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Hey now... what's wrong with med students?
/r/seduction15/04/12 03:40 PM
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I tried this, the girl laughed (not with me, at me...)..but still held my hand. Date went horrible though.
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:00 PM
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The body language guides are more like fake it till you make it idea. But combining fake it till you make it and working on your inner game (what I'm doing right now) can really help you start changing quickly. But when I observe naturals who are confident (3 of my good friends are like that) they have most of the body language without even thinking about it, and I think you can to if you get a good core confidence. When you're out in the field, it's really hard to be thinking of all the little …
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:50 PM
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Why not spend more than 10 minutes getting to know them, allowing you to build comfort right there and then. Or even go for coffee after 10 minutes? Just throwing ideas out there.
/r/seduction14/04/12 02:26 PM
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Sounds like you had an amazing night, and you seemed to handled everything with a lot of confidence.
/r/seduction14/04/12 01:49 PM
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Nothing impressive ...fuck you.
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:19 PM
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Don't worry about it, the important thing is that you learned from this and you're more prepared (because of what you learned) for the next one.
/r/seduction13/04/12 12:13 PM
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Reads comment (not bad) reads username... now I'm confused.
/r/seduction13/04/12 10:33 AM
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She said yes to a date. SHE LIKES YOU -> internalize that, make it give you confidence (that's what I tell myself every time I get a date).
/r/seduction13/04/12 10:30 AM
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The hardest part is coming back after that 4-steps back. I've felt like giving up a lot, but this is why I come back to Seddit. Every time I feel like "Fuck this shit" I read a FR of people doing well/or much worse and I'm back in the next week.
/r/seduction13/04/12 10:26 AM
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Honestly I wish it was like that, but it isn't (for me anyways) and I'm not ugly so...I dunno.. Probably a confidence issue
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:36 PM
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But what I do is what I am passionate about. The problem is woman will generally put me in bf category when I tell them, so spy seems like a quick fix for me.
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:33 PM
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I'd hate to break it to you, but I don't think you really #-closed her.. It's more like exchanging contact info between co-workers or friends. And your texting..it would have been somewhat acceptable have you actually #-closed her for a date rather than grabbed her # in that awkward way. But I'm a recovering AFC as well so I could be wrong, hopefully someone with more experience can key in.
/r/seduction12/04/12 04:58 PM
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I'm still a first year. I would never go into finance oh god the boredom would destroy me. I have time to sarge/game because im in 5 year program and its my first year, so It's very doable (but still heavy workload..). I've heard 3rd-4th year are killer, whereas 1-2nd are doable. As for hitting on milfs/cougars I'm 24, and when I shave I look early 20s and even 19 (I get IDed a lot) so I don't know if cougars will go for it. But I will try.
/r/seduction12/04/12 04:27 PM
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YES, I'd love to have a sedditor wingman in Dublin/Toronto.
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:44 PM
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I'm a med student, I sometimes want to use the pornstar/spy job description because I think when I say med-student I'm put into a BF-material list a lot of the time and girls will want to go out on a date but wont let me K-close them on the dancefloor. Next time I'm out I'll use that (spy), and see how it goes.
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:43 PM
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Although my sample size last month was small (4 #s), 3 I texted to ask out and they ignored me. The one I called agreed to go out. On first date she said the fact that I called showed that I had balls and she appreciated that.
/r/seduction10/04/12 01:17 PM
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I was laughing my ass off and cringing so hard a vein in my face was going to pop... First time experiencing this type of phenomenon.
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:51 AM
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Yah now that I reflect about it, you're right. I'll try to internalize that. Thanks.
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:50 PM
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Let's just agree to disagree, no point in arguing over the internet (or arguing at all..). I just urge you to consider the possibility, maybe read up on it a bit. But if you're set on staying introverted, then hopefully you find ways you can be alpha without becoming more extroverted. If you do, share it with Seddit!
/r/seduction09/04/12 05:05 PM
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If you become decent friends tell them your asexual? Be their wingwoman when you go out together (if you do) and tell them that you'll do that. Just be honest imo.
/r/seduction09/04/12 04:39 PM
