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| 2 | For the ladies: A few pointers on how to approach and talk to older, career driven men who want more than to get laid. (Inspired by post inquiring into the existence of male seduction techniques for women)As a rocket scientist, I totally resent that :P You'd be surprise how ditsy some girls are though... just makes you wonder... | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 10:18 PM |
| 2 | For the ladies: A few pointers on how to approach and talk to older, career driven men who want more than to get laid. (Inspired by post inquiring into the existence of male seduction techniques for women)As a rocket scientist, I totally resent that :P You'd be surprise how ditsy some girls are though... just makes you wonder... | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Her vs. Your Idea of HerHad the same thing happen to me too. Super awesome girl, everything was cool. Just couldn't kiss her, simply because I couldn't get over the fact how awesomely wicked she was (smart too, fucking engineer). It's fine though, after that date, came to the same conclusion your did. The main issue I think with you is kissing girls (as with me). So I think working on inner game is the way to go; so you don't have the same mindset when you're on another date with a really awesome girl. Instead it shoul… | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 02:40 PM |
| 2 | What was your "Fuck it, I'm changing my life" moment?When I asked a girl for the first-time when I was 22. (Late bloomer, since my family was going through a financial crisis post-recession in which my parents lost their house and were in a ridiculous amount of debt). And was rejected. After a week of depression, I got my act together. Blamed myself for my lack of experience. A year since then, I got a fling; which was brief, about a month. Made out with a girl at a random party in front of my oneitis (yeah I figured I should move on, so kinda use… | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 10:41 PM |
| 4 | What useful, easy-to-learn, skills should a well-rounded gentleman have?Managing your finances. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Well I feel like an asshole now.I honestly don't know... There is no point analyzing it at all. You have an excellent follow up, so you know what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Well I feel like an asshole now.I've seen crazier things that my female entourage does. This isn't that far off though. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Well I feel like an asshole now.This one is tricky at best... You handled it fine with the given information you had. There is no reason you should feel like an asshole. I mean at the time you did not have this information. If you did, I'm sure you would've sent a different message (or no message at all). That said, you mid-week check is fine. That way you don't burn any bridges down. However, if it turns out that all of this was BS, then just next her. There is no sense in being with someone who isn't woman enough to just say… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cottage party, k-closeYou're right, which is why I don't want to do anything yet; not until I get her off that pedestal. And the only way to do that is see more girls. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Canadian Sedditors, I created a guide on where to meet beautiful women in Canada. I hope you find this useful!Nothing about Ottawa... I really hate this dreary town... | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Kino escalation. Sober vs. IntoxicatedDepends! Alcohol does make it speedier yes, but it can work against you! If I have too much, I escalate fast, too fast... Just know your limit. Mines 2 or 3 beers. You will need to break your limit to figure it out. So go crazy and figure it out. You will get blown out, but meh. (That was a fun set, surprised I didn't get slapped) | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What's your game like without alcohol?As someone who drives (because I live in the suburbs, and I refuse to drink and drive!!!), it's not so hard. Yes, in the beginning of the night it's hard, but talk to randoms (bartenders, bouncers, etc). You'll limber up socially and get some proof. As the night progresses, people have had drunk enough anyways, so it's you, sober, talking to a cute HB, drunk/tipsy. So it's easy. Also if you're sober, you'll pick up reading body language fast, as drunk people exaguarate those. A lot of fun can be… | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I'm 27/F and I've been seeing this girl for a month, but we haven't even kissed yet! ~HELP~!No worries, just go for it! Nothing else should matter when you create the mood and atmosphere. I'm sure that she wants you to lead, so lead on! Furthermore men and women are the same. Same needs, wants and desires. All that's different is sexual organs. So if you can bring a man to his knees, I'm sure you can bring a woman to hers ;) No tricks, no routines, just pure confidence in what you do! | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 08:46 PM |
| 4 | I'm 27/F and I've been seeing this girl for a month, but we haven't even kissed yet! ~HELP~!Dicarlo's escalation ladder. Use it! Another thing... Quit calling yourself a noob and inexperienced. I used to do that and use it as an excuse. It was a big reason why I was so unsuccessful with women. The minute I changed my mindset, was the minute I was kissing women. A lot of people do not give themselves credit. Until you "man" up and take the lead, no one is going to kiss you. And believe me, kissing women is the best thing you can do! First kisses are the best! | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 04:09 PM |
