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Feminismsunlight_gaps/r/MensRights23/01/22 02:21 AM
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Probably some libfem
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/23 01:10 AM
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You come across as extremely immature and hypocritical
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/23 01:00 AM
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Absolutely not. It is invasion of privacy. For gods sake shes SEVENTEEN. Guys can jerk off but girls are shamed for the same thing? This subreddit of all people should know about double standards with how much its discussed. If I had a child id make sure they felt comfortable enough in their sexuality and did it in a safe way, which this girl is doing. Shes not out having unprotected sex or getting pregnant with a child she is unprepared for.
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/23 12:58 AM
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Nah theres just assholes of all genders out there
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/23 12:53 AM
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Everything you said was true and I dont see any misogyny. It may be true that men commit more violent crimes but its also very normalised that women can objectify and assault men without any consequences and its socially acceptable to most people.
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/23 12:51 AM
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Id agree with you except for the use of the word feminist. Maybe liberal feminists but not feminists who actually care about equality. People who like to call themselves misandrists are more fitting
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/23 12:46 AM
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Quick! Lets see how many much more swearing we can fit into one sentence! You received one more point by adding ‘whore’ on to the same sentence you said previously. A bit of lazy work in an attempt to be insulting but we’ll accept it
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 11:31 AM
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why are you replying? suck balls👎
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 10:51 AM
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true true
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah thats really mature. Dont have any point and cant talk like an adult so straight to reporting and telling people to fuck off!
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 08:29 PM
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So youre spam reporting? How can you know what i came here for? If im interested in posts here then see dumb comments am i not allowed to reply to them now? There isnt even a rule for spam. Did you actually look at my comment history? Its not all in this sub and the majority that are, are replies🤨
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 08:25 PM
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Spamming? Do you consider replying as spam? Did you check what I was replying to? I dont have to agree with everything people say to be able to interact on a sub, especially when theres alot of flawed points. Also rule 6 on this sub is about relation to the sub and anything I comment or reply with is definitely in relation with this sub
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 08:01 PM
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And what rule did i break exactly 🤔 the one that says don’t disagree with anyone ever?
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 06:39 PM
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maybe you should be speaking for yourself
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 05:59 PM
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How on earth did you come to that conclusion? What about “slut-shaming women” sounds like feminism to you? Nothing about blaming men is mentioned in this, stop reaching
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 01:51 PM
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What are they even downvoting you or the person who provided sources for?? almost like it’s because they have a narrative to push or something 🤔🧐🧐
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 01:35 PM
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“Feminism is no better than Nazis and the KKK”…….ok i see. I dont think you are open to listening to me but there are different types of feminism..and ive said to many here that alot of the time they are just describing libfems (as proven with the hashtag trends you mentioned). I have to admit this is the first time someones said it’s literally no better than nazis but alright (i would argue that is a bold point). There are many delusional feminists i agree i despise them too. Just because one i…
/r/MensRights29/01/22 02:32 AM
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How am i bothering people with nonsense? Dont just take one look at my profile and assume everything. Maybe you should actually look at what discussions I have here. And where are u getting some bs slogan from- wait until you find out that just because im a feminist doesnt mean you know all my views and values😮
/r/MensRights29/01/22 02:03 AM
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Not necessarily, men could sleep with multiple women who had never had sex before. (Or vice versa of course)
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:05 PM
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Might as well be with your attitude!
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:04 PM
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I find it disturbing you sound like youve never left a church
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:04 PM
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Im assuming you are including men and women in your slut shaming. You do know that alot of men have high body counts right?
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:03 PM
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Yeah so we should start slutshaming women! Just like in the good ol’ days of it being promiscuous to show your ankles! gasp
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:02 PM
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Because how is it not respecting yourself to have freedom in your sexuality? Its not like you are allowing people to ‘use’ you
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:00 PM
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Again, how does it show you dont respect yourself to have many sexual partners? People could have 10 or more committed relationships, you dont know everyone’s circumstances.
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 11:00 PM
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“Whats wrong with slutshaming?” Yeaaahh
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:59 PM
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How doesnt it? How is it disrespectful to enjoy safe sex? It sounds like you view sex as something that is ‘done’ to a woman.
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:57 PM
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Whats so hard to grasp that nothing changes when you have multiple sexual partners? Lacking in some critical thinking capabilities eh? I only needed a quick look in your history to see you shaming women for example, hooking up with guys on tinder
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:56 PM
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And whats the difference between one or two or 10+? What changes about a person once they have 10 sexual partners?
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:53 PM
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Then why is your comment history full of slut shaming women for having sex? Stop using buzzwords, “strawman argument” doesnt even fit here. Why are you so repulsed by it?
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:53 PM
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Im so sorry you have been made to believe sex is disgusting. Or that you are worth less by how much sex you have or how many partners you have. And im sorry youre so bitter and unhappy that as soon as someone points this out you assume their sexual history and slut shame them! If you are so interested in my sex life, I actually havent had even 10 sexual partners :)
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:49 PM
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Ding ding ding ding! Heres our answer ladies and gentlemen!
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:48 PM
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Why do you sound like a 13 yr old who just found out what sex is💀
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:36 PM
