TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

lItsAutomaticl Archive

View 6 posts and 238 comments by lItsAutomaticl on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
0

People are going to assume you get attached because you were a virgin. Hell, I fell for the first girl that actually kissed me when I was like 14. It happens. Nothing wrong with being nice to her, do you. But if you had fun, and want to meet more girls like her, plan a trip to Mexico or Colombia.
/r/seduction18/08/22 09:11 PM
11

You will be disappointed by Florida.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:45 PM
2

IDK how much it hurts, but getting your own apartment does not automatically help your dating life.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:21 AM
5

Colombia is the best.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:41 AM
14

One way ticket there, travel wherever, fly back home eventually.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:39 AM
2

Try giving him head, first. Make out with him, just start moving down and caress & kiss his chest, start touching him "down there", go in for the kill and pull it out gently. Find an opening to say "I really want to suck your dick", say it with a smile and a bit of a laugh. If he's uncomfortable or weird about it that is 100% on him and not your fault at all, honestly. But he probably won't be.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:31 AM
2

Exactly why I'm not actively trying to date.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:43 PM
11

He's talking logistics.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:49 AM
2

Send her "You wanna see the biggest Russian dick??" and then a picture of Putin.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:17 PM
2

Cold approach in the US is still a numbers game, i.e. bug 10 girls and maybe one will be attracted/bored/horny enough to give you her number.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:11 PM
1

Just leave it alone. If you're hoping at all she'll change her mind, the least attractive thing you can do is be a butt hurt pussy about it. Maybe she thinks you're attractive but doesn't want to mix work and romance, which is perfectly reasonable.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:10 PM
4

This whole thread is ridiculous even for Reddit. sorry people are idiots, there's always some room for criticism but your post is fine.
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:02 PM
0

This applies to dating itself. I feel like girls are eagerly waiting for guys to say something they find slightly offensive so they can drop them.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:48 PM
6

Many (most?) cars are more interesting than a typical one night stand.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:06 AM
3

There's not much you can do, in my opinion. Either she's shopping around still and will find some other dick to entertain her, or she's not and she might be down still when you're back.
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:35 PM
1

It's a good opportunity for you to flirt with her and establish something. Just relax and have fun, if you're on that level with her already no need to rush it. Make other plans with her before you leave, create a situation later on where you can "seal the deal".
/r/seduction01/10/21 07:22 PM
1

The dude is asking for people's opinions on the situation, trying to gather collective experience. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction01/10/21 07:19 PM
2

I don't think this is true, a lot of girls are that lazy and used to guys making every move that they won't even bother acting interested.
/r/seduction23/08/21 12:17 AM
1

There might be some physically ideal mechanics for shooting a ball. Dealing with people is much more complicated, and there's no "right" way in every situation for every person.
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:47 AM
6

Do you want to hang out with some girl who doesn't like your sense of humor?
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:48 PM
1

Still cheaper to get escorts
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:19 AM
1

As if you'll get down with some butt ugly girl? It goes both ways.
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:20 PM
2

I've met a few awkward but pretty girls who went through shitty phases in high school. After high school though, the hot popular girls got fat and/or had kids, and the awkward girls improved themselves a bit, and lo and behold they became the most attractive.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:49 PM
2

Bogotá is probably a decent place to game, it's just not a nice city. Lima Perú is a really awesome city, even though overall Colombia is a better place to travel to.
/r/seduction06/02/20 09:54 PM
1

Medellín, Cali or Bucaramanga. Bogotá is like New York, cold hectic people. You should look and see what kind of girls you like, because they're different in every region. If you like darker girls Barranquilla or Cali is a good option, except you'd better like it hot as hell every day. Everyone loves Medellin and the women from there, but it's got more big-city problems, and there's enough foreign men that you're not so exotic and interesting to women. A lot of girls will assume you're there to …
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:49 AM
8

Thanks for the advice no one asked for. If you actually read about seduction you'll see it's firstly about self improvement, not "tips and tricks". But thanks for coming on here and sending this stupid judgemental bullshit comment without knowing anything about this subreddit. "Let yourself grow and flourish", that's what this sub is about for most people. Try listening and understanding instead of telling people what to do.
/r/seduction05/02/20 03:20 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with being friends; though if you're hung up over her it's better not to.
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:01 PM
0

