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Yea I probably didn’t handle this super well. After a while I just stopped texting her all together then after she ignored my first text in a week I asked if I did something. It is what it is it’s probably clipped
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 04:11 AM
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I think it’s getting to that point I started taking longer to respond now it’s taking her over a day to reply
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 08:48 PM
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Usually when i first meet a woman we text back and forth pretty often. Usually if she’s not responding back quickly she’s not interested and I move on. This is a case where she responds super slowly (now starting to be like once a day) but still shows interest in other areas. This hasn’t rlly happened to me before and I’m kinda confused why.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 02:19 AM
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We met a week ago
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 01:50 AM
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Bro what ? I can’t text ? Lmao
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 12:45 AM
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Yea maybe I haven’t double texted I’m just thinking about moving on
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 08:17 AM
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Not sure what this means
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 08:17 AM
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Thought it was good but there’s other critical rp content out there that’s better
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 04:31 AM
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Even when I was deep into the red pill I never was even remotely conservative. When they started aligning with conservatism I ditched it
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 04:30 AM
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Honestly I’ve never rlly considered that. I’ve usually only been around straight dudes thanks for putting me on.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 07:18 AM
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I guess my issue is if u want somewhere to go as a man who’s been abused u got the red pill weirdos who just hate women but the feminist spaces don’t rlly hold space for men either
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 02:11 AM
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Got u thx
/r/ExRedPill10/03/25 02:46 AM
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Yea I understand I probably am having a tough time getting past the honeymoon phase. Not sure why but it’s something I can work on for sure
/r/ExRedPill10/03/25 02:03 AM
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I appreciate your feedback. I have been doing that. It’s not I view these women as bad people or even bad partners because of these flaws I just get this momentary emotional reaction to them that kinda destroys the dating process. Then when it’s over the flaws don’t mean anything anymore it’s weird. I also have a tough time differentiating between flaws that are meaningful to me and ones that aren’t meaningful
/r/ExRedPill10/03/25 02:02 AM
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Sorry to hear that. A lot of these things start from insecurity even if they manifest themselves in nasty ways .
/r/ExRedPill10/03/25 12:48 AM
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I mean then u ain’t gotta date them if u not interested but there are men who like that
/r/ExRedPill08/01/25 12:27 AM
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Attachment theory rlly explains my journey thru red pill. 15-18 I was anxiously attached which caused me some internal struggle. After a couple years of watching red pill content I “successfully” became avoidant. Now I’m at a spot where I no longer believe the red pill and I’ve unlearned all that stuff but still am avoidantly attached 😞
/r/ExRedPill08/11/24 06:25 PM
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Ayo pause
/r/ExRedPill08/11/24 06:21 PM
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Fresh and fit
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:46 AM
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She knew all that stuff before yall had sex either it’s something u didn’t mention or she got her own issues around sex. If this is happening with each woman u have sex with then u might be doing something but I’d assume it’s just that 1 woman who has some problems.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/24 12:57 AM
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Nah this is valid. I felt the same exact way in high school and college to some degree. I was uncomfortable with my status specifically in dating and wanted to get women not necessarily just for the woman but as a sign of status. Change for me was when I realized a lot of those women are just as insecure if not more and same with the guys. We all face struggle in our lifetimes even if someone’s “status” is higher. Best to work on urself and find people who u genuinely connect with and who genuin…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/24 06:13 AM
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Bro I knew this was finna be abt Drake when I seen the title 😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 09:28 PM
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That showing emotions and love towards a woman will make her lose interest.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:15 PM
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Fair I’m 23 so I guess I just gotta practice and improve
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:54 PM
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Ur assuming it’s true off of a single moment that I gave that u don’t even have any context about. An assumption of that level is never a sign that someone is willing to engage in any type of productive good faith discourse
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:53 PM
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I feel u. I did apologize but I didn’t rlly have the exact words to open up that kinda conversation
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:44 PM
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Preciate it hopefully it’s not too late
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:40 PM
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That’s still an assumption that ur operating off of
