I think I'm a fairly good looking guy, at least I've been told multiple times: https://imgur.com/a/dvW44Yi Tinder doesn't work in terms of dating in my league. I think I'm kinda good with girls in 1 on 1 talks, but I struggle with taking the initiative when it comes to approach or getting to know new girls irl. I've often got those limiting beliefs that she thinks I'm weird, she won't be interested anyway and so on, you know it. From a rational point of view that seems like real bs as I'm working on my PhD, building my career, working out in the gym and lots of sports, playing guitar to name a few. But these thoughts still strike up. Do you have any tips on getting these beliefs out of the way or is it just a matter of approaching enough girls (as I'm not really experienced in this regard)?