sunflowerr23xx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
299	No wife experience for girlfriend prices I like her but she tells girls to date older guys and that doesn’t sit right with me as I’m sure some of her followers are teenagers.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 12:11 PM
107	Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get married This reminds me of my roommate.. she’s super attractive but literally is such a pick me girl and gets walked all over by the guys she sees.. and thinks I’m the one with the problem for having standards.. we actually got into a big argument about it yesterday. 10/10 times the girl is way more attractive than these gross men saying the girl “isn’t all that in the looks department” it’s seriously sick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 09:42 PM
3	Ladies, don't be a FWB Oh damn I actually felt her pain reading this... this is why I literally don’t bother with men anymore.. they treat women like disposable garbage. 6 months? And you’re wondering why she has feelings? Is he a sociopath? Like the audacity! Not attractive? Then why you having sex with her? Honestly this hurt to read as this was my past 6 month experience.. the guy wasn’t attractive whatsoever and he thought he was way out of my league when In reality it was the opposite according to the people I as…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 09:40 PM
29	Held off on sex, it was horrible Just saw this and he didn’t even cum? Nah sis that ain’t it move on. He sounds terrible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 08:37 PM
6	Held off on sex, it was horrible As someone that loves bomb sex you just aren’t compatible in the bedroom/he sounds terrible in bed but you could try once more? But idk if I’d do that if I were you. Count your losses and move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 08:36 PM
46	I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross. “Damn James finally helped look after the kids!!” Ok so the bare minimum? The absolute bare minimum? Gone are the days I praise men for breathing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/21 04:43 AM
66	You’re Top Shelf, Queen, and well-worth the effort. Wish I knew this 3 years ago! Do I like HIM or do I like the attention HE is giving me? This saved me recently with a guy because I got infatuated with him really fast but I had to tell myself do I even LIKE him? like what’s so amazing and special about this guy that I don’t have? And the answer was nothing. Don’t even worry about if he likes you worry about if you like HIM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 03:51 PM
374	Yup 😂 They’re either 1: live in their parents house and never shower or 2: got serious emotional issues. This is why I never tell guys I watch anime and game! These guys are definitely guys you do NOT want in your life.. obsessed with the fantasy gamer/anime aesthetic in women.. it’s gross. Women who are into anime/gaming can relate! They’re terrible and ruin it for women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 03:02 PM
43	Females After A Breakup While men only focus on their psychical glow up instead of their mental glow up! Even though seeing a therapist is more important than the gym!!! They then can push all their backed up issues onto the next unsuspecting girl.. and the cycle continues.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 12:04 PM
14	He better swallow my vaginal discharge then. Men complain about women not swallowing but won't eat a spoonful of my vaginal discharge Gross.. men have all the audacity like how is it possible that society has made men who literally look like rotten salami, last 5 minutes in bed, broke, no job and judge women’s appearance to even have the audacity to request such things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 11:58 AM
56	To all the LVMs who “don’t believe in Valentine’s Day” 🤡🤡🤡 Yes same! I’m asking for a damn thoughtful card not a rolls Royce 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 11:57 AM
54	To all the LVMs who “don’t believe in Valentine’s Day” 🤡🤡🤡 Yeah and men act like women are asking them for a Birkin bag!!! Like it’s not that difficult! Shouldn’t they want to make the person they “love” feel validated and happy for one day of the YEAR!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 11:55 AM
425	To all the LVMs who “don’t believe in Valentine’s Day” 🤡🤡🤡 They like the idea of having a girlfriend but when it comes to the most BASIC simple THINGS it’s like you’ve asked them to walk across China and back! Like I just want a simple CARD, LETTER, 5 dollar box of chocolates or simple roses on ONE DAY OF THE YEAR!!! What’s so hard about that? Honestly I can’t believe some people think sexuality is a choice because I didn’t CHOOSE to be attracted to MEN.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 08:04 AM
77	What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You Left Just swore at me a lot, called me fat a lot, told me he wants a girl who takes care of herself (he’s fatter than me) just always made horrible comments about me. Made me turn to alcohol to deal with it. Now in therapy and am a recovering alcoholic. Not as bad as most but it still hit me hard.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 02:05 AM
121	What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You Left Him treating and talking to me like trash and thinking it’s “love” It wasn’t and it caused me to seek therapy and require me to re wire my brain from seeking love from men who remind me of my father.. my inner child is finally at peace with myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 01:31 AM
174	Pretty much sums up the lvm mindset I hate how some women are like “haha Derek finally did the dishes! I’m honestly so thankful to have such an amazing husband” like what??? Why praise a man for doing literally the bare minimum in a shared living space? No wonder men think they’re hot shit when they act/look like rotten tomatoes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 04:15 PM
18	[TW] A lack of initimacy during sex is a sign of sexual abuse Literally.. shit crushes your soul.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 02:44 PM
48	[TW] A lack of initimacy during sex is a sign of sexual abuse Honestly low self esteem, trauma bonding and basically hating yourself will result in you literally having an out of body experience while you’re being used as a flashlight. Takes a lot of work/therapy to break out of that cycle and many women unfortunately never do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 02:35 PM
138	You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight. Oh as a bigger girl I get used for my body 10 times out of 10 and I have extremely bad self esteem because of it. I feel I am not worthy of love until I lose the weight. It is shit and I’m over feeling worthless and used. But damn does it hurt to think “oh maybe he’s different” then nope! Same thing happens, I get attached and he drops me. Now I’m only going to put out when we’re in a relationship as I can’t handle anymore mental torture from men being nice just to get me into bed and then ghost…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 02:28 PM
