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8

bruh stop bragging
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:49 AM
161

This would be a good post if redditors could recognize satire.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 11:32 PM
4

Brainless
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:14 PM
8

They're legally protected in the US from having their genitals mutilated, while boys are not.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:03 PM
9

My right to my body was taken away when they amputated half the skin on my penis without my consent. You have it backwards. Girls are protected. I was not.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 02:43 PM
2

Mutilated genitals
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:14 AM
8

Something something system of oppression that privileges one sex at the expense of the other
/r/MensRights19/08/23 03:03 PM
2

It's the same thing. The only difference is misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 03:04 PM
9

Perform at a high level for you. Don't worry about what the world wants from you, it's not gonna make it worthwhile anyway. Work hard on the things that you care about. Live your life. It won't be easy but it will be yours.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 11:36 PM
1

Disgusting. Good fucking riddance. No amount of levity will heal the tens of thousands of boys raped and disfigured by this man. The sad part is that his death will not save anyone. The buyers of abuse will always find a supplier, and the cycle continues.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 11:33 PM
2

Don't self-destruct. I know words are cheap, but I hope you can find peace and live a long and satisfying life, whatever that means for you. It sucks out there, but you only go around once.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 11:18 PM
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A big missing piece to this conversation is the effect that routine circumcision has on the sexual performance of men. Women (and even most men) are unaware of the debilitating effects that the male partner is dealing with, and this creates a mis-match where the woman can simply relax into the experience whole the man is struggling against his own body to perform. The woman doesn't understand how hard he has to work for very little sensation and how little control over he has his ability to orga…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/23 03:54 PM
2

Food for thought - circumcision culture is rape culture. IMO routine genital mutilation of boys makes a pretty strong case for a culture that excuses and even encourages all kinds of abuse of boys that we would never allow to happen to girls. The fact that we're obsessed with women and girl's safety isn't because they're in any particular danger, but because we simply care more about them.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 02:35 PM
4

And gives him fatal herpes
/r/MensRights03/08/23 06:23 PM
8

I wonder how these numbers would change if forced circumcision were classified as child sexual abuse.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 05:39 PM
6

Living with sexual trauma and mutilated genitals.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 04:02 AM
4

How about the fact that I'm human and deserve human rights same as you?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:04 PM
4

I see no reason why you're worth having here
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:00 PM
7

No, mine would have been considered by the doctors as a success. The sensation of pleasure is not totally gone, but the "pleasurable" tissue that is left is scarred and damaged, and they took so much skin that what remains becomes tight and uncomfortable during sexual activity or masturbation. Sometimes, the discomfort becomes painful. Additionally, because I'm well-endowed, sex with a woman can be difficult because I have a lot of dick for her to handle and zero gliding motion to help with lubr…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 04:49 PM
5

I thought you said women wouldn't be on our side anyway
/r/MensRights25/07/23 04:06 PM
6

An interesting one is circumcision trauma, which I would categorize under both loss and PTSD. No amount of "bootstraps" mentality will undo the sexual trauma, but at the same time, no amount of therapy will repair the damage to my body or restore my ability to feel sexual pleasure. The only thing that has helped me is foreskin restoration. Even though it's slow and will only bring back a fraction of what I lost, it's something I can do. Having something to do about it keeps me away from suicide,…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 04:03 PM
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Don't listen to them - you and I both know it's not true. The only voices that matter are the ones that add to the conversation and make people think. Keep up the work brother.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 02:32 PM
8

I'm glad to have you active on this sub man. I was always a big fan of your content on lwma. There's a lot of anger and frustration on this sub, for good reasons, but I think you're an element of steady and level-headed discourse that will help keep the message focused and digestible to the outsiders who really need to hear it.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 02:15 PM
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Circumcision culture is also rape culture. Rape culture is real, it's just directed towards boys and men. Rape of women happens, but it's by sick lone actors, and predators who have to lurk in the shadows. Rape of men is culturally encouraged and sponsored by the state. But ask feminists which one is "systemic."
/r/MensRights27/06/23 02:06 PM
2

r/foreskin_restoration - the metal balls method is thousands of years old, we've got much better techniques these days.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 03:36 PM
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This makes me kind of sick ngl.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 09:45 PM
45

Because it's a "routine operation." Boys have no rights in this country.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 12:13 AM
3

Unrealistic. The best thing I can do is stop the cycle of abuse for my children.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 09:11 PM
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The degree to which medical professionals such as yourself are utterly indifferent to the mutilation and sexual torture of infant boys fucking sickens me. Dealing with the fallout of having been circumcised as an infant has been the single most harrowing and traumatic aspect of my life, and the despair follows me through my every waking moment. And it's morally empty shells of human beings such as yourself that are responsible for this horrific practice surviving as long as it has. The gall, to …
/r/MensRights16/05/23 09:06 PM
5

If only there were a single policy maker who gave a fuck.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:47 PM
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Be vigilant. If you are in a US hospital, they will badger you about it endlessly. They may even pressure your wife while she's still drugged and exhausted from the birth. In many cases, consent for circumcision has been assumed, and it would be done without even asking. State clearly and firmly to everyone involved in the procedure that you do NOT consent to your son being cut, at every chance you get. Bless you, and good luck.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:46 PM
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Yeah, funny that permanently mutilating the genitals of an unwilling child isn't considered a crime, as long as the child is male. You might even consider such a thing a r/mensrights issue.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:40 PM
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Similarly to how one might be chastised for openly suggesting that a parent beat or molest their child.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:36 PM
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It was done to me as well. It has ruined my mental health and caused me significant sexual dysfunction throughout my whole life. I have a serious problem with it - and with you, for being so nonchalant about my abuse, as if my own bodily integrity was not reason enough for them to keep their surgical tools away from my infant penis. You don't see the problem because you don't want to see it. Ignorance is not a good excuse for abuse. If you do this to your son, you risk him turning out like me. H…
/r/MensRights21/02/23 07:45 PM
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To me it just comes off as a victim blame. Reducing all male issues to essentially "friendly fire." Doesn't matter if the victims and perpetrators of male issues are different people, or if the perpetrators are in fact female. "We live in a patriarchy, and as a man you are part of patriarchy, so any problems you have are actually your fault, and women shouldn't have to clean up your mess." It's a way to disingenuously acknowledge the issues without actually having to care or do anything to help.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 04:04 PM
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Thank you for saying this.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 04:15 AM
2

