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Do i want to fuck someone who isnt kind and respectful? ° You might not but lots of women do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:43 PM
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No that's called being a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 04:59 AM
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I don’t think guys would complain if they got ghosted after sex like women do. I have yet to see a thread on r/dating for example where a guy is like “Yeah I keep meeting these girls who bang my brains out but then I can’t get into contact with them after. I’m so sad” lol I'm a guy and I've been ghosted after sex a handful of times and it's not fun. I don't expect every girl I sleep with to fall in love with me but it hurts to not even be worth a text back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:55 PM
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The second b typically stands for beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:46 AM
1

Who do you think will inspire more of that? The question is "is it nonzero?" not "is it maximal?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:46 AM
0

Just don't give sex for free to some men and give sex to others only if they provide This is also fine as long as I'm one of the ones who gets it for free
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 05:53 AM
1

You realize that most women feel differently though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 05:40 AM
1

People now almost expect sex early in the beginning of a relationship for various reasons ("try before you buy/ well if things don't work out, at least I got something out of it"). I don't know how many other people feel this way but I know that for myself the expectation of early sex is something that builds on itself. That is to say that if I lived in a society where all the girls waited for marriage to have sex I could be fine with that but what I'll never be fine with is waiting until I marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 06:13 PM
1

If they've already known you and formed an opinion it won't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:22 AM
2

Most women consider 6-foot to be the bare minimum a guy has to reach to be considered attractive. Only if you tell them a number. I'm 5'9" and when I ask women (especially short women) how tall they think I am I often get told 6'. The takeaway is that women don't know what 6' looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:18 PM
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I think she showed integrity by being up front with him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:11 AM
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Posters here are ridiculous, you have to take everything on this subreddit with a giant grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:32 PM
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But every chick can get a dick at the end of the week. She just needs to be slutty enough. Every chick can get a dick but they can't get a top .5% dick. that's what OP was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:31 PM
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Sometimes yeah but some girls are lucky and wear it well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:15 AM
7

I don't know man, facial aesthetics matter a lot. I'll take a chubby chick with a cute face over a thin girl with a below average face any day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:14 AM
5

There are exceptions but most men would not be okay with their girlfriend doing that. Honestly a lot of men wouldn't be ok with it even if she stopped once the relationship got serious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:08 AM
2

Mathematically this doesn't make sense. The difference in attractiveness between 5'8" and 6' is equal to the difference between 5'8" and 5'10" plus the difference between 5'10" and 6'. So if that 4" difference is significant one of the 2" differences will be at least half as much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:37 PM
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And I have no idea why you think you have 0% chance based off your looks when I think you look great! Well thanks. But I wasn't saying my looks give me a 0% chance. What I meant was my looks are 0% of the problem. That is to say I feel pretty confident about my looks, and I feel very confident that I am "in shape" as the OP put it but I still struggle with girls because of communication issues. I think I'm getting better at it though, I've noticed I have a lot more success in environments where …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:23 AM
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Sane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:20 PM
8

Gay men have options but they are far more promiscuous than any other group
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:28 AM
1

Thick is different from just overweight. Thick means fat in the right places, boobs, butt and thighs, and maybe a tiny bit on the belly if it's enough to make it soft but not cause rolls. Fat on the arms and especially the face and neck is very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:53 AM
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Red pillers often say that no High Value Man will stick around if the woman waits for sex. I would amend this to: no high value man will stick around waiting for sex if you make him wait longer than you have made other guys wait. I'm fine waiting for things to get serious if that's how you've always been. But if I then found out you've had a couple ONS then I'm out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:40 AM
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For me 0%. I look like this I struggle a lot with women because of shyness and awkwardness. I have aspergers which definitely makes things harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:33 AM
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And I'm talking about seemingly controversial ideas, not "Cold weather is better than hot weather" That one is pretty controversial. Fuck winter, bring on summer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:39 PM
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I can bench 4x8 50 kg. Oh God you're hopeless. The only thing worse than s guy who doesn't lift is s guy who does lift but is somehow still weaker than the guys who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:54 AM
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I look like this https://m.imgur.com/a/M8Rme0m I still have no idea how to talk to girls. Gay men on the other hand fucking love me. If I step into a gay bar I get treated like a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:18 AM
1

You can tell a lot about someone's body in clothes. Maybe not the difference between 8% and 10% body fat but you can tell apart skinnyfat from lean and muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:08 PM
2

Surveys like this mean nothing because people don't answer them honestly. It's not that they try to lie, people just aren't very good at knowing themselves, especially when that knowledge is uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:42 PM
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If a man has options, he WILL cheat No. Some of us actually have morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:03 AM
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Yes because they experience it less
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:42 PM
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I would agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:41 PM
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That's totally false. A lot of people re orient their priorities pretty drastically when they have kids. Not everyone but a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:38 PM
3

What if she only parties with her boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:37 PM
2

Nightclubs are more for the hot and or rich, but average guys can have success at dive bars and will have the most success meeting girls through friends. More girls go to college than men, even if you're an engineering major you can meet girls in your gen eds. It takes effort and if you happen to end up in a friend group of guys who are bad at meeting girls it might seem impossible but it's not. I know average looking guys who get a lot of girls. Honestly as a guy who considers myself well above…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:05 AM
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Tinder is for hot guys. Average guys see more success through irl dating channels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:20 AM
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The average man has more opportunities than you think. Youv are confusing average with below average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:52 AM
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Clearly they should all be very interested in the things I excel at and unconcerned about the things I struggle with. When a woman describes her ideal man she should be describing me, anything else and she is just a stupid slut with bad taste /S
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:47 AM
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Is that 10% of the general population or 10% of people after filtering for people that hang out in the same social circles as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:43 AM
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You sound like a bitter incel. Saying 10% of people have a compatible personality really isn't that picky, in fact if it's 10% of the whole population that's quite a lot since it will go way up after filtering for people in your social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:40 AM
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f''+5f'+9f=cos(3x) Go
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:33 AM
3

I think personality has too many dimensions for the concept of a single bar to make sense. I have a lot of specific deal breakers that are each their own bar and then even if you pass the deal breakers there's a certain amount of compatibility/good traits required.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:25 AM
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I would say it's because devaluing the person who rejected you makes it hurt less. If you're actually missing out on someone awesome because you're not good enough that really sucks but if they're just a fat dumb loser and you can do better it doesn't feel so bad. It's an immature response but the motivation makes sense. Girls do this too though not as often as they aren't usually the ones being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:16 AM
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3 is the clear choice, #2 is tempting but I be know it would make me miserable and #1 just wouldn't work, I couldn't force myself to get into it, maybe a 5/10 but not a 2 or 3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:13 PM
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That seems like exactly what OP is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:22 PM
0

The first step of changing the law is gaining support and building awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:51 PM
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That's not the only thing marriage is, but it's what marriage degenerates to if you take away the love and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:35 PM
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Because this happens to men all the time. And as a bonus, a lot of these guys have to pay for their wife's lawyer to screw them over. I think the difference here is that the legal system supports these women in a way it doesn't support men who do the things you talk about. A men leaving a woman as a broke single mom can be forced to pay child support. An abuser can go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:31 PM
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You're the same height as tom cruise, your insecurity over your height is probably more off putting than the height itself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:33 PM
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It's hard to counter biology
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:25 AM
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He meant 'in your face' as in blatantly obvious. Not literally your face. Both face and body matter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:10 AM
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You're vastly exaggerating the risks of weightlifting. I've never heard of a teenager with a permanently bad back from lifting, a 50 year old maybe but teens are resilient
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:09 AM
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5'7" is short enough to hurt your chances but not short enough to make you hopeless. You're just looking for an excuse to be lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:52 AM
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I reject the premise that weightlifting is more likely to cause injury than sports, if done smart it should be much less likely because its a much more controlled environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:50 AM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:36 AM
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yeah working shoulders and chest but never back is a good way to end up with poor posture and a likely injury down the line. You need balance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:35 AM
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it's sad because i doubt they would even mind if people continued to come. they get money either way A gym that has done a good job selling memberships would be overcrowded if everyone came regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:33 AM
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Probably about the same as do now because the belief that looks don't matter is just a self delusion adopted by guys who don't want to put in the work. It is quite obvious to anyone just looking at the world that looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:31 AM
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I don't really mean sorority girls specifically. I was just using it as a stereotype. What I really mean is "the kinds of girls who the boys in my peer group lusted after in high school and college"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:40 PM
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career-oriented Well there's your problem. Men don't want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:02 PM
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Gang members etc wind up incarcerated for huge amounts of time and leave single mothers behind Sorority girls aren't banging gang members though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:58 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:25 AM
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Plus in most transformation pics the person has gained weight yes gaining muscle usually involves gaining weight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:54 AM
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It's more you don't want to put in the work so you're trying to pretend they won't have a big effect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:48 AM
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it really is pathetic how insistent you are that progress is impossible so you have an excuse not to try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:45 AM
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There definitely is, obviously there's some genetic component but a lot of progress can be made
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:39 AM
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I've been in a lot of gyms and I see the progress people make
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:35 AM
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girls can build lower body muscles pretty well, its the upper body thats more of a struggle. Trust me if you do a solid lifting routine with lots of squats for a year you will get a nice butt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:23 AM
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it matters because an attractive guy who likely has many other options hitting on you specifically is an ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:20 AM
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I think it's definitely true that ripped guys are a little cockier and less ready to settle down but I think the b personality correlations are a lot less than women think. The reason for this is that women are interacting with only a subset of men, those on the dating market. Well if you have a ripped guy who is also sweet and loyal and has a good career and wants something serious, he's probably going to find an awesome girlfriend/wife pretty quickly and then he's off the market. So the ripped…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 02:12 AM
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I don't know exactly what you have in mind but from your description I would estimate less than 5% of guys qualify. However it could easily be over 50% if you only look at certain social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 12:21 AM
3

Are you saying they just don't notice the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 10:33 PM
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I'd happily be the trophy husband. My only concern would be if it bothered my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:50 PM
2

I've noticed that there is a disconnect between what men and women consider a "six pack" with women's standards being much much lower
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:34 PM
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The rarity obviously depends on what you consider "ripped". Less than 1% of men can bench press 300lb for example. And that's still not even considered that much weight on bodybuilding/strength training circles. Also if you're the type of girl who typically dates athletic guys and admits to preferring them that still fits with what I'm saying. It's the girls a rung below you who struggle to get these guys who will go around saying they don't even like athletic bodies to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:18 PM
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The reverse happens too. Take any celebrity no matter how ugly and you will be able to find a group of women gushing over his looks. Obviously it's the social status and not the looks that they're into but somehow this comes out as them talking about his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:37 PM
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This study reputes this suggesting more strength = more attractive with no limit But how big was their biggest guy. I doubt he was pro bodybuilder size
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:54 PM
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It's not just to avoid hurting men, it's also to protect their own image. Ripped guys are rare, so most women have mostly dated/hooked up with guys with less than perfect bodies. Admitting that they actually like ripped guys would be admitting that they have a tendency to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:53 PM
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Arresting people for tweets is a huge joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:55 AM
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That's pretty bad, at least there's lawsuits about it so we can't say the practice is fully supported
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:43 AM
2

Can you give an example of a university actually encouraging students not to go to the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:52 AM
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Basically any actions taken by the school should serve in addition to criminal proceedings, not as a replacement. That's already how it works. you can be both expelled from school and prosecuted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:45 AM
2

Especially if we take all ages. 80% of people in their 20s are above average if we compare them to the whole age spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 05:09 AM
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Match.com is an extremely expansive online dating company, the actual study used nearly 6,000 people. Sample size can't eliminate selection bias. Having a big sample size protects against random errors but unless your sample size is literally the whole population you are still prone to systematic errors
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 06:07 PM
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Probably not that big of a deal. By the time she sees your dick sex is pretty much guaranteed. You'd have to have a really small or deformed for a girl to take your pants off and then be like nope sorry I'm going home. There's a small percentage of people who are size queens who will actively seeking out big dicked guys but these are mostly gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:27 PM
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he's the top of his class kinda guy with great career/educational prospects Lol in their dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 02:42 PM
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If he is dishonest like saying he'll be ready soon when he knows he never wants to settle down then yeah that's shitty but if he's honest about his intentions you can't blame him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 10:38 PM
2

So no reward implies no benefit. Sounds like the way you've defined it's just circular
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 11:14 PM
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Not telling is different from lying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:23 AM
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In this context orthogonal means unrelated. Think of it as going in a different direction. Yes, I realize that asking for a paternity test when there is no cause for suspiscion could be offensive but I was merely pointing out that merely asking if you had cheated instead of asking for a test would be pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:55 AM
1

That's completely orthogonal to my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:43 AM
6

How the hell do you rape someone on accident? That doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:19 AM
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Well just asking is worthless, presumably someone who'd cheat would also like about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:45 AM
1

100% agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:39 PM
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I have one friend who has been called bad in bed and didn't seem to care but every other guy i know would be very insulted and takes pride in being good in bed. What's interesting is how different the answers are if you ask women vs men, the vast majority of men claim to be good in bed or at least try to be but lots of women claim that most guys they meet don't care. I don't know what the cause of this is, either men pretend to care but don't or women pretend men didn't care or they don't realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:33 PM
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I don't think a problem that's fixed by being pointed out is what OP is talking about, he means like a girl who won't blow the guy if he asks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:21 PM
1

Just use an aromatase inhibitor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:07 AM
0

If you want more testosterone you can have it right now, its not expensive a single vial will last you several weeks and only costs $20-30
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:05 AM
3

Not a 100% guarantee but a married man is way less likely to be a deadbeat dad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:44 AM
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Men are like this too, that's why strippers get good at pretending. It's just that testosterone gives us a stronger innate drive so when a hot girl who genuinely intensely desires them isn't available some men will settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:41 AM
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not rapists I never at any point said they were not rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:10 AM
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Read the title, this discussion is about whether rapists are motivated by sex or power, that's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:06 AM
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They both didn't stop at "no." They're both guilty of rape. I never said otherwise, can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:01 AM
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The distinction is between someone who seeks out someone who will be unwilling and someone who tried to find someone willing but then when they decide they don't want to participate he decides to do it anyway. The first group is more likely to be convicted because it will be more obvious that there wasn't consent, the second group will likely get away with it because they won't be able to prove it was nonconsensual. If you only look at convicted rapists you will get a skewed view of how common e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:54 PM
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Convicted serial rapist or even just convicted at all is such a skewed sample though. You can't expect the guy who doesn't listen to the no from the drunk girl to have the same motive as the guy who kidnaps a girl and ties her up in his basement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:45 PM
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And there 100 others which are very likely fake
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:39 PM
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free market policies and and the rise of so called "globalism" This makes no sense. Globalist policies like free trade between countries are more free market than the alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 04:53 AM
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coerced Where's the coercion in this story, it seems like he just asked and she did it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:55 AM
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Then you're making a strawman. No one thinks a woman loses her right to say no or leave when she enters the room. What they do think is that a woman who enters the room then actively participates in sex and never says no but then 10 years later claims she was "taken advantage of" is full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:49 AM
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Abducted? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:44 AM
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or the annoying scenario you presented is fine. You consider that a clear violation of consent? the person was not threatened had the choice to say no but chose to say yes. Pestering someone into a yes is a dick move but its not rape
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:42 PM
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You're sticking together different things that different people within TRP want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:14 AM
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The other commenter called him a piece of shit just abbreviated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 05:33 AM
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Why are you dating a piece of human trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 05:06 AM
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I laugh at black pill incels try again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 06:24 PM
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The worst part is living with her parents, that would be really inconvenient especially if they were even a little bit controlling. If I were to date her I'd have to like her so much that I would want to have her move in with me pretty soon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 06:09 PM
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It doesn't guarantee it but I don't think that's the case. What biases do you think I have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 05:14 PM
3

Even official red pill doctrine says you need a little bit of beta for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 04:09 PM
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People are terrible at being objective about their own relationships, I'm more objective than she can be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 03:58 PM
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Its not because I have a penis its because I have an unbiased point of view
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 03:44 PM
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Which means no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 03:24 PM
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Probably mostly the first but that alone isn't enough as an entrepreneur. There's a bit of luck or right place right time that you can't really predict
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 10:17 PM
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I don't encounter them much in my field but many successful entrepreneurs have humble origin stories
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 09:56 PM
2

Some people are obviously going to end up high status like your example of med students but it's not always that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 09:25 PM
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I'd rather kill myself than live a life like this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:50 PM
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Don't improve looks because at least I can have the vague slimmer of hope that I could be attractive if I tried This is definitely an unhealthy attitude. You're basically so scared of failure that you refuse to try, which ironically guarantees failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:45 PM
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It isn't. That's not how the law works, feminists just lie and say it is and they've succeeded in convincing a lot of guys on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 07:42 PM
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Then you're posting in the wrong thread. That could happen sober. That's not what the op was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 07:35 PM
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Are we talking about false accusations here or about whether the law considers having sex with a drunk but conscious and saying yes woman rape? Those are two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 07:28 PM
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That's just the court of public opinion not the actual law
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 07:10 PM
3

Blacked out is different from passed out, you can be blacked out and still awake and aware of what's going on and capable of making decisions. You just don't remember the next day because your short term memories weren't properly converted to long term memories
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 05:07 PM
1

Adding to this "intoxicated her" means slipping her drugs without her knowledge. Offering her drugs or drinks that she freely accepts is her intoxicating herself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 05:04 PM
0

That's feminist lies, the actual laws don't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 04:59 PM
3

In my opinion, ghosting should never, ever happen when you've met someone face-to-face in real life and spent some time with them. How hard is it to say "sorry, I'm not attracted to you"? At one time, it wouldn't have happened. Now it's normal from both men and women. I don't think ghosting is good but you have to understand that part of the reason it happens is some people get really shitty when you reject them so people want to avoid that possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 02:10 AM
1

Language is descriptive not prescriptive, there is no objectively correct use of the terms. But if you use the term differently than 99% of people you're just communicating badly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 07:54 PM
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If your classification system counts elon musk as umc its just old money snootiness and not how most people use the term
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 06:56 PM
2

