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I’ve noticed a lot more of this the last decade or so. I watch a lot of couples YouTube’s and there are so many incredibly HV black women that are all married to HV non black men. IIRC Black women are the quickest growing demographic for higher education and high income careers and black men have fallen far behind that. It is a known fact that men cannot tolerate women who out earn and outperform them. What woman wants to get an education and a lucrative career so they can date a bum that doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:14 AM
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Right. We are doing ourselves no favours when we pretend that men are just dumb and making innocent comments or that they don’t know any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:00 AM
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“Daddy issues” usually comes from people who were raised in a poor environment. Ie low income, uneducated mother, multiple kids with different men and not providing extra curricular activities or being able to engage with their children because they’re working multiple jobs and living at or below poverty. I actually read a book recently and one chapter was about the importance of who raised a child. This was based off a communal tribe in Africa, and the study found that when raised in a strong c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:26 PM
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Exactly. Men will always cherry pick to make it seem like the woman is overreacting. 100$ says this guy continuously put zero effort into clothing or hygiene (his beard is evidence of that) and then when she snaps and breaks up, he claims it’s because he wore jeans once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:28 PM
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Marriage doesn’t have to be the goal for everyone. What makes a woman LV in this situation are the ones who deep down want to be married but will stand by being a forever girlfriend waiting for a proposal that will never come. If you honestly don’t want to be married, there’s nothing wrong with that. I think your vetting process for men will have to be a bit different than women who are dating for marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:10 AM
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These are the kind of guys that suggest things like going on a hike as a first date. Absolutely fucking not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:54 AM
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They just assume that anything that goes wrong fertility wise is a female problem LOL. Couldn’t have anything to do with their dusty sperm a decade past it’s expiration date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:39 PM
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I think the best option for married couple is 1 joint account that each party agrees to deposit x amount each pay in order to cover bills and household expenses, then keep the rest separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:39 PM
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I have friends that do dumb shit like that constantly. Ever since I got into FDS it is soooo frustrating seeing women play themselves like that. Especially women who are otherwise successful and have themselves together. Some people can only learn the hard way though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:13 PM
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I actually agree with cooking together or whipping up a basic dinner with/for a guy when you’re exclusive. It’s a way to spend time together, plus I would expect him to help or entirely clean up afterwards. But spending an hour + preparing a meal for an ungrateful loser? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:55 PM
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Seriously, is this actually common? I have never once cleaned a mans house for him, and wouldn’t do so unless it was my house too (and he was contributing equally to chores). I also don’t do grand gestures or cook elaborate meals for men I’m dating at all, and would only do it for a long term boyfriend on special occasions. Why are women putting in so much for men who wouldn’t do the same for them?!? Keep this extra shit for special occasions a few times a year MAX. If you do too much he’ll come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:27 PM
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I don’t date men that operate on an X out of 10 scale. My personal scale is yes/no as in yes I want to spend my time and energy on this man or no, bye (how I feel about 99% of men). I want a man who operates the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:51 PM
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He wants to isolate her so it’s harder to leave when the abuse starts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:49 PM
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Anything happens to men and they will somehow pin the blame on women 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:45 PM
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This is so real. I’m just not that concerned anymore though. I will either find a HVM or be happy on my own. I would rather never date than tolerate a LVM. I know I’ll be ok and perfectly happy on my own, so I’m not desperate to find anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:24 PM
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I think it has something to do with the idea of “nothing worth having comes easy” plus the male ego. If they can land a girl that’s hard to get it reflects positively on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:20 PM
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So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:57 PM
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Literally anything that doesn’t serve you. Do not do anything that does not directly benefit you for a man who is not dating you (exclusively). That is my single most important rule that I’ve learned through trial and error.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:12 PM
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There’s no way he’s looking for marriage. Unless it’s with a doormat manic pixie dream girl porn fantasy that he will abuse, manipulate and cheat on when he gets bored. Any legitimately marriage minded decent man is not talking to women like that within the first few messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:58 PM
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There’s no photos of them together on his sm, at least not Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 12:06 PM
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Shes gone too far with the fillers - her face looks odd in videos. But her body is like a 9.99999/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:25 AM
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/r/truerateme was created specifically to give women falsely low ratings on purpose in order to lower their self esteem and give men high ratings to over inflate their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:51 AM
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It’s a theory from the red pill about women rapidly losing their looks around age 25-30. /r/men_of_the_wall is a good example of how it’s actually men who look significantly worse as they age (starting at like 19 when their hairline starts falling back)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:24 AM
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Do you have any info on that? I’m not questioning you, but I’m genuinely interested in finding out more info about. We’re always told that surgical abortions are completely safe and don’t affect future fertility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:54 PM
