. That’s not 50/50 at all, and it’s not harmonious with our nature. If I’m bringing the bacon, you cook it so to speak and literally. Feminism may say that but only simps would agree to a non 50/50 split. I also don't see what's annoying about it though. Sheep gonna sheep and be misled. It filters out people for you. Those who trust their intuition vs those who will easily bend to societal pressure…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 02:40 PM
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Not sure the answer to this one. I'm willing to bet that 'looks' wise greater than 50% of people marry people that aren't their ideal type. Even if you can find and land your ideal type, there's still too many variables like is the interest mutual, are personalities a match, is the timing right, both people looking for same thing, etc... But you are right to be hurt about it since most people wouldn't openly blabber or admit that to their partner, as it's obviously a putdown.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 11:57 PM
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Thanks but I'm not that complicated and deep. I'm pretty dumb. Being rejected doesn't fuel a desire for me to become more knowledgeable or what not. I'm driven only because I'm narcissitic and like to win. Has nothing to do with my gender or being a man or whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 07:05 PM
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I don't believe this is true. I love myself and value myself highly. In fact I probably narcissistically love myself and the world tends to revolve around me. I know that I can depend and trust myself. Yet I'm attracted to girls that don't care about me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 09:52 PM
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Me to, but I'm a guy and am attracted by girls that don't care about me. It sucks but I don't think I'm ever going to change because I don't want to - because the flip side is that I'll feel bored. ​ OP if you find the answer to this problem, I'd be very interested to hear. Or if you are able to find a way to make it work with someone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 09:50 PM
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There's no way. If you really want to be sneaky and vet someone, you need to put them in different scenarios and see how they react. People can say stuff you want to hear but harder to act stuff out. You want to see how he treats others? Take a stroll down the street with lots of homeless people. You want to see his social skills? Invite him to an outing with your friends. You want to see how you two would work as a team? Go on a escape room date.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 08:26 PM
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Sure no one is the perfect fit, but it's like job interviews. Most jobs anyone can do, but how come companies only hire a few individuals? Probably because they are looking for the best fit. Just like dating, you want the best fit you can get. We come from very different philosophies. Staying and 'working' with someone is a gateway to being stuck in a abusive relationship. Rationalizing that your partner will change or will treat you differently if only you were a better person or did more for h…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 08:24 PM
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lol i just read it and funny you say avoid men that list their height. i always list my height. guess i'm targeting a different subset of girls
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 10:56 PM
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Well yeah, I mean if you want to go down that path, I can learn to like anyone as long as I'm around them long enough. Confine two people in the same room for 100 years and odds are they'll end up being a couple. Same with arranged marriages. So much pressure from the culture/society/parents to be together, as long as the two get a long initially, they'll learn to be a couple and make it work. I understand that any random two people, no matter the differences, can make it work if they BOTH want …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 10:41 PM
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I agree with Zino. 1) Girls that are prone to cheating, you can usually tell. You can also usually tell if the relationship is souring to the point where someone may be inclined to cheat. 2) If a girl cheats on you, I do tend to think you weren't a good captain. Either you suck at reading people, or you just didn't have what she wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 03:39 PM
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Yep, I responded with something along these lines. He already hinted at this behavior with the 26 year old model he dated. And also the part of not giving you a chance to stop and think. As someone who manipulates poeple, I call that blitzing someone and yes that's the whole point. Create a bunch of excitement so that other person's senses get overloaded, so tougher for them to think rationally.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 03:20 PM
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Male here. I don't see red flags in the way he talks about his exes (except maybe the cancer one given the low probs of someone young having and dyeing of cancer, and it's probably not a detail you'd openly share). The potential red flag for me is how fast he's going. Talking about marriage and kids and trying to be exclusive within a month. That and the fact that he gets intensely jealous. Just from my own dating experience, if someone comes on so strong so fast, I usually take a step back to f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 02:56 PM
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he's a simp
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:27 PM
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I came here to give advice. Now I feel dumb giving this guy advice.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:25 PM
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This is the best case scenario ever. Now you have leverage and can say, hey let's be in an open relationship. We've been married for so long why not. Or, like other posters say, start divorce. Since she's the first to start to 'cheat' you got all the leverage - she can't be mad at you.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:23 PM
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See that's a debate I have all the time. On the one hand, I'd like to lock down a hot 23 year old. But most young girls are hot, so really I should be locking down a 30 year old that's still hot. That means good genes and she knows how to keep herself looking good. Let's say 50% of 18 year olds are hot, 25% of 21 year olds, but it'll be like 1% of 30 year olds are hot. That's when you know she's got good genes. With this line of thinking, I can date youn girls up until I'm about 37, and then try…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:07 PM
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Why the hate for the party girls? Definitely just jealousy. The issue with 30+ women are not that ones who have partied because they are still fun to hang out with. It's the intellectual educated ones who suddenly realize they have about 1 year to pop out some babies, so they'll try to pressure you into marrying them ASAP and really just being annoying through the entire dating process. These checklist women (have a checklist going into the date) really just aren't fun to be with or around. Not …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:59 PM
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If she feels like she spent her life doing things for others and not for herself, then yeah she'll probably have some regrets and not being fulfilled. You only start to feel fulfilled if you do things for yourself and the things you want to do. It's tough trying to balance everything. When you get older, you never wish you would have worked an extra hour. Life is just so short and maybe she's realizing that now. It's pretty normal to feel what she's feeling, as long as it doesn't get out of cont…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 05:12 PM
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Most of school is not based in reality. If it wasnt math, if it was stats, compsci, etc... A professor's job is to publish as much and make recoginition for their school. Hope that one of the esoteric ideas gets adopted by some industry in real life and he gets famous. Having a tenured teaching position is very impressive and hard to get. But he probably should stop complaining about it though.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 05:09 PM
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no you just let her peg you and deal with it cuz you lost. you shouldn't be a sore loser, just a sore asshole
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:41 PM
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College is a scam. Unless you are being doctor, lawyer, most things can be taught by yourself.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:29 PM
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nah i moved out west, i don't think there's a rule where bars have to shut down at 2am but most do for whatever reason
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:14 PM