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I disagree. Maybe I wasn't as introverted as you are now (I don't think its a black/white label, some people are more introverted than others) but I don't believe that if you're an introvert now you have to be one for the rest of your life. It's a mindset/personality aspect you can change, its probably going to be very hard and slow, but I truly believe an introvert can become extroverted over time. Not that introversion is necessarily a bad thing, it just limits you when meeting people, especia…
/r/seduction09/04/12 04:26 PM
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I used to be an introvert. Let me tell you something, being extroverted is a lot more fun. You're life will change, for the better. Try to become extroverted slowly, step by step. Go out 1-2 times with friends or even by yourself for a month, then try going out 3-4 times, then 4-8 times. Try talking to strangers (not just HBs). Some of the most interesting conversations you can have are with with random people (older men/woman you aren't trying to seduce).
/r/seduction09/04/12 03:56 PM
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Not really, it's just I was too fucked up to realize what was going on or what was entailed by the invite. Oh well.
/r/seduction09/04/12 03:32 PM
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Don't Hesitate.. I mean what do you want us to tell you? There is no magic bullets/pills, it's balls. You either have them or you don't. Take off your shorts and examine yourself in front of a mirror. If you have two circular objects below your penis then congratulate yourself, you have balls. Now, since you have balls, you should be able to walk up to her, chat her up a bit more, and ask her out for something easy like coffee. If she's attracted to you/you seduced her well enough she will say y…
/r/seduction09/04/12 01:45 PM
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Not really sure, didn't bother to follow up on it after K-close. She actually invited me back to her place that night, but for some reason I chose to go get high at a friends house because I didn't realize what the offer entailed (drunk+high at that point).
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:24 AM
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Met a girl at a club a week ago, grinded and talked for 45 minutes, but would not let me K-close her, even though her body language said that she wanted me to so bad. She told me straight up that she will not kiss a guy she just met (which for some reason turned me on even more and made me want to ask her out). We've been on a first date and now going on a second. First date lasted 4-5 hours of us having deep conversation. I'd say she has morals for not making out with a tipsy guy that came up t…
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:28 PM
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Funny you mentioned that. Me and my friend were at a party a couple days ago (he's a natural) and he comes up to me and goes that girl (his GF friend) has been talking about you for 2 weeks, and totally has the hots for you (we've known each other from before). I walked up to her with 100% confidence, pulled her in towards me and danced with her for like two minutes before I went in for a K-close.
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:21 PM
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Her response to you telling her you were a virgin was cringe worthy... now I don't know if I should tell the girl I'm seeing right now if it comes to it.
/r/seduction08/04/12 12:04 PM
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Do not self loath. Reflect and improve. Self loathing is useless, look at it this way, you went out and danced/grinded with pretty girls, good reference experience.
/r/seduction07/04/12 09:41 PM
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I was a FA last year, you have to hit a certain point where you go: No. I won't take this shit anymore. It's kind of rock bottom when you're a 24 year old virgin who's never kissed a girl (was my case). But I agree with you, if you don't put that horrid negative attitude aside nothing will get better (unless you are insanely lucky).
/r/seduction07/04/12 06:04 PM
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3 weeks? Coffee takes 1-3 hours..a lot can happen in 3 weeks. I would have tried to get a coffee date earlier just to see if you're compatible. Did you also get a look at her? Did you find her attractive?
/r/seduction07/04/12 01:47 PM
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Thanks for the advice. The beach is not something I can do here (weather in my city sucks). I think I'm going to go with gardens, I've heard from several friends that its really amazing. As for the sex, she mentioned it a few times, but she doesn't seem like that type of person, but I could be wrong. We'll see how it goes and I'll update seddit if there's an interest.
/r/seduction06/04/12 07:06 PM
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I've been on Seddit for ~5 months. Before I was a guy who's 24, never been on a real date, never #-closed a girl I didn't know (from school/social circles), never k-closed (at all..), never approached a random girl, was the socially quiet guy in parties (when I talked, I ignored girls cause I feared them). I've improved, I've K-closed several girls (from class, girls I don't know, on dates), been on several dates, gotten numerous #-closes, approached girls on benches, streets, in the gym, in cla…
/r/seduction04/04/12 09:50 PM
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What you're supposed to do now is put up a huge FR describing in detail the process/technique/ideas/inspirations you use to be able to do what you do so that you can help out your fellow sedditor who's not as good as you at online game.
/r/seduction03/04/12 01:30 PM
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Yah dancing can be really fun. Was at a club last night, saw a HB9 dancing by herself and no one was approaching her, I approached her, and continued to dance with her (lots of grinding) for 45 minutes. Pity that every time I went for a kiss (3x) she gave me the cheek. But when I pulled out my phone to get her #, she basically snapped the phone out of my hands to put it in.
/r/seduction03/04/12 01:29 PM
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You are a boss.
/r/seduction02/04/12 04:58 PM