You didn't even read the post. Go back and try again, focus on #3.
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:53 PM
6

Don't listen to him; it's better to actually give a fuck.
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:06 AM
1

What do you do about women who are bad at carrying a conversation in this setting? From my experience it's a high percent, or maybe I just suck.
/r/seduction02/06/19 06:20 PM
5

Honestly OP is right. Being friend zoned isn't the problem, being her little puppy who follows her around trying to "win her over" is the problem.
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:41 PM
23

The "nice guy" persona we love to hate isnt just a nice guy. He's a fool who either puts women on a pedestal and/or fakes being nice in order to get in their pants. There's nothing wrong at all with being a genuinely nice person with a healthy amount of self esteem.
/r/seduction07/02/19 05:13 PM
11

Welcome to the internet.
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:45 AM
6

You have a good point. You're not wrong, but what you're talking about can fall apart quickly when a woman has some time to think it over, i.e. "he was alright last night, but that guy I fucked on vacation last year was a lot hotter.... I'll keep waiting". Us guys go through the same thought process, of course.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 11:18 PM
20

In college your best bet is to make friends with as many people as possible. Network like a mofo.
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:17 AM
6

They're can be physically attractive. Once they open their mouths and say what's on their mind, no fucking thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 01:40 PM
4

This has been my problem for a while, that girls that I find fun to be around and girls that are physically attractive to me are two different groups of people.
/r/seduction08/07/18 02:01 PM
0

Yeah right, if some girl said she really doesn't like it when old men hit on her, or some gay guy said girls gross him out, you would have no problem with it.
/r/seduction14/05/18 10:01 PM
1

Hey, a guy comes on here and is honest about his sexuality and you tell him he sucks. Fuck off.
/r/seduction14/05/18 09:15 PM
1

You sound fat.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:50 PM
1

I don't like aggressive approaches honestly, but that's because I get it a lot due to my work, it's very rarely someone I find attractive, and I instinctively assume the girl is either wasted or trying to sell me something. HOWEVER, something simple like a flirty smile or a greeting is always welcome. Better something where I can choose whether or not I can stop what I'm doing and talk you.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:47 PM
-6

Meh, both are genetic, really. Some girls are healthy weight and still have tiny tits and a belly.
/r/MGTOW02/05/18 07:00 PM
2

You'd think so but I've seen plenty of comments here just bashing women for no reason that get hundreds of up votes, and when I call people out on it I immediately get downvoted. The incel and MGTOW crowd is definitely a part of this subreddit, there's no use denying it. Plenty of dumb scrubs are drawn to TRP ideology for shitty reasons.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:03 AM
-5

Sweatpants are kind of trashy. Go to another country where people are into dressing well, it's a nice vibe.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 10:07 AM
3

I've noticed the same thing about them: generally not very attractive, and they wear too much makeup.
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:45 AM
2

Pretty good. It helps. I met a guy with shit Spanish who apparently gets around plenty.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:09 AM
1

Mexico, Dominican Republic, Colombia, Ecuador, and Peru. It's pretty sad dating down there and then trying it here again. It's not like it's super easy all the time, but the quality of women who are down to date is much higher than in the USA.
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:12 AM
5

I'm above average looking with OK pics in a major US city. I get about 4 matches per month and none of them seem very interesting or interested. When I travel in Latin America I get about 5 matches per day and about 1/3 are pretty receptive & down to meet up.
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:25 PM
1

Not mine. I walk away from people like that.
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 08:57 PM
7

No, but it's like you said, she made the show worse. Being a one-dimensional giant cunt is not well-written or interesting.
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 09:27 AM
26

Maybe because people don't want to watch dumb nagging cunts. It's as irritating on the screen as it is in real life.
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 08:35 AM
1

Is that what love means to you, that you have a lock and key on her vagina?
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 10:45 AM
0

Why do you care so much about women being faithful or not? Why does it matter?
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 03:57 AM
9

I'd ask if her pubes are as nicely-kept as her eyebrows.
/r/seduction03/03/18 10:05 AM
3

