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| 4 | Thanks ladies!congratulations to you - and it sounds like you've handled it with tremendous grace. taking time to reflect and own our imperfections is very helpful in relationships. many kudos to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/16 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Tips and Tricks For Grooming?coconut oil is very comedogenic, which means it clogs pores. if you get blackheads, etc, it would not be wise to use coconut oil on your face. additionally, it is a lighter moisturizer on skin and sinks in quickly, and if you have very dry skin, you may need something stronger. in some studies, coconut oil has been shown to increase eyelash growth and length, so you can use it on your eyelashes if you like. coconut oil is also a nice deep conditioner for your hair. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Don't be so afraid of usi work hard to manage my thought processes. i'm not perfect, but neither is anyone else, and i can only say it again: i mean what i say and say what i mean. passive-aggressiveness is a peeve of mine and i cannot stand it, so i try to be as clear as possible (thus my responses to you as well to clarify what i am saying). | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Don't be so afraid of usi feel like words or motivations of mine are being implied where they are not. once again, to be clear, never did i say that my motivation for anything depends on people being grateful. no where did i say that at all. i feel like you inferred that i change my behavior to "bring out" compassion from others - not true. this is simply how i feel i would like to behave. i stand behind my words and mean what i say when i say it. i can wish for things to change, and for people to be more gracious and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Don't be so afraid of usnot sure where you picked up that i think people "owe" people anything here. i never said that anyone here owed anyone anything; i just do not agree and think a different communication style could be warranted. i suppose you mention a difference here: i do not think a display of femininity is only for people that you are trying to win favor or affection with. a feminine demeanor does not end at the bedroom for me - it is a way of behaving, thinking, and communicating with people and animals at l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Don't be so afraid of usi understand where some of the bluntness is coming from and agree that it is needed; however, i don't always agree with the delivery. i am very direct (say what i mean and mean what i say) and i also believe in a strong yet kind delivery. i am surprised sometimes at the delivery of some advice here, despite the advice being correct. sometimes i think a more feminine delivery is warranted along with the direct, strong advice. to be clear: a feminine communication style is not coddling. it is a de… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/16 08:14 PM |
| 5 | RPW is not “one size fits all”excellent post. poise is the most feminine virtue. accepting life's challenges and successes with grace, gratitude, and empathy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/16 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't let external ideas poison your relationship's harmonythis post was both spot-on and funny at the same time (ketchup packets LOL). it is so interesting how people phrase things... "you deserve..." just strange. celebrating all the wonderful things in our lives and giving gratitude for all our good fortune is one thing - entitlement is a another. these phrases and mindsets are very consumerist-driven. women are more than consumers - we can agree on that, right? it is downright sexist to think that a woman sits in the back because she is less than he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | RPW is not "one simple trick" to fix all relationship problemstouché. ;-) i have yet to submit a thread because i'm not sure what to submit to the community. LOL | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | RPW is not "one simple trick" to fix all relationship problemsthis is the reason i don't post too much. i hope some of the new changes add some life to this sub where we can continue to talk more about structure and improving ourselves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | SO seems to prefer I plan everythingi agree. my husband prefers that i run our social calendar. i am sure to check with him and his schedule as well as ensure that the activities are in line with him and his needs/wants. that helps. once i stopped because i shared your fear of "leading" him but that was quickly rectified. he was very direct, even slightly annoyed, when i was pestering him to make plans, etc. i have mentioned before that he likes to reduce his decision making so he can put energy into the decisions that matter most… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Who decided you would be a stay-at-home wife (or moms)we are not as lucky as much as our relationship is built by respect and hard work! i am profoundly grateful for my husband's leadership and love. we are fortunate to have one another, for sure. i'm sorry about your part-time job, and i hope you are able to find something that is less stressful for the money. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Who decided you would be a stay-at-home wife (or moms)i'm so sorry about your condition and i hope you are able to feel better! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Who decided you would be a stay-at-home wife (or moms)we cook and make coffee at home for most meals and eat mostly vegetarian/eat less meat for our health and to save money. this was a two-fold decision for our health that helped our budget, too. i buy very few items of clothing or pairs of shoes. only when i need it, for special occasions or when something needs to be replaced. i do a lot of DIY body care + skin care now that i used to pay for. we eat out only once per week, and we take fewer and less expensive vacations and weekend trips. we use… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Who decided you would be a stay-at-home wife (or moms)this is a good point that i didn't mention in my post - my husband has been able to achieve more visibility, better projects, and promotions and bonuses since i've transitioned to SAHW. supporting my husband's career has been a worthy investment in all ways. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/16 02:33 PM |
| 10 | Who decided you would be a stay-at-home wife (or moms)i am currently a SAHW. i cook all meals, clean the house, maintain the household, support my husband, take care of my health (workout, etc), and work part time (fulfilling and non-stressful, creative work that i love) about 10-16 hours per week. before this, i had a miscarriage and became very ill, but i just kept working myself to death. i was working 50+ hours per week plus building my own business. however, my husband stepped in and asked me if i would consider taking a leave of absence for m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/16 05:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm having trouble rationalizing my personal desires with RP men's common sense.i kind of responded similarly to the original post. it is not the purpose of women to marry and have children. it was challenging for me to read past that point because it felt inflammatory and i was working hard to empathize with the original poster. i do feel that part of my passion and purpose is to be a wife and mother, but it is not every person's passion and purpose. we are here to support one another to be our best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Is date night a reasonable goal?i could understand the anti-date-night view if people are using it in place of intimacy or to patch something else up that requires work. there is a balance of organic and non-organic in our lives that we need to achieve. the routine thing is the big clincher: my husband eats the same breakfast every day, he generally sticks to only a few colors in his wardrobe, he has the same wakeup routine every morning (zen meditation, work out, get ready, etc). when the routine is off, he is completely off.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/16 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Is date night a reasonable goal?i will be the lone voice here: my husband and i have a weekly date night and have had this for most of our 10 year marriage and going strong. it is something my husband values quite a bit, an activity that is part of our routine that belongs solely to us. he likes routine and thrives on it, so i think that is why it works for us. he expects our date night, it's something we agreed to and still do agree to. we both make big efforts on a daily basis but on our date night, we both kick it up a notc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Important Announcements, Updates, and Reminders!interesting developments. thank you for keeping the community interesting and monitoring it as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/16 06:20 PM |
| 2 | "LTR RP men gaming other women: What is the RPW standpoint?"well written post, phantom. be a person of high integrity, be at your best in all areas of your life, be an advocate for your partner and your relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/16 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Garter/Suspender Belts and Stockings: A Primerlovely post! thank you for sharing all this information. have you read dita von teese's new book about beauty? i recommend it to you. (i received it as a gift for christmas.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 11/01/2016lovely weekly thread! thank you for posting. good: last week, i hit all my goals! it was an awesome week. however, after hitting all my goals, things took a turn for the worse. see my "ugly" section below. and, even though i was sick, i was able to make food for my husband and i this weekend (with some of his help). i am roasting pork all day today for pulled pork sandwiches this evening. i have been preparing the pork since yesterday. i am so excited and i hope it turns out well! bad: i have a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/16 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Who are your favorite fashion bloggers/vloggers?emma is lovely! this is a great blog :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Who are your favorite fashion bloggers/vloggers?my favorite is southern curls and pearls. caitlin and i have a similar style, although i wear dresses and skirts most of the time. http://www.southerncurlsandpearls.com | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Temporary SAHW looking for adviceas an academic, what about exploring writing and research to stay fresh and engage your heart and mind? my best advice is to set up a schedule for yourself, as well as ensure household and food are all taken care of so your husband can focus on his new job. secondly, do take