| 1 | "Indeed, for a man to walk into a club and have choice of any women he wants, he would have to be the ruler of the free world. But for a female to have the same power over men, all she has to do is her hair."This sounds like Freud... Not everything we do is related to sex. It's foolish to think this way. There are tons of examples in my own life, that I've done things for other reasons and not for sex. Yes, there is a brabch of psych that does say our motivations are sex, but if you look up Maslow's heirarchy or needs, you'll learn that sex isn't the only motivation. Seddit teaches inner game. Only when you do things for yourself, do you get attention. Sex isn't everything. The need for sex varies f… | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Going bald - an insignificant circumstance or a significant handicap??Go bald! Trust me, I started balding at 21. If I can shave my head and still be successful with women, so can you! | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to avoid touching a girl too much?Lol didn't fap for 4 days prior... that may have something to do with it... | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Is there a way to avoid touching a girl too much?Solid advice! I wanted this kind of feedback. Apparently, I didn't entirely screw up. She wants to see me again, so that's gonna happen soon. I'll try to be more outcome independent in the future. | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Is there a way to avoid touching a girl too much?Not kinda, am a virgin. And point taken... Won't make that mistake again (but rather err on the side or unsafe than safe). | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 02:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!To be honest, it was more of a manipulative tactic. I knew she feels inferior to her sister. I used that as a means to sort of bring her down and then say what I said to kiss her. And that's the part that I'm having an issue with right now. It's hard to reconcile this! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!Ah but what about a girl who isn't? There will more girls in the future and I do want to keep my game very sharp! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!Agreed, limiting beliefs! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:17 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!I agree, hence why I asked for feedback on that part. I'll keep my distance from her in the time being. Again, this is the first time I've been in this situation. So I'm not entirely sure what to say or do. Even if I fuck it up, I k-closed and made out in a "creepy" back alley. Those are memories I want to keep. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!Edited main post | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!Well it's the first feelings of intimacy. Not sure if it's intense as I've never had them before. And you have to understand that I'm 23 and have had no experience with women in any capacity. I am a bit bitter because of it... But I do want to change, I do want to learn to love women! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!As am I! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!Thanks, I'm not sure where it will end up. Maybe a fwb, I dunno. I'll look into writing up that FR, but it would be more focused on HB9 within the social circle (trying to get with her). I'll have it up when I have some time! Kinda super busy now. However, I do have the text convo up. So enjoy! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!I'll try to use those in the future. Thanks for the tips! And posted the transcripts | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!He delivers | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!Thanks! And done, see edit. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 01:10 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Ottawa (with sharing!)Wait Ottawa has sedditors? I thought I was alone out here... | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 03:26 AM |
| 1 | [Anti-FR] Blown out by woman I was not even hitting on. The Story of the Meddlesome Ex-gf Playing Wingman: A Cautionary TaleIf you want something done right, do it yourself! I used to rely on wings (guys and girls) and honestly, it never really works unless you both have a common goal with no bias (friends have their own biases so be weary). Bottom line is, don't rely too much on people for your dating life. Do it all by yourself; so that all the victories are yours and more importantly, all the defeats are yours. You don't get to blame anyone but yourself | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Got shit tested good at work - what a failRelax dude, so you failed one, not the end of the world! We all failed a couple. What's important is that you recognized it. That's how it starts! You have to first begin to recognize shit tests, then actually do something about it. So good on you for that. And don't sweat it. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 02:35 PM |
| 0 | A lot can be said about stephano's suave style. What does seddit think?[starcraft x-post]That wasn't an exhaustive list... It can be used anytime in any social situation. Maybe a job interview. You'd hire a confident, laid back person than a nervous train wrech. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 01:07 PM |
| 0 | A lot can be said about stephano's suave style. What does seddit think?[starcraft x-post]Never said that to get girls. Crossing your legs makes you look smaller, and being small shows that you are submissive (look up power poses). This technique is used by presenters and salesman. So it has applications beyond seduction! | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Gray hair at age 22?Could be worse... Could be going bald! So I just shaved my head. And never looked back, women dig it (I am olive skin so it works for me) | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 05:22 PM |