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he probably is a bit beta. not total beta but definitely not alpha. that's just my take on the situation, could be different tho ​ you might be able to hook up with her if yo uhave decent smv and she has a 'fight' with her bf and rationalizes to herself she's single. it just depends.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:13 PM
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I think a lot of younger hot girls don't know their worth and early on ended in a relationship with a subpar BF. I'm sure that BF does a lot for her (probs takes her out and treats her well), but in terms of looks/career trajectory, probably a bit subpar. I'm sure she can sense it as hot guys probably hit on her all the time. It's a tough situation for you honestly, as most of the times, these girls are a bit codependent so won't be with you unless it's a relationship. They will do their due dil…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:48 PM
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Yeah I usually go out alone. Just sucks here I have to get there at the latest 930-10, it's crazy, like do people have nothing to do at 8 on fri/sat like i'm barely just done eating? And then it'll be like 2-3 hours of just doin nothing and waiting lol But definitely agree, it's not like how people say that you just go out there and get girls left and right no matter how high SMV you have. There just aren't that many attractive ones out in general. And the hottest probably are at a table sitting…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:56 PM
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If you factor in attractiveness plus available it's honestly really small. I may see 1-3 a night over a span of 4 hours. I don't like to approach too many girls at the same venue (personally I never want a girl I am interested in see me talk to another girl - there's only downsides to that). It depends on the place and venue, back in precovide times, I would hit up 5 am bars at about 1 am. Usually girls out past 1am are looking for something. Post covid, honestly feel like most girls are in rela…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:46 PM
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lol yep. she's usually trying to sucker 3 types in. the white knight that will say shit like 'yeah true men can be very bad', which she'll give a little star to, and he'll feel great cuz he got some attention from her the i think i'm special type who says something like 'but i'm not like that', which she'll probs ignore or give a pat on the head to for being speshial or the butt hurt type that will say something like 'that's really wrong to generalize', which she'll proceed to argue with and tro…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:12 PM
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What a weirdo friend honestly but yeah maybe he's gay let him dance. Ask your girl if she wants to dance with him lol!
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:33 AM
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Anytime a girl says all men are xyz, it's time to leave the convo. She's either looking for attention, trolling, or honestly believes it cuz she's a broken feminist. In no situation is it worth interacting. You got suckered in hook line and sinker.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:28 AM
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This is the best answer.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:54 PM
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Cant you hide money via cryptos just have a secret wallet. Also use the church divorce taboo thing to your advantage. Try to live separate lives and be like hey hon, since it's taboo to divorce let's keep it a secret. No divorce rape and both people happier.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:50 PM
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Alright, well I should have clarified by saying 4 year college/masters/phd is a scam. Yes reading and writing is important. Even then, most things can be self taught you don't need to go to school. And 5 year olds can't drive cars because it's illegal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 07:19 PM
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Right, so you need a degree for a doctor. But more than half the other stuff you listed do not require a 4 year education or advanced degree. That's my point. So maybe I should have said, college/masters/phd is the biggest scam ever. Plus with youtube/internet you can learn ALOT on your own without having to go to school. Real estate, all you need is take like 100 hrs of class and you have a license. That's a lot cheaper than 4 years of education. School is the biggest scam. You don't need to go…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 05:30 AM
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Schools not important unless you want a job that requires a degree, but there are many other ways to make money without high levels of education. School is the biggest scam ever. Sure the average earnings for someone with education vs without will be higher, but if you are seeking either happiness or top % money, school, is not very relevant. For each CEO, there's a celebrity, athlete, etc...
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 07:00 PM
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well she didn't stop responding after you said netflix and chill so I'd keep it casual and try to work her to come over. i personally have asked a girl to come straight over like 4 or 5 times and only once did they agree and actually come thru. it may make more sense just to get a drink with her and then invite her over after. but then again, she did respond so you might get away with just inviting her over. Like i said, ultimately depends on how attractive she thinks of you.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:13 PM
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Maybe he just wasn't as alpha as you originally thought. Dude just needs to suck it up and start doing contract work like uber eats, doordash or whatever. Or be a waiter - restuarnats are desparate for employees now. Start there and work his way up to something else. He's lucky to have a wife with income in case something goes wrong he can be jobless for a few months with no worry. There's no fear in the back of his mind that he literally could be homeless and on the streets if he doesn't get hi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 07:28 PM
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I mean we don't live in a world anymore when a man goes out and hunts an animal and brings it back home, or goes out and fights for his country to protect his wife, or chops some wood and builds a house for his wife. We live in a world where money is the ultimate good in life because money leads to power leads to control. Money can buy anything in the world. I can't think of any man I've met that will feel good in a social group if he can't support himself and potentially others, doesn't matter …
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 07:21 PM
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I'm a dude and honestly depends on who I'm looking for. I got two types of wives I'm aiming for, the first one, doesn't matter family background, the second one, family background matters. Family only matters in the second one because if she has a nice family, that means I'll get some of the benefits as well. ​ As for red flags, I don't believe in red flags since the world is not black and white. You can be close to your family but be very close minded, elitest, snobby, etc.. You can be far from…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 07:10 PM
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This is the single best advice ever. Most people should think like this but they always go with the lowest hanging fruit, whether that be race (Oh it must be cuz I'm xxxx race), looks, or whatever other random prejudiced beliefs they hold. If you think someone may not like you, then you'll give off closed vibes and it becomes self fulfilling. It's definitely not the feel good answer, but it's definitely IMO the best lens to go through life with if you want to be social.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 04:37 PM
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yeah op is like super autist. like wtf. just keep it casual
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:52 PM
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lol how did that guy's advice go? she's in a dif city for chirsts sake. unles syour smv is like 3 or 4 points higher than her's or are celbrity look alike and she's drunk she probably will stop responding
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:41 PM
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exactly
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:39 PM
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Yeah aggressively pursuing that ass. When I'm interested in a girl, I'm pretty aggressive too.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:37 PM
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I wish girls would invite me to their place as opposed to coming to mine. That's ideal. I'm always paranoid that I'll pass out and she'll snoop around and steal some stuff. One time, I passed out early, and I wake up, and she's wearing some PJs of mine and I'm thinking to myself, where'd she get those PJs cuz they def weren't just lying out in the open.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:28 PM
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Agree! Definitely going to see if I can hit up Brazil this winter. Thanks for making this thread!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 03:02 AM
