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I don't think you are a 'Hiring Manager.'
/r/MensRights13/08/12 06:32 PM
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We're applying data to two different things. I'm using data that says people in /r/mensrights are misogynist. You are using data from a radical fringe feminist website and saying all feminists are radical nutjobs. In reality, the people on that site are nutjobs. I'm not generalizing, and you are. Our two statements are not even comparable.
/r/MensRights15/03/12 08:39 PM
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The fact that I should have to "prove" that all feminists aren't crazy fringe nutjobs is a very sincere tell that you really have no credible frame of reference to judge people at all. "Sources and Science" I'm suppose to find a source that says "90% of all feminists aren't a part of a hateful conspiracy against men!" Do hear how absurd that sounds? I don't think /r/mensrights is an example of all men that want equality. If it was, I'd be depressed at the amount of hateful animosity for women. I…
/r/MensRights15/03/12 08:29 PM
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All these comments are paranoid and not representative of the basic group of feminists. Yes, these are paranoid hate groups, but they are not even 5% of the people that identify as feminists. They totally do not justify the hate and paranoia geared toward women created in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights15/03/12 08:13 PM
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The whole Men's Right's movement is a joke. Men are the LEAST oppressed group in the world. How can you be so blind? There's like three issues that men get a bum rap. 1.) Child Custody 2.) Unfair prison sentencing in certain situations (which is really just a product of misogyny - women get sentenced less because they are seen as "weak and confused") Pretty much every men's issue can be solved by fixing the problems that women face in society. Regarding "worked with a feminist organization", eit…
/r/MensRights15/03/12 06:25 PM
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I would love to see a site that tries to do the same. Because it would be a feat of the impossible. Feminists don't hate men. They hate men that hate women. (i.e. this subreddit) I am just aghast that the members here can't see how directly insulting women, insinuating women have evil plots against men, and refusing to see that the problems that men DO have in society are actually part of what feminism is trying to destroy. The level of ignorance in this subreddit is ridiculous. Due to the probl…
/r/MensRights15/03/12 05:44 PM
1

Thanks. After posting this and reading the two replies I really got my head back on correctly. I feel like r/seduction is geared towards those who look to pick women up, and a lot of what to do after you make it is left in the air. It's nice to know there are levelheaded individuals that can offer advice of substance.
/r/seduction24/01/11 08:34 PM
1

Thanks man, this was very reassuring. I'll have to remember to monitor my inner dialogue better when I get to these thoughts and feelings.
/r/seduction24/01/11 08:30 PM
1

Don't throw away your life chasing one girl.
/r/seduction14/01/11 12:07 AM
5

I don't trim mine and it comes in the form of a manly gotee. Then again, I want to attract women that like what I like, so I dress however the fuck I want and wear whatever the fuck I want.
/r/seduction14/01/11 12:06 AM
3

Quit being boring and unfunny. You make it sound like its a fucking mountain. It's not.
/r/seduction14/01/11 12:05 AM
2

Being highly available at DHV locations is great for game. I have several "open" events in my life that I invite -everyone- I know to. We have a quarter beer event on Wednesdays, and wert Wednesday I send out 45-60 personalized invitation texts. This makes inviting new people or more importantly, new girls much much easier. The more girls you can get in your inner circle while remaining alpha is so hugely fuckig helpful. I'm digging the girl I'm with right now, an I don't do more than one at a t…
/r/seduction30/12/10 12:37 AM
3

Dude, I text my girlfriend, whom I used seddit techniques on, only when I want to see her that day. If it's not a getting together text, and it's a cheesey romancing/game text, I only do those about once every 2-3 days. It's ancedotal, but it's about consistently texting a girl at spaced out frequencies. We've been going steady for four months. If I texted her 10 times in two days it better hve been a fucking emergency. 10 times in two days is outlandish.
/r/seduction30/12/10 12:30 AM
2

I learned this in a communication class in college. The rule is to ask questions about the other person in order to forward conversation. Pickup, however, is geared toward getting a certain goal out of the communication. I've noticed if you don't ask questions, and respond to his DHV stories with "Thats cool, I......." [fill in your DHV story] it really allows you to take control of the conversation. Inevitably, they'll ask you questions about your own DHV story. Really works. While I'm in a rel…
/r/seduction25/12/10 04:11 AM
8

It's not like I'm gonna try it when I'm still in a relationship. That's low; especially because I like where I am. To think of every relationship as lastig forever is naive.
/r/seduction22/12/10 03:03 AM
12

Genius. Next time I'm single I'll try this.
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:57 PM
0

I thought everyone already knew this? Chumps.
/r/seduction20/12/10 01:43 AM
2

oneitis. One girl isnt anything. Hit on lots of girls.
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:20 AM
4

When it's going well, I stand in her personal space, very closely but not having touching bodies and I stare in her eyes. I hold that for almost too long, but not quite, then kiss her.
/r/seduction25/11/10 02:33 PM
2

I don't friend girls until after I've slept with them.
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:43 PM
2

If she has lots of guy friends, she probably just wants to be friends.
/r/seduction17/11/10 03:41 AM
1

Practice laughing without making a sound, then turn that into just smiling. Smiling is where its at, not laughing. Save laughs for the funny shit.
/r/seduction12/11/10 10:58 PM
3

Call her on it; tease her. Make her know that that shit wont fly with you without looking like a complete jerkoff.
/r/seduction07/11/10 10:52 PM
10

If the girl really is DTF, get her to talk to her friend. A woman will convince her friend to leave much easier than you can. The trick is making your future hook-up want to ditch her friend for you. When the friend isnt around, hint to her that you two might be able to have a better time alone.
/r/seduction07/11/10 10:50 PM
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The purpose of the article is to point out the inherently wrong issues with men's sexuality and how it relates to society. It has nothing to do with how to get laid. But I do realize that she never discussed how people got the title of creep in detail.
/r/seduction07/11/10 10:47 PM
2

I actually practice PMA in real life, but on the Internet, Ifind doling out advice that appears more neutral or on the pessimistic side to be more helpful.
/r/seduction01/11/10 10:53 PM
0

A court of law sometimes. Like I said, I don't know the details, but I assume everything was considered great. Just trying to lookout for a fellow sedditor.
/r/seduction01/11/10 08:01 PM
2

Stop playing video games religiously.
/r/seduction01/11/10 02:51 PM
7

I applaud your balls, but I can't say if this was right or not without knowing the situation. If it couldn't be interpreted as date rape, goodjob. I think this isn't the best strategy.
/r/seduction01/11/10 07:08 AM
1

Smile at them.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:56 PM
1

On a scale of F- through A+ I give myself a B+ or an A. 5'9 145lbs. Face like a lady killer, and skills like a tradesman.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:52 PM
1

Get into it. Semi act out parts in the story. IE if its about skateboarding, do a quick skateboard mime that isn't over the top. It's the subtle parts that make the story. Gotta give it some detail.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:41 PM
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Well, I like the idea. I'm with silent_p though. The analogy could have been better.com
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:38 PM
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No.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:33 PM
3

Depends on if you are gonna get weird after it.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:24 PM
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Just keep on chugging. Bury that shit so deep it'll fertilize plants next spring. In groups, talk to everyone, and hit on the girls. I get this too from time to time for no fuckin reason. Just gotta keep it under control.
/r/seduction25/10/10 04:17 PM
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From the summer til now, we've gained almost 4.5k subscribers. Almost half of our subscribers are newbies in seduction and only have basic internal knowledge about picking up women. What they need to learn is that alot of pickup books are just starters. They give you a basic guideline for talking to women and tools (canned material) to do so. The geniuses at pickup realize that these are greyed and there is always uncertainity between people. Ironically ( I hope this is the correct usage ), your…
/r/seduction24/10/10 10:23 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction24/10/10 09:59 PM
2

I think they are the same emotion. Don't worry about it. Approach them, and just put off really open, nice, feelings. When they get comfortable, start gaming like regular.
/r/seduction24/10/10 09:42 PM
2

I down voted you, but want to point out both sides to your point. First, accepting an idea for a date she suggests is NOT a bad thing. This is your time to come in and impress the fuck out of her friends and build extremely high social value. You come in with a blank slate and you can frame yourself in her group anyway you want. Its so easy. Second, if you are looking to start a relationship with this girl, and not just bang the fuck out of her, you'll eventually have to do things she suggests. …
/r/seduction24/10/10 09:29 PM
3

Stand in front of a mirror, and try to convey all the different emotions. Look at yourself in the eyes and just work on them. Remember funny jokes, then try to make your face look the way you want it to look like. Practice, then when you go out, don't think about it. Just let them flow. Try to be in the moment. Slightly over-play the situation. If someone tells a joke that would only make you smile alone, chuckle a bit and smile big.
/r/seduction24/10/10 08:57 PM
2

Striking fear may not be what you are making them feel. It's probably their nerves (making them nervous); this is usually a sign of attraction. I think you may be miss-reading attraction signals as fear signals.
/r/seduction24/10/10 08:46 PM
2

Wear clothes that are stylish, but play down physical features. Baggier clothes, that fit. I have a relatively small build. I'm 5'9'', 145 lbs, and build like a runner. While having little upper body mass, I wear Small T-shirts that fit tight to give the illusion of be being bigger. I'm sure you can manipulate the way you wear clothes to make you look less threatening. You could go to a department store, and ask the young women there to for advice on clothes to help you look less intimidating. T…
/r/seduction24/10/10 08:45 PM
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Depends on location, extremeness, size, ect. If its away from your T zone ( Forehead, nose, mouth ) it shouldn't matter too much. Remember that when you display confidence there should be a lot of eye contact and face looking. I've battled extremely persistent acne for a long time (not huge outbreaks, but acne that will just NOT go away), and it really hurt my confidence. As soon as I learned to say, " fuck it " about my acne and learn to treat it as something thats not a social issue, the faste…
/r/seduction24/10/10 08:39 PM
1