| 1 | A lot can be said about stephano's suave style. What does seddit think?[starcraft x-post]Relaxed, laid back, didn't give a fuck! And that made the women more comfortable (probably mirrored his laid back state). He is also comfortable touching Anna, hell, he's even in her space (and the interviewer's). He played up the foreign aspect well, and got compliance from the interviewer regarding 'softness of hair'. Critique time: Could have sexualized the conversation. Should have touched the interviewer more (could have touched her hair after she touched his). And he crossed his legs (neve… | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Lots of drunk game, not so much soberNot sure... But I do know after exams I'll figure it out! I'll let you know when I know :) | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Lots of drunk game, not so much soberSounds like inner game issues. When you're drunk you really don't care and want to have fun. (Don't worry, I'm at this stage now too). There might be some limiting beliefs still in play. The first step is to admit that you need to work on inner game. Then actually do it! | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 04:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Coffee Date with Murphy's Law's in effect and how I handled it like a bossAt the end of Act 5, I was just glad that the torture was over. Overall, (including the epilogue) though I'm quite happy with my quick thinking and wit! Yes, there are more texts of us flirting. Plus there are previous interactions (push-pull, qualifying) that aren't mentioned here. This FR is simply out of context in the grand scheme of things. So please fill in the missing blanks, or read the prologue. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Nerdy major being a huge cockblock [FR] Advice neededHmmm... when they do ask what I do/study, I ask them to guess. I use it to kino, if it's wildly off, I'll smack her shoulder and say try again. When she says engineering, I'll grab her arm, squeeze a bit and say "close, now guess what type". Eventually, it does come out, (aerospace engineering) but I shrug it off and reply "more commonly known as... rocket science" with a smirk on my face. Every time I used this, I've gotten a number close. Perfect way to demonstrate high value! | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 05:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Just fun - No closeThis is the essence of seddit! In a nutshell this is outcome independence and not giving a fuck, unless you're beating up yourself about closes. Just go out, have fun; and if it feels right get some closes. Lately, it seems that FRs that have closes are getting more upvotes and attention. They shouldn't! FRs like this are what's needed. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Terminology: I want a way to refer to the AFC behavior of fixating on a first or early girlfriend. I think a lot of people here are rebounding from that.The scientific term is limerence. We as a community should replace oneitis with this! | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 01:13 AM |
| 2 | The 3 FearsI'm fearful about physical escalation for sure! But I'm working on improving this. Touching everyone I meet (that sounded bad haha). But as usual, you start small, touch your guy friends more (incidental stuff, like pats on back or tackle/push/pull etc). And this helps, I've been "incidentally" touching women now. As for sexual escalation, I'm not sure how to solve it. But I'll get to that bridge when I get to it. (no point in worrying about something, that isn't an issue yet) | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Social game and AFCsNot looking for "the one", but still trying out different "game". Nevertheless, I've let it go. Everyone here is right, not worth losing a friend over. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Social game and AFCsWell I've tried in the past to introduce him to PUA, but he remains adamant that his AFC ways are right. There is nothing I can do beyond this. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Social game and AFCsYeah, I do need to get over myself! And yes, I once was... but I never planned on making fun on him in the first place. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Good place to start?Good start. But let's now focus on being social. Start by talking to random men and elderly people first. This is to build up to women eventually. When you are ready to talk to women, head over to /r/100sets (writing this on a phone) and do that challenge. Remember, you won't be a PUA over night, it will take time and a lot of rejections. But it can be done! | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Social game and AFCsI suppose I truly don't have "abundance mentality" when it comes to friends. But now I recognize that I don't and will seek out new friends and social circles! | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 11:05 AM |
| 0 | Social game and AFCsWell I won't tool the guy too much. But agreed. In the mean time, I'm going to focus on day game (haven't started that just yet). | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Social game and AFCsAgreed! He seemed very invested in her. That may be why he'll fail come may/june. Right now it feels like the pressure is off. I can take this time to go after randoms find new friends, and flirt shamelessly with her. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 11:03 AM |
| -4 | Social game and AFCsIt's not a crime per se, but I've told him on several occasions that I'm interested in her (even before he confessed). Pretty sure, it's common courtesy not to do this in general... Anyways, I'm not going to help him. He can learn the hard way. After all, knowledge learned is better than knowledge given. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #close and potential coffee date set upThat she should have tried riding the bull, then transitioned into riding me. And we kept going from there, talking about sexual positions. Calling her a naughty girl or saying she's not kinky enough when a specific position came up! | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How many girls do you "blow off"?I've friendzoned two girls; both are very smart (engineers) and have great personalities. But I never felt any attraction to them beyond friendship. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 01:12 PM |