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I think its pretty obvious why anyone of any gender attempts. Of course there could be specific problems like financial, grief, loneliness, depression etc but these comments and the photo are really just discussing why are men more successful than women. You were implying women arent as ‘successful’ in attempts because they don’t actually intend to go through with it since its just for ‘attention’. I think it would have to be a minority of people who genuinely make a plan that is intended to fai…
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:24 PM
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I could make arguments on that yes but if im being honest why do we need to talk about why each gender commits suicide or fails in comparison to the other. Where does that get us? Suicide rates shouldnt be used as some kind of competition of ‘who has it worse’ imo, its a bit insensitive. If anyone is even considering suicide they are struggling and thats what is important
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 10:20 PM
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I hope you know that there are more possibilities than “just for attention”. It seems like you have a bias that this conclusion just fits- similar to the person in the photo actually, they likely think men are ‘violent’ and aggressive etc so fits the statistics to their own narrative
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 09:45 PM
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If youre trying to say that im only interested in ‘being right’, you are quite mistaken. It is pointless for anyone to attempt any kind of debate or discussion with someone who doesnt even have enough knowledge on the topic. And is clearly too stubborn to hear what anyone else has to say about these “fanfictions” Because you definitely dont have enough knowledge if you think any misogyny women face is just ‘insults’ or..’memes’ (??) (have you been outside the internet?) but somehow have plenty o…
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 09:40 PM
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It is quite stupid to make it about ‘see men are bad even when they commit suicide’ but ‘woman are caring!’. Suicide rates especially is not the time to make it a competition about the ‘worst’ gender
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 08:32 PM
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First of all, im not interested in discussing with someone who just straight up denies misogyny existing. Why do you use the worst examples of what has been said to men next to words like “sex”? As if its proof that women don’t experience anything more than that. Misogyny is definitely not just ‘insults’. And to be quite honest if those examples you used are the worst men face then I have some news for you. I think you also need to learn that comparing misogyny and “misandry” to what the nazis d…
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 08:27 PM
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‘Nope’? Right then
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 01:50 PM
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If youre genuinely asking, people use that emoji similar to this 😂
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 01:21 PM
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Misogyny is almost non existent? Wasnt incel one of those terms that appeared with things like “chad” “stacys” and other ones i cant exactly remember. And although their definition was something about intentionally not having relationships with women it wasnt just that, its pretty clear their ‘community’ hated women and blamed them for everything, hence why its used against any guy who hates women. I think it became the common idea that it wasn’t exactly by choice they were virgins or didnt have…
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 03:34 AM
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“Incel” isnt just used by feminists. Surely you must know that. I also dont think it was first coined by feminists was it? People use it more to mean guys who just hate women
/r/AntiFeminists28/01/22 03:03 AM
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silly question but is that sarcasm
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:47 PM
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No im saying whether someone is fat or stupid never matters?? That includes men😭
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:46 PM
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Wow i was not expecting the last bit. Ive never heard of a teacher wearing a catsuit and high heels😭Thankfully schools here seem to care more about dress codes for students and teachers for that to get passed them. I assumed it was normal everywhere for teachers to act like they are above manners and respect, ive had quite a few who would probably treat dogs better
/r/MensRights27/01/22 09:44 PM
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Oh i mean more like ‘radical feminist’, ‘liberal feminist’ (the one that particularly annoys me), ‘marxist feminist’ etc there is quite the list of types all with specific ideas. I do find alot of feminists go “so far left it becomes right” in a way, and end up being just as harmful to women its so silly
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:33 PM
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I didnt mean to sound aggressive or anything mb! The other person was just jumping to all sorts
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:26 PM
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That is true, but because they say that doesn’t automatically mean they are feminists. Also there are different types of feminism, and some ‘types’ in particular arent the best example of feminism and are the ones usually being an idiot
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:26 PM
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I didnt mention the dating world. All my comment was about was explaining what was actually meant, since people wanted to automatically assume the person in question is just a racist
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:22 PM
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How exactly is it hypocritical? And speak for yourself, I dont bring anyone down for their appearance or intelligence. Its not my fault there are people who claim to be feminist and are just assholes. Theres a bunch of woman who say ‘women supporting women’ but then go shit on a womens appearance when it suits them, not exclusive to feminists
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:19 PM
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You’re completely misinterpreting this. Im explaining what the girl meant. How did I imply that any of them are ugly? I never said i agreed with the beauty standards in western society? And there is more poc than just mixed people. The person in the photo couldve worded it better. Did you ignore everything else i said? White features doesnt just include white skin. Its on you to simply google how black women especially struggle in beauty industries, its not that complex that i should need to exp…
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 09:02 PM
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I wasnt the one who said it🤷
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 08:16 PM
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Thats actually really interesting, I didnt realise there was that big of a difference between cultures here. It is definitely VERY normal in the UK and ireland to hear husbands give off about their wives like that. Wives also do similar but more like complaints about chores or their husband being lazy. More so older generations than younger ones, and depending on the area too. When i think about it, no one says anything to them about it either. Its like the ‘humour’ here. How are students genera…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 08:15 PM
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So the point is that it isnt only men who arent “loved unconditionally”
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 08:02 PM
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..what. Are you trying to say im the one who thinks woc are ugly 😭 i cant believe i have to say this but i dont?? You completely missed the point. Poc usually dont have white features?? And those are the features that is held as the beauty standard in many parts of society, especially in in the beauty/fashion industry which has a large control of what is seen as ‘attractive’. If you still dont know what im talking about think about how thin, ‘perfect’ noses, facial structure, skin colour or lips…
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:59 PM
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Id probably need more context since that is worded oddly but im guessing they meant that the definition of ‘woman’ is very different to the experience of being a woman? Its very badly worded tbf
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:42 PM
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Exactly, i think people only have the view point that the comment you replied to did because they haven’t thought about why women wouldn’t want to do that.
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:39 PM
