| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | My answer to the "do looks matter" questionFart a lot lmfao | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Stop using datings appsDating apps have worked way better than instagram for me personally. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 11:29 AM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantRelatable | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 09:07 AM |
| 2 | How to Approach at the club//how to get girls to dance on uThanks man you are always helpful | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach at the club//how to get girls to dance on uSo you're saying I should just escalate physically first and do the talking later? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach at the club//how to get girls to dance on uTo take the girl home or at the very least exchange contact information | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach at the club//how to get girls to dance on uHow to move on from there? I get approached a lot on the dance floor but I'm like a deer in headlights lol | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?I never said I don't cold approach. You're making shit up. And no online dating isn't for beta males. Some people just have jobs/careers. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?You're not entirely wrong 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 10:53 AM |
| -1 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?It's very cringe indeed | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Alright thanks man! Glad to hear it worked for you | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Yeah I can imagine mutuals would work way better. | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?I appreciate the long answer. Kinda sounds like its not worth the trouble haha. Or atleast not worth getting upset about. Could be a fun hobby to try to increase my follower count. Still might just be better sticking to dating apps & cold approaches 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 04:06 PM |
| -4 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Women are so weird haha | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Yeah same here. A lot of missed opportunities 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Its on the lower side, around 300. Do girls really care that much? It would make sense thought. | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Yea they definitely read them. Some just leave you on delivered forever 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?I would assume there would some interest if they followed back. But yea thats a fair point, even average girls get swamped with attention. I don't know why it would be so different from dating apps though. | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Experiences with very attractive women. Is it even worth approaching them?Phone? 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 07:42 PM |
| 2 | When was the last time you got laid? Asking just to see were the average lies.B. End of november | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Best European Country for Seduction?Vietnamese and thai | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Best European Country for Seduction?A lot of the girls I met are just boring and bad at sex. Don't know how to kiss, give a bj etc. Also issues with hygiene... None of these things ever happened with an asian girl for example. Amazing every time. What about american women? | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Best European Country for Seduction?I fully believe you based on what I've seen on social media 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatI'll never give up dude. I used to be suicidal and depressed but I'm "normal" now. Some days it just feels hopeless, but I know its part of the process. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatYea I'm starting to think external factors matter don't THAT much. Ofc they do, but not as much as I thought... | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatYea. I'm reading the book (No more mister nice guy) but it feels pointless. Also, the whole book seems to contradict everything about seduction... | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatYes it feels good in some sick way to whallow in self pity. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatHonestly I never really cared about anything besides women. Except video games... But those are holding me back so I quit two years ago | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatI've come a far way but I'm not fully there yet. But I feel like I've reached a point where these things shouldn't hinder my success anymore. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatKeep hearing this. Maybe its worth a try. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatSo true! My wingman asked a 3 if she wanted to dance with me and she rejected me brutally. Couldn't help it but laugh. At another club a 10 kept coming back no matter how much her friends tried to pull her away lol. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 08:07 AM |
| 0 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatYes! And that is why I've failed when on paper I shouldn't. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatHaha I've tried. Doesn't seem to work for me. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatThis could be it. So just basicly meditating by yourself and self reflecting? | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatOnly thing that brings me "worth" is validation from women. That is an issue for sure | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatWill check it out thank you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatThat wasn't the point but yeah | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatI want to. Genuinely have no idea how. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatLol 😂 | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid with a blonde goth chick from Tinder - Full texting analysisWow lucky me. I'm from Finland and I'm struggling. Mind sharing your profile with me? | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneThank you for the kind words and support. A lot of wisdom in your words. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneThanks for taking the time to write this. Made me feel a little bit better. At the moment I'm just sad af and blaming myself for everything. I have many things to work on, I guess the meaning of this break up is that I finally man up and become someone. I shouldn't have been dating in the first place, but I was so miserable and needed a partner when I should've worked on my insecurities and people pleasing tendencies. Thank you for the support and all the solid advice. I will come back to this t… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Dumped, back to square oneMaybe the wrong group, but I trust this group the most when it comes to dating women. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:26 AM |