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If you are aggressive, some girls aren't into it. So it's about picking the right ones. I don't want to approach every girl at the club, it looks bad, espeically if you stand out.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 05:35 AM
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I still have a hard time believing this is true but seeing is believing. I love being aggressive and forward but in the US I'm paranoid about picking the wrong target at clubs. If it's the norm in Brazil,seems like it will be heaven.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:28 AM
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I'm gonna just tinder travel a second and see what could be.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:21 AM
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Omg you guys are hyping this up way too much. I'm gonna have to go this winter.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:18 AM
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Still fun even with covid ie people aren't scared now like they are here? I'm gonna def plan something, maybe this winter.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:12 AM
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Lol that culture is just so different. Why do you think you can't attract middle class fams any more?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 12:44 AM
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I guess when I've dated, even if she didn't move in, I get a sense of what she'd be like since we'd spend weekends or go on trips together. So moving in isn't super important. And plus, you can always get divorced later, it's just costly and stressful. Yeah you definitely don't want to be trapped or be dependent. Always have an out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 11:37 PM
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I've never met someone as independent as you!
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 10:12 PM
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I'm a dude and I hate the strong compliment (unless it's physical lmao and from a girl I'm into and she's trying to flirt). For me having a strong mentality is so valueless for 99% of life so I don't like it. It's almost a put down. Most people like individuals that have vulnerability are open and emotional - at least that goes further in society. It's better for marketing. Who are people more drawn to? The strong reserved stoic person? Or the friendly, open, vulnerable, relatable person? The la…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 09:29 PM
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And I tbh, I don't know how many guys likes a girl that simps for them for a long term marriage. It just feel weird.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 09:22 PM
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Most of it is just drama and doesn't matter. It's just crap people like to bring up to get clicks to their articles and stir up drama. The people judging women for being sexual tend to be loud speaking unhappy people, who are irrelevant to most people anyways (as who wants to be around judgmental unhappy people?)
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 09:15 PM
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I'd never propose unless I've lived with someone for a bit, even if it's just temporarily like 6 months. The other person's habits do matter to me. And especially my personality where I like alone time. If I can't get my alone time during her living in or if she's just messy, then it ain't gonna work long term.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 09:12 PM
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I dunno, insecurity manifests itself in different ways in different people. For example, if someone is always bragging about something, it could mean they are insecure about it. Or not, they could just be narcissitic. If someone shys away from certain topics of conversation, that could suggest they are insecure about it. Or maybe they just don't have much to say. It really just depends on the person. You just gotta feel it out based on stuff like ego, if they get defensive, how they phrase/talk …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/21 05:17 PM
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It's only nice guy if you expect the other person to do something for you when you do something for them. Keeping a mental check as to who's done what (on occasion) is way to determine if you are being used or not. I wouldn't even start keeping mental check until you already start feeling like things are unfair. But as long as you are happy (even when you are giving more than you receive) it's all good.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/21 08:04 PM
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I'd love to hear more about this. I'm a guy and I can read cues pretty well, but I also frequent clubs and people are hyperaggressive and usually don't read cues, which forces me to be hyperaggressive as well. And unfortunately for the girls who don't like it, some girls are receptive to it and if you aren't aggressive, you miss out. So curious as to what girls, who don't like it, do about it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 11:00 PM
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Golden rule may be useful here. If others aren't bending over backwards to you, then you shouldn't for them. Each relationship is different and each person has different expectations of how much the other should do for them. But at the end of the day, you want to try to give the same amount as you receive. That'll allow you to feel that things are fair, prevent you from being used, shows boundaries, and it's actually very normal for humans to do. If I just met a person, I'm not gonna be like, I'…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 05:56 PM
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No it just means you are hanging with the wrong crowd. IMO RedPillWomen is a great resource if you want to construct the way of life that RPW describes (aka a more traditional marriage). Yes a lot of the RPW attributes guys find attractive. But there are guys out there that probably value things differently. ​ I'm not sure what the source is that causes you to not feel valued, but I'd start by not dismissing yourself. Sure laziness is frowned upon, but I wouldn't equate laziness = not worthy. In…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 05:26 PM
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Honestly if cooking/cleaning isn't your thing, it ain't gonna make you feel more worthy. Seems like the redpill life may not be what fits you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 12:20 AM
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Depends on the guy, but here's the trick. Compliment them on something they are insecure about (or didn't know they should be complimented about) and be genuine, otherwise it doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 12:17 AM
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Well I eat mainly meat, veggies, and fruit and my body is feeling great. I avoid anything that's flour or anything with sugar (outside of sugar found in fresh fruit/veggies). Reducing social media helps, it's mostly noise, people needing attention, people having agendas, most are irrelevant to your life. Exercise a bunch, take walks, stretch your body. Drive by yourself in the counryside. Travel by yourself. Good hygiene routine as well makes you feel good. Not sure the type of money you got but…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 12:11 AM
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Don't interact with the people that call you ugly. They aren't people to be around.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 12:06 AM
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I don't really want kids and its hard to find women that dont want kids. Also, yes a guy could say he doesnt want kids because he doesnt want to be with you long term. So just frame the question differently. You an figure it out eventually.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 12:02 AM
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It depends on the guy. Find a guy that's open to the same idea as you. Agreement on kids is pretty important if you are dating to get married.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/21 11:57 PM
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They mad they have to work.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/21 01:10 AM
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I 100% agree. You will always have people mad at you or judge you. If you and your husband are happy, that's all that matters. Everyone's world view is different. Please do not let the people outside make you feel insecure, which then makes you come off as insecure to your husband, which then makes him feel there's something wrong and ultimately have the relationship get damaged. And let's be honest everyone wishes they didn't have to be bossed around by others at work. And also having some cann…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/21 12:00 AM
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And they are atheltic, often good looking, and have access to decent social circle, and will give a girl clout. You might be able to check the box on some of the latter ones if you have a good insta
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:05 PM
1