the time to take care of yourself. it is not often that we are able to take brief moments in our lives to truly care for ourselves, and it is imperative to do so. if we are not at our best, we cannot be the best wives, mothe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else trying to balance life with their writing?the holidays are an exception plus my husband and i traveled for a few weeks during the season, throwing things off. however, this week i am hitting my schedule again: mornings are for myself and home, afternoons are for my writing (professional and otherwise). setting goals and deadlines helps. i have a monthly column due to my editor, but other than that, my deadlines are self-imposed. give yourself a little slack during the holidays, though. it's just how life goes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | A Map of the Introvert's Hearti love this! thank you for sharing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/15 11:13 PM |
| 6 | A discussion on what makes a "quality" girlfriend/wife/partner...etc.living on one income requires some sacrifices; but it absolutely can be done. your lady is fulfilling important roles in our world by taking care of children, taking care of her family, taking care of you. without her love, support, and work, many things would fall apart. i have an education (paid for by scholarships) and i had a full-time+ career for 10 years, which ultimately conflicted with my personal values as well as my goals (and my husband's). i work freelance now and i am fulfilling a r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/15 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Is there an appropriate way to help him handle finances? I don't want to undermine him in any way; the truth is that he simply doesn't know how to manage money.No book will help you inspire trust in your husband - it is a deliberate choice on the part of your own heart and mind. I usually don't dole out advice here, but I would make a suggestion for you that has worked for me - when I want to work on something and/or improve myself, especially if it is a concept like trust or grace... I pick that word and I make that my word of the year. I read about that word and concept, I reflect and pray on it, and I try to integrate into my life. Trust is a good o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/15 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Is there an appropriate way to help him handle finances? I don't want to undermine him in any way; the truth is that he simply doesn't know how to manage money.Let him take the lead on this - trust that he is resourceful enough to figure it out in the best way possible (and it might not be on your timeline). You are the one who has brought it up, you are the one who is pushing the issue, and he is resisting. This is creating more stress on top of already brewing financial stress. Maybe he is not ready yet with the plan he wants to take - maybe he needs space to figure it out. When he asks you for your input, provide it if you have valuable and supporti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/15 05:07 PM |
| 4 | RPW in a Nutshellso many good posts in here and what a great thread to start, stingray. things i say may not be applicable to (general) you, so i don't give much advice. i could go on and on about what makes my man happy, but would it really help you? maybe, if our relationships are similar, or if you and i have the same tastes or look. (and sharing my favorite nail polish color is kind of fun because i am super feminine in style, but that's not what i'm here in this particular sub for.) recently i went to see "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/15 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 30/11/2015the holiday weekend had me out and about, cooking up a storm, and enjoying life. however, my introversion clearly needs me to restore, so i have taken today as a rest day. no work, no working out, no yoga. just cleaning a little around the house, doing some laundry, and mostly rest. i am even having my groceries delivered in an hour as i do not seem to have the strength to go outside or drive. i feel exhausted and a bit in pain everywhere. restorative time is best today. tomorrow i will head bac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/15 06:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you balance it all? Career, homemaking, beauty, and a relationship...is it possible?i approach my life in a similar way. surrendering is about letting go. i have many things pulling me in many directions right now, but my true north always remains - 1) myself 2) my marriage 3) my loved ones 4) through 10) change at any given time based on the circumstances, the seasons, and the priorities in my life and my family's lives. i must take care of myself in order to be an excellent partner and wife. i must take care of both in order to be the best that i can for my loved ones. beyond… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/15 06:47 PM |
| 5 | I didn't know how to answer his question.all this! who wants to be a mother to their husband?! i am my husband's wife, his lover, his partner. we both take our responsibilities to one another very seriously. working on my SMV is not an issue - this is my responsibility. and his SMV is his. if something changed with my husband, i would not nag - it would mean that something might be wrong and i would ask if he was feeling well enough. it would just be so out of character, i would respond with love, care, and support. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/15 01:06 AM |
