my sister

WeEatBabies · 2022-07-10T10:13:25+00:00

Wait 'till she asks you a favor and reply : "I thought you hated me!"

AmmaronsRepository · 2022-07-10T17:52:53+00:00

Mother in-law once said disdainfully, where are all the good men?! I said, married to all the good women. Sad to say, but a good attitude can make bad situations good and a bad one worse. I know plenty just like that. Unless you can move to the wilderness and spend years unplugged, she’ll keep drinking that poison.

rainbow_bro_bot · 2022-07-10T11:15:24+00:00

Both my sisters would cheat on their bfs a lot when teens. Sometimes the bf would find out and dump then, and then they would say things like "men are pigs! I hate men! you can't trust men! men this men that!" blaming men and refusing to take any responsibility.

ConsiderationOdd2929 · 2022-07-10T16:53:33+00:00

Just ask her how that air conditioning feels 🤣

But seriously, I recognize that brand of hate. Just wait for her to vent, then hit her with statistics and facts. She'll eventually learn not to do it in front of you for fear of further embarrassment.

...which teaches restraint. It's a good thing.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-07-10T21:06:47+00:00

That is sexist, darling. Don't be a sexist pig.

gordo31 · 2022-07-10T09:04:54+00:00

Don't say anything, she's not going to listen.

ReptilianRectangle · 2022-07-10T13:21:20+00:00

Try slithering in a "i hate women" inbetween your conversations sometime. If she takes the bait, engage and destroy her with facts and logic. If she doesn't, continue to gaslight her until she gets fed up and does.

Huffers1010 · 2022-07-11T00:25:35+00:00

"Do you hate me?"

"Do you hate dad?"

Or insert other male acquaintance you know she likes and would hesitate to diss.

ElectricPanda-123 · 2022-07-10T09:13:55+00:00

Rip to her husband if she is straight or whatever is inbetween

UnfurtletDawn · 2022-07-10T12:05:52+00:00

"politics"

Majority of voters are women. So you women voted them in stop complaining about issues that you have caused.

duhhhh · 2022-07-10T10:49:45+00:00

It's odd that we were raised in the same family and only one of us turned out to be a raging sexist. Have you been indoctrinated into a feminist cult or something?

RugbySk8tr · 2022-07-10T19:18:13+00:00

"Whatever."

dependency_injector · 2022-07-10T14:04:16+00:00

Convince her that majority of men in power are Jewish, so she'd have to say she hates Jewish men.

aknabi · 2022-07-10T21:16:30+00:00

“Until the dinner bill arrives”

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-07-10T12:11:49+00:00

Sadly you have to cut her off theres nothing else you can do until the feminsit parasite leaves her.

Separate_Natural_368 · 2022-07-10T22:49:55+00:00

Never say anything just be disappointed and distance yourself because that’s misandrist. Giving in and trying to debate with a fool will make you look less mature. Be an upstanding dude so she will be mad you are a man that’s actually likeable

HeatInternational783 · 2022-07-10T23:07:51+00:00

Ask her if criminals were to bust down the door would she expect all the men she hates to protect and watch out for her then? Would she hate them then? How can you hate people then expect something back from them?

She’s also being told that by every corporation in this country. Women spend 7/10 dollars, so companies pander hardcore to them. They see numbers increase in sales when they rag on husbands.

cyruszane · 2022-07-11T01:25:56+00:00

This is going to sound harsh, and I don't mean it this way but it is an effective tool.

When raising a child, or a puppy. They will often try to test limits, they do this in many ways and children (more so when growing teeth) and puppies will bite. The correct behavior to do is to act as if they have caused you pain, not to over do it but they need to see the biting or hitting is wrong.

With your sister, who I am thinking you live with, you will have to be more tactful. Make it a bit of a joke at first. like "ouch, well, I still love you" or "aww but what bout me?" or insert some fun tease in there some place, don't go over what she has said.. and go against what I normally would say and don't meet her level, go below it always. Make it a joke, make it fun.

this hopefully will teach her how her thinking is wrong. she raises, you go lower. Now keep in mind there is a point you back off, and just walk away with out saying a word.

Sometimes, no words are better then everything you could say. This is where the above parental action comes into play again. You are hurt, be hurt. Don't draw it out or anything but, walk away , say nothing. If she apologizes (which we hope she will) don't draw it out one or two words to accept it and move away again.

She needs to learn that her words hurt, she has had the luxury of never being questioned. Time to question. Again, don't raise the stakes, lower them. Hopefully she will see how she is wrong and try to correct her behavior.

YaMamSucksMeToes · 2022-07-10T20:49:52+00:00

Try "I hate the Tories" if she agrees then problem solved, if she disagrees then you need know she's a lost cause.

donnasunderland123 · 2022-07-10T22:23:38+00:00

Nothing. Let her whine

GnomeChompy · 2022-07-10T22:35:50+00:00

Just don't interact with your sister unless you absolutely have to. You deserve better than that kind of toxicity.

strobro · 2022-07-13T08:18:09+00:00

Live a well, be good to the people around you, and take care of yourself.

Also, don't even validate the sexist comments with a response.

Your words will not change her, but you can be a living counter example to her bullshit.

Title	my sister
Author	Eastern-Implement236
Upvotes	64
Comments	29
Date	July 10, 2022 8:37 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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That is sexist, darling. Don't be a sexist pig.