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"Only 99.8%" is still pretty damn safe. That's the risk of it breaking once out of every 500 times, on average.
/r/seduction11/01/17 04:01 PM
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Absolutely agree. You're texting way too much. Text her the day before the date to confirm that you're going out then go from there - that's it.
/r/seduction29/11/16 09:26 PM
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If you want something you've never had before, you have to do something you've never done before
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:16 AM
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Last update! I lucked out yesterday. I was in the back in one of the aisles and she was just about to end her shift. As she's making her way to the back, she spots me and says hello. We talk for a minute and then I mentioned I wanted to grab coffee. She was, at first, apprehensive and said that she's currently not looking for anything serious so I said I wasn't either. I went to grab her facebook as I figured that wasn't as serious as a number but she thought the opposite, so I grabbed her numbe…
/r/seduction10/10/16 02:32 PM
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You're right, thanks for the input. Last question: if there are too many people in line again and it's not slowing down, is it better to go to the other line? As then she'll wonder why I didn't go to her line. I'm not usually into "mind games" or so but might that be an efficient tactic in this case?
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:08 PM
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Thanks for the response! Posted the same thing below but I've seen her a couple times this week again and both times there were people behind me so we just made small talk. Unfortunately, it seems like I'm not going to get alone time so I'm not sure what to do.
/r/seduction07/10/16 06:44 PM
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Thanks for the response! I've seen her a couple times this week again and both times there were people behind me so we just made small talk. Unfortunately, it seems like I'm not going to get alone time so I'm not sure what to do.
/r/seduction07/10/16 06:43 PM
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She just replied and said she's not interested but didn't really give a reason. I'm not too bummed but If I see her again at a party or school I'll do what you suggested. Thanks for your advice!
/r/seduction25/09/16 01:34 PM
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She recently replied and just said that she's not interested in anything more after we we went on a couple dates. She didn't give a reason either but I'm okay about it anyway. Thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction25/09/16 01:32 PM
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Exactly. She may be busy or just forgot to reply. Give her a few days until you text her again
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:11 PM
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Thanks for the response! Yeah, I should have said something like that. I'll try it this weekend. She ended up messaging today actually to apologize for the late response saying she's been really busy but that we'll see each other instead on Saturday! I have a mixed group that I'm going with so I'll get in state with them, good idea. I'll use some of your ideas. Thanks again!
/r/seduction06/09/16 06:22 PM
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"I know"
/r/seduction24/07/16 05:54 PM
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She did make an effort to want to see you though. I may be wrong but in my experience that's how girls make an effort. They're not going to outright ask you out.
/r/seduction08/03/16 08:13 PM
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Great write up! You are right on with the thought process. It's all about not freaking out and letting your thoughts come out as naturally as possible
/r/seduction07/03/16 06:58 PM
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So he's saying to not text her longer comments but then in his examples they are quite long texts. Are those examples not wall-of-texts texts? Also, I've read on here that it's better to try texting again after a few days if she doesn't respond to the first message. And if she doesn't respond to the second, just next her. That's worked so far for me but I'm open to other ideas
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:45 PM
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Good read. Definitely gets you pumped about doing more approaching to the girls that you may think are out of your league
/r/seduction12/01/16 05:42 PM
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So you actually get a response by texting them every now and then?
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:49 PM
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Thanks, everyone. I was thinking that I was being too hard and not giving them a chance but you all seem to do the same.
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:49 PM
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To provide a contrary opinion to what most are saying here, I've had great success with Tinder. It's an easy way to get matched up with girls and flirt with them. I've started doing more day game, however. It's definitely more fun, as others have pointed out, as it gets girls to see how you are in real life. It's cool to have Tinder as a side thing, though. Would recommend.
/r/seduction10/07/15 06:42 PM
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You're right. One more strike and it's done
/r/seduction24/04/15 09:44 PM
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This is gold! I think I'm definitely missing the push pull technique in my usual game. Last summer I did this push pull by accident as I was joking around but now I realize that it actually was a great way to keep her interested. Cheers for the replies!
/r/seduction16/04/15 08:42 PM
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Also, so even if it's just a kiss or two, would you not kiss them at the end of the date if either person has to leave? I feel like you're not expressing sexual interest if you don't pull the trigger on the first date.
/r/seduction15/04/15 06:55 PM
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Thanks for your comments! Haha fjortisar are the worst ;) I think there is definitely something to what you're saying. I can't be just another guy, I can't be boring. It goes along with what Einstein said about the definition of insanity: to do the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. I keep on sending the same texts, albeit to different girls, and expecting them to go out with me. I suppose I'm predictable.