| 16 | "Housewives make their men healthy and wealthy"i cannot speak to the world-at-large, but in my marriage, this is true. i think it is true because both my husband and i feel very supported and loved in this setup. it is what works best for us. i manage our household with a spirit of joy. i feel like i am doing what i was meant to do - connect with my community, support the my husband at home, and pursue my professional and intellectual interests in an authentic way. i work on contracts as a creative and i love having this space while also doi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/15 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsMarried ladies/engaged ladies: what did the timeline of your relationship look like? Like dating -> engagement -> marriage? And at what age did all of this occur? dating - age 17 engagement and marriage - age 23 How old is everyone? early 30s Do any of you ladies (particularly SAH) get backlash from families/friends? How did you overcome that? yes, from friends that did not understand and from family that just doesn't get it, and i don't mind. my closest friends and family love me and nothing i … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/15 04:46 AM |
| 2 | This is why RPW are encouraged to NOT speak to "journalists"i am glad you are still here, phantom! thank you for your response. you have a heart of gold and a good strong mind, too. :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | This is why RPW are encouraged to NOT speak to "journalists"i am very saddened by this whole event. the writing in this article does not seem compassionate or supportive of women, at all. is ms. phantom gone? i know she was keen on privacy (like myself). i will keep her in my thoughts. if my words were twisted, i would be so upset. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/15 02:47 AM |
| -1 | How did you name your children?why is this stressing you out? why don't you like the variation? sounds like this is very important to your husband and he is making a compromise to ensure your comfort. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/15 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Subreddit Updates: New Wiki and Redesigned Sidebarlooking forward to catching up and reading the new updates! thanks camille. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/15 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Your favorite fragrance?my husband likes when i wear floral fragrances. gardenia has always been my signature scent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/15 06:36 PM |
| 8 | Dealing with Prejudices against RPWi just want to share my support to you and many congratulations on your engagement! i love the style at anthropologie and BHLDN - and i am very excited about your dress. i am sorry that this happened to you. it is very strange to me when someone says they respect your beliefs or choices, but clearly does not through their actions. there are many people that perhaps i don't understand their choices or beliefs, but they are good people with good intentions and i can extend empathy to try to see wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with Prejudices against RPWi had never thought that one would need a separate account for posting in this community. i had not considered that supporting women here would be considered a poor choice, as i am a good-natured and well-meaning person (and naive with the reddit community, i suppose). thanks for the tip, phantom. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about hair length for a moment?long, shiney hair is associated with health and fertility - so at a basic level is it a sign of femininity. sophia loren, in particular, had long wavey dark hair occasionally. my husband - when we were dating 15 years ago - made it clear that he liked my hair long and wavey (like a victoria's secret model, of course) so i have tried to keep it that way. he is also particular on my color - that it always stays close to my natural color which is dark brown with natural red highlights. i love my ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Any good baking ideas to share?i enjoy making a gluten free french brioche every friday. this is my favorite brioche recipe. "la plus simple des brioches" i use cup4cup gluten free flour instead of all purpose flour and it is truly divine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/15 01:21 AM |
| 8 | Vegan ladies, I need some advice for my non-vegan husband.good point. this is important - i NEVER use plant-based meatless meats without my husband's review first. not getting his input first is absolutely manipulative and deceptive and frankly, extremely disrespectful to your husband. i was vegetarian/80% vegan when we met and he asked me out over 15 years ago, so i don't think my situation is the same as yours. additionally, my husband likes my 80% plant based cooking because he is very health conscious. i only cook what my husband likes. i cannot sa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/15 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Vegan ladies, I need some advice for my non-vegan husband.I am mostly vegan ~80%. My husband eats what I cook although he is omnivorous... That 20% of my diet with some egg, dairy, meat helps. Anyhow, I'm mostly vegan and only cook what my husband likes so... I have found that Beyond Meat meatless beef crumbles, meatballs, and chicken are a huge hit with him. Also, I've cooked a lot from the vegan cookbook "Oh She Glows" and her recipes get rave reviews from him as well (probably because the author's husband is non-veg/omnivorous like mine so knows how… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/15 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, would love some quick recipe ideas!this is an odd one but my husband's favorite quick meal that i make is a pasta. he asks for it even not on a quick night because he loves it - and it's about 15 minutes from start to finish. it's cold most of the year where we live and this is a healthy, happy, belly-warming one dish meal. i cook a bag of brown rice penne in pot of salted water and drain once it is al dente, per the directions. 