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Removed. This is not red pill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/26 05:31 PM
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OP you must engage with your post or it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/26 12:48 PM
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Removed. We don't do men are evil here. If you want to rephrase and elaborate we will reapprove the comment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/26 10:37 AM
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RPW is not a place for men to ask question.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/26 11:10 PM
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No it is not. Perhaps you are unaware of the actual values of the sub and need to lurk more.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/26 01:38 PM
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Removed. We are am English speaking sub
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/26 12:09 PM
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Removed. We are an English speaking sub.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 07:52 PM
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OP please engage with your post or it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 11:09 AM
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Removed. Your personal preferences are not advice
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 09:23 PM
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Removed. Off topic and I see that you are actually the nanny and misrepresenting yourself is against the rules here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 02:52 PM
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No moralizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/26 11:10 PM
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This is too vague for any of us to answer and I'm not entirely clear why you chose RPW. You are going to have to have an idea of who you want to be before anyone can tell you how to get there. You have to say what you are confused about if you want clarity. The post is removed as "low effort". We will reapprove if you decide to edit to add more information. Just tag a mod after your edit.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 09:39 AM
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OP if you do not participate in the post it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/26 06:38 AM
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Removed. Advice should be for the OP what you would do is irrelevant. Leave him is never the first advice given on rpw.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/26 11:07 AM
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Removed. Advice must benefit the OP.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/26 11:06 AM
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Removed. We aren't doing this.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 11:33 PM
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You have a very simplistic understanding of RPW and I strongly advise you to spend some time with the wiki rather than telling long time members that "I thought this was the red pill women's subreddit".
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 09:44 PM
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This is helpful. Could you edit it into your post so that everyone can see it more easily. Often people do not read the comments before responding 😂.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 04:36 PM
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Please address the following question from the rules page for "asking for guidance". This is too vague for us to help If you are asking a personal relationship question, please answer the following questions: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time? Be honest with yourself about what background is needed to help the community answer your question. W…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 12:51 PM
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Post is locked as OP isn't looking for advice and just seems to be here to debate.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 04:38 PM
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Are you here to debate or to ask for advice?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 02:40 PM
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Removed no feminism. We don't do "men are evil" here on RPW. Advice must be based on personal experience (which is preferably as a married woman at a certain point since that is the goal for most women here) and/or from a red pill perspective. Your personal preferences aren't advice if you don't have the life that an OP is asking about.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 06:23 PM
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This is the women's sub though where women's goals are the priority over the male imperitive. However we don't bash men either.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 11:58 AM
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OP you must participate or this will be removed. I am removing the post as it looks like OP abandoned it. If you wish this to be reapproved contact us in modmail.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 11:49 AM
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Removed. This post is 9 years old. If you have questions please create your own post and if you want discussion you need to do it on more recent content.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/26 01:04 AM
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As requested 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 10:12 PM
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This is a red pill sub and so discussion and advice will be around a red pill perspective. If you aren't interested in RP then it's probably not a sub for you to be participating in. We aren't here to debate.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 08:35 PM
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Your comment was removed because it was inappropriate on the women's sub. We do care for tone, we do ignore men who communicate with locker room talk (as noted by the male founders of the sub) and you arguing with u/wife_and_mama is telling me that you do not know how to moderate your tone for the environment here. If that is the case then I have to tell you that most men are not welcome here at all (see rules for men) and you probably should move along.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 06:52 PM
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Removed. We do not do male bashing here which you did and now you are being condescending. Be polite or be quiet and if you want to complain about men do it on another sub.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 10:49 PM
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Attention RPW: this post is now closed to men who are not regular contributors to our sub. Advice must be to aid the OP not a comment about double standards or how hard men have it. Any comments from new men will result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 05:59 PM
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If it's weird then it's probably not a place you should be participating.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 08:08 PM
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It is the women's sub for women to get help achieving their relationship goals. Generally men are not allowed to be here because there is a men's sub for them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 07:58 PM
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Removed. This is not a sub for men to complain about women. Please move along.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 06:31 PM
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I'm going to stop this here. The OP is allowed her goals and values. Give actionable advice or don't but we aren't here to debate the viability of big families. Cc: u/wife_and_mama
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 12:55 PM
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No doxxing, yourself included and we do not allow this sort of advertising for outside activities for the safety of our members. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 11:40 PM
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I don't see where you are asking advice. Removed unless you would like to revise it
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/26 11:51 AM
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OP I believe you are misrepresenting yourself. Post is removed because OP is the fish not the fisherman.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/26 01:01 PM
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Removed. Off topic. This is a sub for male led heterosexual relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/26 10:49 AM
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Removed. Your personal preferences are not advice. Unless you can provide actionable guidance "it worked for me" isn't helpful in any way
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/26 12:45 PM
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I wouldn't expect you to have success with Christian men while also playing with spells and Wicca and such. So maybe the problem is that you are not attracting the good men because of incompatible values.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 11:40 AM
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I am a moderator, see the green on my name. This was guidance not a suggestion and the comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/26 03:03 PM
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You need to refrain from giving advice until your own situation is more stable.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/26 12:18 PM
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One of the men who founded this place would talk about how women need to trust the source before they trust the information. You may complain about this aspect of female nature (but not here, we are not here for you to complain about us) but if you don't understand why communication style matters as much as content when addressing women, then you aren't prepared to give advice here. TRP is for men, RPW is for women and we allow select men in who have already proven themselves a. In the men's spa…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/26 01:35 PM
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Removed. Off topic. Not red pill content.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/26 01:19 PM
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Removed. If you are a man and here you need to at least have an LTR rather than posting on sugar forums, otherwise the only advice you have the experience to give is how to be a sugar baby and it's the wrong sub for that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/26 12:40 AM
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Responding to your edit OP: Among a lot of other things this is what the sidebar says about education and career. Appearance and behavior should be emphasized and focused on first. Women are going to draw interest from men by creating a visually appealing look, and by having a pleasant and desirable personality. Education and work are supplementary accomplishments that will encourage a man to stick around and learn more. A woman should not lead with work or education, nor should she ignore her p…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/26 12:20 AM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable to the OP not her partner who is not here asking advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/26 10:07 AM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable to the OP not her partner who is not here asking advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/26 10:07 AM
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Removed. Do not bad mouth the OP's husband.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/26 12:52 AM
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Hey sorry, I removed this and then saw Ardie had already approved so it's reinstated. It does look like you are shadowbanned by reddit though so you may want to take that up with them or all your comments will be automatically removed everywhere
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/26 01:37 PM
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I want you to know how absolutely hysterical it is to read someone lecture u/_Pumpkin_Muffin on the ins and outs of TPE. That said, I caution you against arguing with all the advice you get. One of our rules is that you have to be willing to actually listen to RP advice if you are here asking for it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/26 01:35 AM
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I mean exactly what I said. If you can't give actionable advice and you can't participate without saying "man bad" then this isn't the sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 07:10 PM
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Removed. No insulting an OPs man and advice must be both RP and actionable
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 05:52 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 06:43 PM
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Removed. Do not solicit DMs.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 09:59 PM
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Women on RPW have always been told to avoid the mens subs. This is true even in the days when the founders of TRP were commenting here as well. It is a mens only space which long ago cultivated a "mens locker room atmosphere". If a woman is secure and can handle it then sure. But there isn't as much useful information there about men as you are letting on nor does it represent all men or even the men we recommend that women look for as partners. Comment removed. We do not suggest men participate…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 12:57 PM
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You are portraying your beliefs as fact and getting very close to moralizing. This is against the rules here as every one has different values. One huge aspect of RPW is male leadership that will look different for every couple and it won't always look traditional. A former EC would say that "should" just means "I want". We do not allow advice that a man "should" do something. It is completely in conflict with "bring your captain your problem" From your comments I am assuming that you do not hav…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 05:31 PM
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Removed. No fiction.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/26 03:18 AM
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Please take this off sub. This is not a forum for men to chat with men. cc u/RedPillDad
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/26 12:14 PM
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Removed. No moralizing
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 04:11 AM
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Removed, no link dumping
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/26 09:27 AM
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Your post history clarifies your gender and this is not a sub for validation but for actual advice. You not having an answer or having a low view of men in relationships makes your participation unhelpful. Please move along now.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/26 12:22 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from an RPW perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/26 12:17 PM
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Please correct your capitalization. We aren't playing weird bdsm games with the words man and woman. We are not your subs and you are not our dom and RPW caters to more than just kink. Comment is removed until grammar has been corrected. Let me know and I will reapprove.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 12:03 PM
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But but, he wasted money on a promiscuous woman, surely we women all care deeply that he had to break up with her because she's been with other men.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/26 11:14 PM
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Great! Glad that you found your answer. We will lock the post since you are moving on.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/26 11:46 AM
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OP, it appears that you have deleted a post on the sub in the past. We consider this very rude because people took the time to respond and those answers can help others in your situation. Further, you said you were no longer interested in red pill advice. Additional deletions will result in you not being allowed to post again.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/26 03:14 PM
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I thought we are in the RPwomen group. She shouldn’t be chasing him and playing hard to get is when he is pursuing her and she still reject him. This attitude will get you banned especially since you were asking advice for your own messy and unconventional situation recently. It is best to give advice after you have your own life in order not before. Beyond that, passivity and playing games are decidedly not RPW. It seems perhaps you do not understand the values of the sub if you are making this…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/26 11:26 PM
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This is an opinion and not how every family works. It is also borderline moralizing which is against the rules. You can have whatever family structure and beliefs you wish and that work for you and your family. However recommending that children are more important than the husband is not RPW advice. If you wish to discuss this further, modmail is a better space so we do not derail this post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/26 04:57 PM
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This is not an issue of submission. Red pill theory does not support "your husband is only important when there are no children"
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/26 03:24 PM
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As you have decided to discontinue with the sub, this post is locked. You may reach out to us in modmail if you have a change of heart .
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 06:33 PM
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Comment removed: no moralizing and no gatekeeping. We allow anyone who is looking for RPW advice here and religion is not RPW advice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/26 07:35 PM
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No. We will not give sex advice to minors.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/25 06:58 PM
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This post was removed pending an answer about your age. Now that you have responded to someone else and not me, the mod, this post will revision removed. You are either young and naive or lying. Either way this is not the sub for you
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/25 02:26 PM
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OP, what brings you to this particular sub because it does not sound like you are looking for Red Pill Woman advice. Post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/25 07:37 PM
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How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/25 12:39 PM
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Yes, men's sperm count declines with she, but so does egg quality. This is removed because it's both not RPW and it's not science.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/25 11:26 PM
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This post had been removed due to your encouragement of mental disorders. This is beyond the scope of RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/25 11:21 PM
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Removed. No rants.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/25 10:45 PM
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OP, you've been asked for context a few times and never not provided it. I'm locking the post until you are ready to make these updates. Without context you cannot receive useful advice. You can reach out to us in modmail to unlock and update. A separate note to the community: advice must be actionable for the OP. There is nothing here to suggest that he is a bad man and he is not here asking for advice. "He should" and "man bad" comments are not RPW advice and have been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 06:42 PM
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Removed off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/25 02:11 PM
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We have a rule about not complaining about the men who share a philosophy with us. This post initially walked that line and we allowed it but I do not feel that your edits follow the rules here and I am removing the post. We don't really exist to complain about red pilled men. It's often recommended that they be avoided as their goals are different from ours but beyond that it is off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/25 03:53 PM
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Advice must be actionable for the OP. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/25 07:27 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/25 03:25 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. No one is being obtuse. This comment is being left up only because it answers u/jenneapolis 's question but further comments in this vein will have your post locked.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/25 11:54 PM
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I'm removing this exchange. It is off topic and you can leave the gatekeeping to the mods.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/25 01:32 PM
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The response from u/ChamomileMist is a note from a mod and not a "retort". Women on RPW do not have to justify their goal of marriage and we do not take the approach that men are enemies to be manipulated, gone to war against or anything that this non complementary phrase implies. It is clear that your own relationships are failing which means you probably need to be on the mens subs and not here. Please take this as a strongly worded suggestion to check out of this sub else we will resort to a …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/25 12:03 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable and your relationship is not the topic here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 07:25 PM
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This is off topic for the sub as we are focused on heterosexual relationships. I think you will receive better advice from like minded peers. Post is removed but good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 11:42 PM
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Bdsm falls under the rpw umbrella. Leave the gatekeeping to the mods. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/25 12:09 PM
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Mod note: advice must be actionable. No person, past or not, is automatically hopeless. Anyone posting a comment that the OP cannot change her past with no additional advice on how she should move forward will be removed and banned. Any men who decide to weigh in without having previously posted on rpw will be immediately banned.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/25 06:34 PM
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Removed. Men are not welcome here when they are being stupid. And this friend is short sighted and stupid. Move along.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/25 12:03 PM
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You are speaking to a man so perhaps you don't know as much about mens perspective as you think you do. Comment removed. Strongly encourage you to move on from this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/25 12:10 PM
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Removed. This isn't about your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 09:13 PM
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OP if you do not engage with this thread it will be locked. Drive by questions without participation are not allowed. Edit: post is locked for non engagement
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/25 11:29 PM
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Huh, I can't get the link working. I'll check it again later and remove the note for now. This was your post from about five months ago where you had concerns regarding his comments about being attracted to Latina women because though you are, he told you that you don't appear as such.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/25 12:52 PM
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OP's previous post for those interested in addition context. [Post 1]() OP post deletion is against the rules and if you do it with this post you will not be permitted to post against.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/25 12:41 PM
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Removed. No religion based advice unless the OP has brought it up first.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 12:14 PM
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It is not targeted harassment when you are the one who began the engagement and the topic. That is simply disagreement with a pregnant lady. Choose your battles more wisely next time.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/25 12:57 PM
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You can access the men's subs from a desktop or you can try trp.red.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 01:07 PM
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Comment removed. You are veering into feminist territory telling a woman that you "don't depend on a guy" or that you must be independent. Please see u/Wife_and_Mama's comment for the nuance in this topic. As a rule, men are discouraged from commenting here because (according to our male founders) y'all just aren't good at it. If you aren't giving advice in the mens subs then you shouldn't be giving advice here. Especially advice that has "strong independent woman" undertones.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 02:14 PM
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Women are not men and the female social matrix is not a male hierarchy. You'd think this would not have to be explained to someone commenting on a red pill sub 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/25 08:05 PM
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We are not here to be anything for you. We are here to help women meet their goals. Comment is removed. You don't seem to have sufficient red pill experience or an understanding of when something is above your knowledge level and it's time to move along.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/25 08:02 PM
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High value is not strictly a red pill term. As far as I am aware it started with Female Dating Strategy and became more prevalent from there. It is a term that has no definition other than in the eyes of the person using it. To some it replaces the old "Alpha" types and to others it means good character or marriageable and others define it as having money. It seems that the top comment is using it to refer to "naturals". But I say with confidence that TRP would agree that the ability to replace …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 10:37 PM
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If u/sine120 was entirely wrong then TRP would not have created the concept of "she's not yours it's just your turn" and "sometimes plates break". It's not even necessarily about gender dynamics so much as a mans mission which is up the individual man. Please do not tell people on our sub that they don't understand TRP when your own explanation is opinion based.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 06:50 PM
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Is this something that is impacting your life as a woman or something you are worried about happening as you age. We need more details to help.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 08:51 PM
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There is a lot more nuance than this. If you are approaching relationships with blanket submission you are probably losing yourself in the relationship. The endorsed members here who are married have more balanced relationships than "always submit and don't complain"
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/25 03:48 PM
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Removed. Off topic
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 05:31 PM
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Removed off topic
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 06:24 AM
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OP you seem to have abandoned the post. I'm locking this but if you wish to return to it, please let us know and we will unlock. We don't continue to answer questions for OPs who have disappeared.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/25 10:58 AM
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Removed. Do not predict intentions. Advice must be actionable
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 11:47 AM
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Everyone is reminded that advice must be actionable, not insulting to the OP or her man and not a lazy one liner. Comments predicting her future will also be removed. Please make advice actionable or informational and if you are telling her to leave, there should be a measured rationale behind it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 11:45 AM
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This is from our sidebar This community was created as a harbor for RP minded women whose goal is to build a lasting and happy relationship with a great man. We explore the female RP sexual strategy, better known as "girl game", in an objective, realistic and compassionate manner. RPW does not endorse a moral stance. We discuss the elements of girl game not as behaviors that are right, or good, or morally superior, but as tactical behaviors that work to help us achieve our goals. We come from al…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 02:35 AM
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This is not a trad sub. Who pays is always a hotly debated issue. Everyone is reminded that starred and endorsed members have been better for their RP knowledge and solid track record for advice. If you are looking for "what is RPW" those are the voices that RPW has elevated over the years.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 11:43 PM
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This is the women's sub. The OP is a woman looking for a man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 09:43 PM
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Removed for concern trolling. Be the change you wish to see. If you are a married woman and you aren't writing content then you understand why there is little content from married women here. Until then, it isn't good form to complain about something you yourself are not doing either.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 11:58 AM
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The dating market is a commonly understood term on this sub and this is an old post. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 07:24 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 11:06 PM
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Removed. This is off topic on the women's sub.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 03:11 PM
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Removed. Vague and unhelpful. We believe in marriage here. If you do not then it might not be the best sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 11:13 AM
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Removed. No requests for doxxing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 09:37 PM
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This old post may help you: the art of the bad excuse describes how to do the modern day "dropping the handkerchief".
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/25 06:23 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/25 12:18 PM
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We are not here to justify ourselves to outsiders. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/25 09:15 PM
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Removed. This isnt advice, it's your own issues and don't belong in someone else's post. If you have questions or concerns about your own relationship they belong in their own post.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 03:00 PM
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Men posting to RPW must be older, in a relationship and with TRP experience. If you do not meet these requirements please move along
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 02:57 PM
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❤️❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/25 02:23 PM
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Then perhaps it would be better to either: lurk and understand better OR pick another sub to frequent. Your answer here amounts to "sorry I said you are childish but you are" which is an interesting path to take.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/25 03:45 PM
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Tread carefully. We are not here to justify ourselves to you or anyone and you are being condescending. If people are kind enough to respond then be kind in turn. Just because you don't understand something doesn't make it wrong or childish or doormat behavior. This is a warning.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/25 02:35 PM
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Good for you but this isn't a dating sub. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/25 05:58 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/25 06:59 PM
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Why are you here if you don't agree with the theory?
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 05:34 PM
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Removed. There is a better way to say this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 08:17 PM
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There are some disagreements on this thread about what is and is not Red Pill. As /u/ArdentBandicoot writes down thread This subreddit has always been about self improvement, not getting a free ride, and it has never been about lifestyle but it is a toolbox. From the official axioms of RPW, when describing what makes us RPW instead of a generic sub, we believe: ... that if you want to have a good partner, you have to be a good partner. This means having some understanding of what men want in a p…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 08:15 PM
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Removed. Do not insult the OPs partner if you hope to have your advice heard.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 07:17 PM
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OP, if you do not participate in the comments this post will be considered a rant and locked/Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 12:30 PM
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RPW does not promote participation in hook up culture. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 01:40 PM
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I've banned the gentleman you are speaking with. There is no need for men to come in her and challenge your view of submission.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 10:40 PM
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Removed. "Leave him" is never the first advice given on RPW especially if the OP is married.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 09:11 PM
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OP, this is a reminder that you must participate in your post.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 07:58 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 07:56 PM
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Removed. Yes this is basic red pill 101 but it is neither actionable nor advice. Please stick to the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 06:41 PM
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Stop the tone policing. See u/countthebees responses to you as the values of the sub. This was not mean or incorrect and this debate is derailing the post.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 03:09 PM
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I didn't even check post history. We just don't need anyone coming in here to save us from ourselves. It is never the happily married ones who come to talk about how we are stupid is it? Sigh.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 06:59 PM
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I recognize the irony given the thread but... This user has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 06:31 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 03:53 PM
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We believe in gender differences on RPW And This is a 9 month old post And We are not here to answer men's questions
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 02:52 PM
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Also The phrase originates from a Latin legal principle, "exceptio probat regulam in casibus non exceptis," which translates to "the exception confirms the rule in cases not excepted". This means that if there's an exception to a rule, it proves that a general rule exists, even if that rule isn't explicitly stated. For example, a sign saying "No parking on Tuesday" implies that parking is generally allowed on other days.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 02:50 PM
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Your personal preferences are not advice and this post isn't about your fiance. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 11:52 AM
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OP, you were already warned by u/MoreThanPurple that we don't allow rant posts and you need to be willing to engage with the advice beyond arguments. Since the tone of your responses has not changed, I am locking this post. We are not a femcel sub and are only willing to help you if you are willing to help yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/25 03:23 PM
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Removed. This is not advice and this post isn't about your preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 07:32 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective and while everyone has value in a religious or humanistic sense, that does not equate with value on the dating market. Your past and your fertility do impact who will date you and thus your dating market value.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 07:31 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. No one here cares who you date.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 07:46 PM
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Removed. Your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 07:41 PM
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It's active now.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/25 08:49 PM
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There is no way for us to advise you if you don't go into detail and this isn't a rant sub. Ive removed the post but once you've edited to tell us more about the good and bad, I will reapprove
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/25 07:39 PM
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Advice must be from an RPW perspective. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 12:10 PM
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Removed. Advice must benefit the OP
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 11:52 AM
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You are going to the mat for someone who has never posted on the sub before but came in to lecture about the real definition of feminism. This is the sub's stance on the "that's not real feminism, I have the definition of real feminism" We do have women here who identify as feminists. However, when advice or conversation leans too far into defending feminism as a whole, we tend to remove. It is a balancing act but there is no reason to attempt the balance for someone who has never posted anythin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 05:23 PM
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Removed. We are anti feminist sub and do not need to be told the definition of "real feminism"
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 11:55 AM
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Please remember that we have a no feminism rule here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 12:33 AM
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FYI this comment was removed by Reddit's "be nicer" filters. So be nicer.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 12:23 AM
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I’m not here to argue or defend We do require participation on this sub. If you do not join in the conversation then the post will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 06:56 PM
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RPW does not specifically recommend women stay home. We are here to help women achieve their relationship goals ("a good relationship with a good man" from the sidebar). Those goals are up the the individual and RPW strategies are available whether you stay home or work.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/25 02:48 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable and we don't do blanket "men bad" statements here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/25 05:57 PM
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Advice has to be actionable not low effort. This is neither. Further, you can share stories as long as you aren't suggesting that what happened to your loved one WILL happen to OP - anecdote not being the same as data and all that. Comments are removed. If you decide to edit them let me know and I will reapprove.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/25 05:40 PM
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We are not a sub for complaining about our partners. If you are looking for advice, please create a post using the "guidelines for asking for advice" on our rules page. Otherwise this is an old thread and this comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 07:49 PM
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The sub is here to help women achieve their relationship goals. A woman who wants to marry young should be guided on that goal. Likewise, if a woman is in a no marriage lifetime LTR the advice should reflect her goals. An RPW truth is that your SMV is going to decrease over time making it harder to attract the man you want. This tends to lead to the advice to not squander your youth. What we do not do is say "x is the proper age to marry" or even that marriage is a requirement. That is left to a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/25 10:55 PM
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Advice on RPW must be from a red pill perspective. You have endorsed members disagreeing with you because your advice has not been particularly red pilled. They are not arguing with you because you are offending them, they are telling you the flaws in your thinking. Please consider spending more time with the content in the wiki before you give any further advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/25 10:27 PM
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Ok fun is over. It is clear that you only came here to argue with people. As advice goes, this is incomplete at best. Post is locked and for anyone reading further, consider what endorsed members are saying to be more in line with sub "approved" theory.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 10:59 PM
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Male led relationships are core to RPW. Comment removed. Please spend time understanding the ethos of the sub before commenting again.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/25 11:58 AM
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Advice must be from a red pill perspective, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/25 11:56 AM
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We do not allow advertising other subs here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/25 08:33 PM
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Removed. Off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/25 11:44 AM
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Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective. Inspiring commitment is absolutely Red Pill Women.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 06:05 PM
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Please ignore the trolls. His comment was removed and he was escorted out
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 02:56 PM
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Your own anxieties are not advice. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 07:58 PM
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RPW isn't really a sub for male participation. If this was a more recent post we would grant more leeway as long as you fit into the requirements for male participation. However this is an old post and the comments are removed as no one is discussing it any longer.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 12:36 PM
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We are a relationship sub for women to discuss and get advice from a red pill perspective. Beyond that I don't understand the question.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/25 06:13 PM
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Bored now. Goodbye
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 03:15 PM
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We are leaving up this chain of responses but RPWs are reminded that people with Endorsed Contributor flair have proven their RP knowledge* as applied to women* and their comments should be weighed much more heavily than passers by. u/0Contact0Indulgence if you ever again gatekeep this sub and try to tell women to go elsewhere, it will be an immediate ban. We do not treat anyone as beyond repair and we give advice for women. Acting like a doormat or against ones values is NOT for anyone's benefi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 02:46 PM
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The method encourages fighting with men? How does that work?
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/25 01:03 PM
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Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/25 03:55 PM
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The comment was removed and this was a warning. If you have additional questions about our sub rules you can shoot a message to modmail.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/25 01:55 PM
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Don't pet the unicorn. And if you are a man please review the sub rules for men. RP newbies, single men and young men starting out should be spending their time on TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/25 01:00 PM
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Advice must be from an RPW perspective. Waiting to be picked is not strategy. Insulting people for their choice of daring methods is not appropriate. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/25 05:18 PM
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Reapproved
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 03:25 PM
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I get it. That's why her comment here was removed as well, but all I can control is this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 03:04 PM
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/u/sunsista_ This is removed. Be polite or be quiet. We don't allow no true Scotsman arguments about RPW so I see no reason to allow them for race. /u/magicwood1994 your comment is also removed. please do not come to the sub just to talk about someone.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 02:35 PM
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It's as though they believe no woman ever gets married after she turns 30 🤦
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 11:43 PM
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This is a 10 month old post and you are a man posting here without reading the sub rules. Removed and move along.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 11:42 PM
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This isn't a sub for men to chat about male things. If men have questions they belong on the mens subs. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 11:39 PM
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RPW is relationship specific. If you are unaware of that please spend time with the wiki before you participate. If you are a man, please move on.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 11:36 PM
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Removed. Mod instructions are not up for debate. Whatever you think about her financial situation is not relevant. Additional comments or questions can be directed to modmail. cc u/chamomilemist
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 12:58 PM
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Ah but that would be you making an accusation and putting it on others to prove. If you want to be taken seriously, it doesn't work like that. Regardless, the book still has value even if the author is questionable.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 10:27 PM
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Removed. The OP has stated her intention regarding this.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 05:59 PM
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Hi RPW: This post has been crossposted to our friends at r/feminism. As a note, anyone commenting who has no previous activity on RPW will be removed and banned. We do not tolerate brigading from other subs.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 05:03 PM
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Removed. This isn't about you and your plates.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 01:58 PM
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Her book is recommended here. This is an accusation we've never heard but frankly, it doesn't change the value of the book.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 08:45 PM
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. At least now, I know not to ask very specific questions because some men will not be honest and only say what you want to hear. I rely on how they talk about adjacent subjects and their actions relating to those subjects instead. This would make for an excellent field report or theory post if you ever feel like elaborating on the idea.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 02:18 PM
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No one is jealous and if you are going to take that perspective and argue advice due to cultural differences, then this isn't the sub for you. Please be polite and non combative. If culture plays a role then you should put that in the OP. RP is generally a western creation so that is the starting point you will get advice from.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 02:06 PM
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Removed for insults. If you remove the insults, the comment will be reapproved.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 06:04 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. If you would like to remove the snark at one of our endorsed members, I will reapprove the comment.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 06:03 PM
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This has been auto removed by Reddit's abuse filter. This message is a warning. Be polite or be quiet. Additional comments like this will result in a sub ban.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 11:33 AM
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We do not allow rants as a rule. Your post has been allowed to stay up but we are not preventing people from discussing your opinions. Further, the main driving idea of this sub is male led relationships. Women not working is not specifically an rpw value thus the disagreement. If you think otherwise then you should spend some time reading the wiki..
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 11:22 AM
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Men's questions do not belong on rpw.removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 11:14 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 04:39 PM
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Removed. No moralizing
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 07:34 PM
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I just banned this one. Too much anger phase not enough brains.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 02:35 PM
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If this is a question please use more words to tell me what you do not understand.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 03:46 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. RPW is amoral and so we don't discuss things in terms of sin. Additionally, there is no one true way to be RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 03:44 PM
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Removed. Advice must benefit the woman and you too are on an internet advice forum so don't be hypocritical about the people who come here for advice. This is all very male-centric and guilt trippy. Men belong on the mens subs so please redirect your energy there.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 07:21 PM
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Removed. This post isn't about your feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 10:55 AM
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Removed. This push back on a woman who trusts her husband is entirely inappropriate on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 10:48 AM
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Removed. This push back on a woman who trusts her husband is entirely inappropriate on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 10:47 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet and also advice must come from and RPW perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 08:47 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:48 PM
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Removed. This is not actionable for the OP. As we say to men: your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:48 PM
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Attention RPW: advice needs to be actionable for the OP. Anything telling her she's hit the wall (without actionable advice) will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:47 PM
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This account has been banned for sliding into DMs. If you see this behavior please let us know in modmail. RPW is not a dating sub and men here should already be partnered off rather than desperately seeking female attention. The comment has been left up to allow for mockery.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 08:43 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 07:16 PM
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When advising a specific type of man, it is necessary to consider the relationship risks of each type. Every woman must chose their own risk level and a so called "nerdy simp" will not work for everyone. From the wiki: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index/tableofcontents/typesofguys
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 09:51 AM
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We are on a red pill sub and use red pill terminology. Both the terms and this sub predate the rise of Andrew Tate. Comment removed
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/25 04:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/kobBMELBU4 Red Pill Women utilize it as a strategy separate from religious connotations
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 07:36 PM
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While u/countthebees is still around, this is an old post so not many will see it. You may get more feedback if you post it as it's own new post. 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 08:37 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable for the OP
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/25 12:31 PM
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Hello rpw, This post has caught the attention of a sub that is not aligned with RPW values and are attempting to brigade this post. If you don't have an RPW post history, you should not be commenting here and will be met with bans. If you've posted on this sub before then you are in the clear.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/25 12:27 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet and if you don't know what the sub is about please read our pinned getting started post
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 02:03 PM
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Removed..be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/25 07:50 PM
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OP, you deleted your last post which is against the rules of the sub. People spend time giving advice and deleting the post means that it is not available for others who may be in a similar situation. Future deletion will result in you not being allowed to post on RPW again. This is just a warning.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/25 05:22 PM
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It's been pretty quiet around here lately and particularly on the weekends. It might help to delete it and repost Monday morning. I can't promise it will help but it will bump up your post when people are sitting at desks and kids are in school
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/25 10:19 PM
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Shoot a message to modmail when you do. We can manually approve good faith posts. The karma rules are to keep out trolls and spam.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/25 01:38 PM
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You are welcome to post on the sub for help and support but you can't hijack someone else's post and you cannot solicit DMs. Comment removed but please don't hesitate to post asking the community for advice in your own post.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/25 12:48 PM
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Removed. Low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/25 11:55 AM
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Removed. No feminism
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/25 11:49 AM
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You are correct. We moderate speech to keep the community red pilled and to keep out the riff raff such as yourself. If you think there is free speech on Reddit you are wildly naive.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 03:33 PM
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Removed. RPW is a toolbox and there is no one "true red pill woman"
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 03:26 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 09:53 PM
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Removed. Personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 08:40 PM
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Do you have your own advice because otherwise this is a low effort comments and has been removed as such.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 07:29 PM
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If you think our sub is all men making fake posts then leave. We don't need the attitude or insults.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/25 12:32 PM
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Removed. Do not insult the community.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/25 10:26 PM
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Great. It's a fair topic but sometimes we get men in here trying to pick our brains for their own benefit. Had to check!! :-)
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 12:01 AM
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Are you a woman asking this question?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 10:41 PM
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Removed & banned. We aren't here for you to cosplay as a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/25 06:06 PM
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Removed. You are posting on a year old post where there is no longer a discussion to be had. Move to current posts or move along.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/25 07:20 PM
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Removed. You seem to have a lot a negativity about men. We are more charitable here because we understand that the culture and the markets effect us all. Please get a feel for the sub's values before you comment more. We are red pill in the style of the aughts, not the newer move to trad values. While all are welcome here ... All are welcome here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/25 01:05 PM
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Personal preferences are not advice. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/24 09:05 PM
1