My point is that feminists claim that a fetus is not a life "Alive" is irrelevant. Bacteria are alive. The real question is "does its life have value?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:38 PM
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If she wants mfm she must be ready to have fmf next I guess it depends on what you mean by "she wants mfm" if you mean its something she expects then I agree but if she's just like "that'd be nice to try but if you're not down its fine" then I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 06:17 PM
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So what class is s self made billionaire? Because by this definition they're not upper class but it would be absurd to call them upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:03 PM
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Exactly, I would say that's the attitude of the majority of men except with the genders flipped. If she was expecting a threesome with another I think that would be unreasonable but if she is also OK with no threesome ever its normal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:27 PM
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Using whether or not they show up in auto complete as a proxy for search volume seems lazy, google makes the actual search volume available
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:19 PM
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I think its best if they find your linkedin but not your facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:17 PM
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I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks things they've done are none of my business. Honesty and openness are key
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:27 AM
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Its a hypothetical scenario and the op specifically says this is not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:27 AM
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I'm gonna guess most women would go with neither. Solitude isn't gonna make an ugly guy attractive and its jot gonna change your sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:26 AM
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Why am I compromising my hypergamy to stay faithful and true to him, Well the idea is that if he's the best man around (or the best you have a chance with) you're not compromising anything. If every man had multiple wives the average quality of man a woman could get would go up since high quality men would marry multiple women and low quality men wouldn't marry anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:11 AM
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Take age into account and its even easier to be top 1%. If you're under 30 150k/year is top 1% in personal income
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 01:51 AM
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Why do people think that they'll get meaningful response by posting threads like this? Obviously everyone who posts is going to say no. The women who do have back ups will either not post or lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 01:17 AM
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However the respect for the union is sometimes not directly correlated to the health of the union. It can definitely be unhealthy and respected but I'm not sure it could be disrespected but healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 02:06 AM
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A nonphysical emotional affaur doesn't always mean she respects the union but cheating on whim does always mean she doesn't respect the union (or if she does she has no self control which is also terrible)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:45 AM
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She wasn't banned from running. She dropped out because she was losing public support
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:33 AM
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What good is respect as a politician after you've already resigned?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:33 AM
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Depends on your perspective. In my other comment I gave a different way of looking at things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:28 AM
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Another way to look at it is that if all it took to cause her to betray you was a couple drinks and one night of flirting then you must be totally worthless but if she resists getting physical with a guy even after feelings build up for months then you must have value to her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:23 AM
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The visceral reaction happens because sex causes pregnancy. Historically men who didn't have that visceral reaction got cucked and thus didn't pass on their genes as effectively
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:09 AM
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I was just clarifying because you said current stats are fine until we get better data when I think the vast majority of them are not fine because they are reported in misleading ways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 10:50 PM
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Because you said stats the way they are now is fine I disagreed because currently it is very common for people to act like the provably false number is the total false number and everything else is true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 10:47 PM
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As to the stats they way they are now, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to use proven cases if there’s no better information out there. If 5% of cases are provably false 10% are provably true and end in a conviction and the other 85% are inconclusive then it is complete BS to say 95% of rape accusations are true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 10:41 PM
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That's some pretty worthless love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:12 AM
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. It is possible to love one person and have sex with another you know. If its an open relationship then sure but if you have a secret affair after promising to be monogamous then that's betrayal. If you can casually betray someone you don't actually love them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 12:08 AM
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The methodology that gets published in psychology makes me proud to have a math degree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:32 PM
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Not always but its not an uncommon situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:37 PM
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Until recent times But recent times is what we're talking about. If we were talking about decades ago I might agree that the stereotype was that women were generally less intelligent but I don't think that holds any more. Go tell a bunch of manly men about your new book of poems and see how manly they consider you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:35 PM
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The stereotype is that women are much less intelligent than men, Not really. The stereotype is that men are better at math and related subjects (cs, physics) but not necessarily smarter. Subjects like writing take intelligence but are seen as more feminine. The masculine counterpart to your stereotypical Feminine woman would be someone who works in construction and only cares about beer and sports
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 06:48 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.usatoday.com/amp/835739001 Looks like all men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 03:21 AM
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It was antagonistic to Palestinians. This guy was from Bangladesh. Did he say that was his reasoning? If not I think its a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 03:03 AM
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Accusations from men, he's gay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 02:55 AM
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It wouldn't bother me but my income is in the top 1% for my age group so I can afford to pay for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 02:22 AM
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He's a workaholic trying to change the world and taking on several projects at once. That doesn't leave a lot of time for romance so his love life has suffered. Seems pretty reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 10:41 PM
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Well then you might actually fall in the group of men who actually don't care about money. Its not that these guys font exist they're just less common than guys who claim to be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 12:03 PM
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That's like half the country. Everywhere except the coasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 10:35 PM
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Men are answering based upon their ideal lives. In their ideal world they would make tons of money and thus it wouldn't matter how much money their gf made they could pay for everything like it was nothing. In reality few men achieve this level of success so money ends up being an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 10:34 PM
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Bros before hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:08 AM
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Every chick is a hot chick for the first part of her life, No. There are plenty of ugly young women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 11:40 PM
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The thing about sexual selection is that its self propagating even if the initial impulse was random.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 11:41 PM
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This isn't a case where there is some compelling evidence but not quite enough to be beyond a reasonable doubt. This is a case where the evidence isn't compelling at all. Its not even just he said she said. There is even a witness who says she never said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 05:00 AM
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Its not flashing if you ask first, its still a little creepy to ask that of someone you just met in a lot of circumstances but its different from flashing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 12:58 AM
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I don't get it either. I don't want to be loved for who i am even though I'm not really that awesome. I want to actually be that awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 11:14 PM
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Trans people are the .1% they don't meaningfully impact gender ratios
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 11:07 PM
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Confidence is attractive in anybody Only when its backed up by competence. There is nobody more annoying than the guy/girl everyone else in the room knows is wrong but refuses to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 01:04 PM
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I party hard and still think she's a mess. Its not what shes doing its why. Partying to have fun is a fine thing to do, especially while you're young and free. Partying to escape from your emotional problems instead of confronting them is very unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:40 PM
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You said both of these things None of that sounds all that psychotic . It's psychotic when anyone does it. Which do you actually believe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:17 PM
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wants something he values while not possessing it himself I bet he also wants a partner with boobs despite not having them himself. Hypocrite!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 11:08 PM
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Its kind of basic logic. The definition of a good person is one who acts in a morally good way therefore being a good person is the morally correct thing to do. Now there is a lot of debate on what morality means, is it objective, is it subjective, does it even mean anything etc. Pick up a textbook on moral philosophy if you want to learn more about that debate, but no matter what moral formulation you choose it follows from simple definition that if there is such a thing as a morally good perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 02:41 AM
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Life is probably a lot less unfair than you think and you're just imagining yourself to be a victim so you don't have to accept any responsibility for your own plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:04 PM
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I used to conform and try to live up to expectations. That's stage 2 not 3 So why bother doing it if you're going to get nothing out of it? You seem to be incapable of separating "what benefits me" and "what is morally right" they're not the same and you shouldn't expect them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 06:58 PM
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I was already Stage 3, it didn't lead to anything or work out for me. So why bother with it? No you were never stage 3. This line of reasoning is utter nonsense from a stage 3 perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 06:51 PM
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It seems like you don't really understand morality. Kolberg would say that you're stuck at level 1 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_Kohlberg%27s_stages_of_moral_development
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 06:06 PM
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Personally I really think we need to stop using the term alt right. It's too confusing and hurts communication. Some people use it to mean alternative right, ie anyone on the right who doesn't fit the traditional christian republican model. But then other times its used to mean specifically white nationalists. This confusion is fueled by both the left and the white nationalists themselves, Richard Spencer claims to be leading the alt right movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 06:00 PM
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Because its the right thing to do. Morality is not based on what brings you reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 05:55 PM
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Depends on your definition of alt right. Trump is not alt right in the Richard Spencer sense and neither are the people getting elected in europe. That kind of alt right is a tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 04:44 PM
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Doesn't sound like you'll ever be a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 04:39 PM
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Tons as an absolute number but still only a small percentage of people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 06:04 PM
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The cops and legislators are actually doing fine. Having sex with a drunk but not incapacitated person isn't considered rape legally no matter how many times feminists lie and say it is. It's the college administration that's fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 10:47 PM
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I don't think lowering the drinking age would change much. College students don't have much trouble getting alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 10:43 PM
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Freedom is the cornerstone of western civilization. Go to singapore if you hate it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:11 AM
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Because getting rid of the sex drive doesn't mean getting rid of the desire to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:01 AM
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We should outlaw cotton farming too, it has a long history of slavery and abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:00 AM
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maybe the nordic model of only punishing the customers but not in places where the prostitutes are punished too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 01:58 AM
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thats only because those studies define human trafficking so broadly it becomes meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 01:56 AM
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why do you associate with people like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 01:55 AM
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Casinos are legal in many places and prostitution is rarely prosecuted and life goes on just fine. those are just the excuses of freedom hating puritans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 01:54 AM
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If she didn't know then how is she fucked up? That's not her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 10:59 AM
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Nobel prizes are super rare. It would be pretty dumb to have a checkbox for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 11:30 PM
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It's really not that close to flawless. But part of the reason it looks good is that this chart isn't looking at the messaging stats of individual people it's looking at group averages. So all traits besides income get averaged out. A hot guy with low income will get more messages than an ugly guy with high income but for every hot guy with low income and ugly guy with high income there's an ugly guy with low income and a hot guy with high income averaging them out (well not exactly as there pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 10:45 PM
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It's not a specific box but you can put it in your bio
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 10:44 PM
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A Nobel prize winning physicist is more successful than a mid tier corporate exec even if he makes less money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 10:42 PM
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It's really not that close to flawless. But part of the reason it looks good is that this chart isn't looking at the messaging stats of individual people it's looking at group averages. So all traits besides income get averaged out. A hot guy with low income will get more messages than an ugly guy with high income but for every hot guy with low income and ugly guy with high income there's an ugly guy with low income and a hot guy with high income averaging them out (well not exactly as there pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 10:41 PM
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I just find it hard to care about things which only affect the peasants /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 01:19 AM
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It's like 90% of the people I interact with in my day to day life though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 01:09 AM
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Maybe low class men will get less casual sex but it wouldn't change anything for upper middle class and above people. Single motherhood just isn't part of the equation for these people. We use condoms and birth control and if all that fails there's always abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:53 AM
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What "too drunk to consent" should mean is too drunk to communicate a yes or no or too drunk to understand that someone is having sex with you. If alcohol is the only substance involved it's rare for someone to fit this description while being able up maintain consciousness though with other drugs involved I have seen it a few times but it's still not common. Even when I'm completely fucked up I'm usually not too intoxicated to consent. However feminists have Co opted the term "too drunk to cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 12:48 AM
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You seem to be answering a question the OP didn't ask. You are answering the question "if someone gets drunk and is assaulted are they to blame for it" that's completely different than what the OP was talking about. They were taking about if it is possible for someone to get drunk and have consensual sex or if all sex with someone who is drunk is necessarily non consensual
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 12:40 AM
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If they're sober enough to walk into the tattoo parlor and ask for a tattoo they're sober enough to consent and they have no right to claim to have been victimized by the tattoo artist. Any law that says otherwise is a bad law. Now if they were carried into the tattoo parlor and didn't know what was happening that would be different. Sex is the same way. If they know what's happening they can consent. The vast majority of the time if someone is conscious they are aware if someone is trying to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 12:37 AM
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These are answers I see every day when a man asks what a woman has to offer online, he shoots down anything she says she can offer. Nothing is good enough for men. Those are just words of bitter men trying to make themselves feel better about their failure with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 09:22 PM
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we still always ask each other if they want to have sex first Do you really never just go based on body language?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:50 PM
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The first one is a valid concern but I was specifically addressing the second part
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 12:04 AM
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Not unless he's super awkward about it. People get rejected all the time without being seen as creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 10:32 PM
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doesn't find out she's pregnant on time to get an abortion, This is incredibly rare and mostly only happens to idiots. Seriously animals know when they're pregnant how dumb can you be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 10:12 PM
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It isn't easy to tell someone to take your family to a big city, and start over. You think it was easy for the Irish who left their home country when the famine hit? Of course not. It was a lot harder than moving from rural WV to a city. But they did it because they had to. The very problem with rural America now is that with social services we give them just enough to keep them lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 12:57 PM
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Millennial here, I love boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 03:09 AM
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medicate ourselves into euphoric half awake bliss all the time Any opiate addict will tell you that as time goes on it starts being a lot less blissful. Tolerance is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 04:23 PM
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99.9% of men will never inspire blatant approach in women, it is not a failure on a man's part if he doesn't. Yes it it. 0.1% or die
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:55 PM
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99.9% of men will never inspire blatant approach in women, it is not a failure on a man's part if he doesn't I disagree. I have high standards for myself. If I'm cannot ever be apart of that .1% I might as well kill myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 04:18 PM
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$50/hr works out to about $100k/year that's not quite upper class but it is well above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 03:13 AM
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It would benefit a woman who doesn't mind sharing because it would skew the gender ratio and make it easier for her to get with a high RMV guy. Most women do mind sharing though, even if they aren't the jealous type they might mind the reduced attention and time together from having to share so I think overall this wouldn't be a great system for many women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 12:58 PM
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Some of them do but it's not that abnormal if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 08:47 AM
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age 12 she still had no interest in boys That's totally normal. 12 is really young. It's common to not start really noticing the other sex until high school (14-15)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 11:59 PM
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I think most people men or women would be upset by this, it's pretty shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 11:50 PM
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I love meat but I wouldn't put it on the same level as sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 11:15 AM
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It sucks for them. They're missing out on one of the best parts of life because they're brain isn't wired to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:07 AM
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You say that like all open relationships are like that. I mean I know some are but it's not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 02:54 AM
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If you're within the normal range not much but if you believe something that someone finds ridiculous or morally unacceptable then it's going to be a big turn off unless you hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 02:13 AM
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Don't worry about my feelings worry about your own ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 06:30 PM
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It's possible to use recreational drugs safely. It's never completely risk free but nothing ever is you. Sports, driving, traveling by airplane etc. all carry risks but if done the right way the risks are very manageable and they can be worth it. I claim the same as is true for recreational drugs and dismissing the possiblity of even friendship with someone because they partake is nothing but ignorance on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:57 PM
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I'm just totally not interested nor curious. . I'm curious What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:52 PM
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Anti vaxxers are delusional and actively harming children. I don't think that's a fair comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:52 PM
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I guess I have such a high natural curiosity about everything that I can't relate. Why aren't you curious? What if they were awesome and could make your life better? Wouldn't you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:19 PM
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I don't think it's that inaccurate. If you feel an aversion to drugs but can't articulate a precise reason why it's probably because you've absorbed the narrative pushed by the way on drugs. This narrative contains a lot of falsehoods about what drugs and drug users are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:03 PM
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brainwash? So you're saying you might have been brainwashed? You seem very casual about that. I would expect someone to be more resistant if they thought that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:58 AM
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But I'm repulsed by drugs in general Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:53 AM
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. It's just a preference though. Why are most men judgemental towards fat chicks? Because they find it unattractive and unhealthy. Same here. Its not the same because you said for friendships too. I couldnt date a fat or ugly person but I could still be friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 11:52 AM
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What an absurd thing to say. If you got anally raped would you blame yourself for not being bi or gay and thus enjoying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:00 AM
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Something being a red flag is different than something automatically making you a horrible, unredeemable person. I mean I would also called ever having cheated on a partner to be a big red flag but that doesn't mean I think everyone who cheated once should die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:16 PM
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I would never be with someone who did recreational drugs, hard stop. Either as a lover or a friend. Why so judgmental?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:08 PM
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reformed alcoholics This is a huge red flag. I mean sure it's better than being a current alcoholic but it doesn't say good things about their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:02 PM
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You should try drugs. Swallowing a pill of Xanax (or any other benzo) is tasteless and it hits GABA receptors just like alcohol so you'll get a similar disinhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:59 PM
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One drink doesn't make a real difference in someone's behaviour anyways OP mentioned the club/party scene. That's not the place where people typically have 1 drink
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:21 PM
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Agreed. One of my favorite quotes (possibly paraphrased) is "Those who've got what it takes will always find a way, those who don't will always find an excuse"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:22 PM
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I don't think that's true. Some people genuinely need time alone and find having too big of a social circle exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:59 PM
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. If you were content as you were but forced yourself to lose weight only to attract a boyfriend/girlfriend, then you're changing for others instead of yourself. The way I see it no one should ever be content with mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:53 PM
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It seems that he is assuming everyone is as extroverted as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:43 PM
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There's a minority of men that really are that desperate. Men in this group like to overestimate how common it is to be like them because it makes them feel less pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:33 PM
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Chris Brown went to jail so I don't see how that's an example of getting away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 09:10 PM
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Coastal white guy here. The thought of my future wife having a high n count makes me physically ill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 10:17 PM
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It would suck for the extremely poor and disabled as some would slip through the cracks and not get helped by private charity but the average American would be able to substitute with private insurance/savings and not have much change to quality of life. There would also be some positive effects from removing the distortions to the market and perverse incentives that these programs create.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:57 PM
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No it wasn't. It was grossly exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:37 PM
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The CDC reports medians The median of a set of integers can never be 3.2 it might not be exactly the mean they're reporting but it's not the median either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:30 PM
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I have never experienced that. How can you be so sure? It's subconscious so you wouldn't know. Most men who fall in love out of desperation would deny that that's what's happening but it's often obvious from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:24 PM
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The fear is subconscious and it drives the person to consciously feel connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:04 PM
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Lol what planet do men tend to do this on Scarcity mentality. Men who can't get sex for a long time will become very attracted to the first woman who actually gives it to them because subconsciously they are worried if they let her go they might never find another one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:58 AM
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You clearly don't understand how the world works. Big brother is the Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 10:19 PM
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No one consented to being born therefore people have no right to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 10:18 PM
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The spices aren't there to cover up the original. The spices are the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 10:00 PM
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Stupid girls are fucking annoying Ignorance and low intelligence are only annoying when they're accompanied by confidence. As long as they know they're not smart they can be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 07:04 PM
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Claimed. Most people are skeptical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:15 AM
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plate spinning Plate spinning just means casually hanging out with multiple girls but not getting in a relationship with any of them? What exactly do you object to about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:56 AM
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If financial abortion becomes a legal process how do you restrict access to the child that the father has given up? What if he changes his mind after In that scenario the father would have exactly the same legal rights as any other man who isn't the father but wanted to have a relationship with the child. It's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 09:21 PM
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If you date a girl who makes significantly less money than you then will inevitably end up spending a lot of money on her. Let's say you want to go to a concert. If you were single you would just buy one ticket but now that you're in a relationship you're probably going to want to go together and so you need two tickets. At this point you have two options you can either pay for her ticket too or you can only go to shows where she can afford to pay her own way. If you make a lot more than her the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:03 AM
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It's far more common than most people will admit. . It's definitely not an ideal relationship dynamic for either party but it's really all some people can ever get without putting more effort into self improvement so they settle for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 05:18 PM
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If you make a Tinder profile with a model's pictures all you have to go off of is looks but you'll still get some crazy responses that a normal looking guy who just passed the threshold will never ever see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:42 PM
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Women expecting and demanding male beauty Where? I don't see it. Women aren't demanding anything it's just of a guy isn't super hot they don't treat him like he's super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:18 PM
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the idea that a man would be so viscerally beautiful that (sober) women would want to fuck him on the spot is pure, unadulterated projection of male sexuality. women don't work like that. attractiveness for women is a threshold... if you cross it you'll be considered on your other merits. I don't think this is true. Look at how movie stars and models get treated. They're not just passing the threshold. Men who are hot enough to totally blow a woman away with just their looks do exist they're jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:17 PM
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Some people will only or primarily want to be tops and some only or primarily want to be bottoms
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 12:30 PM
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The top is the one penetrating the bottom is the one being penetrated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:37 AM
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most people aren't into bdsm I think you misunderstood the question. Top/bottom isn't a bdsm thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:19 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x_CpIbhkZco "If they're too drunk to drive they're to drunk to consent. Period" The fact that she can say this on a video with 3 million views and not be seen as crazy by a large percentage of those viewers is a huge problem. That statement is completely absurd. Drunk people are absolutely still capable of making decisions and understanding what they're doing. You don't even have to be that drunk to be "too drunk to drive". Defining all drunk sex to be rape is not o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 03:00 AM
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Ooh yeah, I forgot if you get a girl drunk at a party you can do whatever you'd like to her and it's perfectly fine!!! You do realize that drunk people are capable of saying "no" don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:46 AM
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Keep living in cuck liberal fantasy land. Back in the real world penis sleeves will never not be pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:38 PM
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That's so emasculating. A girl could never continue to respect a guy who had to use a sleeve to satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 08:33 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:17 AM
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Not that you know about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:16 AM
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Having back ups is a lot different than cheating. And you know she just saying that because she has back ups and she doesn't want to be a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:15 AM
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, and start working on getting back-ups, and not tell her until you're firmly established with other women. What does everyone think? I think anyone who uses that strategy is a spineless piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:02 AM
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8 is definitely airbrushed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 01:32 AM
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You ask her what she wants to eat You suggest something She says ok and you go out to eat. Done. If that's how it happened there would be a lot less complaining. What really happens is You ask her what she wants She says I don't know, you pick You suggest something She says no I don't want that Repeat that last two steps several times
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 11:27 PM
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The hot guy got way farther than the average guy with every group of women, for the exact same actions/words. Well obviously. Who would ever think b that wouldn't be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 09:55 PM
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. I've had women admit to me outright that the same behavior will be viewed differently based on whether the man in question is attractive or not. Duh. Why would anyone ever not think this was true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 09:54 PM
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A girl will very rarely make the first hard move but they will make it increasingly obvious that they want you to make a move
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:43 AM
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Not true at all. Sending some less blatant IOIs and gauging her response is the best way to figure out if she's interested. Ideally you should already have a good indication that she's into you before you do the hard approach. It makes things go far smoother and saves you from awkward situations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:04 AM
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It's a learned skill. I used to be completely oblivious to when a girl was into me but I got a lot better over time. I find it's even easier to recognize now that I have a girlfriend. Since I'm not trying to hook up with girls or anything out lets me view situations more objectively. I still miss them sometimes though. I've had conversations where afterwards my girlfriend is a little jealous and she's like "you do know that girl was totally coming onto you right?" And I'm like "what? I thought s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:08 AM
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I think it's pretty ridiculous to say that IOIs don't exist. Anyone who's not autistic can recognize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:16 AM
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You respect her for being a cheater? I mean I agree it's better that she doesn't make excuses but it's still not behavior that inspires respect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 12:12 PM
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Not really. Most people wouldn't call geometry and arithmetic liberal arts at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 12:10 AM
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Language evolves. That might be what the term "liberal arts" originally meant but it's not how it's typically used in modern discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 12:03 AM
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Depends on which STEM degree. An undergrad degree in engineering or CS is fine an undergrad degree in biology or chemistry is pretty hard to get a job with without a grad degree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 09:53 PM
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Because they don't have quite that much power. Abortion was found to be constitutionally protected and changing that is really hard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:52 PM
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Over here in America that obscure group of weirdos has a lot of political power
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:23 PM
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Conservative Christians do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 11:54 AM
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I've had acid dropped on sweet tarts. You could easily do the same to an ecstasy tablet. I agree that this is pretty unlikely though. More likely the guy thought it was spiked because he was used to getting "molly" that was actually speed and this was his first time with actual Molly and he didn't know what it was supposed to feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 11:53 AM
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Averaged faces tend to produce a more attractive result than the typical member of the group. This is because some flaws cancel. IE if some people have eyes too close together and some have eyes too far apart the average will still be perfect. The averaging also seems to have the effect of softening certain features because the average of a group of people who all have angular faces but the angles are different could be a round face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:32 AM
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That's relying on the assumption that there is an even representation of bi and lesbian women. It would be just as (if not more) fair to assume that there is an outsized representation of gay women, in which case the conclusion you drew would be incorrect. People committing robbery aren't lashing out. They are trying to get money. Rich people don't do this because they don't need money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 11:23 PM
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Interesting, it seems reasonable but I think the fact that it focuses on convicted rapists is a flaw. The majority of rapists are never convicted and certain types of rape are a lot more likely to lead to conviction than others. More violent rapes leave a lot of evidence that a crime was committed but less violent rapes often leave evidence indistinguishable from consensual sex which makes conviction very difficult. For this reason I think this likely overestimates the percent of rapists in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 11:21 PM
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Chubby vs six-pack is a question of body fat percentage not muscularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 11:11 PM
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I make enough money already. I don't need a high income partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 10:57 PM
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People upvote it because it makes them feel better about themselves. People who do get matches get to feel special and people who don't, get to feel like they're not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 11:20 PM
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No. Welfare is a complete non factor in the decision making of upper middle class people and sexual dynamics in that group have still changed a lot over the past few decades. Birth control is probably the biggest factor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 08:42 PM
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Holy shit! That article is straight up proof that the men's rights movement needs to exist. Like it starts out and you think it's going to be reasonable and talk about how violence is never OK. But then by the end the author is straight up laughing at victims of abuse. Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 01:04 AM
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He meant the person who down voted you was probably a blue piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:35 PM
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If a guy is hot the only other thing he needs to get laid is the ability to have a conservation without coming off as a weirdo. I guess that's one more thing than a hot girl needs but it's not exactly a high bar
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:04 PM
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You should become Chad. It's the only life worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:45 PM
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There's no winning. Just file it under "don't get married." More like "don't get married to a shitty woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:42 PM
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I think this Male fetishes are a lot more specific and deviant. Is in large part a result of the fact that many men have trouble finding sex with people they're attracted to. Guys who can get laid easily with attractive partners don't tend to develop weird fetishes. It's guys who spend years with only their hand and pen that hey bored enough to start looking at the weird shit. Or guys who can only get ugly girls, having sex with an ugly girl isn't very arising so they need to find an alternative…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:11 PM
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, just that they're, unwittingly, not painting the whole picture. That's the same as calling them wrong. You're just phrasing it more diplomatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:01 PM
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But a lot of people are in the exact same situation as you but then they either lie or delude themselves into thinking that their current partner is exactly their preference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:57 PM
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That doesn't mean people are wrong about their preferences It actually does mean that. How could it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:21 PM
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a lot of guys seem to encourage the double standards like saying "That 11 year old was sure lucky". 11 is young enough that I doubt many people will think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:22 PM
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Morals=/= religion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:39 AM
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Lots of guys are like that but not all of them or almost all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:43 AM
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Seems like almost every guy does one of the two options at some point of their life. Not at all. Plenty of guys only do relationships and plenty of other guys are able to get casual sex without making false promises of future commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:21 AM
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For the majority of men working on getting lean, muscular, well dressed and well groomed is a much better way to become more attractive. After you do all those things if you still want plastic surgery then consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:02 PM
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I think the connection between that look and personality is much weaker than you assume
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:47 AM
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Yeah that's all in your head. Plenty of girls with great personalities wear make up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:24 AM
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That's what guys who can't get hot girls try to convince themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:09 AM
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Translation: I'm ugly and bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:58 AM
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They're not different. Thundercock is just a humorous last name that was added
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:49 PM
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I think you need to add that the girl is hot. A guy who has an ugly girl all over him isn't Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:42 PM
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in ways that i couldn't have defended myself against if they chose to pursue really hard. What do you mean? Even if we lowered the age of consent it would still be rape if the teen said 'no'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:02 PM
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You might understand that but a lot of feminists don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:29 PM
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If the law is concerning something that varies from state to state then it makes sense for the laws to vary. Whether something is rape is not something that varies from state to state so variance in laws makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:34 PM
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Which age leaves the least bitter taste in your mouth? We shouldn't make laws based on bitter tastes in our mouths. Plenty of things are disgusting but shouldn't be illegal. People who enjoy scat play and 60yr olds fucking 18yr olds both disgust me but I don't think either should be illegal because they're both just people making their own choices not affecting anyone else. When you make something illegal you're not just saying "I wish people wouldn't engage in this behavior" you're saying "this…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:42 PM
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That varies by location which honestly doesn't make a whole lot of sense. How can something be rape in one state and totally fine in another state. In think that absurdity exposes a clear issue with the current system
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:11 PM
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That's what the age of consent actually will be but that's not the same as what it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:07 PM
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Furthermore he was accused of assault by a total of 3 people. These weren't independent accounts though. The other accusers were encouraged by Emma to make their reports
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:11 PM
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Go on a weekend or call in sick or anything. I'm not saying this isn't a shitty situation for some women I'm just saying that any women who doesn't have an abortion because she "doesn't have time" is an absolute idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:47 AM
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So maybe a couple days instead of one day. It's still thousands of times less than the commitment of raising a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:41 AM
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Some places/situations might make it inconvenient but it's still nothing compared to the cost of raising a child
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:40 AM
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Don't have time for an abortion? What the hell? It's one fucking day vs 18 years of being responsible for a kid. She can find the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:32 AM
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Even if a state passed a heartbeat bill it would be unconstitutional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:30 AM
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Roe v Wade would make any such law unconstitutional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:29 AM
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Then have an abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:13 AM
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the abortion window (as early as 6 weeks in some states That's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:12 AM
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No it's not. Go look up some people from ancient times, plenty lived past 70. The first example I thought of was Archimedes. He lived to be 75. Plato lived to be 79 or 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 01:25 AM
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I know the mean age for this sub is about 16 or 17, so for all you millenials Someone who's 16 wouldn't be a millennial they'd be GenZ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:34 PM
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The only reason people got married so young in the "good old days" is that they were probably going to die at 35 anyway so may as well get started asap to proliferate the species. That's not how life expectancy works. When people say life expectancy used to be 35 it doesn't mean people were old and dying at 35. It means half the people died as babies and the other half lived to be 70 (well not exactly but you get the picture)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 09:46 PM
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I guess so. I was just going off what was posted because unless there is further text clarifying it it gives some very odd conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:48 PM
