I’ve been on over 200 first dates since 2019. I’ve mastered the art of this.

(Disclaimer, most of those don’t end up in a relationship but this advice will at least get you first dates)

  1. Buy a tripod with a Bluetooth remote clicker for your phone. Take literally 1000 photos of yourself in different outfits and in different poses, doing different things and from different angles. The best light is natural lighting around sunset time. Action shots work well if you play tennis or skateboard (just don’t move too much or the photo is blurred).

- I think a party photo is god tier. Everyone looks nice and happy, having fun. If you have a photo of you with friends at a birthday or a wedding, I guarantee you’ll get messages. Even girls who spend their day on Instagram taking selfies want to get married one day.

  1. Put your photos on photofeeler.com for feedback.

  2. You want a relationship-oriented bio, not something that can make her think you’re a fuckboy.

  3. Write something witty in you prompts that gives a quick chuckle

  4. When you get a match, you want to ask her out within 3 days after your first message. If you wait more, she will stop replying. My usual game plan is having a funny ice-breaker and a semi-witty convo, and ask her out the day after.

  5. You don’t need to exchange numbers on the app, actually some girls are more comfortable that way. Some of my best dates we agreed on a place and time on the app and that was it.

  6. When you’re on the date realize that it’s very rare for 2 strangers to hit it off just like that.

Just go with the mindset of enjoying your ice cream or bowling game with that stranger for 1h, so that you won’t be disappointed if nothing happens and you will be more relaxed.