Removed. No religion.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/24 09:04 PM
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Removed. Rule 0
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/24 03:46 PM
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We do not encourage divorce here except for extreme situations and not without having a back and forth with the OP first. If you think that the discussion of separation needs to be allowed so "women understand what they want" then it's not the sub for you. The idea of RPW is to fix a relationship not to convince ourselves that we are unhappy. I read your initial comment and I also share Ardie's interpretation. If you do believe in fixing a relationship rather than considering divorce then you ar…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 07:42 PM
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If you are a man and not red pilled then you are not permitted to give advice in this sub. Please move along
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 05:29 PM
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No low effort comments. Removed unless you want to expand on your answer
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/24 03:06 PM
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They were created by the men who built the place. But thank you for your input. You are dismissed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 06:32 PM
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Removed. Your personal preferences aren't advice and don't supercede someone else's experience. Also this is a year old post. Please review the rules for male participation.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 06:28 PM
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Removed low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 04:04 PM
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Comment removed. Men must be married, older and have RP experience. You are still dating and your last comment was seeking DMs from one of our OPs. You are excused from the sub as you do not meet our requirements for men. /u/One-Introduction-566 Please be careful about men here telling you what you want to hear. They come to "pet the unicorns" which is, to tell us how wonderful we are and how it's not our fault. That isn't helpful because you can only change yourself. Further, this commenter isn…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 09:42 PM
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Removed. Low effort, not RPW. If you are a man then you shouldn't be here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 12:25 AM
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RPW is not a place to explore or discuss the issues you have in your marriage. Please visit r/marriedredpill for that. Comments are removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/24 07:04 PM
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It is amazing that some people equate 'being agreeable' and 'being weak'. I'd hate to have those people in my life personally. I'm so happy that you've gotten helpful advice though!!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 03:29 PM
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Removed. Do not insult the community.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 02:12 PM
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It is her second post in less than 24 hours. Thus the warning.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 01:05 AM
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OP: we are not here for uninterested parties to study us. If you are going to put up threads then you need to participate in them or we will remove the posts.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 12:42 AM
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Just to add, on old reddit the downvote button was removed on the sub. The idea was to upvote positive stuff and force discussion if you disagreed with someone. The apps never had this feature so anyone using the app can downvote. I don't know if it's there in new reddit or not. All this is to say that the original mods who predate even me, agreed with you that downvotes are not helpful. Unfortunately there isn't much we can do to mod the votes since we don't have the tools to track that. And wi…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 05:48 PM
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This is not a sub for men. Please move along.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 07:35 PM
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Then the additional rule you are breaking is insulting the OPs man and moralizing. Take a break from this post. Nothing you said is appropriate here. u/morethanpurple
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 06:21 PM
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Removed off topic and no self promotion without approval.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/24 03:51 PM
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Hello OP, You will notice this post has been locked. We, as a mod team, feel that you have not spent the time implementing the RPW knowledge that you have gained from other posts and hopefully, the wiki/sidebar. From your past posts, you have been unable to stick with anything for longer than a few weeks to a month. The fact that you are back to being a Muslim convert now just speaks to this. We are teetering on "beyond the scope of RPW" territory. You truly seem to need in person help and somet…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/24 03:10 PM
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Could you please provide some details on the relationship you have/had with the man in question. The community can give better advice if they understand who he is to you a but more.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 06:45 PM
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This is a weird comment and I think your talk to text may be at fault.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 06:43 PM
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This is not RPW advice.. removed
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:55 PM
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OP if you do not participate in this thread I will assume you are not a real woman and remove the post.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:53 PM
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Removed. No feminism
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:51 PM
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No snark, especially your first comment on the sub. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 03:10 PM
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I know you generally count yourself as a feminist but this is just "ugh feminist" behavior. I prefer that they stay on PPD with the MRAs, yell past each other, and leave us alone. :-P
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 03:15 PM
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This is specifically an anti-feminist group and you are commenting on an old post. Feminists don't support the subs values. But go on about how we don't support women because we don't support your comment. That will convince us all that feminists have our best interests at heart.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 03:13 PM
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If all she wanted to do was support women then credit wouldn't be necessary. Apparently it isn't all about supporting women by amplifying the message since the message was quite clear without the professor's CV included.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 03:06 PM
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Hi RPW, /u/CountTheBees linked this post: "For Women Only - Men are Visual and it is a great recommendation because it's a core piece of RPW reading. I'm adding this to bump it to the top as it is extremely relevant to this discussion. While I recommend everyone reads the post or better yet, the book, here are some key excerpts from the post: Regardless of whether or not they want it, the wiring of the male brain creates a instinctive pull to visually consume the image of an attractive woman. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 08:27 PM
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Please remember that you must participate in the comments of your post. If you ask a question and leave we will remove the post.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/24 10:02 PM
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Talking to men is not anti RPW. It can be good practice for women struggling to date. Initiating is not anti RPW, think dropping the handkerchief Walking away from a man who wants to spin plates is a good move. She didn't have casual sex. Further this is an OP who has been struggling with her worth. This IS a good experience for her in light of her past struggles. You are moralizing and that doesn't belong here. RPW isn't here to support only the goodest girls with a particular value system. It …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 12:38 PM
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I would like to further explanation as to why you think the OP messed up. Otherwise this appears to be catastophizing at best and deliberately negging the OP at worst. Please explain and I will reapproved the comments. Until then they are removed as being in bad faith
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 05:43 AM
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RPW: This is an OP asking for help. Focus on advice rather than telling her that she messed up and that open relationships are bad. All comments telling her that she messed up or jumping to "leave him" will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 01:29 PM
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Removed. Leave him is never the first advice given. Please read the community rules
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 06:18 AM
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OP, please remember that you must participate in the comments section of your post. If you have disappeared it will be locked for further comments. This post is locked for non response from OP. If you would like to have it unlocked send us a message in modmail
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/24 06:01 PM
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You are not wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/24 04:02 PM
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This is a friendly reminder that all advice on this sub needs to come from a Red Pill perspective. If you don't understand what a red pill woman is then you should spend time with the wiki before giving advice!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/24 11:48 PM
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This was a field report not an OP asking for advice. Comment is removed. If you are a man and you aren't married, older and have experience on TRP/MRP then you can't be here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 09:04 PM
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Yeah, some people can't get past their own hang ups. This guy was apparently one of them. 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/24 03:41 PM
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I am removing the above user. Since OP has answered and the q & a may provide information for other advice, I will not remove the comment but the user does not know how to communicate with a woman seeking help and so cannot participate any longer.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/24 01:55 PM
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Removed. Entirely incorrect sub for you. Move along
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/24 01:47 PM
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Removed. Advice must come from a red pill perspective. "Be you" is blue pill at it's finest.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 11:41 AM
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From your comments, it sounds like you want validation and not help or advice. We don't do validation here. Thread is locked. You can contact us in modmail to appeal this decision.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/24 12:20 PM
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Removed. Advice must benefit the woman asking for advice.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 10:33 PM
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You obviously have a bone to pick with someone but you aren't going to do it here. Dismissed. You can yell at us in modmail if you so desperately need a platform
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 08:09 PM
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That's fine. This isnt' a warning and it sounds like the OP is open to you getting into more details in the thread. I just read what you were saying and I'm pretty sure that a post that discusses it in a global way would be something that would be valuable to the community. It's a sticky topic and very few women have experience dealing with it. I'll leave it up to you whether you'd be interested in doing this. If you do want to and would like to talk it through, feel free to drop me a DM.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 03:24 PM
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This is a topic that comes up more frequently than anyone would like. If you have more experience that the average person we would even be open to a post directed at women to guide and educate ladies who experience this in their relationships (or are still vetting their new guys). We have all relationship statuses around here from women who are single and looking for how to vet men through women who have been married for decades and we have seen it come up within all groups.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 03:14 PM
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We aren't here to compare genders or do a whaboutism..removed and dismissed
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/24 11:01 AM
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I do not think you have the skills to translate male RP into something that is understandable to women. I suspect that you are not in an ltr or married as is our requirement. And yes I will ban you and ban evasion is against the rules from Reddit proper. They ban IP addresses when they are ticked off enough.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 01:46 PM
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You have tried to post here a few times and we do not believe that you understand the nuance of RP for women well enough to be a male contributor to the sub..please move along. RPW is not for you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 12:42 PM
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Removed off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 10:13 PM
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Removed. No concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 07:23 PM
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After reviewing /u/Astroviridae's comment - she is correct. You have past post deletions and have asked similar questions about the same relationship repeatedly. I am removing this post. If you would like to discuss why you should be able to post in spite of the past deletions and what changes you have implemented from previous advice, please message us in modmail. Otherwise this post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 01:25 PM
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It's a valid comment but it's useless unless you give her more help and guidance. If you want to edit the comment to contain actionable advice, then I'll be happy to reapprove it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/24 09:59 PM
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Removed. There is no actionable advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/24 09:53 PM
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Advice must be from an RPW perspective. Advice must benefit the woman in the OP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 12:21 PM
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We are not the men's locker room on RPW. Be polite or be quiet. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 12:17 PM
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Removed. Advice must be actionable. "it depends" is not actionable. Also please be aware that men participating here need to be older, married/LTRed and have TRP experience. You have had nearly all your comments removed for one reason or another and I think this might not be the sub to focus your time on.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 10:44 PM
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Leave him is never the first advice given. It is fair for the OP to decide to leave. Before we recommend that on this sub, we offer solutions to help the OP turn her relationship around. It is incredibly easy to sit behind a keyboard and tell someone to upend their life, but none of us are the ones who have to live with the consequences. This is a rule if you wish to participate here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 07:46 PM
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Removed. Leave him should never be the first option. There is a lot of catastrophizing in this comment that is not supported by the OP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 05:40 PM
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Removed. Do not insult an OP's partner.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 02:35 PM
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Try The Alpha Woman's Guide to Men and Marriage if you don't like Laura Doyle.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/24 11:18 AM
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Generally we encourage people to not give advice if they don't have their lives together. Just because you would want to be in this position doesn't mean that it's a good one to be in or that your advice is sound. Comment is removed and consider doing more reading and fixing yourself before you give advice to others
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 08:14 PM
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Good Luck! And as you start to read, if you find you have questions or need guidance on particular issues, don't hesitate to put up a post. The community is here to help :-)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 09:13 PM
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Oh I see what you mean. Ruby never continued the series after the three posts for single ladies. You could probably start with Fascinating Womanhood and For Women Only which have been summarized in our wiki. The Back to Basic's - Submission as Strategy post contains a lot of links explaining the concept and that is another good starting point for most relationships. And of course the wiki: Everything you need to know about RPW has a mix of all the posts we think are worth visiting, though not al…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 09:02 PM
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What are you looking for specifically? There is a lot of content, some geared towards those in relationships, some for the single ladies and some that encompasses both.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 08:49 PM
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RPW is not a debate sub and men who are here must be here presenting an RP perspective. This is not the sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 03:23 PM
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Removed. This isn't helpful on so many levels. Behave.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/24 11:47 AM
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Removed. Men's questions are not permitted on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/24 12:17 PM
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Please be aware that deleting posts is against our rules. This is a warning and future deletions will result in you no longer being able to post on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 06:33 PM
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The OP is Jewish (see comment below) don't gatekeep and definitely don't incorrectly gatekeep..
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 04:18 PM
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You may want to check OPs post history. She has been struggling with her marriage and putting in the work for years now. I get where you are coming from but her husband does have some mental health issues and reliable narrator or not, she has been trying to fix it for quite some time. They are well past "early in the marriage"
/r/RedPillWives25/08/24 11:24 AM
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HA! Well word vomit all over a post. I think so many of us write our best advice in comments that then get buried in threads. Look forward to seeing what else you have to say.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 06:14 PM
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If you feel like elaborating, this is an excellent start to a post that would probably be helpful to a lot of people.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 06:07 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 01:44 PM
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What we all share is not a lifestyle, a set of values, or a worldview, but a way of relating to men. Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective. The way of relating to men that we all share is a male led relationship. Not some of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 11:45 PM
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Removed. Your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 02:11 PM
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Removed. No one automatically deserves to be paid for. Advice must come from an RPW perspective. Entitlement is not part of that
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 02:10 PM
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You can read the OP's update. Comments like these are not helpful, and not supported by the OP's post or update. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 12:06 PM
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Once again, do not ask people to self dox. I see only that you spend time on PPD. If you have no history with TRP or MRP you shouldn't' be here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 09:49 PM
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OP I'm locking this thread. It does not appear to me that you want to understand anything, rather you are arguing with whatever anyone tells you. We are not a debate sub and we aren't here to convince you of our ideas. Please try to read the 2 posts that are pinned at the top of the sub before trying to participate on the sub as advice around here must be from a red pill perspective. If you have any questions you can message us in modmail.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 12:05 PM
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Just a heads up, it looks like you've been shadow banned by Reddit. You will need to appeal that to the Reddit Admins to get that corrected. I manually approved the comments for now.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/24 05:27 PM
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This post is locked. No one here is jealous of your delusion and we won't waste anymore time trying to help you see reason.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 09:15 PM
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Removed. No advertising outside subs
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 02:19 PM
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This is a reminder not to abandon your post. If you don't participate we will have to lock the post.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 09:14 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 12:13 PM
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Fear mongering isn't advice. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 07:10 PM
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How do they come to the bright pink sub and think that they are speaking to other men..I'll never understand
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 09:42 PM
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We suggest that men who wish to post here are older, married and have red pill experience. Since you also have not included descriptions on this book list it is difficult for us to determine whether these books follow red pill theory or not. As such this post is removed
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 02:31 PM
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Removed. This isn't actionable advice
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 01:48 PM
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Great! then I will lock the post for you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 11:13 PM
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It is completely reasonable to suggest that you modify the post to get the answers you are looking for. Be polite or be quiet. This comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 11:11 PM
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This is not helpful or kind. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 01:10 PM
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Comment removed. "You cannot negotiate attraction" is an RP tenet. Wanting to be attracted to your partner is not shallow.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 02:44 PM
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And it is not exclusively up to the mods to write theory. Every single mod and EC was writing theory first. If women want more theory then they should be writing more theory. This has always been an issue. The general membership asks for things they are unwilling to contribute the labor to themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 11:53 AM
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I see a lot of participation from you today. Please read our rules for men and understand that in order to be qualified to participate here, men must be older, partnered (married or LTRed) and have experience giving advice to men in the men's spaces. If you aren't also participating on the men's subs, that is where you should focus your attention. Comment is removed and please redirect yourself as appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 09:11 PM
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Removed. Advice needs to be actionable for the OP
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 09:29 PM
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Oh oops. That gentleman has been excused from the sub so he's not here to explain. Telling you to embody divine masculine is not RPW in the slightest so I'm removing that advice from the sub but you could DM him if you are curious.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 04:03 PM
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Post removed. Difficult formatting and off topic for this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 11:47 AM
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I think you are missing some points in the situation. Please remember that men must be older, married and have a post history on the men's RP subs. If you do not fit these qualifications you probably should not be giving advice on RPW. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 02:25 PM
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In modmail these types are always married to virgin sex kittens and have been involved in red pill for four decades...or I'm a bigot for assuming their gender. But they forget that everyone can see their post history. And for goodness sakes woman, go have that coffee!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 12:39 PM
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Oh sigh. All you know is rhetoric and have no life experience to back it up. You are excused.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 11:54 AM
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Here's the deal: Reddit has a new filter that automatically removes things they call "abuse and harassment" your comment got caught up by that filter so Reddit thinks your comment was inappropriate. This is our sub and you are a new visitor. Perhaps you need to spend time with the rules before you continue here but this attitude is not permitted. If you knew what was relevant, you wouldn't be here asking questions.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/24 09:28 PM
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Behave yourself. You asked for advice on a public forum and nothing /u/Jenneapolis said was incorrect or irrelevant. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/24 08:49 PM
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I'm the mod that the OP got into it with. I'd be happy to explain what the sub is supposed to be if you are interested (and if not I'll wander away and not step on any toes here). Our sub was set up and run by the TRP men in conjunction with the women they recruited until they built their own platform off site. Ultimately any sub can have the best theory base in the world but the users will always be the wild card.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 08:56 PM
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Comment removed. You were banned for a reason. Coming back and making an edit to justify yourself is sad.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/24 12:02 AM
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OP you must participate in your post or it will be removed. We don't allow rants and a lack of participation will lead to the assumption that you just wanted to rant about red pill and don't care for answers or corrections to your own logic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/24 12:22 PM
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It is clear that you do not know the meaning of "objective". Everything you wrote was your opinion and thus subjective. Men are not permitted here for the most part because you are bad at giving advice. I suggest you move on from RPW. It's not for you. cc: /u/ChamomileMist
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/24 05:37 PM
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The comment you are trying to reply to has already been removed and the user banned. And he's off complaining on another sub that he was banned so apparently we hurt his fees fees.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 07:21 PM
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Removed. Have your own shit together before you try to give advice to others or you end up doing this blackpill nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 12:19 PM
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Please elaborate which comments you see that point to the OP having these issues or I will assume you are negging and remove your comment with the warning that men are discouraged from being here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 03:18 PM
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RPW is not for men's questions. Further, if you have to ask the question "why remain sexless during the dating phase" then you do not know enough about this sub or the theory to be participating here. Please move along. cc: /u/HappySpinningSeal
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 12:51 PM
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Starred and endorsed member as well as endorsed TRP members are given more leeway because most of them have written the content that is the backbone of the sub. If you have a problem with a member you can hit the report button or bring it up in modmail and we will be happy to discuss it with you further.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 08:44 PM
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Members are starred and endorsed when they have demonstrated a firm handle on RP and RPW knowledge. We recommend the community carry their advice with more weight than non-starred /endorsed members. This keeps Red Pill Women red pill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:45 PM
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Advice must benefit women. Freshandfit do not benefit women. Removed. Men are discouraged from participating here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/24 09:21 PM
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Yup. On his way out
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 12:14 PM
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You should also check out the OYS on r/redpillwives. That happens on Thursdays so you are perfectly time.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 02:57 PM
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Well I certainly have that ability.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/24 10:33 PM
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Comment removed. This is not red pill advice it's paranoia
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 11:11 PM
2