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Well I just know that I would never do anything bad and I didn't need a workshop to teach me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:48 PM
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In both of those cases you cite, there is no rape and it is consensual in law and in fact. I know. That was my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:46 PM
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A person with regular old depression or anxiety or the like is not incapable of consenting They are according to the Kentucky law you posted. Obviously this is ridiculous but that just means the law makers fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:26 PM
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He's not super masculine but he's definitely not ugly. Girls who are into the cute look could easily be attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:09 PM
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They mean mental deficiency like retardation. It lists intellectual disabilities and mental illness as two separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:04 PM
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That KY one is ridiculous. Anyone with a mental illness is incapable of consent? That's ridiculous. Maybe if they're bad enough to be institutionalized but mental illness includes things like depression and it would be absurd to say depression makes you incapable of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:55 PM
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People who post on reddit and people who would go to a meet up are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:50 PM
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Yelling is a tool used by people when they're wrong but don't want to admit it. If you're right you don't need to yell, the truth will come out in the end. There's a certain confidence behind a man who can remain calm and yet unyielding when others tempers run hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:39 PM
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It's generally very easy for a woman to get casual sex with a man in a similar attractiveness bracket as get. The thing is the average woman doesn't want this, she either doesn't want casual sex at all or only wants it with men in higher attractiveness brackets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:18 PM
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But a normal well meaning guy who probably did think it was cool to have sex with a sleeping girl if she's in your bed would learn a thing. Well meaning guys don't need workshops to tell them not to have sex with unconscious people. Only creepy losers need that. However I admit there are a lot of creepy losers out there so perhaps these classes could do some good. But only if they were run well, which they wouldn't be. They'd be run by idiotic zealots who think having sex with a drunk girl is ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:36 PM
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It's actually not. If you look up the actual laws just being drunk doesn't invalidate consent. That's a lie perpetuated by people who wish the law worked that way. Someone is only incapable of consenting if they're unconscious or totally unaware of what's happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:24 PM
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I thought you were arguing that a man needs to hear some version of, "Yes, I want to make the sex with you right now." before he takes her clothes off or anything. Well maybe you should try not putting words in my mouth. I never said anything like that. Of course I know that consent can be expressed nonverbally. However consent can also be expressed verbally and thus it's silly to say, as the person I was responding to did, that "consent is unrelated to what she says". That's all I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:12 PM
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Consent doesn't have to be enthusiastic to be real consent. A wife who says "I'm not super in the mood right now but I know you have needs so we can have sex if you want" is obviously not an ideal situation for any party involved but it's still consent. It's not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 02:58 PM
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You know why? Because consent is really fucking simple. Consent = she wants it and would be very happy to get fucked right now. Not consent = she doesn't i.e the above is not transparently true. It's actually not that simple. You can consent to something without really wanting it. Maybe she's just doing it to satisfy her husband even though she didn't really want it at the moment. Maybe she's a prostitute who is only doing it for the money. Consent doesn't mean wanting it, it means agreeing to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:42 PM
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Under my definition of rape there has to be signs of physical/sexual trauma or induced unconsciousness. So if a guy pulls out a gun and threatens to kill a girl unless she does exactly as he says and then makes her have sex with him would that be rape? I think it obviously would but it didn't fit your definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:20 PM
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There are other ways for sex to be non-consensual. What if one person was unconscious? What if one person threatened to kill the others family if they didn't do as they said? Neither of those would be consent but they also wouldn't leave signs of a struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:16 PM
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The things that make you popular with your male friends mean absolutely nothing to women. I don't know what your specific friend group is like but for many friend groups I don't think this is true at all. Things like a good sense of humor, confidence, ambition etc will help you be more popular with both genders. It is stupid to assume any woman is less experienced than you are. Unless you're a virgin there are women out there less experienced than you. If you think a woman might be having sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:33 AM
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Unless there is an explicit agreement of "it's okay for you to have sex with me while I'm asleep" then penetrating an unconscious is always assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:51 PM
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im fairly lean I didn't say "fairly lean" I said 8%. The face changes a lot in those last few percent, especially for people with worse genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:46 PM
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You have more control over your face than you think. A good hair cut and facial hair trim plus good hygiene and a low body fat goes a long way. That last one is key for men. The vast majority of men will have a pretty decent jaw line of they get down to 8% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:22 PM
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For casual sex yes but not for relationships. In monogamous relationships it's impossible for all women to be punching up the numbers just don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 11:52 PM
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First off feeling disgust isn't an insecurity it's just a feeling. Second off I'm not projecting I'm making an educated guess. I know a large percent of men feel the way I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 11:50 PM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:55 PM
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I suspect deep down inside OP feels the same way as me. He's just using the cheating thing as a rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:01 PM
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The cheating concern is just an afterthought. The real reason is that the thought of the girl I love getting fucked by two dicks at once is just disgusting. I'd rather be with a girl who doesn't make me feel gross inside when I think about the life she's lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:10 PM
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It's technically possible if the guy is really weak and the girl is like an Amazon but even then he probably wouldn't stay hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:05 PM
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I don't think that's true. If someone is having sex with an unconscious person and there's no prior agreement that that's okay that's always rape. It's just that OP wouldn't really mind if he was raped in that manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:03 PM
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The only kind of mutual masturbating I've ever heard of is through a webcam or sexting. It makes no sense to do it in the same room.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:58 PM
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I think anal is less standard than you're making it out to be. In a straight relationship the only point of anal is to say you've tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:48 PM
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Well this isn't a conversation I would go a long time without having so I can assume this would be in the beginning stages of courtship. It would probably turn me off and cause me to not make things more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:48 AM
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I left out personality compatibility because it is arguably considered important universally for both men and women. That doesn't make any sense. Everyone thinks it's important but that doesn't mean everyone thinks it's number 1. Some guys would be willing to date a bitchy girl if she was hot enough, other guys wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:17 AM
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But why wouldn't you just only hire Jane and girls like her and pay them all $12/hr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:05 AM
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It's not a strawman when a lot of people actually believe that women get paid less than men for equal work just because they're women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:38 AM
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Failing to do things that you know will be good for you long term because they are difficult in the short term
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:59 PM
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intelligence is a skill that can be increased over time with some effort. No not really. You can increase your knowledge but intelligence is mostly static. I think beauty is far more malleable than intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:18 PM
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I'd rather be smart if I had to choose but it would really suck to have to pick only one as I'm already both right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:14 PM
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Maybe more like 18% but he had very little muscle definition I doubt he's 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:38 PM
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He's like 20% in that pic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:21 PM
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Maybe you don't but some of the women on here seem to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 10:57 AM
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What case are you taking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:43 AM
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Here's a pic with his shirt off http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-sZxHo87Iahg/TeVClEc1dqI/AAAAAAAAATA/-Thz_aYnuAc/s320/pic1_wayne_rooney_shirtless_029.jpg He's really not that low in body fat. He's not chubby but he's not lean either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:49 AM
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Genetics have a big influence on muscle growth. Two people could have the same level of physical activity and diet and one could end up with significantly more muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:45 AM
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If it's high enough that she doesn't know the exact number then it's too high. End of story
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:40 AM
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I didn't mean none of the women here will admit that. Just a lot of them won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:36 AM
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I don't see how that's related to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:24 AM
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I don't think that's the whole story. In this sub in particular people seem more willing to admit attraction to conventionally unattractive guys than conventionally attractive guys. I think it's because this sub has a very adversarial culture. The women for the most part are blue pillers and don't want to give the red pillers a win. Admitting that they're attracted to tall guys with six packs would be seen as letting the red pillers win so the women who feel that way either lie or just don't pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 11:11 PM
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That's stupid. The shock of finding out they'd been lied to for 18 years is gonna make finding out they're adopted way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:57 PM
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Children old enough to understand genetics are old enough to understand family dynamics. Let's face it. When parents lie to their kids they're rarely doing it to protect their kids. They're doing it to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:37 PM
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Yes it would. Stop listening to feminist lies about how the law works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:31 PM
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If the family is trying to deceive their child I will always believe that they are in the wrong. The truth is always justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:17 PM
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I'd always rather know the truth, no matter how uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:45 PM
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Some stones are better not turned Disagree. The truth is always best
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:56 AM
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For smart people College is amazing. For example College worked out great for me. I got a scholarship to an elite institution and paid $0 in tuition had tons of fun learning and meeting new people and then graduated with honors and a degree in math. Now I'm 23 years old making 6 figures working at a proprietary trading group. However I can see how college would be a lot less awesome for someone of more average intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:00 AM
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Maybe not mandatory but standard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:28 AM
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It obviously helps with legal issues surrounding fatherhood and child support and it also helps to have it in the child's record because knowing the father for sure helps you know about genetic diseases to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 11:56 PM
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Absolutely disgusting. Paternity testing should be standard procedure upon birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:34 PM
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Shit tests are disrespectful, especially this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:55 PM
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If she thinks I'm hotter why would she bother to mention the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:56 AM
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That's not what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:29 AM
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Taking about how hot another guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:52 AM
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I doubt that applies to many rapists. Prostitution would just be so much of a better choice on that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:20 AM
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The point is that rapists don't care if their partner desires them, on fact they might prefer that they don't, that's why they rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:18 AM
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People like that get called gold diggers + sugar daddies. And do you support shaming people who have different lifestyle preferences than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:58 PM
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But why? If he's unfit but makes up for it in other ways like having a lot of money why would it be wrong for him to expect a fit partner? I agree that if you expect someone of a higher overall attractiveness you're being unreasonable and will likely end up disappointed but I see no reason to apply this to specific traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:28 PM
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If he meets them himself, he can expect them That doesn't make any sense. A guy has to have nice boobs to expect the same from a girl? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:04 PM
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You basically just confirmed what I was saying in this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/64e3ka/cmv_woman_dont_compartmentalize_attractionarousal/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=hot&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=PurplePillDebate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:58 PM
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If a guy is actually ifbb pro size I can see that turning a lot of women off but none of these examples was anywhere close to that. You're making a ridiculous straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:57 PM
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The guy on the left and on the right is the same person. Judging them as having different personalities is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 11:15 AM
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and it is something that can easily be overdone, to the degree that it will be a turn-off to some women. This is the part I'm skeptical of. I think that the level where you're so big/ripped that a significant number of women would be turned off is way bigger than women claim
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 11:13 AM
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Have you never played "would you rather?" Even if both choices are undesirable you can still pick a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:55 AM
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None of those guys in the after pictures are really that ripped, I simply don't believe that a significant portion of women would consider that "too much" if they met a guy like that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:53 AM
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What do you mean? When someone asks which do you prefer they're asking for a relative judgement not an absolute one. You might think both versions are not attractive but the question is which one is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:55 AM
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they were being honest I think the fact that many of the results in this thread contradict the widely supported idea that getting fitter will help a man be seen as more attractive is strong evidence that there is some dishonesty going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:53 AM
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The question isn't "are they attractive?" It's "are they more attractive?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:42 AM
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They're the same guys though. The faces don't really change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:36 AM
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Only if we assume this women are being honest and would actually feel the same in real life. I think both of those are dubious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:24 AM
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Better looking? Definitely Good looking? Maybe not And I really wouldn't call the right versions jacked. They're just more fit than the left versions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:05 AM
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None of those guys are extremely lean or muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:04 AM
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The amount of obvious bull shit in this thread is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:54 AM
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I don't buy into the body fat is necessary for babies sentiment Female athletes often stop getting periods because they have too little body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:50 AM
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That mustache definitely doesn't work for him but he's still way better on the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:49 AM
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That helps but I don't think it's the only factor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 11:59 PM
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I'm not 100% certain but i think I have a good idea from observing how women act and talk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 11:08 PM
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Some women do but I think they're a minority. Lots of women like those things but only in the context of a guy they like on the whole
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:49 PM
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He's laying on the bed gripping the pillow with his back arched to pop up his ass. It definitely looks like he wants to get fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:56 PM
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I genuinely believe women are being honest when we say we aren't all that into muscles. I have seen way too many jaws drop when a girl sees me flex or feels my muscles to believe that for a second. I think it's more likely true to say that a lot of women don't realize how much they like muscles until they meet a ripped guy who appeals to them on other levels as well. Stereotypes exist for a reason. I wasn't always so heavily into the gym/fitness, but now that I am, I can clearly see that there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:51 PM
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Trying to compartmentalize it to individual traits without looking at the bigger picture is missing a lot. Compartmentalization is useful when a man is trying to figure out what he should change about himself. Suppose a man is trying to decide if he should try to become more muscular to improve his success. So he asks women if they like ripped guys. Most women will tell him that they don't, a little muscle is best. But this is bad advice. Almost all men can improve their success with women by be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:27 PM
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I think most men openly admit liking big tits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:57 PM
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Maybe you don't. I'm not saying every single girl does just that the number who do is a lot higher than you'd think from surveys and asking women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:45 PM
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That's a factor but I don't think it's the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:39 PM
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I think it's both. Brad Pitt is a millionaire famous actor and Tyler Durden is a charismatic bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:22 PM
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I don't like to call it lying as that evokes the idea of conscious deceit whereas I think a lot of this occurs on the subconscious level. Many woman wouldn't be capable of discerning the true reality of their attractions if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:18 PM
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This explains the halo effect but it's more broad so it can explain other phenomena too. And I agree guys do it too but I think to a lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:16 PM
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Things will get better for omegas when omegas make themselves better. 99% of omegas have the ability to change they just pretend they don't because they don't want to take responsibility for their sorry life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 12:18 PM
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He's the world record holder in the raw bench press probably even better than 1 in 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:35 AM
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He's the world record holder in the raw bench press probably even better than 1 in 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:35 AM
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. If they are "powerlifters", meaning fat guys attempting to lift weights then no. Say that to this guy's face. I dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:54 PM
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Anyone who thinks humans are still undergoing classical natural selection is wrong and that's what people seem to base a lot of their reasoning on. Humans might not be still undergoing classical natural selection but that doesn't mean we don't still have instincts from the thousands of years when we were.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:16 PM
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Being over 30% body fat is hardly abnormal in today's world. And like I said if they carry it well it's not necessarily unhealthy either. Waist hip ratio is a better measure of both health and attractiveness than body fat percentage or BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:04 PM
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You said only a fat fetishist would be a attracted to a woman over 30% bf no matter how well she carried it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:01 PM
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I never said men aren't also attracted to skinny girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:33 PM
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There are women over the line for technical obesity that carry it will who the majority of straight men would be attracted to. Fetishists is an absurd way to describe a majority preference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:32 PM
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Ahhh you're a girl. In that case who the fuck are you to say what men are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:25 PM
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They might be obese in the technical sense but that doesn't mean they're not attractive or only fetishists would be attracted to them. It also doesn't mean they're not healthy. There's evidence that fat stored around the hips/butt is less of a risk factor for heart disease and other health issues than fat stored in the stomach area. Waist/hip ratio is a better overall predictor of mortality than body fat% or BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:25 PM
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Sounds like you have low testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:16 PM
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I don't think that proves anything. Women get far more messages at every level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:15 PM
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No. Don't you know what big boobs and round asses are made of? Fat. A lot of men like those, not just fat fetishists. If a women has good genetics and hormone levels so she tends to store fat on her breasts, butt, hips and thighs and not on her face, belly and arms then she can very sexy even if she's got some extra weight on her. It also helps if she has some muscle under that fat as it tends to create a more smooth and curvy look which is way better than the lumpy and droopy look of fat with n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:14 PM
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I've definitely seen the stereotypical Indian guys when I go to clubs in real life. They'll either creepily stare from the side libre or be way too insistent hitting on girls who are clearly not interested. I think a big part of it is that these guys often come from well off but not multimillionaire backgrounds. In India this would be enough for a lot of girls so they never really learned the importance of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:07 PM
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. Have you seen an anime convention late at night? Or seen the people that attend midnight screenings of the rocky horror picture show? Seen LARPers play Vampire: the Masquerade next to a graveyard and then fuck? Unfortunately I have. None of those things are intellectual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 10:35 PM
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The supplement is part of the diet so the diet is balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:47 PM
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The best vegan source of protein is vegan protein powder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:18 AM
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Why doesn't planning to take take supplements count as appropriately planning? It seems to me that's it's much more efficient to take a few pills than adjust your whole diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:50 AM
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Black beans have 6.25g of protein per 100 cal. Chicken breast has 21g per 100 cal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:49 AM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:34 PM
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If a woman's OB/GYN is male, does he count towards her N number? Of course not that's silly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:29 AM
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What's wrong with what she did? Both won The child lost
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:35 AM
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I don't fantasize about it. But I also don't pretend it never happened when I know it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:08 AM
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I'm insecure because I prefer to confront the truth rather than placate myself with pleasant fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 01:45 AM
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I admit I'm a little hard to put up with sometimes but I'm worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 01:38 AM
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Why would anyone think about that. Because it's true. Ignoring the truth is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 01:16 AM
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I think most guys in the real world would like a virgin if all other things were equal but all other things are never equal. Virginity is good because it's kind of gross to think about other guys dicks inside your girlfriend but if a girls old enough to drink and still a virgin that's a red flag because it could indicate either a low sex drive or very high religiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:19 PM
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The het men are passing around most of the women like blunts at a frat party. a few men sleeping with more women. More women sleeping with only a few men. That could cause the medians to not line up but the means would still have to be equal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:46 PM
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The non-virgin would be better at sex Maybe at first but if it's a long term relationship she won't be inexperienced for the majority of it. Plus a virgin can be taught exactly what you personally like. She won't have any habits that other guys liked but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:01 PM
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That's why it's possible for McMahon to look like this Is that supposed to be impressive? Because he's really not that muscular and that's a tiny little weight he's holding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:01 AM
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He's not a whale but he is overweight which is what I said originally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:16 AM
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Forget about the face. Here is a pic from the show with his shirt off. He's clearly carrying some extra pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:00 AM
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He's got a chubby face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:59 AM
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I think even when blacked out I'm still in control. I'm very fond of benzos and my favorites are clonazolam and flubromazolam both of which can easily cause blackouts if you do a little too much so I've had some long blackouts and from what I can piece together I've always been in control. A lot of people assume that if they don't remember doing something that it must mean their mind was completely blank like a zombie as they were doing it but that's not true at all. The way a blackout works is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 12:04 AM
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I'm not a fan of not having control of my mind This is a serious misconception of what drugs are like. I've done pretty much every kind of drug there is and I've always still felt in control. If someone says the drugs made them not in control of themselves it's probably a lie they're trying to sell because they don't want to take responsibility for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 11:19 PM
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Marshall is overweight and kinda dopey I wouldn't call him out of Lily's league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 08:59 PM
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Cute is tricky because it has two very different meanings. One meaning is endearing and inspiring empathy. For example "OMG my boyfriend was so cute this morning he brought me breakfast in bed" The other meaning is that it can be a catch all for how you describe someone who you don't think is attractive but don't think is ugly enough to insult. For example "So I met Sally's new boyfriend last night" "is he hot?" "He's not really hot but I guess he's cute"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 06:15 PM
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Because my mother is hot What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 03:00 PM
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But treating her like a princess will almost guarantee that she will lose attraction to him in the end You have to treat her great but not at the cost of your own self respect. It's a hard balance to strike. I'll give some examples. Actions that could be considered beta but a girl will love if she thinks you're hot: Buying her flowers Writing love letters Actions that could be considered beta and will kill attraction: Apologizing when you didn't do anything wrong just to ease the tension Giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:48 PM
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people were only drafted when there was a war. Which was really frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:12 PM
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Only incels say that. They're so thirsty that they're incapable of actually telling the difference between a hot girl and a not hot girl but they don't want to admit that they'd fuck anything so they settle on "Any girl can be hot as long as she's not fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 06:02 PM
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Are you talking about only the case where the woman is in relationship and chests or also the case where the man is in a relationship and cheats?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:24 AM
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What do you consider a living wage? Also, way to completely not address the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 10:07 PM
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Jobs aren't charity. If someone can't produce as much value for the economy then they're not going to get as good of a job. There's nothing unfair about that. Unfair would be if they were able to produce value but were still held back. Do you think the NBA is unfair because they discriminate against short guys who can't jump and have poor hand eye coordination?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 09:55 PM
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Would you accept a match against Magnus Carlsen where if you won, you would win $50, and if he won you'd lose 50 dollars? Probably not right? It's not fair. I wouldn't accept it but I wouldn't call it unfair, it's just not a good bet for me. People aren't equal so it's not reasonable to expect that everyone will be equally good at things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 09:40 PM
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It's not fair playing in a game where the chances of winning are not equal. Sure it is. If I played Magnus Carlsen in chess the chances of winning wouldn't be equal but that doesn't mean chess isn't a fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 06:55 PM
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LOL dude just because no girls want sex with you doesn't mean they don't want it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:25 PM
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men are the primary target of mind control tools like video games and porn, there are much less men in churches LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:31 PM
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A major flaw here is that a lot of these traits really can't be ascertained with any accuracy from looking at a photograph.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 10:37 PM
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No. That's the catch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 06:32 PM
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So if you date an n=0 and take their virginity, just know they are wondering what else is out there This would only be the case if they find sex with you less than absolutely amazing. If the sex is mind blowing they're not going to be wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 10:10 PM
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I think you're confusing attractive to hook up with and attractive to date long term. Plenty of guys would try to hook up with the girl in purple but few will want to be in a LTR with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:32 PM
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I actually see it a lot in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:21 PM
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I would add that the aversion is generally to women who appear to be slutty (ie read trashy) or have openly fucked a shit ton of people in his social circle. Not to women who actually just have a lot of sex. Which is what you'd expect. It's an emotional preference so appearances matter more than reality. It's the same way that most guys are attracted to women who appear fertile even if in reality she's had a hysterectomy and isn't fertile at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:19 PM
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Lots of guys are into their partner sleeping with multiple people Those guys are a tiny minority. Like 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:16 PM
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They can simply say "I do not want 'sluts'" and stop it at that. The problem is that when they just say that they get told that they're insecure and immature and sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:08 PM
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Not one person has a problem with the idea that any particular men have a problem with dating high n count women Maybe you don't have a problem with that but I think it's false to say that 'not one person' has a problem with it. I've had people tell me that the fact that I don't want to date a slutty woman means that I am necessarily insecure or sexist or even gay or a cuckold because I'm obsessed with other guys dicks in my girl. Some people definitely have an issue with guys who have a prefere…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:39 PM
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Men generally are a lot more open about their true feelings on this subject with other men than they are with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:18 PM
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Would you rather your tax dollars go to extra police to stop the crime caused by children born to single mothers? Birth control has huge positive externalities, it make sense to subsidize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 05:20 AM
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Destroying the meaning and purpose of marriage, And what purpose is that? Having kids? Plenty of straight couples don't have kids either disrupting the cohesion and trust of the group. I'm not convinced this is actually happening. Everyone in the military I've talked to doesn't care about gay people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:32 AM
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Both of these choices have terrible repercussions in the name of said idealism. And what are these terrible reprecussions? I'm not seeing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:19 AM
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I don't see why it would change much. Even if being gay was 100% choice gay marriage should still be legal, and gays should still be allowed in the military. Those were the two most recent major gay rights changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:08 AM
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Whereas, if I go gay tomorrow and then cry for more rights, you can't take me seriously at all. I'm not convinced that whether it's genetic or a choice is very relevant when it comes to rights. After all dating someone of a different race is definitely a choice and yet laws banning interracial marriage have been unconstitutional for two generations. I also think that choice or genetic is a false dichotomy. If someone turns out gay because of how their environment shatter them during child hood t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:37 AM
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It's hard to be informed about the legal standards when there are groups that go around intentionally misrepresenting what the laws say in order to push their own agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:50 PM
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Not at all. Intoxicated is just a synonym for not sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:48 PM
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It's best to avoid using the phrase "too drunk to consent" because different people have very different ideas about what that means. "Unconscious or unaware that the sex is occurring" is a wording that admits much less interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:29 PM
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If they're uncoscious it's always rape. But there are different standards for self administered or administered without their knowledge. If it's self administered it has to either make them unconscious or completely unaware of what's happening. but if it's rapist administered it only has to substantially impair them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:21 PM
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The statute I posted is from PA
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:14 PM
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You're getting dangerously close to justifying calling all sex rape. Any amount of apparent consent or enthusiasm can be justified away as acting in order to not get raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:10 PM
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Saying she cannot consent due to her intoxication is the same thing as saying she was too intoxicated to be aware of her surroundings. There are a lot of people (feminists mostly) who have a very different idea of what the phrase "too drunk to consent means". I even had someone in this very subreddit try to tell me that anyone over the legal limit of .08 is "too drunk to consent" It can be very difficult to tell when a person is in a black out state This is true. But it's also irrelevant. Being …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:05 PM
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If you have sex with a girl who's so wasted she doesn't know what's going on That's a completely different level from just wasted. The vast majorityof the time someone who is intoxicated, even severely intoxicated, still has a general idea of whats going on around them. And the few who don't are easy to spot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:51 PM
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From a legal perspective, having sex with someone who cannot consent to it due to intoxication is rape The idea that drunk people can't consent is a myth. The only time intoxication makes you unable to consent is if you're actually unable say yes or no. Like if you're unconscious or unaware of what's happening to you. Or if you were drugged against your will. Let's look at the criminal statute. § 3121. Rape. (a) Offense defined.--A person commits a felony of the first degree when the person enga…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:46 PM
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It stops most of them. Cheaters are fairly common but they're still a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:38 PM
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No. It's more that some people have a habit of calling everything coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:30 PM
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She can cut out the not-wasted part too. I've been wasted many times. I was still capable of making decisions. And if I chose to have sex it certainly wouldn't have been rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:28 PM
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If she's told him no and then falls asleep and he's suddenly on top of her and making out with her And where did you get that scenario from? It's certainly not what the OP is describing nor is it what anyone would call seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:27 PM
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The alcohol doesn't make the choices for you. Stop using it as an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 05:21 PM
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A lot of guys will stop when they see the ring. Plenty of guys won't but it should at least cut out a significant portion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 04:52 PM
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It's a flaw but it doesn't make you a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 04:51 PM
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I'm sorry your life has sucked so had that's it's left you this empty and jaded. I know it might be hard to believe but it's not like that for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 05:53 AM
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horrible character Deriding people who suffer from social anxiety. How progressive of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 03:09 AM
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I think it's ridiculous how so many people (mostly bluepillers) are quick to point out that a guy who's too muscular looks gay but then have nothing to say about a guy who wants to be fucked up the ass with a dildo. Come on now, that's orders of magnitude gayer than waxing your chest for a body building competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 09:30 PM
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I think he made up the last name to go with Chad thundercock
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:38 PM
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"real women" is a bullshit emotionally loaded phrase. I'll say that I don't see them as the same as cis women since growing up as a boy and then deciding to transition is definitely different than just being born a girl. But I also wouldn't say that they're just men pretending to be women. Language is fluid and evolving. People who will insist a trans woman shouldn't be called a woman are just adopting a hardline prescriptivist stance in order to be intentionally offensive because they don't lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 09:36 PM
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Trying to start a conversation is entitled behavior now? God damn you're bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:38 PM
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how would one approach the poetry loving girl in the coffee shop? Hey, I see you here all the time so I thought I'd introduce myself I'm ******** I'm ********* So I always see you reading stuff. What's that book? It's a book of poems by my favorite author *******. Do you like poetry? Well to be honest I've never really read much poetry outside English class. What do you find compelling about it. Well I really appreciate how it.... That way you start a conversation about her interests without bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:37 PM
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But whether or not frequent penetration is on the table is a deal breaker. I don't think they'd be any different from normal women on this issue. They have Normal vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:24 PM
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a serious genetic disorder that prevents puberty, renders a woman sterile, and requires lifetime hormone replacement therapy It only prevents puberty until exogenous estrogen is administered so that wouldn't be an issue in adulthood. And hormone replacement therapy is a super easy treatment. Any girl on BC pills is taking hormones this treatment isn't any more complicated. Thus seems pretty benign as far as medical issues go. Sterility could be an issue for some people but plenty of guys don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:23 PM
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It's more of a spectrum. Your groupings are too discrete. A guy at the 98th percentile has a very different experience than a guy at the 83rd percentile but you lump them together. Same with a guy at the 25th vs 75th percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:12 PM
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50% is way too high for the USA I would guess line 5-10% My friend group is more promiscuous than average and I still only know one guy who has seen a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:52 PM
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Shhh... You're gonna hurt her feelings. She needs these excuses so she doesn't have to admit the reason all the guys she's been with didn't look like that is because she's not good enough to get a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:38 PM
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Any hot guy would be popular at a gay bar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:35 PM
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They can become pregnant and have children with medical assistance though. Not their own children though, right? They don't have ovaries so it would have to be someone else's egg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:31 PM
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I've tried that, well swallowing it not snorting. It solves the Erectile dysfunction problem but it's still impossible to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:03 PM
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Yeah it's difficult to get hard and even if you do it's impossible to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:22 PM
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I'm pretty sure this is myth. As a guy I find it impossible to cum while rolling. I can cum while tripping though and it's a completely mind nlowing otherworldly experience 10x as intense as normal. But the next day sex is still as good as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:05 PM
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I'm not throwing a tantrum. I just honestly have trouble understanding how a few of the women he posted could be considered 10's. I don't care about other guys sharing my lust. That's just something you made up to shame me. And if we're playing that game I could say that you're just mad because you know you'll never be even a tenth as pretty as the girls in those pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:13 PM
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That "need" is something you just made up. All I did was post some pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:54 PM
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SO BRAVE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:57 PM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:18 PM
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I don't think the media normalizes adultery. The vast majority of people still think adultery is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:40 AM
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I know it's insane. The worst part was that what she tweeted want even that bad. It's not like she was going around saying "Hitler did nothing wrong" she just posted some pictures of people being killed by ISIS in order to show how bad they were and how ridiculous it was for the person she was responding to to compare them with the French national party.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:32 AM
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That number comes from extrapolating current trends but I'm skeptical that it will play out that way. A lot is going to change in the next two decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:51 AM
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France doesn't have the first amendment like we do. Laws like that would never fly in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:42 AM
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SAHM generally implies not working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:04 AM
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I'd like to see this technology that's canning http://www.enrico-giotti.it/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/factory-fidenza.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:59 AM
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I can't imagine what your standards for 10 look like. Something like one of these Brunette Blonde Redhead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:39 AM
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You've convinced yourself you into three women because you know you can't get hotter women. If you soon the lottery or somehow became famous and your options increased I bet your real preferences would be revealed. I'm not saying you'd suddenly be into the pornstar look. This part I'm totally all about the "cute" look. The pale white girl who puts flowers in her hair. This subreddit has taught me that a lot of "10"s for other guys all have that model or pornstar look Is a totally legitimate pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:21 AM
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Yukino Kishii is absolutely a 10. The male hamster is alive and well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:08 AM
1

