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This is what I have a problem with. If you can’t commit either don’t date OR be very up front about why you’re dating. However the bulk of people don’t know what they want and don’t date intentionally in either direction or they merely think they’re ready for a relationship then discover they’re not
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 12:59 AM
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Can you explain “position to commit”? What might those variables be in your eyes? My current dating demographic is mostly divorced men with children in their 40s so it’s a whole other ball game
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 12:56 AM
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So much this. Even if you’re amazing and he acknowledges that you’re amazing, if a good healthy man is not in a position to sustain a relationship/household (financially, emotionally, etc) he will respectfully let you go as he knows you deserve more. If he’s ABLE to make himself ready and you’re worth it, he will do so. But depending on where he’s at in his life (about to move, going through divorce for example), it just may not be possible at that point in time
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 11:16 PM
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But I think we are also just talking about a committed monogamous relationship in general (not necessarily marriage in mind at the outset) ?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 08:19 PM
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I think it’s more, men will marry the woman in front of them - (a woman they’re already dating not just “any” woman) when they’re ready
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 08:17 PM
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This makes much more sense then “if he wanted to he would” and was also proven in some studies Men commit when they’re ready and tired of being single and all their friends are in committed relationships
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/24 07:57 PM
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