Aww you are an NPC. How cute.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/24 11:08 PM
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What sort of nonsense is this. You can be red pill and have any income. It is about how you interact with each other not some antiquated checklist
/r/RedPillWives04/04/24 08:13 PM
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Advice on RPW must be for womens benefit. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 08:53 PM
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Rude, dismissive, complaining about everything This is something that I've run into as a mod on many occasions. It is always the "White Knight" types who get the angriest and most dismissive when they are corrected or banned. These are the men that think they are defending women and being what they think is the good ideal supportive man. Then when they are told they aren't actually being the good ideal supportive man, they have, far and away, the worst insults for the mod team. It's whiplash the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 01:36 PM
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You are right that we are not pointed towards spiritual development. That's simply not what the concepts were founded around and not the area of improvement that they are meant to tackle. Every sub "over mods". The open secret is that there isn't free speech within any reddit community. RPW isn't the public square. We are a knitting circle and we remove people that come in to kickbox. There is simply no way to retain topical communities if we let open speech reign supreme. The more niche the com…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/24 06:09 PM
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There are plenty of reasons to wait, even as a non virgin. "Just be discerning" is too vague to be a true caveat to your advice. Further, there are enough women here who waited and are now happily married. Saying that no man will wait is not reflective of the actual facts on the ground. Advice on this sub must benefit the woman. RPW understands the push pull between men and women and attempts to work with it. Still we have our own goals and our own responsibilities to ourselves. This is likely n…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/24 04:02 PM
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This is removed. Questions from men are not permitted and questions on behalf of others ("how do I red pill my sister/mother/friend") are not permitted. On a personal note - I would consider this wildly overstepping if one of my professionals did this to me, further I work in a similar profession and it would be considered wildly inappropriate if we engaged in this manner with our clients. You may want to think twice here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 08:39 PM
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Removed. This is both off topic and a wall of unreadable text. Single men do not belong on RPW. Please move along.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 02:34 PM
1

