suxinshin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	2nd Date-itis		suxinshin	/r/seduction	13/07/22 09:30 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	2nd Date-itis What’s up man, be wary of reddit threads especially on this sub reddit as alot of the people commenting are trolls and some just give really bad, manipulative and disingenuous advice. I definitely sympathize with your situation as I am in the same boat. It really sucks because i can tell you genuinely want a great connection and your intentions are pure. I don’t think it’s anything we are doing wrong to be completely honest. I do think women are not fitting into the roles of women of the past. t…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 07:45 PM
1	2nd Date-itis not it	/r/seduction	14/07/22 02:20 PM
3	2nd Date-itis You’re not wrong at all. My self worth has been tied to girls for along time. everything i do is for women at the end of the day. I will say my interactions today are far better than I could have even imagined a couple years ago. I couldnt escalate, show intention, or display value. so i am proud of my growth there. It’s just at the end of the day i want to know i’m good enough. that i can do it too. not be on the outside looking in. Yeah this is the main point of the last woman i went out with.…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 03:49 AM
4	2nd Date-itis The neediness is something I have identified and have been working on for a long time. It’s still a point because even though i don’t show it by over texting/calling any more like i use to, it still eats me up inside waiting for her to text back and wondering what the dynamic of the relationship is going to look like next. “am i being ghosted, lied to, led on, has she found someone better”.i don’t know how to trust her so by time our next interaction happens i’m already a state of mess and happy…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 03:10 AM
4	2nd Date-itis yeah i can’t agree with this one lol. im never short on stories and sharing my experiences. i have a lot of hobbies that women can relate to and an interesting job. there is never unintentional silence. the clingyness and follow up is something i could work on. thanks	/r/seduction	14/07/22 02:44 AM
1	2nd Date-itis I wish i could just say that they went bad but from my point of view i think they’re fine. okay. magical? maybe not. my first dates are usually great. they tell me they have a great time and would love to do it again. they even set the next one up. somewhere along the line I get complacent and run out of ammo.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 02:34 AM
1	2nd Date-itis I don’t think it has anything to do with them wanting or not wanting relationship and when we have sex tbh. I say this because we talk about what we are looking for to begin with. I will say that they are probably leaving the encounter with not the greatest enthusiasm about the sex… Just because i can’t seem to land anything long term enough to really practice sex regularly enough. I do focus on her always… I never bring up sex in my conversation or text. Right before we’re about to have sex I a…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 02:29 AM
1	2nd Date-itis stfu bot	/r/seduction	14/07/22 12:41 AM
1	2nd Date-itis I understand what your saying and i wish i could just be more open and vulnerable… I will say I have never been ghosted after these dates. I say this cause i think they have a high amount of comfortability with me. I wont be as vulnerable and I will implement more challenging and hard to win in my game and report back. thanks for the response. onward and upward.	/r/seduction	13/07/22 11:04 PM
2	2nd Date-itis Thanks for the reply. I wouldn’t think my second dates are a result of a pity “one last chance” deal because they are usually first to text that they had a great time and want to do it again after the first. We also tend to hook up on the first or second date and then comes the not feeling it text. although some do feel broad when attempting to set up a second date. I just think my second dates all end up with me being content with the direction, less challenging of them and thinking i have won.…	/r/seduction	13/07/22 10:32 PM
1	2nd Date-itis I do allow myself to be more vulnerable on the second date but i don’t give them everything… I like the list idea, i will give that shot. Thanks for the reply. Good luck to you as well!	/r/seduction	13/07/22 10:14 PM
5	What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey? how to give good head	/r/seduction	11/07/22 07:07 PM
21	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested why is it someone who does worse things and not let’s not do things that intentionally try to manipulate people through negative. where would the line be?	/r/seduction	07/07/22 10:37 PM
229	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested don’t try this	/r/seduction	07/07/22 06:17 PM