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No she is implying that since woc typically dont fit western eurocentric beauty standards they are viewed by alot of society as ‘ugly’. Literally take two seconds to think a bit harder before coming to a dumb conclusion like that
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:34 PM
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This interaction is hilarious 😭 ‘did you just use my own argument against me? ANGRY FEMINIST ALERT!’
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:30 PM
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In ‘feminist land’ someones worth isnt determined by what is deemed attractive or how intelligent someone is
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:28 PM
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The exact same could be said about men then
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 07:25 PM
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Im from the UK, not mainland though
/r/MensRights27/01/22 07:17 PM
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I think its the ‘most known’ because all of the questionable trends theyve caused and its promoted most by the media, probably the stuff they say gets attention whether it’s negative or positive
/r/MensRights27/01/22 07:15 PM
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Is evidence as being a woman good enough for you?😭 Most of my life it was only my male peers who seemed to want to put me down for academic endeavours and expressing interest in certain topics, never have I experienced a women do this not even to another person. My own experience isnt “regurgitated propaganda”. Yes those fields may be now female dominated but I know in general and people I know personally are commonly ‘bullied’ by men in educational or social circles (Like clubs or study groups)…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 06:14 PM
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Yeah ive started to notice when people talk about all the negatives of feminism and how they hate it, it always sounds like they are just describing libfems. There are about 4 main types of feminism
/r/MensRights27/01/22 05:49 PM
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You’re deliberately asking me stupid questions like ‘do you think women are less competent than men’. As if my answer would be yes. Dont be a twat. I find it hard to believe you genuinely dont know what im talking about Women have a difficulty getting into those already difficult jobs to get into because other people have prejudice against them just because they are women. And many women are put down for wanting to pursue certain career paths, so its most likely not because it simply “doesnt app…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 04:54 PM
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You seem a bit obsessed
/r/MensRights27/01/22 04:50 PM
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I might have to after interactions with you
/r/MensRights27/01/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah when im not even replying to you😃
/r/MensRights27/01/22 03:36 PM
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Literally its getting creepy that you’re replying to everything i say
/r/MensRights27/01/22 03:32 PM
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are you stalking me now? Im flattered
/r/MensRights27/01/22 03:24 PM
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You shouldnt be with someone who would actually care about that. If someone genuinely likes you and isnt a shitty person it wont even cross their mind
/r/MensRights27/01/22 03:05 PM
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Should I use a different movie as an example instead? Maybe the notebook wasnt to your liking
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:26 PM
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I completely agree with you on that. However could it be libfems that is being talked about? /gen *I did mean ive had discussions with alot of people who give ‘feminism’ a completely different definition though so its nearly impossible to be on the same page
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:24 PM
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I think it’s important to point out that high ranking positions in corporations and government isnt quite on the same level as a street cleaner. Im not aware of any reasons it would be harder for a woman to get a job like that. And since jobs that are high ranking in the government, for example, would be hard for most average people to achieve anyway, women have another difficulty because of their gender. So it makes sense for why feminists would want to advocate for these positions, even if onl…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:17 PM
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Ha i wish someone told me that sooner! Ive had a few ‘lovely’ conversations with him already
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:07 PM
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You think “harmful expectations from men” is only one syllable bigger than toxic masculinity? Right. My point was it sounds quite awkward to have use it every time you want to refer to it in conversation. Why is that the biggest of your worries? Quit nit picking
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:02 PM
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Not exactly “oppressed by men” as in specific men but more like by the whole structure. I do see it can be easy for people to misinterpret it for ‘bring all men down! then we have equality!’ But i think all it takes to avoid that is for someone to really think about what they mean and their values. If someone truly wanted men to become a ‘lower class’ and discriminated against like how they believe women are then its not really equality they want. I find it hard to believe there are many feminis…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 03:59 AM
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Id say it wasnt just feminists who started to use “KAM”. I think alot of people (not identified as a feminist), as i said, blindly followed the trend without too much thought. Ive actually seen a while ago that alot of the people who took part in that admitted they were wrong and they were very naive. It just divided everyone further I really hate it when people argue that thats what “feminism as a whole supports” when its just not.. You dont want to use the definition of feminism so how are we …
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:51 AM
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Cant you just send me the link like everyone else? You guys sure love it LMAO After our previous conversations im not interested in a discussion with you
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:42 AM
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“People like you” right. I am aware of the differences between anti feminism and anti women. This sub is full of men who definitely hate women. Im not saying you are one of them
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:41 AM
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Im not American no. Out of interest can you tell me all the ‘forms’ of feminism?
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:39 AM
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Wait i just realised ive talked to you before. The guy who doesnt think women are oppressed in the west right? Yeah id rather not. Im not attacking men by having an opinion you dont like🙄 and i “certainly do object to feminist hatred of men” You cant assume everything about me
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:38 AM
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There are parts of many feminists I agree with, is there any specific idea or view you mean?
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:49 AM
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suck balls👎
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:49 AM
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I dont have much to say on the draft other than i agree with you, personally i dont think anyone should be forced to fight in a war. That phrase, although long, would work I suppose but it would be about getting people to use it. Toxic masculinity is much shorter, and id hope, that most people are able to understand what it means from just the phrase. If you are interested, i would recommend you check out feminist discussions on toxic masculinity if you haven’t already (not the kind that simply …
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:27 AM
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I really like the way you put it in to words! I do find so many people on both sides who have such a negative view of the world because of what media they view. And yeah lol ive had many recent ‘discussions’ where people have been less than civil. Im glad there are people more level headed like you though
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:22 AM