unless you have really high SMV that her social circle knows and she has really low self esteem. but it's a dick response. just ignore her
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:02 PM
1

but does it matter if they have inflated egos let them live in la la land.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:01 PM
2

Bro, these fat girls will do anything for attention. I was chilling with a friend back in the day who brough over 2 girls, 1 was one he was messing with and the other was just a friend who was the dynamite. The dynamite made one comment which was very reasonable, I accidently kinda agreed by saying something like makes sense or whatever - like one does in a normal conversation, and she had to point it out like see blah blah he agrees with me purely for attention and maybe trying to hit on me. Me…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:59 PM
2

Man I wish I were like you guys. I can go a bit bigger on a dry spell but only if she has a specific look and retarded personality. Otherwise I just can't get myself to do it no matter what I tell myself.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:55 PM
6

Guys get ugly too, many bald, skins discolor, wrinkles, etc... Gotta enjoy it while you are young.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:53 PM
2

very true. arms are such a tell tail sign. girls with skinny genes just have slim arms, can't fake that shit
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:50 PM
1

lol nice
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:49 PM
3

Bruh it's about SMV. You think a MLB player with a boot will have trouble getting girls? no
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:46 PM
2

I agree, next it is
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:08 PM
1

oh yeah and high rise pants hide all muffin tops. all girls do that trick. but if she wears skin tight closing, not a lot of chubbies can pull that off
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:18 PM
2

lol i always get a bit self conscous if i go to a bar with someone with an obvious different in smv lol. i know we could just be friends but still. I"m just a shallow fuck I guess.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:17 PM
1

yah i hate online but it can be tough to find people in person sometimes - it's on and off. so sometimes i get back on the apps. i've never had a girl show up equal or hotter than her pics so i've learned to just try to do as much background checks before i ivnest my time actually meeting them.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:14 PM
6

Love it lmao. Yeah no moon face, I look at that and then see if nose is pudgy or defined. And baggy dresses are a no no
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:10 PM
2

Yeah Ive looked all over and she seems in line - except one pic which I see a bit less bone in the shoulder area than what I like. But it could be the posture since the arms are forward. She didn't say fitness as a hobby but fat girls may say fitness too just to act fit - so I can't take too much away from that. And some skinny girls don't work out. Yeah i'm definitly only moderately interested - a shame cuz her face is pretty hot
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:09 PM
2

Just tell yourself you are only 30 then lol
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:24 AM
1

an idiot that doesn't want to take care of children, don't be autistic now
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:06 PM
-2

Well yeah you wouldn't go around telling everyone you have 3 baby mamas. You wouldn't really have to say anything honestly. And you can always figure out a way to market it the right way if you needed to explain why there is a kid or two at your house this weekend. And once you are old, you can just say it's you and your ex-wife's kids or whatever. Someone else raising your kids means you don't have to do it yourself. That's a lot of free time on your hand. Why do people hire nannies, maids, doo…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:37 AM
0

So raising kids yourself is free? smh child support is money that theoretically would be spent if you raised your kids yourself.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:35 AM
0

Def not autistic. If you want to pass on your genes but don't want to have the obligation/liability, seems like that's the only choice unless both you and the mom agree to put up the kid for adoption.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:03 PM
1

The numbers are kinda crazy. If you don't factor in living/entertainment expenses and only focus on food and personal products (soap, tooth paste, etc..., I don't spend close to that on myself a month.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:59 PM
0

Well yeah I mean use condoms if you don't want kids or disease. But if you want kids that are yours but don't want to be married, what do you do?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:54 PM
1

I mean yeah a quality hot girl that comes from a decent family won't get knocked up. But if you are purely talking about genetics, hotness does not mean comes from a wealthy or nuclear family. Go to any ivy league school and you'll see that the genetic pool is slim pickings compared to a state or community college. TRP even preaches this - education does not make a girl more desirable. Most who have families with strong educational beliefs probably subconsciously realize that wealth+education is…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:49 PM
-5

If you weren't paying child support and you were raising the kid in a traditional family, you'd still be paying cash to support the kid. So no difference. The only difference here is some beta buxx out there will have to raise the kid, not you. You don't have to be the person that raises the kid, that's the point. Not to mention deal with divorce rape.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:46 PM
2

Sounds like rationalization to me. Focusing on your studies and not dating is not a path to success if you want to be a confident man in life. No amount of studying or books will teach you anything about real life. Only experience can. The value of studying is a lie perpetuated by the educational system. You just need to do the bare minimum to get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 05:04 PM
3

I wish my mom woulda told me to be a doctor. Would be a lot richer than I am now.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 04:16 PM
2

I have a poor relationship with both my parents. Dropped my mom because I had to due to over bearing and abusive upbringing. Was not able to set boundaries even when I tried and honestly if I hadn't been above average in school or in looks and wasn't able to leave home, would have probably been someone that murdered their parents. She still tries to contact me regularly even after I explicitly told her not to. I guess I just am very sensitive to boundary violations and it's something that my mom…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:29 AM
1

Lol lots of simps running around a woman knows she can always find another simp for money or emotional support
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 09:57 PM
1

They lie and come up with an exciting spin on life. I am like you and honestly just don't have a bunch of time, except on weekends, for fun shit. So it's all about how you talk and what you talk about than about your lifestyle. Sure work and school may take up 80% of your time and 100% of your headspace, but don't talk about work and school when chatting up girls. Keep it fun and entertaining and push some boundaries. And unless you are talking to a girl that's all in her feels and stuff, come o…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 06:05 AM
1

I think you should just focus on being healthy, fit, and hot. Honestly, the media is doing you a favor because they are misleading tons of people into doing the wrong thing. The reality is, men are attracted to healthy, fit, attractive women. You have an advantage if you see things this way. Media can brainwash people all day into what beauty standards should be, but innate instincts are instincts. Do you really want to date a guy that doesn't know who is true instincts are anyways? It's a great…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 11:37 PM
1

LOL no! It's very simple. Find the type of crowd/guy you are trying to attract. If you wanna attract NBA players and rappers, then yes, probably try to be a bit thicker. If you want to attract a classy CEO type, then no, thin and healthy and elegant is what you want. Once you figure out your target man, then you know what you should look like. That's it. There's no such thing as what's 'in'. It's just fake news made for you to feel insecure. You never want to get into the mindset of copying what…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 11:31 PM
1

It hates mainstream views.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 11:27 PM
2

Im a guy and do agree that I am hornier in the mornings than at nights.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 11:16 PM
3

I half agree. I don't want to be a savior because that's the therapist's job, but at the same time, people who are complete mess are more 'real' in my eyes (no façade) and also you can sense their emotions better and who they are - easier to relate that is. Basically you skip the small talk phase and get right to what's real about each other.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 10:55 PM
3

I agree with other posters. I don't think 13 is a lot honestly, I thought girls tend to be around that much anyways. I think you need to focus on why that makes you feel bad as opposed to the number itself. Is it because you feel disrespected, used, low value, etc... Focus on improving those things, who cares about your body count. Don't beat yourself up about it. The past is the past, you can only change the future.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 10:44 PM
2

It's just a way you think that's different from mainstream way of thinking. It comes from the movie matrix where people take a red colored pill and 'unplug' from society. Honestly, it just boils down to being red pilled means listening to your own inner voice and doing what's right for you. If a career makes you happy then do it. If being a housewife makes you happy then do it. ​ It's about ignoring all the noise and signal that your friends, family, media, society, throws at you , and focusing …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:53 AM
1