8-10 minutes. (you may use regular pasta - i only use brown rice pasta because i have celiac disease a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/15 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Sexually explicit posts by men will be immediately deleted and the OP will be immediately bannedthank you, camille and wing nut. i did not see this report button before. there have been a few posts this week that have given me pause from coming over here. appreciate this moderation and the quick decision making from your team... | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/15 01:26 PM |
| 2 | What are some nice things I can do for my boyfriend?this is C&P from the recipes giada has up on food network... they are only slightly different from the recipes in her cookbook. :-) Champagne Risotto Recipe courtesy of Giada De Laurentiis Total Time: 55 min Prep: 20 min Cook: 35 min Yield: 2 servings Level: Intermediate Ingredients 4 thin slices prosciutto 3 cups reduced-sodium chicken broth 12 asparagus spears, cut diagonally into 1-inch pieces 2 tablespoons butter, divided 1 shallot, finely chopped 3/4 cup Arborio rice or medium-grain white r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/15 09:44 PM |
| 5 | What are some nice things I can do for my boyfriend?try not to turn down his advances. really really. learn to cook! i learned to cook using giada de laurentiis' cookbooks. i swear every recipe has been a total man-pleaser. feel free to check in with me on what are thinking of trying. my go-to giada-cookbook romantic meal that always wins: arugula and orange salad with basil vinaigrette champagne risotto espresso chocolate mousse with orange mascarpone whipped cream | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Proud of myselfi have celiac disease - thanks for this sub-reddit recommendation. i had no idea it existed. i'm happy to help out as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/15 01:16 AM |
| 6 | When he falls short of his goal, remind him of when he has succeeded.beautiful post. practicing gratitude, support and love with our partners is the cornerstone of a strong relationship. try not to give your husband grief, or yourself grief, or anyone grief. why tear anyone down? making a conscious effort to be sincere in our support and praise of our partners is important, and it starts when we make a conscious effort with ourselves, too. part of being a good partner is creating a loving environment internally that naturally extends to our husband (although the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/15 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Jealous/Controlling or Rational?tempest gives some excellent advice here. i have been with my husband (dating/marriage) for 15 years (since i was 17). he has explicitly told me that he is uncomfortable with me hanging out and having close relationships with my heterosexual male friends on a one-on-one basis, so i do not hang out with them or have close emotional relationships with any of them. my husband is fine with me hanging out with these friends in a group setting with other friends of ours with or without my husband. he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/15 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Almost 25 and single for almost 3 years straight, need advicei second reading gabby's book - i am a foot shorter than you both and i loved it. she is a delight. i think trying to dress and present yourself like a model might be a good start. i am big into fashion - my "bible" is vogue magazine. ;-) i follow gisele on social media and i love her. you can follow her fashion and lifestyle as well. there are many models you can follow on instagram - check out iza goulart. she is incredibly athletic and fit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/15 07:45 PM |
| 4 | I'm nervous to surrender, but I'm ready. Need help!this is good advice for single ladies. with someone you are just getting to know, there is a process of building/earning trust that must happen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/15 04:23 AM |
| 3 | The ability to let goi think you are onto something about being naturally submissive and not feeling like it is "hard". part of it being easy is also being with the right partner. not saying there isn't work involved in marriage because there definitely is - it is the easiest hardest honest work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 5 | The ability to let goyou are doing the hard work! good for you. i enjoy the feeling, too. i can only speak for myself, but i do not feel that i have a "hard life" - i am grateful and privileged for the love, care, and safety in my life. there are difficult things about being human - managing our minds and dealing with the inevitable ups and downs of life come to mind. submitting is an act of letting go, letting yourself be vulnerable. there is a lot to be said for getting comfortable with vulnerability - it is the b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/15 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Break-ups aren't always what you think..100% agreed. you are a smart, sweet woman. after 5 years, that is a tough break. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/15 12:50 AM |