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I do get your points about biology and that but i think there is a clear correlation between that and how men are ‘taught’ they should be. I.e They cant be seen as weak, to have negative emotions or express their feelings so they are given the ‘role’ as the ‘protector’ while of course as you said women are seen as weaker, in all aspects. They are the ones expected to be ‘motherly’ and emotional, delicate and pretty. Imagine this was not the case, do you still think biology would matter that much…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:16 AM
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Yes and i mean that i was just trying to explain to you what people meant. I never bring it up as my own point as it doesnt add anything Your point about war casualties, couldnt that just be because more men are involved? And more men join the army What would you rather toxic masculinity be called? It is toxic traits men are groomed to have just because they are men. The phrase is self explanatory. Perhaps you see it as something negative because of all the people misusing it? Its not meant to b…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:13 AM
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Okay yes id agree but what is the cause of the empathy gap?
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:55 PM
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You cant even come up with anything coherent. You’d go mad if I called you an incel though wouldnt you? Ironic. “If you were in doubt this is why women cant stand you🤪”
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:54 PM
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I dont think you explained, if not the ideas promoted in feminism, what do you think is the cause of mens issues?
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:49 PM
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Yes but the point of men being ‘more privileged’ is because in most situations, being a man rather than a woman is better for you. I dont think its really worth the time to argue who is ‘worse off’ though. For example if youre poor but a man youre still better off than being poor and a woman. Honestly i was unaware people were using ‘toxic masculinity’ as that. Whenever it is discussed in feminism, at least the groups i partake in, toxic masculinity has always been discussed as a harmful thing f…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:47 PM
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My man, maybe youre the one here with some lack of capabilities. The only “questions” you asked me werent actually questions, just poor attempts at ‘points’. If youre gonna be a condescending ass at least be clever about it, instead you just look dumb
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:40 PM
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enlighten me then, what question did you ask me exactly? Also stop being a condescending twat, it doesn’t exactly make you look good
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:38 PM
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What. I have a funny suspicion you read nothing that i said. Theres no men in my life that have a problem with me, im not the one who’s whole personality is being a hateful ball of spite. Its so funny that the majority of my friends are guys too😭 You think youre so clever. Also i can only find one ‘no you’ in my comment. I was using your own phrase against you.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:27 PM
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What the actual fuck man. Do you think all i do with my friends is rant about my problems as a woman and pull ‘everything out of my ass’? Im not some miserable old bat. My male friends are feminists by their own accord😭 Why do you think its okay to be so rude? The discussion never has to be brought up, I meant that they have actually been surprised about things that have happened to me and other women we know. They had never experienced it themselves so were completely unaware You did read the p…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:22 PM
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Hm i would agree alot of mens issues stem from the same thing that womens so I see the point of it being from feminist ideas. Btw you dont seem to think the patriarchy exists? Why is that? And what do you think is the cause of mens issues? I think you will hate me saying this but.. feminism is meant to be for men too. Have you tried seeking out the feminists who actually believe in equality? If someone isnt being hateful or spreading misinformation i dont think they should be kicked out btw, con…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:06 PM
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Ive seen this alot on this sub that people will compare mens issues to how jewish people sufferes from the holocaust 😭 and the same as bringing up race issues too. I think its insensitive to bring up another entirely different group of people to back up your own argument. I would say the same if a woman was doing that too btw. Black people suffered much more because of their race than a white woman or man Yeah im talking about MRAs, or at least they claim to be.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 10:58 PM
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Ohh yes i know what you mean now. Yeah i think it can be a problem that alot of people dont ever question ‘why something is this way’ and just accept what someone more vocal is saying. That ends up them hearing words and misusing them everywhere to the point it ends up losing meaning. And then if you do question rather iffy points you get attacked or called a ‘misogynist’. TERFS run rampant with that and i swear they are making up new terminology everyday😭 Ive been called a ‘trans karen’ and a ‘…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 10:48 PM
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Yeah id like to know more about what you mean on menslib
/r/MensRights26/01/22 10:01 PM
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In group? What do you mean
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:58 PM
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Nah dont start on using racism as some kind of shield here😭 Im not saying the victims arent valid because they were attacked by the same gender?? But why do you think they always leave out the part that says who committed the crime? Because it doesnt sound very good to say that the majority of violent crimes is committed by men. They would mention who committed the crimes if it was women. And no, I have seen many posts (not necessarily on here) where a woman simply just wants support, with absol…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:43 PM
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Unfortunately alot of ‘feminists’ dont go very far into their though process or values and are influenced by the wrong group in feminism. The kind that thinks its the right way to go is by genuinely hating men, like i can understand frustration from being mistreated but there is no justification to attack every man for it. They think it’s empowering to paint with period blood or say ‘kill all men’. It’s unfortunate that these people have been able to influence your idea of feminism as a whole, a…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:36 PM
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I support mens rights just not this sub?😭😭 and where are you getting the idea from that its not okay to critic feminists like that? How many times do i have to say i agree with you? I dont like them either
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:25 PM
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I dont know how to reply to specific parts of a comment so i hope this makes sense What sub are you talking about with 13 million followers? Ive already explained this to someone else but for example a women could just make a post about how upset or frustrated she is after being harrassed, assaulted, raped etc and a man will come along with his statistics just to ‘mention’ how bad men have it too. Even though men having it better or worse was never mentioned. Its like going to see someone sick i…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:23 PM
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See there is no point talking to you because you think feminists are only either two things “misandrists” or “liars” which is so unbelievably close minded, you’ve clearly made up your mind im not going to waste my energy on someone who wants to have such a stubbornly negative outlook. In fact id be interested if you can even name 3 types of feminism? Without the help of google You obviously know I mean this sub is the one that doesnt like women. There are endless examples I could show you and to…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:16 PM
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Maybe you havent “seen it” because youre so wound up with the ‘bad’ ones😭 and no one person can ‘run’ a movement. Stay miserable then if you dont even respect those who support you
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:10 PM
-4

