Really struggling with inner game

BensonInFL · 2022-04-21T23:27:31+00:00

No matter how hard I try I can't seem to fix my inner game.

The sole fact that I have to learn game as a man makes me angry as fuck

I have a huge feeling of entitlement.

People who have struggled with similiar issues, how did you fix them? Where should I start?

1) You need to change your attitude. You're not entitled to anything in this world. We all start off at different places, try to be happy with what you have, things can be a lot worse. There are about a billion people on earth that live on less than $1 per day... can you imagine how life would be for you? You have already won so many life lotteries... most people think that if they just looked better, or had more money, or whatever they think they are lacking, that they would be happier and have fewer problems. When you succeed at any of these things, you will realize that you don't have less problems, you just have different problems. Happiness comes from the inside, not from external factors.

2) Inner game can be temporarily elevated when you read positive things and question your beliefs, but it will be more greatly and permanently improved when you make progress.

3) You need to understand that pickup is a process and focus on individual steps instead of just the goal. Try to master each step, figure out your sticking points, improve and move on to the next.

-B

insa_max · 2022-04-22T08:47:16+00:00

Had the same problem years ago.

Easy fix that everyone is asking for but that 99% won't put in practice:

Force yourself to look dumb and be rejected over and over day after day.

Eventually you stop caring, your ego dies and you can truly learn.

Contango6969 · 2022-04-22T00:28:12+00:00

idk how you can have a contradictory mindset like that when youre aware of the contradictions lol. Seems like you let yourself get away with telling yourself too much BS.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-22T00:35:52+00:00

All inner game issues can be boiled down to feelings of worthlessness. Men walk around believing they are worthless subhuman scum unfit for female companionship.

The only way out is through. Face the darkness, face the pain. Don't avoid it. Go through it with all you've got.

AnalysisGlittering76 · 2022-04-22T06:50:04+00:00

Stop watching porn.
Consistently stick to Step 1.

Title	Really struggling with inner game
Author	MrWolffman
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Comments	14
Date	April 21, 2022 10:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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