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Oh yeah, for sure. Not wrong at all. I'm just speaking from personal experience.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 07:29 PM
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But they also have to find you too. Something rare like that means something.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 07:19 PM
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Memes and dankmemes got lame so long ago. Wouldn't be surprised if they become that way.
/r/MensRights11/12/21 05:38 PM
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Very true about wanting that to happen until it did. When I was in hs, starting at 14. I was cool with a older woman outside of school. She touched me numerous times and would speak to me about a lot shit she gone thru. To me, I felt "good". At some point, even took my virginity before 18. Took years later, especially as I have my own family, to realize how much she damaged me in the long run. Not worth it at all. Right before I met my wife years ago, I made a visit and she was so reserved. Didn…
/r/MensRights11/12/21 05:37 PM
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Already have a daughter, can't really vote lol But regardless of the gender, my child will have a much open mindset. It's gonna be a challenge but as a father, just gotta do the best I can.
/r/MensRights11/12/21 03:49 AM
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So dumb. To be personal, growing up I was way more close to my mother than father. Regardless of who passes away at some point, I'd cry either way cause they are both my parents at the end of the day. This gender shit is getting ridiculous, especially when it involves life or death situations.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:29 AM
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35 and a grandpa already, that's alot to take in. Be easy brother
/r/MensRights03/12/21 06:37 PM
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No need for rudeness. Nice to have different opinions from different people.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 07:07 PM
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That's not fair at all. "Birth parent" is such a disrespectful term. What the fuck. Regardless, congrats man! Be the best dad you can be for your kid and yourself. Fuck everybody else.
/r/MensRights01/12/21 09:35 PM
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Even before the post, seen the movie when it came out. Trash film anyways compared to the first
/r/MensRights01/12/21 09:31 PM
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I ask her straight up questions relating to it or just talk to her about anything, look out for signs
/r/MensRights26/11/21 05:32 PM
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Happy Thanksgiving to you too dude. Keep ya head up high. You'll see your kids. I'm thankful as fuck that I have my daughter and my wife together instead of apart. From time to time, I always double check to make sure my wife won't ever fuck me over with our kid. Wish people can see that fathers care hard for the kids, dare I say, more than moms.
/r/MensRights26/11/21 12:25 AM
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In my time when I served in the military, I've seen many women serve along side with me. At some point, even my wife as well. Many men and women do it. So why is the draft all of a sudden a problem? People are really ridiculous.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 03:51 AM
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Can't do shit as a guy really. Can't stare, compliment, nothing. Women can do it and even touch you. To be fair, guys don't speak up when these things happen cause we also "starve" for those things too.
/r/MensRights26/09/21 05:28 PM
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Wild article and comments are quite good to read. I just feel like I came from another planet. America really over thinks everything, or rather 1st world places imo. Sex is so complicated and over the top for no reason. It definitely is the media's fault for sure.
/r/MensRights26/09/21 05:24 PM
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It sucks, I'm sadly part of the statistics but it's too late to say anything. Nothing I can do :/
/r/MensRights22/09/21 07:02 PM
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Probably yea. Mods find every way possible to ban someone they don't like, especially if their opinions are challenged. Even when they have nothing to do with the post
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:01 PM
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Honestly, even if you take out the educational aspect, it's still not a comfortable environment. Dont get me wrong, anyone can do something cruel to anyone. But solely based off this post and the research, women have much more protection from the law than men. We could easily be accused of all sorts of sexual anything, have no proof and get everything taken away from us. Support groups for men, get shut down. Men look for help, get pushed away and silenced, especially if they go to other women f…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 06:20 PM
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I'm slowly gonna try doing that as well. It's difficult honestly when married and being a parent. Jjst doing it in secret. Best plans are the ones you don't share.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 06:09 PM
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Overtime, Reddit became soft. Sucks you have to go thru that bullshit. I was groomed and taken advantage of when I was a teenager. I brung it up in a comment section in r/offmychest and got downvoted like crazy. Then got banned from the subreddit. I'm happy you was able to share and speak your peace here. Sucks the kid was born out of that. Just be the best dad you can for them. It's not their fault at the end of the day.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 06:07 PM
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Sucks that happened dude. People love to ignore how much love and care men can show towards kids. Not even given a chance to display that. It's always people thinking about themselves and not the kids directly. They lowkey weaponized them.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 04:16 AM