Okay so i tell you that a large group of feminists are actually not anti male and you get angry about that? Maybe if you stepped outside of this sub once and a while you would find that there are in fact quite alot of these “self proclaimed feminist nobodies” who given the chance would advocate and vote for mens rights. Just because they dont lead rallies or debates on the tv doesnt mean they dont have influence. For somebody who wants support you dont seem too accepting of it
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:54 PM
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sigh Why do you think theres a whole sub who clearly dont like women very much? And why is it so often when womens issues are talked about then suddenly so many men care about mens issues? There is another sub i think is called r/menslib that is entirely the opposite and is actually positive for mens rights. And I wish I got paid every time i had to say this but, not all types of feminism are the same! There are kinds we also hate and they are doing nothing for women or men. ‘True’ feminists are…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:41 PM
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I honestly wish people could see the debates/conversations in the general community, then maybe they could see what views are actually consistent. We are probably just as frustrated to have to deal with ‘feminists’ who alot of time sound like a troll from the stuff they say. Its not getting anyone anywhere by starting a ‘kill all men’ trend, painting with period blood or harassing men for no real reason. They are also filled with hypocritical ideas.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:24 PM
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Finally someone with some sense! I fully agree with you. Everyone doesnt seem to realise the groups within feminism itself. And you can argue what ‘modern’ feminism is now a days but I like to think the ‘true’ version of feminism is still a large part of the community. One that is about equality. I am aware of the kind of ‘feminists’ that have given so many people the wrong idea but it is unfair to hold on to them as an ‘example’ of why everyone should hate feminists. They probably think all fem…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:02 PM
-8

