20 and relationshipless

saintmrdog · 2016-06-19T02:16:41+00:00

I'm going to give you the five things you need to work on.

CONFIDENCE - have you been showing this the whole time? This post would say a lot, but that's okay! We all start somewhere and everyday from now on till you get a girl I want you to wake up, look in a mirror and say "You are the best fucking thing, that today will have." Just try it.
Humor - Can you make people laugh? Did you know a polar bear is heavy enough to break the ice? Simple little jokes that will get her walls down, calm your nerves, and eventually also leads to a light kino.
Your story - Who is markcubelon? Does he actively expands his horizons, does he do all type of things? Doing new things will not only grow you as a person, it creates an infinite amount of areas for you to show your world, who you are to other people while woooing your ladies and the most important person, you.
Self-Love - Unlike "Your Story" I want you to think if you had a girl at this moment, would you like her to be in contact with you 24/7, and I mean 24/7. The random text at 3 AM saying I'm bored entertain me. The answer is NO, you need your space to be you. She should be invited to that space not know that you are available all the time. As you expand your story you will expand the things you like to do that a girl might not like and that is perfectly fine.
Intimacy - Once you make a connection with anyone you need to not only show sympathy but empathy. This is also very important when you have sex. You need to be able to make an emotional connection and the hardest part, understand and act on the emotions of the other person.

Extra - Compliments - When you see a lady, it's okay to shoot her a compliment on her looks, this is redundant, but also shoot her a compliment on what she is wearing, something she has talked about. All humans love to be complimented and it's easier to create that empathy when you are complimenting someone on something deeper than just "I love your tits and I would absolutely sleep on them."

The minor things:

Looks - You should always be working on bettering this, but for yourself. I was 310 pounds and still meeting women, I got to 220, still meeting women, I'm 288 and still meeting women! I also work on my looks for me, but women don't care as much on your looks as you think they do.

Money - You don't need a Lambo, just don't be a bum on the street who isn't working, and can't even provide for himself.

surf-dude · 2016-06-19T05:50:37+00:00

Dude, I m 25 and I ve never been in a relationship, it is not that big of a deal. Think of it this way: the older you get the more value you gain on the dating market. As long as you keep improving your life like the post above me says, you will increase your value. If you work out you ll increase your physique, if you go to college you ll get a degree and hopefully a good job and in general you WILL get better at pick up and social interactions if you keep trying. It is not strange for a 35 years old guy to date a 25 years old girl. I have vowed not to get into anything serious before i am 30 years old and if I do she sure has to be really special.

Title	20 and relationshipless
Author	markcubelon
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	June 19, 2016 1:33 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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