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| 9 | Watch these three videos before you go out tonight, straight up game changers for approach anxiety.That last vid is a confirmed fake | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 11:12 PM |
| 2 | I need helpFirst problem - you need to be comfortable with being lonely because if you can't be happy by yourself, you cannot be happy with another person. Don't look to women to give you happiness. This will require you to have hobbies and interests that "YOU" enjoy doing for your own enjoyment. Once you establish that (could take years) then actively pursue women for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 09:59 AM |
| 1 | LIVE: sitting in a club feeling like a complete loser.just attempt to make some conversation with people, don't try and pick them up. If you can't do that, do something stupid like yell and say stupid shit that makes no sense. that way you wont take it so seriously. | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 09:56 AM |
| 10 | Why am I always horniest at home/work but when I go the club/out in public where there are girls, I lose my appetite?its because you are in your comfort zone when you are at home. At home/work there is no one to judge you or think ill of any of your actions. When you are out in a public place the dynamic changes, you are expected to conform to social norms (in western society, that basically means keeping to yourself and putting your head down!). | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Escalating advice? I've hit a bit of a wall.I second this post. The only way you are going to learn is by risking failure, even if it is something as simple as holding a girls hand. In the event that it does fail, don't react to it, the second to react to it, thats when the drama and gossip will start to spread. | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 09:52 AM |
| 16 | If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out?Girls will check you out, not all of them though. The reason you won't recognise it is that they wont make it obvious because they don't want to appear as gangers. Don't fall into the trap of constantly looking for there validation, assume it dude. Peace | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 09:49 AM |
| -4 | Paging all Australian Sedditors...you should learn the 'aussie lean'. Stand next to a girl at the bar at 2am, and start leaning on her, depending on how the dice rolls, you can get lucky when the girl realises that its easier to give in to sexual advances rather than trying to fend off a large Australian male. | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with girls that have boyfriends but clearly flirt/are interested in you?*if | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 08:14 AM |
| 10 | How do you deal with girls that have boyfriends but clearly flirt/are interested in you?I think in these situations "I were her boyfriend, how would I feel". Don't do stuff like that, there are so many attractive women that you could be approaching. High school girls are often young and naive, best not to get yourself caught up in the drama that follows. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 08:14 AM |
| 2 | I realize now that the #1 best way to get over Approach Anxiety is to have a wingman.I second this, its always great to have a wingman encourage you and give you feedback. The real challenge is 'consistently' being able to game without a wing. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Why YOU need to get over AAThat is a great video. But i'm not sure if that is what girls actually think when sitting on a park bench across from a male. | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Any Germans here???Ich mag deutsche madels! | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I'm putting together a Day Game Guide: What (if anything) do you want to know about Day Game?Include stuff on instant dates | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 01:56 AM |
| 1 | I'm a prohibitionist; where can I meet girls besides a bar?www.daygame.com | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 07:40 AM |
| 1 | oneitis need a little bit of guidance.if you are getting oneitis, it usually means that you are not meeting enough girls. When this happens, you usually fall into a state of 'scarcity'. This means that you start thinking that (girl x) has properties that do not actually exist. Just a thought, if you are an american student in a foreign country, probably best that you don't get attached to any girls you meet there if you inevitably going to leave... that's when shit gets real fucked up. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 07:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm a prohibitionist; where can I meet girls besides a bar?realistically, you can meet girls anywhere. You can go to a bar and stay sober, just drink something like red bull. Tyler from RSD is a perfect example of this, he goes out 6-7 nights a week and doesn't drink. If you are hell bent on staying away from alcohol, I would recommend looking into 'daygame' | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with anxiety, taking small steps to lead up to approaches?I agree, life is so much easier when you have a friend/wingman encouraging you to talk to beautiful women. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 08:11 AM |
| 3 | So A Few Days Of Wondering Around /AskWomen, Has Made Me Realise Everything We Know About PUA Is...Bollocks...Go out and take action. Reading all this shit is mental masturbation. Go out and get reference experiences. That way, you will know first hand what works and what doesn't. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Need to get rid of habit of saying "hey"there is nothing wrong with saying 'hey'. Say it with conviction, and make strong eye contact. Its all about your delivery. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Help me decide if I should kiss a girl that has a BF. Sigh.dont kiss anyother dudes gf man. All you need to do is go to the club, find a filthy strung out slut and go to town with her. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:50 AM |
| 1 | This is why you should say hi. Incredible short film.LOVED IT!! | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 11:16 AM |
| 2 | META: Apparently Seddit Upgrade has been set to private. The "MORE HERE" link in the Guides section of the sidebar can't be accessed because of this.why would the moderators set it to private?? | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 07:06 AM |