Feminism is definitely not anti male. And MRA were created to be anti feminist, and alot of the time especially on this sub it sure seems like it is anti women
/r/MensRights26/01/22 07:58 PM
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Why do you view feminism as a bad thing? /gen Im genuinely confused why you think its something that needs to be “countered”. Like having groups to specifically talk about mens issues is fine. What do you actually think feminists are about? Because we seem to have very different ideas
/r/MensRights26/01/22 07:55 PM
1

Do you genuinely think im serious
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:31 PM
1

well🥺 fwirst wee wwill take da capital by stworm🥺 then we wwill liberwate da prwoletariat ! it wwill be wike swugar cwandy mwountain!
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:24 PM
1

LMAO leave you alone? You replied to me with this bs
/r/MensRights26/01/22 02:14 PM
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You dont like what I have to say so youre trying to get me banned or what?😭 I created this account as a throwaway so I dont get literal death threats on my actual account. I didnt come anywhere to harass anyone wtf Youre acting as if i click on every post to troll them. I am allowed to share my perspective and opinions, even if you dont like them. Did you even look at my comment history? No trolling anywhere. Actual arguments and opinions. The freekarma sub i didnt even get karma from🙄 My post w…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:41 PM
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Come on man.. “racist and inhuman to man as a whole”? Get a grip I imagine you also hate feminists, you dont even hear this nonsense from even the most “woke” of them! Man and woman are not races
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:35 PM
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Because being Muslim only means they follow Islam, its their religion. What is the only difference between a muslim mans life and just any ‘mans’? Just the religion part. Muslims are not taught by their religion that rape is ok or that it should be done. What if someone said they are scared of Christian men? Christianity is one of the biggest religions so it would make sense it is more likely to have the most rapists than a religion with less followers.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:32 PM
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It isnt “hateful rhetoric” to explain that society doesnt teach specifically black people to steal. You cannot deny that men as a whole have been socialised since childhood to act certain ways, think certain things and think its okay for them to do certain things. This is exclusive to men of all ages and race and that is what you are failing to understand here. People arent born rapists. Dont even go there with comparing being uncomfortable around men to homophobia. No one is attacking or killin…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:22 PM
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What is the significance of it being a “muslim” man though? Its not like them being muslim had anything to do with the lead up to harassing someone. There are many factors that cause specifically men to have a pattern of harrassing/assaulting women. And no its not literallyall men, if that has to be clarified every time, as some are able to unlearn misogyny and things ingrained into them from ‘society’ but the fact is that there is a cause which causes so many men to be like this. No one can tel…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 05:19 AM
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How about not using analogies at all. If women know that certain portion of all men could be a rapist for example, then why wouldnt we be cautious? All we know is that there is a chance and that we have no idea what the odds are with a specific person Also why do you become so defensive when something negative about men is brought up? Many men dont find an issue in it as it doesnt apply to them. Im white and if a black person was to talk about their frustration/anger with white people my reactio…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 05:08 AM
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Well we arent talking about mens hair colour and their intelligence level. Why is it so hard to grasp that women cant help but be uncomfortable/cautious of a man? Its not like black people are socialised to steal just because theyre black? Thats not something exclusive to any race. Same goes for gay men being pedophiles?? Youre using quite bad analogies. They are not comparable
/r/MensRights26/01/22 05:04 AM
1

So you are an idiot😮 i have to admit..im a little shocked. I think.. i need some time to think this thing through. I dont know if this will work between us im afraid, sorry to let you down💔
/r/MensRights26/01/22 04:38 AM
1

👍
/r/MensRights26/01/22 04:19 AM
1

Hold on a sec, let me ask the notebook writers on that one for you!
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:59 AM
1

But I dont think the notebook would be as entertaining as your lack of..coherency. Must I spell it out to you. I used the word oppression because this is a sub talking about “mens oppression” and this is a post acting like tools as gifts to men is a massive deal which it is not. Make sense? Pay attention. Nothing to do with marxism or whatever other bs youre gonna make up. Think of it as a hyperbole you know what that is dont you? And yep just as I expected youre another one of these guys who do…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:59 AM
1

You know.. maybe i will watch the notebook🤔it does seem to be a pretty popular movie
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:54 AM
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Ive never actually watched the notebook so im just bullshitting. I only know one of the characters is a real dick. I guess youre right on that with feminists being liars😋 so true
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:53 AM
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Shit..you better call the bourgeoisie on me or something What has that got to do with what I said? It is completely unrelated. I literally explained in my comment why I used the word oppression. No where was marxism mentioned. Are you trying to act dumb?
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:50 AM
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Its also interesting they only care about those kinda issues when something to do with women is brought up
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:48 AM
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Its not my job to get you examples. Examples that shouldnt even have to be explained. And youre just putting words in my mouth again go waste someone elses time. Its not a big gender problem your kid got you tools as a present This is so typical! Just like the notebook. Have you ever watched The Notebook (2004) starring Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams directed by Nick Cassavetes?
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:39 AM
1

That last sentence..what are you on mate
/r/MensRights26/01/22 03:35 AM
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Are “those posters” referring to people who said they would like tools? Many of them literally stated they were a man? Why would that matter ffs and if i did go on to a feminist sub and they were complaining about the same thing ID SAY EXACTLY THE SAME 🤯come on dont be obtuse. Look at the sub we are on. Look at what OP is trying to get at. Theres a reason I used “oppression”. Even someone else commented here that this post sounds like something a “woke feminist” would do. And i agree🤯 Obviously …
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:49 AM
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This comment is so low effort lmao I seriously shouldnt have to spell everything out. Im not even gonna answer you anymore. “Those posters” who are you even referring to and why the hell does it matter? Grasping at straws here. What has gender got to do with ANYTHING in that comment? And why on earth is a MOVIE being brought up here. Are you trying to be funny? There is not a single coherent point youve made in this comment. Im laughing thinking what kind of reaction id get if i brought up Noah …
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:47 AM
1

Why are you grasping at everything you can to make feminism look bad? Almost as if you’re ignoring all the good things it has done and advocates for
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:43 AM
1

What do you mean by ‘taboo’? It literally doesnt happen here as if its some customisable choice, in europe anyway.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:41 AM
1