I'm pretty sure people voted Trump in the primaries because they knew exactly what they'd get with all the rest. Why couldn't Rand have won? He's not a standard republican.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 11:04 PM
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Is T an anabolic steroid? Yes and most other anabolic steroids are modifications on the testosterone molecule
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:49 AM
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Roid rage is 95% a myth. I take steroids I would know. Estrogen has a much bigger effect on emotions than testosterone. That's why you always take your AI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:02 AM
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The most common steroid is testosterone itself. Someone on steroids would actually have several times higher testosterone than a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:00 AM
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But that could still only give a half integer. There's no way to get 2.6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:05 AM
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How could the median not be a whole number?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:00 AM
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By talking to her? I mean she could lie of course but that's the case with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:12 AM
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Nah, I just know how awesome I am and don't have any time for people who can't recognize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 01:29 AM
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Now, the site doesn't assume there are any correlations between those factors, when there most certainly will be some. So it's completely meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 01:19 AM
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If having sex with me doesn't blow every other sexual experience she's had out of the water than I don't want anything to do with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 01:14 AM
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You sound jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 09:28 PM
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it's a score of how far along someone is on the autistic spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:24 AM
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He probably goes by a nickname. Even still I would think it's weird to sleep with someone multiple times and not have that come up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:21 AM
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Depends on who you hang out with. If you hang out with an average cross section of humanity then it will be 2 out of every 100 people you know but generally people hang out with others more close to themselves in intelligence. For a student at Harvard or MIT top 2%ers aren't rare at all, you're surrounded by tons of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 10:11 PM
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that's pretty extreme It's really not. It's an IQ of 131. You probably know a few people at that level or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 09:54 PM
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That's the difference between fashion models and glamour models. A fashion models job is to make the clothes look good whereas a glamour models job is to make herself look good. So goodie models are usually a lot hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:07 PM
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specific MBTI types translate directly to low/high? Directly? probably not but there are likely some significant correlations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:14 AM
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Well that's not a comment you see very often on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:32 AM
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I'm well above top 2% and I consider myself sexually attractive. But, avoiding that example, top 2% isn't that crazy. It's only a 131 IQ. It's like a slightly above average doctor/lawyer. You really don't think there are any sexually attractive men in those groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 04:51 AM
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Models are desired because they're physically attractive but from the set up of the question I'm assuming the looks remain constant for the different careers so the model doesn't have an advantage in the main area you would expect a model to have an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:56 AM
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It would depend heavily on what the PhD was in. If it was something like Math/Physics/CS then I would put that at the top because it would mean we have a lot of common interests. Something like History would be less good because it probably means she's passionate about something I'm less interested in but we could probably still have some interesting conversations. If it was something like gender studies then that's an immediate rejection. Same with the artist, if she actually makes cool art tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:54 AM
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I'd be too frustrated by his blatant awesomeness to ever think I could be his equal That's sad. You should work on that self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:42 AM
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It's a coping mechanism, people don't like feeling inferior so they ascribe negative qualities to people better than them. It's the same reason incels say all guys who get laid are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:40 AM
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You really think anyone in the top 2% acts like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:29 AM
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Except for the second one is fugly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 11:48 PM
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You probably have more muscle than him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 11:43 PM
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Zadie Smith I don't understand the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 11:41 PM
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Your "average woman" is more attractive than your "wifey"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 09:33 PM
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Gun rights were fine under obama too. Despite the rhetoric the democrats aren't actually going to take peoples guns away
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 09:27 PM
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I think the inate human instinct is to associate positive traits with attractive people but certain people who are especially bitter/jealous will associate negative traits with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 08:29 AM
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Yeah but I can recognize that someone is attractive even if they're not my type. I mean I'm a straight guy but I can still recognize if another guy is good looking or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 08:00 AM
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But it says "commit for the rest of your life" if someone has a few relationships before they get married they would still be exploring before they commit for the rest of their life but it wouldn't be casual
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:20 AM
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Another comment called her "way below average" I guess this is why red pillers are always saying that chads will sleep with 3s and 4s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 12:53 AM
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way below average. WHAT! that girl is not below average at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 12:45 AM
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The Asian is not on the first girls level though. Really? I thought she was cuter. The first girl looks really air-brushed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:36 PM
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average girl at a party The party life tends to be more fun for more attractive people so that's a biased sample. And even then she'd be well above average at most parties I've been to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:35 PM
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Casual sex allows all of us to explore our sexual desires before we commit to one person for the remainder of our lives Is the article defining all sex outside of marriage as casual? that seems silly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:28 PM
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I think the reverse (a girl who finds all her male friends are into her) would be pretty common but for guys or would only be the top 0.1% that have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:49 AM
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except for a guy who's single, desperate, and tends to fall hard for any woman he's friends with. What if it's the opposite? The guy is so hot and fun that any close female friend falls for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:24 AM
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The difference is that 80% of men would be down for casual sex but only 20% get the opportunity whereas for women the numbers are reversed 80% have the opportunity but only 20% are down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:57 AM
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Maybe, it's unclear to what extent animals are conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:32 AM
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I consider an entity to have moral value when it has the capacity for subjective experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:04 AM
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I'm confused. How does your comment relate to the post you replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:40 PM
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This is a bad comparison. Money is fungible, sex isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 12:35 AM
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Everyone does that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 08:04 PM
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They're generating non-existent wealth, and it's costing you. It's not costing me. It's only costing the dumbasses who go for the overpriced brands. I always get the good deals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 10:38 PM
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Showing interest in another guy in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 08:49 PM
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I wouldn't say a ONS is necessarily impulsive but it usually is. Look at the language that women stereotypically use to describe ONS's. "I'm not usually that kind of girl but it just happened"..."One thing led to another"..."I was caught up in the moment"...etc. That's not the kind of language you use to describe rationally considered decisions. It very much implies impulsivity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:37 PM
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Romney was running against Obama, the first black president, so that's not a great comparison. I think Trump got a similar amount of black votes as bush
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 03:43 AM
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I don't think any of them did. That's why people are mad about Trump's. It was overly broad which makes it come off as more xenophobic than prudent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 12:50 AM
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They only thing I want to hear about your ex's is how much better I am. That's not to say I want a girl to lie to me. If a girl doesn't genuinely think I'm way better than any of her ex's then I don't want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 05:11 PM
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Well, do they always have the choice of becoming single mothers, Abortion is legal so yes, it's always a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 08:49 PM
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Why? You don't get to pick your family and some people have families that suck. It's not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 02:17 AM
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It's not complete bull shit. Men are less picky for hook ups and have a higher desire for them. So the hottest guys get a disproportionate share of casual sex. And sometimes this involves them dating down. What's bull shit is the extreme that some guys carry it to. A 9/10 is not going to fuck a 4/10 girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 01:27 AM
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So you think the only reason a hot guy could possibly be interested in you is that he's a creeper? That's sad. You need to work on your self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 01:22 AM
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That's only the incels who pretend to be red pill who think like that. They think that way because they can't comprehend what it feels like to not be so desperate you'd fuck anything with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 01:11 AM
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would imply we think this guy is better than us You say that you don't think he's better than you. But then you say he's approaching someone so much less attractive Which implies that you do think he's better, at least better at being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 01:09 AM
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unless you consider average ugly Average is ugly for a super hot guy. A 9/10 guy doesn't care that the 6's are intimidated by him, he's only paying attention to the 8+/10 girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 01:08 AM
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Did you not see the second paragraph of my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:37 AM
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If you use women in high profile careers as your example of course you won't find stay at home moms. duh. It doesn't mean the traditional family is dead. It's not as ubiquitous as it once was it's not out of the ordinary either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 08:53 PM
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You're talking about who you would employ and consider more reliable though, not who you'd pay less. If you can't see the connection between these you need to retake econ 100. If employers are reluctant to hire women that means the demand for their labor is lower which drives down the market price.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:10 PM
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I also don't wanna make their first time disappointing because it's with me. That is some shit self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:24 PM
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Japan isn't a sexually open culture. It's actually very repressed. They're not even allowed to show real genitals in porn. That's why anime porn is so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 09:29 PM
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Women can get relationships =/= women do get relationships Obviously since the number of men and women is about equal and polyamory/homosexuality are rare enough to not really affect the stats then the percent of men in relationships must be about equal to the percent of women in relationships. But it could be the case that for most men not in relationships it's because they can't find any woman to date them whereas for most women not in relationships they can find some men who would date them b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:14 AM
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Anytime an anonymous person on reddit has a personal experience that confirms their ideology you can pretty much discount it. The chance that they're either seeing their life through a very biased lens or just straight up storytelling is way too high to put any faith in any of these anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 07:36 PM
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I agree it should be. It just currently isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:46 PM
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It's an important distinction to make because not knowing the age of the girl in question is absolutely a valid defense in a statutory case This is not true in most jurisdictions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:33 PM
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your first mistake was believing a word he said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:38 AM
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Agreed 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 07:46 AM
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Why? It makes perfect sense to me. 20 men and 100 women can produce 100 children in a year but 100 men and 20 women can only produce 20 children in a year. The average men is less sexually valuable than the average woman. That's just how science works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:25 AM
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It comes from only paying attention to hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 01:03 AM
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Not necessarily. It depends if he's bald like this Or like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 12:09 AM
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You really suck with non literalism don't you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 11:45 PM
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Is mate guarding beta? Yes and no. Let's take an example. Suppose your girlfriend comes to you and says, "hey I'm planning on getting lunch with my ex. Just as friends" is the alpha thing to do to forbid her to go? Or is that letting yourself get cucked. The answer is.... That there is no alpha response to this situation. If your girlfriend saw you ad an alpha she never would have even asked the question or had any desire to get lunch with her ex. Whether you let her go out not you've already be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 09:22 PM
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Attractive isn't a binary. The average man sees the average woman as attractive enough to sleep with but not super beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 05:57 PM
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It's very much an issue on college campuses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 08:47 PM
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Caring about N-count is a beta trait. A beta's dream is to find his perfect beautiful princess. An alpha just wants a hot piece of ass. Thinking about all the other guys dicks that have been in a girl definitely make her seem like less of a beautiful princess but she can still be a hot piece of ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 11:52 PM
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Self reporting is a pretty terrible way to judge these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 07:20 PM
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SMP =/= RMP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 06:14 AM
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Birth control hasn't existed long enough for our psyches to evolve to take it into account. Without birth control a woman can't have sex with a man without the possibility of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 02:26 AM
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I never assumed anything. I admit that it's very hard to prove things about Evo psych and very easy to come up with just so stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:43 AM
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Data from a few generations is worthless compared to data from hundreds of generations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:26 AM
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It still takes several generations for a noticable effect to occur. Red pill guys haven't even been a thing for one generation so whether they reproduce advice replacement or not has zero effect on the human psyche
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 11:04 PM
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The strongest positive selection going on right now is towards men inclined to be sperm bank donors But this hasn't been the case for enough generations to have an effect on our innate psychology so it's irrelevant to discussions of evo psych
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 09:53 PM
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Our instincts evolved during a period where birth control didn't exist. A man can fuck 100 girls in todays world and not impregnate any of them. But for any other period in human history that wasn't happening. So number of children a modern person has is pretty much irrelevant to evo psych
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 09:52 PM
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Only weirdos go on those forums or self identify as demisexual. Normal guys just say "I prefer to have sex in a relationship hook ups dont appeal to me" but they don't do the whole special snowflake its a new orientation bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:43 AM
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I think a lot of guys will be more accepting of you wanting to wait if they know that you're a virgin. The reason men are advised to avoid women who make them wait is that sometimes that is a sign that the woman isn't very attracted to him on a physical level and only wants him for his providership and comfort AKA beta bucks. However if they know the reason you are wanting to wait is that you are a virgin that will be more acceptable. Just make sure to express attraction and interest in other wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:35 AM
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The chance of success is not nearly as small as you make it out to be. Plenty of people end up happily married
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:24 PM
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Neither is high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:03 PM
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I respect myself more obviously, That's not how mutual respect works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:03 PM
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I think a lot of women would agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 09:33 PM
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do his job in a relationship Only beta bucks would accept a woman who thinks providership is a man "doing his job" in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 09:32 PM
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mutual respect Bull shit. If you treat your husband the way the OP describes you don't respect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 09:31 PM
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For one thing a high value man has self respect. Your husband is clearing lacking in that department if he stuck around through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 09:18 PM
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A high value man can provide but he also is valuable as more than a provider. I would be put off by a woman who expected me to pay for all the dates not because I can't pay but because her expecting me to pay shows that she only values me for my providership and I do not accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 08:56 PM
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I mean if you're looking for a beta bucks this will work. And honestly that's probably fine, beta bucks is the best most women can hope for. Truly valuable men are rare and so as a necessity of numbers most women will never end up with one. So enjoy your pathetic beta bucks husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 08:41 PM
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Following these rules might help you avoid pumping and dumping but it will also ensure that you avoid any man who isn't a total loser. Quality men aren't going to put up with a girl who makes the man pay for all the dates and doesn't show sexual interest for 10 dates
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 08:24 PM
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no job is "underpaid" If the market for a certain type of work is monopolistic workers might be underpaid relative to what their value would be in a free market
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:37 PM
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You don't seem to understand how markets work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:33 PM
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You can trust your mother just not 100% 100% is a very high standard. Almost nothing in life is 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:56 PM
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We gave trillions to bankers who crashed the economy in the first place You're not getting it. We didn't give them anything. We loaned them money with interest. The national debt is lower now because of the bank bailouts. The government made money off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 10:36 PM
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Any time you place 100% trust in someone you are being foolish, there is always a possibility you will be betrayed. You can try to look for green flags and avoid red flags to make that probability as low as possible but you will never have enough information to make the probability 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 09:33 PM
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95%+ of married men have "absolute faith" that their wives will never cheat on them, and yet many of these guys still end up getting cheated on. You are way overestimating your own ability to predict these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 09:01 PM
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If you can perfectly predict which women will cheat then go make millions as a relationship counselor. SPOILER ALERT: It won't work, because you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 08:59 PM
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The government spent trillions of dollars bailing out big banks You hear this all the time but it's actually bull shit. The bank bail outs were a loan not a handout. They have been paid back in full, with interest. The government actually made money from them due to the interest. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 08:58 PM
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meaning that Chads and nice-guys were given equal shots via 'sexual socialism'. That is the most pathetic thing I've ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 07:05 PM
1

