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Conversationinsa_max/r/seduction04/07/22 11:21 AM
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I wouldn't go with 2 because it's super easy for her to not see it. With 10 you're looking a bit needy, ok (still less than 95% of men on IG) but at least you're a hundred percent sure she will notice you.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:22 AM
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- "I have 0 experience" - "It's not for me and I give up" Bruh.
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:53 AM
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Zyzz just died again reading this comment
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:42 PM
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I'm saying that people complain about looks because they don't understand what else makes a guy attractive. If you're ripped it's means you're physically hot, but it also conveys a lot of attractive qualities about you: you're disciplined you're confident you're smart (it takes serious brain to follow a nutritive diet) you fuck better If you're chubby and with greasy hair, it shows a bunch of bad things, the first one being that you don't even love yourself enough to take care of your body.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:17 PM
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I think you're biased because you don't get sex and you see it as a goal. I can guarantee you that sex with girls you don't like is boring unless you didn't get laid in weeks. And if that's your problem, not getting laid in weeks, you could solve that with proper game and grooming, looks aren't even needed. Looks are needed only for the best girls, because by then the competition is so harsh ever ytop guy has looks, status and game to a degree. I'm saying this as a fairly attractive guy with gam…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:14 PM
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I think that there is more to attractiveness than VISIBLE attributes (looks) but when people talk about dating they never look past looks because it's a convenient scapegoat.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:09 PM
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You think so, but it's not. "Hey you look cute, what's up?" Done. Honestly man, been there done that, you can waste your time on reddit and overthink for years, or start approaching IRL. But change will only come as soon as you start approaching. And tbh it's way easier than it seems.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:19 AM
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Have you thought about going to talk to girls you like
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:51 PM
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Why not both. Don't be a baby. I work out 5 days a week, build a business and still approach over 50 women a week. Rest if you need, but don't back down.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:50 PM
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There is a list of game and pua groups in every major cities here Https://gameglobal.net/groups
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:49 PM
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Spoiler alert: he mostly deals with the same issues as you, he just found a most efficient way to handle it so far. You can either be bitter and resentful, or hang around him more and learn. Imo you should leave your ego aside and learn. Instead of complaining about your lack of results to him, ask him smart questions. Maybe he's lucky enough to do the right thing by pure chance, and he won't be able to tell you how to do it. But that's OK, just stay around and learn.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:45 PM
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Best way to deal with it is to ask her why she invited friends. And then to tell her that you thought it was a date between you and her. (Give her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she has a legit reason.) And then tell her that you don't think a date can work out when there's a group involved. And wait for her to say something. And depending on her answer you will be the one to reject her. Oh the turntables.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:41 PM
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I have to disagree, I made it work plenty of times on day 2 with women from the clubs. Although yes, getting her home on the same night should be the main goal.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:27 AM
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What do you even talk about with your girlfriend for more than 1 hour? That's a better question :) You should be talking about you and her yes. While not forgetting that she's also here to have fun and enjoy the party.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:25 AM
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Holy shit I need to know what happened with all the top voted yet deleted comments
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:03 AM
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Fair enough and there's everything out there. That said, it's really a minority of women who prefer it that way.
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:48 PM
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I wrote a full blog post here with all the red flags you should look for: https://www.insaneflirt.com/post/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-is-not-interested-on-tinder Long story short: If you try to make a date happen and she beats around the bush multiple times (more than 3) you should move on and assume she's not interested.
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:25 AM
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yes
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:24 AM
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I didn't mention it but I asked her to come home with me at the end, and so she did. I really think it was not the most exciting part of it, but I'll take that into account for the future lol.
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:02 AM
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idk I don't use Tinder that much anymore (it got boring once I started being good at it) but I guess at least 60% first date to lay ratio. You know, sometimes it's the girl who doesn't call you back after a hookup, what can you do lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:39 PM
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how?
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:38 PM
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It's probably your pictures, it's the main factor. Somewhere, you didn't follow the recipe
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:38 PM
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Yeah OLD is great because it's easy and quick once you set it up
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:37 PM
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watch comedy, browse 9gag, it really doesn't have to be super high level
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:36 PM
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Yeah great pics are more efficient than great texts
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:36 PM
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Yeah I don't really understand the downvotes but okay, lol.