Removed. This isn't about you. Please review the rules for men before continuing to post.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 02:18 PM
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Removed Rule 0. See also rules for male participation. You probably don't belong here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 12:57 PM
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Removed no moralizing
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 11:12 AM
1

Removed. Your personal preferences are not advice
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 04:48 PM
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Advice must be from a red pill women's perspective. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 02:22 PM
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Removed for obvious reasons. Advice must be rpw and all that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 05:47 PM
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Removed. Leave him is never first advice particularly when a marriage and kids are involved.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 11:28 PM
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This comment is removed. It will only cause unnecessary debate that will not aid the OP in anyway. There are people of all stripes on this sub, we are not here to debate and honestly, it has zero to do with the situation. tldr: know your audience.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/24 02:44 PM
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Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/24 09:21 PM
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OP- you seem to have disappeared. You must participate in your post or it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 06:14 PM
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It is the mods job to moderate the sub. This means making sure it stays red pill, continues to help women achieve their goals and uphold the rules. Your advice was counter to the OPs goals and you are a man who does not belong here. Your comment was removed but arguing with us is a good way to get banned.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 06:39 PM
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1 star from /u/Wife_and_Mama for a great comment. Keep up the good work!!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 12:54 AM
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The snark about what other people choose is unnecessary (see here for additional explanation ). Comment is removed for snark.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 03:38 PM
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RPW focuses on vetting but we also discuss what are reasonable standards to have. It is not uncommon for women to have standards above what the dating market supports. You are competing for a man. You have to understand what expectations are normal and reasonable and what expectations are too high and will likely result in your nexting good men until you are finally forced to settle. The OP is welcome to have whatever standards she likes. RPW is here to advise her when those standards might not …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 02:51 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Comment removed
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/24 05:38 PM
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Ok then. You are dismissed
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/24 12:19 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:24 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:24 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. And if you are a man and you are here, you probably shouldn't be.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 05:08 PM
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with the understanding that the title is intended to be ironic 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 11:16 PM
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OP, you must participate in your post or it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 12:49 PM
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Hi /u/Plus_Maintenance1647 for some reason, reddit keeps removing these comments and won't let us manually approve them. I think it's an issue with the link but I don't know how to tell you to fix it. But just so you know, the two comments with the bodysuit link are removed and can't be made visible. Sorry!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 01:14 AM
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Removed. You already posted this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 05:37 PM
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Please add line breaks at this is very difficult to read.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 03:41 PM
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Sounds good. I only pressed because you didn't have any other post history and sometimes that means someone trolling for fake posting. Take your time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 03:13 PM
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This was reported and is getting downvotes. However, u/Ok_Statement1451 isn't a man and is giving actionable advice that isn't out of line with RP. Whether you agree with the suggestion or not, it is a quick easy fix that gives the OP a vetting opportunity to see if there are any actions she can take to mitigate the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 02:56 PM
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OP, please remember to participate in the post. If you post and disappear it will be taken down.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 02:46 PM
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The comment had been removed. Advice must be actionable and blanket "men bad" won't fly on this sub either.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:21 PM
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You are welcome. Your situation is nothing if not complex. Strict RP interpretations do not fit what seem to be going on. However, you will get a lot of people (mostly men but women too) that think that you can apply the basic RP theory of dating to any and all scenarios even though individual relationships are individual. For the record, we are open to all kinds of relationships. There are women here who are involved in polyamory, women into bdsm, women in long term relationships with no intere…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 06:02 PM
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This back and forth is silly both of you. /u/AnonTheGreat01 is correct that this isn't any different than the idea that you pay your landlords mortgage. If the OP is getting a raw deal, this is not the sticking point. She will pay considerably more if she moves out, rents her own place and pays the utilities. However, suggesting that this is an issue of math skills rather than values and interpretation is absurd as well. It is an insult and suggesting that it isn't shows a lack of understanding …
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 05:53 PM
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He's been banned. Men who are angry at their own relationships do not belong giving advice to anyone else. You shouldn't even bother justifying yourself to these sorts of comments.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 05:48 PM
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If you consider yourself red pill then this amount of moralizing should embarrass you. You are dismissed. You have nothing of value to offer this woman's marriage by extension, the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 05:47 PM
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Religion is not RPW advice. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 01:15 PM
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Religion is not RPW advice
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 01:15 PM
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Religion is not RPW advice. Comment is removed
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 12:16 AM
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You also asked advice on what to do about this man and now you have deleted him. Ergo, your post has run its course
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 03:16 PM
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If you don't intend to follow red pill advice then I am removing this post. We aren't here to give you attention and validation.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 03:08 PM
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Have you heard the term NPC? 😂
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 01:33 AM
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It is not. They can take the same information and come to different conclusions on life strategy. That isn't our problem. If you wish to understand it has been written about in the wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 11:15 PM
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I will lock the post. You can remove yourself from the group, just show some self control and don't come to this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 06:41 PM
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OP, we do not allow rants. If you wish to have a discussion then you must participate. Otherwise this will be removed. Edit: At the OP's request we are locking the post. It does not indicate an understanding of RPW theory but the comments do so I will leave them up for others to read.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 06:39 PM
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OP abuse is beyond the scope of RPW and is something you should be working with your therapist on. If you feel that, in spite of stating it in your title, this is not an abusive situation, then you need to answer the guidelines for asking relationship advice. The post is removed. If you decide to rewrite it, let us know in modmail and we will reapprove. Guidelines for Asking Relationship Questions If you are asking a personal relationship question, please answer the following questions: *What is…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 03:15 PM
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Your premise is that women are so picky that once they choose a man, breaking up with him is a "terrible thing to do". That completely goes against the concept of vetting which is something of a first principle on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 02:28 PM
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Advice must be in women's interest. There are relationships that do not work out. We are careful at RPW to not blow up a marriage at the first sign of problem but we also must be careful not to hold onto a bad relationship just because a man is attractive. Please remember that most men are not welcome on RPW because they are not able to give advice that truly benefits women while remaining rp. You may fall into this category
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 02:03 PM
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Bdsm can fall under the RPW umbrella. We are not tradcon and if trad values do not apply to an OP should be considered when giving advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 01:59 PM
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We are a subreddit based on a particular set of theories. So yes, advice around here needs to be from an RPW perspective. Casual sex is not recommended for a myriad of reasons. Do not condescend, it's childish. A cult is also not a website where you can come and go, they ask things of their membership, require them to distance from their friends and loved ones, require they associate only with the cult. Let's be realistic here. Further, I did not remove your initial comment, just the one where y…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 02:04 PM
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Casual sex is not recommended in RPW. There are plenty of reasons to not engage in casual sex and that is the approach we take here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 01:49 PM
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RPW: Please remember that advice needs to be actionable and for the OP. Telling her that she is bad or that her man should leave her is not actionable and it's not for her benefit. If you don't have advice in this vein then you do not have advice and should move on to a different thread.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 04:57 PM
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Advice must be actionable and for the OP. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 04:55 PM
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He is not here and you cannot change someone who is not in the room asking for help. Advice must be directly for the OP - NOT what the man needs to do. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 04:44 PM
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OP please remember that deleting posts is against the rules. If you continue to do so you will not be allowed to ask advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 02:11 PM
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If you've done a deep dive on how to deal with porn addiction, we would looooove to see a post or two on the topic. It is not covered in the wiki and has become a much more common issue over the years and I don't believe there is solid RPW advice or info surrounding it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 03:26 PM
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Removed. Advice must be advice and actionable. Insulting someone's partner or family is rarely a good way to start.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 09:23 PM
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From the OP: I know that he's not cheating on me, so no "the accuser is usually the one doing what they're accusing" comments. Comment is removed. It contains no advice and there is no indication of cheating from the OP or her comments. Advice must be both RP and actionable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 04:32 PM
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Once someone mentioned suicide or abuse, these things become something we consider "beyond the scope" of an internet subreddit. If this was a flippant comment, please edit it. If you are truly feeling suicidal then we will lock the post and the advice becomes that you need to talk to someone in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 02:58 PM
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OP, we are so sorry to hear that you are having mental health issues over your boyfriends desires. Unfortunately suicide and body dysmorphia are beyond the scope of RPW and need to be treated and discussed with an real life person or therapist. I am removing this thread as we will not be responsible for further instigating your extreme discomfort with this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 12:58 PM
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The RPW Wiki on N-Count. There are many links within links in this post and I am not repeating them here. However here are a couple other potentially relevant posts: Buy Matching Luggage, carry it together Late to the red pill, part 1 Passion Why buy the cow
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:51 PM
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Enough people have suggested that the OP's man may be cheating. Further suggestions for this or divorce will be met with a temporary ban. If you intend to give her help it must be in the form of telling her how to work through this in an RPW fashion. OP, the following are the guidelines for asking for advice. Please edit your post with additional information. There is too much coming out in the comments and your post itself does not contain enough information for us to give you helpful advice. I…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:43 PM
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Comments removed. I understand that you think this is fake. The OP messaged the mods for approval and we decided it wasn't fake. Either give advice or move on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 04:32 PM
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Comment is still removed because we don't want to hear about your uncle spinning plates. It's in the rules for men.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 12:53 PM
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No one wants to hear about some guys plates. Comments removed. Men must be older and married to participate here
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 12:42 PM
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Removed. This is not actionable nor entirely true. If you believe that people are hopeless then do not comment on RPW. We believe there are strategies that help tip the scales.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 01:56 PM
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Removed.. advice must be actionable and for the OP. This is a humble brag that helps no one.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 01:54 PM
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The above comment has already been deleted but please remember that we do not encourage "leaving him" as the first option, this is especially the case when it's a one off comment on a post.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 09:58 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. /u/Specialist-Mail-1921 is stating basic RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 08:03 PM
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Removed. RPW is a space for women to work on their relationship goals. RPW are not saints and neither are RPMen. If you are here to complain about women, move along.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 06:48 PM
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No, we do not allow for advertising on our syb
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 10:04 PM
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I just checked and the username as it's written does not exist on Reddit. I'll bring it up to the mods privately but for now I'm going to leave up the post since I cannot find the "original" account that it would be copied from.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 03:53 PM
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the one on r/rateme appears to be her username to me, am I missing something? Kinda sick today so ELI5
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 03:38 PM
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Removed. We do not allow cross posts and this seems to be written for men not women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 03:05 PM
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She is here asking for help. This is not help. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 12:15 AM
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You would be incorrect. u/astroviridae is correct about the goals of RPW in her answer below.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 11:08 PM
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Behave yourself. You asked for opinions and that is what you are being given. The snark is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 01:42 PM
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RPW has allowed male voices for at least 7 years now. If you are concerned about it changing tone, understand that it has always been this way and is unlikely to change. Also RPW is not strictly trad and allowing men prevents it from becoming something other than Red Pill.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:40 PM
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We are not here for non red pilled people to ask questions and study us. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:25 PM
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Removed, not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 12:58 PM
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We are not here to answer men's questions. We are also discussing actual relationships, not kink or porn. If you are not married, older and a long time TRP contributor then RPW is not the sub for you to be participating on. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 03:28 PM
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check the snark. Women do not need to justify their goals on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 04:32 PM
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be careful here. "Leave him" should never be the first advice given. If the OP wants to work on her marriage, it is not your place to tell her that she should not.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 02:49 PM
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This is too big for me to tackle these days but you should put up a standalone post because the community can help you out here. 🙂 Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 01:47 PM
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He was prepubescent before it was a trend and has been excused from this year old post and the sub 🤦
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 07:47 PM
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17 year old boys are not allowed to participate on RPW. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 07:45 PM
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Women on this sub who aren’t even married love scaring other women into having kids sooner than 35 because they had fertility issues. Yes, we do recommend people have kids before 35 because of the statistics and because of declining fertility. If you don't like that you do not have to participate on the sub. No one is making up medical abnormalities but I'm glad that you have not had to experience anyone close to you having a miscarriage or infertility. This is not up for debate.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 02:46 PM
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Leave him is not the first advice given. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 12:07 PM
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Leave him is never the first advice. Comment removed
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 12:03 PM
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RPW acknowledges a decline in SMV as well as fertility. Leave him should not be the first advice given. This comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/23 02:10 PM
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Removed. Leave him should never be the first advice given.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/23 01:43 PM
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This comment is removed. It is fear mongering rather than useful information and you are doing it with an OP who already says she has anxiety issues. Two years at her age will not make or break her in terms of fertility. If they are destined to have issues then it isn't age related in your late 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 07:56 PM
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Removed. RPW is not the place for men to complain about women's standards.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 07:01 PM
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Removed do not pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 07:00 PM
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If a person doesn't ask question, how can they learn? Because RPW is not for men's questions. This sub was established as a place for women to work on their goals and converse with other likeminded women and men who are experts in RP theory. If you are a man who has just begun his RP journey, you are not truly welcome here but you ARE encouraged to spend time on the men's subs either /r/marriedredpill, /r/TheRedPill or off Reddit on TRP.red cc: /u/ArdentBandicoot
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 02:57 PM
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Sure
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 11:34 PM
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Please explain how this relates to RPW which is for finding a good man and having a good relationship with him. Otherwise it appears off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 11:03 PM
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If you can't understand mens perspective on sex (and your post history and this thread indicates that is the case) then you probably shouldn't be giving advice on RPW. If you wish to learn start with the For Women Only chapter on sex that can be found in the wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 11:00 PM
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No. It is not a dating site. That will get you banned. So will asking questions as a man. We are not here for men's goals.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 08:12 PM
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Sure.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 05:12 PM
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Advice should be from an RP perspective. A man being obligated to give you money for a date or anything else might be popular in tik tok but it isn't RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 05:07 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 06:24 PM
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This is inappropriate. Comment removed. Behave yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 08:17 PM
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How long have you been married?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 01:56 PM
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Removed. Advice must be for the OP. Her husband is not here so what he should do is irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 04:07 PM
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I'm removing this post due to non-participation from you, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 12:25 PM
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Sigh. This isnt the place for men to complain about women. I'll help you find your way out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 11:07 PM
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/u/youllknowwhenitstime is correct that this is not RPW advice. If you have not done so already then it might be in your best interest to read The Empowered Wife or For Women Only before you give advice again. Telling him to 'man up' is absolutely not the path to a solid relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 07:24 PM
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It isn't making her think for herself. It is a leading question which is absolutely not how to make someone think for themselves. She is married. What good does it do to suggest she shouldn't be with him because he's a big meanie? None. It doesn't seek to understand the situation or her husband. It throws gasoline on the fire.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 11:32 AM
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Removed. Advice must be RPW and not destructive to the marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 11:34 PM
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Ladies, there are way too many comments about what you think you would do or could get past. This isn't about anyone but the OP and what she should do and can get past. She is married with a child. Leave him should not be the initial advice. Comments about your own preferences will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 10:46 PM
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This thread has obviously bothered you but your comments are across the board unhelpful. This should not be a post that you spend any more time on.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 10:43 PM
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Removed. This is not advice and not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 10:38 PM
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Removed. This is not advice and not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 10:38 PM
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Both your comments are removed for insulting the OP. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 02:48 PM
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That was a classic RPW post. If it scared you then this might not be the right sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 04:45 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. You do not know everything and we will not engage in a political discussion. Your comment is removed here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:49 PM
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You truly think the puking emoji is a polite response to someone's comment? Should I assume you don't know how to behave and skip to a ban?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 12:56 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 12:49 PM
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I am locking this post. We aren't a validation sub and that is a lot of the "advice" you are receiving. We also aren't a sub dedicated to physical appearance and cosmetic enhancements which is what you seem to be asking all the time. There are better subs for those questions. Finally, I agree with the comments that suggest you have a fixation on your appearance that might be best helped in person and off reddit. We are happy to help you with your relationship interactions but no further posts on…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 05:50 PM
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Great! Now you can be banned from both the RPW subs and if Reddit wants to kick me off the platform I will consider it worth the while troll.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 06:58 PM
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Stop stalking u/dehydrated_jellyfish . Move on, comments removed and continuing to comment on her stuff will result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 06:42 PM
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Removed. Do not badmouth another woman's SO...particularly if you do not plan to give actual advice. Perhaps you need to read some of the RPW literature before trying to comment again.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 09:16 PM
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In that first article, the red/green flag showed an underlying assumption that Alpha = Douchebag, Beta = Loser. It's interesting that you think this because the first article was written primarily by a TRP EC and the second two come from the RPWives who took their toys and left.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 05:56 PM
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RPW: the OP is overweight and asking for help. Anyone suggesting the boyfriend should be dumped will be removed. We do not validate healthy at any size here. Issues with the man can be addressed if.more information comes to light that suggest there are problems before her weight.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 12:02 PM
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The OP has said nothing since I wrote this comment. If she isn't bickering with people then the post can remain.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 03:54 PM
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You are level headed and always have solid answers. I'm giving you two stars for being an overall valuable contributor worth listening to. Keep it up!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 01:03 PM
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You are on a red pilled sub getting red pilled answer. This isn't purplepilldebate and honestly, we aren't here to fight with you about your deeply held beliefs. You are seeking a particular viewpoint and not actual answers. If you keep arguing rather than listening and if you keep complaining about men answering questions that are directly related to how they view women then I will lock the post.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 01:02 PM
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Ok, this has all gone on long enough now. We are done debating /u/VasiliyZaitzev lifestyle choices in this thread. One person is not the topic of discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 09:32 PM
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Correct. But you also have a lot of negativity towards a large demographic of the sub. I was simply making sure that you were aware of the guiding idea that we use around here. Sometimes feminists come to argue and you were starting to sound like that. As long as we are on the same page via a vis male led relationships then welcome
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:20 PM
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Remember that a core principle of RPW is a male led relationship. This doesn't mean breadwinner but it does mean a man as the leader and a woman who is submissive and respectful. If this fits with your views the great. Advice should always be from this perspective here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:09 PM
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sigh, and now this happens. second time today...I know it's been awhile but is my mod tag broken or something :-P
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 08:26 PM
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Removed No Feminism
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 07:47 PM
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Removed No Feminism
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 07:46 PM
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Seriously? Your account is in negative karma. If you really don't understand how that happened then you need to spend time developing your social skills. In the meantime, RPW is not the sub for you, move along.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 06:09 PM
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Are you being condescending to u/wife_and_mama for a reason?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 05:52 PM
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Removed. If the OP wants to work on her marriage we will do our best to help. It is her life.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 01:06 AM
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Removed, not actionable advice
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 01:06 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/txmsq1/how_to_give_good_advice_on_rpw/ Under this account, what I want is to maintain a sub that give advice from an Red Pill basis with women's interested at heart. But the Red Pill basis is non-negotiable. To say someone cannot be high value because he is dating someone younger is not red pill. To say that it's your personal belief does not make it advice and it certainly doesn't make it good advice. We say this to men all the time but it applies …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 08:02 PM
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You didn't say that and you are a fool if you think that you can judge his value based on ages. Perhaps you don't belong on an RP sub?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 07:50 PM
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Yes, he can be high value and want a younger woman. Further, it's not your job to convince the OP of his value And this isn't advice I'm the slightest. Plus you are arguing with someone and derailimg the thread. All comments removed. Give better advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 07:36 PM
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This is not the subreddit for you to be in based on these exchanges. Please move along.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 05:46 PM
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Hi Scared-Tea and everyone following this mod discussion that has derailed the thread. This will be the last statement but I think Cammie is getting pushback because she’s new. Everyone needs to understand some things about men’s participation. We both allow and want men’s voices on RPW. Yes, we want people to listen to the TRP and RPW ECs foremost. Yes we have rules that set constraints for men. We set these constraints because we want men to be giving advice that is in line with Red Pill theor…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 01:06 AM