Because I like to take on the hyper egotistical persona in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 06:05 PM
1

No, I think settling is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 06:01 PM
1

Everyone settles My girlfriend isn't settling. I'm the best choice in the world in every possible way. She's a lucky girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:54 PM
1

They are Red pilled, they had their eyes open the "true nature of women". I don't even know how this is up for debate. They're not red pilled at all. Red pilled means accepting the truth of your situation even when it makes you uncomfortable. The truth of an incels situation is that their plight is 100% their fault and it's up to them to change it and they could if they weren't lazy and worthless. Incels do not accept this. Instead they bitch and moan about how unfair life is. They are the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:11 PM
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That's so shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 01:58 AM
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People get defensive and upset when you point out that they're doing something wrong even if they actually were doing something wrong. It's not rational or respectable but it's a common human response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 12:36 AM
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When you tell someone that they need to respect women the implication is that they are not already respecting women. This puts people on the defensive which causes some people to get hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 10:02 PM
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you just appeared and she was so overtaken with lust she had to have you right then and there. I like to think that this is what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 09:27 PM
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Well yeah, tinder is definitely better at facilitating such encounters than delivering pizza. But it's not like she knew me, it could have happened when I was delivering pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 06:18 PM
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It's rare but it's not impossible. That's why people like to fantasize about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 05:44 PM
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Women don't fuck men they've met 10 minutes ago generally, the evidence on casual sex is quite clear on this matter, and if they do then they're inebriated. It happens. I met a girl off tinder one time and literally right after I said hi she started making out with me. We went back to her dorm room and within a few minutes we were having sex. We were both sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 05:40 PM
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If someone has an actively terrible personality then hotness won't save them. I think it's more when they have an average personality they will be perceived as having a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 06:22 PM
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The ideal woman would be someone with all the positives of feminine nature and none of the negatives. Unfortunately that's very hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 05:41 PM
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What a pointless question. Even if someone did they wouldn't admit it here. In fact they probably wouldn't even admit it to themselves. The halo effect means people will perceive attractive people as having a better personality so they will tell themselves the personality is why they like the person even though it all boils down to looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 05:37 PM
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It would be easier for men to just admit that they find it icky if they weren't constantly being told that feeling that way necessarily comes from insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:49 AM
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both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 12:25 AM
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Except I never defended the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 10:48 PM
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They are aware of the game They're not aware thoguh. That's the issue. There are tons of people who call themselves red pillwho have literally convinced themself that they will never have success with women because the system is rigged against them. But this isn't the truth. They could be successful, they're just too lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:55 PM
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In every big sub the number of upvotes on posts is orders of magnitude lower than the subscriber count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:13 PM
2

I'm mostly taking about the attitude of people in this sub with red flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:12 PM
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I'm just going by the comments I see in this sub from people with red flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 06:55 PM
2

Many steroid users admit that during a cycle they feel almost no emotion towards their GF's Steroid user here. This is not true. If anything makes me emotionally cold it's low estrogen, not high androgens. However unless someone is taking an aromitase inhibitor higher testosterone will actually give higher estrogen since the male body creates estrogen by converting testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:14 AM
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Many of them do. It just happens that those are the ones who don't have drama filled personal lives that make the tabloid headlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:51 PM
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Lawyers average salary is 133k (according to google) and doctors are even higher. They also not require advance degrees. They are considered high status for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:00 PM
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Respect =/= liking You can hate someone and still respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 07:08 PM
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I guess. But intelligent drug use is only marginally less healthy and can give you some incredible and unique experiences. I think it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 01:38 AM
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Drunk people can consent. You could have stopped this situation but you chose not to. You weren't assaulted. You're either circle jerking or you're an idiot.
/r/MGTOW26/12/16 11:04 PM
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Well yeah people who over use any drug (even alcohol) tend to be lower class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 10:25 PM
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Sounds lame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 10:04 PM
2