| 1 | What is your greatest fear that is preventing you from becoming who you want to be?Fear - leaving my comfort zone | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 02:12 AM |
| 0 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachotherIt's a good reference point. Most rejections sill not be as harsh as that. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 09:02 AM |
| 2 | After rejection I am angry.I second this | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 11:28 AM |
| 3 | What's better?: Dressing nicely and trying to look good, or just the opposite?You shouldn't attach your state to the way that you dress. The answer is dress nice. It non-verbally communicates that you are of a higher status, gives a good first impression. | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 06:51 AM |
| 0 | Number close with a stripper! Now what?It sounds too risky. Don't think in this scarcity mentality, but rather seek abundance. This means approaching more women (preferably ones' who aren't strippers) and getting more numbers, potential dates and all that jazz. Don't get hung up on this one girl, because chances are she does have an STD | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Good at Day Game, mindset crumbles at night.If daygame works best for you, why re-invent the wheel? Stick to it mate, and disregard the bar/club. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 01:23 AM |
| 4 | I can't get over this rejection. No matter how hard I try, I just can'tIt seems like you have a bad case of Oneitis. Usually stems from 2 things: 1 - you are not meeting enough girls. 2 - You have some inner confidence issues. I can sympathise with you in that a girl you really liked is gone. Time heals alot of things. Tyler from RSD teaches that things that ultimately make you happy are not tangible (women, cars, boats, money), take refuge in hobbies and learning, things that are done for their own sake that make you feel good. Apply that success to meeting women,… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Those of you who open directly during the day, what is the most common reaction when you say "I thought you were adorable and had to come meet you"?I did that exact approach today, replace 'adorable' with 'cute'. She giggled and smiled. She appeared overwhelmed that some dude would break social taboo, just stroll up and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 08:47 AM |
| 0 | Your Personal Daygame Method?www.daygame.com | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 03:48 AM |
| 3 | The Tao of Badass. What is Seddit's review?It seems very linear and robotic. Almost like a copy of MM. You don't have to spend your money on crap like that. Best thing is to practice and learn from your mistakes | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 12:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached a girl sitting by herself at university, after about 1/2 hour of conversation # close.From what I remember she had a laptop she was working on. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 11:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached a girl sitting by herself at university, after about 1/2 hour of conversation # close.I approached her and began to make observations about het clothing, turning questions into statements. I knew she was hooked when she began asking me the typical hairdresser questions such as "what do you study", and "what is your thesis on". From there I did a bit of qualification by asking her about her hobbies and whether she could cook. After that I got her number then bailed | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 07:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Approached a girl sitting by herself at university, after about 1/2 hour of conversation # close."You look very lonely sitting there" | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 07:18 AM |
| 2 | what is wrong with me?I would go and consult a doctor if you feel like killing yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 08:42 AM |
| 38 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?It still amazes me why night time is the ideal & expected place to meet women. Loud music effectively hinders any chance at conversation. If its not your cup of tea, its best you try something alternative like bars or daygame. I can sympathise with you on tbe point that the best you can hope for is grinding up on a girl and hoping she responds, i think its sleazy. Lets face it, girls at clubs are not the classiest women around, but i guess it depends on what you are after. | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 08:36 AM |
| 1 | In-field video of a PUA's FULL interaction from open to close. Very smooth and helpful for AFC'sthis is as fake as fuck. lol. You are right, apparently there are photos of the girl and Jonathan Sankey (the pua) together before this was filmed. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 11:20 AM |
| -2 | How might I arrange a first date with an under-21 girl who is clearly into me?If shes not into you move on. Approach the next cute girl that walks by. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 06:37 AM |
| 2 | I think I'm losing my game. Any advice?everyone who seeks to improve themselves will experience plateau periods. its seem obvious that you have the experience and the tools, I think you are experiencing more of a motivation issue. Its a fact that action breeds success, the only way you are going to get back up on top of your game is to approach more and learn from you mistakes. also - don't think of game as just going out and getting numbers, think of it as a holistic approach that encompasses everything including study hobbies and e… | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Dance Styles for Night Game?techtonick and shuffle | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 04:08 AM |
| 5 | [FR] What I accomplished by setting a small realistic goal #-closeYou sir are a legend. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Fucking night/club game..how do I improve?I have a similar issue, I feel less comfortable approaching in bars/clubs, that's why I stick to daygame. If your good at it, why re-invent the wheel? Best to play to your strengths. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Direct game and less than pretty girlssay something of lower risk like ' I think you look really nice'. Its not over the top, but its still direct. And yes, I hate it when you think a girl look cute from a distance, but when you actually see her up close its a whole different story. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 02:13 AM |
