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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudyIt never made sense to me. It’s like once men hit 30 they hit some kind of wall made of video games, fast food, couches and zero grooming supplies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 10:06 PM |
| 260 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?I remember one guy I was dating back in my pickme days yearsssss ago would only be able to retain an erection during sex if he was hitting or choking me. At the time I thought he just liked rough sex LOL now I kick myself for not booting his pornsick ass out of my bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 464 | This Post Will Probably Offend You.I found a quote the other day that said “I don’t want to be equal to men. Men are not the standard of humanity. I want to live free on my own terms free from violence.” I think that says it all right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 110 | Men with social media harems.Yes, this has become an absolute dealbreaker for me as well as a man who uses Snapchat. I’ve dealt with this in multiple relationships and each time he cheated and I was gaslit. If you want to be in a COMMITTED relationship with someone you don’t need to be following a bunch of scantily clad women and you don’t need an app where you messages disappear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 10:02 PM |
| 124 | Demand what you ask forThis. I’ve been doing this for years and always get called rude. When I had my third child, I demanded and made it clear that I did not want any male doctors, nurses etc. in my room. Period. It said so on my chart and my door. Some male medical student walked in and I let him have it. My now ex husband said I was a bitch and I made him cry. Maybe learn how to read then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 97 | OLDs are literal hellThey will match with you just because it’s fun for them to berate and insult you. They just want attention, they don’t care if it’s positive or negative, they’re like toddlers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 10:51 AM |
| 74 | Every man on RedditScreamingggggg lmao no sir, no you cannot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 05:10 PM |
| 56 | Living With MenSwear to god my house just smells better since I kicked my ex husband out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 10:37 AM |
| 27 | Yeet any man with weird food hangupsMy ex husband ate nothing but crap. Part of the reason he was forced out of the military, he got so out of shape he couldn’t pass his PT tests. I lost any sort of attraction I had for him. He ate like a kid. Wouldn’t eat vegetables or salads. Just pizza and MEAT. Now that we are divorced, he’s even worse health wise and is going to probably doordash himself to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 09:20 PM |
| 92 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)It’s a big red flag when they try to get you off the app right away so it’s best just block and delete anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 41 | Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about youI saw this! I felt so awful for her. Talking about someone else my ass. This is why we VET VET VET FOREVER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?Work in progress? Was he not aware prior to this incident that hitting people isn’t cool? That shouldn’t need to be worked on, decent human beings know not to do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:17 AM |
| 12 | But sex work is work, amirite?While I agree that sex work is not work, I will never be able to understand the hypocrisy of men who are like I wOuLd NeVeR dAtE a SeX wOrKer but consume copious amounts of pornography. They want women they see as “pure and clean” to be in relationships with but are fine with watching gnarly, hardcore, degrading porn. Got it lol this goes back to how men both have standards and no standards at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 387 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceOh he’d be single is this were me, them palettes are expensive and clearly he’s useless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 32 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatOf course the solution is going to be easier access to sex and not ridding society of porn and punishing men for being actual terrorists. Of course not, that would make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 06:50 PM |
| 389 | Have not cringed this hard in awhile; at the woman (kirra_kitty1215) who responded to the original TikTok made by dworkfem … it seems like a ‘cope’ to force your ideal of being okay with your boyfriend watching porn. You can’t force other women to be okay with exploitation just because you are.“At least the porn industry in honest” GIRL WHAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Every year on International Women’s Day, Google searches for International Men’s Day spike…On every National Men’s Day, I always make sure to remind people that it is also World Toilet Day since they want to shit (lol) on our day so badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:36 PM |
| 122 | in response to "female decision calculator" here's a scrote delusion calculator and a response siteMen somehow have no standards and all the standards at the same time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 27 | Case Study of Dating Mr. Sensitive, Part I: Weaponized TraumaMy last ex was a Mr. Sensitive. Won me over with his childhood sob story. Nothing I ever did I was good enough or if I didn’t like something he would pout like a child and wouldn’t look at me when I tried to talk to him. Anytime I got mad about something he did (texted an ex, kept adding half naked women on his Instagram etc) he would somehow make it about me being the bad guy. The only reason I was able to get out of that situation so quickly and realize what was going on was because I had also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockFor me it’s a power move to block. I have the power to revoke access to my life. I’ve always been this way even before finding FDS and I always caught sht for it from my friends. “He knows that it bothers you now, why would you do that?” Why would I give a sht how he feels about anything at all anymore? I blocked him. The logic is stupid lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 99 | OLD and vettingI started a list of OLD red flags a while back and I just keep adding to it when I notice stuff. This is what I have so far: Photo of a dude holding a baby with the comment “not my baby” The phrase “I’m looking for someone who doesn’t take themselves/ life too seriously” The phrase “no drama” More than one shirtless picture The god damn fish pictures or any dead animals “Good vibes only” Attended the “school of hard knocks” Men who say they never message first and will unmatch you if you don’t m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:44 PM |