Don't live his life for him, i.e. he needs to get his life together, but doesn't mean you can't offer suggestions of things that he could do. I mean, if you guys view the relationship as a team, then I'm sure he'd be receptive to your help. ​ I'm not sure what exactly is causing his problems and diminishing self-esteem and self worth, but a good starting point woudl be to try to figure out what it is. maybe he himself doesn't even know. But tough to remedy it without knowing what exactly is goin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:46 AM
1

Don't buy into the feminsim BS where there are no gender roles. if he's intersted he'll message you. Although with that said, it can be tricky with dating apps as sometimes it is easier to jus tmessage on a dating app since the prior convo is htere. Just tell him to message you via text as you don't plan on using the dating app much in the future (even if it's a lie). If he still doesn't text you, then drop him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:38 AM
1

Don't let the media make you think putting someone through tests is scummy or creepy. It's one of those things that creates cognitive dissonance in people's heads in today's world (like only being attracted to hot people), but it something that is your absolute right to do. A life parter is an important decision, and you want to make sure that the person you are dating is right. Obviously don't scare them away by doing hard core interrogatoin, but if you have subtle ways to test/vet, by all mean…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:34 AM
1

I have a different advice from most. In today's world, competition is usually frowned upon and everyone is a winner, but honestly, how else are you able to measure/value a skill or some attribute of yourself without comparing yourself with others. So, IMO, comparing yourself with others is not a bad thing as you need to accurately value yourself and your skills and strengths and weaknesses. This is a super important skill not only when it comes to selling yourself in the job market but just in e…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:28 AM
1

I don't pay too much attention to it. Most of feminism and progressive views are just messages for people that can't think for themselves - people that don't know what they want, or can't listen to their instincts. It's a nice filter that separates people who are dissimilar and similar to you. ​ It's like all the pronouns these days or labels. People that use them, I automatically filter them out as they aren't like me. I view people as people, couldn't give a shit if you are he/they/it/she or w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:22 AM
9

Soo, I'm not sure what the post is for. Are you looking for advice? I mean, what do you want out of life. Build a career, stable home, 2kids a cats and a dog, then probably don't date him. If you already have the money and just want to feel alive, yeah, I'd go hang out with him cuz yolo.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 07:17 AM
1

It's one thing if they ask for help. It's another if you go and help them without being asked.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:42 AM
1

Who cares, it's just another guy
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:31 PM
2

Why not lie to yourself. If you got to fake something, you have to convince yourself of the lie inorder to lie convincingly
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:26 PM
1

I disagree, if you don't go direct, she'll think that you might actually be into her pen or bag and just want to make small talk. So go direct, obv not something autist like damn girl your hot, but make it know you are interested in her. Saves everyone time, you'll get feed back immediately if she's interested or not. No need to beat around the bush
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:28 PM
1

Bro, successful girls have hard time dating in today's world. It's an opportunity to take advantage of especially with femism and equality and stuff. Guys are trained to watch out for gold diggers. Girls aren't yet
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:37 AM
1

I'm thinking about it. Not sure where to source them, maybe charity events? Also what's the best way to pitch myself, do some artsy stuff on the side and show her a different part of life that's not all money?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:35 AM
1

Lmao was just gonna come here and say autism seems to be the case cuz it took 3 days, not like 1 sec later to realize u said something dumb
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:30 AM
0

Worst advice ever if you are trying to survive. Sure it'll make you happy but it won't help you survive. Figure ur strength and weaknesses and then play to that. Learn to sell whatever strength you got, even if it's big tits. Don't listen to your dad he's a doubter
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:26 AM
1

Yeah same, I can probably deep clean 1500 sqft in 5-6 hrs, sign me up
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:20 AM
1

Would bitcoin do? I'd imagine it's hard to track
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:17 AM
1

Redpilled would be to start making contingencies to get out of the relationship. None redpill is that she may actually have something up with her that she feels u don't understand, so shes depression spending. Last year was covid so maybe it hit her business. Or she doesn't want to be a stay at home wife Either way, too hard to tell from the internet.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:14 AM
2

Not my cup of tea. I wouldn't ask someone how many girls they've been with, but if they said I've been around, I immediately think they haven't been around. Basically not a believable lie.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:04 AM
29

Unless you personally know them, people don't need to be helped.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:59 AM
-3

yeah i'm all for saving cash, since your so loose, wanna shoot me some via cash app? or you too cheap now poser? i'll get u back. i can hook you up with a promoter
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:58 AM
-1

lmao, and i found another poser wannabe rich kid. probably says he gots a beamer but it's from like 2009 with 200k miles
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:52 AM
1

Honestly, when I lost my virginity the girl asked me how many girls I been with, I tried to avoid answering but eventually said I gotten a blowjob with another girl before (which I didn't). It didn't matter, she was still into me. And I was young, so no big deal since everyone is a virgin at some point. It just depends on the girl. Today, I might say I'm a virgin just for the jokes, like, hey, i'm experienced, can you show me how to do it, maybe you can get on top and show me.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:40 AM
0

or just don't buy people things and expect things in return like a simp
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:54 AM
1

It's about being a man, doing what YOU want, knowing what YOU want out of life, controlling your life, and realizing that most other people have agendas, so you have to be an advocate for yourself and set proper boundaries when it comes to relationship building and not be a simp.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:50 AM
2

dick picks
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:39 AM
1

lol yep, came here just to say that. You don't. they are living the lives they want to live. you live yours.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:35 AM
1

I agree this is a bit too autistic but I also think it'll work. But you'll end up with the nice girls not the bad girls everyone wants to smash. For bad girls you just need high SMV
/r/TheRedPill29/11/20 07:34 PM
1

I'll have to try that next time. Never thought of it but I think I'd like watching.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:16 PM
1

Cheaters are scum because they don't have the balls to be honest and tell a girl they don't want to commit. They have to lie their way into pussy. I'm all for people that have like 10 partners at once, but only pussies have to tell each partner they are in an exclusive relationship with them. Real men just say nah we are friends but still get the pussy. It's a good way to see who's alpha or not. Alphas don't have to cheat to sleep with multiple girls at once. Wannabe alphas have to pretend to be…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/20 04:59 PM
1

$$$$ free drinks
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:09 AM
1

Nah viagra don't help with anxiety. Plus imo it makes you more anxious since at least for me, it makes my heart beat faster. But can be nice to have if you want a steel rod, assuming you aren't anxious
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:00 AM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:56 AM
2