But people of all social classes smoke weed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 09:40 PM
4

I don't really think that's true. Some girls like buff bodybuilder guys and other girls like skinny guys in bands
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 03:58 PM
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Maybe sometimes but I think the majority of the time this is not the case. Some guys just find fatness sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 03:46 PM
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It's not mutually exclusive. A guy can have a sexual preference for fat girls and still care about the other traits of the women he dates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 05:11 AM
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Honestly that's kinda dumb in my opinion. Why would you not want to be with a guy who thinks your body is sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 04:39 AM
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If that's the case why is BBW so popular? Because there are billions of men in this world and the internet connects them all. Even though guys into bbws are a minority it's still easy to find them on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 03:28 AM
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for every guy who thinks one of the last two women i showed is unattractive, there are 10 who thinks she is beautiful and would gladly sleep with her. Mathematically this implies that at least 91% of men think morbidly obese women are beautiful and would gladly sleep with them. That is patently ridiculous. Sure there exist men who are into these women but they are a tiny minority of fetishists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 02:15 AM
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I don't think dating profiles are a good way to assess self delusion. Obviously people are going to talk themselves up on their profiles even if they don't really believe what they're saying. I mean you're never going to see a profile that says "I'm really nothing special but I can be kinda fun sometimes so hopefully that's enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 07:25 PM
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You're trying to rationalize the general premise of looking for excitement in youth and stability later as something bad. There's nothing "wrong" with going for excitement in youth and stability later on. It just really really sucks to be with someone and to be under the impression that they see you as the love of their life when actually they just see you as the stable but boring guy. The red pill tells guys how to not be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 06:28 AM
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Insecurity is not the only reason people don't want their partners sleeping around and I think it's ridiculous you would assume as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:06 PM
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No one ever said that it's "not ok" to be in a poly relationship. He just said that it was weird. That's not a moral judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:21 AM
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The difference between plate spinning and poly isn't that the girl's know it's the seriousness. Plate spinning is casual, you're not "in a relationship" with any of the girls. I think the part of the poly lifestyle that us non-poly guys don't accept is the idea that you could like a girl enough to call her your girlfriend but then still be OK with her banging other dudes. I mean I'm not judging other people who want to live like that but for myself I could just never imagine feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:20 AM
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1 point per SD is too thin. I think about 1.5 points per SD fits better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 02:03 AM
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I use a scale that's normally distributed not linearly distributed. What I call a 9 is a lot rarer than 1 in 10 people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 08:37 PM
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For many guys a 4 is good enough but those guys aren't 9s. A 9 is really rare. Like he's probably the hottest guy at the majority of parties he goes to. Why would a guy like that settle for a 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:24 AM
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A 9/10 isn't fucking a 4/10. He might fuck a 7/10 but a 9/10 has no reason to accept uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:19 PM
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If spit in a cup and then that spit is analyzed to determine parenthood it doesn't affect my health any more than if I had just spit in the sink. Of course that's assuming that the test doesn't reveal anything surprising. If the test reveals that the child has a different father or if somehow the test reveals the child has done genetic anomaly then i would agree these things should be shared with the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:16 PM
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they have a right to know their medical history. I wouldn't really consider a non invasive DNA test to be a part of my medical history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:11 PM
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If I was in that guys situation the most merciful thing you could have done for me was give me 15g of pentobarbital a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 04:36 AM
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I mostly agree but I think you focus too much on the comparison with other guys aspect. I've heard of virgin marriages turning into dead bedrooms too. Fucking Chad isn't what makes women not attracted to Billy beta. Women were never going to be attracted to Billy beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:51 PM
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On the specific topic of women wishing they'd married their ex or pining after that Chad they hooked up with in college I agree. I don't think that's that common. However I still think that many dead bedrooms happen because there was never enough sexual attraction in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:26 PM
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The biggest issue isn't people knowing their own motivations but choosing to decieve others. It's people who have decieved themselves. They might try to be candid but they can't because they don't know their own true motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:13 PM
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But if that narrative did accurately describe a woman's life would you expect them to admit it? I certainly wouldn't. That's why you have to look at actions rather than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:07 PM
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That's a good way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 04:41 AM
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I am pretty sure more [white] women voted for Trump than white men did Nope. White men were 34% of voters and 63% of them voted for trump. White women were 37% of voters and 53% of them voted for trump. In both percentage and absolute terms more white men voted for trump than white women. ttps://www.google.com/amp/www.popsugar.com/news/What-Percentage-White-Women-Voted-Trump-42690419/amp?client=ms-android-tmobile-us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 10:52 PM
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That's just what the super thirsty Incels say because they don't want to admit that they're not actually average guys. They're well below average and not everyone is as desperate as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 09:10 PM
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I think the engagement ring conversation is a great way for guys to see if their girlfriends are worth marrying. You can get a beautiful amethyst or topaz ring for a few hundred dollars. All guys who are considering engagement should bring this up to their girlfriends and see how they respond. If they say "I don't care about the ring, for me the exciting part of marrying you would be knowing that I get to wake up next to you every morning" or "Wow that's such a better deal than diamonds, we coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 09:04 PM
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But looks aren't the same as fertility and genetic fitness. Looks are a heuristic our monkey brains use to approximate fertility and genetic fitness. And sometimes this approximation is very very wrong. There are pretty women who happen to be carrying multiple recessive genetic diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:26 PM
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I think the fact that it's possible means that you cannot use tha study to make the claim "Straight women do not divorce due to a lack of sexual attraction."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 12:18 AM
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People I know in real life also talk shit on cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 11:44 PM
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There's no social stigma Do you seriously not believe there's a social stigma to cheating. Go over to one of the relationship subs and see what people have to say about cheaters. People hate cheaters of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 11:30 PM
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Incompatible, grew apart and loss of love are all possible symptoms of loss of sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 11:27 PM
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Casual sex is very common in the gay male community but not so common in the lesbian community. This means if two men get married they probably really want to be together but if two women get married they might just be lonely and want an intimate connection. One of these is clearly going to lead to more lasting relationships than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 11:19 PM
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She is explicitly saying no no no and struggling. He hold her down has sex and finishes in her. That's obviously rape. Both legally and morally. He used physical force to make her have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 03:47 AM
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I don't know about that. Abstinence is way harder than birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 03:18 PM
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The fact that so many women are killed after leaving their partners This is an incredibly rare occurrence. There might be a rather high numbers of occurrences in absolute terms but that's just because of how many people there are. In percentage terms it's incredibly unlikely that a woman will be killed for leaving her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 03:17 AM
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I think a lot of the disagreement in this thread is because people are answering different questions. One question we can ask is "what amount of checking in with your partner and paying attention to non-explicit cues is ideal? Ie what would a perfect person do?" Another question we can ask is "what level of checking in and listening non explicit cues is the bare minimum to not be a rapist?" These are very different questions and they have very different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 03:08 AM
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For the most part I agree. But what if someone really is just a Nissan? Isn't it better to be a Nissan who knows they're a Nissan than to be a Nissan who delusionally thinks they're a Lamborghini?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 11:01 PM
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We can over ride our evolutionary drives to some extent but it only goes so far. I can force myself to drink the bitter medicine even though my evolutionary drive is telling me to spit it out. My drive tells me to spit it out because my instincts know that chemicals with that kind o structure are often toxic but rationally I know that in this case the medicine will actually make me better. However I can't override the drive completely. I can't force myself to enjoy the taste. Similarly I might r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 01:29 AM
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That makes sense. It explains why lots of guys are cool with being fwb with slutty girls but wouldn't want a committed relationship with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 01:19 AM
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I'm using the word "courting" broadly. I just mean spending time and effort to try to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 10:02 PM
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If he won't be involved anyway why would paternity matter? Because the whole idea of evolution of that the traits that get selected for are the traits that help you pass on your genes. If he's not the father he's not passing on his genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 10:01 PM
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When a man and a women have sex and the woman ends up pregnant there is a 100% chance that that baby has her genes. However there is not a 100% chance that the baby has the man's genes. If she was also having sex with other guys the baby could be one of theirs and then the man just wasted all of the time he spent courting this woman and he didn't get to pass on his genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:55 PM
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If that were the case why do men have the urge to fuck "sluts" that they know have been with other men? Because a 10% chance of passing on your genes is better than 0. If a guy can fuck a slut with minimal effort he's probably going to want to. What he won't want to do is spend time and effort courting a slut because that timw could be more efficiently spent courting a non slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:51 PM
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If that's the case, shouldn't women be equally disgusted by men who have sex with multiple women? After all, that means he might knock up more women, meaning she and her baby won't get as many resources. That's a real effect but it's not as strong of a concern as paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:47 PM
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Is the implication that cavemen actually took care of their young along with the mother? No. That's irrelevant. Paternity is important whether the man is involved or distant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:45 PM
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It has nothing to do with the mechanics and everything to do with paternity. If a man has sex with a woman who has only ever had sex with him and she gets pregnant then there's a 100% chance that baby is his and he will pass on his genes. However if he has sex with a girl who's fucking 9 other guys and she gets pregnant there's only a 10% chance that baby is his and he can pass on his genes. Men who are instinctually repulsed by slutty women will be more likely to mate with the women with less o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:40 PM
1

science tell me I could get high from doing lines of natural happy brain chemicals before I've tried intranasal oxytocin. I was very disappointed. I barely felt anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:16 PM
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they will usually assume it's the man's fault somehow. I know. That's what I was saying. No one will respect a man who is in a one sided open marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:09 PM
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Women in one-way open marriages, where she is married to one man, and she has sex with other men, I don't see this being socially acceptable any time soon. Cuckold is used as an insult for a reason. No one would respect a man in such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 05:58 PM
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Women in one-way open marriages, where she is married to one man, and she has sex with other men, I don't see this being socially acceptable any time soon. Cuckold is used as an insult for a reason. No one would respect a man in such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 05:58 PM
2

It's honestly way safer and has much better quality control than street drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 05:23 PM
1

I'm serious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 02:45 PM
3

The darknet is a thing. Everyone has access to sweet pharmaceuticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 02:43 PM
3

Statistically married men are happier. So I'd say that for the average man women are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 07:43 AM
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In my opinion the friends first method is for less attractive people. When two 9's meet sparks are going to be flying and if they like each they're either going to want to hook up (if they're more liberal sexually) or date towards a relationship (if they're more conservative). But when two 5's meet there's unlikely to be any immediate chemistry so if they like each other they'll probably just want to be friends first and then maybe after they've gotten to know each other for a while they'll be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:09 AM
1

I don't smoke cigarettes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:45 PM
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I've done lots of drugs. I just have self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 04:54 AM
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You wouldn't be saying that if you were a heroin addict. An addict who blames his dealer for selling to him rather than blaming himself for buying is retarded. I hate people who don't take personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 01:26 AM
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lol there's no cheap or free version of coke, my dude. Yes there is. It's called research chemicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 01:10 AM
1

I never said high N was the only gross thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 12:47 AM
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The class of red pill men who care about a girl's past are also the most insecure men. Alphas don't care how many guys a girl has fucked because he's confident enough to know his sex is superior. Insecurity is one reason men care about N counts but it's not the only reason. Many men just find the idea of a girl with a high N count viscerally repulsive. It's just gross and that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:32 PM
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Consenting adults have the right to do what they want but in my opinion any guy who is ok with the girl he's "in love with" getting fucked by various penises that aren't his has something wrong with him on a fundamental level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 07:41 PM
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I know that it already is. I was justifying why I think it should stay that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 07:33 PM
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Standing up for yourself is not the same as being a bitch/jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 03:34 AM
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If I lock someone in my basement for years that's a criminal offense. So it seema reasonable that it I take actions to cause someone to be locked in jail unjustly for years that that should also be a criminal offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 09:06 PM
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In this situation the woman who perpetrated the betrayal is dead. It's literally impossible for her to be rewarded no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:47 AM
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Saying that women have lower IQs on average isn't sexist. I'm pretty sure the average IQ is equal for men and women, at least within a couple points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:30 AM
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For a ONS you probably wouldn't be aware of those types of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 03:26 PM
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when I have another relationship Not if? I guess you don't have much faith in your current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 04:39 AM
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It's not that men don't care about personality, they're just not aroused by personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:13 PM
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It's not "what I want to believe". I have zero personal stake in this. I have never and will never cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:08 PM
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I'm not overreacting. You're downplaying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:11 PM
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Because you lie to the one person who you're supposed to trust the most. I consider that on par with cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:35 PM
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The kind of men who get mail order brides are generally unattractive losers who can't get women any other way. It makes sense that the women wouldn't want to stay with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 03:14 AM
2

Why an orchiectomy and not a vasectomy? Wouldn't that mess up your natural testosterone production?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:59 AM
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Like I said, I think in the majority of cases infidelity should just end the relationship. The cheated on person would have to be really committed to forgiving and moving on for it to be worth even trying to salvage the relationship and even then it might not work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:43 AM
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The point is that if a friend comes to you and says "I just got cheated on, do you think there's any way I can salvage this marriage?" The correct answer is more likely to be yes if that friend is a female who's husband cheated than if it's a male who's wife cheated. Personally I think the answer is no in most cases regardless of gender but in the minority of cases where the marriage is salvageable it's more likely to be a cheating husband than a cheating wife
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 10:42 PM
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I think you need to consider what exactly is meant by "cheating is not as bad when a man does it" if this is taken to be a moral statement then I agree with you 100%, cheating is always wrong no matter who does it and people who disagree are just making excuses for themselves. But there is a different way to interpret this statement. Suppose you have a random man and a random woman. They each just found out they got cheated on. I would say that the woman would be more likely to be able to succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 10:19 PM
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The only real answer in the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 06:04 PM
1

His status might be lower than a nobel prize winning economist but it's definitely higher than some average white collar nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 06:01 PM
1

Lil wayne is below "people with average jobs"? Sorry but that's ridiculous. You might not personally be a fan but he clearly has a lot of social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:33 PM
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Tattoos=criminal? Lolwut It's just ink bro, don't be so uptight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 07:21 AM
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They do. I think that's unfair too. People should be admitted on their own merits, not their daddy's merits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 11:29 PM
1

Some state schools might have specific standards like that but the more elite schools like the ivies don't. And even when places do list specific qualifications there is still always the unwritten standard of "and be one of the best applicants who meets the above qualifications". It's this last standard that airways gets lowered for affirmative action
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 11:09 PM
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I thought we were talking about lowering standards here? If your standard is "must have a 3.5 gpa" then anyone who meets that standard suffices, even if it's 5 3.8 gpa-having men and 5 3.7-gpa-having women But most places don't have any specific standards like "3.5 GPA" they just see who applies and take the most qualified people. In these cases I would call accepting anyone who wasn't the most qualified person you could have accepted "lowering standards"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 10:49 PM
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with only qualified men and woman I didn't say that the women were unqualified. Just that they weren't the most qualified people that could have possibly been selected I've just never heard of affirmative action style policies lowering standards like that. To my knowledge, it's supposed to still be merit based. How could any affirmative action program possibly not work like that? Suppose we have 12 spots and if we picked the top 12 without looking at genders we would get 9 guys and 3 girls. If v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 08:11 PM
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I don't know for certain but given the fact that there are overall a lot more male math majors applying it's unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 07:45 PM
2

I know that they specifically went for a 50/50 gender ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 07:33 PM
1

I mean most programs try really hard to be discrete and not blatant about it so they won't just come out and say "it's easier to get in if you're female" but they say things like "we strive to create a diverse culture of races and genders and our application process reflects that" which means the same thing. I went to an REU my freshman summer that always had a 50:50 gender ratio no matter what the ratio of the most qualified applicants was. If the 12 best applicants were 9 boys and 3 girls they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:47 PM
2