It's a shit test. Keep doing what you are doing. Ignore the player statement.
/r/seduction22/10/10 03:05 PM
9

You gotta diversify your b(l)ond(e)s. -Wu Tang
/r/seduction18/10/10 08:17 PM
1

If it comes up, tell her you're not "feeling her situation," and being friends seems like it would work better. Continue like normal and continue to talk to her, but do not seek out interaction with her. In two weeks invite her to something group related and re-game her.
/r/seduction18/10/10 07:55 PM
1

"Yeah! Just being around you is making me chubby"
/r/seduction12/10/10 10:13 PM
5

Be sure to give her space and days where you don't really talk/see her. Then, when you do see her, make sure it's a great time. Be a happy, fun and confident individual. Keep with the kino and kissing, it'll go the right way.
/r/seduction11/10/10 08:30 PM
1

I think we're everything that has to do with the pursuit of women.
/r/seduction09/10/10 08:43 PM
2

I agree; on a nicer day, ask her to go to the park or something.
/r/seduction04/10/10 11:13 PM
1

Don't get oneitis. I too was coming in from a deep video game social wound, and playing more games won't get you where you want. Just remember: If this doesn't work out, you can always meet another girl. Shit opens up so fast after you turn 21.
/r/seduction04/10/10 11:11 PM
1

I enjoy "Ultra Violet Man." when I apply cologne, I spray it onto a wad of toilet paper then wipe some on my breast bone area so the scent cones out the front. This works for me, because I do a lot of "whispering secrets" to build a more intimate 1v1 relationship, and the scent usually hits them then. I think it ties the scent to more intimate feelings, and when she smells it later, remembers the sexual tension I was building.
/r/seduction04/10/10 11:05 PM
1

Try r/sex. They've helped me with a very different problem, but Im sure they can give advice.
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:56 PM
1

Apropos.
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:53 PM
1

Move on, sounds like the beginning of oneitis. It was a K close two weeks ago with no contact in between. If you meet her again in person and by chance, feel free to game her and bring it up.
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:50 PM
2

Usually, straight up (editted out honesty) declaring interest verbally is beta, but here, I disagree. Tell her, if its true, that you are genuinely smitten with her, and your apparent smoothness is just a front. Be sure not to sound needy or clingy, and keep your frame as a strong independant. OR You can ignore it and continue asking her out. After 4 or so dates she'll probably get on with it. If she brings it up again, deflect with a question like, " Why, do you like me that much to worry about…
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:42 PM
1

I don't have any experience opening celebrities. I have no advice or ideas on how to have made this better.
/r/seduction04/10/10 12:39 AM
0

Most of it was perfectly fine flirting. He over did it and made her feel like a slut. Everyone knows flirting isn't how you seriously treat girls, it's just a back and forth banter. Text messages make it hard to discern things and leave much to over analyzing. If he had called her maybe 2/3 of the way through he mightve been able to pick her up an negate the slut feelings. Normal humans play games and make mistakes. This man is normal; your narrow view on what should be normal is less than optim…
/r/seduction03/10/10 08:14 AM
3

R/seduction is about getting laid, so get some. But Im downvoting you for sounding like a scumbag.
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:36 AM
0

You might be a prick; just sayin.
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:29 AM
1

It all in body language and eye contact. Learn through trial and error.
/r/seduction03/10/10 02:39 AM
2

Impossible.
/r/seduction02/10/10 05:40 PM
1

That's not what I meant at all. Fuck gentleman. That's just some excuse betas use to justify being beta.
/r/seduction02/10/10 05:35 PM
10

You made her feel like a slut. Other than that, good job. Next time, just offer to pick her up and go to your place.
/r/seduction02/10/10 06:51 AM
7

A few mantras I say to myself when Im on the approach. "Im Fearless and Peerless" "She pays for my gaze" "Chin up, Smile on, She'll notice when I'm gone." I know they are cheesey, but I think the rhymes really let them reverberate in my mind. Like a catchy song. I recommend comin up with various sayings or parables or rhymes throughout the day that remind you to keep on sarging. One I used when I still had approach anxiety: "The first Chance is my Last Chance" Overrall, I think that the cheesier…
/r/seduction01/10/10 11:37 PM
1

Kino more. As others said you might be in the LJBF zone. This means it's time to physically escalate when you can, followed by hitting on other girls in front and not infront of her. Send her positive attractive physical signals while hitting on other women. Mixed signals gets a girl thinking about you.
/r/seduction01/10/10 05:55 PM
2

Library. Good place to pick up books, and occassionally, women.
/r/seduction01/10/10 05:37 PM
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This is fuckin dumb.
/r/seduction30/09/10 09:58 PM
2

Any variation of "Hey, Whats Up" usually works for me.
/r/seduction30/09/10 02:11 PM
4

Approaches. Don't have her talk you up directly, else you run the risk of "why isn't she with him?"
/r/seduction30/09/10 12:50 AM
1

Requires an email. Like Im gonna put it down just to get a skin deep evaluation.
/r/seduction29/09/10 09:54 PM
1

Smile at her next time you catch her looking, and don't look away just yet. If she smiles back, approach after class.
/r/seduction29/09/10 07:58 PM
3

Good rules for being a good host, period.
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:11 PM
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If you want to be friends, be friends. If not, move on. Plenty of girls I've failed with are still my friends, but i can appreciate them as people and friends so I keep hanging with them. They are friends, so treat them like friends.
/r/seduction29/09/10 02:59 AM
-1

I'm bored; what's up?
/r/seduction28/09/10 07:42 PM
1

You draw the line at the end of the party, or after you've isolated.
/r/seduction28/09/10 07:09 PM
2

Because the way I do it sou ds like new age hippy bullshit. Positive mental attitude is what I do. I have daily affirmations, and any time I feel like I am even slightly losing confidence I take a step back and say my affirmations. I then force myself to smile and think about the last tme I had a good laugh. I then remind myself that girls are just one part of my life, and everythig else Ive done has been successful. I often yell at myself mentally " I am a sexy, intelligent, suave man that ever…
/r/seduction28/09/10 06:40 PM
3

I think he said he's interested in men.
/r/seduction26/09/10 09:57 PM
4

Worrying about that shit is so beta. Just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean it's time to drop the seducing. You are already leaps and fucking bounds ahead of anyone trying to pick up your gf. Why? Because you already picked her up. If a man is hitting on your girl, wait till he strikes out. We, as a community, know how often guys get rejected. If she's committed to you(and she should be because you are such a high value man), you've already won. Keep flirting with your girl, and keep se…
/r/seduction26/09/10 09:50 PM
3

Oh no, I agree. Hit on a girl with a boyfriend. Only those that are unhappy will trade up. I'm just disagreeing with you that not having a boyfriend around is a sign that she'll cheat. Or that her being at a club is an automatic time to cheat sign. Alls fair game, but her being alone isn't a sign of non monogamy.
/r/seduction26/09/10 08:47 PM
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Usually I can stand behind you Throw, but I gotta disagree. That's a rather jaded view on women. They are just people like us and like to have fun. Girls are capable of having fun without their bfs. Where I agree with you is that if it becomes a pattern of partying without her boyfriend, it's a sign. When you go out without your girlfriend, are you looking to cheat on her?
/r/seduction26/09/10 08:13 PM
1

"Want to come back to my place?"
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:53 PM
2

Night Scene is just one place to pick up women. Try someplace else, or get some douchebag garb of your own.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:35 PM
3

Seeming like you are trying hard is a bad thing. A natural flow is something that works a little better.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:33 PM
9

Here's a tip. Don't say, "want to come watch a movie." Say, want to come to my place. When she's there, sit next to her on the couch/bed. Triangular gaze and have a conversation. When it dies down, triangular gaze for two-three seconds. Then, tilt head slightly and go 60% closer. Pause a second, then kiss her. Make out initiated. Take it from there, champ.
/r/seduction26/09/10 09:03 AM
7

Don't ask. If she brings it up, ignore it.
/r/seduction26/09/10 08:54 AM
1

I'm not saying it's bad. I'm just saying that focusing on one thing ruins my flow, and it's better to be fluid than really good at one particular skill. For instance, sometimes I lean in to girls. Not all the time, but sometimes. When I approach I don't think "Im not going to lean in," I think "Im going to talk to her." I'll run a little check list of things that are going on at the moment IE " hold my drink near my waist, triangular gaze, touch on the arm, don't lean in." This is good, but havi…
/r/seduction25/09/10 02:23 AM
1

I think assignments make it impersonal, and really puts pressure on to perform. This might work for a beginner, or someone wanting to be a master pua, but to someone who wants a more natural feel this wouldn't work well. I think something more important would be learning to see and seize opportunities to talk and flirt with women. Be it on the street, bus stop, restaraunt, or club. Game has to be turned on all the time for it to be truely effective. Just the other day, I noticed an HB8 at a rest…
/r/seduction24/09/10 09:41 PM
3

Is she smiling? If she is, it's flirting. If she isn't it's defensive.
/r/seduction24/09/10 09:33 PM
1

Do Not Pay For Drinks. If she ditches you because of it, she just wanted to use you. If you really want to, swap rounds. You'll get the first round; she can get the second.
/r/seduction24/09/10 09:31 PM
1

Don't pay. After drinks invite her to your place. Open doors if you want. Focus on being fun.
/r/seduction24/09/10 05:28 PM
9

Say words at people.
/r/seduction24/09/10 05:01 AM
4

Develops Discipline. Self Control is sexy; learn it.
/r/seduction24/09/10 12:51 AM
1