| 0 | Dumped, back to square oneActually I'm 27 already, hopefully not too late. But yes, you are right. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneYes, I need to work on it. I have a lot of trauma from my childhood that is probably making me act this way. Do you have any suggestions where I could start? I need some guidance. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneWhere would you suggest I start learning about these things? | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneI have always been caring and nurturing. Being cold is just against my nature, but I guess I'll have to try to be different when I eventually move on... | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Dumped, back to square oneThis could be it. It just sucks cause thats not me or who I want to be. I want to be close to my partner and give them my full attention. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 08:23 AM |
| 39 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)This post seems like its written by a copywriting bot. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔If thats you in the picture then you're far from unattractive lol. Just download Tinder and the rest is history. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Volume solves everythingUpvoted after just seeing the title | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:23 PM |
| 29 | Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed?I'm still bad with women but still the most laid guy out of my circle. Now I'm in a relationship too. The difference between me and my friends is that I take action, they don't. I've tried to improve my game and social skills but I'm still clumsy. I've just brute forced my way to success basicly. When you shoot your shot on enough people, some of them will like you no matter what. | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Sex workers that try to blend in on dating apps are the worstMany women are beyond delusional. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 09:16 AM |
| 9 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlWhy is every thread getting closed for no reason btw? | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 07:13 PM |
| 21 | Best European Country for Seduction?Dating in Finland sucks. The quality of women here isnt the greatest imo. But on the bright side, no finnish girl has ever asked me to pay anything lol. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you think snapchat is worst to game a girl?Just my personal experience. Never had much luck on snapchat. Messaged two girls on IG (without a profile, just dmed my pictures) and it worked both times. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 11:44 AM |
| 7 | Do you think snapchat is worst to game a girl?Snapchat is for bimbos and kids. Would recommend instagram instead. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 07:35 AM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Tell the bitches to pay for themselves | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?My personal opinion is to give it some time and show a bit less interest. On a side note, this is one of the only convo I've seen where the guy isnt a complete noob. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?Feels like this sub is just full of black pillers. I can guarantee you that your height is not the reason for why you arent getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:44 AM |
| 4 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averageStop having sex with your bf and see how quick he will dump you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 08:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averageI would rank this guy 4-5 but maybe I have a distorted view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averageWe as a society should care. It's a basic human need that needs to be met sooner or later. If this need is ignored for too long the person might become a dangerous incel who might hurt himself or others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.Hit the gym, eat healthy, sleep, fix your hair, skin and style. Stop binging video games and netflix and go talk to people. Get a sales job or do cold approaches. Face your fears. Working towards a goal also builds confidence like crazy. Women don't always show interest towards potential partners. Grow a pair. If you have right mindset you will accept your failures as learning opportunities and grow from them. I'm not saying it's easy, but all of the things you mentioned can be improved upon. | /r/seduction | 07/08/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Is there something wrong with having mutually agreed one night stands? Also "uggos" might be a bad term to use. These girls were honestly just fat, which is a personal choice and shouldn't be symphasized. | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?I have in the past and some of them I regret. Out of my 15 I'd honestly say that 3 of them were ugly, 3 of them not terrible but not great, and the rest ranging from 6-8 (personal preference). I'm not great with women and especially at the start I thought that uggos is all I deserve. I just wanted some experience to get going. It made me more confident at the start but now that I have some experience I feel a little bit disgusted thinking back at some one night stands. | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 01:07 AM |
| 21 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsSimps really ruin everything | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I got laid!Proud of you king | /r/seduction | 02/07/23 09:43 PM |
| -2 | Advice for a 37 year old virginHe has to be trolling. I reported him atleast | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?Yeah I agree. I was always looking for a gf but had many girls lie to me that they are looking for a relationship when they just wanted an ons lol. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?I'm not approaching for the time being | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?Why wouldn't you be able to obtain it? How much have you tried? | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 15 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?I still get rejected. I would still call myself a beginner but not a complete incel anymore. Some things that have helped: -Being playful (switching of that boring, logical mode in your brain. Women love men who are fun and exciting to be around) -Escalation (I still struggle with this a lot but it's getting better) -Leadership -Inner game and confidence (This might be the most important part of game imo.) O yeah and like someone said you wont get friendzoned if you completely drop the girls who… | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 129 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?My bodycount has gone from 1 to 15 in the last 1-2 years and I have a gf now so yeah I'd say I have improved from having absolutely no game and always getting friendzoned. However, not all the advice here is good. Me following some of the advice here fked a few potential relationships. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedYeah exactly this. "She showed me downtown" you should be the one showing her. You're a man, you should be the leader. Also you didn't escalate. Look up the "kino escalation ladder". It's fine to fail op. This is a marathon, not a sprint. The most important thing is that you don't give up no matter what and approach dating with a learners mentality. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | When someone says there is "lack of connection" what exactly is that?People who actually have experience know that looks don't do shit if you have no game or poor social skills. (Apart from online dating if you are the top of the top looks wise). I used to be so bad with women and I'm still far from great but my results have improved massively. Of course you should looksmax because why the fk not? But beyond that its useless to worry about looks because you can't change the cards you've been dealt. People need to put their victim mindset in the bin. No point comp… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 07:02 PM |