/r/seduction15/04/15 06:53 PM
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I like that. I thought that's what I was doing but I'm apparently not. I'll have to remind myself when I'm talking to a woman to be independent of the outcome.
/r/seduction15/04/15 06:48 PM
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It really is a shame how women work but I have to change the way I approach the situation, it seems. Thanks for your comment.
/r/seduction15/04/15 06:44 PM
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Ok, I'll try to treat them all the same. I may need to tone down my interest when talking to a girl I actually like. How do you decrease your interest while not becoming a boring conversationalist?
/r/seduction15/04/15 08:16 AM
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That seems to be the consensus among most who have replied. I think that I'm showing too much interest in these women even though I think they're showing as much interest in me. In the conversations with the last two girls I've gone out with, it seems like it's been pretty even in terms of interest levels but I may be wrong. As I asked another poster, how do I decrease my interest levels when I'm genuinely interested in what they have to say?
/r/seduction15/04/15 08:11 AM
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I could totally see where this is coming from and I think you have valid points. So how do I keep myself from being interested in someone if I'm genuinely interested? I feel like that's counter intuitive. Maybe I tend to share too much on the first date so girls feel like they have enough of an idea of who I am, therefore not wanting to go out again. Could that have anything to do with it?
/r/seduction15/04/15 08:05 AM
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I don't know if I necessarily think that they have higher value as I know that I'm a fun guy who keeps himself occupied with other stuff. Then again, I did think that this last girl I went out with was out of my league...
/r/seduction15/04/15 08:02 AM
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I currently live in the U.S though I am from Sweden. I like all of your points and I figure that I do all of them pretty well. I think I could work on number 2, though. So the last two girls that I've gone on a date with have both been at least 8's or 9's. Now, I think that I've done kino and escalated well during the date as they both made out with me towards the end of the date but both have also ignored me for a second date. I only send texts to nail down plans so I really don't know what I'm…
/r/seduction15/04/15 07:58 AM
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No worries! Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction09/04/15 02:01 AM
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Cool, fair enough!
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:52 PM
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Oh, so in your example the reason you would send the "missing out" text is if she already replied to you but replied late, right?
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I'd agree with that. Weird thing is that she did the same when I first asked her out but when I called her she was into it and we agreed on a time. Regardless, I'm going to wait a few days.
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:17 PM
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I usually do the same but I like the idea of texting her that she missed out. I'm thinking of sending something like this on Sunday (I invited her out for hiking on Thursday/Friday), "Hey, you missed out on hiking last week! Come over tomorrow at 8 and we'll make dinner." Thoughts?
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:15 PM
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You're right, I probably am thinking too much. She responded but said she couldn't go so I suggested another day. We'll see how long it takes to respond this time... In the mean time I'll focus on other things and if she doesn't respond, I'll call one last time seeing as she seems more receptive to calling. If nothing, delete and next.
/r/seduction08/04/15 12:11 AM
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Well, we already had coffee last week but the texting pattern was similar for that, too. I was setting up logistics then she stops texting so I called her the next day and finished setting the date up. So maybe she's just unusually terrible at texting. Thinking I might try that tactic again, what do you think?
/r/seduction07/04/15 09:50 PM
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Is it ever a good idea to say something like this: "I'm going to be forward with you, I want to meet you again but I'm getting a vibe that you're not interested. If that's the case, it is what it is but I'd like to know where you stand."?
/r/seduction07/04/15 09:09 PM
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Sooo she just texted back and you were right. She said she was just super busy with school and work these past couple days. I really need to work on not overreacting haha. Thanks for your response, though!
/r/seduction03/04/15 10:33 PM
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Yep, couldn't have said it better.
/r/seduction21/02/15 07:32 PM
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Yeah, I've had that happen a few times. I think those are bots. Girls very rarely message first and if they give you their number without any real reason to they're probably a bot. Also watch out for girls who don't have a bio, they're usually bots in my experience.
/r/seduction21/02/15 06:46 PM
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Salt Lake City
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:35 PM
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Totally makes sense, thanks man. A couple of the kisses haven't been right at the end so that could definitely be a contributing factor.
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:56 AM
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Yeah that girl said that she doesn't kiss on the first date but she said she thought the kiss on the cheek was sweet.
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:55 AM
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This is exactly my problem too. Also, it seems like whenever I actually do like a girl they don't feel the same way. Or vice versa, where they'll like me and I don't connect with them.
/r/seduction22/02/14 07:53 PM
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