I'm a little farther along than you. I rode the bus every MWF with her (the bus is a great place to meet girls). Its turning out very well. After the initial date, I would see her on bus days, and maybe once or twice a week. Now I see her every other day, and I still don't initiate text convos more than once on the days I don't see her (brief interaction, but still there). It's coming along well, and the casual relationship will invariably turn out into a more serious one as it goes along. I'd a…
/r/seduction24/09/10 12:35 AM
1

A college jazzer? Reminding me of myself. PUA ought to be easy for you. It'll be like soloing on a one chord jam. It'll be like that one perfect riff that makes your band mates look at you. But yeah dude, get a damn phone. Broke ass musician.
/r/seduction23/09/10 11:07 PM
2

Day game on a university, only IMO. This would be weird anywhere else. Except maybe the workplace.
/r/seduction22/09/10 06:21 PM
2

What the fuck do you think it means. Don't try to argue semantics. Take care of yourself physically, have clothes that you look decent in, know how to talk to people and make them laugh, know how to flirt with girls, lead an interesting life and have something you are passionate about. Don't be a lazy mopey asshole that only shaves and showers every other day and stays at home.
/r/seduction22/09/10 02:28 AM
1

Who gives a shit, everyone's curve would be different because people grade by different characteristics.
/r/seduction21/09/10 07:57 PM
2

r/seduction is about how to attract mates without dumping money on them. Being a lawyer isn't the best strategy for getting ladies. I still think he shouldn't spend all that money on you just to fuck you. It sets bad precedent. He doesn't have any game; YOU have game. You scored big because you used your youth, looks, and (I assume) charm to attract a big submissive sugar daddy. Good Job. r/seduction is not about becoming sugar daddies.
/r/seduction21/09/10 07:11 PM
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I assume the older man believes he can just give you shit and fuck you and not really have to get serious. He probably thinks he couldn't do that with a woman his own age. That said, I dislike that he feels he needs to throw money around to fuck you. Not really a good way of attracting a high quality mate.
/r/seduction21/09/10 07:03 PM
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It's a lot harder not to get laid as a well balanced person.
/r/seduction21/09/10 03:58 PM
1

This. You should really pick up "The Game," and "The Rules of the Game." I don't want to sound like a corporate plug, but they really are the best materials for beginners.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:28 AM
2

Don't be nice and occassionallu flirty. Be flirty and occassionally nice, and give them space. I'm on week four with a great girl who likes me a lot and we still see each other only every other day.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:25 AM
0

I use an Iphone. It's a great connector for openning up to hipster chicks. But yeah, why ask r/seduction? Try r/android
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:23 AM
1

This just in: uptight Elitists are unattractive but yeah, cool studies reinforcing calm confidence is attractive. Always good getting more evidence.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:20 AM
1

Seems like a shitload of work ahead just to seduce this one girl. I'd say go find another one. She's probably early 20s and those types of girls aren't the most mentally healthy choices so go after. GL with your headache; keep gaming her but don't get your hopes up.
/r/seduction20/09/10 07:59 PM
1

r/sex is for you. We're just to help you get girls.
/r/seduction19/09/10 01:04 AM
0

If I'm not mistaken, isn't there a cure for this? Go get it taken care of, then go.
/r/seduction18/09/10 10:33 PM
1

Positive Mental Attitude is extremely important, especially in game. This is just how I did it. If you have a better idea, do it. I'm no New-Age hippy guru.
/r/seduction18/09/10 10:31 PM
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When I'm at a bar, I try and do the "Jack Sparrow" swagger that kind of makes me look a little drunk. It works out well for me, as it kind of gives me a free pass to slightly violate their space by doing lean ins (like I'm telling a secret, something thats just between us). Then I go do the same thing infront of her to another girl and it gives me "reputation." Then you just pick a girl you like and give her the most attention.
/r/seduction18/09/10 07:03 PM
9

Do whatever you want. You're in college.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:56 PM
1

Sarcasm is a great thing to use. I'd probably say something like "Pff yeah, (sarcastic tone and brushing a chip off my shoulder) I'm just a regular bad boy" Accept it, but with heavy sarcasm and a smile and they'd laugh.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:53 PM
10

Yell over the top of everything, " i am a sexy, interesting, and attractive man. " did that everyday, now I know I am those things.
/r/seduction18/09/10 01:54 AM
0

I find this subreddit to be hilarious, and I don't have a concrete reason as to why.
/r/seduction17/09/10 08:56 PM
2

Those are always nice. I bet she really wasn't lookin for anything. I get the feeling you did everything right, because why would a woman who wasn't interested even contact you?
/r/seduction17/09/10 08:52 PM
1

Alpha gentlemen is hard. Mainly because gentlemen is a very beta concept. The way to do alpha gentlemen is by being extremely subtle. Do everything in an alpha way except like it's a secret. Choose your words VERY carefully an every fucking move you do must be on purpose. Personally, I gave up on alpha gentlemen because it was sort of counter to what many of the gurus believe. You gotta be James fuckin Bond in a social setting 100% of the time. It's a very calculated alpha instead of a natural a…
/r/seduction17/09/10 08:20 PM
3

Anything. It doesn't matter. Flirting is mostly talkig about shit that doesn't matter. It's all in what you do while talking and how you say it. For your nerves, before you approach, take three deep stomach breaths, then go in. A variation of the three second rule to help calm nerves.
/r/seduction17/09/10 05:49 PM
2

This was on my mind recently. Good to see what I was already doing was great. One thing I notices, the back of the neck is very sensitive. I always wondered why women enjoyed my vampire bite technique.
/r/seduction17/09/10 05:45 PM
3

Smile, flirt, make eye contact, touch them.
/r/seduction17/09/10 02:52 PM
2

That's alright, but r/seduction is mostly about picking up women, and it usually requires you to play the social game. Sooner or later if you want a high quality woman you are going to have to do it.
/r/seduction17/09/10 02:06 PM
1

Appearing emotionally attached early on isn't really attractive, but attraction is attractive. By separating emotional and physical wants, you can show you are very interested (physically). This can hugely boost your attractiveness if the date is going well. In a dating scene, if they like you, girls will want you to appear heavily attracted to them in the physical sense. What straight male doesn't want to be irresistable to women? It works the same way for women.
/r/seduction17/09/10 03:51 AM
2

You chatted for 7 hours and have a first date. Don't male an excuse to go back to your place. Want to have another drink at my place" works well and is basically a statement of interest in the physical, not emotional. Because it is so, you can avoid part of the " interested game ." remember, kino heavily when you can, and you can always find an excuse to kino. Be fun and playful, even if you think you are being a bit stupid. Flirt, make eye contact with sexual overtones.
/r/seduction17/09/10 03:22 AM
1

You blew your frame when your wing was with HB8. you fucked the duck there. That was salvagable before you got angry. Other advice in this thread is good. Heed it.
/r/seduction16/09/10 03:23 PM
1

Amen addendum: Baters gonna bate.
/r/seduction16/09/10 03:09 PM
0

If you have an emotional connection, and you can, do it. I say no married women, but she's only engaged. She could be making a huge mistake by not being with you.
/r/seduction16/09/10 03:03 PM
2

Whenever you are both free.
/r/seduction15/09/10 07:47 PM
1

Just remember to look for that awkward part of the night. That part where you've both run out of things to say and you are lookig io eachother's eyes. That's when you go in 50%, stop a second, then go in all the way. This has been the single most helpful piece of advice I learned on r/seduction. Look vehemothly for that window, because if it comes to that it means makeout time. You are in major league baseball and she's pitching underhanded. Get a homerun man.
/r/seduction15/09/10 02:18 PM
1

Sexually active for two years; Im at 5. I'm up three in the passed three months I did pua, but will probably slow down as I've hooked one I really like in.
/r/seduction13/09/10 05:32 PM
1

Get some valerian root and saint johns wart. Take about 600mg of each. Valerian Root is sold as a sleep suppliment, but it helps calm nerves. When I used to get panic attacks, I could take them and I would calm down. Now I take a few about two hours before I go see a girl Im intereted in if I start to feel antsy. That, coupled with some heavy mental positive reinforcment, and a reminder that this isn't the end of the world is a good way to keep your cool. Work on it, you already got the approach…
/r/seduction13/09/10 01:44 PM
4

Impenetrable Inner Game makes a successful PUA
/r/seduction13/09/10 02:00 AM
2

Have more fun and smile more. Also, kino all the time.
/r/seduction13/09/10 12:49 AM
1

Anything can be done in an AMOG manner. Even buying girls drinks. I find if you want to buy a girl a drink, " I'll get this round, if you get the next. "
/r/seduction12/09/10 10:46 PM
7

You should already have built rapport with a person you are going on a first date with.
/r/seduction12/09/10 09:22 AM
7

Tip, watch how known alpha males walk, then copy it. When I was still an AFC, I had a friend who was a natural and I copied his kind if back and forth gait. I rolled my shoulders back, and I was a much more confident individual. Don't be afraid to look people in the eye as you walk. Look up, and look around. The world is ripe for the picking.
/r/seduction12/09/10 09:13 AM
1

Only do that if she is trying to say something to you. Don't be afraid to break her zone. A confident man isn't afraid to lean in sometimes. As long as you aren't pouring over her every word, you are solid.
/r/seduction12/09/10 09:10 AM
-6

I think aspergers is bullshit. It's no different than a severely socially awkward person.
/r/seduction12/09/10 02:23 AM
4

Yeah, move the fuck on man. You are coming off stalkerish.
/r/seduction12/09/10 12:30 AM
4

Flirt with her heavily. Smile. Look her in the eyes. If there is a reason to touch her, touch her. Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction11/09/10 01:32 AM
2