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If you are not going to help resolve an issue in an RPW manner then do not participate in this post. Comment and others are removed. Read the books and the wiki for a refresher.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 08:15 PM
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Behave yourself. If I see anymore "don't listen to this person" from you then you will be asked to leave the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 04:04 PM
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This is the women's sub and we only want men to be here within certain constraints. You need not behave as we see fit but you also do not have to comment here. Please read the rules for men if you are unclear.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 02:11 AM
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RPW please remember that we are not here to validate the OP. She needs help to identify where she went wrong so she can self correct in the future and help with future goals. You go girl or he's a bad man comments will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 11:04 PM
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Platitudes are not advice. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 07:45 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. RPW values honesty but we are not men and do not communicate as men do. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 07:41 PM
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This post is locked because it is a rant and the OP is not listening to advice. RPW recognize the importance of looks to get your foot in the door. We do not recommend being an insta thot or giving yourself to men for access to a yacht.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 07:40 PM
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We are an RP sub so we do recognize the wall. It occurs due to looks and age and fertility and is when the dating market starts to favor men. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 07:39 PM
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Thank you and yes I agree, when RP moved from blogs to tiktok and youtube something got lost. It's sad and I will always be glad I found it when I did.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 04:15 PM
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Thank you so much :-)
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 04:14 PM
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Oh i didn't even realize that you linked the one that we used from back to basics. I wrote the original version of that what feels like a loooong time ago under and old alt.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:52 PM
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:-) thank you
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:46 PM
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Yes, shhhh I wrote that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:46 PM
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Yes the reports we used to get were more on target. Now it's just as often "this is a man and I don't like what he's saying". And don't get me wrong, we ban a LOT of men simply for not having a clue what they are talking about. While I always am in favor of people making other subs that speak to their niche, the RPWives sub has effectively died (though I'm sure they'd love to see an influx). This sub has been sustained by our proximity to TRP more than anything. I thought that taking it off redd…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:45 PM
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Thank you. That is nice to hear :-)
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com//r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index That is the link for the wiki. I know that it's difficult if not impossible to find on new reddit. I don't use new reddit so I can't even say how things look on there. The books that we have always recommended are Laura Doyle's Surrendered Wife, Fascinating Womanhood, For Women Only and often Laura Gottlieb's Marry Him for the single ladies specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:38 PM
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In terms of being able to apply the principles that we discuss very little. It comes out in terms of advice. The trads appeal to well tradition. And this makes sense and a lot of RPW takes its foundation from traditional ways of existing. However, this makes the relationship a matter of 'should'. You should marry young, you should stay home, he should provide, you should give him sex, he should treat you well, monogamy should be the only way. This is all well and good and doesn't look too differ…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:35 PM
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This just means that a woman date equal or better than themselves and a woman wants the best man she can get. It does not mean all women will cheat
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 01:31 PM
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Your comment was inappropriate for RPW and it was removed. The man hating and antagonizing is not what we do here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 06:01 PM
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u/VasiliyZaitzev has said all there is to say. You obviously do not belong on RPW especially since you want talk all about yourself. Smh dismissed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:22 PM
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Removed, no requests for dox. Also, if you are a man and you are here, you should not be.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 07:05 PM
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This is not the sub for this question.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 03:38 PM
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This is vague which makes it unhelpful. Reminder that I'm general men are not allowed on rpw.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 02:39 PM
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Removed. We do not know what he meant and you aren't asking for advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/23 05:35 PM
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I've seen him out. We don't need men who have no idea what they are talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 11:06 PM
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If you don't even know what is considered a red pill relationship around here then you can't be here giving advice.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 11:04 PM
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/u/Flat_Shower is correct. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:28 PM
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Fair enough
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 06:49 PM
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Women on rpw do not need to justify a desire to be married.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 02:07 PM
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Oh gosh, a man who understands RP through those sources doesn't know enough to be allowed to give advice here. Go away now.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 12:40 PM
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Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 01:36 AM
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So you have no idea what RPW is about I see.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 04:20 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from an RPW perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 04:10 PM
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Yes because the comment was not rude but you are. The sub favors direct communication over nice platitudes.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 12:41 AM
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Behave yourself or get out.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 10:59 PM
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If there isn't trust and unity in your marriage then that is the issue to address not the ownership of the bank account 🤷
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 02:55 PM
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No need to snark. u/sunglasses90 is a starred member which means she has consistently good RPW advice. Not taking an active role in your own life is NOT RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 02:49 PM
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Men's questions are not permitted. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/22 08:40 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. I don't know what point you are trying to make but it's not coming across. Comment removed. Try again when you get off the high horse.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/22 10:40 PM
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I assume she is using that terminology because it is used on TRP. Men are told that they are the prize. Now in that space it is done because men need to stop putting women on a pedestal. I've never seen it referenced for women to be the prize. Nothing you are saying is wrong but it is technically a TRP term. And I have no idea how it is used in the broader YouTube RP spaces.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/22 08:28 PM
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That is because I already regret talking to you instead of just removing the comment quietly. 🙂 You are taking this personally and I have no skin in the game. As a financial advisor I do think it's adorable that you find a couple million to be impressive. Great for your husband, seriously, but at best that is upper middle class from an exclusively financial perspective. You need a lot more than that to be considered in the old money/political class
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 09:24 PM
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Yes. This post is for women looking to get a certain class of men. Look I am firmly in the middle. But it is absolutely the case that money alone does not describe class. This is why it is called socioeconomic not just economic. There are different values for each strata of society. No one is disparaging a man who is self made but he is going to look for different things than a man who is born to family money because of the values that are inherent to each
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 09:15 PM
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How do you define "multi millionaire" UC is going to be old family money for starters.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 09:08 PM
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Yes. We aren't a sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 09:05 PM
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And if you are equating money with being in the upper class then you are ignoring everything in the OP. The OP has experience within the UC and UMC value system. I don't know why you think you should flex on this about your man but it is incorrect that all men want sweet pretty and "classy" with no other qualifications.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 09:04 PM
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Money and class are different which is pointed out in the post. Also remember that being an outlier does not change the advice that is best for the majority.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 08:55 PM
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This is a common sentiment in RPW. Please redirect yourself to the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 08:52 PM
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It's time for you to get off the internet and into the real world. Advice here has to benefit women and you have too much of a chip on your shoulder to do that it seems.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 06:14 PM
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Insults are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 03:18 PM
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I don't think it is aspirational (working class wishing they are UC). There is a misunderstanding of what is desirable for a certain class of people. Ie: working class men do not understand that being handed a trust fund is not the only thing that makes a social class and there are differences in the requirements for access. But in my experience, there are men who care and men who don't. It's not attractive to men and that is where RP theory starts. But while it doesn't turn a man on, it is vett…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 01:56 PM
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Removed. No rants.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 01:06 PM
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Removed. Advice must be red pill. This is antagonistic.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 12:04 PM
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I'm going to go out on a limb and say that you have no idea how an educated UMC or UC man thinks. You are dismissed. We are not a sub for men.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 07:24 PM
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I don't think that you have women's interests at heart here. This also isn't a sub for random men. Comment removed. Refocus on giving men advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 07:22 PM
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Argue politely. The comment is removed until you take out the insults.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 02:38 AM
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Remember that men are only allowed here if they are already long time members of the men's RP subs. Plus, your personal preferences are not advice and this is not a discussion group for men (ie: your own stats and looks are irrelevant here)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 12:38 PM
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I approved this post both before the OP wrote it and afterwards when she checked with us before she posted it. RPW has changed over the years. We went from seeing mostly women with a spine of steel who couldn't bend to seeing women who think that STFU is the ultimate tactic for finding a good man. The OP is writing a cautionary tale for women who have followed a similar path. It is hard to self improve if you don't see the areas where self improvement is needed. I have seen (as have you) countle…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 04:59 PM
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RPW focuses on heterosexual male led relationships. The women here are not going to be best suited to give you advice. Post is removed as it's off topic for the sub
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 12:57 PM
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We do not allow self promotion. Post removed
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 08:16 PM
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Then I would recommend creating your own post. It's not what the OP is discussing here and it's not the norm. When your situation is slightly off center, it's best to create your own post rather than derailing another one.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 06:06 PM
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Are you asking for yourself? Are you in a heterosexual relationship with a bisexual man?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 05:58 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/zc8lrc/disagreements_over_who_should_pay/iyx0ltj/
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 01:29 PM
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Removed. RPW deals in heterosexual relationships, this is off topic
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 01:12 PM
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OP this is off topic and has been removed. We do not give advice on behalf of others. Your parents aren't here and there is little we can do third hand. Good luck. This isn't your battle to fight.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 12:47 PM
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It's fine. That gentleman was escorted out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/22 08:36 PM
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I'm curious exactly what aspects of feminism you think are inconsistent with RPW. We are an anti-feminist sub. The red pill proper has always viewed feminism as incompatible. There are women here who make it work but this is a space where no one needs to explain what their version of feminism is or to ask non-feminists why they aren't feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/22 05:00 PM
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We are not here to justify beliefs or argue feminism. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/22 04:50 PM
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Men's questions belong on the men's subs. Removed. Try trp.red for the community off reddit. r/theredpill does still exist on Reddit but it a little hard to get to
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/22 04:49 PM
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Removed. Posts must contain content
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 11:24 PM
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Removed. Men's questions are not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 06:06 PM
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Personal preferences are not advice. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 01:47 PM
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User has been escorted out of RPW. We aren't here to debate men RP vs RPW and he obviously doesn't see the rpw side of things
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 12:48 PM
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RPW uses the same information to a different end. You aren't ready to be here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 12:46 PM
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It is a lazy one line header with no body. Posts need to contain content and fiction is off topic. This is all stated in the rules. And knock off the attitude. It sounds like you don't even know what sub you are posting in.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/22 09:11 PM
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The man may wish to rethink his participation on the women's sub if he is this bad at dealing with women.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/22 09:09 PM
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Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/22 09:07 PM
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Removed. You may get out of here for suggesting a 15 year old is going to become a drug addict.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/22 03:54 PM
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MRP is marriedredpill. TRP also exists but it a touch difficult to find. The lack of men's subs does not mean that all random men are welcome here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/22 09:18 PM
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Removed. Low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/22 10:01 PM
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In the other thread you had a boyfriend so are you married now in the span of 24 hours? 🤨
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 12:06 AM
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I am removing this because it is unclear what you are looking for with this post. We are not a sub for confessionals or rants. If you want advice then it needs to be rewritten but overall the advice is going to lean towards ending it with the married man. If you are not prepared to do that then we are not the sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/22 01:17 AM
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If a man is riding a motorcycle without a helmet and is hit by a car -- did he deserve to die? No. Was what he did foolish and a risk to himself? Yes. Am I victim blaming to say "wow, he should have worn a helmet. I don't think people who make the choice to not wear a helmet are using their best judgement" Life is about the choices we make and people judge us by those choices. You also cannot change what people think in their own heads. If it's never the victim's fault then there is nothing that…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 08:57 PM
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I am not.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 06:49 PM
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The OP asked if men will be put off by her trauma. The commenter speaks candidly about how some people will feel. Sexual assault is a difficult topic. There are certainly women who could not have done a single thing to protect themselves. That does not mean that there are not ALSO women who could have made different choices and avoided a bad scenario. To get hung up on victim blaming is to make people victims. We don't always have to be victims. We can be empowered to make smart choices.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 06:46 PM
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RPW is not a space for men to ask questions. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 05:31 PM
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Removed. Telling someone to give up their values is not helpful or good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 05:29 PM
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consider sharing your experience as a field report or discussion post. Yes I agree. Even if it's just a copy of what is written here. I think more people see it when it's a stand alone post.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/22 10:40 PM
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Removed. This isn't advice
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 01:44 PM
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Removed. No cross posting no link dumping
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 09:54 PM
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I am genuinely trying to help you understand why IMMEDIATELY taking a negative approach (leave him) or insulting someone's SO is NOT the best way to give advice. It doesn't mean the man in question is right, it is about the best way to get women to listen to you and the best way to help guide them. Since you are doubling down I will just remind you that "leave him" is not the first advice that should be given. It shouldn't' be given without understanding the situation and interacting with an OP.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 07:09 PM
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If you have never experienced these issues then how are you so sure you know the best way to handle them?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:59 PM
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Everyone: This is one behavior in an otherwise happy relationship. The OP needs guidance on how to address it or explanations of male behavior to understand it. She does not need to be told to leave him and if your man doesn't do this then it is entirely beside the point. She knows it's an issue which is why she is asking for help. Comments that say "my man doesn't do this" "he's a bad man" or "leave him" will all be removed. Let's help OP fix this rather than telling her it's a problem...which …
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:52 PM
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I've actually gone back and glanced through your comments and it appears that you ONLY respond to tell people their partners are bad. I think that you might need to get some life experience so that you can learn to give proactive positive advice before you try to give advice here again.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:49 PM
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He's behaving poorly. We don't know why. The OP is asking for help. If you insult someone that "I" care about, I am going to get defensive and I'm going to ignore you or cling to him more. Alternately, I could agree with you and I can start to think poorly of him. If he is behaving badly but there is a fix then neither of these options are going to move me in the direction of fixing my relationship. One leaves me ultimately single and the other leaves me with the same problem but having to defen…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:45 PM
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This isn't helpful. If you actually want to help someone, you do not start by insulting her partner. Comments removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:36 PM
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I'm curious why you found yourself here. Advice and content must be from a Red Pill perspective and you appear to be doing more arguing than anything. cc: /u/LivelyLychee
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 02:52 PM
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Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 01:29 PM
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Disregarding the above commenter, RPW DOES recognize that there are many reasons to keep a low n-count. One of those is male preference but it is certainly not the strongest argument. We don't do "sleep around because it's empowering". This is the message out in the wider world and it's not telling the full story.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 10:36 PM
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Hi, This is a reminder that RPW is NOT purity culture. We do recommend that women should keep their n-count low for themselves and as a dating strategy. We do not consider women who have had past partners to be unsalvageable and we do not automatically default to 'virginity at all costs'. If you are here to keep women pure then you should move along. This is only one aspect of the dating culture today and it is not the be all end all. Too many men come here with the intent to rescue women from t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 10:32 PM
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Removed. No rants
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 05:06 PM
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removed off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/22 03:04 PM
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Do not insult someone's partner. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 10:27 PM
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OP is right. Insulting her husband isn't the way to give advice regardless of your opinion of him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 10:26 PM
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Yes, you are such a special snowflake that it is absolutely impossible to use generalizations to talk about you. But the majority of people fall into averages. Entire social science disciplines have been formed around generalizing humans. There are things to be learned by the studying the mean.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 03:15 PM
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From an RPW perspective this is very untrue. Men and women want different things. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 03:55 PM
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Hi Everyone, Let's put an end to the "yes you are right to lose attraction" comments. OP, attraction cannot be negotiated and if you are losing respect you will probably lose the relationship. It is ok to break up if you no longer respect your partner. Ok, now that has been said, if you don't have advice that will HELP the OP wrap her head around this then move on to another thread. All of the commiserating and moralizing isn't doing anything other than push the needle towards a break up. We sho…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 03:52 PM
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Removed. Be helpful or be quiet. We are not here to advise him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 03:46 PM
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Removed. Of course individuals are individual but on a sub like this we often speak in generalization. Men belong on the men's subs. Please redirect yourself there
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:07 PM
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Removed. Your personal feelings are not advice. No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:05 PM
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Removed. Men's questions are off topic. See yourself to the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 12:36 PM
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Removed. Advice needs to meet the OP where she is. And on a personal level: just work and everything will be better is naively simplistic.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 12:35 PM
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😁
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 04:24 PM
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I'm going to agree with your concerns about downvotes. People have to express their opinions. We do not look at downvotes. If you say something and no one disagrees but it's downvotes to hell, we will go with the suggestions of the people who used their words.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 03:44 PM
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If you are asking this question then you aren't red pilled enough to be here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 03:40 PM
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Huh? Men's subs still exist. TRP to a large degree has moved over to TRP.red No idea why they hurt my (one's?) heart.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 03:39 PM
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Men's questions are not permitted. Non-members are not allowed to poll the group. I see no particular value in this as an RPW discussion topic. Post removed. Please redirect your attention to the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 12:52 PM
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Removed. No self promotion. Men must participate in the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 06:00 PM
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Removed. This is the third "why is he mean to me" post you have put up. The answers have not changed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 10:23 AM
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Sok. Glad you are back 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 07:12 PM
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Yes and that is why she gets a warning. By our rules, this could be removed because it's just a title without content. I probably should remove it and tell her to add details to the post and reapprove it when she does. That's what we usually do.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 05:41 PM
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OP, there are questions here. If you aren't engaging with the post it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 05:10 PM
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Yes thank you. u/LivelyLychee would you add a star for teacup
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 04:08 PM
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Hi RPW, OP is asking for specific advice. Your opinions on the relationship beyond telling her how to deal in an RP way is not helpful. Rather that telling her how bad a situation YOU think she is in, tell her how to work it or move on to another post.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 04:06 PM
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This is not helpful nor advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 04:04 PM
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RPW is not a space for men to come and ask women questions. There are other subs for that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 03:48 PM
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Because it had no content. It was a guy telling us to explain women's perspective to him and that is not why RPW is here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 11:54 AM
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Because it had no content. It was a guy telling us to explain women's perspective to him and that is not why RPW is here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 11:52 AM
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Attention RPW: there have been too many men coming to this thread to argue with the concept. This post is no longer open to men. Bans will be issued. If you (men) think you have something so important that needs to be said, you can DM me and I will verify it's veracity as I am a financial advisor by trade.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 12:56 PM
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This is not a sub for men to come argue with women. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 03:37 PM
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This sub is relationship based. This is off topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 02:10 PM
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Let us be cautious to not assume that YouTubers seeking clicks are a representative sample of anything.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 09:15 PM
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Removed. We do not allow people to study us. We are not zoo animals
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 03:20 PM
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We removed the post yesterday because her answers to all the comments made it obvious she was validation seeking and not looking for RPW advice. Decided to let this attempt stand and see if she does any better today. But that made the old post drop out of her history I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 01:40 PM
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no decent person would ghost you without an explanation after sleeping with you, especially if they led you on and didn’t clarify it wasn’t just sex at the start. While this is not wrong, the OP is actually the one who broke up with him when he didn't answer her texts quickly enough. Then he disappeared. The story changed from yesterday to today.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 01:31 PM
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Hi RPW, OP is asking for help getting over a guy. Advice needs to be actionable to help her now and so she can go into a new relationship better off. Any white knighting, validation or "he's a bad man" comments will be removed as they do not work towards that end.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 01:27 PM
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This is too difficult to read. Removed. If you want to do a massive edit let me know once it's done and I will reapprove.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 12:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/iudeid/new_rule_leave_him_is_never_the_1st_option/ & https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/ixfekx/policy_discussion_on_just_leave_him/ Yes, there are subs that autoban for posting here. They think we are evil but have probably never been here. It is because marriage is something to cherish and be proud of that we do not allow "leave him" as the first bit of advice that people give. There are many things that can be tried to save the marriag…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 08:39 PM
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Removed. Leave him is never the first advice given.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 08:24 PM
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Anyone still looking at this, the OP was a man who somehow thinks he he was doing a "gotcha". The post is removed because there is no reason to continue arguing with idiots with an agenda.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 06:36 PM
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No you 😁😇
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 04:28 PM