Only did that once. Most of the time of I'm already making out, I grab the pussy
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:54 AM
1

I've been on so many dates from online when the girl lied about her looks and I'm just like fuuuuck, I'll be nice and talk for 30 minutes.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:47 AM
3

Totally agree. Its the one thing that makes me hate society, when being yourself doesn't work. For me, being me has stunted my career so much.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:38 AM
2

I have no friends except one plate and don't feel lonely. I'm different from most people tho in that I'm not susceptible to loneliness. But imo, best thing to do is stay busy and find some hobbies. Also you can always shoot the shit with online dating apps
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:06 AM
1

Be gay
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:59 PM
1

Yep lmao
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:40 PM
0

+100
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:31 PM
3

Upvoted cuz lmao
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:34 PM
5

Lol anyone that says where have the good men/women gone is automatically a red flag
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:32 PM
5

Mines usually pretty high actually, by third date it is close to 100%. First dates gotta be like 25% or so too. But I purposely structure dates around drinks so it makes life easier. Never sealed on a non drink first date. Back precovid, usually meet up at like 7 or later, then convince them to come clubbing with me and then back home after. The later the date the better so there's no awkward pause before the club starts popping. I'm bad at convos so for me it's more about creating excitement, t…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:55 PM
2

Cuz they different from u Cuz sex feels good Cuz for me, theres a thrill of sex with someone new
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:42 PM
1

Nah, it's definitely mixed. Plenty of low quality women that are single and plenty of high quality that are taken probably cuz they don't wanna date (they have other stuff to do like career goals and what not) but also want something consistent and like the benefits of a relationship.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:40 PM
7

You'll get downvoted as expected since most people here are bluepilled as with most of society. I've experienced many convos in real life about this and most guys will shun you if they feel you go after taken girls, which to this day makes no sense still. Everyone has their own rules. Mine is, if it's my friends girl, shes off limits. If it's anyone elses girl, she's single. Cuz at the end of day, it takes 2 to tango, and people should realize that girls have choice to and they chose to cheat. B…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:35 PM
1

I just been hanging with the same plates but no new plates since Covid. Very curious what life is like out there since I can't do my usual aka go to a club. And not even sure if girls online want to even meet up and if I really want to meet up. Don't want to be that guy she got Covid from. Easier to transmit and bigger stigma than STDs these days.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:04 PM
1

I dunno, why's the kid bother you so much? I mean, if one person bothers you that much, not sure your issue is that you are beta, your issue is whatever trait that guy has.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:00 PM
2

Instinct. There really isn't such a thing as red of green flags - that was just a concept designed by judgmental individuals.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:58 PM
1

Dang I gotta go visit
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:59 PM
1

No but I always use hangout
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:20 AM
11

You are over thinking. Just learn to reduce stress and anxiety and stop coming up with random possible issues like autism or whatever
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:08 AM
1

I found about RP don't remember how, but probably seeing it online somewhere someone mentioned. Realized that some of the views of RP is similar to mine and obviously like the none PC conversation. Realistically I probably only agree with 20% of what's said here since life's not black and white. But I do find a lot the stuff entertaining and occasionally get some useful advice.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:54 AM
1

How are you still going out? I thought all the clubs and bars are still closed and not conducive to meeting girls.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:50 AM
1

Sounds like the real issue is lack of confidence and insecurity. If you are top 15% right now you shouldn't have too much issues
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:48 AM
2

Yep why give up a hb9. Just smash her and start seeing other girls until you find someone better
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:40 AM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:34 AM
1

Yeah totally agree. If she's got an agenda, stay away unless you got your own agenda you plan on playing her.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:31 AM
2

Turkish girls are so hot. Always wanted to visit. Unfort i don't got a beard and the vibe i get is they like guys with beards as with most middle eastern women
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:50 AM
1

Lmao keep on telling yourself height doesn't matter. Less angry men the better
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:40 AM
2

No need to. Just invite her over and then start kino Or do some light kino on the date, light touches here or there. If I'm at the club I do heavy kino since that's allowed there, like arms around kino It's rare that my convos have sexual tension but they come over anyways if they are comfortable with you.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:08 AM
1

Rules are for autists
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:01 AM
1

Girls aren't dumb they probably see right thru the fake alpha try hard shit. Try high schoolers they may not be experienced yet and might find your muscles exciting.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:42 AM
1

I can't get girls to go away even the ones I haven't smashed. They get attached for no reason. Definitely just has to do with your persona.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:33 AM
1

Funny how the ones always looking for good conversation are the ones that suck at it 😂
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:25 AM
2

Dude after high school drinking and driving is not cool anymore. And how come I feel like your post is an ad. I'm just waiting for a website/link to sign up to.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:01 PM
-11

I do when I have time. Look it's great that you buy into the lifting self improvement philosophy and stuff. Exercise is great for health and mind. But lifting won't change self esteem problems if your self esteem is not based on physical appearance or game or whatever. There are plenty of skinny nerds or fat slobs with nice jobs that have more control over their lives then the fittest instagram model.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:41 AM
-1

Thanks but lifting is not related to how much control you have over your life. Money or power is the only thing that gives control and I'm not even looking for that kind of control. I'm just need to get the f outta here and move on with my life. I already apply to jobs regularly so discipline is not an issue for me.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:34 AM
2

So autistic you are asking other guys if u wanna fuck. Does your dick get hard when you think of her or not. There's plenty of girls out there sometimes you just don't vibe with one and move on to the next. Celebs dont fuck every girl that wants to sleep with them cuz they gotta make sure there's no drama after. If you aren't feeling it you aren't feeling it.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:03 AM
1

If my dick was already rubbing her clit I would have went ahead and slipped it in for a trial. Let her tell me to pull out and not today.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:58 AM
1

So there's this girl I've always crushed on in class for awhile. I've tried saying hi to her once today but I don't think she heard me since right when I said that another guy went to talk to her. Was that like a secret shit test? How do I assert dominance in this situation and how do I tell the guy that was my girl?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:47 AM
2

I don't see anything wrong with anybody in this scenario. If you date a girl for awhile, at some point they expect more. That's just the way girls are. It's not TRP it's just how it is. If you are married to a girl, at some point they will pressure you to have kids. So it is important I guess for you two to be on same page. That's why I tend to date younger because that pressure doesn't show up as early and younger girls don't know what they want yet and have options. It's pretty normal. Honestl…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:01 AM
1