| 4 | What to do after the opener?Make assumptions and talk in statements | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Writing a dissertation at university, is severely affecting my social life and I feel like I'm slipping back into being an 'ideas' man rather than taking action + Needy behaviourThanx dude! | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Approaching seated girls in daygame?if she is reading - you look really engrossed in what you are reading, but you are cute and I had to come say hi. If she's just sitting there - you look cute, I'm (insert name) - then sit next to her. After you make the opener, you have to come down to her level, otherwise it makes conversation awkward. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be.yes, thats exactly what i mean (my bad, i should have made that clear earlier) | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 07:12 AM |
| 20 | Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be.there probably is a formal name for this technique. I first found out about it by watching one of AFC Adam Lyons vids on qualification (under 21 convention youtube channel). I read more about it in this book by David J, LIeberman - "get anyone to do anything and never feel powerless again" Really dark stuff. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 08:43 AM |
| 80 | Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be.YES! you have discovered the psychological technique of 'pre-loading'. Humans when making a personality trait public will more likely follow through with it. dark stuff really. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 07:25 AM |
| 1 | My opener is typically walking up to a girl and saying "Hi" with a smile. Are there better openers or is it enough?thats brilliant. I use that too. Its so simplistic, but yet so powerful. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 07:06 AM |
| 2 | New favorite Opener: "Hey, you look REALLY cute. I had to come over here to talk to you."I used that today, it works brilliantly! Thumbs up | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Finally getting over AA, but ejecting too early. Suggestions?the next stage is staying in the set for as long as possible. Accept that you are going to fail more times than you succeed. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 09:08 AM |
| 2 | In a rut? not taking action? Read this.Yes, success lies in 'action'. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 08:42 AM |
| 5 | How do I start conversation...Just walk up to a girl and say 'hi I'm... (insert name)' and smile. Truth be told, it doesn't matter what you say cause you can make a conversation out of just about anything. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Test my belief Seddit - You cannot have a truly honest relationship unless you are comfortable enough with yourself not to fear being alone forever.perhaps I should have made that clearer. Fear will always exist no matter the personality type. I think it also depends on the extent of the fear too. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 08:01 AM |
| 1 | I saw a beautiful woman in a subway station todayThe only way you are going to improve is the push through that fear and do it, success lies in 'action'. If you stuffed up, so what, move on, chances are that you will never see the girl again. Don't be outcome dependant. Hope that helps. :) | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Test my belief Seddit - You cannot have a truly honest relationship unless you are comfortable enough with yourself not to fear being alone forever.i would agree - fear is never in the present moment, it always exists in the future. I think I can speak for everyone in this sub reddit that we have a fear that in the future for some unexplained reason there is a possibility of being alone. A truly confident and alpha male would not be afraid of that because he is constantly challenging himself and setting new heights/goals. An alpha male doesn't 'need' a woman to be fulfilled, a woman is convenient and desierable, but should not ultimately ge… | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 07:39 AM |
| 2 | eye contact questionalot of people are intimidated by eye contact (don't know why), non-verbal communication is a powerful thing. Never be the first one to look away first, when the woman breaks eye contact, look back at her moments later to see if she is looking at you, if she is then try your chances are go talk to her. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 07:31 AM |
| 1 | What do I do when I get hit on?if a girl flirts with you, flirt back. If shes attracted to you, she will make it easy for you follow suit. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 07:29 AM |
| 2 | The Only Remaining Difficult Thing For Me: Moving TargetI second this. From my experience, you literally need to stop her dead in her tracks and justify 'why' you are talking to her. e.g girl walks out of the coffee shop - 'hey, this is random, I can only be a minute, but I noticed you walking out of the coffee shop, i thought you were cute, and i had to come and talk to you'. Your non-verbal communication has to come into play here when you make the approach, smile and open in a friendly manner. Cause you have justified why you have stopped her, you… | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 07:26 AM |
| 2 | # close almost a year ago. How to rekindle interest?dude, move on... plenty of other girls out there. | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I need help changing the view I have of myselfsidebar this! | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Can sunglasses hurt Daygame?with my experience, no. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Women on the street, at cafes check me out and stare at me a lot. How can I convert that into #'s and "dates"?when a woman on the street smiles at you, run after her, get her attention and tell her you think shes cute and you had to meet her - BAM! - into a conversation. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:33 AM |