How is pickup deception? You are busy acting cool, and they think you are cool. You are cool. You try to seduce someone and they become attracted to you. If anything, this type of seduction is WAY WAY WAY less fucking shallow than what people usually consider. If you aren't attracted to them before, but are after they talk to you, how is that bad? You are stuck in these archaic views they really never existed in the first place.
/r/seduction09/09/10 11:08 PM
1

[Updated Comment]I dunno man. I don't want to judge off the cuff, but the crazy flags are flying. Be careful.
/r/seduction09/09/10 11:04 PM
3

I got rid of my inhibitions. Basically I fully committed to not giving a shit about what others thought in a social situation. After I did that, I applied a few theories and tricks in the PUA flipbook, and it was like flipping a switch. A robot gaming switch. All of the sudden I was funny, cool, and popular after about 2-4 weeks of applying this kind of shit. Basically, it comes down to this. Women are people. Don't consider gender when you talk to someone at all. Women just happen to be people …
/r/seduction09/09/10 11:01 PM
4

It was her 21st birthday. Got invited after a bit of flirting on our university bus.
/r/seduction09/09/10 05:26 PM
2

Yeah, you got the wrong guy. My first kiss was a couple years ago.
/r/seduction09/09/10 05:24 PM
1

Keep telling yourself that. I've managed without a gym, but being a lazy nerd isn't attractive. Get a life
/r/seduction09/09/10 11:09 AM
0

Suck a dick bitch. Just because Im not afraid to seek meaningful relations with a taken woman doesn't mean I'm a dick. Keep judging my lifestyle you fat ho.
/r/seduction09/09/10 10:59 AM
2

Well, you feel like you fucked up, but you also got laid. Take the negative emotions and chuck those out te fuckin door. Better luck next time. It's a good motto to live by.
/r/seduction09/09/10 10:55 AM
5

A Fuckin' men, brother.
/r/seduction09/09/10 10:47 AM
-2

Update, just woke up passed out in my bathtub with puke on the ground. Jesus Christ. I'd hav a FR if i could remember it. Girl in my bed. God damn what happened.
/r/seduction09/09/10 10:27 AM
3

Thanks for the warning, man. I'll keep my guard up till it's a 100% sure thing.
/r/seduction08/09/10 09:44 PM
8

I know, I know. I'm just very proud of myself and I wanted to thank everyone for the community-bond.
/r/seduction08/09/10 09:02 PM
2

The description strikes me as she might be a stage 4 creeper/stalker. Engage if you want, but don't lead her on at all. It not only hurts her, but you could end up with some serious shit going down if you aren't careful.
/r/seduction08/09/10 08:56 PM
7

Really well put. I retract my jealous cowards statement.
/r/seduction08/09/10 03:22 PM
2

Niiiccee. Frats aren't my thing, but way to go man. Seducer supreme.
/r/seduction08/09/10 02:17 AM
4

Really, I just think they are jealous cowards.
/r/seduction07/09/10 09:12 PM
4

Go at a time that is very very slow, then be "that guy" and spend too much time talking to her in the line.
/r/seduction07/09/10 07:18 PM
37

I don't think we got so many hens as much as self righteous white knights.
/r/seduction07/09/10 07:02 PM
0

What quoted colloquialism is ever completely true? Taken women are going to have less suitors which usually equals better odds. The saying is more geared toward getting a girl to leave her man for you, not cheating, even though this subreddit tends to interpret it that way. It's my way of not letting "she has a boyfriend" be an excuse to not get what you want.
/r/seduction07/09/10 04:10 PM
-6

Thank, fucking, you. You worded it so much elegantly than I did. Understand this position.
/r/seduction07/09/10 01:10 PM
-5

You need to get the fuck over yourself, and get over this hard bitch that probably cheated on you in the past. Fuck that ho, man. If you were in a relationship where you had 100% commitment to eachother (marriage), and some guy hits on your wife, should you be worried? Hell No! What we're talking about is finding girls with boyfriends who are obviously not happy with their set up, and showing them you are the better catch. Her having a boyfriend doesn't mean shit, and it's not my fucking fault i…
/r/seduction07/09/10 01:05 PM
-7

Yeah, and if Im doing my job right, I have nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction07/09/10 05:41 AM
-8

I'm "that asshole." girls with boyfriends are easier. "if they are taken, you only have to compete with one. If they are single, you have to compete with the whole world."
/r/seduction07/09/10 05:24 AM
1

I do have a car, but at the time I had two ideas about what would have happened that made me miss my opportunity. (not gonna let that happen next time). Logistics always screws me, and I have some preconceived notions about this: still learning. 1) I say that and everyone there knows what is up. All the girls know Im gonna sleep with her as well as the dudes, and I sleep with her. 2) ... Well now that Im typing it out I guess it's completely stupid. It was like a form of AA or something like clo…
/r/seduction06/09/10 06:16 PM
6

Get an image of you fucking her doggystyle in your bed violently. Then say whatever comes to mind.
/r/seduction06/09/10 12:55 AM
1

Trolls i cnt belvedere u guyz actlly respndd lol. ThIs iS lIkE iNfAnTiLe.
/r/seduction06/09/10 12:24 AM
3

I'm doing this. I haven't hurt anyone, but if my friend who's a girl hadn't cock blocked me, I would have boned three of her friends. Not that I don't care about them, but until there is a verbal expression of what they feel, I'm going to keep doing so. I feel like it's a shit test version for guys. See which girls are strong enough to come after what they want. To put it on the line. This is by no means a reason for you not to make moves. Always escalate. Add escalation in and I think you come …
/r/seduction06/09/10 12:14 AM
2

Not interested. Keep her on the back burner while persuing other women, though
/r/seduction05/09/10 05:39 PM
4

Good luck man. If you have a lot of problems, get "the rules of the game" by Neil Strauss. It's got a 30 day assignment like program that helps you learn to talk to people and eventually to girls.
/r/seduction05/09/10 05:28 PM
4

If you can handle it well, good for you. Don't tell them you are on drugs though. I know for a lot of girls that it is quite a turn off. I think it might have something to do with enlarged pupils. Enlarged pupils are often regarded as a characteristic of innocence or honesty, which IMO is a DHV. I have a pupil contraction problem to where they are bigger than usual quite often, an I get remarks on it all the time. Whenever I have good eye contact, and my pupils are larger I think it sends good b…
/r/seduction03/09/10 08:04 PM
6

"I have a family emergency, let's reschedule? How about ______"
/r/seduction03/09/10 06:08 PM
3

I downvoted you because I don't want others to think your ideas work and/or are valid. Kind of an arrogant prick, aren't you?
/r/seduction03/09/10 06:06 PM
-1

I wasn't using no true Scotsman. I assumed you were going to say something like, "well those women don't count because they don't represent a real woman like me." No where did I call all women shallow, infct, I pointed out that all women act differently. That's the definition if not shallow. What you are doing is pms'ing and putting words in my mouth because I think you are intrisically wrong. Your posts have no logic in them. You emotionally jump from one conclusion to the next.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:52 PM
-1

Approval seeking. Approval seeking is not attractive. It shows you have no concept of your own self worth. By looking for approval from women, you are socially putting yourself lower than them. In order to be seen as a good mate, a man must be equal to the woman, or just a bit higher (or atleast, perceived that way). I said you argue like a woman. This is because you used a tactic of falsely presenting yourself as lower status in a sarcastic manner, in an effort to make me qualify myself to you.…
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:45 PM
-1

You argue like a woman.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:28 PM
5

Women that sleep with douchenozzel assholes don't approve of them, but still are attracted to them. Therefore, you argument is incorrect. In before "no true Scotsman" argument.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:11 PM
-1

Are you a troll? You have no concept of what game is.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:06 PM
1

The moral is don't lie and you won't get shallow girls. Use your damn brain.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:04 PM
2

The last thing you want to do is smother her with compliments and flowers.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:02 PM
3

I downvoted you. No to be mean, but that was awful advice. When you do that, you blow your frame and put the ball in her court. It's like putting yourself up to her judgement. Seddit is to help guys not be lapdogs, and what you suggested sounds like what every beta male would have said to her already.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:58 AM
1

Really, I'd tell the guy not to be so hasty to over look hb5-6. When I see a guy dating a huge bitch, I refer to it as "Blinding Boner Syndrome."
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:45 AM
2

Damn. The golden mirror is perfect. I think the golden mirror is why I broke up with my first LTR girlfriend (before I learned some pua). She has a far worse view of herself than she was on the outside and wallowed in her own self pity. She wouldn't let me see what about her was good, so I ended it.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:27 AM
10

Jesus Christ. What a clusterfuck of estrogen over there. They have no idea what they are talking about. To be honest, it sounds like a bunch of lesbians that are angry straight men figured out how to get laid. It's funny they think you can "trick" a girl into sleeping with you. I'll say what I always say," if you tell a girl you are a doctor and she sleep with you because you are a doctor, who is shallow here?"
/r/seduction03/09/10 04:34 AM
3

Dude, saying that makes you sound desperate. Desperation leads to masturbation, not sex. Lose the desperation, do better with your game.
/r/seduction02/09/10 12:41 AM
1

Give a description of hired gun? I have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/seduction31/08/10 11:37 PM
1

If you don't know the husband, bang her. Easy.
/r/seduction30/08/10 02:57 AM
1

Aproach her like she's single.
/r/seduction30/08/10 02:42 AM
2

You guys could try splitting up and isolating them so you can be alpha in your own group, and he could be alpha in his. Wings are only good for a few things. You're much better off on your own or with a large group you can exit solo like, and return to.
/r/seduction30/08/10 02:22 AM
1