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I’ve never dated anyone that didn’t eat pussy enthusiastically. So if a guy wasn’t into it, he’s not for me. I wouldn’t be interested in a guy who did it w/ no effort because he thought he had to. No one should feel like they have to do anything, and I also don’t have to date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:52 PM
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He looks like a wealthy version of a crackhead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:00 PM
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Men have it so wrong wrt to teen girls. I was a 16 year old girl not all that long ago and we definitely were not lusting after men in their 20s, and 30+ might as well have been invisible. We were interested in our classmates and boys from other high schools. It’s nothing but a male fantasy to think that young teens are interested in pot bellies and receding hairlines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:52 PM
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Omg this is so true. LVMs are twisted people that get off on wasting our time. I highly doubt he was expecting OP to come over to hook up with him with that pathetic line. He wanted attention and he got exactly that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:00 PM
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And then they turn around and blame the women for sticking around and raising the kids on her own without a man. It’s never men’s fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:40 PM
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Actually, you should look into the rates of men leaving their wives or SO when the woman is diagnosed with cancer or another serious health issue. iirc it’s like 7 times higher than the rate for women leaving sick husbands. So yes, LVM will literally leave dying wives that they’ve been with for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:19 PM
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You need to file for the child support that your children deserve. That is their money your ex is stealing from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:40 PM
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Exactly this. It’s easy to read about abused women and think WTF is wrong with her to put up with that but we have to remember that she has been emotionally abused and beaten down on a daily basis for months or years to get to that point. Any self esteem or self respect she once had is long gone. Abusive men know exactly how to pick victims and groom them to tolerate abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:36 PM
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Yes!! 99% of men with a beard have either a non existent jawline or several hidden chins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:53 PM
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They’re disgusting and dirty and I assume any guy that has one is either hiding a weak jawline or his second chin. A woman on here called them chin wigs and that’s literally the best description for them I’ve ever heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:42 AM
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I think they’re also probably referring to how a lot of men don’t bother with clit stimulation during penetration. Most women can’t come from literal PIV, but most women would be able to orgasm from clit stimulation during penetration, not just during foreplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:29 AM
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Ok, I know suicide is not a joke but I am dying at your description, picturing a grown idiot man in a cupboard with a belt around his neck 🤣. If that doesn’t say mental instability I don’t know what does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:24 AM
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For real. I’d like them to let me know What exactly we are supposed to be digging for?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:53 PM
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That thumb is going to give me nightmares 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:45 PM
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Seriously I find the mental health stuff is a problem specifically with men. IME they will outright lie or manipulate their conditions when it benefits them and use it as a label to excuse their bad behaviour. They use it to suck women in and then threaten suicide if we try to leave them. Half these idiots are self diagnosed and the rest are looking for a mommy caregiver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:17 AM
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Any man who openly lists multiple mental health issues to someone he barely knows is a hard no for me. Especially the depression/anxiety/panic disorder triad. From personal experience what men really mean 99% of the time is that they’re overgrown toddlers who are unable to cope with adult responsibilities and have a shitty job/life that they are not trying to improve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:59 AM
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Me too. I like to give a last snarky response and then block them so they can’t respond. Best of both worlds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:43 AM
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Short, borderline geriatric and bald? No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:37 PM
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Yes to all of this. I swear LVMs have been running the biggest con in history trying to convince women we should be working for their attention and not the other way around. That’s why this sub is so hated by men on reddit. Because our eyes are opened to their games and we’re opening more women’s eyes DAILY. Ladies remember we as women have intrinsic value and desirability that men do not have. They are almost universally jealous of this. The difference is that a HVM is going to pursue you where…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:28 PM
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This comment is like gospel for FDS. We all need to remember our inherent value and desirability that men are jealous and resentful of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:32 PM
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Women never hit the “wall.” There is no wall for us. My mom is 51 too, attractive and fit and she is harassed constantly for dates in person, on dating sites and Facebook too lol. Now the quality of most of these men is a different story, but the interest is still there. My grandmother just passed away at 80 years old and up to the week before she passed she had men taking her out for coffee and day dates weekly. Different men and she had no interest in settling for just one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:28 PM
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It’s because they’re male. Males literally believe they have inherent value just for being a male. Plus they spend too much time on redpill/PUA communities that teach them to pretend they are a prize in order to brainwash women into believing that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:27 PM
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I wish more women understood that for the most part, most men literally do not see us as human beings. They do not care about us outside of services we are able to provide for them (sex, cleaning, raising their spawn.) The only exception sometimes is for their daughters, and even that is only because of narcissism. Absorb this information and act accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:13 PM
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🤣 chin wig had me gasping for air in the middle of my workplace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:37 PM