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:38 PM
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Based on a snapshot of a moment I described in the post u called me emotionally illiterate which is an obvious assumption. U didn’t find this forum for no reason bruh u probably had some outta pocket beliefs so if u can’t understand the concept of trying to grow and better urself and ur understanding then idk what exactly ur here for besides lecturing and preaching from ur high horse as an anonymous internet guy.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:35 PM
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U coming in here angry asf making a bunch of assumptions u need to relax dude lol
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:29 PM
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No
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 01:26 PM
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I appreciate the response. I rly wanna talk to her again but I’m not sure how or if to broach it. Also not sure if I even have the emotional capacity to give her what she wants even tho I was/am looking for a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 10:41 AM
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To be fair this all happened like a week before she ghosted me so it wasn’t a thing where she just never spoke to me right after.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 10:40 AM
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“My bad”. It was mostly cuz I didn’t text her after she left and I didn’t get her text until I woke up the next morning.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 10:35 AM
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Yea tbh I’m kind of a free agent and I don’t rlly have a single ideology I think there’s a lot to gain just looking at what ppl have to say abt love and dating
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 03:18 PM
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Fresh and fit and rollo tomassi. Fresh and fit’s disguise of being “high value men” is so thinly veiled u can easily see that they lack any type of social skills or charisma and have the attitude of 13 year old edge lords. Tomassi is a grown ass man dedicating his life to hating on women who are 30 years younger than him. Dude is 54 starting beef with red pillers in their 20’s.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 05:12 AM
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Hey man I say this not to be a dick but u need to relax 😂. Ur just 18 and only starting to become a man and u have way more to experience. Ur at a point where u are thinking way more than ur experiencing. U need to put the notions u have in ur head away and just go date different women u find attractive then come back and revisit ur ideas. True evolution is gained thru experiences. I’m 25 and I’m still learning this. Don’t be paralyzed by fear go out there and fuck up then learn from ur mistakes…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/23 06:15 AM
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A matrix reference
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 02:43 AM
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Fd signifier
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 06:52 PM
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Get them to “touch grass” lol
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 09:56 AM
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How do u meet single women or have them in jr social circle my social circle is pretty much just dudes
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 02:19 AM
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I’m not even sure if this is the right advice but u might wanna start on dating apps. Just don’t get too dependent on them but it will be a less anxiety producing process
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 02:18 AM
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As it’s become more right wing it’s become more racist particularly the white manosphere
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 02:16 AM
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I appreciate hearing this. As I grow older I think I am realizing this more.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:31 PM
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I did it when I was younger and it turned out bad. Granted the emotions I expressed weren’t the most healthy ones. But that was the main thing that made me go red pill
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:30 PM
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I’m not generally great at expressing my emotions but with my friends I got things like basketball which is kind of an emotional outlet
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:29 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with improving urself to the core idea of red pill is improving urself only to be able to have sex with more women which is not only a flawed premise but a bad way to live ur life
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 07:24 AM
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I promise u women do not believe they have it easier. A lot of women are very anxious about not being able to get in a relationship the same way a lot of guys are anxious about not getting sex or dates
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 07:22 AM
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Nah this is not progress ur just going further into cynicism
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 07:20 AM
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I think a lot of women post on ig for validation but so do men so I don’t think it’s a big deal.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 07:18 AM
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Go talk to some regular black ppl and try to unlearn that stereotype thru ur actual interactions w another human.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 07:17 AM
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“U need to fuck over 100 women per year to be an alpha male” was a hilarious piece of advice
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 06:27 PM
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Sounds like he’s gone into more of a right wing rabbit hole than a manosphere one
/r/ExRedPill07/10/23 04:52 PM
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I mean if u got a connection w a women u met irl she probably send u sum for free or u can j watch porn
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 01:47 AM