Take turns.
/r/seduction30/08/10 01:59 AM
2

A technique that gets you in, but Im not sure how effective it is, yet is just to say, "Hey, I'm butting in on your conversation" Whats up? What're you talking about? Then I drop my opinion on the situation with a smile and humor. If you ever feel pressured in a situation say outloud what you are about to do. It's like a magic card that lets you float in and out through sets. "I'm going to go talk to those people over there" "Hey, I'm talking to everyone, whats up?"
/r/seduction30/08/10 12:55 AM
2

I think I glossed over "women are evil" or got that the fuck over in highschool.
/r/seduction28/08/10 02:20 AM
3

It's not; if you don't make it, it won't be there. It's all in your head. Instead of the 3 sec rule, take three deep breaths, slowly, with your stomach. Then, go over and talk to her. The breaths lower your heart rate a bit, and tone it down. In the moment of freedom from anxiety, move in for the kill. I use this technique for overcoming fears of public speaking.
/r/seduction28/08/10 01:02 AM
2

Go bang ten chicks. You'll feel better signed, Seddit
/r/seduction26/08/10 07:34 PM
2

Robert Downey Jr. King of frame control + all his characters.
/r/seduction26/08/10 06:26 AM
4

Ask a girl to go on a walk with you. Ezpz. They'll be isolated, you have plently of times to show you are higher value, and you are able to get to a point in kino where she might want her roomate to take off for awhile. While texting a girl "hey, I'm bored, want to go for a walk with me" might not be seddtita favorite choice, Ive worked with it on a conservative campus and it helped me the most.
/r/seduction26/08/10 01:41 AM
2

Got a haircut and wearing red. Gonna chat with girls on the bus before school, then talk to girls in my class, then try to talk to girls at lunch, then try to look sexy at quarter beers tonight.
/r/seduction25/08/10 02:13 PM
1

Escalate that shit!
/r/seduction25/08/10 01:31 AM
1

I never introduce myself to girls unless they ask for my name. Its not because I think its bad, I just use it as a guideline to see if they are interested in me. When they ask me my name, I give my full name, including my middle name.
/r/seduction23/08/10 02:26 AM
1

I like this, but instead of explaining after finishing her drink, I just say, "Oops" and smile.
/r/seduction23/08/10 02:22 AM
2

I have a pretty good example. Last night, after I got done playing a set (music at a bar), a girl I had been talking to was playfully disrespecting me. IE, as I was walking up she boo'd me and joked that I was a bad bass player. I said if you keep insulting me, I'll leave and go talk to these complete strangers just over there. (table next to them). She said something, and I promptly turned away and went and opened the other set. The whole table she was at laughed so hard, and I held a good conv…
/r/seduction23/08/10 02:20 AM
36

Be funny and have a good personality. Seriously, a funny girl gets +2 in my book.
/r/seduction23/08/10 02:16 AM
3

I dance with the girls on the floor. Every other guy I know is almost always too scared to put himself out like that. Go dance and have a good time. You aren't trying to impress someone with dance skills (although you can). It shows you atleast have balls. Being bold is no substitute for being confident though. Boldness is better than not dancing though.
/r/seduction20/08/10 11:26 PM
1

See how I corrected you saying I didn't misspeak and you misinterpretted? That was taking control of the conversation. I turned it around on you saying it was your fault, not mine and you went submissive by agreeing with me. You just DLV'd yourself infront of girls without knowing it. This is the type of behavior I was talking about. Not all conversations are battles, but this was definitely a conversation that was worth something. To on lookers, I would be seen as more dominate and thus a more …
/r/seduction20/08/10 11:23 PM
1

Whatever the fuck I feel like wearing. Which includes a hippy cloth wrist bracelet and a "Ohm" sign necklace. I also wear a 5 oclock shadow that takes me 4 days to grow. Then some kind of button down lumberjack kurt cobain ripoff styled plaid shirt with dark tight jeans and a belt.
/r/seduction20/08/10 09:01 PM
6

Sounds like you should be teaching at a college, not learning. Good job man. I didn't get laid at college until my 4th week. (bible belt)
/r/seduction20/08/10 08:57 PM
13

Just know that part of the package includes a bit of humility.
/r/seduction20/08/10 08:03 PM
1

They should be nervous because you are so high status. Instead of you asking "what should I say" it should be the girl saying "what should I say?" You know you've found a high value girl if they can keep up with you while you are high value. EDIT: I didn't misspeak, you misinterpretted.
/r/seduction20/08/10 08:01 PM
1

You don't intimidate people. By definition your attitude is intimidating. There's a difference. And thats bullshit about the timid thing. Try hards are easy to spot, but they definitely aren't intimidating. And who said anything about intimidating in the first place? It's about doing what you want and really having no regard for what the person's reaction is. It's not about being a dick; its about not caring if you come off as a dick.
/r/seduction20/08/10 07:39 PM
7

Do you ask yourself these questions?: What do I say to her? What if she doesn't like me? What if she doesn't think I'm funny? Will she talk to me? What if she doesn't talk to me? These are types of questions you should never have to ask yourself. By being more considerate of other's ideas about you, you are being less considerate to yourself, and I don't know about you but I am the most important person in my life. It's my life. Who gives a fuck about the answer to those questions? Needy, insecu…
/r/seduction20/08/10 08:17 AM
2

Don't be such a pussy. You are the man. Why should you be nervous around someone? They should be nervous around you.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:41 AM
1

I like the extreme. One time I was talking with a girl and she said I was a whore and asked how much I charge. Me: 5 Her: Five dollars? You cheap bitch Me: 5 thousand. Its not really worth my time for anything less (smile) Her: Daaamn, you must have a good whore name if you charge that name. Me: They call me Big Dick Miles. I think it fits pretty well. Her: Fits pretty well huh? (smile) Then we walked around the house and made out.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:40 AM
1

Shopping with someone seems to be like an activity shed do with her girlfriends, beta friends or gay friends.
/r/seduction19/08/10 07:09 AM
-1

What, are you gay?
/r/seduction18/08/10 09:58 PM
-1

What, are you gay?
/r/seduction18/08/10 09:56 PM
5

If a girl is single, you have the whole world to compete with. If a girl is taken, you only have to compete with one.
/r/seduction18/08/10 09:28 PM
21

Kino. I hated touching people. I started kinoing and I'm gettng a BJ bhind the house of a party. Jumped my game way up.
/r/seduction08/08/10 03:35 AM
0

Call them out on it.
/r/seduction03/08/10 10:54 PM
1

If she only sleeps with you because of your lies, who is shallow? Is it you for lying, or her for only sleeping with you because of some story she thinks is real? Unless its something like "Im Not Married" or "No, I don't have a girlfriend" you are just entertaining them, and lying about small stuff like stories doesn't really matter.
/r/seduction31/07/10 11:12 PM
3

He just saw no reason to cuntinue with the statement when it explains itself.
/r/seduction31/07/10 11:09 PM
1

during make out sessions, lift both of your shirts, so that your bellies rub. It makes sex feel more comfortable.
/r/seduction29/07/10 07:31 AM
0

Don't drop her as a friend. But definitely step back on contact, intimacy, the "best" part of your friendship must be over. Be cold. You already told her you weren't going to take this shit anymore, now prove it.
/r/seduction28/07/10 10:25 PM
1

I hope not, because i- I don't want to finish. I hope not.
/r/seduction25/07/10 10:59 AM
3

Clean and spacious makes a woman comfortable.
/r/seduction25/07/10 10:51 AM
3

Wait till she breaks eye contact, first. Then you can afford to look away. Never ever break eye contact first. Staring is never looking away, strong eye contact is breaking after she breaks, always.
/r/seduction25/07/10 10:49 AM
15

Talk to everyone; touch the girls.
/r/seduction24/07/10 10:11 PM
1

You're probably gay, or she's crazy. Like in an asylum.
/r/seduction24/07/10 10:08 PM
2

Guy, you screwed a girl. There are all kinds of strategy, but why oh why oh why would you change your strategy that worked? YOU might have thought there were problems. This is called qualifying. One thing you like in a woman is an ability to hold a good conversation. She failed to qualify to you. Not you to her.
/r/seduction24/07/10 05:11 AM
1

Well, you didn't do terribly bad, but I would work on your boyfriend responses. I'm not sure the "me too" was the best.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:46 AM
1

What, are you gay? Just kidding, but good luck getting laid.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:44 AM
2

Stop when she resists, then start again until she resists again. If she resists more than 3 times, kill the sexual vibe and stop paying attention to her. If she draws you back in, time to have intimate relations.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:43 AM
1

Start acting like you guys are exclusive. Let her ask. Men have to iniate the relationship, and often have to iniate the physical relations. Women, however, have to iniate emotionally.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:41 AM
1

No transition is best. If a topic dies down, use a different subject opener.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:39 AM
1

This group of comments is most correct. Physically escalate as fast as possible. (IE, don't rape her, but go as fast as you can get her to go) Atleast until you kiss close. Kiss closing is when you CAN slow down, but really who wants to?
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:38 AM
1

If you are ever alone and gives you the "fuck me" eyes. Let it get silent for a bit, make eye contact and just kiss her. When the boyfriend is not around, or in the other room prefferably. I missed my chance to do just that with this smokin hot redhead and I regret it.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:05 AM
10

You can't be cruel. Cruelty is for assholes. You'll still get laid, but you'll be a worse person.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:03 AM
1

No, I don't. Sometimes when I'm not in the zone, I'm the biggest hit. Othertimes when I am in the zone, nobody cares. Whether this means I'm an insecure alpha or a confident, cool beta I don't know.
/r/seduction24/07/10 04:02 AM
4

I just want to address one thing you talked about. PUAs that lie to women. If a PUA lies to a woman and says he's a doctor, then the woman sleeps with him. Who is shallow here? The guy who lied to get laid, or the girl that only slept with him because he was a doctor? Superficial girls attract superficial guys.
/r/seduction24/07/10 03:46 AM
4