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It’s a waste of time/resources. Most office jobs don’t take anywhere near 40 hours/week and they could be done remotely but yet employers keep people hanging around the office doing nothing probably 60% of their week minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:03 PM
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Female Life Strategy - basically a sister sub that focuses on goals, self improvement etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:55 AM
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Block now, don’t text him and don’t reply if he texts you. You’ve effectively already been stood up. If he made plans, didn’t follow through and didn’t let you know that something had changed, he stood you up. Don’t take the disrespect and don’t entertain him with any more attention. He’s getting off on the control and manipulation aspect. If you interact with him after he’s pulled this stunt, you’ve given him 100% control of the situation and have proven to him that he can easily manipulate you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:07 PM
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Is this you in the text? If so, you should have had him blocked off the bat. The minute you respond to LVMs when they are intentionally baiting you, you’ve already lost. You are giving him permission to harass you and confirmation that you still care. Don’t waste your breathe arguing with LVM or trying to use logic. There is almost nothing they enjoy more than knowing they’ve gotten under your skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:42 PM
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You should post a little background info for all the people who don’t follow 90 day fiancé otherwise it’s kinda confusing. But seriously, all that stuff is his responsibility. But I don’t feel bad for her at all. He left his 2 previous wives after knocking them up - does she really think this is going to end well?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:50 PM
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I guess the question with your logic of wanting your kids to have the same last name - why didn’t your husband change to your last name? Or why not hyphenate both for everyone. I’m not questioning you specifically, but women often say stuff like what you did and it doesn’t really hold up at all. If anything, the “family” name should be the woman’s since she’s the one bearing children. The bottom line is that with your logic, it’s always still the woman who is giving something up for the sake of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:17 AM
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Good job in getting him to admit what he’s actually looking for. I never tell guys what I’m looking for first because whatever I say I want, magically that’s exactly what they’re looking for too, whether that’s actually true or not. 75% of the time it turns out they’re explicitly looking for casual sex, the other 25% they’re open to a relationship but also still looking for casual sex. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:23 AM
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Every time a post about a chronically abused woman/woman acting an absolute embarrassing fool comes up I say the same thing: raise your daughters with self esteem and self respect from day 1 and they will never tolerate this kind of fuckery. There is a reason certain women get into abusive relationship after abusive relationship. Men are predators and they can detect and intentionally choose women who were not raised to love and value themselves and will then tolerate being abused and manipulate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:35 PM
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A 31 year old man knows what a girl who is too young for him looks like. He was sending messages to you (and probably a dozen other girls) that he doesn’t know on fb. Friends of friends = basically strangers. That is some bottom of the barrel creep shit. You can do much better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:29 AM
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The only time it may not be a red flag is if they met at a hobby group/in person and he didn’t explicitly know her age at first meet. If they met on dating sites it means he was specifically pursuing naive young girls to use and manipulate. Your guy messaged you randomly on fb w/o knowing you which means he is a major creep. Get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:23 AM
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Block him on everything. If it makes you feel better, simply say “I’m not interested anymore” then immediately block before he can start harassing you or trying to manipulate you into meeting. I’ve been in your shoes before, and this man is not seeking a genuine connection with you. Learn from our mistakes instead of having to learn this painful lesson firsthand. It’s obvious that you’re young and very naive (we’ve all been there) but it’s plain to those of us who have been around the block that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:21 AM
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This is why we need to raise girls from birth to have more self esteem and self respect than this. I get that not everyone wants or cares about marriage, but women should never give children to a man or act like a wife without receiving all the legal and financial benefits she is owed. I get second hand embarrassment reading about women who let themselves be disrespected to that degree for years even though it’s not entirely their fault. We have been conditioned since birth to accept any crumbs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:52 AM
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This sounds like something a broke man would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:47 AM
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Men do this constantly on tinder/bumble. Most of the time it’s not even their kid. They will literally take family members children and have a photo with them in their profile so they look trustworthy and like a good guy or something idk. I’d like to know if the children’s parents are aware that these men are using their kids as props or bait to try and hook up with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:09 AM
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It’s another form of negging. Your standards are too high = your standards aren’t low enough to entertain trash like me. When they say this stuff to women it’s coming from a place of insecurity. Instead of trying to raise themselves up to get a good woman they try to wreck our self esteem so they might have a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:32 PM
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Last time this happened, I turned around and walked out, then blocked his number and blocked him on the app because at this point in my life I will not be disrespected like that. Don’t lie to me. I take care of myself physically and I expect the same from men. I’m not attracted to bald or fat men period no exceptions. Any man that has the audacity to waste my time like that is getting walked out on immediately. To avoid this in the first place, absolutely no dates with anyone who doesn’t have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:10 PM
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This is why whenever a man asks me, I’ve (25F) had sex with 2 guys, both long term bf’s 😉 That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:53 PM
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Asha C
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:46 PM
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Low value man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:41 PM
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Just block and completely move on so you can stop thinking about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:43 PM
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