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I mean I wouldn’t do it
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 01:45 AM
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The vid of dude crying was hilarious
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 12:58 AM
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There are a number of short guys ik who get lots of women. Women who say they won’t date short guys are kinda like dudes who say they won’t date big girls. Both are kinda just posturing bc it’s lots of those ppl out there in good relationships. Just gotta touch grass and go meet some women.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 12:56 AM
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Facts great content basically lefty content directed towards men
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 12:40 AM
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Once it started to align with right wing politics
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 11:16 PM
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It’s a very small percentage who actually would identify themselves as incels but a number of incel talking points have made their way into mainstream dating discourse which has been absorbed by a number of men
/r/ExRedPill12/08/23 01:52 AM
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I wouldn’t mind at all. That’s who this group should be a resource for. If this group is rly about helping men unlearn these behaviors then we should absolutely be able to engage with ppl who are in different steps of that process
/r/ExRedPill12/08/23 01:50 AM
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Lmfao
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:55 PM
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Thank u
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 07:56 AM
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Also thanks for the link it was great advice
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:01 AM
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110 degrees
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 02:59 AM
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Probably gonna do this thanks
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 02:58 AM
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It’s no shame in getting older for men or women. That being said u typically want to date ppl in ur age range
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 02:44 PM
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Someone said he sounds like Charles Barkley but looks like Carlos boozer 😂😂🤦‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 02:27 AM
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I’m ngl even after I left the red pill I kept up with AMS for a bit just cuz his content was so funny and he didn’t seem as cringe or bitter as a fresh and fit for instance. Ultimately tho I left it alone and found other content that I could identify with more given the fact that my views had shifted.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 02:53 PM
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I think ppl watch the clips and not the whole video so they don’t rlly comprehend that there is an ideology being pushed and just see a guy making fun of some women. I had a friend who thought the videos of Kevin samuels calling women linebackers was hilarious but was an otherwise normal guy then a year later he’s fully red pill watching rollo tamasi or however u spell his name. It’s a dangerous effect for sure.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 07:59 AM
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Give urself small manageable goals. Like going and asking a woman for directions or a simple question that won’t cause u much anxiety. I promise it will get better after a while. I’m sorry u feel like this. My messages are always open if u have any questions.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/23 02:40 AM
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There’s some truth there but also if u stop caring then u stop caring… Like if u think the key to a healthy relationship is to force urself to not care about the other person that’s a silly strategy
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 02:27 AM
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I think there are certain traits that women generally prefer in men and vice versa but they aren’t the end all be all by any means. My best friend from high school is like 5’6 and got every girl in college just cuz he was a cool guy who was funny and had a huge social circle.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 02:22 AM
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Honestly while there is some good advice out there on the internet but it’s few and far between and even the non red pill channels have some red pill adjacent takes. I would recommend having a group of supportive friends u can talk about dating with.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 02:18 AM
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I think a lot of ppl watch it for entertainment instead of genuinely believing the content but the scary part is that those same guys can start to believe it the more they watch it
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 02:15 AM
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This is a good list. I would also add exposing the manosphere for channels to watch even tho it’s not active anymore if u want a good laugh at some of the worst takes to come from the manosphere that’s a solid channel.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:21 PM
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I honestly just thought the content was funny and didn’t rlly understand how harmful it was
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:34 AM
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Men should be able to have the freedom to be what they want to be.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 06:05 AM
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Fd signifier or aba and preach
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 09:29 PM
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I got into it when I was 20 and started to lose interest when I was 21. I would say I didn’t fully get out of it until I was 22 because I still consumed some manosphere content up until then but it was seeing how lame and goofy the fresh and fit/Andrew Tate crowd was that ultimately made me stop messing with that community.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 03:52 PM
