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surf_city/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:01 AM
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She won't take any responsibility for what happened and any further arguing with her about this will make things worse for you. The best advice is to let it go and the only thing you can do going forward is be more clear with your directions. Just hold frame and don't let her show that any of this effected you from this point on.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:23 PM
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I'm not sure where you got this 96% number but you couldn't be more wrong. The average rate of return for the S&P 500 is around 10-12%. If you invest your money in a diversified portfolio that takes away a lot of risk you can expect to earn on average 10% increase on the money you invested. Of coarse the stock market has bad years but leaving money in the stock market over extensive periods of time will negate these bad years. Read any book on investing or the stock market and it will tell you h…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 09:15 AM
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These either sound like green flags or it sounds like she only views you as betabux. Casually mentioned how she's going to raise her kids in the future A good girl will want to raise kids in the future I've invited her back to my place a few times to "watch a movie" only to be turned down She doesn't want to sleep with you right away which indicates shes not a slut. She's somewhat religious; helping out at the church. I'm assuming her religious values makes her inhibited amd closed with her sexu…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 09:00 AM
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Agreed, these are the two things that help the most with this problem. I would emphasize mediation. Meditation helps immensely with frame. Lifting is important for strength and confidence but will help with this dependence your feeling. Here is a trp guide to meditation that should help you get started. For me the key was making it an everyday habit and I became much more comfortable with myself.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 06:56 PM
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I'm not sure what your problem is? High libido is a good thing, not a bad thing. I have a high libido too and there really aren't any negatives. Unless you are sleeping with multiple girls a day your libido isn't out of control.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 06:51 PM
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Why would you want her back? You need to have the prize mentality. If you want her back then she clearly had power over you. You need to work on yourself and move on. Go to the gym, work on your goals, and you will forget about her in no time. It doesn't matter whose fault it was anyway. The only thing that is important is that the relationship is over. Completely cutting her from your life is the best thing you can do. It sounds like you have some good friends so listen to them and get your shi…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 06:47 PM
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Make new plans or something for her birthday but you will look weak if you go. You need to hold frame and not show any sign of being butthurt over this. If you already said you would go to her party then go. You can't blame her for you being more invested in the relationship. You need to work on dread going forward because in an LTR, the girl should be very invested in you or it won't work out.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 08:05 PM
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The girl I like has a hotter friend, let's call her B. Two weeks ago I went out with my friend's group, she was there and apparently now she told everyone that she likes me. She messages me on facebook all the time with girly questions and so on. Girls are always competing with each other. This is essentially a competition between A and B. While it might be possible to have sex with both of them, your probably better off picking one or the other considering all of these girls are part of your so…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:30 PM
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Sounds like you are her plate not the other way around. You already know what you should do, hard next.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:52 PM
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Yea just go for it. IOI's are bullshit anyway. Some girls give tons of IOI's but will then act cold toward you or some will give none even though they're attracted to you. Heavy eye contact is usually a telling sign though. That's a girls way of getting you to approach. In any scenario assume attraction and act accordingly. You are definitely overanalyzing it.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 04:03 AM
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I completely disagree. You haven't provided a single detail but if your trying to plate her she needs to know your interested. Snapchat her telling her to send you her number and try to set up a time and place to meet up.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:48 PM
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It is a shit test. Any girl that does this shouldn't make it past the status of plate anyway so this shouldn't phase you. Respond to it like you would to any other shit test.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:43 PM
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was a shit test for whatever reason. Couple hours later she messaged me through snapchat (I don't delete and block and shit, leave it to girls to do it) too feed her hamster about how she's not a racist and blah blah blah. She ham No. If it bothers you overtly mention it. You need to define boundaries. If she continues to cross the boundary use dread or next using your discretion. Girls take cues from your behavior. If you don't define what and what isn't ok she will continue to test boundaries.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:21 PM
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