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During day-game, in my (limited) experience, I've noticed that moving targets are hard. Very hard compared to girls at the super-market, in elevators, on the bus, sitting at the bench, or waiting in line. If you see a cute girl sitting by herself, its relatively easy to just go up, say hi, say I thought you were cute and wanted to get to know you. Easy (to think about, but requires massive testicles to do). As for other people, I just say what's going on in my mind (as long as its not offensive)…
/r/seduction01/04/12 01:24 AM
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This becomes easier and easier to do, until its like second nature. When I walk down the street I look at everyone's eyes and see who looks back, to my surprise a lot of people lack basic confidence as they look away quickly. However I sometimes get a smile from a cute girl or two as I do it.
/r/seduction31/03/12 06:25 PM
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Wow man that seems awesome. I tried OKC where I live but didn't get a lot of strong responses/dates out of it and gave up on it. You've inspired me to try it out again.
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:55 PM
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That picture is...scary. It actually looks like a girl with manly hands.
/r/seduction28/03/12 04:55 PM
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Seems a bit misogynistic. This is the kind of stuff Seddit doesn't need.
/r/seduction28/03/12 04:49 PM
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I started reading seddit ~4-5 months ago after finishing off The Game. I read this subreddit every day and you know what the "golden rule" or "magic pill" is? Its Approaching. Approach every chance you get, its the easiest and fastest way to improve. Supplement that with reading Seddit/other material. I started approaching 1 month ago, so I basically read seddit for 4 months THEN approached, and in 1 month of approaches I've learned more than the 4 months of reading. So go out and approach. BTW …
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:36 PM
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I'm 5'4, and I have a classmate that's 5'2 MAYBE 5'3 and I shit you not he has more game than most people I've ever met. He's always with a HB8-9 and probably bangs 2-3 of em a week. His height isn't the issue, hes a natural and can get girls regardless of his height.
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:39 PM
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How many of your friends do cold-approaches during the day? The fact that you're doing them in itself should improve your confidence. Honestly this past week I've done like 7 cold approaches and got nothing out of it. But every time I learn something new, I review what I did wrong and what I did right and I improve. So I'm at 0/7 but I view that as AWESOME because that's 7 more approaches under my belt, 7 more chances to get more experience, and the more experience I get the easier this all is b…
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:36 PM
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The more I approach the more I'm beginning to internalize this concept. I went from never being rejected (because I never approached..) to being rejected 2-3 times a week, and it feels great. I don't end up regretting not talking to that cute girl last night or the one on the sidewalk or whatever.
/r/seduction27/03/12 09:16 AM
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As entertaining as TofuTofu's stories are, I think more seddit posters/lurkers can relate to you than TofuTofu, as he has mastered a lot of seduction, whereas a lot of people here are still noobs. Congratulations on your first #-close man.
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:17 PM
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What's wrong with his strategy? The more he approaches the more his seduction skills will naturally develop. Reading pickup material will only take you so far if you're a nooby, starting somewhere and improving is the way to go as I see it. Maybe you're surprised at this because you're a natural?
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:12 PM
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When I approach I usually do ok (usually get the I have a BF line, but when I don't I can pull a #-close ~50% of the time). The problem wasn't what I did after approaching, it was basically the lack of approaching. Went to 2 clubs, 1 concert, and 2 bars and I ONLY approached 3 girls. My night game is bad (2 girls I approached were outside the bar, and another was on the bus). I just get a lot more AA from club/bar than I do in day-game. I'm working on fixing that, It has to do with my inner game…
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:09 PM
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Look at it this way, not many men have the balls to do cold approaches. The fact that you do them (regardless of whether you succeed or not) shows how much balls you have (that's how I view it anyways).
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:43 PM
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This week has been utter shit for me. Did 3 approaches (2 day game, 1 night game) 2 gave me the BF line and one was not interested. All that is fine, its just I had the opportunity to do over 50 approaches and I only did 3. This has gotten me quite down this week. I feel like I'm regressing from half-AFC -> full AFC. The positive thing about it is that I recognize what I'm doing wrong, now it's time to fix it.
/r/seduction25/03/12 11:02 PM
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You don't sound like you're new to this..
/r/seduction25/03/12 02:34 PM
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Thanks for that amazing response. Got quite a bit from it!
/r/seduction25/03/12 09:46 AM
