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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?Just be yourself, kind, genuine and work on your looks so you can also meet 9s and 10s. You don’t have to „rich“ or „well-connected“ whatever that means. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 05:05 AM |
| 2 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet HerBe careful who you take advice from? | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Progressively overload with cold approachingGot your point mate! That’s true, a compliment doesn’t hurt anyone. What I consider critical is when members of the pick up community use “less attractive” women to practice picking them up and getting laid with them. But ofc that’s not the point you mentioned here, so all good | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Progressively overload with cold approachingBut you pretend to compliment less attractive girls although you’re not attracted to them just as practice. They might be flattered but in reality they are just used to | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Progressively overload with cold approachingSo you kinda degrade women down as objects? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How to get women in the gymYes but that’s always the case no matter where you approach them. If they don’t feel you, you just wish them a nice day and that’s it | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How to get women in the gymI’ve done it lots of times and it worked | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:27 AM |
| 4 | How to get women in the gymYou cold also just approach her in a respectful manner. Worked for me lots of times | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get women in the gymWhy is it creepy? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How to get women in the gymYou can also cold approach there. Worked many times for me | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Stop being factual in your questions - it is not "what" but "how".Oh, I see! So it’s “too complicated” unless it’s your advice about being the alpha male with all that dominant, masculine energy, right? Gotta love the irony—preaching simplicity while dropping the most over-the-top macho advice possible. I guess if commenting on Reddit all day makes you the ultimate authority on women, then who am I to question your expertise? Maybe I’ll take a page out of your book and start simplifying by spending more time here. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Stop being factual in your questions - it is not "what" but "how".Ah, I see you’re a master of wit now! But let’s not pretend that asking someone how it feels to “chase ambulances in those heels” is the smoothest approach. I can practically hear the crickets after that one! If your goal is to get women to open up, you might want to ease up on the sarcasm a bit. Or maybe save the comedy routine for your stand-up gig? But hey, if your plan is to make them laugh so hard they forget they’re on a date with you, then you might be onto something! Just remember, a bal… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Stop being factual in your questions - it is not "what" but "how".Wow, it’s like you’ve unlocked the secret of the universe here! Who knew asking "What do you do?" was a dealbreaker? Next thing you’ll tell us is that breathing too loudly during a date is a red flag! But seriously, do you really think this is groundbreaking? Women just want to be asked about their passions in life, not turned into a human resume! Maybe instead of practicing your profound questioning techniques, you should focus on something even more radical, like actually listening to what the… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:25 PM |
| 0 | How to accept that you're an attractive guy?I’m suffering with similar feelings and already doing therapy for quite a while. Do you have any recommendations what you can do by yourself except for therapy? Like meditation or anything? | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Ok but you didn’t answer my question. When did you have success with this observation the last time? | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Every woman is different. Feeling safe around someone doesn’t mean he takes the leadership. I’ve also had a lot of success with women although I’m introverted, insecure and not a leader | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.When did you have success with this strategy the last time? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Yes I agree. You can’t charm all women though with a bad boy dominant energy either | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 04:17 PM |
| -4 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Who says that males have to be leaders? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 01:24 PM |
| -3 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Why do you have to be in a leadership role? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 10:59 AM |
| 1 | if hypergemy going stronger and redical every year, does the role of seduction even have an affect anymore?That’s totally wrong. Many women don’t care about social status or money. Women appreciate a good looking guy, who’s nice, shows genuine interest and they feel connected towards | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 09:04 AM |
| 0 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?This is cringe. Anything else than being nice guy is just toxic behavior | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Yes I asked about their jobs, parents, childhood etc. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Ok now I’m overwhelmed. What is calibration? I think that’s too advanced for me. I’ll leave it to the pros | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?I’m not really sure. But their facial expression rather looks like they are concentrating, working or studying | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?So I guess no? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Ah ok yeah I talk about it. But I’m not really sure whether they are interested in that | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?How can you be passionate about people? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Yes I am a horny guy | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Do women not find me attractive enough?No I was thinking that women like masculine and strong men with a good physique who are passionate about working out | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?So something sexual like „do you like hard things? Is it raining? Because I think you are quite wet right now“ | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Ok but you said I should spice things up. Why would I wanna go on a date with a girl who’s not interested in my interests? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Because I’m passionate about video games | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?How can I escalate? Like I could show my body because I work out a lot. Like David laid does. Or you mean talking about sex? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?True you’ve revealed me | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?What else could I talk about? I’m also watching porn or I could talk about some spicy sex positions | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Because women like passionate men | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?So I should include more touching during the date? I can also learn some jokes and tell them on the date. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?How can I tease them? Something like “Hey I think your nose is quite big, but so are your boobs?” | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?I can actually talk quite a lot and carry a conversation. I talk a lot about physics, video games and the gym. I’m usually trying to impress them with my lifts | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Do women not find me attractive enough?I work out a lot. I could try to get her interested in my body, arms and chest to create some spark and physical touch. Is that what you mean? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Yes I’m usually just standing there. I thought women typically stare at you and come up to you if they think you’re hot. I try to talk passionately about my job and video games and explain them everything. I show them pictures and videos. I want to show them that I am passionate about. That’s how I was trying to create a spark. Apart from that I don’t really know how to do all of this what you’ve mentioned. I could invite them back to my place to play some video games with her or show some books… | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old virgin that struggles with women, advice?I agree. This along with getting out of your comfort zone and experience will help you the most. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old virgin that struggles with women, advice?I can tell you from experience. I’m also quite tall and attractive, but was very shy in my young years and never approached women. Meanwhile I’m quite successful with women. Gained a lot of experience by going on a lot of tinder dates, approaching women in person, working on myself, insecurities and hobbies. I’ve opened up to women, was able to be my genuine self and just talk to them like I would with friends. The positive experiences gave me confidence and so on | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Haha ok. Why do you want to just have sex with women as fast as possible? That sounds a bit needy. You’re an advanced level of what? That sounds like a game for you | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 10:55 AM |