| 154 | Apparently not wanting to be assaulted in the bedroom is "vanilla".A guy once basically strangled me and it scared the shit out of me. Like had both his hands around my throat and I was struggling to breathe. I was terrified but too scared to say anything. I still cringe and want to vomit when I think about it. It had never occurred to me to ask about it because in my mind THAT SHIT ISN’T NORMAL but apparently now you have to voice that you’re not cool with being abused during sex and that is beyond disturbing to me. A few of my now former friends even didn’t u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 169 | No. FDS is not about clapping back at men who neg youI try to hard to explain this to my pick me friends. For example, they will post a screen shot on FB of some random scrote in their DM’s with “what should I say back??!! Give me something funny to say!” And I’m just like SMDH just block and delete please for the love of god stop giving these men your energy, PERIOD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 52 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.Thank you for this post. I loathe online dating. However, I use it periodically because my situation doesn’t allow for me to meet a lot of men organically but I don’t take it too seriously and don’t expect much to come from it. If anything it’s good practice recognizing red flags and getting comfortable turning down LVM/NVM just in case I do come across something worthwhile. I have the notifications turned off and only check every few days. Got a message today asking if I wanted to “grab a snack… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 50 | Perfect explanation on why you should NEVER date or marry down!Of course! I feel the same. I’m closing in on 40 and while I’m beyond thankful to have found FDS I so wish it had been around when I was in my 20’s giving time and attention to men who didn’t deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 10 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”This reminds me of how women are ridiculed for having “daddy issues” instead of the father’s being blamed for their terrible parenting. It’s absolutely victim blaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 117 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.I love how this is tagged as “support needed” lmfao they really need to have their fucking hands held through life. She wouldn’t fuck me because I live like a slob, please cry with me 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 22 | Using Social Media to VetAny dude who follows a ton of women is an automatic goodbye for me. Absolutely fucking not. And I will not entertain any negotiations about it either. I’ve had guys tell me they’re school friends, acquaintances he met while on tour, childhood friends, etc. nice try bros at no point will I believe that you have 5,000 close, half naked female friends lmao go hang out with them then, you don’t need me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 15 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.This reminds me of a love letter from my ex that I found AND BURNED recently because, aside from him being an ex I would like erase as much of him as possible from my life, the last line read “thank you for being MINE” I am not your property sir and that’s exactly how Pratt sounds, “her heart BELONGS to me”. Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:33 PM |
| 53 | Polyamory and the normalization of dissatisfactionSeveral years ago I swear I never heard anything about it, now it’s all over dating apps and everywhere else. Polyamory and “ethical non monogamy” which just sounds like a fancy way of saying excusable cheating. A good friend of mine from an old job was in a poly relationship and I had no idea at the time and I was still into online dating then. I remembered coming across the guy who’s in their little “family”. And he swiped on me. There were pics of him and her and the other girl on his bio and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:51 AM |
| 18 | this is (yes really) a marketing strategy for a dating app.This is even lower than a coffee date looool hardest of passes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 56 | "I just don't want to hurt you"My narc ex would always say “he’s trying” after I’d ask to do some minor change like communicate better or hell even just remember to empty the damn dishwasher. IM TRYING IM TRYING IM TRYING. BULLSHIT. Just do it. You are more than capable. Your lazy ass just doesn’t want to. Period. And then came the “I don’t want to hurt you” “you deserve better” “I don’t want to lose you”. The verbal diarrhea just kept coming till I dumped his ass. They know exactly what they’re doing, they just don’t expect … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Who remembers the little dancing gremlins from the 80’s movie Labyrinth? It’s them that I see every time scrotes get in groups and delight in clowning and trolling for ego boosts, reactions out of women, and cool points from other dudes . Pay attention to how they dance!Loud. Obnoxious. No sense of personal space. Assumes she’s having a good time when she clearly is not. Sounds about right lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 686 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.SIR WHAT. You have a nut sack which is literally the ugliest thing in existence. Right next to your butthole. Check yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:19 AM |
| 40 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.Yup yup! Mine would even post pics of me on Facebook with “she’s out of my league” on it just so his friends would be like “stop it, you’re a catch” blah blah blah. You just know he ate it up and it had nothing to do with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:25 PM |
| 286 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.“You’re out of my league” “I’m not good enough for you” “I’m the worst” Yes correct. Goodbye lol thank you for telling on yourself and saving me the trouble. Such a red flag when they speak badly about themselves. I wish I had listened to the men who said this to me in my early 20’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 08:12 PM |
| 15 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Someone inform this audacious scrotal sac that women are not things you order off a damn menu. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 8 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.I’m actually nauseous after reading that. Disappointed but not surprised ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 101 | Weekly FDS Check-inI’ve been single for a while now and I’ve had 3 of my seriously narcy ex’s hit me up and I ignored and blocked every single one of them, where as in the past I’d be forgiving and welcoming with open, pathetic arms. Kinda super proud of myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:58 PM |
| 60 | Why you shouldn't stay in a relationship with a Porn Addict (PA)I posted something about this on Facebook and it was women who came at me with the “you’re just insecure” bullshit. It’s sad they choose to live in such a delusional fantasy world. I have been told time and time again by men, women, THERAPISTS that my views on porn in a relationship will keep me single forever and that I need to work on myself because I’m obviously insecure. Or I just know what I will and will not tolerate. And a porn addicted POS man is a zero tolerance area for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:40 PM |
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