Jesus dude. They did you dirty. I would definitely bring up to your physician that you plan on restoring. Skin grows very slowly, so let them know you'd like to keep as much (especially inner skin) as possible. I don't know if it will make a difference, but it can't hurt. PM me if you need someone to talk to about it. You're not alone.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 04:41 AM
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Speech is free as fuck in this thread and I wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 04:24 AM
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Finished? Meaning you still have some slack they wanna tighten up?
/r/MensRights12/02/23 04:14 AM
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I am so sorry. I understand that feeling of shame. If you don't already know about it, r/foreskin_restoration has been massively helpful for me. It's a slow process, and you'll never fully regain what was lost, but you can get surprisingly close. You're a surviver, and you matter.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 04:00 AM
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You shouldn't downplay your own trauma like this. What happened to you was wrong. Having a view of the big picture is good, but don't forget to care for your own wounds, internal or external.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:39 AM
1

You are right, but the person you're responding to is being sarcastic (that's what the \s means). We're on the same page.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:37 AM
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You should have been given a choice. That's the only argument that matters. That being said, we evolved to have a foreskin for a reason. It provides protection to the glans, the gliding action effectively serves as a kind of lubrication, and the inner foreskin contains the highest density of nerve endings in the male body, not unlike the female clitoris. Circumcision removes or destroys all of this. I am so sorry if you are just discovering this rabbit hole. It can be traumatic to discover what …
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:34 AM
2

"Everyone who disagrees with me is a Chinese bot"
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:21 AM
3

Dude, you need help.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:08 AM
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This was my exact sentiment. I'm so sorry for what you've been through, but I appreciate your voice here.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:34 AM
9

This is what I was saying. Circumcision has wrecked my mental health, and the physical scar and amputation of a body part is the hardest part for me to live with. I feel like I'm dealing with sexual assault and criminal malpractice together in one package. If I was only dealing with having been assaulted, at least my body would still be whole. I don't know why people think I want kids to be raped, that's fucking insane, and not what I said. I'm saying that what is already being done to kids is a…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:23 AM
4

Multiple accounts?
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:15 AM
1

You were violated as an infant. The fact that you don't remember it doesn't make it okay. It is comparable to FGM. It is the same thing. A part of your body was amputated without your consent. The operation was unnecessary and rooted in religion. I'm sorry if you're uncomfortable with this fact, but if you don't understand that what happened to you is not okay, you may end up traumatizing your son in the same way.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 12:32 AM
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Actual link for anyone who cares. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10z9ywd/anticircumcision_selfies/j84hgdg?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/MensRights12/02/23 12:15 AM
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No. I'm just traumatized. And it kills me that people downplay that trauma just because it's so normalized. Not just for me, but for all the guys like me. I know it happened to you too, and I'm not here to tell you that you should feel shitty about it if you don't. But you can't tell me how I should feel. It has been a lifelong trauma that has affected every aspect of my life, and nothing will ever be able to give me back what I lost. You would never accept this same treatment if it were done to…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 12:13 AM
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Don't forget the part where you call me a pedophile. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10z9ywd/anticircumcision_selfies/j84hgdg?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:40 PM
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You really are a total idiot. I'm saying that rape would have been a lesser trauma for me. Infant circumcision is a sexual violation, with the added effect of removing an important part of my body for no reason. It is rape + amputation. That doesn't mean I want to rape children you absolute moron.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:19 PM
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Wtf, I'm a pedophile? Left wing? Because I was sexually violated, my body permanently altered, and feel shitty about it, you're gonna hurl insults at me? And this makes me the psycho? I'm saying we shouldn't fuck with kids genitals. Leave the kids alone, you weirdo.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:08 PM
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Leave then.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 10:54 PM
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I would rather have been raped. At least then, I'd still have my whole body. I'd be able to heal the psychological wounds, without the physical one serving as a constant reminder of what was done to me in my most vulnerable moment.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:44 PM
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Not exactly an answer to your question, but something I've been thinking about lately If this topic comes up in a discussion, ask the person if they consider infant genital cutting (FGM) a form of rape or sexual violence. When they without doubt agree that it is, point out that 2/3 boys born in the US are subjected to infant genital cutting. Feminist leaning types are very resistant to evidence that their claims are BS, but even the most egregious statistics about rape don't come close to the nu…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 07:13 PM
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Look into infant male genital mutilation (circumcision). It will open your eyes to the utterly heartless ways that people are willing to abuse boys with little to no thought. It's really wild that we carve up little boy's penises when they're too young to even have a concept of consent, let alone be capable of giving it. It permanently destroys sensitive sexual tissue and leaves many men traumatized for life, and that's if it goes well. Botched circumcisions can result in complete loss of functi…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:52 AM
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These are very good points, not to be overlooked.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 12:19 AM
6

This is true - the "average typical response" here is entirely dependant on the examples they chose to train on.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 08:22 PM
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The thing about these AI models, is that they only know what they were trained on. They fed the model basically all of the examples of writing they could get their hands on, and its responses are merely a reflection of the examples it has seen. This should be seen as an approximation of "average" response that the typical person would give to this question. No censorship or meddling required, the AI simply understands these responses to be appropriate. Not saying this rules out the possibility o…
/r/MensRights07/12/22 04:06 PM
1

It is still black men that are the main victims of both.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:48 AM
6

Will Smith energy
/r/AntiFeminists02/10/22 10:19 PM
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Please speak for yourself. I was circumcised as an infant and it has caused me serious psychological issues, as well as impaird my ability to have normal sex.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:20 PM
2

Tate is an angry little man in a medium sized man's body, acting like he's the big bad alpha. Prob checks under his bed for monsters before he goes to sleep.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:36 PM
1

This film honestly saved me
/r/MensRights13/07/22 08:39 AM
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Live a well, be good to the people around you, and take care of yourself. Also, don't even validate the sexist comments with a response. Your words will not change her, but you can be a living counter example to her bullshit.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 08:18 AM
1

You're getting pushback but this is one of the most good-faith discussions with a feminist I have ever seen on this sub, despite the disagreement. I believe your experience with feminism has been much different than ours. Being a woman, you don't get the "business end" of feminism like we do. Observe the way feminists are okay with blatant double standards, as long as they benefit women, and you might start to understand where we're coming from.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 09:14 PM
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I'm sorry for the bad experiences you have had in this space. Unfortunately there is not much you can do or say to make a man feel better about his trauma, especially a random man on the internet. What many men desperately need is just to be heard. We are so used to our problems being utterly dismissed, that someone simply listening and acknowledging the suffering goes so far. Many of us just want someone to understand that are problems are real, and that our trauma is just as valid as anyone el…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 08:58 PM
1

u/thetroller242628 Big second on this. The world out there is tough, but it rewards hard work and focus, especially over long periods of time. Competence is freedom. Find a useful skill, develop and hone that skill, and search for trades/opportunities to perform that skill for compensation and status. Become valuable and prove yourself. This could be with computers, woodworking, cooking: anything that somebody cares enough about getting done that they would pay you to do it.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 03:49 PM
2

yeah and get evicted for not making rent
/r/MensRights15/06/22 02:38 PM
2

why should they be
/r/MensRights14/06/22 02:01 PM
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pathetic response
/r/MensRights07/06/22 02:03 PM
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Like women are working factory jobs lmao
/r/MensRights04/06/22 03:48 PM
1