Lol, that's exactly what I do sometimes. If I've got nothing to do, I go out and wander around talking to people. Once you get over the awkwardness it is way more rewarding than video games. Superior game, superior reward.
/r/seduction19/07/10 01:02 AM
1

I've got a love/hate thing for the male heirarchy. It can be so fun to put those douchers in their place, but often times it's just too taxing and distracting.
/r/seduction16/07/10 11:41 PM
1

Derren Brown. Holy Shit, that guy is the mater. He's got this video where he pays for shit with white paper and they just go along with it.
/r/seduction16/07/10 11:36 PM
2

Oh yes, it's very fun. It's a battle of wits except if you lose, you don't get laid. By all means if you are a master of wit, take these shit testers down a peg, but know if you fail you'll be dropped from the sex list.
/r/seduction16/07/10 06:56 AM
12

If it's funny, use a really really really long nickname. It gets laughs all the time. "Hey, gets in my way all the time girl, what's up" It's a judgement on them (neg), but playful at the same time.
/r/seduction16/07/10 05:46 AM
2

Jealousy. Ignore.
/r/seduction16/07/10 05:44 AM
2

Depends on your style. Holding hands is 100% a "Couple" thing. If thats what you want, good. If not, then you guys need to have a talk before you escalate.
/r/seduction16/07/10 05:41 AM
1

Obstacles are fucking rough. I gotta tell you though, if you have obstacles you haven't done something right. You didn't have proper frame control, or you didn't disarm the obstacles first. Usually hardships are because you had problems in the past that you didn't fix.
/r/seduction16/07/10 02:35 AM
2

Many PUA's say completely ignoring shit tests is good. Anytime that happens, I usually say something like, "You think so?" Then move on.
/r/seduction16/07/10 02:24 AM
1

I like Lookslikespeed's idea. Do some really manly shit and pretty soon your dick will want to do some pussy ramming. You've become too intellectual right now, you need something raw.
/r/seduction16/07/10 02:22 AM
1

Bravo! Way to go.
/r/seduction15/07/10 12:08 AM
2

Sorry guy. Nothing will probably happen. Her getting your number is a polite rejection. Next time, almost demand her number when on the subject. Keep smiling when you do it, and be confident and you can pull it off.
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:58 AM
1

Height is a huge factor in potenial mates, sorry buddy. Shit happens and sometimes the cards don't fall your way.
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:52 AM
2

You should have invited her back to your place when yu were planning on leaving. That was your last stand. She sent you a text, so she's probably still interested. She might not have fucked that guy, but that's being enthusiastic. If you meet her again, fucking jump on the escalation quickly and kiss her some time during the date. You need to make a move fast, but don't give up on smooth until you have to. Being direct and kissing her is way better than being smooth and losing it.
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:43 AM
1

First thing i thought of when looking at this topic. It should be so much easier when two out of three are already good for it.
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:33 AM
3

You look wet.
/r/seduction09/07/10 05:30 AM
-1

Hot news tip: girls do post to r/seduction and agree with most everything the guys say. Girls that don't agree don't understand the art of seducing a woman. You may think you know what gets you hot, but it doesn't necessarily get you laid.
/r/seduction07/07/10 07:37 PM
5

In my opinion, being a PUA is a sliding scale. Some are amazing and get laid every night, others are better. I'm just getting in to pickup so I can learn to be better with women, and sleeping with them is a plus; however, I don't really have a desire to go out every night and date 7-8 women at the same time. Being a pua master is cool, but not really for everyone.
/r/seduction07/07/10 07:06 PM
1

She meant "Getting weird" as in coming on to her. Man, I understand where you are coming from, but I'm getting "She's Different" disease. Of course that shit isn't true, but I can't help but think it. I'm nervous because I despise direct game. I despise direct game because I feel like I'm letting her decide what happens instead of leading. It feels out of control. I understand what you are saying, and I'm going to try to do it. I almost never get preformance anxiety. I've had atleast a few other…
/r/seduction05/07/10 09:09 AM
1

I meant that this type of thinking is unhealthy to social life.
/r/seduction05/07/10 07:44 AM
0

Damn it smells in here, you'd think they'd open vents.
/r/seduction05/07/10 05:30 AM
1

Being an introvert isn't an excuse. It's not a disease. It's a state of mind. By saying you can't talk to people because you are an introvert you are saying you are weak minded. Just do it. Say hello, comment about the surroundings.
/r/seduction02/07/10 07:26 PM
1

If you don't really care about the job, do it anyway. It sounds like you've got a shitty after highschool, during college jobs. While they aren't a dime a dozen, I wouldn't sacrafice getting some pussy for one.
/r/seduction02/07/10 07:06 PM
10

Is it so weird that I think the funniest posts are on r/seduction?
/r/seduction30/06/10 12:57 AM
1

Gonna use an analogy. You, like a nice guy are like a piece on a chess set. You may be a rook, which is more valuable than a pawn. Or you might be a bishop which is crafty and moves at angles. She is the queen. Ultimately, the only piece on the board that matter are kings. Queens are fucking badass, but it doesn't matter if they get knocked off the board. The queen respects nobody but other queens and kings. Right now, you are viewing yourself as a high value chess piece, but to the queen, you d…
/r/seduction29/06/10 12:27 AM
0

Well, shit.
/r/seduction27/06/10 01:50 AM
10

What is it? You miss every shot you don't take? While before I was introduced to PUA, I would contently mind to myself. I didn't have approach anxiety; I was just more comfortable by myself. As time went along, I realized I wanted the company of women. Infact, insomuch as I liked women's company more than a group of "manly" men. I realized that the only way for that to happen is for me to act on my impluses. I think it's also good to note, especially in this subreddit, that having female friends…
/r/seduction26/06/10 08:58 AM
3

I was like WTF; then I was like Lol.
/r/seduction25/06/10 07:55 AM
1

You gotta shed yourlimiting beliefs man. It's all a social construction in your brain. Don't let your brain boss you around. Take control and do things extroverted
/r/seduction25/06/10 01:31 AM
1

The best way to learn is just to sit around and do nothing. Think about things, even if it's weird. Just sit by yourself and think things to yourself. Try to make yourself laugh through wit and cleverness. If you can be clever to yourself, you'll be clever elsewhere. Don't get on the Internet or watch tv or play games for a week. Your game will greatly jump. Try and get yourself interested in something. Let your mind wander. Browse the wikipedia in your own head. (5)
/r/seduction24/06/10 05:45 AM
18

Oneitis. To quote Wu Tang, "You need to diversify your blondes" Talk to other girls, you probably blew it. Never say never. If you don't see her for awhile it's almost like having a clean slate with her again.
/r/seduction24/06/10 12:20 AM
1

Touch everybody. You gotta keep them from cockblockin you later so befriend them now.
/r/seduction23/06/10 10:14 PM
1

It might be a bit weird. Girls remember shit. If you hand them a number, you had better call right infront of them to "exchange." They might be worried you gave them a fake one. I might cut the "Hey ladies." It seems like fine opening material, but if you dont transition to real convo it will seem a bit weird if you left it at that if you make a move later. EDIT: Actually, I just realized you'll be getting their number, not the other way around ( duh). It seems okay. Test it out. I feel like it …
/r/seduction22/06/10 04:53 PM
2

The Dennis system is about half right. I disagree with neglect emotionally, and Separate entirely. Nuturing Dependence is also kind of weird. Its fine for getting laid (I guess), but it seems to pick up on all the "bad" parts of PUA.
/r/seduction22/06/10 07:28 AM
1

Wow, these guys read WAAYYY too much into PUA. It's not a fucking secret science. Those guys probably have game and don't even know it. It's not like PUA is hard to learn, I don't get why they wouldn't be interested in it.
/r/seduction22/06/10 07:25 AM
2

Good way to psyche yourself or a friend up.
/r/seduction21/06/10 11:30 PM
1

It might be better to say, "hey do you know about fake leather?" if yes, then lead in. Cold reading could play a better role here. I just feel that the question is too narrow.
/r/seduction21/06/10 11:24 PM
2

As others said, oneitis is bad, but, I do have an idea. Maybe one day you go to the gym and there's nobody but you and her there, say something like, "it's a shame I see you all the time, but don't know anything about you at all." A little direct, but depending on her mood, the last 20 minutes, and the rest of her life it migh get you a date. Women are just like us, they get bored at work. Maybe, " I bet it gets a little tedious working here." Then lead in with the other one. Remember, no one wo…
/r/seduction21/06/10 11:14 PM
3

Look for a physical openning in the group, go up and introduce yourself to a guy. Shake his hand. Prefferably, when he responds to your greeting, make a joke, then look arond the group for people not talking and start chatting them up. Make your presense known to the ladies of the group: talk loud, smile, flirt with the lower hbs (5-7). When the top HB of the group talks to you, neg her like it's a joke to the men. Then pay her a compliment. Play the rest by ear.
/r/seduction21/06/10 11:05 PM
6

I feel like someone might say, " I don't care. " It follows the right format, bu I'm not sure it would matter to many people.
/r/seduction21/06/10 10:55 PM
2

I like to say In an amateur (whatever) and that I've got some o it back at my place. You totally need to see/hear/drink/experience this. Getting her to see the inside of your house first is a great idea. Do that.
/r/seduction20/06/10 07:50 PM
6

When she introduces a new noun, ask her a question about it.
/r/seduction20/06/10 03:28 AM
10

That's not the friendzone. That's the you need to escalate more zone. Invite her to your place, drink some wine, kiss her then try to take it further.
/r/seduction20/06/10 03:27 AM
1

Don't listen to this. This is good advice if she's already girlfriend. Bad advise if you are trying to seduce her. Flirting with other girls in the club, but not taking too far is the key point. This way she feels special when you take it farther with her.
/r/seduction20/06/10 01:27 AM
1