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Approach Scanning. I do that. The Decaying Orbit. I do that. The Far Talker. Don't do that. Going Interview Mode. 50/50 on that one. Growing Roots. 50/50 on that one Fighting Against the Current. Never really thought about that. Great advice! Spinning the Wheels. Not a problem for me, once I start talking to a girl I escalate the kino, sometimes it plays against me though as I creep her out. Filler Speak. Do that. Anyone give me an alternative to filler speak? I mean what if I'm thinking god her…
/r/seduction25/03/12 02:10 AM
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Thanks, this really had to be said because the amount of questions that are not answered properly/at all is kinda sad...
/r/seduction24/03/12 10:28 AM
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Fuck IOIs. If she hasn't blown you out and walked away she is interested. Always make her say no, never tell yourself not to do something because she hasn’t given an IOI Damn it, I was talking to this HB7.5 Spanish chick today on the bus, she wasn't giving me ANY IOIs, she wouldn't re-initiate conversation, give me short answers, look away after holding eye contact for a second etc. etc. I should have just asked for her number, and if she blows me out she blows me out, I walked away cause I thou…
/r/seduction22/03/12 05:10 PM
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Beautiful post. I'm in the middle of it all right now. Some days I approach, get blown away, and walk away from it smiling, and some days I'm a little bitch with AA that won't approach for some reason.
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:25 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:56 PM
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The problem with me is that I seem to overkino too quickly. I usually start with a hug (if I'm on a first date), then brushing shoulders, then holding hands, then my arm around their shoulder when sitting down. I do slight push when I joke with them or whatnot. But I've blown it twice by creeping the girl out with overkinoing. I'm the opposite of you I guess, I gotta tone down the kino.
/r/seduction21/03/12 12:22 PM
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Mind giving me the names of the ebooks?
/r/seduction20/03/12 10:43 PM
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You... crazy Tofu.
/r/seduction20/03/12 09:38 PM
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I honestly wish I could, and I would if I could, but being in a heavy university program just doesn't give me the opportunity to go out as much as I want, some weekends go by where I don't go out at all.
/r/seduction20/03/12 04:20 PM
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You walk into a club/bar with over 200+ girls and you don't see a single HB8? Your standards might be very very very high. I would say that HB10s are rare in Dublin, but 8s are definitely not, especially not at clubs. In fact, I would show you a pic of the girls from Approach#5 that has at least 2 HB8s and 1 HB9 but I've never put pictures of myself on the internet without massively regretting it.
/r/seduction20/03/12 04:18 PM
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Has anyone ever told you that you are a boss?
/r/seduction19/03/12 11:30 PM
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You're probably right. I'm not Irish, but I am living here.
/r/seduction19/03/12 11:16 PM
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I'm sorry but I just don't get this type of FR. I'm not trying to be an ass or negative but you've told us nothing. You opened people, built state, made out with a girl and had sex. You didn't tell us how you opened, how you escalated, how you took her home, any resistance, any shit tests or basically anything. This is a hamburger without any meat.
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:30 PM
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Is the title Deep Inner Game?
/r/seduction19/03/12 01:52 PM
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My god man, edit the text. It looks like one long essay. Gj though.
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:16 PM
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I agree. I did what every other guy would have done. But she was not very responsive initially, so i thought it was going to be harder than its worth. Especially since they were so many other girls around.
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:08 PM
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This response is phenomenal, it saddens me that its not the top one.
/r/seduction18/03/12 03:06 PM
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Yah I realized after I posted it, can't really edit title = either delete + re-post or just leave it. So I left it. But thanks for the heads up.
/r/seduction18/03/12 01:02 PM
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I've actually gotten 2 #s and 2 dates from gym approach. It feels wrong every time (talking to a girl while she's on a bike/elliptical) but I've gotten some random success with it.
/r/seduction16/03/12 04:42 PM
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I've tried rejection therapy, i got 3 numbers and 2 dates out of 4 approaches.. I'm doing it wrong.
/r/seduction16/03/12 04:39 PM
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Its always kino isn't it blahm.
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:40 PM
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Awesome summary! Now I will copy paste that into my sticky notes so I can use it later. Thanks!
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:40 PM
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Well the opener works for you so I don't know if that's it. You just have to have the balls to ask her out, I think you could have gotten a date from that 2nd interaction if you just went for it.
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:35 PM
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I'm a fan of being direct, I'd ask her what she's doing _____ and then ask her to grab a coffee/drink or w/e you want. Don't make her think your looking for friends, make sure she understands that its a date.
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:09 PM
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Summarize for me what you got from the sidebar (it'll help me out and help you solidify it better in your mind).