19	What's up with guys bragging they can go for multiple rounds? And wanting women to moan? Yes I’m so glad I found FDS and have learnt so much! It’s good to know you’re not alone and FDS has taught me more self love than I have taught myself in 23 years! I can’t wait to glow up this year and become a women my mum would be proud of! it’s seriously a life changer for me and many other women. Yep birth control made me gain so much weight so I’m back to losing the weight I lost! Go me! But I can do this and I’m dedicated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 06:27 AM
70	What's up with guys bragging they can go for multiple rounds? And wanting women to moan? The multiple rounds thing is such a lie! Most guys can’t even last longer than 20 minutes and when they do they fall asleep straight away! It’s hilarious “multiple rounds” is one of the biggest lies men tell from experience. I always used to fake my orgasms/moans because I just wasn’t enjoying myself and it makes them finish faster which is so wrong of me but if it’s bad I want it over and done with! And cuddling oh how I wish the guy I actually loved would cuddle me after.. he never did and jus…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 06:13 AM
48	If only they all felt this level of shame... (also *accepting sorry I couldn't help it) Lmao 200 I’d expect at least 20k for the hurt my ex caused me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 01:05 AM
23	If he's not interested in your pleasure, don't stick around. But it’s just sad that girls around my age are putting up with such garbage when we’ve had access to the internet etc. it makes me sad to see.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 10:05 PM
55	If he's not interested in your pleasure, don't stick around. Oh my and she’s only 20 too! Run while you can.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 09:57 PM
43	I wonder what the BDSM advocates & misogynists have to say about this? Men who feel the need to physically harm a woman in order to get maximum sexual gratification need to also get the maximum prison sentence!! Its psychopathic!! Good! I’m sick of being called a prude because I don’t like extreme, violent sex! Like sorry I like to feel loved and appreciated during the most intimate moment with the person I love. (I’m single but still)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 05:00 AM
40	They may have bed frame ladders, but I'd bet they sleep on floor mattresses. They’re absolutely trash	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 04:58 AM
22	Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today: And.. they’re all ugly.. not like anyone was expecting that (sarcasm)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 04:33 AM
39	WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this? Means he doesn’t think you’re important whatsoever and that you’re disposable to him. Throw the whole man away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 04:31 AM
45	Why even bother? Why render yourself paranoid for someone who clearly cares more about his own penis than you and your love? It’s not healthy. Girls. Dump any pornsick losers. They do not care about you. Yep! An example: should see how judgmental those ugly bastards are on rate me or amiugly ! They are so ugly yet rate those poor women literally a 4 when they’re barely a 1.5 .. men truly think they’re better looking than they actually are and it astonishes me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 01:13 AM
95	Why even bother? Why render yourself paranoid for someone who clearly cares more about his own penis than you and your love? It’s not healthy. Girls. Dump any pornsick losers. They do not care about you. Because if we have standards that means they’d actually have to treat women with respect! Oh no they can’t have that! The world would be ending if women finally decided to value themselves instead of giving these these balding late 28s early 30s ugly ass reddit users a chance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 01:03 AM
31	Thought You Queens Would Enjoy This I’d rather be lonely and die alone than put up with a LVM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 12:51 AM
101	Why even bother? Why render yourself paranoid for someone who clearly cares more about his own penis than you and your love? It’s not healthy. Girls. Dump any pornsick losers. They do not care about you. I know what’s going through his head: I’m going to watch porn instead of giving my gf attention because I’m addicted to porn and the only way I can get off now is to keep watching porn.. while my girl suffers in silence, questions her self worth and posts on reddit. Leave that trash sis	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 12:49 AM
9	He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history! No thanks I’d rather die than trust a man over myself	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 07:29 PM
57	Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatment Yep the amount of girls my ex followed on Instagram and they didn’t even follow him back was absolutely pathetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 07:28 PM
44	Pickmeisha horror tale. Hapless scrote nearly destroys mind/body of once-vibrant girl. She has an STD (prob bc of him)+ is at risk for cervical cancer. Jobless bum doesn’t care. Friends beg her to leave b4 this kills her. They “just can’t see the good”. And she’s STILL f*cking him. Mother help her! Oh no.. this is probably the saddest thing I’ve read all week! She’s only 24 too! That man is absolute trash! I thank everyday I found FDS because I knew damn well that’s the path I would’ve walked down! Being a pick me, low maintenance , choosing ugly men and getting walked all over for the rest of my 20s! It’s sad because In our age group (I’m 23) it seems everyone in my friend group has a “boyfriend” or unofficial “boyfriend” who isn’t ready for anything serious treat them like shit! Enough i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 07:27 PM
6	A household with a LVM father and a pickme mother is a terrible environment to raise children. So many people have unresolved childhood trauma from being raised in this dynamic. Yes! that’s why I’ve been treated like human garbage and a sex doll by men until I was 23 and found FDS! Luckily I found it at 23 am forever grateful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 09:48 AM
93	The delusion. The scrotacity lol lol I’m 23 now and I’m “too old” for them and if that doesn’t speak for itself then..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 05:13 AM
59	PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly. So true.. my ex ruined my self esteem even called me fat while he was a lot fatter than me..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 05:13 AM