| 4 | UPDATE: Thought I was his girlfriend until he said I'm not...am I a plate? (mid-20s)If you choose to trust a guy, you need to do so 100% or not at all, because half-assing trust will drive you crazy. yes. if you have a man worth submitting to, it is 100/0. the crazy you might feel? it's fear. i think going "all in" makes us feel vulnerable, even with the most trustworthy and strong man. lean into your discomfort, be mindful of where you are, and learn about yourself in the process. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/15 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Break-ups aren't always what you think..i am so sorry that you are going through this. i think a physical move would be good for you. it sounds like you are doing a lot for this man, still, and you should seek a more secure leading man. best always to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/15 12:17 AM |
| 16 | Men and food?i agree with you that men really take an excellent meal, prepared especially for them by their woman, to heart. i have always enjoyed cooking, and i know this is one of the traits about me that my husband appreciates very much. he came home today from work to his favorite meal, right when he walked in the door, and i was wearing the dress he loves. it has been a tough couple of weeks of him "slaying the dragons" at work, and i know he appreciated it very much. in my LTR, my husband knows that i … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/15 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Women's Fitnessi forgot about ballet beautiful! i learned about BB through lily aldridge - one of my favorite models. i love mary helen bowers, too. her book is great. excellent recommendation, phantom, and good luck on the transition from pilates to barre! :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is your personality type?it was accurate for me. i have been infj since my first personality test when i was a teenager. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/15 11:22 PM |
| 3 | RPW Musici listen to all kinds of music, and today selena gomez's song "good for you" came on.... and i love it! it's gorgeous, her voice is beautiful, and i love that it touches on the power of vulnerability. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/15 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, what is your personality type?i am an INFJ. INFJ PERSONALITY (“THE ADVOCATE”) The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF), they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/15 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Passage from The Stepford Wivescompletely! you are so right on - thank you for this post. i am going to also share this reasoning with my friend. she will definitely appreciate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/15 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Passage from The Stepford Wivesthis book and the movie sound terrible - sounds like it is just hurtful to everyone. (which is why i haven't seen or read it) i wanted to be clear that i was commenting/agreeing on the principle that housewives fulfill a role and ambition of theirs as it is their authentic choice to do so. i do not think RPW or my friend or myself or others are "Stepford wives" - i don't use this hurtful term anyhow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/15 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Passage from The Stepford Wivesi have never read this book, but i very much agree that managing a household is a truly critical role - not a lack of ambition at all. in fact, my friend just transitioned to being a housewife, and she had a career for 10 years, achieved several advanced degrees, and she is a totally different and happier person now. she has made a choice that absolutely does fulfill her ambitions. to those that say she is wasting her education - you don't know her. trust me, she uses all her brilliance every da… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Remindersnice to meet you - alaska is such a beautiful and interesting place. i have a friend that is living up there right now and she sends me photos that are amazing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I Know where I failed- And that's a GOOD thing!i agree with you on all points you mentioned (and i am super impressed with your awareness and commitment). you brought up a really interesting issue about gushing over, being awed by, and expressing our admiration for our children versus our man. in some ways, women who gush over their man with great respect and admiration are criticized or held in suspicion. people sometimes make the assumption, perhaps, that a woman that does so has no sense of self or a limited one, but this is not true at a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Remindersso nice to meet you and connect. i love that you are an animation major in college - my friend also did this and lives in the bay area. i love seeing her work and cannot wait to share more with you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Reminderscongratulations on the birth of your daughter! cannot wait to connect more with