/r/seduction15/03/12 06:29 PM
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Those are humongous first steps, much much better than most noobs. Congratulations. But you should have definitely tried to get the 2nd girls number and asked her out.
/r/seduction15/03/12 06:26 PM
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That was so annoying to read, why would someone set up the text like that. At first I thought they were poems..
/r/seduction15/03/12 01:12 PM
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I'm suffering the same problem as you right now. I can open girls, talk to them, get them to talk to me, and I even kino, but for some reason I can't get the K-close let alone the F-close. My kino gauge is off thought as I'm comfortable touching people. I might be too touchy-feely and that turns the girl off. I don't know, but all I know is that I'm going to keep trying.
/r/seduction15/03/12 12:57 PM
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"Thought about opening for a second, but the only thing on my mind at the time was what was I going to eat." Why not go up to her and ask her what she recommends? Chat a bit then ask her to join you. The more I do this, the more I realize that what works best for me is just going up to a girl and saying exactly what I was thinking about (as long as its not offensive).
/r/seduction15/03/12 12:51 PM
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Fuck, I get numbers and send stupid texts that 3/4 of the time girls don't respond to. I get a quite a few flakes, but you know what, if you don't try, how are you going to learn? Reading Seddit only helped me with getting the balls to approach, everything else I plan to learn in field (ok maybe review a bit after with Seddit to see what more I can learn from the experience). You can't offer a girl anything? Who says so? YOU. Let her fucking decide if you got anything to offer. You can't offer h…
/r/seduction15/03/12 12:46 PM
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I say, so who is blah or if she doesnt respond well to that I ask her what she does (I then try to thread as hard as I can, without continuously asking interview questions). A few times I've also said You look like someone who ______ (what I actually think..authentic) and go from there. But then again, I'm a noob at all of this so I might not be the one you should be asking, I've only been doing this for 2-3 weeks, and only into hypermode 4 days ago (5 approaches in less than 2-3 hours kinda thi…
/r/seduction12/03/12 08:30 PM
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I'm actually a lot more direct than that. I just go up to them, tell them they are cute and wanted to meet them OR (and I've only tried this twice) I say: Can I ask you something? They say yah sure, and then I say I lied, I just thought you were cute and wanted to meet you (both times I got smiles/giggles, by no means is this field tested), we talk for 5-10 minutes, then I tell her let's grab coffee/drink at this time at this place, she says sure, and I get her number and leave.
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:59 PM
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I had met the girl before on campus, had a chat with her. Then a week later I saw her at the gym. I approached her and talked with her for ~4-5 minutes. Then I asked her what she was doing the next day, she quickly said "nothing" and then I told her that she's having coffee with me at 2. She giggled and said sure. As for showing her someplace new, I did. We met at the place she wanted to meet at, but then I told her we're not staying there and took her to a nearby cafe that I like. She loved it …
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:42 PM
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I did a long post on this yesterday -> this is what I was referring to. I called her out on bad body language, her use of a cellphone etc.
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:17 PM
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That's an awesome way of putting it, Thanks.
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:15 PM
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Thanks for this phenomenal response! My last date I called the girl out several times, and I was thinking it led her to dislike me / lose interest. I guess I just have to do it in a not-needy way or a fun/joking way.
/r/seduction12/03/12 05:46 PM
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I'd like to know more about asking and clarifying. If a girl on a date is giving you horrible body language, or says she wants to go out only as friends, or if she starts taking out her cell phone and using it, would you use "Ask them and clarify"?
/r/seduction12/03/12 05:12 PM
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Yes, but if it's out of my control, then I cannot fix it. Thus I have to look at stuff under my control and try to fix those.
/r/seduction12/03/12 04:19 PM
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Yah that blasted bench. Everything went to shit there. Going for the kiss pretty much sealed that coffin though.
/r/seduction12/03/12 04:18 PM
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The thing is, it wasn't going stale at all, we both barely noticed the two hours. In fact, I'd say at the 2 hour mark she was even more happy/giggly than 1-1.5 hour marks. The park was just a bad idea. Yah I beat my self up for couple hours but I'm over it now. Chalk it down as a lesson and learn from my mistakes.
/r/seduction11/03/12 10:41 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/texttranscripts http://redd.it/ecmm8 This is from the sidebar, hopefully it helps.
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:57 PM
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The more I contemplate it, the more I agree with you. She was into me while being myself and then I turned into an idiot and she lost interest. Oh well, we live and learn.
/r/seduction11/03/12 08:05 PM
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I completely agree, should have ended it after the coffee and went for a 2nd.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:46 PM
2