| -1 | What do you do/say to a girl when she essentially says she's lost interest?Move on mate, attraction is in the genetics, its either there or its not. Don't get hung up on or chase her. Find another girl. | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 05:56 AM |
| 6 | Why does rejection hurt so bad? How can you get over it?rejection bruises the ego, especially when you have the feeling that you 'deserve' something. It sucks, but you have to desensitise yourself from it, after that its either funny, or a leaning experience to improve on next round. | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys know any good material I can readYou are your own best teacher. The best way to improve yourself is to attempt - fail - learn from your mistakes - apply it to anything you do in the future. Don't bother with material from PUA'S. If you want to read stuff, i advise reading up on conversation skills. www.yourcharismacoach.com - Markus Oakey has published a free e-book that provides a framework for successful conversations. | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you transition from opening to DHV?*line | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 07:34 AM |
| 0 | How do you transition from opening to DHV?The longer i have been in 'the game', the more I realise that there are these so called 'pick up' Guru's that are out sell bullshit material - dvd's, e-books, bootcamps to scam you out of your money. You can't build attraction, empirical studies have shown that attraction is in the genetics, it is either there or it isn't. DHV - The truth is that everyone has value, you don't need to make up some bullshit story about owning a ferrari or a jelous ex-girlfriend. Your life experience gives you volu… | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 07:33 AM |
| 0 | I keep hearing about "not giving a fuck" - How exactly is this possible for anyone to do? Is it just unrealistic?'not giving a fuck' - translates realistically is not to be affected by what others think or say about you. Once you control feelings of what could potentially happen in the future (fear is always in the future), you can proceed with your actions and disregard the outcome. E.g if I approach a girl in the park it will be either go really good, or really funny. Cancel out the fail box. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 10:16 AM |
| 8 | How do you transition from opening to DHV?don't bother yourself with MM, open a girl 'hi, im (insert name, smile), make statements and talk about both of your interests. No need to make up stories like a circus clown. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time...You are your own best coach. The only way you are going to learn is to fail and learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Would enough people here be interested in a subreddit specifically for daygame?http://www.reddit.com/r/daygame/ | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Would enough people here be interested in a subreddit specifically for daygame?there is already a subreddit for daygame. Considering most of the the posts in the seduction community are about night game and inner game, its a good idea. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 10:24 AM |
| 10 | How can I become socially confident... lesson learnedsidebar this! | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 04:18 AM |
| 3 | [FR] + Club dynamics sticking point! > moving sets!I honestly can say that I didn't have fun. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 06:21 AM |
| 0 | I'm a complete beginner - Which PUA literature should I read first?Don't read into material by pick up artists, most of it is bullshit and a marketing tool to get your mentally masturbating. I advise reading books on social dynamics and body language. The best thing you can do is go out and practice, learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 23/12/11 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls # before she went off to winter break ... keep in touch or wait till shes back?This post really should be r/askseddit. You want to keep connection through the phone limited, so text every 2 or 3 days, when she is back in town, call her, and organise to hang out. If she wasn't interested in you, she wouldn't be messaging you, so it appears that this girl is keen mate. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 21/12/11 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Why is it considered socially unacceptable to talk to another person in public?Do you think it would be different if I made my intentions absolutely clear from the beginning of the conversation. E.g, I see a cute girl on a park bench, open by making a compliment that she's cute and I had to talk to her? | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Why is it considered socially unacceptable to talk to another person in public?What I have also noticed is that in the event where I do talk to a stranger, they give you a very strange look of caution as if I am going to attack someone. Body language instantly changes with someone's torso and feet pointed in a different direction, its almost as if people are not worthy of someone's attention... even though humans by their nature are sociable beings. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn't attracted to me and I'm stuck on this factmove on mate. Attracting is in the genes. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 06:19 AM |
| 2 | So what happened to the "IAMA mPUA" Interview Series?i second duke, Andy and Yad should be interviewed. They are the most legit pua's out there. | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 01:34 PM |
| 1 | If a women suddenly grabs your junk in a social arena, what is your admitted reaction and how would you play it?i tell her she must not touch cause i am a devout catholic. | /r/seduction | 19/11/11 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Very small [FR] but took a lot of balls for me to do thisWell Done! | /r/seduction | 19/11/11 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number at a club, but she almost seemed reluctant to give it to me. Should I proceed and how?call her and organise to hang out. | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Escalation and sexual tension in text?read the link in the sidebar on text game. from my experience, never gain rapport or escalation though text, it should be kept to a minimum. Cut the flowers too man, it makes you look needy. This follows the principle ore reciprocity, if you have given her a gift, it shows that you expect something in return. | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 10:23 AM |