If they react well to kino, keep going up the ladder. Keep going forward until they stop, then take a step back and stay there. Then go farther forward after a little bit. David DeAngelo isn't the best, but he wrote a Kino Escalation ladder that I found very helpful and informative. If anyone here saved it, post it again maybe. EDIT: Really, I use mirroring to get passed the hump. I sit close next to them. If they mirror me, I turn my body toward them, kind of catticorner to the couch and put an…
/r/seduction20/06/10 01:11 AM
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Suck it up, talk to everyone when you get there. Flirt with other girls and make sure she sees it. Don't get really drunk. Smile, all the time. Be social, meet new people. Touch people. Touch her. Anytime you are about to say something funny, lean in and touch her arm. Smile. If you are talking to her and it's too loud, grab her by the waist a bit and pull her closer. Smile, laugh. Don't buy her drinks. Look her in the eyes. Talk to people. Smile. Don't get drunk. Dance even if you feel like a c…
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:03 AM
2

This is exactly how I felt the other night, man. Feels awesome doesn't it? Good job!
/r/seduction18/06/10 04:19 AM
1

You might be depressed.
/r/seduction18/06/10 12:01 AM
2

I only partially agree. If a hug lasts longer than 4 seconds, I take it as an sexually permissed IOI.
/r/seduction15/06/10 06:00 PM
2

I think there was a post here sometime last week with a kino escalation ladder on it. Not sure what it was called. Search the seddit hisory a bit.
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:54 PM
9

I usually say something like, "You think so?" This way they answer in two affirmatives. Then I say, "Thats very sweet of you::cue kino::"
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:46 PM
5

Pooflinga is right. Get three IOIs and start kinoing, but get the hand shake in right as you meet them. Next thing is to isolate the from the group. Say, "I've got this trick I want to show you, but I can't do it when it's so loud here." If they say okay, grab her hand and lead her to a quieter place in the bar. If you don't know any tricks, when she asks maybe say, "I just showed you how I get pretty girls to sit with me trick." Then restart conversation with heavier kino. If Im wrong, let me k…
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:43 PM
1

Nice try. I like your funny opener. Although, I feel like the first step with girls is to make them feel comfortable with your presense. I don't know how i would have done it, but perhaps trying routines that rely less on words and more with kino. I mightve asked her if I could read her palm or something.
/r/seduction15/06/10 04:48 AM
0

Make the friend you did this with imaginary (real story, new name fr friend), then tell how your friend saved your life. It was really quite a traumatic experience and we both were fighting to sta above water. I hit my head on a rock (point to your head to show scar, you don't have one, but they won't notice). Basically talking good about friends that aren't around is a great DHV. Be sure to use kino. Maybe say, "the water was up around here, then touch her neck"
/r/seduction14/06/10 09:49 PM
1

I feel this is why unsaid kino "vibe" escalation is extremely important. When you start to open, guys that you now feel comfortable with ought to start going up the kino escalation ladder. I know it isn't an exact science, but it really does help go further with a woman. In my recent experiences, kino is what makes or breaks a deal. Edit: Not saying they should do it with you, per se. And, people should be keen on the rejection of kino to know whats going on.
/r/seduction14/06/10 05:43 PM
1

Really, it can't hurt. You won't be mentally controlling your target with your mind. Whenever I remember to do it, or when the subject of "sexual" comes up, I usually say the word sexual and at the same time, run my thumb across my chin. I do this as long as we stay on the conversation. When the conversation is over, evertime I notice her eye contact, I run my thumb across my chin. Even if there is no actual way to prove it works, you'll give yourself a nice confidence boost and placebo effect y…
/r/seduction14/06/10 06:55 AM
4

I agree. The level of on-ness is so high.
/r/seduction14/06/10 06:04 AM
2

I dont slow down my escalation because Im unsure of IOIs. Just like there is a different level of escalation, I was wondering if there are different levels of IOIs.
/r/seduction14/06/10 05:58 AM
2

Well I know it's an IOI, I was wondering how strong is was. Is there a heirarchy of IOIs? Do they all mean the same thing? Are some of them sure shots? I have a lot of questions after my awesome night out the other day.
/r/seduction14/06/10 04:54 AM
2

You know, I never even realized that. I could use my jargon as a form of frame control, and an IOI test. I'm going to think about this heavily the next few games.
/r/seduction14/06/10 04:53 AM
4

I always drink 1 beer by myself before I go out. I then read a few pages of the game, run through a couple routines in my head, get a game plan for how I am going to open my night. I then do quick scanning of cold reading, palmistry, and personality tests, or cool things to tell people. Then, I listen to the first 10-15 minutes of Jethro Tull's "Thick as a Brick" Happy music only. I force myself to smile when I'm all by myself until its time to see people. I am now psyched and in the proper gami…
/r/seduction14/06/10 04:43 AM
6

Have her open sets for you then invite you in.
/r/seduction14/06/10 03:17 AM
4

Hmm. Try "I think my underwear shrank in the wash." Something kind of funny that has nothing to do with meeting up. There was a thread awhile back about texting game, and I gotta say, I think it needs to have a look at it.
/r/seduction13/06/10 11:36 PM
2

I play Jethro Tull's "Thick as a Brick" because, "I really don't mind, if you sit this one out"
/r/seduction13/06/10 09:00 PM
1

Seducing women with BFs is a bit different than seducing single girls. The fact is, you have to get them to break their pair bond and cheat on them with you. This is really hard to do. A girl isn't taken until she has a ring on her finger. As the gurus say, "People don't choose attraction." If you can make someone more attracted to you, than they are to someone else, it doesn't really matter if they have a bf or not. Think of it as having to hit a home run, rather than just a good hit to get on …
/r/seduction13/06/10 08:58 PM
1

By DHVing yourself, you DLV them. I think there is only so much value that can be in a room. As you go up in value, you take the other's value and lower them. Thats the way I see it anyway.
/r/seduction13/06/10 08:53 PM
2

When it comes time to dump a girl, you should already be friends with their friends. Tell them you don't know how to do it, and you just don't have the same "connection" or "feeling" you did when you first met them. This will raise awareness of your respect for women, and they'll gossip about it. Then, you let the girl down easy, and in person.
/r/seduction13/06/10 05:57 PM
1

You don't ignore them. You shake their hands. You smile. Make a short joke. Then you leave them and move to the next guy. But the guys aren't your targets, the women are. You can't spend all your time hanging out with dudes (and personally, I don't like hanging out with a bunch of guys all that much). Being cool with the dudes lets you slip in and talk to the women without fear of being CB'd.
/r/seduction13/06/10 05:37 PM
3

I didn't DLV them until they were all my friends. Basically I DLV'd them by being funnier, cooler, and more entertaining. Also, I DLV'd them by following simple rules of not DLVing myself. They eventually caved to aura of alpha and DLV'd themselves. Tending to hang out in "guy" packs. Being very quiet. You could tell they all dug me, but were insecure about my instant success. I DLV'd them by DHV'ing myself.
/r/seduction13/06/10 05:25 PM
6

Well, I already had a background in entertaining. I was very outgoing in high school, and I played in a real band since I was 16. (We went to the international blues competition in Memphis). I was already socially comfortable, and already able to talk to people. All it took was learning how to turn entertaining into seducing. But this was my 2nd time going out and putting every thing I learned to use. I read the game, and learned several "tricks" just to put into conversation. I've probably been…
/r/seduction13/06/10 05:22 PM
1

I read this and was confused. Then I saw your name.
/r/seduction13/06/10 10:05 AM
3

Pretend you are trying to get a threesome with the girl you have oneitis with. This will cause you to hit on the girl like a PUA, and try to pick up other women, which doesn't say needy. Always smile. Smiling can cover for a lot of shit you mess up with.
/r/seduction13/06/10 10:02 AM
1

Ahhh. I thought she had said for him to stay instead of just walking off. Hmm, yeah he did kind of play into her frame; however, he slightly negged her by calling her mean. I not sure it helped him, but I dont think it hurt him that bad either.
/r/seduction13/06/10 02:02 AM
1

Its because if you talk to one person, the other two can have a conversation. There is no 3rd wheel. The wingman comes in and fills the hole keeping the other person busy and interested. If there is already somebody else there that can keep someone occupied, why do you need a wing?
/r/seduction12/06/10 09:18 PM
2

How do you spell your last name, again?
/r/seduction12/06/10 08:57 PM
2

I've noticed you only need a wing if it's an even numbered set at relatively low numbers. When you open a two girl set, it's very difficult to maintain interest if both by yourself as you can only talk to one at a time. You seemed to do fine, but you might have used a false time constraint in order to get a number and raise social proof. I wouldn't have suggested planting, but perhaps asking them to go sit somewhere else with you. You'll gain social proof, and you get to position yourself better…
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:44 AM
2

So, you don't like game? lol
/r/seduction11/06/10 10:28 PM
2

drop it. You might have come off as needy. Once they rejected you once, you should've stopped texting. Atleast for awhile. In 2-3 weeks ask her out again.
/r/seduction11/06/10 06:53 PM
1

Looks like everything's been said. I don't even need to say anything.
/r/seduction11/06/10 06:44 PM
1

Such bad advice I ca- Oh, it's you.
/r/seduction11/06/10 06:23 PM
3

Next time you see her and that happens, stop her. Then run a routine keeping the smile on your face.
/r/seduction11/06/10 03:12 PM
3

I bought "Neuro-Linguistic Programming for Dummies" It set me straight about a few misconceptions. But yeah, there are lots of tricks, but the first two steps in starting to pick up women is to always smile and to be confident. These are obviously the biggest and most important steps. Everything else are just tricks and techniques that are useful for the smiling, confident man.
/r/seduction10/06/10 03:36 PM
1