Always appreciate a little comedy. Made me chuckle.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:22 PM
3

Thanks for the quality advice, what you said makes a lot of sense. The thing that irritates me was that I'm pretty sure she was into me at the cafe, she was giving me so many IOIs (Giggles, looking at me eyes and smiling slightly, always wanted to continue talking, good chemistry overall) and it all went to shit afterwards. The kiss was yah.. I will never do that again, it was just sad.. I like the bringing the face close idea, to see if she's responsive before I even attempt it. As for the last…
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:00 PM
1

Thanks for the boost, I'm kinda slightly down after the date, and the the fact that I know I'm down and that I shouldn't be is irritating me more than the actual fact that I'm down if you get what I'm saying.
/r/seduction11/03/12 06:56 PM
2

I asked her, her name, and then I asked her what she was doing/where she was going, she explained and I conversation threaded.
/r/seduction11/03/12 06:37 PM
2

How do you regularly make the conversations more exciting? Any tips (I know conversation threading)?
/r/seduction11/03/12 12:23 PM
1

I personally prefer daygame, so so much easier, you tend to get better quality girls, and its quick and efficient. I haven't completely given up on nightgame but i have a much higher success rate in daygame where I can actually hold a conversation and we can hear each other.
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:28 AM
1

Oh yah definitely, situational openers are the easiest by far! I think if you kino enough its hard for her to just think of you as "too kind" because your physically showing that you want her.
/r/seduction10/03/12 04:45 PM
2

I am completely oblivious to IOIs anyways, my friends constantly tell me that girl is giving you good body language, so I'm not really lost without it. But I guess learning IOIs could make my life a lot easier.
/r/seduction10/03/12 04:37 PM
5

In the park or in an alleyway?
/r/seduction10/03/12 04:12 PM
1

Watch http://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup/videos. These guys do it by acting foolish and dressing up and such, me and you should be able to do it as normal guys.
/r/seduction10/03/12 09:50 AM
3

I said that's awesome, and continued on the thread I was speaking with her before.
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:24 AM
3

Fuck the hivemind.
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:27 PM
4

What's the worst that can happen? If you're polite and not too pushy, all she can really say is I'm not interested or even Fuck off. Either way, you come out alive and ok. Rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:20 PM
27

There's more? Do you have it?
/r/seduction08/03/12 05:03 PM
4

That's an extreme, he just means don't bob your head around like a released jack in the box. If you're confident you don't quickly move your head or twitch, you move it slowly.
/r/seduction08/03/12 05:02 PM
1

Yah, I've been looking for a sarging wingman in Dublin, regular friends don't really get it (since most of them are naturals). If you're ever in Dublin, send me a message.
/r/seduction08/03/12 01:09 PM
1

Another dublin sedditor, didn't know anyone other than me existed
/r/seduction08/03/12 12:34 PM
1

Nice FR. Good details and tips. Thanks!
/r/seduction23/02/12 11:44 AM
2

Any advice on okcupid? What's unique about your profile, what did you say/she say etc. etc.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:48 PM
2

That's what I did. I ignored all her advances, and IOIs, guilt held me back from isolating (that and the other girls), overall I don't regret it, would have sucked if my GF did that to me.
/r/seduction20/02/12 09:35 PM
0

Easier said than done, house party, 13 people, friends, sitting in 1 room of the house..If i isolated by going out of room, her GFs would quickly catch on and stop it..
/r/seduction19/02/12 08:46 PM
2

What videos if you dont mind me asking?
/r/seduction16/02/12 03:35 PM
3

The med schoolers I'm with I'm going to be with for many years, I'd rather not shit where I eat. I have several goals, simply, to get laid (if I can get ONS sure, if I need to go on dates that's fine as well), not really looking for a relationship unless the girl makes me think otherwise. However, my overall goal in PU is to be able to approach that one girl I'm really attracted to when I see her, and succeed in gaining her attention and attraction.
/r/seduction14/02/12 10:29 PM
2

Yah, the first time I watched the movie, the only thing I could think of was how smooth he was at her house, be barely said anything, yet you could see how attracted she was getting (yes this is a movie and its plotted, but his eyes say so much).
/r/seduction14/02/12 09:57 PM
1

Would you say nice meeting you and walk away? Or just walk away? Last Friday I walked away without saying anything after being rejected and then as I was analyzing the night I thought I was being very rude. What do you think?
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:08 PM
1

And here I thought you were going to give us a link in the comments.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:06 PM
5

I'd head over to MFA (male fashion advice) and post a pic of your outfit and ask them to critic it. You'd get a lot more responses than you would here. Good Luck.
/r/seduction10/02/12 10:32 AM
1

I'm 5'4 and constantly complain/worry about my height (I also hate the fact that I worry about it, and know that it's a problem). You're an inspiration.
/r/seduction10/02/12 12:14 AM
2

I've been reading Seddit for ~4 months now, and I want you to personally find me and punch me in the face if I'm still the same as I currently am 6 months from now. What drove me to seddit in the first place was my thirst for self-improvement (in everything in my life, not my lack of relationships with the girls), and I think if that thirst is quenched with a few make outs and better social life, then I'll end up like you. I'm not judging you, I'm just giving you some tough love, because you don…
/r/seduction09/02/12 12:45 AM
3

This seems to be true, I moved cities and made friends with 2 guys who are both naturals, and with 2 other guys that have ridiculously high confidence, and it seems to be rubbing off on me. I wouldn't usually approach girls in the past, whereas when I see the naturals do it, I have the mentality that if they can do it I can do it too, and I'm approaching more than I ever did before (although its still pretty low ~1-2 a week kinda thing).
/r/seduction09/02/12 12:21 AM
3