| 0 | Approaching when the parents are presentthis sounds difficult. I have never heard of anyone closing someone with there parents. | /r/seduction | 14/11/11 07:25 AM |
| 10 | I have the least proficient game.that's rubbish mate. You are a unique individual with many gifts and talents. I think your problem is that you don't share those with anyone for whatever reason. Everyone has volumes of things to talk about, its just a matter of you learning to communicate that correctly. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 04:38 AM |
| 7 | [FR] - My first approach... in the sauna...thats awsome. Especially in a situation where she isn't wearing much. There is nothing like an attractive woman in a bikini. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 07:55 AM |
| 2 | What the hell is wrong with me?you are jealous cause you don't have options. If a girl is not interested in you, then move on. It sounds like you have some inner game issues mate. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Can we discuss IOIs? My stumbling block from the get-go...Lol. Typo. 'brush' | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Can we discuss IOIs? My stumbling block from the get-go...indications of attraction include holding eye contact for more than 5 seconds. a smile bush of the hair A woman laughing at everything you say | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Got jumped, face is fucked up, can I still pick up?i would wait until it heals man. | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 11:57 PM |
| 2 | i get mad when others guys succeed and start touching/kissing girls...the only way that you are going to overcome this fear is if you grab your ballz and do it. Prepare for rejection, cause its going to happen mate. That way, you learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 04:30 AM |
| 0 | The Virgin Dilemma...good post man. Im 21 as well, and still a virgin cause i'm a devout catholic, I can sympathise. Why do you feel that you have to have sex? It sounds like you are after a genuine women, not some drunk slapper who will take her clothes off at the sound of a whistle. If you really want a genuine girl, my advice to you is not to pick up bars or clubs. Meet women at art galleries, church or bookstores. Your views are not stupid in the least sense of the word, kudos to you for not buying into the soci… | /r/seduction | 02/11/11 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys transition from the approach to the actual number close attempt?mention an activity that is exiting, talk it up a shitload and then suggest that you hang out. easy mate. | /r/seduction | 30/10/11 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 10+ Approaches, Zero #-closes. Lessons learned, new rules.congrats on continuing to approach after so many blow-outs, that takes effort. I was in a similar situation to you a while back where i would approach, but i could never take the interaction any further, this especially difficult in a club environment. If you use an opener that is relevant to you, her and your surrounding, there is a higher chance that she wont reject you. I overcame this by staying in the set for as long as possible, don't back out when you face opposition or disinterest. Keep … | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 07:35 AM |
| 3 | what do you do when all of your friends are better looking and have more game than you?it sounds like you have to work on inner game mate. for starters, instead of trying to match their game, watch them and listen to what they say and do around women. If your self-conscious about your looks, exercise and join a gym mate. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 05:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Bad night goes ok until I royally fuck it upyou choked hard mate. As you were dancing with her, you should have isolated her, chilled out on a couch or something and established more kino there and made some emotional connection, or you should have just grabbed your ball sack and gone in for the kill. Happens to the best of us. The good thing is that you learnt from your mistake. Keep it up. Peace. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 11:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.when I do daygame, my opener is usually what is on my mind when I see an attractive girl. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 12:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.it was combination of both. Most were hostile, but there were about 2 instances where i ejected due to her body language showing a complete lack of interest. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 12:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.true dat | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 11:06 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.i would recommend reading 'daytime dating' by Jeremy soul. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 06:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.after i make the intial opener, i use the principle of justification. My day game is effective cause i always justify everything I say. e.g opener - 'you walked past me, i thought you were absolutely stunning and i had to have a conversation with you' she will usually reply with something like 'thank you' then i will justfy it - e.g 'no really, there are plenty of beautiful girls in this city, its just that you have such amazing features about you'. 'If id didn't know better you must be a dancer… | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 06:22 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.I find that I get the most success in daygame from going direct. If see a beautiful girl, i will approach and tell her how I feel ' you are absolutely stunning'. I find that it reaffirms their femininity in a context where they are not expected to be approached. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 05:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.where can I watch blueprint decoded? | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 05:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.I didn't give that a thought because it seems like something I would say If I were being introduced to someone. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 04:17 AM |