I mean if only 20% of your applicants are grenadier but you want 50% of your incoming class to be female how else could you achieve that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:22 PM
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The only reason for someone with millions in assets to be poor cash wise is if they are terribly inefficient at managing their assets. At that point I have no sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:10 PM
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If someone said women cannot possibly be good at math of course they are wrong. But if someone says that people who are both very talented at and very interested in math are more likely to be male than female that's a fact and it's not absurd to say that biology might play a role in why it's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 05:04 PM
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It may have been used historically to justify discrimination but nowadays it's the opposite. The left of using the idea that there aren't any differences between men and women to justify discrimination. There are less women math majors, this can't possibly be because women are just less interested in math. It must be discrimination even though we can't pinpoint where the discrimination is happening so let's lower the standards for women getting in to math programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 04:57 PM
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Feminism is not about equality It's good that you realize that but 90% of feminists will never admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 02:26 PM
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but some that own a lot of land that isn't generating any cash for them. The guy that owns 10,000 acres of west Texas desert isn't getting much for his ownership except property taxes. If you can't generate enough value off the land to pay property taxes that's proof that you aren't utilizing it efficiently and should sell it to someone who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 01:55 PM
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More minimum wage = more computer ordering systems Awesome. More automation means we're producing the same amount of value with less labor which means the economy as a whole is becoming more efficient. It might cause some frictional unemployment in the short term but in the long term it can only be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 03:54 AM
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or a corn farming, subsidy-dependent family in Iowa. Be careful about that one. There are lots of farmers who like to pretend like they're poor hard working folks when really they own millions of dollars worth of land
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 03:50 AM
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The real question is whether the woman is genuinely attracted to the guy or if she's just there for the money. I think Trump's wife is probably just there for the money. Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 07:28 PM
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Plenty of girls bang guys who are drug dealers without being users of drugs. I doubt it. A girl who's banging a dealer has easy access to drugs and drugs are pretty fun so the only reason someone with easy access to drugs wouldn't use them at least sometimes is that they have some kind of moral objection to drug use. But a girl with a moral objection to drug use probably isn't going to want to bang a dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 02:33 AM
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mollies Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 02:26 AM
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Yeah but what's the point. It's also easy to be more muscular than someone who plays StarCraft 12 hours a day every though they are working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 01:00 AM
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Well tennis isn't really about being strong. Coordination and reflexes and accuracy are way more important. So it makes sense that tennis players aren't particularly muscular. If you look at world record power lifters or shot putters they are incredibly muscular because those sorts are mainly about strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 12:43 AM
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His wife is pretty hot. So I don't think he's a great example of a guy who's unsuccessful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 12:06 AM
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Does anyone find it laughable that guys who do body building look more muscular than top athletes who train all the freaking time. So someone who makes it their goal to become as muscular as possible is more muscular than someone who trains for peak performance in a specific sport for which muscularity is only one of many different qualities necessary to excel? Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 12:00 AM
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He might not be getting tons of women when compared to other famous athletes and celebrities but I bet he has a much easier time getting women than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 11:55 PM
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It is absolutely true that a sizable percent of men view sluttiness as a deal breaker for marriage. It's just that there's also a sizable percentage who don't care so depending on the type of men a woman is interested in it she might be able to do fine even if she's a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:52 PM
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college alcohol and frat culture, where nearly all sexual assaults and rapes occur. This isn't actually true. It's just that the college cases are the most publicized. If you look up the stats you'll see that young women who don't go to college are actually raped at a higher rate than young women who do go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 03:29 AM
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I tend to agree with Peter Singer on that issue so I'm gonna say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 12:45 AM
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You can't suffer if you never exist. There's nothing wrong with preventing someone who doesn't exist yet from ever existing, I mean you do that every time you choose not to have unprotected sex. But there's a lot wrong with causing someone who is going to exist to be disfigured
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 12:26 AM
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somewhat embarrassingly the little i do fantasize, when i do its about him and basically our last sexual encounter. That's not embarrassing. That's exactly what guys want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 10:01 PM
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In a world without birth control any girl you're having sex with regularly is going to be either pregnant or nursing the majority of the time so she would need a lot more taking care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 06:40 PM
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As someone who has injected testosterone, it's a huge factor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 06:09 PM
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She can be feminine but he can't be masculine. Not being able to satisfy your woman makes you a total cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 06:08 PM
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It's good to have positive body language, it's good to learn how to flirt and escalate, it's good to dress well, but there is almost zero correlation between doing these things and attracting a particular woman. Learning body language and how to flirt isn't about attracting women. It's about not unattracting them. Learning how to flirt isn't going to make girls suddenly attracted to you but if you can't flirt and you come off as awkward it absolutely is going to turn girls who were interested aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 06:04 PM
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For the same reason a free citizen can't leave their infant at home crying while they go out clubbing. A parent has responsibilities to their child. By choosing not to abort the woman is accepting that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 04:17 PM
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Only if she goes on to get an abortion. If a pregnant woman gets drunk one week then gets an abortion the next that's fine but if she gets drunk and then has a kid with fetal alcohol syndrome she essentially mutilated her child and she should be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:22 PM
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I think the way the law works currently is pretty good. If you're unconscious or if you are intoxicated to the point that you don't know what's happening then you can't consent but otherwise your consent is acceptable and if you said yes it's not rape. But feminists are trying to change this so if a girl is drunk her yes doesn't count and she can claim rape anyway. And not only are they trying to change it but they are going around lying all over the place claiming that that's the way things alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 02:14 AM
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I don't deny that a women will lie. To her friends or LTR What I'm worried about is that feminists are trying to redefine "rape" so that the girl won't even have to lie. There are feminists all over who will say that a woman who has sex while drunk is automatically a rape victim even if she agreed to the sex and was totally into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 02:01 AM
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I think almost everyone does understand this. You won't find many people in this day and age claiming that an orgasm is solid proof that it wasn't rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 01:34 AM
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Zac efron You were trying to come up with v examples of attractive guys who aren't muscular and you picked this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 08:47 PM
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It's inductive reasoning rather than deductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 04:59 PM
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I wouldn't marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 07:43 PM
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Hell no. Only a whipped bitch would tolerate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 07:41 PM
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From the other side, I don't specifically find intelligent women attractive, it's more like I find unintelligent women less attractive. If a girl is hot af but opens her mouth and spouts idiocy she loses points in my eyes. For me demonstrations of low intelligence are only unattractive if they're accompanied by confidence. If a girl thinks she knows everything but is actually dumb it's incredibly obnoxious. But a ditzy girl who can laugh at her mistakes and take correction can actually be really…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 08:06 PM
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None of the examples you're giving are a good display of intelligence. Knowing all the elements is just memorisation. It doesn't take a high IQ to memorize stuff. A better example would be him quickly solving a brain teaser
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 07:52 PM
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When girls say they want a guy who's smart what they really mean is that they want a guy who makes them feel like they're smart. So a guy who's dumb as a rock is out because if the girl sees her boyfriend counting on his fingers to add 2+4 she's gonna feel dumb just for being with him. But on the other hand a guy who's a true genius is out too because she'll feel dumb whenever he talks about things that go over her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 07:41 PM
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Nah. That whole paragraph is just how women lie to themselves so they don't have to feel bad about not being able to get the hottest guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 10:42 PM
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Women love sex with me, just not with you :P
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 06:58 PM
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If you're capable of being attracted to a 475lb person you have to realise that you're an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 02:37 PM
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Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:41 AM
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It's disgusting because it evokes an emotional response of disgust. It evokes that response because of a combination of genetics and environmental conditioning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:40 AM
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There's no ownership. My sister is free to do what she wants with her sexuality. It's just that if I heard about her being slutty it would make me uncomfortable. Why do you think guys say things like "I fucked your sister" or "I fucked your mom" as a way to taunt other guys? It's because they know that thought will make the other guy uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:38 AM
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Disgust is an emotional reaction. "Disgusting" and "gross" are words we use to describe things which evoke the emotion of disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:35 AM
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The problem is that rationality can't override instinct when it comes to attraction/repulsion. Rationally i might know that the marks on a girls face are just acne scars and not signs of any dangerous disease but that doesn't keep me from being repulsed by them. Rationally i might know that since I am not trying to have kids I don't need a fertile partner but that doesn't prevent me from being attracted to girls who show signs of fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:32 AM
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I don't know why you think that the fact that it's not visual/physical means it can't be visceral disgust. Disgust can be triggered by v many things, sights, sounds smells thoughts, anything. in this case the disgust is reaction to knowing/thinking about her promiscuous history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:23 AM
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so they are obviously not grossed out by n and it's something else I think the disgust comes from a combination of promiscuity and emotional attachment. I don't get grossed out at all of some porn star I've never met is super slutty, I'd be careful little grossed out to learn a casual hook up was a slut. I'd be very grossed out to learn my sister was a slut and I would be grossed out enough to end the relationship if I learned my girlfriend was a slut. Increasing the emotional attachment increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 02:09 AM
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Sluts are exciting. The idea of a sexually loose woman, that you can have sex with soon after meeting is a male fantasy. The idea of skipping all the dates, talking, etc. and just shoving your dick in her mouth is mind blowing to think about. A girl who's a slut for me is a turn on, a girl who's been a slut for other guys is gross and a huge turn off. Unfortunately these things are often correlated so there's a bit of a trade off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 02:02 AM
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Sexual attraction and repulsion are rarely rational. There's no rational reason why I don't want to hook up with 80 year olds. I just don't cause it's gross. There's no rational reason I'm turned off by a prominent unibrow but I am. Attraction isn't supposed to purely rational
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 02:00 AM
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Look I can understand not caring for promiscuity, I'm the same way - if my guy had slept with dozens of women that would be a huge red flag for me too. But just because it was with a penis and not a vagina? Ok dude. It makes sense from an evo psych perspective. A girl who has fucked a bunch of other guys could be pregnant with their babies which would make it impossible for her to get pregnant with my baby which makes committing to her a waste of time and resources. Because of this we have evolv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 12:30 AM
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Usually but I think either virus can occur in either place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 02:37 PM
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You know what every virgin bride (or groom for that matter) starts to think one day? Hmm, I wonder what someone else would be like.... They only think that if they're less than 100% satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 02:10 PM
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To be so irresistible to a virgin that she just sleeps with you and only you on the first date? Yes. That would be ideal. The fact that it's so unrealistic is part of what makes it so desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:08 AM
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I think you're misusing the term spinning plates. What you're describing is called cheating. Spinning plates usually means the guy isn't in any serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 04:26 AM
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Yes, it's illegal to drive without it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 05:23 AM
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This guy doesn't seem to know how tampons work but that doesn't change the fact that at no point did call for a tax on tampons. He just said they shouldn't be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 04:24 AM
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What? How does that relate at all to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 04:07 AM
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Should they incur a tax? A sales/gst/vat? A luxury tax on top if that? This confused chap thinks so: What are you talking about? That guy didn't say anything about taxing tampons. He just said they shouldn't be given away free in a taxpayer funded program.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 03:07 AM
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Dopamine is pretty important too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 02:53 AM
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http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/columns/the-sexist/blog/13118502/rapists-who-dont-think-theyre-rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 10:00 PM
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Its a fantasy that 99.99% of all people would never want to play out in real life. I think that 99.99% is too high. I've read that 6% of men will admit to rape or attempted rape in anonymous surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:22 PM
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I completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:19 PM
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Not at all. Violence and pain is a turn off. I like sex to be vigorous and passionate but not rough or violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:16 PM
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They're not equivalent but theres definitely a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 06:53 PM
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It's hard to say how reasonable she's being without knowing what she looks like. A few lines from her profile don't really give an indication of her SMV. I will say that listing a min salary makes her look like a whore. Even guys who meet that standard are gonna be turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 05:13 PM
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If you have to settle in dating it means to need to get more attractive so the guys you really want will want you too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 02:56 AM
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Prioritizing yourself over the greater whole is the definition of selfishness. There are plenty of ways to serve the greater good without having children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:12 AM
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Why are you equating selfishness and entitlement wit not wanting to get married and have kids? They're not the same. There are plenty of narcissistic parents and plenty of charitable bachelors
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:11 AM
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What if you're bald? The rock is bald, he doesnt let it hold him back. What if you're just not handsome? Even if your facial features aren't great to can still maximize what you have by getting a good body, staying lean (bf% impacts your facial features a lot), having good hygeine, dressing well etc. Facial features are one of the harder things to change so yours aren't good you might never be top 1% but top 20% should be achievable unless you are just tragically ugly. What if you're short? Tom …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 09:39 PM
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Not literally anyone. But the vast majority. Most people who claim its impossible for them to ever succeed are just making excuses for themselves. Top 20% isn't that high of a bar. It's not like top .01%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 09:12 PM
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The source of this opprobrium is that any 'incel' could improve himself and achieve success, and therefore he has no right to complain about anything because it's entirely his fault for being in the situation that he is in (I could critique that, but I won't). But RPers also believe that 20% of men get 80% of women, or some such thing derived from the Pareto principle. These two things cannot mathematically co-exist. They simply cannot. It's mathematically impossible for everybody to be in the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 08:58 PM
1

It seems like it would be really hard to strike a good balance between being a supplicant and being a leech
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 06:53 PM
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They're just saying that because they're insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:56 PM
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take advantage of younger men. How was he taken advantage of? He wanted the relationship he even pushed for it to continue when she wanted to stop. This guy is not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:27 AM
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It's the power differential that makes it rape So any power differential makes it rape? I'm a muscular guy. I could easily overpower any of the women I've been with. Does that mean the sex I had was rape because my physical strength gave me the power in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:15 AM
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But she didn't use that power to force him into the relationship, he was the one pushing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 04:56 AM
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She was charged with "sexual exploitation by a teacher" which is a different crime than rape. So it is not correct to say that legally she is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:29 AM
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The way she acted was unprofessional and she should be fired but treating her like a rapist is just dumb. The guy clearly wanted the relationship, he wasn't manipulated. And he was 17, an age where many guys are already sexually active. He's not a victim and she's not a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:25 AM
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Which is nonsense. Disgust is a natural emotion. I'm disgusted by the taste I get when I chew a pill that's meant to be swallowed. I'm disgusted by the thought of having sex with a wrinkly old grandma and I'm disgusted by the thought of being emotionally intimate by a girl who's been used and abused by tons of other guys. It's just how I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 06:25 PM
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I don't think the frequency is what makes it worse than a screw up. Then you shouldn't be defending the words of the other poster. They said portray the rape of the child as a temporary lapse in judgement (a 'screw up') rather than something which happens to 'one in 9 girls under 18.' Which is clearly setting up a dichotomy between being a screw up and being frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 04:20 PM
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But the logic of X happens frequently therefore X is not just a temporary lapse in judgement is just wrong. Those things are unrelated. I think most people would agree that getting drunk and puking in your friends house/car can be excused as a temporary lapse in judgement and yet it happens quite frequently. The reason that child rape is more serious than a screw up has nothing to do with the fact that 1 in 9 girls are victims of it and everything to do with the fact that it has serious conseque…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 04:01 PM
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portray the rape of the child as a temporary lapse in judgement (a 'screw up') rather than something which happens to 'one in 9 girls under 18.' I'm not seeing the logic here. Why does the frequency of rape have anything at all to do with whether or not we see it as a screw up out something more serious. To boo clear I think that rape is a terrible crime and is way more serious than a temporary lapse in judgement. I just don't see how that has anything to do with the 1 in 9 stat. If we lived in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 03:47 PM
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Does this case support the idea the United States has a rape culture? If this were the norm it would support the idea that the us has a rape culture. But it's not the norm, that's why it's newsworthy. The average reaction from someone in our culture when they hear this story is "WTF, he deserves way worse" How does, or do these types of cases (father raping daughter) fit into TRP or TBP sexual behavior and dynamics? Why wouldn't a father just cheat on his wife or hire a prostitute if he wanted s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 03:34 PM
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Copy and paste is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 03:29 PM
2

Do you have something against the letter 'x'?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 03:20 PM
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I don't agree. I think high N count is unattractive by itself. Knowing the slutty things a girl has done with other guys makes being emotionally intimate with her less appealing on a visceral level. And don't give me that "what you don't know doesn't hurt you" bull shit. Only spineless cowards hide from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 08:26 PM
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When I say sluts are undesirable I'm not making a value judgement. I'm not saying sluts are bad people or that their mistakes are unforgivable. I'm saying the idea of loving a slut makes me feel gross. It's a visceral revulsion. Imagine how it would make you feel to be physically intimate with an 80 year old with warts on her face. Disgusted, right? That's the same feeling I get when I imagine being emotionally intimate with a girl who has a history of participating in gang bangs. It's just unap…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 08:24 PM
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When he said "I have nothing against promiscuous women" he meant he doesnt hate them he just doesn't want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 06:04 AM
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Unless we're moving in together, it has no effect on her so there is no obligation to tell her If they ask you always have the obligation to be honest. Lying to your romantic partners is always shitty If I was a former stoner, and my current girlfriend was really against it, I probably would hide that I used to do it. That makes you dishonest trash
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:13 PM
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I'm confident but that confidence doesn't make the thought of being with a girl who's taken a bunch of other dicks any less disgusting. It's just gross on a visceral level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:11 PM
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Another difference is that pot smokers might hide this from their boss or people they don't know well but they probably wouldn't hide it from their romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:46 PM
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. It doesn't occur to them that they are not the best their partner has every had That's not the only reason to care about N count. I know I'm fucking awesome and I'd be the best any girl I get with has ever had even if she's been with 100 guys before me but I still wouldn't want the girl who's Taken 100 dicks because it's fucking gross to think about the girl I'm with having done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:34 PM
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That's a little different because pot is actually illegal so there's a real reason to hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:41 PM
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Feminists will label you a "slut shamer" if you say anything other than "sexual history doesn't matter at all"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:37 PM
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Driving doesn't really require that much higher level thought. Self driving cars aren't going to be sentient
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 10:09 PM
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Too intoxicated to drive and too intoxicated to have sex are two different things. That's how it is now but it would change if feminists get too much power. Look at this video from feminist Laci Greene http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TD2EooMhqRI In the middle of the video she literally says "if they're too drunk to drive they're too drunk to give consent. Period" she even adds the "period" to make sure you know she isn't allowing any exceptions. As she's not some fringe extremist either. Three vide…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:56 PM
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Drunk sex isn't illegal. It's not. But there are a lot of people on the internet who wish it was and who will lie and say it is. I have seen countless people say that it's rape to have sex with a drunk girl even if she says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:50 PM
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Drunk driving laws aren't about judgement or critical thinking, they're about muscular coordination and reaction times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:48 PM
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If all you did was smoke and it's your first offenses you can usually avoid prison but repeat offenders might not be so lucky and dealers go to prison all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 07:00 PM
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Like what? Smoke weed? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 06:30 PM
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This is a logical fallacy. People go to prison because they committed a crime. Committed a crime is not the same as did something wrong. Unfortunately we live in an unjust and oppressive society where many things which individuals should have the right to do have been made into crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:58 PM
3

3" is tiny. Normal is 5"-6"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:29 PM
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So a 1" pennis would feel the same as a normal one? That seems unreasonable. I don't think pennis size is super important as long as you're in the normal range but 1" is tiny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:26 PM
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On the other hand if penis size was going to be an issue it would need much better to know that at the beginning at you can find someone more compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:14 PM
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Can you read? He said If you're a man with a small penis, you can still attract women on the initial appearance, but once she sees it, it'll have a negative effect on her over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:11 PM
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I would still say...the minority of people who lift will become more attractive or noticeably change their physique. I agree. But it's not that lifting couldn't help them. They're just lifting the wrong way. We call it fuckarounditis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:41 AM
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I think it's like 10% of guys have great genetics and can make progress with minimal effort. 10% have shitty genetics and will never make good progress and the rest have the potential to make good progress but it takes a lot of work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:19 AM
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If I agreed to let you stick it up my ass then yes. If you did it against my will then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:59 PM
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I think no gains Comes from poor dedication and poor programming. If you go to /r/fitness you'll see lots of stories of people who "lifted" for years making slight gains and then switched to taking it serious and followed a set program consistently and made more gains in a few months than they had in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:47 PM
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The thing about lifting is that it only has a significant effect on your attractiveness if you're serious about it. 90% of people don't put in the effort and end up looking not that much different but for those who are truly dedicated it makes a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:40 PM
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Dieting is essential. Lifting will preserve muscle better than cardio
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:29 PM
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Depends on why they're a 3. If you go from obese to ripped you could go from a 3 to a 9. Lowering your body fat percentage can drastically change the look of your face as well as your body
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:16 PM
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The average woman desires trump in a purely sexual manner to a much lower extent than the average man desires miss universe in a purely sexual manner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 04:04 PM
5

Which is completely different than being miss universe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 02:59 PM
1

That's how it should be. Drunk people are perfectly capable of saying no so if while drunk you choose to say yes that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 02:06 PM
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If you are really drunk you are as defenseless against them like a seal against an Orca whale. You're never defenseless unless you're unconscious. Even when I'm super duper drunk I am still capable of saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 02:04 PM
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The difference is that when a man wakes up next to a girl he regrets sleeping with he is expected to say "oh it looks like I made a decision I regret but it was still a decision I made so I guess I'll accept it as my responsibility" but when a girl finds herself in the same situation she is encouraged to say "I was taken advantage of"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 02:02 PM
1

What if I like both ecstasy and acid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:41 AM
1

empathogens are the class of drugs typified by MDMA. I thought you liked MDMA? I swear I saw you mention it in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:49 AM
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I can see how those wouldn't be for everyone. I don't think you should write off all drugs though. There are lots of different kinds. Drugs offer truly unique experiences and there's probably one that you could find that would enhance your life. I can't imagine anyone not enjoying the empathogen experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 04:02 AM
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I've never really been fond of drugs, even though I've tried it. Which ones did you try?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 11:26 PM
2

Fascism is extremely authoritarian. It's completely different than libertarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 09:12 PM
1

The people who oppose taking in Syrian immigrants don't do so on the basis that they aren't genetically close to Europeans
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:38 PM
1

They're closer to all of those groups than they are to subsaharans but they're probably closest to middle easterners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:22 PM
1

Egyptians are genetically closer to Europeans than they are sub Saharan Africans
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:08 PM
3

I'm sure the drug war contributes to Mexico's crime rate but the person I was responding to just said "Mexico's crime rate is pretty low" which is just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:06 PM
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Definitely. Ending the war on drugs is one of the most important issues our generation needs to accomplish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:42 PM
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Both parties are culturally authoritarian. That's why the war on drugs is still happening and neither candidate is saying anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:26 PM
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"the club" for FAR too long. Which oddly enough, is really the only thing I like about Trump: his own party despises him, and that strikes me as a good thing. Trump might not be as much of a political insider as Hilary but he's not some commoner either. He was born and raised as a member of the elites. Bill and Hilary went to his wedding for fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:20 PM
1

Nazis weren't libertarian at all. Rounding up Jews and sending them to concentration camps is a pretty big breach of liberty
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:13 PM
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Differences in policing is not the reason that blacks get arrested more for violent crimes watch Jared Taylor explain how data from the NCVS proves this. Now it probably is the reason blacks are arrested more for drug crimes but those shouldn't be crimes in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:06 PM
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Hell, Mexico's crime rate is pretty low No it's not. It's murder rate is 2.5x the USA's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:02 PM
1