I'm on your side bro, but you can't just say "in my opinion 95% are false". It would be much better to say "95% are not proven to be true, and it would be incorrect to assume that they are all true". Or even, "only 5% are proven to be true". The reality is that there are many cases where we just don't know, even if we have a strong intuition one way or another. We need to be careful with our statistics; because if the truth is on our side, we don't need to be sloppy with our numbers. If we do us…
/r/MensRights01/06/22 03:01 PM
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"omg last night was amazing, when can I see you again??"
/r/MensRights01/06/22 02:53 PM
6

galaxy brain take
/r/MensRights25/05/22 02:26 PM
2

From what I've heard, the actual jury is majority male. They don't show the jury in the livestreams to keep their identities secret.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 02:24 PM
1

you have bodily autonomy to not let a dude ejaculate inside of you as well. no one is forcing you to.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 04:56 PM
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you're the one who had to stop the conversation to remind everyone that "OK but women have it worse guys". Your opinions are stupid and we reject your support.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 03:50 PM
2

funny but unfortunately untrue, though she sure was was behaving like a coked out weirdo.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 03:26 PM
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*Walks in and insults entire community* "Why am i getting downvotes yall are so toxic omg"
/r/MensRights24/05/22 03:10 PM
2

waaahhh le reddit doesn't think i'm smart
/r/MensRights24/05/22 03:09 PM
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Weak
/r/MensRights20/05/22 07:25 PM
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He developed a physical dependency to an anxiety medicine prescribed by his doctor while his wife was near death, and managed to get clean after years of it decimating his health. What's your point?
/r/MensRights20/05/22 03:56 PM
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Yes but a pregnant woman is not pregnant for 25 straight years like a career construction worker.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 02:48 PM
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That's why he's suing her for the amount the lost work would have earned him. If the jury awards the full amount to johnny that means - she does aquaman, gets paid, and then gives that money right to him as a penalty for her massive party foul. That's the fairness.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 02:04 PM
1

hurr durr reddit expert here. Keep in mind that ur dumb. Checkmate christians *tips fedora*
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/22 02:11 PM
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She's a troll who frequents the sub and makes sexist and bad faith arguments. She did provide some decent numbers here, and homeslice was being just as condescending back, but lots of users already have beef with her so I'm not surprised by the downvotes.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 10:42 PM
2

Lmao
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:13 PM
2

Wow what a sexist remark miss
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:12 PM
2

Less capable = less likely to get hired. This legislation is insinuating that women are inferior workers, and it will lead to less women being hired. Narcissism always shoots itself in the foot.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:10 PM
2

The guys here can be a little jaded, but we're glad to have you. Earnest female advocates for men's rights are rare, and extremely appreciated.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:09 PM
3

This is a pretty typical college freshman answer, but I appreciate you actually articulating a point. I disagree with your definition. I mean, this is pretty vague, and doesn't provide any useful information. societal expectations, structures and dynamics between two opposite understandings of gender What are those expectations, structures, and dynamics? What are those two understandings? Of course this dynamic doesn't map onto race, because the dynamic is so vapid and poorly stated as to not ma…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 10:18 PM
2

I will ignore your incoherent waffling and restate my question: Masculinity and femininity aren't words which simply describe behavior ... Your restrictive view as to the applicability of terms like Masculinity and femininity is the core difference as to why they are different from a term like blackness. If the terms "masculinity" and "femininity" don't simply describe behavior, then what do they describe? How does that make them different from a term like "Blackness"?
/r/MensRights05/05/22 09:43 PM
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dude, you have to explain why. I'm not a mind reader lol. For someone with so many big words, you have terrible communication skills. This is why you are a clown. Not because you use big words, but because you use big words, think you're smart, and meanwhile completely fail to communicate your position.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 09:28 PM
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Masculinity and femininity aren't words which simply describe behavior, which is the confinement you seem most comfortable understanding them as. Your restrictive view as to the applicability of terms like Masculinity and femininity is the core difference as to why they are different from a term like blackness. how is it different? I'm still waiting for you to explain.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 09:20 PM
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baffling bafflingly small ftfy get a handle on your grammar before you start reciting the thesaurus big brain
/r/MensRights05/05/22 09:08 PM
1

If you're too dense to see that someone is making fun of you, then maybe you need some waterwings and a snorkel
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:59 PM
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Now do some ACT words, I'll pull out my #2 pencil.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:55 PM
1

got anymore SAT words for us?
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:50 PM
1

you have used a big pile of words to say absolutely nothing
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:46 PM
1

what
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:41 PM
1

Statistically, boyfriends of a mother harm kids at a much higher rate than other parties harm kids. ​ But the fact remains that Men are more likely to commit some crimes ​ I didn’t claim anything about men did I?!
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:40 PM
1

If it's not belittling, why would you not use "Toxic Blackness", even though you think "Toxic Masculinity" is fine? Explain to me what the difference is.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:36 PM
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"As a straight male, I prefer the pilot not be a lesbian" This is you
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:34 PM
1

Statistically, boyfriends of a mother harm kids at a much higher rate than other parties harm kids. From a purely statistical standpoint, this says more about the types of men single mothers choose to date, than it does about men as a whole. If you've ever taken a statistics 101 you should know about sample bias.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:32 PM
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a sexist choice, but one you are entitled to
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:26 PM
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dude, you're making braindead arguments with big words. I'm not loaded up on anything, this is all entry-level basic stuff. You admit you wouldn't use "Toxic Blackness" as a term to belittle black people, but you're fine with using "Toxic Masculinity" as a term to belittle men. Sexist, and hypocritical. QED.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:04 PM
1

