Fucking night/club game..how do I improve?

sukka113 · 2012-03-28T02:17:53+00:00

I have a similar issue, I feel less comfortable approaching in bars/clubs, that's why I stick to daygame. If your good at it, why re-invent the wheel? Best to play to your strengths.

2012-03-28T03:40:25+00:00

"hey nice shirt"

It sounds corny but it can definitely work, I've used it successfully. Drunk girls aren't usually expecting a knight in shining armor.

thendrill · 2012-03-28T14:25:51+00:00

I feel exactly the same way

I couldn't do a move, I was paralyzed, I don't know how to approach/attract/seduce

During daygame !

I guess it comes to mindset and practice !

thendrill · 2012-03-28T14:38:41+00:00

Ok.... I will try to help....

As I mentioned it comes down to mindset...

What you should keep in mind is that girls in clubs are there to have fun and find a guy.

What does that mean for your night game?

That allows you to be more physical and more play full right off the bat. Especially in a club u have so many excuses to be more physical.

Lets start with the opener:

I personally usually go direct (if there is no other way). Just stand straight and put ur hand and go like "Hi. I am" .... Now if its loud a loud place.. Voice project.... She will say her name while ur shaking hands. Even if u hear her name, tug her hand and pull her in and go like "What was ur name".

Dancing:
I like dancing. Dancing is not hard. You don't have to do much. Just learn how to spin a girl and how to hold them when ur dancing. And a couple of simple moves. They will do most of the work. When you dancing with a girl have the mindset that "I showed up, the rest is up to you"...

Extra tip: "If it is really a crowded place, if find it helpfull if you stretch you arms around the girl, forming a perimeter so that people don't bump into her, the problem is that its rather physical on you coz u have to take all the bumps :P, But on the other side you take so much space that shows great alpha traits. And in the same way you show that you are better than everyone meanwhile you show that you care for her "safety".

Attract/Seduce:

I do that during the dance part. Just move her around isolate. And go for K-close....

I hope this helps

Marsupian · 2012-03-28T15:09:35+00:00

If you know she is interested you can just introduce yourself and ask her to dance or guide her to the dancefloor. Start with the kino straight away and if the music is low enough to have a chat you can talk a little before dancing (remember to keep up the kino).

Remember it's fun to interact with girls so enjoy yourself.

rmbarnes · 2012-03-28T15:47:15+00:00

You've just convinced yourself that day game is so very different from night game and that you need to learn a load of stuff. You don't.

Title	Fucking night/club game..how do I improve?
Author	callmedood
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	March 28, 2012 1:52 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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