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:35 PM
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I have multiple GFs at the same time, if that matters
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:06 AM
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I made a video to explain what to look for in a wing to have a great time. Also, we have a worldwide network of city groups especially to find wings. Find your own local city here.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:09 AM
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Dating is like marketing. You are the product. So make sure the product works and is as good as possible, and then market it well by having as many people as possible know about it.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:36 AM
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Yes, tbh before I was using andoid and oh my god since I bought an iPhone chicks are flocking all over me everytime I check my texts smh if only I knew years ago now I don't even need to approach anymoer
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:34 AM
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Humor needs to be REALLY dumbed down when meeting foreigners. And tbh, it's not like deep humor is needed. Slip-on-banana kinda humour is wayyy enough. Language barrier and all. Take it from a guy who's been living abroad for almost 10 years.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:33 AM
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It depends. Unless you become a dating coach or such and make it about your whole life, people won't care. I'm a dating coach, I write blog articles and put out youtube videos of my daygame approaches, and make it publicly available for anyone to see, even the girls I date. Some think it's interesting, some think I'm a huge creep. And overall it just helps me filter out traditional and close-minded girls. But for most guys who just try to talk to random women, I don't think anyone gives a shit t…
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:31 AM
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I just buy water when I'm out at the club, more often than not it's a great topic to start a conversation (or have girls start a conversation with me).
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:29 AM
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Like most advice it's more complicated than that. If you take the watered down version you can read on reddit, out of any context, yes it sucks. - Don't kiss girls who you couldn't build comfort with (drunk girls at the club) - Kiss girls who you're building comfort with currently (your current date that you're trynig to know better)
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:53 AM
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Most people are mediocre. If it wasn't the case, everyone would be successful. But almost no one wants to put in the work out of fear and laziness, so everyone shames those who try to get out of the crabs bucket.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:50 AM
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Exactly as I said in my first comment, you don't listen. Lol. Keep doing your thing then.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:31 PM
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It will hold you back forever but you can largely compensate by being outgoing, confident, sociable, wealthy, successful, well groomed, approaching a lot of people and using social pre selection, focusing on women who don't care about height, etc etc
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:18 PM
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Bullied throughout school, bad upbringing, countryside low social status background. Total local weirdo with crippling social anxiety and undiagnosed ADHD. Put in the work, reaped the rewards. All the inspiration you need is that endless efforts will get you the life you want, not browsing reddit.
/r/seduction23/04/22 10:18 AM
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I felt, I wanted, I was, I couldn't, I, I, I, etc. Your terrible mindset is holding you down and judging by your replies you're not willing to change. Typical teenager mindset, "the world should change to cater to me and not the opposite". You will grow out of it :-)
/r/seduction23/04/22 10:14 AM
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Subcommunication. Do half the way, if she doesn't pull back do the other half.
/r/seduction23/04/22 10:12 AM
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Try a new hobby and start conversations there Go out solo and start conversations at the bar Join a meetup group Ask your social media contacts what they are doing on saturday night Ask your local workmates what they are doing on saturday night Reinvite to go out again the people you met doing the above etc etc etc Edit: you even said you go to the gym, start conversations there
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:39 PM
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The problem (and its obvious solution) are literally in what you just said.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:59 AM
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Had the same problem years ago. Easy fix that everyone is asking for but that 99% won't put in practice: Force yourself to look dumb and be rejected over and over day after day. Eventually you stop caring, your ego dies and you can truly learn.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:47 AM
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Your problem is your ego and your fear of rejection. Solution: get rejected a thousand times and realize you're still alive
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:30 AM
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You don't need pickup lines and if you just approach women to "take sex from them" it will not work. Go up to them, tell them they are cute and start having a conversation. Stop being a child. Share value, and women will swoon all over you.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:25 AM
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No, never. If I work with a guy who's in category 1 I kick him out of the program because he will not get results 100%. I know because I myself was in category 1 for the longest part of my life. I was a completely lazy, close-minded shithead. But I was willing to get to the top so that helped me change. I can show you the way, but I can't walk it for you. Or so they say. If you want to get from cat 1 to cat 2, you are the only one who can make it happen. You need to have emotional leverage to pu…
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:32 AM
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I stopped being a little bitch. There are people at war right now fighting for their lives and you can't even say "hey, I think you're cute so I want to say hello" to a random woman, realize how stupid this is.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:16 AM
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I think right now is the best time for anyone willing to learn game (if you're willing and lucky enough to go through all the noise and pseudo coaches). Ten years ago when I started, it was about hand spinning girls on the street and doing crazy un relatable shit. Im happy to see that now people realized that lines and techniques are weird asf
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:51 PM
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Here's mine, traveling and living in the big city. Got some nice feedback from girls and allowed me to get a few dates out of IG alone.