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Obviously I’m not going to be defending Tate and he’s a POS and a scammer regardless but from what I’ve heard the sex-trafficking allegations as of rn appear to be unfounded.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 03:49 PM
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The red pill dating coaches advice about male friends is completely hypocritical. Because if u ask them what you should do if a girl your dating wants to be “just friends” they would say “hell no” even tho their own belief is that women are having sex with their male friends.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 05:44 PM
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The 9-5 is extremely underrated. I don’t wanna shit on entrepreneurs but those online spaces are so scam ridden and watered down between crypto bro’s and forex scammers. The best entrepreneurs are selling something because they believe it can improve the world and help people’s lives not because they are trying to make money. I wasn’t happy working my 9-5 but that inspired me to save money to change my career as well as find work in other countries to go through life changing experiences. Grante…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 04:59 AM
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I think an underrated reason that ppl don’t talk about enough is that the red pill influencers are objectively extremely charismatic. They make their content as entertaining as possible to hook ppl in and spread their ideology. One friend I had started off sending me Kevin Samuels clips during the pandemic like “hey look at this isn’t this funny” then after like a year was fully indoctrinated into the red pill. The strategy is simple but kinda brilliant for most successful red pill creators. Mak…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 04:48 AM
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Honestly neither, I just wanted to be more successful in dating and sacrificed my morals about how to treat women in order to do so.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 10:20 PM
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The fact that u have a level of insecurity in how she responds is actually a good thing and a sign u like her. U just have to spread ur attention to a number of things like reading, working out, whatever activities u enjoy. Think of it like stocks. If u have all ur money in one stock then ur gonna live and die off of how well it does. But if ur invested into a number of stocks there’s more nuance and u can be more productive. Similar to this, if u have all of ur happiness invested in ur conversa…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 10:19 PM
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It’s cringe. The first couple clips I saw form it were kinda funny but the more I’ve seen the worse it’s looked
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 08:03 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s dying but it’s definitely getting exposed as being goofy. I think it’s boom in popularity during the pandemic led to increased scrutiny that it never got when it was a more insular community. And it doesn’t really hold up well to any criticism.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 07:15 PM
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It is a real thing but trying to force urself to act like u have game is not the right thing as it just makes u cringe. True confidence comes from exposing urself to uncomfortable situations repeatedly until they become comfortable and u develop confidence. For instance when I first started working on my jumpshot it was awkward as hell and looked terrible. But after practicing it for a while it looks smooth and natural. Confidence is similarly developed thru repetition there’s no cheat code.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/23 06:18 PM
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The political stuff has always been an undercurrent and was the main reason I left because I’ve always been pretty left leaning and I was looking for dating advice but todays red pill movement is overtly culturally right wing.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/23 06:15 PM
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I would recommend Fd signifier
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 04:08 PM
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Facts
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 11:38 PM
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Thanks for reading
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 10:17 PM
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I tried to but sadly it was too late for most everyone.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 04:45 PM
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The manosphere is kind of adjacent to a lot of far right racist movements so they absorb some of the racism. Fd signifier did a great breakdown of this in his connecting the manosphere video.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 04:43 PM
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Looks matters very little for friendships. It matters for relationships but it’s subjective and depends on the woman. There’s women out there that wild find u hideous and women who’d think ur the best looking man alive. Money doesn’t matter tbh. At least in my experience I’ve never had money like that and I’ve had no problems with women that’s stem from that. To be fair I’m also 24 so idk if women my age are rlly looking for financial stability. “Status” is a very vague term that isn’t rlly quan…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 05:50 AM
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Most red pill men believe in self improvement only as a means to attract more women not for the sake of actually improving lol
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 03:31 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever met a self identified “alpha male” who was super successful with women. Most men who society would deem to be “alphas” would laugh at the idea that such a thing exists.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 03:30 AM
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I mean at the time I was just looking for dating advice and a lot of the major dating advice ppl are red pillers. I’m glad I’ve evolved my views but I don’t think I ever took the super harmful aspects of it seriously and I mostly just watched for lolz
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 03:28 AM
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