Yah, that was a pretty bad one :|.. gym+5 hours of anatomy does that to you..thanks for the heads up will ninja edit it now.
/r/seduction08/02/12 08:37 PM
1

Then you have 7-10/11 ? The problem with me is that I go to class 9-4 or 9-5 then I have to go home and study for 3-7 hours a day.
/r/seduction08/02/12 04:53 PM
3

I do, I just don't have the balls to pick up women from the street yet, and I'd rather not shit where I eat (pick up girls from class, especially since I'm going to be with the same group of people for 5 years).
/r/seduction08/02/12 04:52 PM
1

I'd love to do this with you but I simply don't have the time to attempt it every day of the week, I only go out Fri-Sat.
/r/seduction08/02/12 03:39 PM
24

Lots of people are like you, I'm a 24 year old virgin and I have 7 friends who are in the same boat, but sitting at home and crying about it, or reading Seddit and pickup 24/7 will not fix the problem. It'll take effort, and you will feel uncomfortable, A LOT, but it can be fixed if you really want it to be.
/r/seduction08/02/12 03:38 PM
2

I'm a newbie as well, trying to improve. Let me give you a hint, reading all this stuff, and watching all these videos means shit if you're not gonna try it out. If night game isn't your thing (I'm not successful with it) try day game. I go to a coffee joint that many woman go to in my area, and I study for a while and if I see a girl I'm attracted to, I try to chat them up. So far, its worked and is helping me get over AA and practicing the basics. Be warned though, some girls will just ignore …
/r/seduction08/02/12 02:44 PM
1

Honestly, if that was one of my nights, I'd be very happy. A very very nice first step. I'm currently still suffering from approach anxiety and acting like a AFC when I talk to women, but I at least open 1-3 girls a week, which is better than my previous records last year (0 girls all year..).
/r/seduction07/02/12 05:56 PM
7

I didn't read a crash and burn FR, I read a successful one.
/r/seduction06/02/12 09:15 PM
4

I moved to a new city 2 months ago, and at first I was in the same situation as you were. The thing is, I made new friends at school and immediately formed a small group (~11) of friends. I wish I had the balls to do what you did, I'm trying to find a night (friday/saturday) and force my self to go alone, because every time I go with friends, I end up only hanging out with them, and a lot of them have already started hooking up, making me feel like the 3rd or 5th wheel when we go out. Anyways, m…
/r/seduction06/02/12 02:26 AM
6

I wasn't judging you, and I'm glad to help. Read on friend.
/r/seduction05/02/12 02:37 PM
5

I don't know if you're trolling or not, I hope you are, but regardless, it means Pick Up Artist.
/r/seduction05/02/12 12:16 PM
3

Meet the guy, get him to be your friend too, let him see why she feels good after meeting with you by making him feel good (being a good new acquaintance). You might even make a friend.
/r/seduction04/02/12 02:49 AM
38

Please hit the gym, not for your confidence or any of that stuff, but simply so that you can live and sarge longer, and continue to give us more good FRs.
/r/seduction04/02/12 02:27 AM
1

Thank You, you're awesome!
/r/seduction03/02/12 07:02 PM
1

One thing I learned here and worked was the silence. There was a silent moment, I didn't re-initiate, I just looked at her eyes and smiled a bit, and she giggled and re-initiated. It works, use it!
/r/seduction03/02/12 12:20 PM
6

You're an opening machine.
/r/seduction31/01/12 11:25 PM
1

If its any consolation, I have no idea what he's talking about either..
/r/seduction31/01/12 06:33 PM
1

If I ever get to NYC I'll make sure to send you a message! Hopefully by then I would have mastered my social capabilities.
/r/seduction30/01/12 01:10 PM
1

No need for hostility/sarcasm friend, I wasn't being negative, I was just stating that based on the articles outdated views, the author seemed to be suggesting dinner as he didn't really point out that you can take her on a more non-conventional date.
/r/seduction30/01/12 12:25 AM
1

I'm currently in med school so my only time off is Friday/Saturday and some weekends I don't do those either because of the workload. But, sometimes I think I use that as an excuse to not go out. I'm trying to acquire a don't give a fuck attitude and get out of my comfort zone as much as possible, but its been a slow process.
/r/seduction30/01/12 12:23 AM
1

Don't suggest coffee, it makes you seem cheap, don't suggest a bar it makes you seem uncommitted. So he's implying you take her out for dinner, and I've read oh so many times on seddit that dinner isn't the wisest choice.
/r/seduction29/01/12 11:51 PM
2