| 1 | So how many of you guys have been approaching for a while and have yet to have ANY results.I'm in the same boat! I've gotten over AA but now have idled. Party due to school, but partly due to inner game. Due to time contraints. I no longer spend enough time on myself, which affects my inner game... There is little I can do about this until graduation/summer. Ultimately, education is IMPORTANT to me. Therefore, I'm comfortable having PUAistry in the back burner. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Forcing Momentum: How to get over approach apathyYup, I pull all-nighters when I can! But you have to do it in moderation, overdoing it can easily leave you susceptible to some flu (yup I was sick for a week or so). If you can't accept invites, make your own events too. That way, you still stay in contact with people who actually invite you out (so no hard feelings), and you get to be social! | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Forcing Momentum: How to get over approach apathyAnd if you're in Engineering or Sciences, then school as well. Having to decline invites isn't the greatest feeling. | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Attraction scale from 0.0 to 1.0The formula simply concludes that sociosexual is the driving factor! Basically confidence, which just translates to inner game. While there isn't much to gain from this article, it allows the mathematically inclined to justify confidence. TL;DR be more confident. Keep approaching, keep failing/winning until you get what you want! | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 10:39 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who are single, what do you have planned for Valentine's Day?Study for an "transatmospheric and spacecraft propulsion" midterm. Maybe go hang with friends and try to pub. But I highly doubt the hanging will happen... | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 02:12 PM |
| 1 | PSA: If she's not into you, just move on... and don't harass peopleShe's a temp, and her contract doesn't really protect her from most grievences, and he's employed by the company. Also we can't afford a lawyer... | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:49 PM |
| 1 | PSA: If she's not into you, just move on... and don't harass peopleNope, never get involved unless it's really horrible. I did tell her to complain... And it turns out he was doing something similar to another temp. And previously did something similar to an intern. Who knew right? Just let the authorities handle everything. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:45 PM |
| 2 | PSA: If she's not into you, just move on... and don't harass peopleYes, sometimes it a shit test. But this guy wouldn't take a hint for a good month. This goes beyond a bitch shield. I'm talking about extremems here. As for converstation bit, this guy just made racist, sexist and homophobic comments. That just turned her off... And this harassment wasn't just her. He apparently was doing this to another temp and had done this to an intern. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:43 PM |
| 9 | PSA: If she's not into you, just move on... and don't harass peopleLol I meant other women... Nice catch bro! Should edit it, but meh :P | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:38 PM |
| 14 | PSA: If she's not into you, just move on... and don't harass peopleWell she's avoiding eye contact...and I assume you've written this off (you should). At this point, don't bring the awkwardness up at all. Just go on like nothing happened. And if you can, have a normal converstation with her (first within a group, and finally one-on-one). This is going to take time to "normalize". For the love of god, don't even bring "I'm not trying to go for anything at this point". You will lose anything/everything. And remember it's college. People here are still High Schoo… | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 04:19 AM |
| 7 | PSA: If she's not into you, just move on... and don't harass peopleWell it's situational really. If I'm in the engineering department, I don't mind running game on the HR girls or during office parties with people that I don't work with closely (or at all). It's just you have to careful with gaming at work. That said, guys should really learn sarging and day game. I no longer rely on meeting girls through social circles or jobs/school anymore. Lol I wish it was at hooters... but it's the Government... at the Federal level ofcourse | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 03:07 AM |
| 3 | [FR] + Club dynamics sticking point! > moving sets!Seems to me your a bit outcome dependent. Not once in your FR did you mention if you had fun or not? It's hard to tell if you honestly did. Remember you're going there to enjoy yourself, that's what's important. 9-10 PM is generally a good idea to arrive. And talk to everyone you see. Open and exit sets (you can close if you want, usually #'s at thins point). You can exit the set by simply saying "see you on the dance floor later". This means you're telling her you will dance with her later (and… | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 03:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Not gaming will put you back to square one. Other tips inside (kinda long).No problem. In seddit terms, it's oneitis. Oh and before I forget, shit tests are known as congruence tests by the academic community. And I'm looking forward to reading w/e you come out with. But field time is more important than the theory. And the eye contact link is perfect. Another aspect of my game that needs improvement, along with AA management. | /r/seduction | 23/12/11 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Not gaming will put you back to square one. Other tips inside (kinda long).Yes, but be careful how you describe what you do (it can get very intellectual VERY fast, so the first time clubbing/barring you will fall into this trap. However, once you master it, you get #-closes instantly.) This FR (it's a bit long and was downvoted to hell, but it was basic proof of concept that aerospace engineering/rocket science as a DHV works). was me testing it out. 2# closes that night by simply stating what I study. You can often sugar coat it and say "it's basically rocket science… | /r/seduction | 23/12/11 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy GameThis goes back to some childhood bullying (immigrated when I was eight, the nerve of kids!). Emotional damage stays with you for a while. It has a SIGNIFICANT effect on inner game and your quality of life in general. After all, you hear about children killing themselves over something a snot-nosed 12 year-old said or did. It's taken a lot time to 'heal' this damage. But being an outcast does have it's advantages, it's made me focus on my personality detracted me from my 'peers' who now do drugs … | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:41 AM |