Sounds like something didn't line up right for her. It doesn't even mean you did anything wrong, people are just weird like that. Let it go.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:35 AM
1

Nothing with shitty JPEG compression is real.
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 01:33 PM
2

Puerto Ricans and Mexicans living in the USA under American culture are nuts. The women in Latin America aren't as bad. At least, not much worse than white American women.
/r/MGTOW24/02/18 01:01 PM
3

This is satire. No one takes a real/serious Facebook post and JPEGs the shit out of it.
/r/MGTOW24/02/18 12:43 PM
8

That's because this is a satire shitpost like most of what's on reddit.
/r/MGTOW24/02/18 12:42 PM
0

If it's so obvious, why can't you give me an example of an elected Democrat passing a law having anything to do with this? And sure, the man lost his job and it was 100% Obama's fault. He actually wrote the blog himself in his downtime. Lol. You're really smart.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 05:02 AM
-1

Your piece about Obama supposedly being to blame for preventing his promotion is ridiculous. What have elected Democrats done to side with women in rape cases? I haven't seen a single law interfering with sex acts that wasn't championed by a Republican. And maybe the guy didn't deserve the promotion.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 03:27 AM
1

Beyond judging either side for wrongdoing, I still find the Hollywood fuck-for-fame disgusting. Now anytime I watch a movie with some relative unknowns I'm going to wonder whose dick he/she sucked to make it there.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:55 PM
3

He's a rightie, so all the things done by conservatives "don't count". Cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:52 PM
13

The benefits are definitely not endless. You're basically going out and buying friends. You're not going to make a great network unless you're lucky, or want to get into the industry. It's just a step above playing video games every night.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 12:30 PM
11

I work in an intense sales job that I love, but it's killing my social life too. After playing my role and kicking ass at it, I get off work and don't really want to fucking deal with anyone.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 01:32 AM
0

Las Vegas wouldn't be good for day game. Not many people on the street.
/r/seduction01/02/18 11:48 PM
17

This. TRP loves explaining things in an Alpha/Beta sense but in these cases the cause is just as much boredom and fickleness.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 07:41 PM
-3

I'm trying really hard to understand your point, the best I can understand is that some white women nominated Hillary, and then other white women voted for Trump, thus the white women in the photo are literally protesting themselves. Alright, that's pretty fucking stupid. More importantly, is this TheRedPill or The_Donald? I don't care about this political shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:12 AM
-2

The best president we can find should be ready from day one and shouldn't have to be trained on the fucking job like Trump.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:02 AM
-9

Sounds/looks like a bitchy little snowflake to me. There's no reason to stick around for that long except to try and get rich off a lawsuit from it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:12 AM
2

That's shit parenting on many levels, feminism being one of them.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:30 PM
2

Find other girls and limit contact with the old one. Don't attach to the next one, either.
/r/seduction18/12/17 11:00 AM
13

From my experience in Latin America if you're foreign from a rich country and decent-looking you're set. One issue is most single girls still live with their parents, so most of them will be sneaking around with you so expect the complications that come with that.
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:59 PM
1

Obviously you're going to fuck up with no experience. Don't be hard on yourself at all. We've all been through this.
/r/seduction25/11/17 06:52 AM
5

This is why it's annoying when guys insinuate that women are dumb, weak, crazy, etc. It all comes from their own instinctual sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 11:01 PM
2

If you're on a date I'd politely but firmly tell him we came here together and we're on a date and it's rude of.him to come try and talk to her.
/r/seduction20/10/17 10:46 PM
8

What the hell is "equality of consent or power"?
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:24 PM
2

Good post. You're better than me, I would have denied the bedroom invitation.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:15 AM
2

I thought of a good analogy: Say there's a ridiculous amount of crime in your neighborhood all of a sudden. Which is the better thing to do, go on the internet to whine about criminals being bad people, or go out and buy yourself a piece for protection?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:48 AM
19

The angry people make us all look bad. If you look at people who say Redpillers are fucked up they link to posts on here with some guy saying "all women really are just dumb sluts" or some other unnecessarily hostile BS. We don't need this rage-boner juvenile shit here.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 06:56 AM
2