Excuse me? You are aware that that comment was satire arent you? Where did you find the need to bring up “political lesbianism” in all this? Its funny to imagine that someone actually thinks “most women” are pretending to be lesbians
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:40 AM
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Get out before you see more
/r/MensRights26/01/22 12:28 AM
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that made me giggle a bit too
/r/MensRights25/01/22 07:14 PM
1

Mb then. I actually havent seen any tone indicators here though?
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:03 PM
1

Seriously, I dont think it couldve been clearer my comment was satire. Did you read the whole conversation between me and this guy? The point of my comment was because he seems to think thats the only issue women have. I DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MANSPREADING LMAO what has this thread come to😭
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:57 PM
1

….my comment…was satire. what.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:50 PM
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This will be my LAST response to you because I really don’t appreciate someone smearing my name with ridiculous ideas that I am nothing about. Please try to read this carefully and dont try to put words into my mouth. For some reason, you cant see through your bitterness that I actually agree with you. I am well aware of all those issues men face and there are JUST AS IMPORTANT AS THE SAME ISSUES FACING WOMEN -Very important detail since you somehow created the idea I thought differently. My ori…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:35 PM
2

Are you american? Are you aware its not normal in every other country to circumcise a baby for no reason?
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:02 PM
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Youre the only one claiming they are more important when they happen to women !! Just wanted to correct you on that. Since I dont recall anyone else saying that
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:01 PM
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No im not arguing! Youre totally right. Honestly the whole feminist movement is just because we find manspreading annoying🤷 Like keep your legs closed, what are you? A slutty woman now? So not modest.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:00 PM
1

Hm ACTUALLY you are completely right! Are you sure you arent a undercover feminist? Do you remember the code word? Women also face genital mutilation! And by the way the only place its actually common to have babies circumcised is the US! And if you want to talk about womens issues so much then how about we talk about women being forced to have a pregnancy they dont want? Do you care about the issues they face as a result of that? Physically and mentally? What about not a single woman feeling sa…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:51 PM
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Right after seeing what youve just spewed out its clear it would be pointless to even discuss with you, as you cannot be civil and do not seem capable of a fair conversation. You are quite literally making things up about me. I am a woman yes, but in no way have I been “socialised to hate men”, shall we go back to my childhood history or something LMAO Ive always been about equality and I was raised to be non judgmental. Oh this is hilarious. Maybe youre right. I actually sacrifice a man every f…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:45 PM
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What do you mean the way I described men? I specifically said that is not how I view men. And I did read your comment, my point was who one earth has ever said you were doomed to a life of misery just because of a complaint. You really need to get out into reality and see how people actually are. Women arent like the women you see in movies🤯alot of them actually do value people more than just their bank account!
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:33 PM
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So many on this sub just love to throw words around as soon as someone questions them. You dont even know me? Your assumptions are so uninformed and honestly I find it too funny to even take you seriously. Feminists have more important things to be worrying about than getting a hoover as a gift. And as ive already said my mum would love that kind of gift. And so do most adults I know. No one wants to spend their own money on a boring thing like a food blender or vacuum so it feels much nicer whe…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:30 PM
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Valid, not comparable. I am not belittling mens issues by telling them they arent being oppressed by getting a screwdriver for for their birthday
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:22 PM
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This is a useless post trying to find some oppression for men. It is not oppression or discrimination to give your parents a gift they would like. Nothing to do with ‘wa men are only valued for their contribution to society’. Getting so depressed over giving your dad a screwdriver, something people have already replied to in the comments that they would actually like it. If youre gonna argue that men are valued just for what they can do to benefit everyone else then take it to an issue that’s ac…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:21 PM
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How can you lack so much self awareness? Mens issues are not the same as womens issues
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:18 PM
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a silly example
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:17 PM
1

One of the dumbest takes ive heard
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:03 PM
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The way you talk makes it seem like youve never been in the real world. And youre not just complaining, youre painting a picture that your life is “doomed for misery”- in your words. Is that what your life is actually like? Youre making up words you said yourself because who assumes that from one complaint that a guy is an “insufferable asshole”. It entirely depends on how that “complaint” is worded and what its about, you cant be so vague. Again, do you seriously think the average woman is a he…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:52 PM
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Not sure about you but any time I hear about a disaster gender isnt even mentioned normally. Its very cynical to describe men as being ‘discarded like tools’ What country do you live in that has a society like that? In real life? It certainly isnt like that where I live
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:45 PM
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Well it would seem a bit unthoughtful if you were to gift your parents a cheap basic appliance they already have but is anyone giving their dad a single screwdriver as a gift?🤷 I think alot of adults appreciate gifts that are practical and can be used daily to make normally tedious jobs easier
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:42 PM
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A functioning one yes but god knows how long theyve had it. You can get a ‘basic hoover’ which is a nuisance to use or one at a couple hundred £ that doesn’t actually make you hate using it
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:38 PM
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Im not talking about screwdrivers either? Dont you know how expensive hoovers, floor cleaners, kitchen appliances, cooking appliances etc can be? What else are you talking about? A sponge? No ones getting their mother a sponge for their birthday
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:36 PM
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Oh dont be so cynical. Youre just creating problems yourself🤦
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:33 PM
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Get anyway? Do you just gift expensive stuff to people for the sake of it..? I can give you my amazon wishlist if you’d like
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:32 PM
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My mum would actually love gifts like that. Didnt you appreciate ‘boring’ gifts like hoovers or kitchen appliances once you became an adult? I think its like that, they can be expensive but they are necessary 🤷
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:24 PM
0

how did you work out our game strategy? That’s meant to be top secret
/r/MensRights24/01/22 07:01 PM
1