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Since you are obviously here to complain that he's a meanie and you have no fault beyond being taken in by him, it is a waste of our time to continue on and I am removing the post.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 03:10 PM
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We do not need lazy drive by comments from men. Please redirect your attention to the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 02:23 PM
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Insulting her husband is childish and gets us no where. You are not old enough to give advice here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 05:05 PM
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You can only change yourself. Advice has to be for her. Saying what he should do is not helpful because he is not here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 11:44 AM
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This isn't really RPW advice but I am not removing it because I think that the exchange you are having with u/free_breakfast_ is valuable and I don't think you are the only person who has this reaction. (And I'm making this comment so I don't get more reports.)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 06:26 PM
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This comment can't be made visible. Reddit is removing it. This can happen with outside links sometimes. Just a heads up. The OP removed the post anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 02:12 PM
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I have no idea what you are looking for here. Post is removed. We don't allow ranting. If this is something else then it can be revised.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/22 11:28 AM
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I think that people are on the look out for men dressing as women these days. It is an unfortunate effect of the trans movement on more masculine featured women. We've become suspicious and would rather be wrong than "tricked"
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/22 01:37 PM
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I'm not sure that I get the aesthetic she's going for. A couple people have mentioned her looks and I have to assume that the no make up thing is a part of the act. It sets her apart from the women she talks to and makes her seem less of a done up party girl in contrast. I have a friend who is similar in appearance and doesn't wear makeup because her husband doesn't like it. She's not unattractive and when she's done up she is quite lovely. I imagine Pearl#2 is the same. The single thing explain…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/22 01:28 PM
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The thread has taken on a life of its own. I simply did not want people thinking she and I were the same person. Beyond that, my thoughts on the current content on YouTube is quite congruent with how TRP has always approached the newest guru. They wrote articles telling men that Jordan Peterson was not actually their daddy and more recently warning that Andrew Tate is not their friend. We don't recruit. We just put information out there and if it resonates then that's great and if it doesn't peo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/22 01:07 PM
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All good 😊
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:21 PM
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Thank you so much. 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:19 PM
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I will LMAO if you are correct about her. I suspect that it's more of a combination of clickbait and youthful self righteousness. But I also do not discount people's gut feelings these days. Time will tell.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:18 PM
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I don't have a YouTube channel so much as a handful of old shows that I did and ended fairly quickly because life got in the way. It is getting passed around upthread so I'll drop the link here but my intention with this post was never to compete with this woman ya know? https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNU3Yu_O9xa_HddkIwObIOYEonn7oeKr1
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:11 PM
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I remember being newer to RPW when wherehaveallthegoodmengone was created. It was funny at first. A few years later, it's not funny. You are right that there is a anger (or self righteous or not-like-other-girls) phase that women can go through. I've also seen guilt but that's not relevant here. Is there a benefit to watching another woman be angry at more blue pilled women? I don't know. Whatever motivates you to do the work is good right? I am so far past the self righteous phase of thinking w…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:05 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by the herd (I could use context clues but...) I am fairly confident that someone has put this girl in the position she is in. She is playing a role for clicks and money. And no, she owes nothing to the world and she doesn't benefit from a show that gets no clicks. But we (the world) need to remember that fact when consuming some of the current day RP content.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 11:49 AM
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Everything you are saying shows the nuances of these topics. Super basic RP tells you that men want younger women. It's not wrong but it's a sort of "all else equal" premise. And what men want and what ends up happening for most couples isn't always congruent. Statistically most couples are within a couple years of each other. So as women our takeaway should be to use youth when it's on our side but it shouldn't be to despair when it isn't.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 11:38 AM
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Sad but true. There is plenty of space on the internet to put out content without doing it for money. And while I don't blame people who are earning off of their work, it is going to change the nature of what you put out. Can't tell men to get off YouTube if you are earning your living from them being on YouTube.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 11:30 AM
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Some of their content is in the wiki, some in the history and some over at r/redpillwives. I'm not sure what names to tell you to look for but so many have deleted their accounts anyway that I'm not sure how successful it would be. We try to bump stuff up every September to keep the original ideas in the forefront.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:54 AM
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I didn't watch the shorts. I did see one out in the wild but when I someone asked if I was her I went to her channel.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 12:44 AM
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I don't blame her for this. I don't blame anyone who does what works for them. I do feel a level of frustration that all I have seen from people who come here after consuming Fresh & Fit is a very very rage bait understanding of RP. It leads me to believe that todays content is missing the part of RP that was designed to help people improve. I don't know this woman and I've only checked out a bit of her content and it seems similarly basic. I also have been asked if I was her and figured if one …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 10:53 PM
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I'm laughing a little bit at your husband. Mine would also caution me about people that he himself watches. I think what gives me pause the most about this particular one is not "influencers are entertainers" but that she's obviously highly produced and has money behind her and it seems like she's perhaps gotten popular fairly quickly which means that the YouTube algorithm is promoting her. And I think I much prefer something more organic even if it is entertainment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 04:12 PM
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That's the schtick though right because she's really playing to a male audience.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 03:19 PM
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I have to give props to the original creators of RPW. Those women really understood how to take red pill theory and apply it to women. I think they leaned more trad than I do in my understanding of it but overall this is the only content I've ever seen that doesn't just regurgitate what the men have to say. And yes it's quite disheartening when you have a woman with a large platform who can't even take the content and apply it to her own existence with any nuance
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 02:57 PM
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Yup you got me 😂 I actually did a show very briefly with one of the TRP ECs but then I had a second baby and it just got to be too much.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 02:55 PM
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No link dumping. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 12:35 AM
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Ok. It's still removed. And since it appears no one got the joke, I guess it wasnt funny.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/22 10:35 AM
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Removed. Lazy. No polling the community.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/22 10:32 AM
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No, I am the moderator and I deleted his comment because it doesn't belong. Perhaps check who you are talking to before throwing accusations.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 01:57 PM
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If you equate looking for a provider with prostitution then you don't belong on rpw.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 11:49 AM
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No polling the community especially from nonmembers. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 09:48 PM
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Removed. Marriage isn't on the table if she has not been asked.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 05:52 PM
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This is my take as well.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 02:06 PM
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I've seen this repeatedly on RPW. It has been a while since I've checked them out but I tend to think that the "married" sub is actually worse for relationships than plain old TRP. There used to be blogs that were red pilled happily married men. The sub does not seem to be that. And hey, those men deserve a space to figure out their messy marriages but I don't know why RPW (and no shade to teacups, it's an oft repeated sentiment) believes them to be better RP men
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 01:41 PM
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🤨
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 01:36 PM
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One star from me for a level headed explanation and an understanding of nuance.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 11:55 AM
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Removed you are in the wrong sub
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 11:33 AM
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I believe it was somewhere in the 8-10 hour range.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 10:03 PM
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They all think they've discovered something when they find the red pill. It's much easier to fix woman than to fix oneself though so they come here with their new knowledge, all ready to fight with us stubborn women who have bought the blue pill lies. Except we've been doing it longer than they have and their lectures are so basic as to be useless. Sometimes it's fun to see how long it takes them to delete.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 09:37 PM
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Yes, the automod actually caught this one originally but it seemed like the OP might need a bit of realistic feedback due to her youth.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 03:10 PM
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Yeah weirdo, it's the mods job to get involved when advice veers away from being RP. Sorry if the rules are shocking. 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 01:45 PM
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There is no evidence of abuse and u/teacup000 is correct that you are misunderstanding the term. This is not RP advice. It's not even good advice. It is fear mongering because it's easier to claim abuse than see another person's perspective. Comment is removed. Unsupported accusations of abuse will not be tolerated.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 01:38 PM
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Removed. This isn't advice and this isn't about you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 06:40 PM
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Hmm sounds correct to me. I guess that person does not belong in this sub. Let's fix that shall we
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 06:02 PM
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RPW is not for men. If you can only give advice by talking about yourself then you do not know enough RP theory to be here. Stick to the men's subs
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 11:56 PM
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Removed no snark.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 05:37 PM
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Removed no self promotion
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 10:53 AM
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Removed no self promotion
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 10:53 AM
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Men's questions are not permitted. We are not here as a discussion group for men or for outsiders to pick our brains. Please stick to the men's subs per our 'rules for men'.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 04:38 PM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 07:19 PM
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Removed. You have no idea why he dumped her.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 06:32 PM
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Maybe don't come around here until you figure out how to talk to women.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/22 05:54 PM
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One star for you. Keep up the great work!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 11:14 PM
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You got it!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 11:13 PM
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Note RPW: If this is a discussion topic then people are allowed to provide their opinions on the topic. They can moralize and not give advice because it's a discussion. OP If you are looking for advice then please let me know because it will need to be updated with additional detail.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 04:29 PM
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It's not up to you to like commonly used Red Pill terms. Comments removed. The OP is correct here in her use to describe male traits. Please read more if you are unfamiliar with the terminology we use around here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 11:02 AM
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Hi, we don't allow outside groups to advertise on our sub especially something like this that could lead to doxxing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 11:58 PM
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Removed. No insulting members of the community.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 08:36 PM
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Removed. Men's questions are not allowed
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 06:22 PM
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And phrasing it the way you just did is completely fine. Saying: Please end things with him so he can find someone that will appreciate... is a bit different.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 07:04 PM
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No moralizing. We aren't here for the benefit of the guy. If he is your concern then you shouldn't be giving advice to the OP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 06:42 PM
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It does not sound to me as though you have a man. Thus you are arguing from a theoretical place with women who have already proven your theory wrong for themselves. You can hush now. No one needs to justify their happy marriages to an argumentative single girl.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 10:51 AM
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We do not allow pity parties. What advice are you looking for? This is removed until you can edit the post for clarity.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 01:54 AM
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When you are struggling with the here and now, it is helpful to remember what you saw in him that made you marry him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 11:59 AM
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this is not universally true and sounds like you are trying to prevent the OP from improving herself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 10:15 PM
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No self promotion. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 01:38 AM
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From the wiki: First mate in the first trimester
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 09:48 PM
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What he should do is not RPW advice. He isn't here and should just means "I want". Removed. Advice must be actionable for the person asking the question.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 01:51 PM
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Hi everyone. The OP has been escorted out. Her post history and what she was saying here had some contradictions and it did not appear as though she actually wanted to follow RPW advice. This post is locked.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 12:31 PM
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This isn't really an answer to the question if you read the post.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 05:52 PM
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Hi OP & RPW, There has been a lot of RPW advice and a lot of discussion about what others would do in this case. Let's outline some RP Truths here: Men and women want different things and have different needs in a relationship. Some men, prefer women with low to no prior partner count. No one gets shamed for their very normal desire. Some men, even if they overlook partner count, still have feelings about the topic. Women, for the most part, care WAY LESS than men do about past partner count. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 07:30 PM
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You do not get to decide what a man's goals are. It is ok for a woman to have experience but it is also ok for a man to not find that a desirable quality. The key is for people to find the partner that works for them. However, men and women are different and have different things that are important to them. This is standard red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 06:50 PM
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Women do not generally feel the same way about body count that men do. This is standard red pill. We have even seen it play out on the sub. We DO have women who care, we draw women like that to a large degree because of the trad and religious element.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 06:48 PM
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I'm going through the deleted posts in the Wive's wiki. Found this one on psychological femininity Yielding. To yield is to submit, defer, and/or relinquish oneself to a higher power. Too often women vie for dominance within a relationship, stirring up drama instead of simply allowing their man to lead. “Allowing” does not mean giving the man permission to lead, it means stepping out of the way so that he can step up. How to be more yielding? Say yes more. Be flexible and generous. Let go of the…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 05:22 PM
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Rule zero: advice must benefit the woman asking for advice. Your feelings for her boyfriend are not actionable or relevant. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:30 PM
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I know right 😁
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:21 PM
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Oh yes. Definitely. The red pill subreddits were set up to discuss red pill ideas within a certain context. The creators have the final say and if someone wants to discuss with redpillschool the direction of the sub, it should be done in modmail. If someone has a better way to run our sub than we do, they are encouraged to go make their own rather than attempting to take over the existing structure, which works for plenty of people. This has been done before with contingents from here and it was…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 01:31 PM
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You want me to be skeptical of...myself?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 01:10 PM
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research shows that high dominance men often pair with high dominance women, Red Pill Wives used to have this phenomenal piece of theory about dominance and the need for dominance that fleshed this out. I was going to send you the link but it has been deleted. I'll see if I can get it on an archive site because it is a good read.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 01:09 PM
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I am not sure if this exists but if anyone knows it would be u/livelylychee.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:02 PM
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It's not nothing and it's not everything. My issue with setting an exact figure and saying "this is what makes or breaks value" is that it is completely arbitrary. I'm not against looking at income/potential income as a factor. I think I worded it badly above. You are right that it can indicate certain things. I'm against setting a figure and telling women to "check this box".
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:01 PM
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Its not the chat. You just remind me of the women who were here when I found the place. I'm not a fan of alpha and beta either If I could take it all throw it all (the jargon) out the window... As I understand it, when we are discussing the traits they are not an either / or. This is what you are saying that you have seen. High dominance (alpha) and high comfort (beta) rather than "my bf is the alphaiest alpha. The terms were used in an essential manner "he's an alpha, he's a beta" and that is n…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 11:37 AM
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Similarly, no concern trolling: the act of complaining or attempting to gain the support of others by appearing to have the "best interests" in the subreddit in mind. That's from the rules. Concern trolling isn't trolling like we think of it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 11:20 AM
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Removed. No concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 11:06 AM
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You are misinterpreting my statement. Men can not define a high value man. Only women can say what is high value in a man for women. I was not talking about how men bite women.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 10:54 AM
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Welcome to our sane space. 🤪 I suspect that the term came from THAT sub but u/LivelyLychee also tells me that Kevin Samuels popularized it. There is something so very funny that both those sources push the same terminology but I digress. I do hope that people will get behind me on this because I agree with what you say here. Avoiding it is only going to help is give better and more nuanced advice and not deteriorate into 50 ways to leave your lover.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:44 AM
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What I'd love to see more of on this sub is handling changes in your man that end up affecting the household I'm with you on this. RPW has gotten away from helping the marrieds to problem solve and I sorely miss the things that are relatable in my own life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:38 AM
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It is not that we should not consider finances. Everyone should be looking at the financial situation of the person they are vetting. This means men too. However, it is not something that we can set a specific number to. It is too variable. Moreover, we aren't here to give our blessings to women which is what seems to happen in a lot of these cases. A woman has an issue and everyone comes in to say "he's not a HVM". That's not our job. We should be giving her advice to navigate her own life. The…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:36 AM
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Language has to communicate something and this particular term is too vague to be meaningful. I loved that post. And nothing came from it (as far as changing the culture here). I am not confident this will change it either but I'm going to bang the drum anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:29 AM
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Yes yes yes. Have we talked before? This is how I understand the sub. It was a little funny that everyone had super alpha-y men but at least we could push back and point to alpha and beta as traits and have a reasonable discussion. We did have to swat away the men who came to tell an OP "he's a total simp, not alpha" but that was easier to do than wipe out every woman who knows that an OP's man is "hv". I have long held a grudge against a lot of the jargon and would prefer to cut to the heart of…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:26 AM
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Very true
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:22 AM
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This sums up my point quite well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:21 AM
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Yes. I absolutely agree that is it good to consider this in vetting. I don't even mind a woman who has an income range as a goal. In many cases it tells you some things about a man AND depending on the lifestyle you want (such as being a SAHM) it's necessary to consider. Having an arbitrary number to determine value is the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:20 AM
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Lying is a terrible way to start a relationship. So is planning to break up. Read the wiki and lurk more before giving advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:09 AM
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We recognize that past partners can have an impact on the present. This is pure red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:08 AM
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I actually think that money is the worst trait to use to characterize value. We're dealing with women across age ranges and income levels themselves. If a man and woman are together in college neither of them has an income and you are basing it on potential. That's okay and a valid strategy. And the man doesn't suddenly become low value or not high value because he is not making six figures. It is also the case that there are certain jobs that may not automatically be as lucrative but if you hav…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 09:31 PM
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This does not actually help the OP in any way because her man has already suggested that he wishes to have an open relationship and she is asking for help to navigate that. Removed because it does not seem that you fully comprehend what is going on in the post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 08:32 PM
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Removed https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/xeyko5/how_do_i_accept_that_my_partner_will_never_be/iojyzg3/
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 05:27 PM
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Ok RPW - everyone has gotten their two cents in. From here on out the advice needs to be actionable and help guide the OP. "Run" "he's isnt high value/doesn't love you" and "I wouldn't do it" are not appropriate rpw advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 05:13 PM
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Please remember that men must have a proven track record on TRP before being allowed to give advice on rpw. Redirect your efforts.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 05:03 PM
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It seems clear to me that u/sunshinesundress is not addressing anything at the OP. She is addressing her comments at the sub that bans women for participating here. Do not concern troll. If the OP feels slighted she can come to me directly. Otherwise, r/blackladies the sub, can rot in hell for banning a woman for wrong think.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:53 PM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. It is particularly true here because attraction is different for men and women. Please only give advice if you have insight into female nature since you are giving it to women. This isn't a discussion group for men. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:04 PM
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I know and I didn't remove the comment. It walks close to the line especially because you are talking about what you would do which isn't always the best advice for an OP. This is just a heads up about the rules, for you and others reading.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 02:34 PM
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Advice should be from an RPW perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 01:41 PM
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Just a reminder that "leave him" should not be the first bit of advice you give and personal preferences aren't advice. RPW should start by attempting to save a relationship (except in cases of abuse).
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 01:39 PM
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I was thinking of that exact scene
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 10:57 PM
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Currently changing a bed from a sick kiddo. I can say with genuine certainty that I have never given a single thought to r/blackladies 😂
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 10:47 PM
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Hi everyone, the OP wrote a sentence headline and then disappeared. I'm locking this post because there is little value in discussing something we can't even say is for real and lack any details.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 03:55 PM
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Removed, no moralizing. Your own history is clouding your ability to give good relationship salvaging advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:42 PM
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This is not RPW advice. Your marriage has no impact on the OP and your divorce should have no impact on the OP. Divorce can be contagious, let's not spread it unnecessarily. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:39 PM
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You do and when I get to a computer tomorrow I will get her a star ⭐⭐ 😁
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:18 AM
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Removed for a lack of understanding about men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 12:19 PM
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Girl, go to bed!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 12:13 PM
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You do not know who most red pill women date so perhaps you should not make this sweeping and silly generalizations. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 10:55 PM
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Advice should be for the OP. She only has control over herself. We can't tell her what her husband "should" be doing. He's not here and she doesn't control him. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 07:56 PM
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Removed low effort. We know nothing about you, your relationship, your values, his values, issues you might be facing etc. So even if people were going to take you seriously in your desperate attempt to lock down this man, you would need to provide more context in order to get ANY advice. Post is removed. If you would like to revise is to contain context you can let me know and I will reapprove.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 06:45 PM
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This is the new automod action mentioned in the post
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 01:09 PM
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Sorry that words are hard. RPW isn't actually for men so I'm going to ask one of the men from TRP to help explain words and redirect you to where you belong. Could you step in here u/Protocol_Apollo
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 11:53 AM
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Advice should be from an RP perspective. Nothing says "male led relationship" like "Boyfriend, stop being a pussy and lead me" :-/
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 11:47 AM
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No moralizing particularly about peoples goals. You are not better for having priorities other than money.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 10:02 PM
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You know you have a well written side bar when there's zero commentary on the repost. I would like to think this is the case but I suspect that the quiet has more to do with labor day weekend. But thank you. I did have a question about the wiki, but after examining it a bit further, it eventually made sense to me why it's currently formatted the way it is. Thank you for the feedback. I think when we started the landing page was the intro and a few links. With the book summaries it got much bigge…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 03:17 PM
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Removed no link dumping
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 04:56 PM
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Removed. Break up is never the first option on rpw
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 01:27 PM
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While you are entitled to your feelings I would also remind you not to moralize.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 11:28 AM
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Plenty of people rate you with numbers. You cannot control what is in someone else's head. Getting upset that some person somewhere thinks I'm a number feels to me like a huge waste of energy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 06:32 AM
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I uh, have no idea what this is about other than you seem to be angry.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 12:08 AM
3