you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Remindersi love your story as well, and i can relate as i met my husband when i was 17! i never considered myself RP, it also just came naturally to me - more authentic. i was also alarmed by some of the red pull sub, but this is an entirely different space. also, i have a lot of compassion for anger in the red pill sub given the situations they present. cannot wait to connect more. best to you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Remindersnice to meet you, too! i also love dancing (grew up as a ballerina, which is why i love pilates and barre so much) and would love to swap stories and recipes for baking with you on this sub. my favorite time to bake is autumn/winter especially with the holidays coming up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Remindersi am thrilled for you and your choice! it takes a lot of courage to own your authentic self, especially when we have been socialized to think otherwise. you seem like a wonderful person. do you have children? my husband and i are thinking of having children soon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men other than my SO disgust mei have been in a LTR for 15 years, and i do not feel resentment or disgust at other men. however, sometimes i feel uncomfortable. last night, there was a man that spent a lot of time looking at me and approached me when my man walked away for a minute. everyone has a different approach, but i generally respond with graciousness and a very strong no (maintaining my boundaries and loyalty to my man) if i receive a compliment or something similar. i have not had a problem with this response, and me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Women's Fitnessbarre will help with your flexibility, certainly. flexibility is not a prerequisite - it is something you will improve with barre. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I Know where I failed- And that's a GOOD thing!i'm sorry to hear about your divorce and the affair, but you sound like you have been handling the situation with as much grace as you can. admiration is a big one. i am good with verbalizing this to my husband, and it also helps me to reflect on paper. every morning, i sit down to plan out my day before things get started, and i keep a space in my day planner for gratitude. there are always many things i am grateful for, and my first one is always "my husband's love, leadership, and hard work".… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 05:36 PM |
| 9 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few Remindershi, y'all! i am new to reddit and this sub, although i had been lurking for quite a while. relationship status: married about 10 years (we've been together for about 15). met my husband at university and he asked me to marry him after we both graduated. goals: to keep improving myself and my marriage. i call marriage the "easiest most difficult work i've ever done" - it's easy to love my husband, but the nuts and bolts of our marriage take work. this is where the philosophies of this community s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Would ya'll mind if I gushed about my new vanity?this is very pretty and the darker finish goes well with my bedroom set. my white vanity is 20 years old and beat up, and i might put this on my wish list. love that your husband calls it your beauty battle station! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Women you admire...love audrey hepburn, too! definitely a great list of style icons. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Women's Fitnessdefinitely i love barre! it's more intense than classical pilates and is more athletic/strength training than both yoga and pilates. i have done barre since 2011 or so, and i've tried different kinds (pure barre, bar method, dailey method, core fusion). i really does do wonders for your muscles and overall strength - you tone up really quickly! barre is a very efficient workout. edit: megareformer pilates or pilates plus in LA is much more challenging than all of the above and totally different … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Would ya'll mind if I gushed about my new vanity?happy birthday! love your vanity and all your lovely things. i think i saw a rosary or something like it on your vanity - i have one on mine, too. it's my great-grandmother's from ireland. my husband likes to watch me get ready at my vanity - and when he is watching, i do things a bit differently for him (cannot spoil all my mystery!). dita von teese said it, too - "But there are certain things to be discreet about during the seduction process. Men like to watch you get ready, but I kind of tail… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Women's Fitnessi would love more fitness talk on here, too. :-) i run 3x per week, megareformer pilates 2x per week, barre 1x per week, and yoga 3x per week. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 02:57 AM |
| 6 | The value of a husband's wisdomyou are a wise one! you are so right that our men want to hear us, want us to lean on them, want us to let them lead. have you tried meditation to help with your stress? i second the other poster that mentioned mindfulness. mind-training is amazing and will transform your life. :-) lots of love! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 12:36 AM |