We all get anxious at the beginning chill. Just hold frame
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:43 AM
1

Rarely. I try not to do it unless it's the only thing I can think off. I think being positive is much more attractive to women.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:35 AM
1

Lmao I'm gonna start using this. It's so true.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:32 AM
1

I normally don't acknowledge the fact there's any other guy in the picture cuz only guy that matters is me. If she mentioned ex bf, male friends, other dudes I just say something canned like nice, that sucks, and then talk about something else. I make sure attention is on us two not other people. I'll never voluntarily inquire about another guy unless it's a family member.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:30 AM
1

Well yeah it's about having best offspring possible. Otherwise no point in having kids these days because they are so expensive. I do agree hot doesn't necessarily mean good genes especially with how well girls are at using makeup these days
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:26 AM
1

Took me awhile to get over that and catching STDs as well but finally I was just like fuckit you only live once. Don't let your worries get in the way of enjoyment. Obviously wrap that shit up but just think about it every one else out there fucking without issues so don't worry too much about it
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:05 AM
1

Nice good to know. I was worried people would be hesitant due to catching covid from someone they just met. I can go back to being me on dates fuck yes
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:01 AM
1

Yes definitely interested. Imagine the other perspective where you ask a bunch of questions and are pulling teeth getting her to talk
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:00 AM
1

Yes according to call her daddy
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:59 AM
1

Are the bars open now been dying to go clubbing?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:58 AM
3

Yep which is comical because if you were an uggo making sure you have a top notch personality should be a primary goal of yours.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:55 AM
1

Yeah most parents want grandkids so your dad is just being a dad. Plus he might be thinking that you may change your mind at 30-35
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:51 AM
1

Yes I high school I got a bit chubby. Ate like 1 bag of chips for lunch for like 3 months and dropped right down to normal. Ate my other meals per usual. Looking back that wasn't healthy but in general a reduction calories is probably the best way to lose weight.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:47 AM
3

Autism resurging?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:20 AM
11

He's 14 lmao let him live and make some mistakes
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:19 AM
2

Truest statement ever. The faster op realizes iq doesn't mean shit when it comes to socializing the better his life gets. Plus the girls that are into intelligence aren't girls you wanna date anyways cuz they think to much and aren't loose enough to be enjoyable around.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:20 AM
1

The more you think about it the harder it is. Just eat less and find something else to think about other than dieting, food, and hunger.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:17 AM
1

Dtf?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:15 AM
2

Just call her a cunt
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:12 AM
4

Axe body spray
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:09 AM
3

Could be Asian or a virgin
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:07 AM
2

Nah sometimes you just only want to spend less than an hour with someone. I don't care how alpha you are u ain't gonna meet a girl at the club bang her and send her back home all in an hour.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:03 AM
3

Me to
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:00 AM
-1

Grab the closest girl and start smashing her while staring him down and saying this is my tribe.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:58 AM
1

Nah it's the foreigners like Asian and Easter European
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:53 AM
8

I do agree. Can't bitch at a girl for being shallow and looking for money if you are shallow and go for looks. Trp starting to getting soft and woke lmao look at these comments
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:49 AM
1

That's usually a pretty big red flag for me so I immediately start viewing her as a fling unless she redeems herself. I normally side step the question and say I'm really poor (to reframe how she views me) or just call her out and be like is it a deal breaker?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:47 AM
2

Autism the natural cockblock, surprised natural selection didn't remove the gene.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:31 PM
1

Depends on girl. If she comes off as a game player or tries to be hard to get or a tease, plausible deniability. If she's straightforward be straightforward too. Also depends on how much she's attracted to you. It's just a nuance and you just take an educated guess. Girls that tend to be more sporty, odds are straightforward is better bet. Girls that tend to be older and more experienced, straight forward is better bet. Girls that spend time cultivating orbiters, plausible deniability is the bet…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:24 PM
2

God each time a guy that says that i cringe and makes me wonder if they actually think that way or it's just a lame joke old couples tell other people.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:19 PM
2

Lol so true
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:18 PM
1

I didn't have a strong male role model but I pick and chose celebrities, actors, atheletes, upperclassmen, etc... To model after . I had an idea already who I wanted to be and so it was more about observing those people and seeing how they interacted with the world around them until I had the confidence to be who I wanted to be.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:15 PM
1

So many young girls are scared or believe in ghosts I wouldn't give a shit if she thought that way. It's like men talking about sports. Tell here there's no ghosts there and next time just film it on camera for proof. Once they hit like 25-26 they stop believing in that stuff.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:02 PM
6

"Also is it wrong mentality to go after girls or whatever" I dunno does your dick get hard when you see hot girls? Do you like sex? It's not a mentality. It's if you are a mammal or not.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:20 AM
1

Keep on sticking them rules. You don't want to get in too much trouble now or stray off the beaten path.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:20 PM
0

The only people that worry about this orbiter nonsense are people that don't know how to not be an orbiter or use common sense. If shooting a girl a DM is orbiting, then saying hi to a girl on the street is also orbiting. SMH
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:19 PM
1

Yeah under 1k is what I look for. Thansk for the advice.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:14 PM
1

Awesome, thanks for the tip!
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:14 PM
1

God so autistic. The world isn't black and white like TRP tells you. It takes you about 1 sec to see if she's interested or not. And that's if she gives no response or one word responses. No girl is gonna waste their time creating a lot of engagement with you just for attention. They have lives too. Also many girls have had too many guys hit on them who can't take a hint so they just learned to not engage. So if she is having a convo, chances are she is interested. And if for some reason she's v…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:12 PM
0

I'm just gonna trial and error it. Was just wondering if anyone has done some legwork already. I'll probalby comment on their most recent pic or something as my next experiment. I'll probably still avoid DMing as it could very well go to a hidden inbox and they never see it.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:09 PM
0

Keep on using no, can't, hard, in your daily vocab.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:57 PM
1

What country you live in? Let's get a field report from you this weekend. Cuz where I live, al lthe clubs are shut down.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:54 PM
0

Yeah no shit, these guys are autistic. You can't go to bars anyomre. But you can still go for a freakin walk, at least where I live. I have coworkers that told me they went out on dates just on a walk. You really think most people are just going to forgoe 6-12 months of their lives waiting for the gov to say it's ok to leave your home again?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:54 PM
0