More word games to avoid admitting hypocrisy
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:52 PM
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I notice you didn't touch toxic blackness. so you're cool with being sexist, but you draw the line at racism?
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:32 PM
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thank you
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 07:31 PM
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The arguments are not for them, they're for the fence-sitting lurkers to see how ridiculous these people are. You cannot negotiate these people out of their positions, but you can expose them for being ridiculous and bigoted.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 07:24 PM
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your word games don't impress me Blaming men's problems on "Toxic Masculinity" is as sexist as blaming women's problems on "Toxic Femininity", and its on par with blaming black people's problems on "Toxic Blackness". This is my position. If you have no problem framing men's issues as being the result of "Toxic Masculinity", then you should also have no problem framing the issues women and black people face as the result of "Toxic Femininity" or "Toxic Blackness". If you think that either of thos…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:17 PM
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Telling people to "get tougher" or "grow balls" is also not the nature of masculinity. You're the one who brought that up. I'm holding a mirror to you, and you're upset because you don't like what you see. There are serious problems the black community has to deal with, but it is not because those problems are aspects of "blackness". Just like there are many problems facing men, but it is not because they are aspects of "masculinity". Blaming men's problems on "Toxic Masculinity" is as sexist as…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:07 PM
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What if I told you that the issues facing african americans today are a result of 'Toxic Blackness"? If I told that to a black person, and it offended them, and they say to me that I'm using a racist term - blaming their issues on the nature of "Blackness" - what if I just told them I "Absolutely and categorically disagree" that I'm being racist, and then continued to lecture them? Am I helping? "Oh so are you saying that violent crime and fatherless homes are the nature of blackness? That's not…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:49 PM
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bigots like you blaming male mental health issues on the nature of masculinity itself make victims out of anyone you spew your garbage at
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:27 PM
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the braindead feminists in this thread would tell him "well if you didn't want a kid you should have kept it in your pants"
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:25 PM
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Followed by "If I'm wrong, then maybe we're both wrong".
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:16 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a sexist and victim-blaming term
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:06 PM
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People here disagree on your definition of feminism, and I'm with them. I don't doubt that you and your circle of friends who consider themselves feminists just care about equality and breaking gender norms and all that good stuff. Feminism as a larger movement, however, has been massively harmful to men, and the most blatant sexists alive today are radical feminist women. These (not every, but enough) Feminists protest male-focused DV shelters, they protest gender neutral laws regarding rape an…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 03:49 PM
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It's the assertion that the family is oppressive that's the problem. The idea of traditional gender roles is shitty when people are forced into them, but the classic family structure is just division of labor. One person focuses on career and money, one person focuses on domestic stuff and raising children - teamwork. Biology just makes it so, for most people, it makes more sense for the man to be the one working while the woman stays home. I think it's shitty to force people into these roles ba…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 02:51 PM
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somebody ban this bot for the love of god
/r/MensRights03/05/22 04:12 PM
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Shut the fuck up. It's about the fact that children cannot consent to the operation. Don't be dense. I have no issue what what adults do with their body.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 01:46 PM
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nah in the US circumcision isn't just a jewish thing. It's just been weirdly accepted into american culture as a perfectly normal thing to do to a boy's penis. Certain groups also do it for religious reasons.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 05:08 PM
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Don't listen to BowForThanos. You are mutilating a child who cannot consent with a non-necessary medical procedure that is purely cosmetic. Would you mutilate your daughter's genitals? Would you give her a boob job? No, obviously. That's what this is about. Some guys are happy with their body, and that's okay. What's not okay is using your experience to advocate for cutting up children who cannot consent. I was circumcised as a child. I didn't even know what circumcision was, let alone that I wa…
/r/MensRights26/04/22 04:09 PM
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I mean I'm personally against piercing a baby's ears for the same reason I'm against child circumcision, but an ear piercing can heal and is not nearly as traumatic to the body as circumcision, so I don't really put it on the same level. I think calling calling an ear piercing mutilation is overkill. Btw to fully answer your first question: It's supposedly about hygiene, and it makes the penis somewhat easier to clean, but it also removes a significant amount of nerve endings and the natural mov…
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:58 PM
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lol you act like such a child
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:15 PM
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just gonna stalk my profile because you're mad?
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:10 PM
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lmao go back to the stock market you big adult man.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:06 PM
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yeah, which is why we don't give them ear piercings, boob jobs, or sex change operations. Circumcision is a non medically necessary operation, even if you're into it personally. Doing it to children who can't say no just because you want their penis to look like yours is sick.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:05 PM
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Literally just scrolling and stumbling on your dumbass takes. Seriously though? Cutting up little kids? That's what you're into?
/r/MensRights26/04/22 03:04 PM
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A child cannot consent to an irreversible, non-necessary surgery. That's really the issue here. Whatever the risks/benefits may be, there is no reason to do it to a child who cannot consent to the operation. Let them do it as adults if they want, but mutilating children is sick.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 02:52 PM
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children cannot consent
/r/MensRights26/04/22 02:45 PM
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children cannot consent
/r/MensRights26/04/22 02:40 PM
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Chicken nuggets lmao. nuggies = chicken nuggets tendies = chicken tenders fingies = chicken fingers Internet speak for stereotypical food of basement dwelling neckbeards, essentially.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 09:54 PM
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Many of the guys here - for good reason - have a chip on their shoulder and can be pretty bitter about the shit they've experienced. Most visitors to this sub assume that we're all angry because we're hateful misogynists. I appreciate that you understand much of that anger just comes from pain and isolation. I hope to see you back here, friend.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 09:48 PM
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going upstairs to ask mom for nuggies doesn't count 🙄/s
/r/MensRights25/04/22 09:33 PM
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lol
/r/MensRights25/04/22 08:08 PM
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feel better?
/r/MensRights25/04/22 08:05 PM
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just stop it
/r/MensRights25/04/22 08:02 PM
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At the very least, we had one. We had one as recently as Vietnam. If they wanted to do another one, there's nothing stopping them from sending those letters. No woman would have to fear getting that letter, but every young man would. Inactive is significantly different than nonexistent. Unless you have no sense of object permanence.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 07:58 PM
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I just can't believe that you're going with the "it doesn't exist because we're not currently implementing it" position. Like, really? It's like me saying that wife beating doesn't exist because I'm not currently doing it, and no one else is doing it within my current field of vision. If you want to talk current events, just look at Ukraine. Their draft is very active at the moment. Russia's too, if I'm not mistaken. It baffles me that you can even think this way, let alone go 30 levels deep in …
/r/MensRights25/04/22 07:27 PM
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This just in: War does not exist. If war were to exist, then it would exist. But because war does not in fact exist, it is therefore nonexistent. Did you ever have object permanence issues as a child?
/r/MensRights25/04/22 07:06 PM
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jesus lmao i guess you got me on semantics. I guess it doesn't exist because it is not currently active. Wow.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 07:03 PM
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lmao wtf are you on? Is being petulant on the internet how you became so big strong and successful?
/r/MensRights25/04/22 06:59 PM
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Thanks for educating me on the nonexistence of the draft, "adult male". My grandfather who got married and had 3 kids just to avoid being sent to Vietnam must have been full of shit. I guess all the paperwork I had to sign to secure my voting rights was a big nothing burger. Big smart adult man on the internet says it doesn't exist because "IT DOESNT EXIST", so I guess I'm mistaken.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 06:56 PM
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Dude you are arguing that this thing you just quoted doesn't exist. Congress and the president have to authorize its use. You said that we don't even have one you absolute brainlet. If Joe biden wanted to force me into Mariupol to get blown up by russian artillery, all he'd have to do is authorize it, along with congress, and I'd get a letter in the mail. There exists no legal framework in the US that can forcibly send a woman into combat against her will. One does exist for men, and has for ove…
/r/MensRights25/04/22 06:39 PM
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toxic masculinity is when men on the internet disagree with me
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 05:44 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selective\_Service\_System
/r/MensRights25/04/22 05:35 PM
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I get what you're saying - big changes are hard to make, and any blemish will make it even harder. Rosa Parks wasn't the first black woman to refuse her bus seat to a white man, but she was the first one with a squeaky clean record, who could be used as an example for the civil rights to show how unjust the situation is. Doesn't mean that the injustice done to the pregnant black teenager who refused before her (and was also arrested) was worth any less; you just need to make it beyond obvious to…
/r/MensRights25/04/22 05:33 PM
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you seriously have no clue what you're talking about do you? EDIT: For anyone wondering, his argument was that because the draft in the US is not currently active, it doesn't exist, and therefore we do not have a draft in the US. Mind blowing levels of big-brainery. To this man, inactive means nonexistent and therefore not a valid men's issue.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 03:24 PM
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We absolutely do have a draft in the US. We haven't implemented it since Vietnam, but when I turned 18 I had to sign up in order to get a drivers license and voting rights.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 02:58 PM
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As long as we're all still willing to listen to each other, I think we'll be okay. And I think in many places in the "manosphere" you'll see a similar vibe. We don't hate women. Most of us do hate feminism, however we don't hate all feminists - similar to how a gay person might hate "Christianity" for being so being homophobic, but not literally every single christian. Some of it is legitimate, but lots of us also just have a chip on our shoulder. I sure do. Sorry about that btw. Important to no…
/r/MensRights21/04/22 07:50 PM
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I will say this bluntly... You lack an understanding of the otherside. Just some of the things you've said speak tremendously of a faulty image of what it's like to be in those situations. I would say the exact same to you.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 06:23 PM
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I'm a woman who believes she should be allowed to go to work without being told I'm lesser, having my expertise scrutinized, and having everyone walk on eggshells around me because I might be offended. You're the one coming in here talking about how "I know you men face serious systemic issues, but I have problems too dont ya know" ​ Men have it harder? What about the men who live in comfort and wealth while women are forced into abusive domestic relationships by their families. Oh women have it…
/r/MensRights21/04/22 04:56 PM
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Instead the cops are on her side
/r/MensRights21/04/22 02:51 PM
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What rubs us the wrong way is how you equate your issues to ours. "Someone was mildly sexist towards me at work" vs "My genitals were forcibly mutilated at birth" "My country will send me to die on the front lines against my will" and "My wife beats me and when I called the cops I was arrested"
/r/MensRights21/04/22 02:49 PM
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you off your meds or something?
/r/MensRights21/04/22 02:08 PM
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Thank you, this is what I'm trying to get at. We want to pretend we're so progressive compared to 100 years ago, but in many ways we're just the same, except with far less compassion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 09:21 PM
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lmao big tough guy over here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 09:15 PM
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maybe I just hang out with too many leftists, because this is always how they frame it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 08:52 PM
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In what way were men's lives valued then? I'm just saying, for men who die in war, society at least used to value the sacrifice. Now it's "yeah whatever, a woman could have done it better" or "any man who joins the military is toxic and misogynistic by default". Men get forcibly drafted in Ukraine; we could at the very least appreciate the sacrifice, even though it was made involuntarily - a whole different issue, but all people online want to talk about is "the brave Ukrainian women who chose t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 08:38 PM
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men's lives were thrown into the machine of war, but at least they were appreciated for their sacrafice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 08:27 PM
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Don't hate women just for being women. They were born that way and can't change it. Hating women just for being women makes you as bad as the feminists. I understand the trust issues though. You have a right to caution. A woman with a good head on her shoulders, though, is a powerful ally. We need to overcome fear and learn to judge people for their character if we want to build a better future for men, and everyone else.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 04:16 PM
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This is how my girl and I do it. I make significantly more than her (partly because I'm older and further in my career), and she has more time off work than I do to - we split all the bills 2/3 me vs 1/3 her, and we try to split the house work 2/3 her vs 1/3 me. Kind of a "from each as they are able, to each as they need" sort of system. I would be totally down to fully financially support us both, if she wanted to take care of the house and pets full time, but since she wants to have her own in…
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/22 03:58 PM
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I was mutilated. It was done to me as a child and I was offered no chance to consent. I don't feel shame at the word; it's even relieving to hear someone say it like that, because it's validating to hear someone acknowledge that I was brutalized and permanently damaged as a child, not even a day old, by the very people who brought me into this world. Mutilated is not a thing that I am. It is a thing that was done to me. Calling it anything else is wrong, because it pretends that what happened to…
/r/MensRights11/04/22 02:45 PM
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As much as I don't want to care about gender, female advocates of male equality are very powerful allies, especially when they are conscious of their advantages like this woman. They can get away with exposing things to the mainstream public that they wouldn't accept coming from a man - or wouldn't believe if they heard it from a man.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 02:38 PM
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The silver lining is that you're stronger for having gone through it. Seeing that someone whom you're meant to trust has treated you poorly and unfairly, for no reason beyond their own myopic narcissism, and recognizing that they are wrong, is one of the first steps in learning to respect yourself. You didn't deserve it, but you survived it, and you're a stronger man for overcoming it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/22 06:42 PM
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What if we charge asians more for car insurance because they are stereotypically bad drivers?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/22 06:17 PM
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jesus it sounds like he was daring you to do it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/22 06:02 PM
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It's all good bro. Sorry for coming off so strong. It's is just a sensitive topic for me.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 02:51 PM
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Jesus dude. Even if there are some marginal benefits, these are children; they can't consent. The little girl example was supposed to make you see how fucked up that is, but I guess you're just a sociopath who doesn't care either way. So many children have died from botched circumcisions. So many men have sexual issues later in life, because the doctor just accidentally cut off too much. For a totally non-essential procedure. Whoops. When I was a kid I couldn't wear certain swimsuits because my …
/r/MensRights07/04/22 02:42 PM
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What about fathers choosing to mutilate the genitals of their daughters? That's cool with you? Or are you just a massive hypocrite?
/r/MensRights07/04/22 02:21 PM
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the majority of that violence is inflicted on men as well. This bias makes it harder for them to view men as legitimate victims.Instead they often see men's issues as self-inflicted, because in their minds men are in control and have all the power so they can't be victimized this is literally you
/r/MensRights31/03/22 05:14 PM
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You're the one who brought up picking cotton lmao. If you don't see how harassing black people about their "toxic blackness" would come off as racist you're beyond help.
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 05:43 PM
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Wow so not only are you sexist but you are also a racist. It's clear to me now that you're not interested in helping or listening to anyone.
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 04:49 PM
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I'm not sure if the whole feminist movement got the memo on what you say toxic masculinity means, because the majority of them in my experience have used it to shame me for being masculine, or just male at all. It is the feminists fault that this happened, because the term very blatantly frames masculinity (read: men) as the problem. Just imagine if a group of white karens coined a term "Toxic Blackness", and started trying to convince black people that they are experiencing "Toxic Blackness", a…
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 02:26 PM
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But if you believe sexual attraction and being an asshole to people you aren't sexually attracted to are biological and therefore unchangeable, why do you people here post and complain about the Tinder women who call short men subhuman? Isn't it just natural then? I don't know what you are arguing for. I'm not advocating for gender roles. I'm just saying men are attracted to certain qualities in women; women are attracted to certain qualities in men. This affects how men and women behave, becaus…
/r/AntiFeminists14/03/22 07:45 PM
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You haven't proved anything, just thrown insults. North korea is obviously not democratic - they hold no meaningful elections. They are in fact a totalitarian socialist state (aka communism). You see, socialism used to be fashionable, which is why the germans felt no need to hide their association with it. Now, in the 21st century, socialism has been tried unsuccessfully by so many peoples, that even one of the most blatantly totalitarian socialist regimes to ever exist (N Korea) obscures its re…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 04:28 PM
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Even my most intersectional feminist progressive UC Berkeley ex-friend always dates tall dudes with money and strong jawlines. It's not society's standards. It's women's standards. Just like feminists always complain about men's expectations on women; women have expectations for men. Maybe not you, because I'm sure you're so progressive and enlightened, but women in general. Men want a woman who is pretty, youthful, and can be a mother to his children - this gives you feminine culture of makeup,…
/r/AntiFeminists14/03/22 04:13 PM
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I mean it was literally called the "National Socialist Party". That's what "Nazi" is short for.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:26 PM
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cringe
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 04:33 PM
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Just so you, and more importantly any lurkers, realize I only disengaged because you're not worth engaging, and not because you have won some kind of argument: A woman doesn't always consent to becoming pregnant yes, but she has recourse - whether that's adoption or abortion - to back out of parenthood should she not feel ready for it. Men do not have the ability to back out of fatherhood. If the mother chooses to have the child and come after him for child support, he's boned - no option but to…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:55 PM
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r/iamverysmart
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:03 PM
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please take a xanax and maybe also take a nap
/r/MensRights28/02/22 08:58 PM
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still pathetic
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:58 PM
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You're an idiot. Both should carry responsibility, if they consent. Both should have the same legal ability to consent to parenthood. Men do go to prison for being too broke to pay child support. And women who steal sperm or collect child support from their rape victims only get away with it because men don't have these rights. You don't talk about these cases because you want to pretend they don't exist, because it wrecks your argument. You may not support women who victimize men, but you sure …
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:50 PM
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so because men don't get pregnant we don't deserve rights? we bear the risk of having our wages garnished, or having our drivers licenses revoked and going to prison if we can't afford child support payments. I mean there have been cases of adult women molesting teenage boys, getting pregnant, and then going after that boy for child support once he turns 18. Child support - payed to his rapist. Often in these cases the boy owes back pay, with interest, for the years that he was underage and not …
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:18 PM
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That's the point. Men are already told "If you don't want pregnancy don't fuck around", but women are given options to escape. In fact, if you told women seeking abortion that maybe they shouldn't have "fucked around" it's considered hugely misogynistic. This standard you are upset about - the one you think might not be realistic - is the standard men already have to deal with. To clarify, I don't think women shouldn't have access to abortion. The best way to solve this double standard is to jus…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:51 PM