They're not really "through the floor" they just haven't kept up with productivity increases. Inflation adjusted wages have been pretty static the past few decades
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:51 PM
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And the idea that english language belongs to one group of english speakers more then another is ridiculous. I didn't say that. I said it was something that belongs to no one. A guy who picks object up carries it to another location and puts it down for example. Is there a job where this is all you do? Not using any technology? If so it's the exception not the rule. And progressive tax rates help with this issue. Simple laborers probably create most of their value themselves but they also don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:46 PM
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Like who? I can't think of anyone in today's economy who produces value independent of both natural resources and intellectual contributions. Intellectual contributions includes things like the English language
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:35 PM
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But I'm comparing to historical rates measured the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:33 PM
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But it's just wrong to say the economy is in the shitter and unemployment is super high. Sure some people are struggling but that is literally always the case. Until we reach a post scarcity utopia there will always be people struggling. But if we compare the current economic climate to historical trends it is objectively pretty good. Unemployment rates are lower right now than they have been for over 40 of the past 50 years. The SP500 has been going up, GDP has been going up, inflation is very …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:31 PM
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Nice strawman. I'm not saying unemployment doesn't suck for those experiencing it but it is an objective fact that if you compare current unemployment rates to historical trends the current rate is not that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:58 PM
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That's why I included the intellectual contributions of past generations as a category of unowned things. If I'm an engineer who designs a bridge I'm not using any natural resources since what I'm producing is the design for the bridge and not the bridge itself. But it's not true that the design is 100% the result of my labor. The design also required the labor of Isaac Newton who invented calculus and many other physicists and mathematicians. Without their contributions the design could not exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:55 PM
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Unemployment rate is not the same as getting unemployment benefits. In order to be counted as unemployed you have to be actively seeking work but as long as you're still seeking work you're still counted even if the benefits have expired. If you look at a graph of historical unemployment rates you will see that the current rate is lower than it has been for most of the past 50 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:44 PM
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The unemployment rate is 4.9% that's not awesome but it's not terrible either. It's been a lot higher historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:26 PM
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Our economy is in the shitter It's really not that bad. People just like to complain because they think "the economy sucks" means "I'm not rich yet"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:01 PM
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I think the difference comes from the fact that ownership of ones body is a much more fundamental right than economic ownership of property. Taxation in the sexual marketplace (ie being forced by the government to have sex with someone) would be absolutely barbaric. By taxation of property is more acceptable because property rights are kind of artificial. What do I mean property rights are artificial? Think about it this way. Suppose you own a plot of land. What makes your claim of ownership ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 02:53 PM
3

Bodybuilding specifically might be a little associated with gay culture, but just straight lifting? No. All athletes lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 02:23 PM
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Lifting weights is the most masculine thing you can do. No one is not lifting because they're scared of being seen as gay. But more gay men lift and are in good shape than straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 02:05 PM
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you like, totally missed all those movies with sweet nice guys in them? Who love the woman for who she is and do nice things for her There's plenty of guys like that in real life. As long as you're hot enough you can find a guy who'll treat you like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 05:35 AM
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Lust/infatuation is a powerful force. People (both men and women) will do things they'd never imagine themselves doing if they find a person they're sufficiently attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:08 PM
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No. But if 95% of people all say they want guy A and yet you observe 50% of women acting in a manner which suggests they want guy B then that suggests that there is some dishonesty occurring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 04:50 PM
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And genuinely nice guys don't, as a class, have trouble getting laid. The ugly ones do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 05:27 PM
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It's worth noting that although the men that donate to these are numerous in absolute terms they still represent only a small percentage of men. The majority of men see this things as a stupid waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:47 AM
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What if the man is unconscious?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 06:16 PM
3

And the whole rest of the post was you rationalizing why you don't date them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 04:17 PM
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Translation: I like muscles but ripped guys don't pay attention to me so I'm going to convince myself i don't really like them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 03:55 PM
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Don't listen to him. It's terible advice for a girl. Squats will give the you ass that every guy wants. If you're worried that your thighs are disproportionate with your butt try adding in barbell gluten bridges to specifically target the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 03:43 PM
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I can reliably do three sets of ten 150 lb pec-flies. Different pec fly machines have different leverages so this stat is impossible to interpret. Why not tell us how much you bench?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 03:40 PM
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It's a lot more common than most people would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:20 PM
1

Have you considered steroids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 01:41 PM
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Further more, its based around superiority because of the control women want over sexual encounters. They want to actually stop in the middle of sex because they feel "uncomfortable" or "don't want it anymore". How disrespectful and conceited is that? Why is there no consideration for what the man wants or if he needs to finish? This is how everything works. If we're playing basketball and you want to stop then we stop. I can continue paying by myself but I can't force you to keep playing with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 05:33 AM
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There are really cheap smart phones nowadays. The only reason to have s flip phone is if it's a burner and you sell drugs. I can see why that's considered ratchet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 04:03 AM
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The experience of having a relationship and visiting sex workers are going to be completely different. If all you care about is getting laid and you're not having success in the dating market then sex workers might be a good idea. But the majority of guys who want a relationship want more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 01:42 AM
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You don't need drugs but that doesn't mean they couldn't enhance the experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 10:02 PM
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Not really. There's a wide range of different perspectives ranging from mostly sane to completely batshit and you never know who you're dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 02:12 AM
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Read the article he linked I don't see any links in his post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 12:42 AM
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I didn't think my opinion of SJWs could get any lower but it just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:46 PM
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having homosexual sex That's not a fetish or a kink. It's sexual orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:45 PM
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Withholding non sexual attention is bad. That's what being treated like a piece of meat means. It means no non-sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:31 PM
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To be sexually objectified by a hot man is good. It's good relative to no attention at all but it's bad relative to getting attention that is not purely sexual. Similarly for a man getting to sleep with a girl but having to put up with her being high maintenance is good relative to not getting laid at all but bad relative to getting to sleep with her and not having her be high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:22 PM
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If Mr. super-Chad-Adonis-perfect 10 doesn't treat a girl like a piece of meat -- he walks up to some woman who's, honestly, a 5, and starts being nice to her and acting like he wants to get to know her and start a relationship -- this woman is suspicious of our hero. If super-Chad had acted like an asshole player and made sexual advances, she'd have fucked him, but because super-Chad acted the same way creepy, ugly, loser-men act, she was suspicious about Chad's unusual interest. Not thrilled. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:18 PM
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I wouldn't call SJWs an easy marketplace. Given the stances of some SJWs on what counts as rape or sexual harassment I'd be terrified to do anything sexual with them for fear of being mislabeled as a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:39 PM
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Women don't love being treated like being treated like a piece of meat but they might tolerate it if the guy is hot enough. It's like how men don't like bitchy high maintenance girls but they might put up with it if shes hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:22 PM
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10 is still more than more than most guys who care about N count would want. And I think 10 is on the low side. The majority of people who have lost track are probably at 20+
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:30 PM
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None of that contradicts my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:25 PM
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Lmao. You don't ''evolve'' to achieve a goal that humans don't inherently find desirable (ie not being cuckolded). This makes no sense. What humans find desirable is completely irrelevant. The only thing that matters is if the trait makes you more likely to pass on your genes. You're saying ''they were wrong" from the POV of you're culture, btw No. A child has 1 biological father. That's a fact. It doesn't depend on culture. If they believed otherwise they were wrong. You can't objectively say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:59 AM
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It's perfectly fine to judge someone for any criteria when it comes to physical attractiveness. No one is entitled to be found attractive. You didn't have any control over being short but the girl with eyes too close together, a crooked nose and lopsided ears didn't have any control over that either but you would still think she's ugly. Life isn't fair, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:39 AM
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Right. These people didn't think this. That's what I'm saying. It doesn't matter what they thought. They were wrong so the selective pressured I just described would still work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:23 AM
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Lmao. Geishas were prostitutes. This is like how the agency I worked for says that we're not prostitutes, we're courtesans or ''smart companions''. It's the same idea -- we're selling sex and company and our ''artistic skill" not sex, technically. That's not what wikipedia says https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Geisha women whom men often wind up obsessed with en masse & marrying The vast vast majority of men do not obsess over prostitutes or want to marry one of them. The men who do are outliers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:20 AM
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People didn't tend to think in such individualistic terms when society was more tribal. All that mattered was that children was had not that your specific children were had, because children were viewed as belonging to everyone not just their parents -- hence extended vs nuclear families. It doesn't matter if people didn't think in those terms, the world still worked the same way. A child always has exactly 1 father. The less other men the women I'm sleeping with are sleeping with the more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:15 AM
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Not really. Because in many societies in the past, cuckolding wouldn't have been an issue (children were raised by extended families, generally, not by nuclear ones in most pre-modern societies. And ownership of ''things'' also tended to be collective, so no issues re: "who do I leave my property to?!"). I don't see how that makes cuckolding not an issue. The cuckolded guy still lost out on passing on his genes which is what matters evolutionarily
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:03 AM
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half of the clients I had as an escort That's not exactly an unbiased sample. The kind of men who would go see an expensive escort are outliers. If it were, geishas would never have existed Traditionally geishas were entertainers and not prostitutes. The existence of a few outliers doesn't proven it's not biologically ingrained in the majority of men. Biologically ingrained Traits can still have exceptions for example It's almost certain that our disgust at poop is a biologically ingrained trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:00 AM
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The Christian west is far from the only place you see virginitiy being prized and promiscuity being undesirable. Look at India, Muslim countries, Japan etc. The vast majority of cultures are like that. I'm sure you can find a few small counterexamples but there is a clear general trend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:31 AM
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True. It's a girl with lots of partners that's gross. A girl having lots of sex is great, as long as it's all with me :p
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:14 AM
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If it's high enough that you've lost track then it's high enough that a guy who doesn't want to date a high N woman will find it unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:00 AM
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They said 'inbuilt' you said 'socially trained'. Those are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:56 AM
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I don't think it has anything to do with women who have lots of sex is gross. It definitely does. I would never date a woman with a high N and the instinctual feeling of grossness is the main reason. Everything else is just a rationalization
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:55 AM
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being socially trained to find women who have lots of sex gross cause slut. I'm sure society has a part to play in this feeling of disgust but I think some of it is probably innate. There's a solid evolutionary reason why men would be averse to sluts in that they present a greater risk of cuckolding
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:53 AM
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How is it instinctual to go after women who don't like sex? It's instinctual to go after women who don't like sex with guys who aren't me If a girl likes sex with guys who aren't me then one of them could get her pregnant and I could end up getting cuckolded. That's a huge evolutionary risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:01 AM
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There are some guys who would accept a high N count but would not accept being lied to. If a girl is with one of these guys and the topic of sexual history comes up she needs to tell the truth. If she lies the truth might come out later and the guy will dump her because he doesn't like being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:55 AM
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I agree, just making sure you're consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:57 AM
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if you're more than 30% under average height That's almost nobody. Average height is around 5'10" 30% less than that is 4'1"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:51 AM
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I honestly don't care about the pressure men face to look good. If they can't handle the pressure, they are failing to adult right. Would you say the same about the pressure women face?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:47 AM
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For a women to be attractive, all she has to do is have a healthy body. Not if she has an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:46 AM
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Impossible to cheat or impossible to break up? Because making it impossible to cheat doesn't make everyone mate for life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 05:44 PM
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I've tasted food, that doesn't mean I know how to cook
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:17 PM
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Arranged marriages are the pinnacle of beta bucks, not exactly something to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:55 PM
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If she thinks he can get girls doing the same thing she did to get guys she will give him horrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:46 PM
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It's unfair because you're holding someone to different standards than you're holding yourself to. The standard is for what I personally am attracted to. I'm not trying to be attractive to myself so of course I wouldn't hold myself to that standard. If a man were to not want to date women for their N-count and then simultaneously said that women who didn't want to date him because of his N count were in the wrong then he would be hypocritical. However if he accepted that his N count would be off…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:31 PM
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I just think it's a little unfair for a man who is well versed with sex to shun a woman for being the same but to each their own. In what sense is it 'unfair'? What does fairness even mean in the context of sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:05 PM
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i don't think most people are just talking about someone who's high N or promiscuous when they talk about having some experience, though Usually the advantages of 'experienced' girls are brought up as a counter to guys who say they want a girl with low N. This is implicitly implying that high N = experienced A virgin might be a little shy and nervous at first but if this is a LTR or marriage we're talking about that will quickly change
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 09:35 PM
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Your last statement is a little slut shamey I'm not shaming girls for being sluts. I'm just saying that for me personally it's s turn off. how many girls have you been with? 7 or 8 depending on how you count, but it doesn't matter. Even if someone who'd been with 50 girls said the same thing as me it wouldn't make them a hypocrite. I'm not saying that it's wrong for girls to slut around. I'm just saying that I find it unattractive. It's not hypocritical to find a trait unattractive even if you y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 09:31 PM
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I think "experienced girls are better in bed" is bull shit and it's just something high-N women say to make themsleves feel better. Firstly, experience is not the same as N-count. A girl who's had 10 ONS could have had sex less times and thus have less experience than a girl who's had one LTR. There's also the fact that if we're talking about marriage or a LTR then the inexperienced girl isn't going to remain inexperienced. She might be inexperienced the first time we have sex but she won't be b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 08:48 PM
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I agree. I feel like some people try to force this equivalency where sex and commitment are the same if you flip the genders but im not buying it. I see way more guys desperate for a girlfriend than girls desperate for a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 04:48 PM
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that said, there was one totally beautiful dude that I really did want to have sex with who never wanted to do the deed for religious reasons. So a highly religious dude thought it would be OK to hire an escort but then didn't have sex with her because that would be going too far? WTF people are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:43 AM
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Im working at big data company powering one of those websites you use. You're probably in a completely replacable role, just another cog in the machine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:41 AM
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Men built society as it is today. Men invented the core things that make our lives functional and enjoyable. Men invented computers, phones, Ipad's, TV, surgery, penicillin, all kinds of things that allow us to advance into a modern society. Men created banks, they fought wars, hell, a group of men are the one's that created America, the greatest country in the entire world. Why do the accomplishments of people who aren't you but who happen to share your gender make you entitled to anything. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:40 AM
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It seems like you're contradicting yourself. First you bring up how people use 'cuck' as an insult then you say that people see cuckold situations and think "poor guy". These are opposites. The reason that people use 'cuck' as an insult is that they see cuckold situations and they think "that guy is a pathetic loser" it's the exact opposite of having sympathy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 05:28 AM
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Some feminists claim that only "enthusiastic" consent counts. If she's just doing it for the money she's probably not very enthusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 10:24 PM
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There are also some states which criminalize the death of a pregnant woman as double homicide. These law, ofc, only apply to post-viability pregnant women. I'm pretty sure in some states it's a double homicide even in the early term. It doesn't really make sense given that abortion is legal but its the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:02 PM
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This is the most pathetic shit I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:55 PM
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This is the most pathetic shit I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:55 PM
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Hotter dudes in her past immediately make it impossible so you avoid girls who had them. This isn't a possibility for me because dudes hotter than me don't exist and if a girl disagrees I don't want too be with her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:51 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:23 PM
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I agree that the rationalizations that RPers give are pretty dumb sometimes and that's part of it but it's not all. I don't make any of those claims and have been very clear that my aversion to sluts is just a visceral disgust and yet I've still been called immature, insecure and misogynistic. It's the worst on /r/relationships basically every time there's a from a guy who has issues with his girlfriends past the hivemind will insult him mercilessly and downvote/insult anyone who disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:26 PM
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Not wanting a relationship is fine Not according to the consensus on /r/relationships and many blue pillers. If you ask them A man who doesn't want to date a woman because of her sexual history is at best pathetically insecure and is probably a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:31 PM
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The assumption that she isn't attracted comes from the realization that she was HL in other situations. Before this he thought she was LL in every situation but now he learns that she's only LL in this relationship so the cause of her LL must be something in the relationship. At that point the fact that she's not that attracted to him is the obvious explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:50 PM
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I don't want to just be the hottest guy she's been with. I want to be the hottest guy she could ever imagine being with. So from that standpoint "she's satisfied now but if she'd experimented more in college she would have been with hotter guys and she'd realize I'm not all that" doesn't seem very desirable. I guess that's a pretty high bar and might be unreasonable but that's the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:09 AM
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It makes sense in an evo psych way. If a man is fucking other women he is just as able to father a woman's child. But if a woman is doing it the other guys could impregnate her and the guy could get cuckolded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:13 AM
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If she hadn't slept with FAR hotter guys in her past, she wouldn't be disappointed that the guys that will commit to her aren't as hot. Meh. Do you really want to be that guy that she's only satisfied with because she's never known better?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:00 AM
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It's very much an emotional response rather than logical It's definitely emotional but I think it's logical too. For a guy in that situation the most reasonable explanation is that his wife just isn't that sexually into him. I think that's a very reasonable thing to be upset about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:20 AM
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It gets really frustrating. I don't enjoy it at all. It's completely unsatisfying. Whenever my girlfriend and I take stims I try to make sure we've had sex beforehand because otherwise I'm gonna get horny and try to have sex high and I'll just end up frustrated and unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:45 PM
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A lot of thoughts are wrapped up in it like feeling emasculated, feeling like my girl has been degraded, feeling less special etc. But I don't actually believe these things so i wouldn't say that these feelings are the cause of the disgust, if anything it's the opposite the disgust is an innate reaction and then my mind comes up with reasons to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:36 PM
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The disgust is a reaction to the thought of another guy having sex with the girl I'm romantically involved with. I'm not sure what more there is to say. I just picture the scene and my mind is like 'Eww! That's not right"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:12 PM
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Yeah I've done a lot of analysis on that. I think it's just instinctual. Disgust is a very primal emotion and it doesn't usually respond to reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:47 PM
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If you wouldn't be OK with her sleeping with an ex then you should not say If she wants to be with someone from her past again, she is free to do so. Thats very misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:38 PM
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It's all about you not wanting to compete with Chad's cock, and to preserve your own egos. For many red pillers that might be that but for me personally it's not like that at all. I wouldn't want to date a slut because when I think about the girl I love having fucked someone else it inspires a visceral feeling of repulsion. The more men she's been with the stronger this feeling becomes. I need a girl with a low N count because if I'm with a girl with a high N count this feeling will become overw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:15 PM
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If she wants to be with someone from her past again, she is free to do so. We can sort it out like grown ups. Are you implying that someone who wouldn't be OK with their girlfriend sleeping with an ex is not acting like a grown up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:06 PM
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If that guy were with a lot of women (or just looking for a casual thing) I'd call him a hypocrite and a dumbass I don't think it makes him a hypocrite. If a guy were to say "it's wrong for girls to sleep around but it's not wrong for me to sleep around" that would be hypocrisy. But merely not wanting to date them is different. I mean I wouldn't date a girl with facial hair despite having it myself, does that make me a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:53 PM
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Unsuitable for marriage to me or unsuitable in general? I wouldn't classify any woman as unsuitable for marriage in general since I don't care what other people do. If some guy wants to marry her that's his choice. For me personally I find promiscuity in a potential partner to be gross and I wouldn't marry a woman who was more than a little bit slutty. I mean ideally I would want a virgin but since that's not really plausible I'd say my deal breakers would be a double digit N count any kind of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:14 PM
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