Thanks for this.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 12:06 AM
1

We aren't doing this here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 12:19 AM
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Ah ok then. You are dismissed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 09:08 PM
2

Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 09:01 PM
1

No moralizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 12:41 PM
0

Men's questions are not permitted
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 12:57 PM
3

Men's questions are not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 12:56 PM
9

I'm sure that many red pillers would like to see men and women be held equally accountable under the law.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 08:20 PM
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Feminism is an established school of thought and political movement. It is at odds with the red pill because It's current iteration claims that men and women are equal and we reject that. That is why we do not allow discussions of feminism. The starting points are too much at odds. Picking and choosing what aspects of feminism or the red pill that you personally wish to follow, does not mean that the entirety of Feminism or The Red Pill have changed. It means that you found something that you be…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 08:10 PM
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Usually you give really solid advice so I'm going to take some time here. I see that you are an INTJ so I understand that you want definitive definitions and checklists. We don't have that and that is intentional. Let me go piece by piece. Others that are far from reality: another term that is debatable is "AWALT" which I do not subscribe to There are plenty of terms that do not appear often on RPW. RP stems from a male perspective (manosphere, duh, obvious right) so there are terms and concepts…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 07:40 PM
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I'll step in here. The mod team takes the approach that RPW is a toolbox. You do not have to "be" anything or claim any label to use the tools available. In fact, the proper usage of the tools can even be debated (though we would watch this sort of thing closely to make sure it doesn't get too far away from our understanding of what the sub is intended to be). For example: when to have sex is not as cut and dried from the moderator's perspective nor from an RP perspective. We acknowledge that th…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 03:09 PM
2

Removed off topic.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 02:25 PM
2

Be polite
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 12:39 PM
1

Removed. This isn't advice
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 12:37 PM
3

On RPW advice must benefit the woman. Telling her "too bad nothing to do" isn't advice to her benefit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 12:35 PM
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Removed. Not RPW advice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 12:52 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 05:37 PM
1

Sarcasm is considered polite now?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 05:31 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 03:31 PM
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I'm glad that you can see into the future. We do our best to maintain relationships and I think the OP's friends and family probably have a better sense than you random internet stranger. Comments removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 03:26 PM
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Advice must be from an RPW perspective. To say someone is too young to work towards their goals is infantalizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 01:13 PM
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No moralizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 06:32 AM
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No moralizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 06:32 AM
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I don't know if you are still checking Reddit but four years later there is an update to this post. The OP is married to the man in the post and getting ready to try for a kid.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 06:17 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 12:21 PM
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Removed. RPW is for heterosexual relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 12:09 PM
1

It is not intended to be a welcoming placed for people who are not our demographic.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 04:00 PM
1

Well you werent accused of being an incel. If you actually thought that rpw would be more reasonable then you would have written a description for the link. The comment with more than "1" was not removed. But listen, I'm super not into arguing with you for a violation that is set out in the rules. I'm really not into it when you are accusing me of being unreasonable so I'm going to BE unreasonable now. If you keep whining I will ban you. If you want to post a link to something it needs a descrip…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 03:44 PM
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You have to write a description so that people know if they want to read, not just drop a link without even a title. It's incredibly lazy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 03:33 PM
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Removed. Don't blame yourself is not RPW advice especially when there is insufficient context to make that determination. If it sounds like a platitude then it is probably not helpful advice
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 01:13 PM
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Removed. No link dumping.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 01:08 PM
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Advice has to benefit the woman. How you feel about her ex (I wouldn't judge him...) is not advice and is irrelevant to her. Also "men go through this and so it's good for you" is not helpful or advice or RP. We are different. We do not have to have the same experiences. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 12:31 PM
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Posts need to be more than a title and OP needs to not abandon the post. This has been removed unless OP wants to come back to participate.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 09:12 PM
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This post is beyond the scope of RPW. While RPW, as a group with values, tries to avoid the typical pattern of "leave him, gurl, You Deserve BetterTM!" advice that women tend to get on the internet (regardless of the situation), certain relationship problems are actually severe, and cannot be addressed by some internet advice. This is not simply a matter of "we're not qualified professionals"... indeed some of us may be. But the major qualification to do intervention in a profoundly unhealthy re…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 05:40 PM
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This is not red pill advice. It's also pretty dangerous and toxic to lie to your husband in order to get him to do something he is adamantly opposed to. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 05:36 PM
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Ok well this is a sub for women and we don't really like too many men here. If you are a dude and you are here you should be older, married and have experience on TRP. This probably isn't the sub for you if you don't understand a woman's desire for kids so much that you need her to expand on why she has a biological desire before giving her advice
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:51 PM
1

She wrote a long post on her feelings on the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:47 PM
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Removed. This is not advice
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:27 PM
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Yes from a RP lens. It's not like we are removing all advice that comes from a traditional perspective but when someone says "if you are religious have righteous anger..." as this top comment did... well that's not really in line with RPW (or a good way to handle a relationship) AND it's centered around a belief system that may or may not be what the OP follows.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 07:55 PM
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RPW leans heavily trad though the mod team has always maintained that being trad is not required to be RPW (/use RPW strategies). Religion comes to many of the same conclusions that RPWomen does for a relationship. That said, we firmly believe that advice should be from a "we know this works" basis rather than a "this is what our God says" basis. If you and I don't believe in the same gods then why do I care what your gods say to do. I'll add for people reading - if an OP says that she's of a pa…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 07:39 PM
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You do not understand men based on the fact that you were here this week asking for advice yourself. Your advice is fear based. Stop. You can ask questions and get advice but you cannot give advice right now you are not in a position to do it your advice is not RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 03:45 PM
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This is not a sub that praises conservativism or traditionalism. We are here to use RP theory about male/female interactions to help get and maintain a male.led relationship with a good man. We give advice that is effective because it is effective not because God says so .
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 03:39 PM
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respecting privacy is not a RPW tactic, Treating your partner like another human being who has agency and rights in his own life IS an RPW tactic. Browbeating a man into doing what you want is NOT an RPW tactic AND it is a good way to lose respect. Comment is removed. I understand that you have trauma but this may mean that you should not be giving advice until you are more healed. If you do give advice please spend more time with the wiki so you understand the basics of men and the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 02:35 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective and non religious
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 01:00 PM
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This is correct.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 08:53 PM
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You have posted this in several different places and are arguing against any and all advice that you have received. We have a rule that you have to actually be willing to listen to advice and I don't see that happening here. If you would like RPW style help on keeping a man, the wiki has a good deal of valuable content. I recommend that you read through and then ask questions where you are confused. In the meantime, we are removing this post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 07:56 PM
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Men's questions are not permitted. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 05:28 PM
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I understand what you are seeing and saying however these are not the women on RPW. This isn't a sub for you to discuss the issues that men face in the dating market. We are here to deal with specific women and their goals. There are very specific rules for men who are participating here and I think it might be best if you stick to the men's subs instead.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 03:17 PM
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Removed. No self promotion unless you are an endorsed member.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 01:43 PM
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Ok, the OP asked for opinions so I am leaving this but... This is a value that would make or break a relationship for you. It is not the case for everyone and not an RPW truth. High value is vague and in the eye of the beholder to a large degree. However, we have to acknowledge that men of value will be judged to have value by more than one woman and therefore will usually have options in the sexual realm. Having extramarital relations does not automatically lower his value.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 12:55 PM
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Men's questions are not permitted. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 12:50 PM
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Advice must be from an RPW perspective and not condescending. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 02:33 PM
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None of that is what you said in the comment. You were arguing basic RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 09:06 PM
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Yes there is far more to a person than looks and age. Those things get your foot in the door. All else equal and in broad terms men prefer beauty and youth and women prefer confidence and accomplishments. If you don't like the sub then you are welcome to not participate.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 08:40 PM
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But this is RPW so we recognize the value of youth and how dating becomes more difficult as you get older.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 07:40 PM
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Removed. We don't cross post to talk about other women on other subs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 11:57 AM
2

Men's questions are not allowed on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 09:23 PM
1

No justification of beliefs. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 01:14 PM
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So your advice on "how do I show my man I appreciate what he did for me this week" is "when you have a baby it will get better"??
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 12:41 AM
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Removed. Your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 08:25 PM
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Why is this relevant?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 12:52 AM
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LOL you totally do. It's just that, you see, I have no idea how to update flair from my phone... and then I forgot. Sorry!! cc: /u/SunshineSundress
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 10:09 PM
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Parenting critiques are beyond the point of the article. Toddlers are rough and different techniques work for different kids. I highly doubt that you remember how you're parents disciplined you at age two. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 12:21 PM
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All your comments are removed. You've been silenced.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 12:34 AM
2

🌟 congratulations for being a functioning adult 😂😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 12:21 AM
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Thanks. He's out.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 12:17 AM
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Yes ma'am
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 04:14 PM
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An excellent and valid question 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 03:33 PM
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Hi RPW- I see this post. I know how many reports are incoming. I thought perhaps for a little while on this lovely morning, that you would like to give this gentleman your pure and undiluted feedback on his post.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 02:17 PM
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Removed. No moralizing. She's not bad for disliking something
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 01:53 PM
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Advice must benefit the woman asking. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 01:39 PM
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Nope. There are women from all walks of life here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/22 03:19 PM
1

Removed. Men's questions are not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/22 03:17 PM
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Watch out for this sort of whataboutism. It can be toxic to keep score in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 07:11 PM
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1 Star for handling this situation with grace. Thanks for the field report!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 01:26 PM
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Removed. This was a field report your advice was not needed and shows that you missed the point of the post. Missing the point of the post disqualifies you from giving useful advice. So does not having children in this particular case.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 01:17 PM
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Removed. This isn't advice.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/22 10:16 PM
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I've excused her. But I wanted you to know that I read your original advice and it seemed entirely reasonable to me. Some people just want to complain and not actually help themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 05:24 PM
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Removed. We do not require an announcement that you intend to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 05:20 PM
2

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 01:49 PM
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Removed for laziness. I think this is well beyond red flags so I'm assuming you didn't actually read the post.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 10:25 PM
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Exactly this
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 05:23 PM
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Removed. No moralizing
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 05:22 PM
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Removed. No link dumping
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 12:31 AM
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Ignore the bitter man. He's been excused
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 12:16 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/w9xczs/fiance_wants_to_exercise_his_options_but_i_dont/ihy18w8/
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 11:25 AM
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He channel it on a bunch of subs and it looks like it was removed from all of them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 06:44 PM
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19 year old boys -- exactly who rpw wants to hear from 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 04:37 PM
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Removed no advertising
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 01:35 PM
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Yes but the subs on Reddit use it in a specific way that relates to men and women and dating and relationships. The fact that you are uninterested in the men's sub means that you can't be here. I'm not really sure why you want to participate on the women's sub anyway but you're not permitted.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 07:36 PM
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I don't think that you do, but please tell me what you think that this sub is about
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 07:26 PM
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Ok but that doesn't mean you belong here
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 07:05 PM
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r/theredpill If you are a guy and you've never been there then you don't belong here giving advice. We want men who have a proven track record understanding RP theories so they can explain and give advice from that perspective. Otherwise we are a sub for women, particularly on these sorts of posts
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 07:03 PM
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Please remember that men must participate on the male RP subs before coming here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 06:59 PM
1