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I think the important thing for the wage gap is the for the same work part. It is correct that the median salary for women in the US is lower than the median salary for men. It is not correct to say that this is because of discrimination - rather it is due to differences in career choices and lifestyle. A oil rig worker or software engineer cranking out 65 hours a week is much more likely to be a man, because less women are drawn to that type of work. It has nothing to do with women not being al…
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 05:16 PM
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I'm starting to realize this toxic and dismissive attitude you have is likely why you spend all day negging hurt men on the internet. I've had friends like you - real, close friends. I realized after a time that their need to always be "smarter" and "win" the argument was so draining that I couldn't handle having them in my life. I would open up to them about a problem I had, or feelings I was experiencing, and they had this need to flip it on me and convince me that I was somehow wrong or inval…
/r/MensRights17/02/22 03:59 PM
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You are for infant genital mutilation? What the fuck
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:42 PM
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I was forced to sign up for it to get a driver's license and voting rights when I turned 18. They reserve the right to send me a letter in the mail, and I would be forced to go. We just haven't had a war bad enough for them to start sending those letters in a while. But my name, and the name of every american man of fighting age, is still on that list.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 07:28 PM
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they actually are, that's the whole point of the draft
/r/MensRights18/01/22 06:50 PM
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when men get sick we lose our jobs and get divorced
/r/MensRights18/01/22 06:40 PM
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the male gaze is when men have eyeballs
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/22 06:09 PM
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the attitude of these people when they come across an actual victim is appalling
/r/MensRights21/12/21 02:52 PM
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who hurt you sweaty?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 07:42 PM
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And no man is born a wife beater, but it's still a good idea for girls to avoid dudes that are like that. That's all my man is saying, just with the genders reversed.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 07:40 PM
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and that is why JP will live forever
/r/MensRights15/11/21 04:10 PM
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My man here being a literal rape apologist
/r/MensRights12/11/21 03:07 PM
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I'm glad you corrected your spelling - otherwise i would have thought you were an out of touch naval gazing moron
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/21 06:06 PM
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MRM, which stand's for "Men's rights movement" It's not about you, so check your ego
/r/MensRights10/11/21 06:03 PM
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Woman joins mens' community, makes everything about her and her feelings
/r/MensRights10/11/21 05:55 PM
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Let me rephrase so you can understand then - you are silly, ignorant, sexist, and you have nothing to add to the discussion here. Everyone here already knows you're full of shit, except for apparently you.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 03:14 PM
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I never said you were knowledgable
/r/MensRights10/11/21 02:56 PM
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you are not as smart as you think you are
/r/MensRights10/11/21 02:35 PM
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patriarchy is when 15 year old boys can be raped by their teacher and then ordered to pay child support to their rapist
/r/MensRights04/11/21 01:21 PM
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Patriarchy is when he gets to keep his last name but not his foreskin
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:26 PM
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Becomes more complicated if you're married This was my point, idk wtf you're on.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:08 PM
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lol am I also not allowed to care about suicide statistics because I haven't killed myself yet? I'm not so materialistic that all I care about in a relationship is how much money she makes. It does bother me, however, when that's all she cares about.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:02 PM
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Patriarchy is when people on the internet have opinions I don't like
/r/MensRights03/11/21 04:14 PM
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Ever heard of every queen who ever lived? Victoria and Elizabeth a couple famous ones. How about Maggie Thatcher? What about Hillary "women are the primary victims of war" Clinton? They don't even need to be leaders - in the mid-late 1910's there was a feminist group called "The White Feather Movement" that was all about bullying young men into enlisting in WWI, so they could die choking on mustard gas in the trenches.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 04:08 PM
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lol i don't know how you're unaware of how brutal divorce is on men. I've never been married but I make good money, and it's wild how many women feel totally entitled to the lifestyle a man can give her while offering nothing in return. Not so much gold digging - they feel like they deserve the gold without even having to dig. "Her money is her money, but my money is our money" energy.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 03:58 PM
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yeah especially when you get baited in and the sex life only disappears after you sign the paperwork. You have no good options because leaving the toxic relationship would also mean losing half your assets.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 03:26 PM
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Patriarchy is when female leaders send male troops to die in war
/r/MensRights03/11/21 03:18 PM
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Becomes more complicated if you're married
/r/MensRights03/11/21 03:16 PM
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nice job now do suicide rates, workplace deaths, combat fatalities, and life expectancy
/r/MensRights03/11/21 03:10 PM
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Female friend of mine wanted some guy she thought was hot to ask her out. I asked her why she didn't ask him out; she told me he's a worthless white boy who doesn't deserve the emotional labor. She still wanted to fuck him though. I told her what she said was kind of sexist. She told me that I'm the sexist, because women have endured 10,000 years of rape and murder at the hands of men like me. I told her being lumped into a group like that, even though I had nothing to do with any of that stuff,…
/r/MensRights01/11/21 02:59 PM
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I think your brain has not developed, and you are not mature
/r/MensRights30/10/21 02:12 PM
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20-something woman can't imagine someone having a different view than her, what's new
/r/MensRights30/10/21 02:05 PM
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I think that if an older man can not date within his age group, there must be something wrong with him for others in his age group to find him undesirable. Red flag. They don't want to date in their age group. This sentiment is true when you're 16 and talking about that creepy 19 year old boy who only dates HS sophomores, but in the real world men of all ages basically want 22 year old women. And those 22 year olds want the older men, more often than not, because a guy in his 30s/40s likely has …
/r/MensRights30/10/21 01:51 PM
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Its not our place to tell those women what their "place in society" is, just as it's not your place to tell men who it is appropriate to be attracted to.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 01:34 PM
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Do the one where the teacher raped her 15 year old student and the student ended up paying child support
/r/MensRights29/10/21 02:13 PM
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They think you're misogynistic for the same reason they think r/mensrights is misogynistic. To them, they are the same thing. They don't actually care about what you have to say, being sympathetic to men alone is enough for them to vilify you. I know this sub likes to think that you're better than r/mensrights, but to them the distinction is meaningless - we're all just chauvinistic MRA incels that promote rape culture and want to control women's' bodies. Disclaimer: I'm talking about a certain …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/21 05:15 PM
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Is this the type of paper where you synthesize any worthy ideas of your own, or is it the type where you uselessly regurgitate existing pieces of academic navel-gazing? Because you're describing it like its the latter.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 05:01 PM
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you are not as smart as you think you are
/r/MensRights26/10/21 04:14 PM
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My point is that when you say this Our society very very clearly values men in leadership roles over women. It should also go without saying that Our society very very clearly values men being homeless over women. You're falling for the apex fallacy. Condemning all the men who end up on the bottom because of the vast minority of men who end up on top. It's not so simple as "society favoring men", because if that were true, men wouldn't be committing suicide at over 3 times the rate of women.
/r/MensRights25/10/21 05:14 PM
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how many men have become president vs how many have become homeless?
/r/MensRights25/10/21 04:12 PM
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I feel it's more that he's preemptively roasting the people he knew were gonna get mad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah I think it's a combination of power hungry people tending to ignore ethics to become powerful, and that people who are of an ethical mind care less about becoming powerful in the first place. I don't think jeff or zuck were necessarily good dudes before the money. Corrupt people seek power, and that power then corrupts them further.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 04:55 PM
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Since we're bringing it up I'm also a software engineer (that's why I'm also on reddit in the middle of the work day) You're totally right that the sociopathic lack of ethics is a big factor. I'm not saying you have to be like that, but dudes like that are who you're up against. My main point is that portraying these guys as "lazy one-percenters" who just sit on a pile of money all day is underplaying how dangerous they can be, and how tough they are to fight against.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 04:39 PM
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I hear you man, I have sympathy. It's not easy for men to find someone to lean on when we need help, often you're just left to your own devices.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 04:28 PM
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An online book shop is hardly a novel idea You little shit you thought this pun would slip by me. You know they say luck is a combination of opportunity and preparation. There were tons of online stores back in the early 2000's, but amazon came out on top. Just like how MySpace was already a thing when Facebook showed up. When's the last time you saw Tom in the news? Obviously both Bezos and Zuckerberg are ridiculous bond-esque secluded evil billionaires who pull at the strings of our society in…
/r/MensRights15/10/21 04:19 PM
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I mean, amazon wouldn't exist if he didn't start it. Not to be a bezos apologist or anything, but not just anyone can become an evil billionaire in less than 20 years.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:50 PM
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I read half of your comment but didn't find it that interesting. Replied before I finished! Certainly insensitive to comedians.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 03:45 PM
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That's rough dude. Not many women will date a man they have to take care of financially.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 03:36 PM
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I actually really like being the provider for my girl. It makes me feel strong, and she likes it because it makes her feel safe and taken care of. She handles more stuff at home, I handle more of the financial load, and together we work as a team. Once (if) we have kids, me being the 'provider and protector' means that my girl can actually stay home to spend time with and raise our children. What I don't like is how many would women expect me to fulfill the "male role" here, but reject the "fema…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 03:27 PM
3

