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surf-dude/r/seduction02/01/16 08:35 PM
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To add on that, what I believe the be at the core of seduction, or becoming a good seducer, is a growth mindset. Always aim to be the best version of yourself, both mentally and physically. If you are fit as a girl and put attention in your appearance, dress nicely, you can come quite an end. The same also counts for guys.
/r/seduction30/01/17 10:29 PM
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Nope, you should not text her. She turned you down. Get over it, there are 3 billion more women on this planet. No wait, actually you should message her. I was in your position once, when I did send her a message. it made me realize how creepy I was behaving. Just keep on working on yourself, make yourself better every single day, you ll get there.
/r/seduction30/01/17 10:24 PM
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This really hit a string with me. I ve been dating this girl for the past 3 weeks and at first everything was fine. Amazing sex, great chemistry and I thought it could become something more. Then on our third date I mention that I would like to date her exclusively to see where things are going. At first it is fine, we still go on dates and have amazing sex, but then it started going downhill. I started taking things for granted and didn't apply as much game anymore. now it is sort of over. Pity…
/r/seduction01/11/16 12:33 AM
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I think the Game was an interesting read, but it does not represent the current pick up community. Back in the days the focus was way more on taking action instead of inner game. Interestingly tough, Neill Straus eventually came around and is now advocating family values.
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:56 PM
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As someone from the Netherlands who has lived abroad, I the answer is: yes. The most important part of seduction: confidence, conveying a sexual vibe, are universal and will work everywhere. What you do have to realize though is that every european country has it's own culture and social rules. Girl from Germany and France grew up in a completely different culture. Think of the difference between US and canada and apply this to every country in Europe. So my answer would be yes, but keep in mind…
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:44 PM
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Why? There is nothing awkward about calling her. You two are going to meet up, so she needs to have your number as well. If she doesn't want to meet up and gives you a fake, you have no reason to talk to her anymore and you know it straight away.
/r/seduction30/07/16 06:39 AM
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I always do this. If she is watching her phone at the same time, sometimes I send just a message like hello gorgeous and wait for it to show on her phone.
/r/seduction30/07/16 06:34 AM
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If your goal is to get better with girls, I would recommend to start reading models from mark manson. From there on build on your skills to seduce these beautiful ladies! It is all about building a happy lifestyle for yourself. Do that and not only you will be more happy, but also more attractive for the opposite sex.
/r/seduction30/07/16 06:18 AM
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Dude, I m 25 and I ve never been in a relationship, it is not that big of a deal. Think of it this way: the older you get the more value you gain on the dating market. As long as you keep improving your life like the post above me says, you will increase your value. If you work out you ll increase your physique, if you go to college you ll get a degree and hopefully a good job and in general you WILL get better at pick up and social interactions if you keep trying. It is not strange for a 35 yea…
/r/seduction19/06/16 05:50 AM
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Don't say it in a jokingly way, but like you actually mean it. If you tell a girl she looks gorgeous while maintining eye contact, a small smirk on your face and confident body language. She will experience it in a much more sexual way. Think that you are James Bond. This is a great example from Steve Jabba: https://youtube.com/watch?v=nTomKxvEVz0
/r/seduction14/02/16 01:00 PM
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Also about the foreskin. A friend of mine had the same problem and it really messed with his self esteem. He got surgery to have his foreskin removed and he is now a much more confident person. I would suggest to consider the same. Dont know about the cost though. For him it was free, free healthcare here in Europe. It could be quite expensive in the US.
/r/seduction14/02/16 12:53 PM
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Sexualize a conversation, kino, comment a girl on her appearences.. Basicly make sure that they know that you are sexually interested in them. A room mate of mine has a babyface and would definately fall in the "cute" category. He has had more girls than any other guy I know.
/r/seduction13/02/16 11:15 AM
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Just continue talking like nothing happend, or lead them to somewhere else. I personally give them a small kiss, then a more passionate one and after that I make sure I m first to stop.
/r/seduction13/02/16 11:09 AM
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Oh man, I still remember my first date ever. Boy, was I nervous. First tip I would give is to do not expect anything. It is your first date, she will probably sense that you are nervous. Allow yourself to fail, after all there are a bilion more girls on this planet. Just try to have fun and get to know each other. Ask her questions and make sure to make eye contact. This is something I barely did in the beginning. Btw, I like your idea of walking through the park. It is always a good idea to swi…
/r/seduction13/02/16 10:50 AM
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Dude, you have 800 matches and not a single date!? As someone with only 40 matches, but who went on multiple tinder dates I find this hard to believe. This is the script I usually follow: give the girl a compliment on one of her photo's in a jokingly way. I invite them to go surfing with me, which is kinda silly, since it is 10 degrees outside. I also do this in a joking way, like telling them to put their bikini on in the middle of the winter. Most of the girls will get the joke and say it is t…
/r/seduction10/02/16 09:22 AM
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Look at it this way. Attraction = tension. By constantly talking to her and answering her questions, you are releasing the tension of the conversation. Thus making her less attracted to you. If you would go on with your life and keep texting to a bare minimum, you increase the tension. She is now wondering why you are so occupied, you are now high maintenance. This will increase attraction once the two of you meet.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:41 PM
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I used to have the exact same problem. What for me worked was using a question game (see one of my posts). What you do is you create a game like environment, where you take turns to ask each other a question. You start with simple questions, what are your passions, what do you find attractive in a guy etc.. And then you start to spice things up, by asking if they have ever kissed a girl, if they like to masturbate etc.. You can check my post for a list with tons of questions and some further exp…
/r/seduction03/02/16 03:56 AM
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I am just curious how many dates you got out of this huge amount of numbers. If you are looking for a gf, a date is the only way to really get to know a girl.
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:01 AM
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I think he wants to know, how you would tell a girl that you do not like her looks (say clothing or perhaps she gained a few pounds etc.).
/r/seduction12/01/16 11:56 PM
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I think the general questions will definately help building comfort during a date. Plus they are a fun way to get to know each other. As someone who lost his virginity really late (I was 20), what worked for me was being completely honest about the fact that I was a virgin. The girl I had sex with for the first time, knew I was a virgin. The sex we had was still awkward AF, however it did remove some of the tension since we both had zero expectations. Depending on how often you have dated a girl…
/r/seduction03/01/16 05:56 PM
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Always nice to hear a succes story. Glad I could help!
/r/seduction03/01/16 05:34 PM
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After you kissed a girl, you have done most of the work. You showed that you are sexually interested in her and she didnt dismiss your advances. Now , what makes a girl want to sleep with you, is how comfortabele she is with you at that moment. What I would advice is to take her some where quiet and talk. Since the 2 of you kissed, you know she is attracted to you. Now is the time to ask personal questions and create that bond every girl is looking for. Meamwhile make sure you kino her and every…
/r/seduction03/01/16 04:08 PM
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In my opinion it is better to not ask too many questions. Otherwise you ll get into interview mode, where you are simply asking questions and she answers them. What works better, is if you open up first. Just tell her something personal about yourself and she will likely do the same. I usually tell something about my family. I ve had a girl tell me about her mother who died when she was young, just a few hours after we met.
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:18 AM
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