Ok then you can't give advice on an RP sub
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 06:54 PM
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Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 10:56 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 10:55 PM
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Yes, this happens and it's common. RP subs have always recommended alt accounts. We don't really allow men to post here either so I'm removing the post.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 09:43 PM
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Ah, then it's been moved entirely over to TRP.red. They opened the forums there awhile back but run concurrently with Reddit. Thanks for the heads up.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 01:08 PM
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It's true, I've been modding from my jail cell for years. 🤪
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 10:04 PM
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I should know this right but it's been awhile and I don't know where the rules stand right now. I think that women get redirected here but ya know, don't quote me on it. u/LivelyLychee do you know if women can post on asktrp? It's not ideal though. You are right that it can be... aggressive. Men who have issues getting women don't always want to help women.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 10:01 PM
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Oh JFC I was joking with a long standing member. Get over yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 09:40 PM
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I am a she not a they thank you very much 😂😂 Yes. If there is someone that particularly wants male opinions we would allow that in the posts and consider it when modding the comments. Otherwise there are the male subs to see what they are thinking but I don't believe women are allowed to ask questions on any of them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 09:17 PM
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If you think that the OP is in an abusive relationship then she should be instructed to find sources of help and advice outside of reddit. Abuse situations are well beyond the paygrade of RPW and it is difficult to determine from a brief internet post. And I'll be honest, there is zero indication that this is an abusive relationship. He may not be the guy for her but disagreement over her gym routine does not rise to the level of abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 07:55 PM
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This is fine. We are an anti-feminist sub and you don't need to explain yourself here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 07:35 PM
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removed. no feminism
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 07:34 PM
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Removed. Advice must be from a RPW perspective
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 12:14 AM
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Manipulation does not automatically mean cheating. Nor do we recommend men who throw up red flags such as brazenly flirting with other women. It sounds like you might not fully understand what we are about on RPW. But if you want a sub that does tit for tat with the men then this isn't the right place for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 03:02 PM
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The initial stages of dread entail being a desirable man and partner. It isn't until a relationship is headed towards failure that dread would get manipulative (ie: flirting with other women which triggers preselection). And whether those late stages are manipulation is debatable. It is recommended on the married subs when a man doesn't care if he stays or goes because the marriage has deteriorated so much. Remember that men's goals and women's are not the same. We use the same theory but we use…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 01:08 PM
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And? We don't do whataboutisms here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 12:05 PM
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Check out craftsy.com. they have all sorts of classes.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 02:33 AM
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Abuse is beyond the scope of RPW. If you want to know our advice, go read the other posts you put up. Post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 08:14 PM
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Removed. No cross posting
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 11:40 AM
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I have a pretty good life as these things go.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 12:46 AM
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There is no indication of narcissism here. Do not fear monger or assume the worst. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 02:52 PM
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Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 11:14 PM
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This is an excellent example of why we specify what sort of men are allowed to be here. It is not at all odd for a woman to grow her hair out for a guy she is really into. It's not a surprise that a man who understands RP like u/VasiliyZaitzev would have women who are into him enough to do this. The fact that you are calling bs says more about you than it does about him. And as a result you essentially let us know that you do not understand women enough to give good advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 09:56 PM
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Do not pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 12:00 PM
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OP, you must engage with the post or it will be removed. We don't allow rants, you have to be looking for help.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 09:56 PM
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Have you actually met a lot of religious people or are you just repeating what the popular culture tells you? Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 02:24 PM
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Removed. No feminism
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 02:23 PM
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Men's questions do not belong on rpw. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 02:16 PM
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You are preaching to the choir here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 02:16 PM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 12:42 AM
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Removed. This isn't advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 01:36 PM
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We say that men commenting here have to be able to communicate the ideas to women or we are all wasting our time. Simply understanding men/women isn't enough if you can't get women to listen to what you say. This post was lazy and never would have been allowed to stay up but he didn't come across as a man who can contribute to the sub in a positive way. You can stay because I love your username. 😛
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 01:22 PM
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There are rules for men posting which you've ignored. You tell us that you are high value from behind a keyboard. You think you can speak from some place of authority simply because you are a man but having a penis does not make you the authority on dating men. Finally you didn't even offer anything if value, you told women to dm you. It appears as a lazy fishing expedition. That you thought this was productive indicates that you do not understand women very well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 01:05 PM
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Just be yourself isn't RPW advice. It's also so unhelpful when someone is asking why the thing they are doing isn't working. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 12:15 AM
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This is not a sub for you to come and snark because you disagree. And what you want is irrelevant. You aren't the OP and your personal preferences are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 08:31 PM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 08:18 PM
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Removed. No advertising.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 07:31 PM
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None of this is true.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 12:12 PM
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Ok behave. It wasn't your job to tell someone if they are being irrelevant. I let it go but stop sniping.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 12:44 AM
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"it wouldn't let me do the thing but I'm gonna do it anyway" 🤦
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 11:46 PM
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There is an RPW answer to this and it is this: Whatever your partner and you decide works is "ok". Anyone giving advice should be speaking to the last two questions the OP asks - "Has anyone expressed similar feelings? How did you get over them". Just because you don't think that this is a good lifestyle doesn't mean that it is a problem for the OP and her husband. Your opinions are not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 08:15 PM
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Removed. This isn't about you and I don't see advice in here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 06:10 PM
3

Don't snark
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 09:36 AM
1

Yes. I'm removing this. Your answers is yes. If you have a more detailed question then you need to write a post with more details.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/22 09:26 AM
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There is no RPW specific answer to this. As a result we don't remove the comments that suggest not cohabitating but it's not the only answer. If the red pill means confronting reality, then it is true that there are men willing to wait and men who are unwilling. A woman will have to consider her own values and if she dates a man with contradictory values then someone has to cave. The RPW question then becomes who would you prefer leads your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/22 10:26 PM
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don't snark. you put up a public post and people are allowed to disagree with your advice. comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/22 07:43 PM
1

Removed. No need to insult someones partner
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/22 09:44 PM
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Advice has to be actionable for the OP. Her boyfriend isn't here and we aren't advising him. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/22 09:41 PM
1

Removed. Rule 0
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 07:25 PM
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Because RPW tend to look for relationships not to be plates.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 07:21 PM
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I believe that this is the definition out of the sidebar. I don't disagree with you that a woman can end a relationship but still be hung up on it. I think this is the less common scenario and that's why it didn't make it's way into the discussion/definition. There IS a phenomenon where women lose SMV and don't realize it. I don't think that is specifically Alpha Widowhood. Why? Because it's not really one man she is pining over. That's more of a miscalculation of her value. I also think that wh…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 07:34 PM
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That's great but it doesn't help someone who isn't a part of that culture so you should be careful what advice you give. Also, it is still circular reasoning even if there are cultural differences.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 04:26 PM
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The problem with your line of thinking is that you do not believe that a good man would hesitate to pay for a restaurant meal for a first or second date. But you also believe that a man who does hesitate is not a good man. See the problem. Men are telling men to have low key first dates. This is the messaging they receive from each other.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 03:52 PM
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This isn't advice. Insulting him accomplishes nothing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 03:46 PM
2

Ugh, the high value / low value thingade it's way over here and replaced alpha and beta traits. It isn't a glossary recognized term but sure pop up all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 03:46 PM
13

Actually, it is quite reasonable advice. RPW looks at the reality of the world. There are good men out there who are concerned that women are looking for a meal rather than a date. Understanding where they are coming from is RPW advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 03:35 PM
2

No feminism. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 10:53 PM
2

Even if most women do not care, she does. She isn't giving advice she is giving personal perspective. Not every person will think the same way
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 03:42 PM
0

Removed. Everyone is allowed to have goals and concerns. You didn't give advice either. Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 12:49 PM
1

Removed. This is too vague
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 12:17 PM
2

I'm starting a file on my desktop titles "Object Lessons" for when my girls get older.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:34 PM
1

😯 you mean men dont like that? Color me shocked. I cannot repeat the things that went through my head when I clicked the tik tok.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:26 PM
1

Aaaand she's deleted it
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:24 PM
1

Yes, there is obviously much more to the story than her body type. Though the self promotion here and in other subs gives me pause that this isn't all for karma.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:22 PM
1

We also do not allowed doxxing or self advertising. If you continue to drop links in the future you will be removed from the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:18 PM
1

We give relationship advice from an RP perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:53 PM
1

This community was created as a harbor for RP minded women whose goal is to build a lasting and happy relationship with a great man. We explore the female RP sexual strategy, better known as "girl game", in an objective, realistic and compassionate manner
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:33 PM
8

Hi RPW. I am aware of this post and it obviously is a man who does not belong here. Since he decided to come tell us what he thinks about us, I find it only fair that you be allowed to tell him your opinions on him. Have fun. It will come down when your comments taper off.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 01:26 AM
2

I respond to reported comments. The reason I told you that it was off putting to some members is because it was reported so yeah. Upon reading it, I did not see any actual advice or experience that was specific to an age gap relationship. It came across as though you simply wanted to talk about yourself and your wife. I told you why I was removing the comment as a "hey, this is a problem don't do it again". But this whole woe-is-me response makes me agree with you unsubbing. For anyone else read…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 02:58 PM
2

This doesn't really answer the question and RPW rarely if ever wants to know about random men's sex lives.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 12:38 PM
1

Advice must be from a red pill perspective which this is not. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 12:26 PM
1

If you have no advice then you do not belong on rpw. Please move along.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 03:20 PM
-1

This is off topic for this sub and has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 12:38 PM
6

He's been escorted out.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 10:57 PM
6

This isn't really helpful and no one particularly cares the age differences in their advice. No need to make unflattering assumption about the community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 09:20 PM
17

Removed. No feminism
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 05:47 PM
2

Removed. We do not give advice on behalf of others and men's questions are not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 11:44 PM
2

Advice must benefit the woman asking for it
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 04:35 PM
6

Removed
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 02:24 PM
2

Removed. Advice must be from a red pill perspective. History matters. Past behaviors make you the person who you are today.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 02:20 PM
2

Removed. Advice needs to be actionable for the OP. What you think her bf should do is beside the point because she only can control her own actions.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 12:53 PM
1

It is not the job of rpw to be outraged on behalf of the OP. It's our job to help her look at a situation calmly and rationally.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 12:41 PM
5

Removed. This isn't advice
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 12:11 PM
0

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 11:10 AM
7

We don't do the "a real man does x" here. We also don't insult an OPs partner. Removed. Please stick to the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 09:23 PM
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Hi OP and RPW, for some reason we are having issues approving the OPs responses in this thread. We will let it glitch for another little while and then probably try to repost. OP is answering people but you can't see it yet. And OP go ahead and keep answering and we will approve the comments as soon as reddit stops being weird.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 07:40 PM
2

It is not cruel to say that a man is not attracted to your paycheck. It is the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 01:56 PM
3

I have grown up with quite a few. I do not think that all gays are like this. I do think it is common to lesser degrees than this troll. I also thought it would be funny for him to get flooded with comments that he can't respond to.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 01:30 AM
3

Behave yourself. Criticism is not an attack. If you cannot accept it then this is the wrong sub. We used to say that it is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. Perhaps take a step back until you get your bearings.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 12:54 AM
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This Pride Month, it's good to know what the gays think of us. Happy Pride RPW (Troll has been banned btw)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 12:08 AM
6

Troll has been banned.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/22 11:31 PM
7

That is why we expect men to have a participation history on the red pill. Too many people want to help women at men's expense. Men should be helping other men first. In the process of doing that, you would have built up a reputation on TRP that showed RPW that you know your shit. Women wait at the finish line. RPW is no different.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/22 02:00 AM
4

Uh huh. Did you read the part of our rules about men being required to be long time participants on the men's subs? (TRP) or did you just decide that being a dude, you innately understand how to be an RP woman? (Hint: it's rhetorical)
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/22 01:38 AM
2

Removed. What you are suggesting is a covert contract and not RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/22 01:31 AM
1

Be polite or be quiet
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 12:45 PM
1

Not enough information. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 02:05 PM
1

Removed. Men's questions are not permitted and we don't discuss other subs here
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 10:57 PM
2

She is answering based on her personal feelings. In the marriage market it doesn't matter what men think of other men's count. Please stay on the men's subs. This is the women's sub.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 01:51 PM
1

You missed the point entirely.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 01:44 PM
1

No moralizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/22 09:09 PM
5

If you are not giving rpw advice then we don't need you here to advise "us people".
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/22 12:03 PM
2

She preferred to delete her post over self reflection 😐
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 06:34 AM
1

I've been re-skimming Laura Doyle's First Kill All the Marriage Counselors (I believe retitled Empowered Wife) and the first couple chapters are about identifying your own desires and then bringing them up to your husband so he can make you happy. This might be worth checking out if you are feeling like it's all giving and no receiving on your part.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 01:14 PM
7

A quick glance at her post history shows her identifying with an abusive relationship from a fantasy series. In the sub for the series it looks like people were concerned about her as well. This is beyond the "don't say leave him" rule.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 01:10 PM
3

I understand this perspective but I believe that good advice that leads to happy relationships is the most important goal of the sub. The rules are there to help us towards that goal. If we follow them blindly then we are throwing the baby out with the bathwater. In a practical sense, I simply don't have the bandwidth to check every person's post history for every comment. When I created the off Reddit Telegram group, we did decide to keep it to women but we are able to invite people in so that'…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 06:23 PM
3

The whole comment reads as : you little ladies can't understand how tough these logical male jobs are Then you made the assumption that the woman you were talking to specifically couldn't be in a STEM field even going so far as pressing her as to what her job was when she told you that she was. I will remind you that this sub is not for men unless they have put in their time to TRP first
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 05:52 PM
3

So you'd prefer to forgo good advice simply to uphold the rules? That's not in my genetic make up. I tend to look at what is being said first. If it's helpful and it's RP then I don't look further. If it's a problem then I look to see if it is coming from someone who should be here or not. For me the content is more important than the source. I know not everyone is like me in this regard but I'd be going against my nature to do otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 05:37 PM
3

There are definitely cases where the "leave him" advice is warranted. In those cases the only things that make me twitchy are the "run girl". It doesn't show that the commenter has any basis or even a reasonable view of things. And then the longer term the relationship the worse it is to say "just leave". But I'm totally with you that it's a vetting issue and women should be made aware that if they make the decision to stay, this is what they are getting. But in the scenarios you are talking abo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 02:57 PM
6

I don't disagree with you about men coming to look for validation. Personally I think that if women don't want men around, they should not interact with them. There are plenty of men who would wander off if starved for attention. I have seen men give good advice that gets reported simply on the basis that he's a man or someone doesn't like it. It's hard in an RP sub. There are a lot of "leave him" and "yggg" voices at the moment. There are threads that I could easily remove most of the comments …
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 01:08 PM
3

Anyone who uses the word "sexist" does not belong on a red pill sub.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 11:55 AM
2

The comments that you have chosen to respond to make it appear as though you are simply on an anti gun crusade and that is beyond the scope of this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 12:33 AM
1

I posted this earlier, here you go: https://mobile.twitter.com/AndrewCFollett/status/1529577079808868352
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 12:31 AM
6

No problem. Every once in a while we need to remind folks of the rules. The nasty stuff will always be here because it's Reddit but we do our best
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 06:15 PM
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We've always felt that men's voices should be heard. We wanted those to be men who understand RP and like women but that the right men can be helpful to the sub. And over the years for everyone who has wanted a women's only space, others want to hear the men's take. The challenge is getting the right men and we do our best here to cut the wrong ones out. You should see the ban list. But even if we say "no men" we will still get men coming in. Without having a closed group (which them prevents ot…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 06:12 PM
7

It's hard because no matter what, Reddit is an open forum. When they aren't permitted to comment, some men will take it to DMs which we have no control over. We do our best to remove the nasty stuff but it's a Sisyphean task.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 06:09 PM
2

But it feeeeeels like it's the guns 🤪
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 06:02 PM
24

I feel it is an investment in the future of our society. And we encourage men to help other men. It is not only women who are in need of help in the current society. We are all struggling to find our paths in a broken world. If you have your own life figured out then you should be reaching out your hand to men who don't yet. One of the reasons we discourage men from posting here is because everyone wants to help women and that is only half the equation. Since the input you are looking for is mos…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 05:54 PM
15

We want red pilled men who know their stuff. These are not new rules. These are the rules as they have existed forever.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 03:24 PM
3

Yes. Like I said, it was an interesting Twitter chain and I read some points I didn't realize. No one has to take a particular stance but all information is worth having
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 03:22 PM
16

Yes, we can and we do and if you have someone in particular in mind (now or in the future) drop me a DM and I will look at their post history.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 02:57 PM
9

I believe the Twitter thread addresses that though. Anyway I'm not looking to debate with you. I know your arguments, they are based on feels. I just wanted to provide information that seemed to be backed up by stats.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 01:19 PM
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Unlikely. Every man who reads this will assume that the rules do not apply to him. Then he will be shocked that we banned him "without warning"
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 01:05 PM
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Ah. I love when they think they are funny.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 01:04 PM
4

Well if you are set in your beliefs then I guess it wouldn't be.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 01:00 PM
9

Someone else dropped this in a different sub last week and it's quite an interesting look at the issue https://mobile.twitter.com/AndrewCFollett/status/1529577079808868352
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 12:28 PM
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