Tonight was the first time I have ever approached a random girl when I was not drunk. I went into the club/bar with my friends. I eventually open a HB6, talked to her for 3 minutes then got bored (simply wasn't interested and did not want to waste each others time) so I said nice meeting you and moved on. Then we went to another part of the bar and stood around for a second, and at this point I'm like FUCK IT, what the fuck is the worse that can happen? I find the hottest girl in that area (HB8) sitting by herself, I go sit right next to her, put my arm around her and say "I thought you were cute, and wanted to meet you"... I got pretty AFC after that, I didn't know what to say, so started talking about work/where she was from, where I was from etc. Then she asked me what I do, and I remembered a FR I read on seddit where the guy basically tells her to guess and makes fun of her for not guessing right. I did that, got her friends nearby involved, teased her, then eventually told her after 3 incorrect guesses. All this time I was always looking her in the eyes (she looked away a few times, don't really know what that means). After about 10-15 minutes, my friend was being an asshole and started taking pictures/videos of me while chatting her up, she saw him and was like WTF is he doing? I told her that he's an ass and to ignore him, we kept talking for 5 more minutes. THIS IS WHEN I CHODED OUT completely. I, for w/e fucked up reason, decided to end it there, I said I had to get back to my friends and that it was nice meeting her. WHAT I DIDN'T DO was ask her for her #. I then went away for 15 minutes, found her again at the bar, I walked up to her and told her: "Hey Herpina, I thought you were really cute and I enjoyed our convo, would you want to hang out sometime?" And she says "No, thank you." I'm like Ok and walked away.

What did I realize? I did not give a single shit, It was the first time I was rejected while sober and I felt absolutely nothing, which made me feel great!