I'm with you, man. I spent most of my childhood alone and on the internet or Game Boy and that's what my brain has wired itself around. I've gained a lot of confidence over the last few years and had success with my work, but none of that has resulted in me enjoying social activities more. I think clubs and bars are stupid too but I envy the people who can have fun in shit like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 05:23 PM
2

Every time I nut I think to myself "It's not worth going out of my way for sex" like it should be my new mantra to live by. But without fail I end up rolling for chicks or basically doing (mildly) dumb things to increase my chances. I'm right there with you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 12:06 PM
7

Most decent women are interested in your money status; they don't want to invest their time and pussy in a deadbeat. I don't know everything about your situation, and this girl sounds like a bitch regardless, but if you can't communicate your success in ways other than telling them your income then that's your problem, too.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 04:26 PM
1

Hell no I would never want that. Anyone in this sub would rather die than live like that. But if that guy is actually happy then whatever (there's a good chance he's dying inside).
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:16 AM
1

Honestly it's his life, his problem. If he's happy being a submissive with her then good for him.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 10:33 PM
-1

There definitely are no unicorns, but that doesn't mean marriage is a bad idea or is necessarily a risk. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:29 PM
3

You complain about generalizations made about the South by putting forth ones made about the North. So you really aren't any better than the other guy.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:19 PM
-1

That feminism is a "weapon" from anyone, you're getting into conspiracy shit. It's still fucking bullshit to turn everything into black & white left/right politics.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:47 PM
4

This sub exists for sexual and personal strategy. I was happier when morons like you didn't rant and rave about liberals every chance you got. Fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:29 AM
4

Milo is beyond just a shit-talker, he's personally harassed people and doxxed them for no good reason. Fuck him, he's not a martyr, he's a loser.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:25 AM
2

I know a conservative who didn't tip a waiter once. You're all pieces of shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:23 AM
2

Another issue with that conclusion, that women are pathetic emotional creatures, is that it men too. Most men, at least.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:34 PM
1

You can be red pill and have a relationship. I'd consider the alternative, but do you, man. Being yourself with no apologies is part of red pill isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:29 PM
0

Sorry but biased sources from 60+ years ago don't really matter. And a few words from a few researchers don't prove that there is a global conspiracy against men.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:34 PM
1

I disagree, women like being put in their place and having boundaries set. Ghosting isn't a bad option, but it's not the only one.
/r/seduction17/01/17 02:54 AM
1

It sounds like he has some life re-tooling to do and focusing on girls/sex isn't going to make him happy or solve his problems.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 08:31 PM
1

Should he alter his life and goals dramatically to get more sex?
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:41 PM
1

Not that easy. She will ask eventually if they're a couple.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:38 PM
2

I'm sure it doesn't make them happy, but it's what they go for. It's like you can trash McDonald's for serving shitty food, while really it's the American/Global public that keeps buying it.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:35 PM
1

If you're not comfortable or not experienced, err on the side of texting less. I wouldn't worry too much about texting, because as you cultivate a good mentality about dating texting will come naturally. That being said, I would not recommend avoiding texting like some people recommend; it's a pretty easy & natural way to communicate in 2017.
/r/seduction16/01/17 05:27 PM
3

Act like nothing happened. If you were flirting before and still feel like doing it, go ahead.
/r/seduction15/01/17 05:36 PM
1

Try and get experience, but it doesn't really matter. Dating at 20 vs 28 (my age) is different but not necessarily better. I'd focus more on yourself at that age, honestly.
/r/seduction31/12/16 09:00 PM
2

You're overestimating how much the average hipster takes SJW issues to heart. They are much more interested in maintaining a lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:24 AM
8

Haha I'm there (here) now. Where did you stay?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:55 AM
1

Your inner monologue is the problem. You're doing great but you're telling yourself it's not good enough and you're upset. Then again, getting frustrated is perfectly natural and although I can tell you to let it all go, no human being is capable of doing that 100%.
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:37 PM
0

You're too needy.
/r/seduction29/11/16 08:37 AM
1

My ugly friend had a decent streak on Tinder. Now he says it's shit. I tend to agree. I used to get matches sometimes, now I get none.
/r/seduction06/10/16 04:10 PM
6