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I feel it can be possible, especially if you believe in that. Imo there shouldn't be such thing as impossible. Just sucks the country we live in makes it difficult. For a long time, I thought I could be myself and talk to my wife whenever I needed to. Overtime, she showed me almost everytime, she would get angry and take shit personal. Basically leaving me in a worse state than before. Everytime I pull away, she wonders why I get distant. I tell her why and she gets upset that I don't open up an…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 04:13 AM
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It can be quite complicated with things we're and not we're aware of. For me personally, with the right people behind it, It could be legalized. Being legal would just Hopefully kill the stigma of sex being this nasty, degrading thing. Everyone likes sex. But being American, I feel this is the only country that questions and take everything critical about sex. So it's like when you decide to follow along, it becomes such unnecessary grind to simply even cuddle with someone you're interested in. …
/r/MensRights21/09/21 04:05 AM
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Yea, I found out the hard way as well. Most subreddits on here suck. Freedom of speech is controlled. Gotta really dig deep to find good subreddits with good people.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 03:51 AM
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Thanks for responding. Everything has a moment of learning. I like how you worded things toward the end. Will keep those in mind as I continue to get better.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 11:17 PM
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It's honestly simple. When you tried to understand her and be sympathetic towards the struggles she had but did the opposite for you, that's pretty much the answer you're looking for. Once that happens, it's hard to really know if she'll ever change. From personal and second hand experience, women chose to move forward on their own and expect you to move with them. You're usually on your own with your struggles. I feel even when women want to understand, they mainly listen but not much to say un…
/r/MensRights20/09/21 11:13 PM
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It's usually colored families that really do that. Traditions don't die. When it's challenged, you're disowned. I get it :/
/r/MensRights20/09/21 09:37 PM
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Reading those comment really did piss me off. Makes me believe majority of those people either don't have kids and/or had a kid but intentionally stood being single parents. I'll keep it simple. A child changes your whole life. Naturally, coming home to something like that and your partner being super secretive about it? I would be on edge too. There have been many instances where a woman would surprise that to her husband/partner without any preparation. As I read, it's obvious she took his emo…
/r/MensRights20/09/21 06:20 PM
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Strange with her studies, one thing that really stood out to me was that there's more Women pedos than males, and that's coming from a woman directly. It's sad that people like her get threatened and pushed to the side so the majority can push a narrative. She's speaking the truth.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 05:43 PM
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Right on the nose.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 05:15 PM
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Dude, shut the fuck up. Men like you contribute to the problem in the first place. Shitty old mindset. He ain't forcing anyone. A simple post. Idk how its a bad thing to get out the victim mentality and being able to find your own happiness.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 05:14 PM
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I completely agree. The 2 posts I made recently, I tried my best to not come off as emotional. From your perspective, from my understanding, basically to be logical and calm. Figure out the root of everything and just handle it one by one. Not ignoring our emotions of course but rather let those fuel you rather than show them directly. I've gone thru so much shit to not let it keep hurting me. It's a challenge but you're absolutely right, better being a survivor.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 05:11 PM
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Not gonna lie dude, as much as i can agree with how college is, the rest just sounds like you're gonna settle and just move forward. In other words, like other men. I get it could be exhausting but try. Imo don't post about it again if you aren't going to do anything about it. There's always a solution(s) to everything.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 04:57 PM
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It is disgusting. Children need both parents. No one imo is more important than the other. Love is love.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 04:51 PM
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Should still try to report to someone honestly. Bring up the reverse gender roles. Don't stop cause of their insecurities. I'm a survivor from being groomed around your age. Little shit like that can start something terrible.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 04:49 PM
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To be honest, even being in my late 20s, I'd probably still want to get a test. Just don't know.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 04:46 PM
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Ironically, I use to look for jobs I could like. I'm not working now since I'm a disabled vet but the context within your post, realistically, the father is more thoughtful of how anything he could do or say would affect the kid vs the mom would be more about the kid but mainly herself first
/r/MensRights20/09/21 07:09 AM
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That and they keep doing it even when they know it's harmful to the relationship/marriage. The excuse I usually hear is it's been apart of em for a long time and it's something that can't change. Lol in other words, nothing with us will as well.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 05:39 AM
