I was out in a club on Sunday, and met a HB8. I basically just walked up to her, looked her in the eyes, then bobbed my head to the dance floor. We danced/grinded for ~15 minutes, and I went in for a K-close. At this point she says No, I don't kiss guys I don't know (I was tipsy, she was sober). Danced for another 10 minutes, and I went in again, she tells me again that she doesn't kiss guys she doesn't know, and that she wasn't raised like that. We dance for another 5-10 minutes, and I tell her a little about my self as her face is close to mine, and tell her: there now you know me, and I went for a K-close again and she was like No. At this point I told her ok then, you have to give me your number so I can get to know you, and pulled out my phone. She very happily told me her number. At this point I pulled her in and whispered to her: "You know I'm gonna ask you out right?" She gives me a huge smile and says Yah!. I leave.
A couple days later I call her and set up a date for the next day. A Coffee date to get to know each other. We meet, talk, connect for 3 hours before I left because I had to go to class. During the meet, I told her I was interested in going to the zoo next week, and that she should come with me. She said the zoo is shit in this city, but she'll come with me anyways.
What I did right during the date, greeted with hug, ended with hug (k-close in middle of a street at like 3:00 in afternoon just didn't feel right). During date, I held her hand while we walked to the coffee place, I kinoed her slightly by putting my arm on her shoulder when expressing a point, or poking her when making fun. I also had our legs touching for several minutes, before I broke it off and she re-initiated it (several times).
During the conversation, she brought up sex several times, she brought up dating in general, told me she found me attractive, and a great listener, good dancer, basically constantly complimenting me between topics of conversation while I just said thank you. We had a great and very deep conversation as well (I don't know if this is a good/bad thing for a first date).
Now I have several questions, does a zoo date / botanical garden date (friend said that is amazing and I 100% should switch it to that) boring for a second date? Should I try to K-close at zoo/botanical garden? Should I try to get her back to my place by telling her to come back and watch a movie? Should I try to get her to meet at my place before we head out so that she can see apartment for a few minutes? Also, what did I do wrong?
TL;DR: Good date, good signals, good connection, set up a second date at zoo, have a few questions (last paragraph).
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