Looking for advice on this situation and how to proceed. So a girl I hang with from time to time comes over the other night because she is bored. She arrives at my place first and chills with the other roommates first, she is also friends with them. They're guys as well if anyone was wondering. We chat and catch up on life. Shes telling me about school (college), I tell her I'm training for this amateur boxing tournament coming up. Shes impressed and I give her a drop of knowledge on boxing (defense, offense, fighting styles, ect).
Fast forward, I ask: (M-me, K-katie) M"you look stressed, anything you'd like to talk about?" K"Wow, I thought I was hiding it well." M"Am I the first to notice? K"yeah, actually. How could you tell?" M"I was taught the importance of reading body language in the ring. Besides its an interesting subject." I then proceed to tell her how I noticed from her body language. To sum up the talk, bs about her current bf. Not sure if together (at least that was her tone. Never really said it.)
Fast forward and shes leaning up against me and asks for a massage and then turns into a full body lotion massage (except breast, ass, and vagina). Her shirt was practically off (had it just above her breast, bra still attached together, comon! I did try though.)
She leaves and sends me a text praising me how well she feels and how great her skin looks and feels. I say "Great to know. Glad you're not as stressed. Hit me up whenever you want another massage."
Only conversation we've had since is she asking me for adderal for studying all night. I tell her to proceed with a more natural method (chai tea or coffee, and offered to help.) She says "Thank you chris :) I think imma just stay at my spot and get the studying done...i found some addy to!" I say blah and she says blah. The end.
My opinion is that she was looking for attention at the moment. But everyone else is telling me other wise. So I ask you folks. Leave it be or pursue?
A bit about her. I'll admit she is fucken chill as shit! She is the type to come to the bar and will easily make new friends. Shes funny to. Everytime we were one on one, we would discuss future plans and our biggest ambitions and have philosophical coversation's, which I highly enjoy. Out going and fun. But I just think shes playing me or was at the moment.
edit: O and the general IOI's are there. But has been described to "be like that with people." That comment comes from both guys and girls
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