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He did say not always lol But still, thanks for clarifying
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:41 PM
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Thanks for breaking it down. I get your view point and I could agree. Basing it on just a gender is not realistic and doesn't solve anything. It's from personal, second hand experiences and research.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:35 PM
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Didn't Chris Rock say this if I recall? Either way, its actually true.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:31 PM
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Society loves themselves a deck full of cards, always wanna play and bet on everything. That sucks that happened and totally agree, I already knew from the start my wife started being a certain way that no matter what happens between us, I'm always gonna be in my daughter's life and I know there's that chance she'll make it difficult for me. I made it known many times and I feel because it's not her worries, she really can't comprehend my feelings. I'm willing to work with someone if it's about …
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:31 PM
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How does this display open sexism? Please explain to me cause I don't see that and by all means, I'm not even angry. I just want to understand where you are coming from
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:24 PM
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I can agree to this to some degree. Again, it's not every single woman and man but sadly it seems to be most. It's one of those subjects that only a dad can understand. Women make it complicated.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:22 PM
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One, the guy was just voicing himself. It wasn't directly trying to correct anyone. You can clearly tell he was personal about it. He might have experienced something in his life once or many. No need to debate. Shit like this is what I'm talking about. Just have a chill conversation. "Hey, I disagree with everything you said. This is my point of view and I'll explain why". Especially if you know it's an opinion. Hell, you only put one article when there's thousands of studies. Doesn't help the …
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:19 PM
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Regardless as an option or not, I understand your view point. I wouldnt say completely woman have more sexual ppartners. If anything, they have options and easily make decisions with stuff like that. While they have easy access, Men have to find their way. Not every man and woman are like that of course but in most cases, it's true. In my life, I've had those talks with a few women and with honesty, they agreed to that. With a child in their life, that part, I can't really relate but you are rig…
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:13 PM
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Basically answered yourself. Those issues are there because you've tried and tired of the results mostly being the same. Imo I don't feel you're biased. It's all experience
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:10 PM
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That's why you see and hear most men avoiding dating and marriage. At one point in my life, I was honestly apart of that same boat, before it was even this big of a problem in this country. I was like that because of the stuff I saw around me growing up. I already knew someone like me it wouldn't be a good fit for me, like a job position and even when I did give it a chance (cause I did want to), overtime with actual experience, I felt more connected to that feeling than ever but I'm too deep in…
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:08 PM
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Yea, explain your point of view. This comment can be easily an opinion.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 10:41 AM
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It really isn't. Can't have a chill and civil conversation on here. Got heavily down voted literally pointing that out. Thanks tho, likewise to you pal
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:16 AM
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"It's not your relationship to save, it's hers" Can't believe how deep this means to me. I felt this. Needed to see a comment like this. Seriously, thank you. This applies to relationships and marriages
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/21 07:12 AM
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I feel one thing, being a husband, I feel like a wife intentionally keeps her past to herself, especially if he never asks and she goes with the flow. Somehow tho if he does ask and is just curious, they tend to get angry and get upset believing "My past has nothing to do with us" when I'm reality, everyone's past makes them who they are in the future. Makes it more annoying when as a husband, go out my way to be open about myself but stopped realizing she never asks anyway.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 06:37 AM
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I appreciate that. Trying to be level headed, figured I can perhaps speak my mind to others that might feel the same. Been dealing with a lot of shit for quite some time now.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 06:32 AM
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I fixed it. Thank you
/r/MensRights19/09/21 06:26 AM
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Fatherhood. The fact that mothers get put on a pedestal and fathers are seen as disposable. Between my mother in law and somewhat my wife (isn't her fault), I dont enjoy being a Dad. I just take care of my daughter cause I have to rather than I want to. The joy and importance of being a parent got robbed from me and now I refuse to have another kid ever. One and done. Also don't like that when it comes to older people talking to under aged people, sexual or casual, men get treated more harshly t…
/r/MensRights14/08/21 04:54 AM
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