I hope you never end up as my lawyer man, you don't seem very good at it.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 09:09 AM
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Living with a chip on your shoulder makes you assume the worst from everyone, I think we've all been there. Even if those assumptions are often right, being combative will only push people away. Stay positive brother.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 06:29 PM
2

that's what he's saying bro he's on your side
/r/MensRights11/10/21 06:20 PM
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You're getting downvotes because you're saying the vast majority of rape is male on female, but you're not addressing the fact that female on male rape is often excluded from the legal definition of rape. Also, if you're working on criminal cases, something has to be classified as a criminal case before you even see it. Your sample is biased. All the female on male rapes and assaults that go unreported, or are brushed off by the cops (who don't think a woman can rape a man), or even the ones whe…
/r/MensRights11/10/21 05:08 PM
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If you work more hours and bring in more money, then she should absolutely be doing more of the housework and cleaning, especially if she has days off during the week when the kid isn't even home. Plus it seems like she has you doing the "man's work". Maybe she should handle the "woman's work"? Unless she wants to take shifts mowing the yard. It's not about gender roles, just about splitting up the labor. If she doesn't want to touch any of the yard work or home maintenance, but expects you to p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/21 02:09 PM
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Catcalling shouldn't be illegal change my mind
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/21 02:22 PM
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Consent for becoming a parent is one. Women have the entire pro-choice movement, but in the event of an unintended pregnancy, men have absolutely no choice in whether or not they become a father. Even if a man is raped or the girl lies about being on birth control, he is at the mercy of what the mother chooses to do with the child - and if your rapist chooses to keep the baby you better be ready to cough up child support or you're going to jail. Not saying women shouldn't have the right to choos…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/21 08:28 PM
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Pretty much yeah, so welcome to our world I guess.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 03:04 PM
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I agree, I think this is a stupid solution. Better to let women have the option to terminate pregnancy (up to a point) or put the child up for adoption, and give the father option of divorcing from his financial responsibility to the child (again, up to a point - no last minute take-backs). Essentially both parents should have the option to back out if they are not ready or for whatever reason don't want to become a parent. I think the mistake a lot of pro choice feminists make is advocating for…
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:54 PM
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Ah, the old "keep it in your pants" argument. When was the last time you told a woman "if you didn't want to get pregnant you should have kept your legs shut"?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:40 PM
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Texas women can still at least abort up to about 6 weeks, which, if you're raped, gives you a decent amount of time to seek treatment to avoid carrying your rapists child. Even if abortion isn't an option (which btw I think it should, especially for rape victims), a woman can still put the child up for adoption and avoid 18 years of responsibility. Men don't get any of these options. If you are raped as a man, and your rapist has your child, you better be ready to cough up child support or you'r…
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:39 PM
1

