| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 227 | There is only one choice. | REMINDER 👑 | sushimeup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 90 | Look for consistency and effort before you look for any type of connection. | STRATEGY | sushimeup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:17 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaMy location and first name probably.. yeah.. In this modern digital age, we could find someone with a quick google search. I mean, I googled my first and you see linkedin searches as well as old photos linked to social media :o have to be mindful with what you post online. We leave more digital footprints than we’d like.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:09 AM |
| 6 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaYeah I don’t bother LOL instant turn off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:04 AM |
| 21 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaWhat about guys that follow you asap without you giving it to them orrrr having it anywhere in your profile lmao 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 3 | seeking adviceYou’ve listed reasons as to why you should dump him. He’s not worth your time, energy and effort sis. Dump, block, and delete would be the first step. Then you focus on your hobbies, goals, and interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 10 | Getting a ring is too much work now and pickmeisha agrees at the top commenterLmao saw this too and cringed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:45 AM |
| 31 | I need a little support, my husband and I are at odds sexuallyIs it the same level of maturity now? Clearly he’s porn-addicted and not satisfying your needs. You’ve got your answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 14 | She's buying a HOUSE, asks him to go on the mortgage, asks for nothing towards down payment, he says no... because he's her estate agent and wants the commission. Whole load of NAH.Yikes, he’s a 🤡 he’s already shown his true colors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:58 AM |
| 4 | What mixed signals really are.‘so are you asking to come over?’ No bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 5 | What mixed signals really are.‘You cook and you can make great puns?? How are you still single??’ as he puts in no effort to pursue you but has the audacity to ask how you’re still single lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else find this to be true or is it just me?Yep, this is why it’s so hard to trust men these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Is he playing a game here?His intentions are clear as sky. He doesn’t want anything sexual with you and if it comes to that point, he’ll take what he can get. You’ve already developed feelings for him and when that time comes, he’s gonna try to reel you in and do a bait and switch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:59 AM |
| 9 | Principle of least interest and you: What does it mean?By nature, I’m a giving, caring, friendly, and supportive person. It’s who I am and I always will be. For friends, family, and person of interest. I realized my recent person of interest has high quality traits but is a low quality person. Realized he’s inconsistent so I stopped entertaining him and purposely avoid initiating contact with him. What does he do a few days later? Messages me. What does he do when I post something on my story about me enjoying my night having a glass of wine and mov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Is this a joke?🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:02 AM |
| 23 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?Drove 2 hrs to see him every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:42 AM |
| 14 | Look for consistency and effort before you look for any type of connection.You’re exactly right. It’s more challenging to discern this when you start off as friends who share similar interests then become interested in each other. After building some connection, you start noticing the inconsistencies and lack of quality they display. Nexting him is the right choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Look for consistency and effort before you look for any type of connection.And truth sets us free! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | If he doesn’t want to take you out on a date, he probably thinks you’re not worth it/“ugly”Needed to hear this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | There is only one choice.Of course! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | There is only one choice.Yes, it does! Thank you girl! You as well, and the rest of us Queens 👸. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 8 | We made it on the "controversial Reddit communities " Wiki page!Wouldn’t be surprised if a scrote wrote this lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 10 | There is only one choice.I totally agree with you. It’s just like the saying “love yourself 100% before you can love anyone else.” That applies to your family, kids, friends, animals, and/or significant other. If you’re unable to care for yourself, then how would it make sense for you to care for another human being and/or animal? I come from an asian household and I was taught that my parents’ and elders’ needs were more important than mine. Whatever I did, I had to do it for the sake of their needs. Every choice I had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 7 | There is only one choice.And I’m glad we’re aware of this now 💪!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 12:31 AM |
| 7 | There is only one choice.Yes 💯!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Why is a beautiful woman like you single?I’m mid 20s and I said ‘I need a man to match me. Not going to settle for anyone, let alone anything.’ His response was ‘look at you 💪’. Damn right. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:02 PM |
| 4 | The Love is Blind (Netflix) drinking game.I finished it. I cringed in every episode but it taught me a lot about the realities of dating (even though dramatized). The amount of low quality behaviors made me 🤮 Goes to show that working on yourself 100% is the remedy. You know your worth and leave people, things, and situations that add no value to your life. It was an entertaining show that taught and exemplified what NOT to do, act, and behave like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Sexual FrustrationWith practice you’ll get better at redirecting the sexual energy! Just with anything, it’s hard and difficult but you got this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:33 AM |
| -4 | Boyfriend(25M) wants me (24F) to drop one of my best friends (22M) :/The concern isn’t about your male best friend. It’s about your insecure boyfriend. If you’ve clearly defined that your male best friend is just that, a male best friend, him telling you to drop your male best friend is disrespectful. That means he doesn’t trust your words. Now, actions is the other thing. If you’re keeping it platonic, that’s you respecting your boyfriend and the relationship. He cannot control your friend’s actions, but he thinks he can with you. There’s a difference with expre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 20 | Sexual FrustrationFocusing on my work, hobbies, and a million other things on my list. Keeping myself busy and re-directing the sexual energy to other activities. I’m very sexual in nature and Ive basically trained myself to resist the urges haha. Been celibate since October 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:59 AM |
| 6 | I've really been trying (sorry it's a little long)You called him out, and either he’s going to shape up or not. He didn’t. It’s not always easy calling people out because you don’t know what their response will be. In this case, his response was a response and he did you a favor. Now you can move on and forget about him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:22 AM |
| 48 | My HVM has an interest in my teenage sister, is this a cause for concern or am I being paranoid?You are not being paranoid. You feel uncomfortable for a reason. Trust your gut instincts telling you that there’s clearly something wrong with him asking you these types of questions about your younger sister. He seems like a creep and is not HV! Yes! Block and delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Meeting guys who just broke up from tinderFor future vetting, you could ask them straight up when their last relationship was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | I get stressed out when my boyfriend goes out to drink after work...I’ve been in a similar situation before about dealing with an ex who chose to go out drinking with his friends every weekend (with/without me). This obviously caused rifts in our relationship at the time. However, I learned some things: Feeling uncomfortable about his drinking behaviors is a clear indicator that he’s crossed a boundary. I’d bring up the discomfort and let him know how you feel about it. How he chooses to respond will show you his interests and priorities. There’s an incentive fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:47 PM |
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