| 11 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy GameAs an Indian guy myself I've had a bit of that. A white friend of mine says he's not attracted to women of ethnicity. And I suspect it's the same for girls too. (I did ask a French girl what she thought about brown guys, suffice to say alot of stereotypes came out, most of which are just perpetuated by ignorance, in a nutshell she basically said she'd never date brown guys; The way I steered this conversation into that subject really took a lot of social acumen on my part, but I pulled it off). … | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:16 AM |
| 15 | My first full close. Tonnes of advice for new people inside.Nice, I've been reading your FR when you posted them (changed my username for increased anonymity!). But the progress made three months is ASTOUNDING! That said, I'm still at this for 6 months and the furthest I've gotten is a failed k-close (she dodged, I think... don't ask). Besides this, school has kept me really busy. Once the break starts, I'll ramp it up and hope that by the end of next year I can at least get a girl (before I graduate). | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 04:35 AM |
| 12 | [FR] Awesome blown-out witnessed by audience, which included my professor! First ever blown-out!Follow up: So I ran into my group (now with even more people). They immediately began talking about yesterday, and I took ownership of it! Group shit test (apparently it happens when men become women and try to show dominance). The same guys tried once again to humiliate me infront of my more people. I but wasn't going to let that happen... Instead I hijacked their conversation by say "Hahaha yeah I had such an amazing time, I wanna tell the story". Even before I let them say no, I turn around t… | /r/seduction | 03/12/11 02:20 AM |
| 2 | An interesting reply to "So what do you do?" when you can't tell them what job you do due to confidentiality, government...ect"I've got one of those government jobs...", "I'm a rocket scientist". In general don't answer, and change the subject "What's your favourite vegtable?" | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 11:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Awesome blown-out witnessed by audience, which included my professor! First ever blown-out!Can't win them all :) | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 02:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Awesome blown-out witnessed by audience, which included my professor! First ever blown-out!Never used it as an opener... but that's something I'm NEVER saying again. Very beta. | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 02:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Awesome blown-out witnessed by audience, which included my professor! First ever blown-out!I thought nothing of it so I guess so. I did catch the girls who blew me out checking me out for the next 30 mins - 1 hour. But I was particularly disturbed about the comments from the guys. That changed my state... | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 01:41 AM |
| 1 | kissless noob will try to get at least 2 number closes tomorrowSince May. Initially it was hard to get started, but now #closes are easy. I suspect if I keep this progress, then it'll get easier and I'll be where I want to be. The main reason I'm so late is because there was some BS in my life. Long story short, my parents lost their house during the end of my HS (even in HS I was very awkward). And with college, I didn't socialize as my world falling apart. Kept my scholarships, worked pat/full time and bought mortgaged a house. Family life is secure and I… | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 12:34 AM |
| 1 | kissless noob will try to get at least 2 number closes tomorrowAs a fellow kissless virgin noob, it gets easier! #closes mean nothing to me now! It's kissing her... I totally fucked my kclose attempt and kissed/licked her cheek. But a good story that is :) So keep at it!!! Never give up :) | /r/seduction | 01/12/11 03:36 PM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of calling/business cards?Belongs in askseddit... You're thinking about this way too much! Instead focus on the quality of the interaction. Build attraction/comfort (more attraction) then ask for her # (or do w/e to get the #close, I'm currently focusing on having her ask me for my # as a challenge) Personally, I like that she fumbles with my complicated phone, gives me an opportunity to tease her and kino her hands. | /r/seduction | 01/12/11 02:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Don't Spill Coffee on Your HBI love this field report, full of win! Who the fuck cares if you spilled the coffee anyways, not a big deal at all! The big mistake was texting her again and asking about class. Instead, call her up and ask for another date. | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Are you in, or are you out?In it to win it! I no longer have fear of texting like I used to, but I still have a fear of making calls. Let's do this :) P.S. Does anyone find the quality of seddit has decreased? Downvotes of FR and upvotes of keyboard jockey theory. | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Expanded my comfortzone, made a first phone call to a girl!Wow we both started at the same time! I conquered my AA first! Even managed to open two British exchange students on the bus (didn't #close). Managed to get a delicious cupcake from a nutrition masters student (once again on the bus but didn't #close either... and also my favorite story to tell my friends). But now I'm #closing more frequently! | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Expanded my comfortzone, made a first phone call to a girl!I am now stealing this! | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 08:42 PM |
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