Last night I went out to the club with my wing.
We get there about 9pm, i open up a 3 set of English backpackers, then call my wingman in after about 2-3 minutes of the interaction. My wing closes one of the girls, but I only warmed up to get in state.
For the rest of the night, the club gets busier and louder, this made it extremely difficult to 1) - Open sets 2) - Have conversation.
For the rest of the night, i opened stationary sets at the bar, and seated sets. These are not a problem.
->> Realistically: the majority of the attractive women were on the dance floor or moving around the club, this leads me to my discussion about club dynamics. I find that it is so much easier to approach girls at the club in the earlier hours of the evening, there is less noise and i can have a better conversation without having to shout in someone's ear.... Earlier in the night, i was talking to the 3 set of english girls for about 15 minutes. It all fell to pieces after when i didn't know how to approach moving sets.
Secondly, I found that last night, I was operating on low energy, I felt that in a buzzing, loud environment it is important to have high energy. My wingman walked out with 7 numbers!!!! I couldn't believe it, I only walked out with 1 number. I could see that he had alot of energy, and was not outcome dependent on his approaches. This is difficult for someone like me who considers themselves introverted. I like the club scene primarily because I'm a dancer.
Questions>>
1) What is a good strategy to approach moving sets in a bar or a club?
2) What is a good pre-game strategy for getting in state to approach?
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