| 6 | When someone says there is "lack of connection" what exactly is that?Your looks is far from the most important factor in attracting women. Stop spreading this bs here. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 04:50 PM |
| 14 | Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but..Do you guys actually have any dating experience or are you talking out of your asses? Theres no way these texts ruined his chances. Overananalysing stuff like this is a waste of time. The girl was playing him | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 04:39 PM |
| 39 | Nine tips for improving your conversation and social skillsThis is exactly what I needed. Thanks brother. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayLikewise. Overcoming that fear is the best part. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 9 | How can I learn to talk to women?Check out "Actualized" on Youtube. The channel is mostly about self improvement and has a videoseries solely on how to get laid. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayWould be great if I could find one | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayThanks dude, you gave me a lot of motivation | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayI've never thought about it this way, quite the opposite actually. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approach todayI want to be that guy someday. I'm so tired of being insecure and scared. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayI'm from Finland to be exact. Since april I think I've had around 200 matches and banged 6 or 7 of them. Some average or slightly below, some really hot. Most of them ended up ghosting me afterwards so that didn't help my issues with my self esteem however. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayHahah luckily the situation is not that bad that I need to move countries. Could be better but could be far worse. I've fucked hot girls from Tinder but it's not consistent enough and I want to finally man up and take action. I'm still insecure about this sometimes tho. It's holding me back. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayScandinavia, 6.1 ft tall. Not sure about my face, anywhere from 5 to 7 | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Did my first cold approach todayI need to start small, I'm too socially akward to even think about this at the moment. My approach for everything is to be 1% better every day. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach todayNo she didn't seem interested imo | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:35 AM |
| 10 | Did my first cold approach todayThis is my biggest fear also that I'm not handsome enough | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 9 | Did my first cold approach todaySame thing happened to me last week lmao | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 14 | Did my first cold approach todayHuge difference. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Got left on opened pretty earlyProbably this. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Seduction 101: Prologue Part 1 - The State of SedditThanks! I really want to put in the work but I don't really know where to start. Looking forward to seeing more. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 0 | When text her after sex?I will try that. I always wondered if this could work but people always told me to text her asap. I need to stop asking the wrong people for advice. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 0 | When text her after sex?I always hit them up 24-48hrs after having sex. I wonder if this is the reason why I tend to get ghosted | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends cause emotional damageI feel exactly the same. Horrible feeling, wouldn't wish this upon anyone. We can talk about this if you want. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Improving personalityAny good books on the subject? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 04:31 PM |
| 11 | Do any of you guys actually use condoms when having sex abroad on vacation?I don't ever fuck without a condom | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | I can get girls to have sex with me, but not date me?I have the exact same problem. I'm focusing on improving my sex game now. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | how can I be confident if no guys find me attractive?Eat less and start tracking and counting your calories. Don't starve yourself, make sure you get the nutrition you need. Hit the gym for a few years and men will be all over you! Time to stop listening to the white lies your mind is telling you and get to work. Be honest with yourself and say "I don't like my body and I want to change that". Don't look down on yourself or beat yourself up. Just be honest. I believe in you, you got this! | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Just let goA bit taller than average, white and pretty skinny. Good face but pretty bad jawline. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Just let goFrom Tinder. I'll admit I'm not confident enough for cold approaching yet. However, all my friends found their girlfriends from Tinder. And not to sound like an asshole, but they're also physically less attractive than me. So I feel like Tinder should work for me for the time being. It just feels impossible. How the fuck do people even get into relationships? It feels like a fairytale. Yet I see young guys with hot girlfriends everywhere I go. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 29 | Just let goI would love to believe this, but I have a hard time believing that I would get rejected by the 20-30 girls I've been on a date with these past two years while all of my friends found girlfriends instantly if there wasn't something wrong with me that needed fixing. Sometimes you need to stop listening to the white lies your friends, family and most importantly what your own mind tells you. Drop the ego and the entitlement. Sometimes you need to face the hard truths and get your shit together. At… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateHopefully we will figure this out... | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Tips on limiting beliefs and inner gameYou're way more attractive than me and I do fine on Tinder. Don't worry man! | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateThats interesting for sure. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateOh so thats what you mean. Nope. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateHahah luckily I know what a clit is, the situation isn't that bad atleast. I'm thinking about starting boxing but I feel like it would be too much too soon as I'm completely untrained at the moment. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateYou mean finger her clit during penetration? Just got back into lifting 2 weeks ago but it's a slow process especially with all the joint pain I have. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateThis is what I've done every time. I guess it's not the issue then. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateI usually don't get that far lol. They usually go cold af and just reply with one word after the date. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateIs it too much to cuddle and stroke their hair? Thats what I usually do. And send a text within 24 hours from the date. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateRoger. How do you usually move forward from the first date? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateI asked the two prior ones, the other one said the sex was 7-8/10 and the other one just said it was good, but I don't know if I can believe them... I even told them specifically to be brutally honest. White lies won't help here. I will order a book on the subject probably this week and search for anything useful on Youtube. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateAll of these girls constantly texted me, no matter the time they would reply in 5 minutes. After sex that always ends lmao. Usually I text them within 24 hours of the date and they start replying hours later with one or two words. I'm very causious about my hygiene. I would even say I have OCD when it comes to that so my hygiene is probably not the reason. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateI doubt anyone thinks that I will ghost them. Usually when I have sex with someone I cuddle with them afterwards and stroke their hair while I talk about life. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateThanks for the advice. How would you go about it? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateYeah, I just have no idea how to improve. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateMaybe you are right. I haven't started with daygame/cold approaching yet. All my dates are from Tinder. And usually I'm pretty sexual with my messages. However, all of these girls asked me specifically what I'm looking for. I've said everytime that I'm open to everything but that I'd prefer something serious. They all agreed to this. They even sent me pretty romantic texts. This is why I would really like to improve my skills in bed. I can't think of any other reason for the ghosting honestly. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateHow? Talking about deep topics? Physical intimacy? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateThanks, will do | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateI will try this. I texted her today around 24 hrs after the date. I wonder if that was too soon or if I should've just let her iniate. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:06 AM |
| 8 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateWhen I do this I always seem to get friendzoned. Seems like I need to find the right balance. I assume I should still flirt and build sexual tension, but maybe only go for a kiss? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 05:23 AM |
| 5 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?I'm tall and decent looking. My whole life I thought I was ugly but I just lacked game and social skills. Ofc my looks help a bit on Tinder for example but game is absolutely crucial. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | OvertextedWhat would you send her? Should I just say that we should hangout? Edit: Love ur nickname hahahah | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:11 AM |
| 2 | I don’t know how to fix my own mind. Help.I feel exactly the same way bro | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl I was seeing ditched me for another dudeKeep pushing, you got this | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Not responding.Drop her. I made the same mistake, wasted 4 months on a girl for nothing. Check my last post. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Picked up this girl at the train station, got her number but...Don't lie whatever you do | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:48 AM |
| 4 | How to stop being Needy and Desperate?I'm on day 91 and I still struggle. Constantly horny and sexually frustrated. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:31 PM |
| 5 | How to stop being Needy and Desperate?Wow really? How do you feel | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateThanks! | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Another failed dateProbably | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateAbsolutely, but if it happens every time there is an issue. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateYeah I admit I fucked this one up. I'm 25. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateTips on books would be appreciated | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Another failed dateI wish I could believe you but I can't. There is no way anyone is this unlucky. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Another failed dateI have failed with like 20 women in the past two years. It's obvious my game/social skills suck ass. I want to finally drop my ego and fix this shit. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateAlright man, thank you. Not gonna lie hearing this didn't feel good. But I'm sick and tired of being bad with women. I'll do whatever it takes. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateWhat would you tell her? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Another failed dateThats harsh but ye possibly. I'll go on that last date and drop it if nothing happens. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Another failed dateOkay, I'll do it | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Another failed dateMaybe, I'm not disagreeing with you here. I'm just wondering why shes asking me out on a date. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Another failed dateI agree with almost everything. I didn't overpursue, its her initiating. I just didn't make a move or build sexual tension properly. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Another failed dateThat would make sense but she literally asked me out in her words "on our next date" after I gave that number. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateThis date I paid for the badminton court, but we're talking like 5 euros lol. I don't pay dinners or such for girls that I'm not in a relationship with. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateThanks, I appreciate the feedback | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateThat was literally my plan today and it didn't work. I don't really text her anymore, this past month she has been the one initiating. But yeah she already said that there will be a next date so I'll try again. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Another failed dateOkay now I'm just fucking confused. She texted me and said she had a great time and asked for my number so she can mobilepay me? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 11 | Another failed dateI will, thanks for the help bro | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | How to compete for a girl?So how should one respond to what you did if I'm the other guy? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | To all my brothers battling in the trenches..this is for youThank you. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | From My Experience Game Doesn't Matter.Thank you! | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | From My Experience Game Doesn't Matter.I think that this might be a problem for me. How did you learn this? Do you have any advice? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand the situation so I can learn from it.Keep texting short, to the point and interesting. Use texting mainly to setup dates. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Splitting the bill didn’t hurt me.Maybe you're not an average guy lol | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who had 0 chemistry with people and found ways to create itI wonder if this is my issue aswell | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Splitting the bill didn’t hurt me.How did you get 10 dates in two weeks? Thats great | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexMaybe I will become like that eventually lol | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Girls disappearing after sexI get this. However we sexted a lot before meeting up so I doubt it. But ye I will give this a shot. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexAppreciate the support! | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Girls disappearing after sexI am so depressed nowadays that it's difficult to do anything. Gonna hit the weights again tho and try boxing out. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexMaybe. I just find it weird that someone would take the time to text someone every second of the day for a week for just that. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexLmao | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexI really felt like we had a connection, we texted all the time during the week and she wouldn't leave me alone. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexHahah why is that | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexThanks a lot for this. I learned so much already. Didn't know that sex was this crucial. Should I post more details about the sex? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexReally fucking sucks if thats the case | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Girls disappearing after sexI will happily accept this if it's true and start working on it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexYou could absolutely be right. I just really doubt it. She seemed so genuinely interested, constantly blew up my dms and sent me good morning texts, told me everyday that she can't wait to see me... I hope you're wrong lol. To me it felt like she really liked the sex. She was loud, super wet and scratched my chest and back up really good. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Girls disappearing after sexRespect | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexThanks for the advice, I'll try and I hope you're right. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Girls disappearing after sexHow? This void has been there my whole life. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexAlright, I will try | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexThis exact same thing happened with a different girl just one month ago. Also in the past I've slept next to three different women without having sex. This should indicate that something is really off. That is a really good attitude to have. Self improvement is just very difficult in this current mental state of mine so I struggle really hard at finding my own flaws. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:34 AM |
| 9 | Girls disappearing after sexYeah I will do it, but I'll wait a week or so and then ask whats up. Usually when I fail I ask them why they felt that way about me but usually the answer is some madeup BS. Would be great to get some actual and honest answers but I think that won't happen. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Girls disappearing after sexShe didn't ghost yet atleast, but ye I agree | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Girls disappearing after sexI used to do this, I got friendzoned every time. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexHaha nej, jag är finne 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexMaybe, but I need to fix my mistakes or this will keep happening. She brought it up. I don't say this unless someone asks. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Girls disappearing after sexAlright, makes sense. Maybe I might be too emotionally invested but thats who I am as a person. I will try to change. I really wonder how the fuck some dudes find relationships. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Girls disappearing after sexI'll wait and see if anything happens. If not then I will ask. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Girls disappearing after sexYeah I will. I just want to fix the mistakes I'm making, but I have no clue what those mistakes are. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:37 AM |
| 6 | Girls disappearing after sexYou mean having sex with more girls? This only seems to make it worse for me | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:30 AM |
| 4 | Girls disappearing after sexShe made it very clear from the start that she didn't want to just hookup and I said great me neither. Maybe that wasn't the case after all. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:04 AM |
| 12 | Girls disappearing after sexI agree. I hate being single, and I don't know how to stop feeling this way. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Where do you take someone on a date?I like to keep it simple. A walk, a drive, coffee or at my/her place. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:31 AM |
| 2 | How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you?Appearance is not the issue in your case. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Really struggling with inner gameI will be sure to check him out. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling with inner gameI find it interesting that many people seem to think like this, that it's not a priority to find love and start a family. I then usually ask what is. One thing that usually comes up is work and education. I always wonder why? To make a bunch of money and buy a bunch of materialistic goods? And the vast majority of the people I talked about this with ARE IN LONGTERM RELATIONSHIPS THEMSELVES. I could have 10 million dollars on my bank account, but without a relationship I wouldn't give a shit. We … | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling with inner gameI'm trying man. I just can't think like this at the moment because finding love/a girlfriend is what life is about in my opinion. Living alone while all your friends are starting families is just awful. I'm really worried about my appearance, this is probably the biggest hurdle related to my inner game I'm trying to improve my outer game too, I have loads of dating experience. Probably 30 dates in 1,5 years with 20 women but I find it so hard to know what I did wrong. If I play a video game and … | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Really struggling with inner gameI've heard this a few times before. How exactly do you do it? | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Really struggling with inner gameWorking on it, I'm on day 73. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Really struggling with inner gameActually I believe that I have developed this huge ego as a coping mechanism to my insecurities, but it's not "true confidence" | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:39 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter