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*first time a girl has been really interested in you ... that you know about
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:40 PM
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Start being bothered by not getting what you want. Look how much time you're spending on other people and realize it's OK for people to not like you. Truth is most ppl will still like you, and they only superficially like you anyway. Take away all the stuff you do for them and they don't really like you for you anyway. Somebody not laughing at your jokes doesn't mean they don't like you.
/r/seduction18/12/18 08:00 PM
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Up voted to down voted lol.
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:56 PM
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If you're having troubles telling, the best thing to do is to just approach, or get close. If you can talk to her, interested girls will usually touch you, if not you can touch her upper arm non chalantly while talking, see if she responds.
/r/seduction16/09/18 12:17 AM
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Not that bad looking, man. Work out a bit, gain some confidence. It'll come.
/r/seduction10/09/18 06:44 PM
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I can understand that, you have to not care about that I think. Meeting girls while dancing definitely happens, but I had much better luck in line getting a drink. Sometimes you have to cater to your strengths, and I was better at talking than I was at dancing, lol. I'd wait in line for a drink, and if a girl made eye contact with me I'd smile. You're usually in close enough vicinity to attempt contact. Also if girls were directly in front of behind me, that worked best. Sometimes I'd wait for a…
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:46 AM
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My best advice is to stop thinking about it. That's when the best happened to me. Women(people) seem to be attracted to when people are in the moment.
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:33 AM
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Depends kn your definition of an alpha(which you stated above). Using these techniques and definitions is all good and what not, none of them are really actually correct. You need to find out what an alpha really is, and it really to me doesn't mean what you've posted. There are of course, different definitions, but I would say most younger guys' definition of an alpha is way off.
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:42 PM
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It's normal behaviour to like to be wanted. It's normal behaviour to not like the girl either. It's good that you realize it. All you can do is be selective, and hang out with a girl enough to get to know her properly.
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:39 PM
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You're only beta if you give in. You're alpha if you shoulder it with no problems. FWIW I had friends who were like you, but I never thought less of them, it was always good fun to me. Sorry.
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:54 PM
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Honestly, and I have done this a few times. I would just tell her you're interested in her sexually not platonically, and you're quite sure you can't carry on in a regular friendship. It has resulted in sex for me 3/5 times I tried, the other two ended alright.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:46 PM
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Guys leaning on their car or sitting on their bike. Talking about how much they work out, like really you don't need more than a sentence or two. Guys definitely listing the wrong height, using too much slang, etc...
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:31 PM
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Bah, I wasn't into pretending. I did other experiments as well. I had a female friend who was on the same dating site. She'd show me the guys she went for. Smart girl with a good work ethic, went for guys that I would say had a warning light on their profile. On average, men and women process details differently, but I'd say both genders are highly superficial on average.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:02 PM
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I spent my 20s well-built, working out and running regularly - was in good shape. After while of getting a decent number of responses that lacked in quality, I decided to test some different profile configurations out. I changed my profile to show that I was a doctor; I have a new practice out of the city and was just starting out after med school. Responses went through the roof, accompanied by many nudes. With a slight tweak to my profile, changing my education to a doctorate in computer scien…
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:54 PM
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I agree, but unfortunately what women care about in bios is usually outrageous.
/r/seduction16/08/18 12:42 PM
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Normally older women don't really want to date guys with that age gap, but if she was a model and is wealthy, she may feel entitled to a younger man. Under normal circumstances, I wouldn't hesitate to admit that I wanted sex if she asked. I would still not rule it out in this case, Imo.
/r/seduction20/07/18 09:05 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:29 PM
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Because while most advice comes from a place of success, it's usually personal. The best advice sadly, is usually general advice. Anything too specific(from what I've read on here) seems to be personally applied to that person's strengths or epiphanies. I'm about to unsubscribe from /r/seduction because most of the advice is hurting, and many of the posts about people's progress is hurting. It's all too superficial and doesn't translate well to real world results for most. The best absolute gene…
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:59 PM
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You're on to something, but you're wrong. A lot of women prefer taller guys, but that is to your advantage, really. Women are more likely to date a taller guy, usually due to their natural preference or their own insecurities. I'm about your height. It's never stopped me, but everyone has their own insecurities. If you think your height is an issue, it will be. My wife is actually taller than me by an inch, doesn't bother either of us one bit. I've dated several other women who were my height, a…
/r/seduction26/04/18 10:28 AM
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The answer is no. Keep working on yourself, and stop caring so much/thinking about it so much. I bet something will come before you know it. Attitude, charisma and conversation are often the most important things.
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:08 AM
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You sound pretty similar to how I was ages ago. I had a ton of friends though(not bragging, especially because I don't anymore), so I would always see guys getting girls, and wondered what I was doing wrong. In my opinion, you have to be on the same plane as other people. When you're introverted(as I am), you're a thinker, often a good listener and usually a people watcher. When you're doing those things, you're on a different plane, kind of like a bird's eye view, so socially, you're not really…
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:00 AM
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Does she have a lot of friends? How often does she go out with other people? I'd say if she has other friends and goes out enough, she's interested, but slightly intimidated by the cultural difference, perhaps. If you're one of her only friends, she could be lonely. It's up to you to judge.