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:18 PM
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Yes do it I only started getting laid as soon as I got an iPhone tbh my life was so lonely before it was a real game changer
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:29 PM
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So you want them to give you value for free or how is it going?
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:27 PM
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Yo I'm coaching people myself, here's my experience working with clients so that know what you're getting into: Those who don't get results out of coaching: Ask the same questions over and over instead of trying out things and taking action. Find excuses to not do the exercises and drills. Do the exercises halfway and give up, saying "I did it enough I think". Keep asking "are you sure this works?". Want to skip the "boring parts" of the coaching. Want to give up if results don't come after 2 we…
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:32 PM
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Talk to everyone, don't pressure yourself. Have fun. I was on holiday abroad the other day and went out with my GoPro to film my whole night, if you're curious to see how it goes check it out here. But yeah basically it's about finding your own fun and then sharing it with other people. If you get rejected a lot it's probably because you go in too strong and with too much of an outcome VS having fun for the sake of it. Getting girls should come as a bonus to top off having fun, not a main object…
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:21 PM
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Cool then problem solved
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:02 PM
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Okay maybe I got confused, but generally women want cuddles and physical attention when they like a guy, so I doubt you giving it to them is a problem. Only thing left is you trying to get those things even when they don't want it, which is disregarding what they'd feel.
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:59 PM
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I meant to say its the same as normal people, it's just that successful people try to hang with other successful people, and if you're not successful you won't be invited. And if you're successful you will.
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:04 AM
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Meet people Find commonalities Take their contact Invite them again based on commonality
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:56 AM
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Find wings in your local city group here.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:55 AM
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Most likely places you can't get into if you're asking this question.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:54 AM
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It's not what you want that scares women away, it's the way you disregard what they feel in trying to achieve what you want that is creepy.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:53 AM
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It means you now belong to her as a slave-master relationship. RIP.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:52 AM
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Don't pressure her, find solutions to stay around her longer until she's comfortable.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:51 AM
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Guys those days I swear. "oh she ghosted me once, is life over?" Text her again in a few days. Call her. And eventually if nothing works take the L and move on, meet more women.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:42 AM
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Fancy clubs and rooftop bars
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:31 AM
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It's not rejection that increases confidence, it's your ability to get back up and to eventually succeed that does.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:28 AM
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Personally, I prefer having a personality of my own.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:25 AM
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It doesn't depend on the country, it depends on the SMV difference. Go to the dirtiest, poorest place in your country and approach girls. They will be poor, uneducated, annoying and most likely with a small fat belly, but it will be easy. Don't think that by going abroad it will be easier. If you don't have anything going on, you will still find poor and uneducated girls easy. High value girls are hard to get anywhere in the world.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:24 AM
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I'm considered "good looking" since I've worked on my grooming and fitness, etc. I sleep with 1 out of every 30 girl I cold approach, and I've been practicing that for years. A total newbie with poor social skills will be more in the range of 1 for every 300-1000.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:20 AM
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Actually every woman is different. Some like it direct, some are a bit more shy. You can't get a clear-cut answer to this question, it's like asking "do all girls like rough sex?", it depends. What you can do though is try something, see how she reacts, and if she likes it you do more of that.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:19 AM
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Teenage years sucked hard. 20s I learned how it's done (which is probably what makes the difference compared to most guys). Late 20s, I'm slaying it.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:16 AM
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I have no idea why you got upvoted so much lol. Seems like a majority of people on this sub have huge self-esteem issues. Doing what you want IS what will get you laid. But you do you, keep trying to please women, I guess.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:09 PM
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How about you start doing what you want instead of doing what will supposedly get women to like you?