| -2 | [FR] - First time solo at bar.considering i no longer have interest in her, it was more out of self-amusement. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 03:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - First one! Date with a 24yr old HB9 Swedish girl. Long FR, it went to the pits...Funny you say that, i was intimidated by her. She even asked me if i felt intimidated. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - First one! Date with a 24yr old HB9 Swedish girl. Long FR, it went to the pits...in-deed. Shes only been is Aus for less than a week. This was a new experience cause she was 24, im 21. The hostility was close to unbearable. lol. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 10:25 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with me?start off with asking people for directions. No one is going to reject you for asking for directions, unless her or she is an ass. From there just approach until you feel comfortable going further. Baby steps mate. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Solid Gameit seemed like a load of smack. Very canned, looked like the girl was acting. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 09:53 AM |
| 1 | What do you talk about in the attraction phase?teasing, making statements. You can get away with just about anything with a smile. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 11:16 AM |
| -4 | How do you control lust? How do you stop (or rather deal with) the negative effects it has on you?lust is a terrible thing, it ultimately will make you look at a woman as an object.... this is bad. Lust constantly needs to keep feeding itself, and over time you will get more perverted and you wont be flourishing as a human being. you control lust by cutting out all porn, no sex (until your married). Whenever you have the temptation to look at woman lustfully, distract yourself with something. hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 11:15 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts about seducing girls with boyfriends?it was an honest typo, thanks for pointing it out, but there is no need to be rude basdard. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 11:33 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about seducing girls with boyfriends?show her that your higher value then her bf, women are egotists and are always looking for the best option, qualify her so she will start second guessing herself. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix itgreat stuff. Hollywood has alot to blame here for the 'masculine' crisis in the world. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Learning from naturalsto be honest, your probably going to benefit more in learning from your mistakes, build confidence and approach, and learn from where you go wrong. Imitating others style can only get you so far. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 10:23 AM |
| 0 | How to proceed after you say Hicold reads and assumptions, makes statement rather then asking questions. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the giggling when walking by girls ever focused towards a guy or is it just something all its own?its like the square root of a million... no one will ever know. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Is the giggling when walking by girls ever focused towards a guy or is it just something all its own?something similar happened to me last week. myself and a mate were walking past a cafe with about 4 girls to a table, about 3 of them giggled when we walked past. Based upon that and past experiences..... short answer is yes. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 05:21 AM |
| 0 | An Honest Questionim a devout Catholic and a virgin, so my game is limited when it comes to the point of getting physical. | /r/seduction | 18/07/11 09:19 AM |
| 2 | [First post] Please help Seddit!im detecting a case of 'oneitis'. Bugger off the first girl, its over. As for the new more invigorating, attractive girl. | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 10:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] What is wrong with this daygame routine?thats Alex Coulson's day game..... its a good use of banter/humour, but it doesn't appear that you made any physical connection (rapport). Another problem is that your using rehearsed lines, try adapting teases ect.. to a more natural game. | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 10:19 AM |
| 1 | # Close cute girl, I think something might have gone pear-shaped.... Guys, whats the next plan of attack!?!?!a shame. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 08:26 AM |
| 1 | # close, how to go about organising date??!?! advice?i did, i suggested some chocolate joint. | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 09:58 AM |
| 1 | # Close cute girl, I think something might have gone pear-shaped.... Guys, whats the next plan of attack!?!?!the metaphor implies that i may have screwed it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 10:16 AM |
| 1 | # Close cute girl, I think something might have gone pear-shaped.... Guys, whats the next plan of attack!?!?!what im really after is some analysis of the progress i have made so far. When i called her, she said she would love to get coffee when she comes back. But i feel that due to her time away, this will increase the chance of flake.....? | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 07:02 AM |
| 3 | # Close cute girl, I think something might have gone pear-shaped.... Guys, whats the next plan of attack!?!?!my sincere apologies sir. | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 06:59 AM |
| 0 | # Close cute girl, I think something might have gone pear-shaped.... Guys, whats the next plan of attack!?!?!what? trolls | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 05:48 AM |
| 2 | # Close cute girl, I think something might have gone pear-shaped.... Guys, whats the next plan of attack!?!?!how would i go about being more memorable? | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 05:42 AM |
| 1 | # close, how to go about organising date??!?! advice?this helps heaps. How do i structure the text messages? should they be short and use humour? Peace | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 02:57 AM |
| 0 | how do i turn questions into statements?insted of interviewing her, make statements about her. insted of asking her what she does for a job, make a statement 'you look like a hairdresser'. | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 02:24 AM |
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