If you decide to go to a ren fair, it might be a good idea to go as something romantically themed. Go as Westley from the Princess Bride (if she knows it) and learn a lot of quotes. I pulled it off and this girl I barely knew was all over me. I gained social proof from the workers there (they would initiate quotes and I would finish), and I got to walk around and drink beer.
/r/seduction10/06/10 03:33 PM
5

I'll let you know. I'll be trying this.
/r/seduction10/06/10 03:28 PM
2

Next time you think you have approach anxiety, take a deep breath, then recite your phone number backwards, outloud. Immediately when you finish, get up and go talk to her with a memorized routine opener.
/r/seduction10/06/10 07:08 AM
2

I'm not sure I would recommend this because I haven't tried it... but here's an idea. Next time you are driving around with a girl in the car maybe have a playlist of songs you sing very well. Put a few tunes on. If the conversation ever goes slack for awhile and she doesn't restart it (I dont think that's a good sign), you might start singing the song thats playing
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:40 AM
1

I openly hit on a waitress running a PUA routine tonight while eating with my mom. Obviously it was just practice, but that doesn't mean you can't have a good time or accept positive results if they happen.
/r/seduction10/06/10 01:27 AM
9

It's not the woman's fault a man stalks or harasses her. It's the man's fault.
/r/seduction10/06/10 01:25 AM
2

You're replies are getting deeper and deeper into the troll zone. subway pass, ah ha.
/r/seduction10/06/10 01:24 AM
1

Getting in physical position to escalate past initial kino. Ie Moving from simple shoulder, hand, touch to lower back, knee, thigh.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:25 PM
1

intjpua, I really dig your posts. You give it to me honestly and I like it; however, is that all I really did wrong? I feel like more could be said.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:21 PM
1

Being yourself is not game. People say be yourself because people feel confident being themselves. Confidence is game.
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:32 PM
1

Yeah, I recognized the game as a bad thing, but I wasn't sure how to drop it. She seemed fully intent on playing, but yeah it was a fairly massive mistake.
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:14 PM
1

Even guys with good game get down sometimes. A good example is Mystery in the book, "the game." One of the best, but still breaks down. Shit happens, and you sound like you know what you are doing. Keep working the routines and a smile on your face. Glad you found us.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:37 AM
2

Being Alpha about it would be "Seems like you guys are getting along great" Obviously you'll respond here. The he immediately says, "keep her busy while I do some [important shopping]" Then the guy leaves with her still there talking to you. That would be an example of alpha behavior. If I'm wrong, correct me. It'll help my game.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:31 AM
1

Damn.... that's devious. I like it. Thanks for setting me straight.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:14 AM
1

Jealous girl at the counter ey? Maybe I'd come and talk to you after her, because you are obviously more interesting.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:35 AM
10

The only way to destroy the game is for women not to respond to game any longer.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:22 AM
1

I like this advice, but I'm skeptical about the "Getting a gift for a close female friend that he thinks is into him." I know you aren't DHV to the target, but wouldnt you DHV the hypothetical person? I'm not saying its bad, I just don't understand the specific wording and senario you use. Maybe "My close female friend is leaving for grad school soon and I want to get her a going away gift without giving her the wrong idea."
/r/seduction08/06/10 09:59 PM
1

This is really great advice. I do have a few questions, though. What if the target you are hitting on is working? I went to a bookstore today and was doing fine, but ejected too early from my set because she was working and I couldn't very well stay there till she leaves.
/r/seduction08/06/10 09:56 PM
13

This is terrible advice! Anybody that do.... oh, it's you again.
/r/seduction08/06/10 09:54 PM
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I don't mean to rain on your parade, but I'm not sure those openers are the best. It seems to be showering the girl with compliments which would demonstrate a higher value for her. If I'm wrong, somebody please correct me. EDIT: lol, at your user name. I got owned.
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:26 AM
2

Thanks! But I don't really have a sister, and I don't intend on actually buying anything. I didn't think about the gift card, though, but it seems like it could be easy to deflect. "A gift card doesn't say I love you like a gift does." It might come off a little condescending, but if she's that intent on not helping me or blowing me off, it wasn't meant to be.
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:19 AM
1

I think that if you have a skill at talking over the phone, you ought to use it. If its the first time you contact a girl after number closing, I would really suggest calling her to set up the date. Text after that, but to me I think calling the first time is important. I'm not sure why I think this, and I have no reasons to back it up other than being able to have one more contact with her. It's much easier to reject a text than a phone call. I found that many people don't like to hear themselv…
/r/seduction08/06/10 10:09 AM
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I'm fairly new to the PUA game, but I'm sure if I'm wrong somebody will correct me. I don't think you have oneitis, but you might be displaying traits of this. If you can get her to your house alone, and can get alcohol (but use it wisely, just a little to get the situation to loosen up a bit). If you can get her to your house, this ought to be the easy part. Take her to your room, and sit beside her on your bed. Initiate kino immediately when you see her, try to make sure you get it going from …
/r/seduction08/06/10 10:03 AM
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Confidence is about consolidating social power. When you get nervous about approaching women, you are giving them social power over you. So, when you approach you are a wreck and it's easy to reject you. It's not about not caring. To the contrary, I think it's about caring, but being able to deal with it. When you care and get rejected and you brush it off, you are DHV. She has no power over you. By blowing off her rejection and not letting it get to you, you are basically saying "You're making …
/r/seduction08/06/10 09:44 AM
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Sounds like a girl I posted about a while back. You've probably got some one-itis. Stop calling her for awhile, get a haircut. Next time you hang out, she isn't her. She's another girl to pickup. Run a few routines, escalate kino out the ass.
/r/seduction08/06/10 02:08 AM
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I suppose you're right. Gotta shed the rest of the AFC off of me. If it's not too late, I'll do just this. EDIT: Actually, I thought about it. I think I'm in the early stages of oneitis. This comment made me think about it. Time to get my inner-game back on top. Thanks dude.
/r/seduction07/06/10 09:24 PM
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Yes she does, but she's got many more guy friends. It's not so much that she has no girl friends but guy friends are way out numbering her.
/r/seduction06/06/10 06:03 PM
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Well, we have sat around and had beers, and didn't reject flirting and kino, but she is really reserved. She also invited me out to do things with her. It's not like I'm a follower, but it's more like she's "one of the guys." She got out of a serious relationship about a month ago, and I'm wondering if she's still hung up about that. Edit: She has invited me to go with her (the two of us) to do a few different things here and there. Such as a party out in the middle of no where, and getting drun…
/r/seduction05/06/10 06:30 PM
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Fayetteville, Arkansas
/r/seduction05/06/10 06:40 AM
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Yeah, sounds like a good idea. I'm never let her have frame control and I try to DHV. Not gonna get locked into "Nice Guy" syndrome.
/r/seduction05/06/10 06:34 AM
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He's just being a Sir Nose'Dvoidoffunk.
/r/seduction05/06/10 05:07 AM
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I have no idea what's up with these "gay insults," yet, I am intrigued to know why they are happening.
/r/seduction04/06/10 03:38 AM
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To be honest, she sucked your dick at a party after meeting her on the first few days. He shouldn't have to worry about her feeling slutty. Everything this guy said.
/r/seduction01/06/10 07:04 AM
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lol, I didn't mean the legs open near crotch like in a seductive pose, but used as a general stance. Hand isn't on crotch but more near a pocket. Using it to get attention then lead the hand your crotch, nonchalantly. I'm cool with kino, and do plan on implementing it heavily, but I was looking for more like how to posture myself so that women think "sex." I want to be able to keep her mind on sex as long as possible without actually saying anything about sex. Basically, physical and vibe escala…
/r/seduction01/06/10 07:02 AM
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You've got this covered. You need no advise. She wants you.
/r/seduction01/06/10 04:48 AM
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Try to be like the action hero that has the perfect 1 liners instead of the standup. The action hero always gets babes.
/r/seduction01/06/10 03:44 AM
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I think we need a sign or abbreviation for extremely bad advise. We might actually trick newbies. Other than that, a smile and chuckle dawned on my face.
/r/seduction01/06/10 03:41 AM
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When I first started hanging out with girls (long before I knew about PUA techniques) and I was just an AFC girls and would compliment me and I had no idea how to take them. My mom actually gave me advise (lol). I think it works great now. Basically, anytime you receive a really personal and intense compliment, turn it around on them. COMPLIMENT Response: You know, I really appreciate that, and you are just too sweet. You have to compliment their compliment. Afterwards you could probably slide i…
/r/seduction01/06/10 03:37 AM
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Seems like looking a gift horse in the mouth to me.
/r/seduction01/06/10 02:48 AM
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That made me feel good inside. Thanks.
/r/seduction01/06/10 02:45 AM
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I'll work on it; thanks for the advice. As for working sets, I often frequent parties where I know hardly anybody. Would you recommend chatting with the guys first to establish some grounding before moving on the the ladies? Also, why do PUAs often use false names? I'll work on my logistics and ask another couple questions if I need.
/r/seduction23/05/10 06:44 AM
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Thanks! But lets say I am not the guy she talked to 10 minutes earlier. Is there a way to salvage that, is it extremely difficult, or am I just screwed? Also, I appreciate your advice. It hadn't crossed my mind that I wasn't isolating properly, as space is hard to come by in crowded areas. Might invite them outside around the corner then. =]
/r/seduction23/05/10 06:29 AM
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How do you deal with parties that have a much higher guy to available girl ratio? My game is pretty good, but often gets bulldozed by some wank that she talked to for 10 minutes earlier in the day that has almost no game. Or, how do you get a girl to ditch a schlub whenever you know she wants to ditch him, but feels obligated not to?
/r/seduction23/05/10 06:07 AM
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