Online dating

MirriMazDuur · 2021-06-21T18:27:33+00:00

Hey! I am engaged to the love of my life which I randomly met on Tinder one day :) And guess what ... I wrote an extensive guide for online dating: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/nc9x4l/my\_ultimate\_guide\_to\_rpw\_online\_dating/

somewhereinptown · 2021-06-21T16:33:19+00:00

I would put your wishes in your profile, it will separate the wheat from the chaff so to speak. There are red pill "coaches" out there who work with men who are looking to find a women like yourself, I see them on Twitter all the time. Send one a message, see what happens.

rosesonthefloor · 2021-06-21T21:41:12+00:00

A lot of men in general don’t make good captains - the pickings on online dating apps aren’t necessarily different in that respect. But don’t worry! They are out there 😊

If you’re looking for more of a masculine/traditional man, definitely play up your feminine/traditional side in your profile. Put up photos that come across cute, feminine, and fun, and make sure you have both body photos and smiles! Do you have feminine hobbies like crafting, art, sewing, cooking/baking, or something along those lines? Definitely mention that. I’ve had success with using the line that I’m “a little bit old school.” Subtle stuff like that will signal you’re open to traditional without being in his face about it. u/MirriMazDuur got it 100% right when she said to not use certain verbiage in your profile - I’d highly recommend her post!

You’re likely going to have to look for guys bit older to find ones that are hoping to settle down too - maybe mid to late 20s? A lot of guys start getting their shit together around 26, and because you’re so young, I wouldn’t go more than maybe like 30 if I were you. Then you might get a bunch of guys who want to date a younger girl thinking that it won’t get serious quickly, when that’s not what you want.

Re: finding the right guy - you might not know just from his profile if he’s a good fit. The guy I’m seeing now, I wasn’t 100% sure if I should have swiped right on him when I did, but I am so glad I did. He’s definitely captain material. But if I was hung up on silly things, I wouldn’t be dating him. Cast your net a bit wide and weed out based on how they make you feel when you’re talking to them, rather than purely on looks or income.

I would also read the Surrendered Single by Laura Doyle. There’s lots of great info in there as well!

newtoroo · 2021-06-22T02:38:11+00:00

I met my red pilled right wing (transitioning Protestant) traditional Catholic man on Bumble :) think about it, if you exist, there has to be someone just as unique out there waiting for you. My bf is 5 years older than me, and I’m 23 :)

TheBunk_TB · 2021-06-21T16:34:04+00:00

Find someone from a religious group? or From the military?

You dont have to do everything online. A good "network" does more for you than an app.

When you go on a few dates, do you tell them what you are looking for?

throwawaybpdnpd · 2021-06-21T16:47:26+00:00

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CA-GMOW · 2021-06-21T20:47:37+00:00

Hello!
I like to talking with regard to stats and their out come.
I would firstly ask you to make a SMALL list of things that you are not willing to compromise in a relationship, than make a SMALL list of hobbies that you would like to share with your SO.
There is a higher percent of people who are blue pilled and left winged(liberals) on dating site/app. So if that is something you like, that is a place to get started there as well. Most of the right winged(conservatives) are off the social media.

As for the two lists you have now, start going out to enjoy your hobbies and doing thing for be more into the. Once you start meeting people you start filtering people based on your first list.
I started doing this in 2018, and had success with this, but got out of the relationship due to covid and other things.
It is usually best to go after exactly what you want with regards to a relationship than to develop/change it in the future. For example, if you want to have a traditional family, make sure you are going after a guy who is in to being a traditional guy. If that is not the case the relationship might not work out in the long term.

2021-06-22T05:48:07+00:00

I think you should set them for 24-27, my SO is 24 and 6 years older than me.

Hopeful_Pay_6685 · 2021-06-23T11:16:38+00:00

Definitely, older sounds good. Guys your age are in school and haven't started on their careers. They could be dating for long-term but push for marriage later. I'm the same age as you and the maximum age that I would go for would be 32. Just because it wouldn't feel like that relationship like a sugar daddy. Find a guy with who you can connect with mentally and that you're on the same page for children, marriage, gender roles, etc.

And I can relate with being a homemaker as a wife and I feel guilty for wanting that because I would feel like I'm not contributing anything. I did talk to guys my age and they wanted a woman who also worked because of course the two incomes, but the exception would be staying home to raise young children. I also want to homeschool my kids. I don't mind working but I would prefer part-time or working from home.

Title	Online dating
Author	AgreeableSpinach6989
Upvotes	28
Comments	26
Date	June 21, 2021 4:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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