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:32 PM
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Poster ImJustSo has some great ideas there. If you're looking to get laid once, a few times or if you get lucky, regularly for months, this will work. I've done something very similar to this. Keep in mind, this is playing a psychology game, and it's not quite the same as both parties playing active games to get eachother. This can result in the girl being obsessed with you, which for those people who have experienced it, can be potentially brutal, and can quite annoying time after time. It depe…
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:16 PM
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What? Me? Read the post pal, and just because I believe in alpha and beta doesn't mean I don't think shy guys can't get laid... Lmao. Dude, relax. I'm on your side.
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:10 AM
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Some things on this list can go down as good advice but others, not so much. Unlike another poster, I do believe in alpha and beta males - its not a myth, but unlike this OP, not all women want an alpha, or the kind of alpha that he describes. There are different kinds, most definitely. Some women like quiet, shy men. Others like loud, center of attention types. Definitely, not all women cheat, and many women are not as pathetic as the OP make them sound. It seems to me that the OP has dated the…
/r/seduction23/04/18 05:24 AM
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You need to realize there are girls out there that are like you, and many that aren't but don't mind. You're going after girls of the wrong ilk.
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:32 PM
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If you're interested in her, you'll come up with questions. Just spending time together is enough. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:08 AM
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Yeah, it's kind of weak to be honest, but the good thing is, especially if you're young that you can correct it. You're only human...
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:07 AM
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22 is still too young to consider worrying about that.
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:05 AM
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I work with a guy who has the same problem as you. It gets old being his friend. It's all egotistical. He says how he met this hot ass girl, shows up photos, goes out on a date or two, gets some photos of her dressed in little or nothing at all, shows up, brags, the end. It's all about bragging for this guy, and beating the competition, which is usually a sign of inexperience, youth and severe ego. If he shows me a photo of a "10", and I disapprove(because I'm older and my taste is more refined)…
/r/seduction19/04/18 05:28 PM
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Maybe you just have specific taste? I know I do.
/r/seduction16/04/18 11:48 PM
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Good looking single moms are literally everywhere from what I can see. I don't have a specific location, but they are also busy as hell.
/r/seduction16/04/18 11:46 PM
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Who cares. Ignore them, one day they won't be so beautiful... If they even are beautiful to start with. It actually won't take that long either. Had a girl from my high school who liked me but said "even tho you have a nice body, I'm sorry just being honest, you're not quite good looking enough for me". Saw her in our late 20s after not seeing her since we were 18. Not hot anymore and asked me out. That's usually what happens to these girls.
/r/seduction16/04/18 11:45 PM
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Ya, human contact is normal when done in normal context. During a lengthy conversation(longer than a few minutes), it's perfectly normal, of course that also depends on your region and ethnic background. Glad I could offer assistance. I stumbled upon this by sheer luck. I was young, and over thought everything, which is also what makes physical contact iffy, because if it's seen as too deliberate it can be perceived as creepy. By sheer luck, I mean one night at a bar when I was just of age, afte…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:57 PM
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At that point, if you're making excuses to not approach a girl, I can't provide any help. It's a defence mechanism and you need to drop it fast.
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:44 PM
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Stop worrying about being a seduction God, and just start looking for the right experience. If you legit are interested in the girl, and want to get to know her, the other stuff comes more easily.
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:55 AM
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Sorry yo say, but you'll be making most of the first moves, and when you don't, be prepared for a different kind of woman you may not be ready to handle properly. That's the gender game, simply embrace and accept it. Instead of always going in blind, look for eye contact. Some women will make repeated eye contact, which is great... Use that. Other women look once, and never look again. That's either them not interested, or it's them playing a game... The game is common and has been going on for …
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:16 AM
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Don't have an entry point, wait until there's a moment you can simply express yourself in an honest manner. It's less creepy, and an honest compliment goes a long way with women. Instead of using complimentary language, you can use body language to see how things are, and you can use normal, honest physical contact to show intetest. It can be tougher to learn, but is more sophisticated, and is a better indicator overall of how things are going. A woman might act interested due to not wanting to …
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:11 AM
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You don't need a salvage line. It's a sign of a weak ego. Who cares? If you like a girl, go after her, if she's not interested, that's literally life. Make no excuses, or don't try to cover up the fact you're interested and getting shot down... Own it.
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:05 AM
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Grocery stores were my favourite. Believe it or not, it's a great place. Women are in their more natural state most times, and even depending which food you're around can increase your chances. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of taken women doing the groceries, but tons of single women, you just have to find something dumb to open up with, like a rotten fruit that is sitting amongst the fresh fruit. Anything will work to get things started.
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:02 AM
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