If he really loves his kids I can see where he's coming from. Dumping her almost certainly means they go back to Croatia and he barely sees them for as long as he has a soccer career. Maybe he's been fucking models on the side too, you all don't know that.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 06:08 PM
0

Trying too hard to be "manly" falls right into what the OP said.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 05:08 AM
3

There are manipulative girls, and there are plenty of guys that manipulate themselves because they're desperate for pussy.
/r/seduction30/07/16 06:36 PM
1

So we're on the same page, then.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 07:44 PM
1

Are you fucking kidding me? Red Pill is useful but this subreddit is about 30% just women-hating revenge circlejerk garbage like this that doesn't fucking do anything for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:38 PM
4

I would pretend nothing happened. Scratch her off as a romantic possibility, but there's nothing to be gained by holding a grudge.
/r/seduction22/07/16 09:22 PM
1

I'm not really advocating marriage, just saying that if this fictional ideal woman is set on it, she'll find it from someone.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 05:17 PM
2

Lock her down. If she's really that high-value and set on commitment & a family she will leave to get it from someone else.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 06:15 PM
3

The writers of that show weren't around then, either.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 07:46 AM
5

She doesn't care about the relationship if she wants her ex to come and stay with her.
/r/seduction02/07/16 12:57 PM
9

I'd draw a line between testing you / flirting and just being a cunt. Some girls just want to get their rocks off fucking with people, like guys do.
/r/seduction29/06/16 08:19 PM
1

Go and spend some time where being white (I assume) and well-off puts you above every other guy there. Southeast Asia or Latin America. It'll be a fun experience and will raise your confidence. It does sound like you have your shit together, which is more important than anything to do with girls. Think of dating as: 1.) You're trying to kick ass in life, and 2.) You want someone to tag along for fun.
/r/seduction26/06/16 05:27 PM
5

I wouldn't care. I'm not really impressed with good looks anymore.
/r/seduction08/06/16 02:55 AM
2

I understand your anxiety. The most important thing to recognize is that women are not the key to happiness. They alone will never leave you fulfilled. Think of them (and treat them like) something to accompany you in whatever great things you do.
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:41 PM
0

Why would you want to know?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:35 AM
4

Traveling with a group of strangers vs. traveling and meeting strangers. Not that different.
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:25 PM
7

Girls like guys that are nice, among many other things. Being nice & only nice will not get you anywhere.
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:21 PM
1

I haven't changed my Tinder profile much in two years, and I'm good-looking, but my matches have gone from 2-3 per day to ZERO now. Then again, this is in Chicago, where dating in general sucks balls (I've never heard anything good said about it).
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:52 AM
2

Accept that she cares about you but doesn't show it in a way that you prefer. Or leave her.
/r/seduction13/03/16 08:25 PM
3

Companionship and steady sex.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:43 AM
-3

Let her go on the trip and suck it up. It's not worth getting your jimmies rustled. Jealousy = insecurity = bluepillbeta. If you're really not that comfortable, dump her and move on to someone you can trust.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:37 AM
2

Can confirm: girls in Latin America love gringo guys. If you want to go there to meet chicks, message me and I will help you.
/r/seduction29/02/16 03:13 PM
3

Cancel.
/r/seduction24/02/16 01:10 AM
3

Tinder is a waste. I've had success but not worth what I've put into it. The last year I've gone on about 10-15 dates from Tinder and not one of them was a quality woman.
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:20 AM
14

He was dropping a friend off at or near the house, not attending the party.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:46 AM
2

Girls are fickle, I wouldn't sweat it too much.
/r/seduction02/02/16 01:21 AM
0

OK. I'm not insecure enough to worry about what my chick is doing when I'm not around. If you want to be a spiteful jealous b**** guess what kind of girls you're going to be with?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 02:25 AM
2

I'm about in the same boat as you in Chicago. It's definitely easier to meet girls than make good friends. If you're already making an effort with girls, but you think having friends will make you happier, why not switch some of the effort towards meeting friends?
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:00 AM
1

Like the rest of the guys here, I'm not sure a girlfriend will make you happy in the end, but if you want it, go for it. 1.)Don't be a pussy 2.)Do NOT drag it out, and 3.)Realize now you're going to make mistakes and it's probably not going to end well, but you'll learn something from it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:09 AM
1