Great! I finished reading HTWFAIP a while back, but I plan to read it again (as the author recommends) and I'm currently watching the RSD Blueprint videos and will probably read the book as well. I think my main problem (and probably many other nooby sedditors) is that I don't put all this knowledge into action, I need to go out more and actually try to evolve/adapt on the spot and not in my bedroom while reading this text. Anyways, thanks for the reply and keep the FRs coming, they are very ent…
/r/seduction29/01/12 11:31 PM
1

I read your last FR and your most recent one and I've gotta say I'm impressed. It seems that you have leveled up your social skills to a level I'm currently trying to achieve. I'd like some advice, how do you open random groups? I really like the one you used in your current FR and was wondering if you had a go-to group opener. I'm currently stuck at my level where I can't really open big groups or go solo (I go with friends mostly) into a bar/club, however I am a lot more social than I used to …
/r/seduction29/01/12 10:38 PM
2

What does that mean? Can you give me it source?
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:54 PM
1

Has anyone been able to do this, she says no, and you continue to have a convo with her? Is it a Yes/No next kind of thing, or does it work as an actual opener to a conversation?
/r/seduction28/01/12 10:21 AM
1

Although I agree with you that gym shit isn't a huge factor in picking up woman, I think being overweight has a negative effect on your ability, regardless of where your ability is at. As for the shotgun approach, I did utilize it when dancing, I pretty much danced with everyone around me (which I've always read as a good thing), but I didn't shotgun approach the kissing. I'd understand why you got that impression though. Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction28/01/12 08:24 AM
3

In my opinion, it really doesn't matter whether they live adventurous lives or boring ones, its the personality, and the person in general. I have friends that are 9-5 average working guys that are very interesting to talk to, and turn everyday ordinary events into hilarious talking points. Having said that though, it doesn't hurt to explore more (I'm not necessarily talking about travelling across oceans, your hometown might have very interesting events/bars/areas that you never realized they d…
/r/seduction26/01/12 12:21 PM
11

Your problem is you think you have a very boring life. You think of yourself negatively. You're already screwing yourself over by thinking what you're going to say is boring. Honestly, the fact that you can't relate to them at any level could be a strong advantage. If you truly cannot relate to them, then what they are saying should be really interesting, and thus you should not have a problem showing that you genuinely are interested in what they are saying, and you should be eager to know more…
/r/seduction25/01/12 11:12 PM
2

I'm a noob too, but one thing I've noticed about this FR its how you keep describing yourself. If you think you're a chump then you're a chump. Work on your inner game, she didn't come to.your table, her loss. Review your night, see where you went wrong, but dont beat yourself up about it.
/r/seduction13/01/12 10:40 PM
9

Nice FR, a little more about the techniques or things you did would be helpful though, this seems like a cut down summary of the night.
/r/seduction10/01/12 05:47 PM
1

Thanks for the feedback. I agree, I've been reviewing my performance that evening and all I can say was that it was poor (at least with the Russian) as the Russian chick was basically alone for the whole night, as no guys were approaching her because almost everyone knew each other and a lot of the guys are younger (18-19) and knew other girls. Oh well, at least it was a learning experience.
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:43 AM
13

Sure, but how? Advice?
/r/seduction18/12/11 02:49 AM
1

What's your opinion on coffee? There's this little coffee place near our school that has a real comfy easy-going basement with relaxing couches, I was thinking maybe walk over there with her (would take around 15 mins) and then sit at a couch and talk. Opinions? Thanks for the help btw.
/r/seduction04/12/11 07:01 PM
1

At least you got her number, that's a start, all I got is facebook and I don't want to do that creepy facebook shit.
/r/seduction03/12/11 10:32 AM
0

What if you know the.girl and is interested in her? Where I wouldn't mind putting a time commitment and I know she isn't just looking fire a free meal.
/r/seduction03/12/11 10:30 AM
2

I know her, she knows me. We've already talked and even hung out in a group.setting. I'm just not great at picking up signals. For example, this one time me and a friend were arguing about how crappy my handwriting is and she comes over smiling, grand the own and paper and writes my email down for my friend. I'd like to.get her # and ask her out but a couple if my friends say its too early. Btw were in a class of 200 and were going to be in the same classes for the next 3 years.
/r/seduction03/12/11 01:45 AM
2

What would you say is a better first date?
/r/seduction03/12/11 01:27 AM
3

Girl I'm interested in is in my class. I've talked to her several times, mostly when our classmates are around but 3 to 4 times alone. I sometimes, catch her starting at me in class our during our group meetings, and I'm not sure if I would take that as interest. What do you think? Also I've never gotten a chance to get her number so how would you recommend I go about that?
/r/seduction03/12/11 01:11 AM
1

Then do it tomorrow.
/r/seduction17/11/11 10:21 AM
3

So did you end up talking to that random girl?
/r/seduction16/11/11 11:48 PM
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