I really don't know where to go about this. I figure that this be the best place after recently finding out that this subreddit existed. Ill begin from the start: My name is Mr. Sir. Not giving away my name obviously. But I am a 23 year old, male, now unemployed(soon to be reemployed again). I don't know if this is really that important to add but 6'4 320 pounds. O and a virgin It ant easy getting laid. But while I'm there, how do I go about that. Like where the fuck do I start??? But this isn't all on getting laid. I got into the PA world for some time a little while ago. I believe it was a little after the "The Game" came out. I'm not sure. But when I was studying for that like a college final, it helped. More in a sense I could talk to people and really felt relaxed. Kinda like when your baked on pot, if any one smokes, that feeling of no anxiety, no judgement, or stress above all else. It put me in a position where I felt like I was being listened, it doesn't sound that sad. These methods worked. But I've lost track. I don't know where to start. I haven't just sat around. What I've done so far is started going to the gym, become more aware of my diet. Flossing, quit pot, ciggs, and drinking. I've been free of those 3 for about 3 years. Getting back into boxing, reading more then watching tv. got into rock climbing. I've even signed up for a bar tending class. Doing so for better money and to practice people skills. I used to serve for 3 years, fuck that shit. Things I'm working on: finding a better place to live better job better cloths new phone. I'm so broke now because I finally in full, after carefully saving, paid off a lot of debt in my name to help out my family. It took a long time to pay it off. Peaked at 20 grand at 18 years old. Now its 0. I just wanted it off my back. I now have a LOT of time to concentrate on me. Now I'm here.

I'm not asking anyone to give me the golden answer. Although if you do, please share with me and the reddit community. I've just now really started to take care of my self. Dress better with what I have, shave everyday, run a bit everyday, turn off the xbox more often, make my fucken bed. Not live like a slob. All that but better. Just getting this out of the way, no I am not depressed. I don't feel sad on the regular basis or have any desire to kill myself. Tomorrow can be a better day because people in general have the power to do that. Make tomorrow more or less shitty. I prefer less if I'm able to. I don't want to be another AFC. Fuck that shit, we live once. Live wild.

Someone push me in the right direction and I'll start exploring

Side notes: I rarely go out much have little money to spare All I basically do is Box, rock climb, read (reddit), play video games and work. (still out of shape, Have recently lost 80 pounds though,) only sport I really like is boxing, not much of anything else, not even a big ufc fan. I'm told I'm funny and remind people of Louis C.K. but I really don't think so. 90% of the time I'm just using what I describe as logic. Really I feel as though I give a different point of view.

I also am not going to look over and/or edit this because I am tired. I've been trying to sleep for nearly 4 hours thinking how to solve this situation I'm in.

Thank You for any advice Given.