Everyone loves Stalin! Everyone who doesn't seems to mysteriously disappear...
/r/MensRights12/08/21 04:44 PM
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I am so tired of people rambling about how men aren't allowed to express emotions... insinuating that women are. I read a shocking-even-me statistic today: almost 1 in 3 men say they'd rape a woman... I can’t stand how men try to say they are just as afraid of being attacked as women are Reddit has made me hate men. This is what I got just mindlessly scrolling their top posts this month.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 07:18 PM
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The fact that you read and watched that much of his stuff and still think he's a grifter is baffling ​ This was nice, but that's plenty now. Seeya
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 06:33 PM
2

As a vegan bernie bro I'm gonna tell you dude, you sound like a total moron right now. Preaching about not speaking on things you don't know, or letting people tell you how to thing, right after accusing JP for being a right wing recruiter when you only know anything about him because of a hostile piece some journalist wrote. Humans emerged from the caves by mastering agriculture (including animal agriculture), and Jordan Peterson has given life saving advice to thousands of struggling young men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 06:10 PM
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y'all's
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 10:40 PM
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Yeah that’s fair. Brock turner got away with it because he’s a rich piece of shit though, not because he’s a man. Also, he “got away with it”, but he’s been immortalized as a rapist by social media (and rightfully so), in a way that just doesn’t happen to female perps. When women get away with rape, it’s usually because people don’t believe women can be rapists or they don’t believe men can be victims. When young men get away with it, it’s usually because their rich parents know the judge or som…
/r/MensRights16/01/21 07:37 PM
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I mean, a female teacher can rape a male student, get caught, and not only avoid prison but also sue the teenage boy for child support. I don’t know the exact post you read, but with that topic it’s usually it’s not about “punishing women more”, it’s about recognizing obvious situations where women just get away with shit.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:42 PM
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No one wants to live in your shitty basement dude. Plus you’re already paying that money in taxes, and every time we send someone to prison you’re still footing the bill for their 3 hots and a cot. I’m just saying we spend some of that money before poverty turns this person into a criminal. Then once they’re on their feet, they will also be paying the same taxes as you to help someone else get off the street. If you don’t want the government taking your money for things you don’t approve of then…
/r/MensRights20/12/20 10:31 PM
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Other countries are getting it done, why not us? Spend a little less money on prisons and the military and it’s amazing what you can fit in the budget. And if it helps people become productive members of society, that money will be saved when they start paying income taxes and stay out of prison where we would be paying for their housing, food, and healthcare anyway. And I’m not talking about luxury living here btw, just the literal bare minimum to keep people off the streets and in decent physi…
/r/MensRights20/12/20 09:49 PM
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Availability of public housing > quality of public housing. Both are important but I don’t really care about how nice the place is if it doesn’t even exist yet. Step one is to just get people off the streets.
/r/MensRights20/12/20 07:52 PM
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Lmao are you suggesting that we aren’t already treating rape as a gendered issue? Because if you want to talk about that I could mention how we don’t even classify female on male rape as “rape”, but instead call it “forced to penetrate”, and prison rape statistics are also almost never included. As a result of this your rape statistics ignore vast majority of male victims. Look up any example of a female teacher having an “affair” with an underaged male student if you want to see what I mean. We…
/r/MensRights20/12/20 07:27 PM
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If you can’t show compassion for someone else don’t be surprised when no one shows any to you.
/r/MensRights20/12/20 06:37 PM
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My take is that this is support that should really be available to everyone, not just vets, but the fact that we don’t even support people traumatized and broken by their time in the military is extra shitty. Giving support and compassion to vets is at least a place to start, and if people see that it works maybe that support and compassion will spread. Free therapy works for ex-marines? Great, now let’s make it available to everyone! Basic government housing helps homeless vets get off the stre…
/r/MensRights20/12/20 06:35 PM
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Dude most people in the military just want to go to college. You’re blaming the victims for the system being shitty.
/r/MensRights20/12/20 06:27 PM
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Part of the whole contract of serving in the military is the support you’re supposed once you’re finished. I agree, the help we should be giving vets is help that really everyone should have access to, but it’s extra shitty when we withhold it from vets. Especially because of all the extra physical and mental health problems nearly every soldier accumulates during their service. It’s a difference between being ignored and neglected, and being chewed up, spit out, punched in the gut, THEN ignored…
/r/MensRights20/12/20 06:25 PM
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Most vets are men, most homeless people are men, most suicides are men. If a homeless vet commits suicide, what are the odds that they weren’t male? I’d guess it’s pretty slim. If you can’t see how this is a male issue, especially when so many other “universal” problems that disproportionately affect men are systematically ignored, then maybe you need to rinse your eyes out.
/r/MensRights20/12/20 06:19 PM
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75% of murder victims are men
/r/MensRights02/08/20 04:03 PM
1

I’ve been told how to dress, how to act, and how to exist my whole life as a man too, but I didn’t have a movement to empower me so I just ended up spiraling into depression. A lot of the problems you care about are just human issues. No one here believes that women don’t suffer, but most people don’t care when men suffer too. One of the biggest reasons that men drop out of college and commit suicide at such an alarming rate.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 11:57 PM
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