| 10 | The value of a husband's wisdomthis is a beautiful story - thank you for sharing! you seem like a sweet person and your husband sounds wonderful. i love how you honor and respect his wisdom and care, and you also honor your own intuition which said to seek his advice. sometimes i cannot see what i need and want to see - even with my intuition, i also need the wisdom of the person who knows me best: my husband. it helps me make better decisions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/15 02:37 PM |
| 8 | Women you admire...jacqueline kennedy. she exhibited style, poise, grace, beauty, elegance. when i was young, i did a project where i wrote a paper and created art pieces to illustrate all the work she did to rejuvenate the white house interior design. i loved that project. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/15 02:27 AM |
| 3 | From most to least important, how do you prioritize your RPW values?your list is a great one! Respecting and honoring my husband's decisions and vision for our family Being sweet, kind, having a positive attitude and excellent manners Avoiding profane language, whining/complaining, slang, and gossip Being classically stylish, fashionable, and pretty in my appearance (makeup, hair, nails, clothing) Achieving and maintaining a lean, healthy figure Making home cooked meals Managing and cleaning our home | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/15 12:54 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend did something that completely broke my trust; how to rebuild and move on from this?i agree with phantom. my husband has a strong sense of honor in all areas of his life. it's up to you about the person you are with and where you stand on deal-breakers. best to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask him to drive slower without looking bitchy/starting a fight?some good advice here. my husband loves cars and driving fast. i let him know that 1) i trusted him and 2) driving fast made me feel unsafe because other drivers and weather are unpredictable. he really wanted to protect me so he made and still makes a strong effort to drive more safely. however, his habits would get the best of him sometimes. i would be gentle and loving when i would let him know i was feeling unsafe because i trust his judgement and i know how hard he works to lead and care fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What are you currently doing to improve yourself?hello, friend! my husband does have similar eating habits to me. we have about 3 meals per week (2 dinners, 1 breakfast) that include some sort of meat, which is satisfies my husband's omnivorous diet as well as mine. this is why we will both probably always be 90% vegetarian. if you are with an omnivorous partner, you will probably learn to cook with some meat for him so you can balance your dietary choices. it depends on the person. my husband is completely fine with a plant-based omnivorous d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 06:35 PM |
| 1 | A thank you of sorts, or recovering from a "feminist" marriagei am so happy that you have found ways to live and communicate and love that have worked for you, your man, and for your marriage. good on you and good on your husband! like stingray said, life is life. of course it will get challenging again, and then amazing again, and over and over. savor these brilliant moments and approach your life and love every day as a practice or journey. we can only learn and improve and move forward. best to you, always. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What are you currently doing to improve yourself?ooh! i would catch up on reading some classic novels as well. great idea. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The Controversial Secret to a Happy Marriageyes, gabby wrote a book and i bought and read it immediately. it was wonderful - i recommend following gabby and laird. they are phenomenal role models in health and partnership. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 02:46 AM |
| 2 | What are you currently doing to improve yourself?i'm sorry to hear about your breakup. i think all of your goals are really noble. vulnerability is so difficult for all of us. best to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 02:43 AM |
| 2 | What are you currently doing to improve yourself?i love your goals and would love to hear about your progress as you work on them. i am going more and more vegan these days. i try to keep 80%+ vegan (and 90%+ vegetarian) in my diet these days and it makes me feel so much better physically, spiritually and emotionally. i feel more connected, empathetic, and compassionate. this has also challenged me to try new things in the kitchen! planning meals has gotten even more fun and creative - and my husband loves all the things i'm cooking as well. s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 02:00 AM |
| 2 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?this is wonderful advice! your quote from dita is the best, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/15 09:47 PM |
| 3 | What does your BEAUTY routine look like?new to reddit, new to this sub-reddit. :-) i keep a little document on my google drive of my beauty and wellness plan to help me look my best. i love all things beauty and fashion. i know that taking care of myself is an investment in my happiness and honors and serves my husband as well (nothing beats looking beautiful for the man you love). <3 i am high maintenance and always have been. ;-) morning ritual warm water with lemon and honey + green tea with jasmine or rose + green smoothie with or… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/15 09:36 PM |
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