sunhappyinfp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How is dying alone worse than staying with a gender that will resent you by the time you're 30? we're human. social creatures and all that. despite what we tell ourselves, no one wants to die alone. Take BP/RP out of it. having someone to be there with you as you age is a beautiful thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/15 06:45 PM
1	Question for women: would you rather share with other women a guy who makes your heart skip and butterflies flutter in your stomach, or be the exclusive partner of an average guy? exclusive to an average guy. i don't share.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/15 08:07 PM
1	Describe an average dating scenario for someone you want to build a relationship with. I'm curious if there's a dichotomy. 1) Do you have a heuristic for how many dates you're willing to wait for sex? Before RPW, I'd say 3-5 dates. Now? I'd say 5-7 dates and then a discussion about titles and rules establishing a relationship. 2) Do you normally do bars? Restaurants? Sporting events? Active date? I like activity dates where we're out doing stuff and talking :D I do not like drinking alcohol on dates. Sometimes it happens but if it does, I'm usually having a short date and heading home right afterwards. 3) Do you hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/15 02:23 PM
1	What are the red pill opinions on alimony? Specifically, what are your opinions on the arguments given in this front page thread? i don't believe in alimony. it literally defeats the narrative that women don't need men to be successful or stable in today's society. i don't think that because you were married for a time, you deserve his money once divorced. if you want his/her money, stay married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/15 01:57 PM
2	Do you wish that you could be a different race? i'm nigerian-american. Female. I'm sure the easy answer would be to choose white, but i don't have the same hangups about race as others may have because it just wasn't an issue in my household growing up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/15 01:24 AM
3	[Advice] How can I improve myself with a mental illness? I second mindfulness therapy. Mindfulness helps you stay in the present, which prevents a lot of anxiety and "what if" thinking. Just telling myself FOCUS ON RIGHT NOW, not what happened or what may happen. Helps a LOT.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/06/15 02:07 PM
1	What's your workout routine? Gym or home? Why did you choose it over other options? When i'm on an exercise kick, I do 2 miles on the stairmaster/elliptical fusion machine. Daily. Helps with the bloating. Then I mostly focus on arms and booty workouts, like squats, push ups, hip bridges, lunges, etc. I do this daily as well for 30 minutes	/r/RedPillWomen	29/06/15 02:05 PM
1	How do you get over all the mistakes you made pre-RPW? by forgiving yourself, learning as much as you can about RPW, putting it into action in your life, and moving forward. not much else you can do besides that.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/15 06:30 PM
3	What do you think of women who don't agree it's rp or rpw? Are they wrong, don't understand it or is it just one of those things that isn't for everyone? i think most people already believe in RP/RPW but don't know or use the terminology. when people say "a man has needs" they all kind of know what that means. When people say "men and women speak a different language" we all kind of know what that means. most of my friends/family want the dynamics or have the dynamics that RP/RPW promotes but does not take as hard a stance on it because they don't know the full scope of the ideology. I think the only people who would ever have real issue with RPW…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/15 06:27 PM
2	Public breastfeeding not being argumentative, but if you aren't looking for a specific red pill answer, why are you asking specifically in a Red Pill subforum? kind of confusing. i think those other women are fools. just whipping it out and discarding what your SO thinks or feels is rude and disrespectful. and pining this disagreement on your husband being ignorant about breastfeeding is also kind of rude, even if it may be a little bit true. he very clearly told you he is uncomfortable about it. he even told you wh…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/15 05:46 PM
1	"Women only gain weight in a relationship if she's REALLY comfortable with the person she's with" i would receive the compliment and just say thank you. most guys honestly don't like it when you OBVIOUSLY look like you're wearing makeup. you can wear makeup and have a natural look. just fyi. but I give the most weight to the opinion of guys i'm actually interested in or my SO. that said, i don't know any guy that would recognize that his gf or wife looks attractive with makeup and says "no, stop wearing that".	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/15 04:56 PM
9	"Women only gain weight in a relationship if she's REALLY comfortable with the person she's with" I feel like when I'm in a serious relationship, I almost put MORE effort into my appearance. I feel way more feminine and attractive when I have someone, so I like to maintain that image in my SO's eyes. Working out regularly, wearing cute clothes that I know they may like more than others in my wardrobe, wearing light makeup, etc. I know some guys enter relationships and the understanding is "I love you no matter what" and that feels really good and personally, I really feel safe and comforted …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/15 02:42 PM
1	Question to the women here. What made you choose the red pill i've always been pretty rpw, before the terms were made known to me. i grew up in a somewhat traditional Nigerian household so strict gender roles were always the norm to me. both my parents worked but inside the house, you knew what you were supposed to be doing. anyway, i had first real relationship 2.5 years ago with this amazing guy who was RP, again we didn't know the terms, and it was great. but i constantly had a spiritual clash between my feminist ways and my RPW desires. ultimately, the…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/15 01:34 AM
4	Giving him a "truce" gift? i think buying him a shirt, even as a joke, is still really passive aggressive. you already admitted that you don't like what he wears. you already told him to get rid of him (why are you telling a grown man what to do?) not cool.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/15 05:32 PM
1	How do you respond when asked about your "number" or sexual past? well given my own number, i'm crossing my fingers, working my ass off and hoping I can make it a non-issue.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/15 08:45 PM
3	How do you handle conflict/issues gracefully? How do you know when you should address something and when you should let it go? Will I care in a month? A year? No? Then it's probably worth letting go. Is this going to physically hurt me? No? Then it's probably worth letting go. Will this damage my relationship with others? No? Then it's probably worth letting go. In my mind, anything that doesn't fall into those three questions, you can RAISE but I wouldn't have a fight over it. Most things do not require fights. It's just having an adult conversation.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/15 04:38 PM
5	How do you respond when asked about your "number" or sexual past? Personally, most guys I've dated never ask. They only ask if and when you give them some kind of indication that the number of men in your past will affect your CURRENT or potential relationship. So I'd say you should focus on the present and making yourself so awesome as a partner that your past is irrelevant (because more often than not, it is). If he does ask, be honest. But not necessarily forthcoming. What do I mean by that? If he asks "How many guys have you been with?" Just tell the numbe…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/15 04:35 PM
2	Are you the daughter of a narcissistic mother? oh wow. my mom has more than 10 of those traits.....explains a lot. I'm a self -saboteur.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/15 08:06 PM
8	I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMA Hey there!! i'm so excited that you're doing this AMA!! My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and it's been really hard. I feel that I'm going about finding a new relationship the wrong. I've tried online dating and friend referrals and neither seem to work because they are coming at it from a feminist (may I even say femnazi) approach. I have copied their techniques for years now, not knowing there were other ways, and it's just left me feeling really used/raw/unattractive/slutty. I have bought y…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/15 06:32 PM
3	What are some some things that you do to to increase your femininity/sexuality? i have short hair but things I found that work for me are: --learn how to do makeup well that FITS YOUR FACE --keep my hair straight --stay in shape --avoid being loud --wear dresses/heels/jewelry	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/15 02:07 AM