Where in Asia? In the article he says it's easier in some places than others.
/r/seduction12/01/16 03:24 AM
1

Well maybe you're right. It's been my experience that they're not used to being approached directly and it throws them off. Older women sure as hell don't mind it.
/r/seduction10/01/16 09:09 PM
1

There's a line between being a douchebag and self-reliant & confident.
/r/seduction10/01/16 09:07 PM
1

I'd recommend that you discard some of the normal advice given on here, because younger girls (sub-20) don't respond well to being upfront. You should be aggressive without being too direct in your intentions. And most importantly, don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction10/01/16 05:14 PM
1

Dark is a bad time and I hope you at least smiled when you said that opener. Other than that it doesn't sound too bad, honestly.
/r/seduction21/11/15 09:33 PM
1

If you just want a hookup you should probably look for other girls. It's not worth making effort and taking risks over a friend just to get your pee pee in a va jay jay.
/r/seduction21/11/15 09:17 PM
1

You're not going to "seduce" her through Facebook. Just keep a brief chat & tell her you want to hang out soon. If she's not into it there's nothing you can do. But don't be afraid to try!
/r/seduction17/11/15 07:41 PM
25

Being disinvested like you're talking about will help with some but not all girls. That being said, being clingy and chasing like you were before never works.
/r/seduction05/11/15 05:33 PM
6

You're probably craving validation, which is never a turn-on. Even if you can find some girl who doesn't notice it or overlooks it, you're not going to be happy with her.
/r/seduction30/10/15 02:03 AM
2

Smiling also puts girls at ease when you're trying to meet them in a lot of settings.
/r/seduction27/10/15 06:12 PM
1

I do think you fucked up but I wouldn't be so hard on yourself. She probably wasn't that into you if she dropped your ass like that. Or she's just crazy for dropping your ass like that over one small thing. Either way, learn a little & move on.
/r/seduction23/10/15 03:58 AM
1

Don't even worry about it. Girls aren't going to be turned off because you blush. Well, decent girls. Maybe a small percentage of uptight bitches won't like it, but do you want to be around girls like that? Just stop caring.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:44 AM
2

I did 2 approaches today where I straight up told them I thought they were cute/adorable and wanted to go out with them. I've done this before of course, but I'd always do it with a kind of sly/reserved manner; today I let myself go and actually acted like I was fucking excited about it (which I was). One had a bf and the other was leaving my city today, but they were easily the two best reactions I've ever had while approaching. I take two things from it: 1) Getting excited is a way of opening …
/r/seduction04/10/15 05:40 AM
7

Relax. It will be a little awkward at times. The key isn't to fight against it, it's to accept it and make it work for you.
/r/seduction15/09/15 06:17 AM
1

I said that because seduction ideas have their limitations. Fundamental parts of my personality make it harder to connect with women/people and reading 1000 books on seduction wouldn't help. All of the sorts of self-improvement ideas are great for everyone but they're not going to bring someone with significant psychological shortcomings out of their rut.
/r/seduction08/09/15 11:14 AM
0

If you're unhappy without girls, you're not going to be much happier with them. The problem lies within you and a girl is not going to help.
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:32 AM
2

I'm in the game because I want to meet a girl who is worth keeping around. I got into it after a breakup because I do NOT meet enough girls through friends, work, etc. My goal is to retire early.
/r/seduction30/08/15 08:05 PM
22

I like this satire.
/r/seduction06/08/15 06:50 AM
0

A therapist can help you much, much more than the guys of r/seduction.
/r/seduction07/07/15 05:09 AM
4

You're right about some girls, but it's more important to be honest and be yourself. You can go after a girl hard and be confident and non-needy at the same time.
/r/seduction17/06/15 04:29 PM
2

It doesn't matter at all.
/r/seduction28/05/15 07:57 AM
1

Just be you. I don't know how you could be insecure about having money. Roll with it like you should roll with anything about you. Use whatever you have to your advantage.
/r/seduction15/05/15 12:51 AM
1

Tell her to come wherever you are.
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:23 PM
2