I have to admit, the kind of feminists I have interacted with either online or in person have not been the kind to exclude men or have had extremist views which are harmful so I cant really say that ‘feminists arent like this’, maybe I have been fortunate enough to avoid them or maybe they are in decline. My ‘definition’ of a feminist doesnt really talk on mens issues as much, since their focus is on spreading awareness and education for women, but when the topic is brought up they fully support…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:53 PM
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Phew! Good thing I live in Europe then! Ill tell everyone over here they dont need to be assholes to women anymore! Reddit user accidental_me solved everything
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:15 PM
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Really funny you completely missed the point. Cant believe you think its worth the time to argue over what gender owns what phone. And if you care so much about nit picking through statistics then the only statistics I can find show that on average male customers from Apple spent more than women.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:13 PM
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No youre so right! Cant believe all i needed was to just stop being discriminated against! Truly amazing. Cant wait to tell the feminist club they dont need to worry anymore
/r/MensRights24/01/22 05:23 PM
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At least in media a good example of the male gaze vs female gaze is the movie suicide squad vs birds of prey. When trying to appeal to the ‘male gaze’ often women are objectified and sexualised and most of the focus on her character is her appearance. Female gaze on the other hand does not focus just on sexuality
/r/MensRights24/01/22 05:07 PM
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Shocking idea🤯 Maybe no specific group of people needs to be blamed for something like that, since it could be argued based on stereotypes that men also consume alot, like cars, electronics etc Why are the majority of Apple customers men? Do they support child labour? See how silly it is. Especially when its actually the big companies contributing the most to harming the environment
/r/MensRights24/01/22 05:03 PM
1

I live in a country that hasnt had a draft in about 100 years so it isn’t something discussed much here. I can imagine other scenarios though where a man will get a ‘its on you’ response and when its related to something in the past that they werent even around for it is quite unfair. No one, at least in my generation, really has that kind of mindset here though. If anything I only see that online Just so we are on the same page, which ‘female privileges’ do you mean? I do understand and agree t…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 04:46 PM
1

Odd, im not sure about the pm then. The title is a hyperbole and as a whole this sub isnt doing much at all since so much hate and useless posts block out anything that should be spread.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:54 AM
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Genuinely asking, has anyone told you that you had to “apologise”? Of course thats unreasonable, and I cant imagine a logical person actually expecting that from you. But perhaps you misinterpreted? People (being feminists or women or whoever youre referring to) I think just want men to acknowledge the past and certain privileges you have in society as a man. Being aware of the past is important in understanding the feelings of others and the connotations you might not even be aware of
/r/MensRights24/01/22 02:25 AM
1

Why dont you consider a view that this post could provoke the group of users who give this sub an awful name to think a bit more openly from their closed ideas about things. Im not being hateful and I do try to be fair when listening to others viewpoints. I do think that it is unreasonable to remove this post on the basis of it being a “repost” is at least a little unfair. There are many posts on this sub that are the same if not very similar. If you want progress for a cause or advocacy then yo…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 02:10 AM
1

If you see posts like this so much how come I cant find any? The only posts I can find that talks about stuff I did is on other subs who despise this one. Its not just me who thinks this is probably one of the most bitter corners of reddit
/r/MensRights24/01/22 02:05 AM
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I made it clear that not all posts or users on this sub are ‘bad people’ but you’d have to be blind to not agree that alot of them arent great and alot of the time arent even talking about ‘mens advocacy’, advocacy of any kind that is just hating and invalidating others is not advocacy- I never used the phrase ‘bad people’. I sent you a pm, id appreciate it if you could take some time to read it.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 02:03 AM
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Youre not even listening to what im saying. I also mentioned alot more than just feminists
/r/MensRights23/01/22 01:03 PM
1

Right, if youre done with your little condescending rant. By your logic, who are you? Or anyone on this sub? It is reddit after all. Does an opinion only matter if it from some scholar? Funny you dont even know who I am to be able to say any of that. You dont have to have led an army to have a valid view. I didnt say Im the only “true feminist”. But I have also spent time on feminism, discussing with other feminists and I am a woman. You are clearly not apart of the community to see what is actu…
/r/MensRights23/01/22 10:18 AM
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My 2 hour account has alot more “useful” things to say than the bitterness and idiocy you allow here
/r/MensRights23/01/22 09:37 AM
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And no, this is not a repost as I have checked and it is not “regularly discussed”. Youre just proving that this sub silences any opinions that disagree, says alot about what its really about
/r/MensRights23/01/22 09:35 AM
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Not sure what my accounts age has to do with anything 💀 I made a throw away since i know people on this sub love to be less than civil
/r/MensRights23/01/22 09:31 AM
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