| 3 | 30 year old virgin that struggles with women, advice?OP, don’t listen to these clowns here on Reddit. It’s actually the worst place to get advice from. Women really like nice guys and it’s far from over at the age of 30 for you. Just start approaching and talking to women and build a connection with them. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 07:27 AM |
| 0 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Seduction is bs anyway. Why not be your authentic self but instead manipulate women? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 06:49 AM |
| -1 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?I usually just go up to them and ask for their number | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 11:33 PM |
| -5 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Stop harassing women and being a creep | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 11:31 PM |
| -7 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?No it’s clear why you want her number. And either she’s attracted to you from the start or not. Talking won’t change things | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 10:36 PM |
| -7 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Yeah that’s just fine. you can also instantly ask for their number when you approach them or after introducing yourself | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?I don’t have any of that | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Do women not find me attractive enough?I work out a lot and I’m working on my passions | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Ok so what should I do? Ask about sex and stuff? | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Ah ok that sounds good | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Haha ok. Is that what you are doing as well? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?How can I get into fear and adrenaline? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:27 PM |
| -1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Is it genetics? How can I grow my balls? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?Not sure. You could also be average. A lot of average guys don’t get likes on dating apps. It also depends a lot on your pictures | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?He’s not helping, he is just putting other people down. There are actual studies out there, that report that people tend to view themselves less attractive then they actually are | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?I am getting laid and I’m not whining | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?Ok how do you know what I look like? And you know everything right? | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?Not true. I get never hit on the street by women in Germany although I’m a 8-9. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?I agree there are women who get offers like that. However I know many 10s, dated some of them and they don’t get offers like this, they just go to university, live a normal life just like a normal person. They rarely get approached by guys and are not interested in some rich guys or whatever | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:02 AM |
| 2 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?Why do you think those women are mostly in vip areas? The could as well be just working normal jobs, go to university etc | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is Mystery outdated? Who is today’s greatest PUA?Or you just behave like a normal human being and don’t try to apply some weird methods… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:55 PM |
| -4 | Is Mystery outdated? Who is today’s greatest PUA?Or you just behave like a normal human being and don’t try to apply some sort of methods… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Tips on limiting beliefs and inner gameThank you mate! | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Tips on limiting beliefs and inner gameThanks a lot for your answer. I haven't been ugly before. I've always been rather handsome I'd say, but I definitely was the quite shy and introverted kid. And only in the last couple of years I've improved my style and appearance that I also come across as really good looking I'd say. In terms of what is my type of girl, I'd definitely say I'm more into conventionally attractive girls. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Ask her for meeting at my place?Alright seems good | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Ask her for meeting at my place?Only problem is, she's gotta leave really early, because she has early shift the next day. So going for drinks might be a bit too early | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Ask her for meeting at my place?Makes sense | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it best to just escalate?That's what I did. I didn't escalate and she also didn't do anything, we were just talking and stuff, but had a good time. But I didn't get laid. What can I do next time? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it best to just escalate?Makes sense. She actually didn't come around. We just met once when we met with mutual friends and talked a bit in a group | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!Not yet. But will do, it kind of becomes really exciting after the first time | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!She could, but maybe she's just afraid of hurting you by telling me she's not interested. Other than that, it does not really matter to me, the outcome is the same. Don't think too much what could be the reasons why she rejected you as long as you approached her in a respectful manner. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!I know, but why should it bother you? | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!Yeah she did | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!True! | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What else can I do to overcome my fears?Wow man!! What a profound insight. Thank you so much for this new point of view. I really hope I can make these new thoughts settle in my mind. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What else can I do to overcome my fears?Haha what? Me? | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What else can I do to overcome my fears?Makes totally sense, great advice! So you basically mean, whatever happens, if I approach in a respectful and nice way, nothings gonna change for me as a person, everything stays the same no matter what the girls reaction will be? | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What else can I do to overcome my fears?Haha bro no worries! I'll do my best and let you know when I'm slaying, so you don't have to loose hope | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | What else can I do to overcome my fears?Sounds actually quite good. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | What else can I do to overcome my fears?Thanks man haha! That's what people think. I was not always like that. I used to be the shy and insecure guy back at school. Only through recent years I developed those skills and become a bit of a different person. But my mind still has to adapt to this. Sometime in my mind I'm still this old guy | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingThanks man for your support! Good to hear. So it's best to just gather some experience. I occasionally make a bit of small talk with female employees at fashion stores, supermarkets, dentists and I feel quite casual and confident about it alreary. Once I also dropped a compliment about her necklace. I think I have to gather experience and start directly approaching girls as you said :) | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingSounds good! Did you do the same? | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingGood idea! I already worked on approaching employees in stores | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingYou really think so? Why should they be scared of me haha? | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingOK yeah, I think I'm gonna just go for it | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingAs soon as I'd see a girl I like, I wouldn't approach | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingSure, but only with girls a meet by coincidence on partys. And it's usually not the ones I'm attracted to that much | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingI think my fear comes from being afraid I will sound super nervous and stumble over my words. And I also fear feeling weird and a crushed confidence after getting rejected | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:26 PM |
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