Lots. Build your own SMV if they end up following you. Maybe cure some boredom. Maybe even meet up after. Only people that dismiss the instagram game are people who don't have a built out instagram with decent pics It works cuz celebs/athelets, anyone with decent SMV does it all the time.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:48 PM
2

I don't like texting anyways. Build a rapport for a week, then say let's get a drink after quarantine is over. Drop in every once in awhile afterwards to keep them interested. It's not that hard a formula. ​ I just haven't done it on instagram yet. But it's a whole new world since I don't got to wait to match, but depending on who you hit up, can come off as creepy.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:44 PM
0

Keep on MGTOWing brother.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:43 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:38 PM
0

Cuz other guys are getting their shit lined up. Tinder is popping these days. girls that normally don't use it are using it. Girls ain't gonna wait around 6-12 months not interacting with any guy, even if it's virtual. ​ Build a rapport, the second it's over, you get first dibs on going out with em.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:37 PM
2

Quarantine life. Learn to not live under a rock.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:32 PM
1

What is your suggestion for emotions at work since many spend hours there?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 09:02 PM
1

Dude man I know I have it in me to kill my mom too but there's so much to life than past wrongs. At some point you are just feeding yourself poison by keeping the negative emotions. Just drop her and move on. Focus on some random as goals and hobbies you want to do in life. Also nothing wrong with crying at times, doesn't make someone broken.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 12:39 AM
1

Such a common story. Not to mention the social stigma with having a poor relationship or no relationship with your mom. I just think of it as you can choose your friends but you can't choose your parents. And since I'm in charge of my life, cya mom.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 12:33 AM
0

I dunno I'm not as against single mother's as most. If you are 27 and have a kid, I don't see much wrong with that. Hypothetically maybe you got married at 23-24 and then got divorced at 27. 3-4 years later. Other people get married in the 30s and get divorced later too.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 12:30 AM
1

Pretty sure the book definition is you recharge your energy when you are by yourself. Doesn't make you smart, special, or anything
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 12:28 AM
1

Lol this sounds autistic like the guy sat in his room thinking it up but never have gone out.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 05:06 AM
1

I kinda disagree. Social media has enabled anyone to just spout random opinions into the air. If you aren't good at blocking shit out, then you are gonna be flooded with shit that frankly you don't care about. I think the poeple who say they don't give a fuck truly don't give a fuck but haven't figured out how to block out noise. And so they say that in hopes that the other person will shut up but that of course will not happen.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 07:06 PM
1

Preach on. Hardest part for me is figuring where that gray line is between what's acceptable in different social spheres.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 06:55 PM
2

I found it interesting you brought this up. Im only just learning the big discrepancy between what they teach in books and what works in real life. And I'm not even talking about getting girls. I'm just talking about life in general like getting jobs and just getting the fulfillment you want in life. In fact, even in my head I keep track of two knowledge bases. One I call book knowledge which is what society and armchair people want you to think. And other is real knowledge which comes from expe…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 06:42 PM
0

I really was just pointing out the fact that it doesn't seem like u oded on red pill if you take her not wanting sex with you personally. They preach don't get oneitis, having plates, and abundance mentality, and so there's nothing personal about her not wanting sex with you. If you think she's doing it cuz she actually lost tingles with you, even when it's not a bad day, just hit up the side plate and next. And then I got sidetracked by something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:26 PM
3

What? I was responding to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:33 PM
21

This is a joke right. Studies show that sex for women is more emotional than for men, meaning love and lust are mixed together for women. Reddit is full of nonsense today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:20 PM
3

You should probably go back to redpill because any girl that "needs" you to make em feel some type of way is the type of girl redpill was designed for. Make em feel sexy, tingles, secure, etc... Whatever it is you need to make em feel, to get what you want of course aka manipulation.. So you didn't OD on redpill you just missed the point. The first comment is typical example of type of girl that needs a redpill guy in her life, given the fact she's looking for guys to make her feel some type of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:17 PM
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I dunno, depends on the the girl I think. Most I would agree but some if you are hot and they are drunk that's all it takes, they'll make the move with 0 rapport. I've had situations at clubs where I only said hi and she started making out with me. Or hi and she grabbed me to start dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:09 PM
1

A little but then I remember it's this guy's PoV, which is probably biased, and then I don't care anymore. Shit like this doenstn' happnen out of the blue, I mean if this guy was too ignorant to read the signs leading up to it, can't really empathize. And to be afraid of your marraige falling apart when you don't have kids? Jesus, you just got a ticket to freedom.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 11:36 PM
2

You only think this way cuz it'sa black girl with dreads. Now if young jessica alba said that you'd probably be like what time?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 11:30 PM
1

I hate when women cold approach. Puts me in awkward spot cuz generally, it's not the hottest girls that cold approach. It's the liberalized medium-ish girl that don't believe in gender roles and what not. I'm traditional. I like being the one choosing who I talk to.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 11:27 PM
1

You got any other activities or venues you'd recommend as an older guy to go by yourself and meet women? I like clubs but getting a bit tired of it as well and don't plan on going to places like a grocery store for the sole purpose of meeting women.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 07:00 PM
1

Im seeing the same thing. Lots of hot tinder girls in my area. Not seeing any of em in real life. Either I'm going to wrong clubs or they just don't go out.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 06:57 PM
1

Great advice. I go out by myself and took a break since it's winter and last time I went out to my usual place it was all guys. Hate putting all the work getting dressed, cleaning my place, only to not find anyone I want to talk to. Any advice for for other good places to go out by yourself?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 06:54 PM
1

Thanks so much! Was curious if one needed to do something much different because of the implied sugar daddy dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 11:29 PM
1

You are making me want to try it out. Any tips on setting up a profile like pics, info I should disclose, etc...
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 08:50 AM
3

Lmao the good ole days
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:43 AM
1

I live in a large city so going out is the best way for me. And def go out during holidays like Halloween, St Patty's, 7/4, Derby, etc... as most of the super hot girls that might not usually go out will go out on those holidays. A lot of hot girls over 24 are "over" the club scene but will still make an appearance on those days. ​ Super hot girls also tend to go home early IMO (like before 12AM) so make sure to go out early. But going out after 2AM is best chance for getting action as any girl …
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:08 AM
1

Study harder. Only thing I'd tell myself. Now I'm trying to study hard to make up for my slacking off instead of enjoying my 20s-30s chasing tail WITH disposable income. And guys get more attractive to girls when they are older so game a bit while young but the real fun starts when older.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:04 AM
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