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:21 AM
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There is this article that talks about what it's like to date in Asia as a foreigner. Long story short, poor girls are easy, hot girls are hard the same. What really makes a difference is the social inequalities. If sharing links is against the rules pls remove my comment and don't ban me TY.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:35 PM
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What's the point of doing squats then??
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:10 PM
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Again that's a problem of how you view the world. Being indirect does not mean being dishonest. And you might want to dig deeper as to why you believe so that firmly. Another example, you don't have to enjoy the topics to enjoy the conversation. Plus, if you really don't give a fuck about what she's talking about, what's preventing you from leading the conversation somewhere else? Another example, thinking that hot girls only relate to being hot and dumb. Dude, seriously? You could be talking ab…
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:15 PM
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If you put yourself between her fun and her, she's gonna give you an excuse so you gtfo. Instead, make sure the fun is in a place that serves you and that helps sex happen.
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:07 PM
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I can't your profile has DM requests de-activated.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:47 PM
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Yeah I had a similar start. Anyways, we are building a group of guys working on their social skills os maybe that can be useful to you. Send me DM if you want to join.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:38 PM
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The fact you think it is pretending is the actual problem. That's where I was getting at. You need a real paradigm change. But I can't make you change. You have to be willing to look more into this thing you dislike. The only thing I can do is to tell you that it's the way you view things that's the problem, and that it's possible to make things better if you're willing to be open to growth and new idea. Basically, you're being close-minded right now. Trying to find a place where your close-mind…
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:30 PM
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How about taking the L and respecting her preferences? It's not like I can talk you into liking eating dirt, can I? It's not a social skills issue, it's not about having a witty comeback. Move on, eat more and go to the gym.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:10 PM
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Throwing parties, organizing events and having people network together.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:08 PM
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Personally I don't like the sky being blue, as green being my favorite color. ... You see where I'm going with this? Also, there's a lot that's fucked up about the way you perceive things, and a lot of insecurities that you'd rather call "natural and genuine" than working through. At the end of the day you do you, but guys who do what it takes to get girls will get girls, and if you keep behaving your way you won't.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:05 PM
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Ignore it and move on. The fact that you care about what a girl thinks of you is a problem. (The fact she talks about it on tiktok is another lol). Just do your thing, try to get her on a date, see other girls, etc.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:03 PM
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Yeah 2 out of 1000 is quite terrible. But then again it depends where you're coming from in terms of social skills. After 1 to 2 years of working on your social skills you should be able to sleep/start a relationship with 1 out of every 30-60 approaches.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:02 PM
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Why are you mad exactly? Seems like you paid for something and got what was advertised. You're just quite mad it's not the person who you wanted who gave you the stuff. Sure it's expensive, but as long as it works then it's your fault for buying stuff you can't afford. Edit: I'm genuinely interested. If you think the product sucks, provide proper feedback as to why ie. it doesn't work, etc.
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:57 PM
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I get you. A dude once said "if she's bored and you're bored and the interaction is boring, it's your fault" and I think it is true. Since most girls are passive, I make it my burden to make our shared interaction interesting. And that solved it for me.
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:30 PM
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Men's social market value peaks at 50 (or so studies say) so don't worry about it. Keep working on yourself and your social skills.
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:19 PM
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Well lucky you, the other day I approached a tight girl working out in the park, she told me she was a 29yo virgin after 1h into our date. At least you knew early lol
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:19 PM
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That's my whole point. Uninterested girls reject you, interested girls are either proactive or passive. Thing is you can't know whether she's interested or not for sure before making a move, so you're going to be rejected most of the time but that's ok!
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:43 PM
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