You're probably an introvert like me. It's not abnormal. It's something more in the realm of psychology than seduction, and thus I'd consult a therapist instead of the seduction subreddit.
/r/seduction24/03/15 09:05 PM
2

I assume that guys who act like cunts are nice at least sometimes, or else their friends wouldn't put with them.
/r/seduction24/03/15 04:57 AM
1

It's generally going to a mark against you, but insecurity fucks your game up more than your looks.
/r/seduction17/03/15 03:37 PM
1

Some girls wouldn't do it because they're insecure about themselves around someone very attractive.
/r/seduction12/03/15 05:57 PM
1

Start slow, and remember that anxiety and awkwardness never go away entirely, they are part of the process.
/r/seduction05/03/15 05:30 AM
1

You should butt in more and talk about yourself. It's normal (these girls are doing it), though obviously don't overdo it.
/r/seduction05/03/15 01:28 AM
2

You have to engage the whole group. I actually prefer small groups, because girls feel more secure and less guarded around their friends.
/r/seduction28/02/15 03:21 AM
0

You're seeking their validation. That is the wrong attitude and girls can smell it. As a side note, you're better off saying simple things than going for some big joke and looking like a try-hard.
/r/seduction27/02/15 02:42 AM
1

Assume attraction.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:40 AM
1

I'd say they can have their night out no problem but I want a night out with the hot girl some other time.
/r/seduction03/02/15 04:42 PM
3

If you want validation, dump her and watch how much she will suddenly care.... though treat it like a step towards emotional independence and figure out your validation issues in the meantime.
/r/seduction03/02/15 10:35 AM
1

It was a joke. Reddit hates cheaters with this illogical passion and I find it ridiculous.
/r/seduction01/02/15 03:47 AM
2

omg think about the bf whose life you just ruined by putting your penis in her. I'm going to go ahead and cry a little for him since he doesn't know. A gf/bf relationship is about as holy as marriage and you just took a fat dump all over theirs.... jerk
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:21 AM
5

You don't look like you have a disability.
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:58 AM
3

It can be a problem, but confident couples break up, too. Insecure girls make the best lays, too. If she's not too down on herself, then stick around if you like her.
/r/seduction04/01/15 01:00 AM
1

You should think more highly of yourself. It's normal to want validation like you do, but there are more important things to worry about (your academic career). Think about what you actually want, too: temporary gratification or an actual connection? (guess which choice gives you better sex)
/r/seduction03/01/15 11:44 PM
5

What a dumb bitch. I would have made her dance for me. Don't let girls boss you around.
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:32 PM
2

You should have gone for it. You're only young once, and you're not hurting the boyfriend any more than he hurts himself by not being someone who the girl likes enough to be faithful to. It sucks being cheated on, but if you're not friends with the two, it's not your job to help keep their relationship together (as if cheating is the only problem and not a symptom of larger issues). Not that it's not shitty to cheat on your significant person, but a lot of Reddit seems to rate cheaters on the sa…
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:14 AM
13

WTF, he specifically said he's not trying to get laid by doing it, and all of the comments say "don't bother, it's not going to get you laid."
/r/seduction24/12/14 07:12 AM
2

I would hit that bar. Don't worry about picking up girls, just make friends. Talk to people and take a genuine interest in them and what they do. Talking to random people can be the best way to find new opportunities for improving your life.
/r/seduction22/12/14 08:20 PM
1

Your last point was unnecessary and showed an insecure attitude. Being negative doesn't get you anywhere.
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:28 AM
2

Too much makeup. Being into loud fashion (whether clubber girl, or hipster or anything).
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:06 AM
-4

I'd cut her a little slack. She sounds like a waste of time, but her own reservations/naivety towards the situation don't make her an idiot or a bad person. She just doesn't know wtf she's doing. Seems like you're getting overly defensive over the situation.
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:56 PM
1

If you can say it confidently it's not creepy. Girls can tell you a lot more about what's creepy than what's effective.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:45 PM
2

I don't think you made a bad choice in what to do. She probably liked your validation but wasn't really into you enough to take it any further.
/r/seduction04/12/14 07:39 AM
8

Fake it til you make it.
/r/seduction27/10/14 11:07 PM
1

This kind of interaction would get soooo annoying for me. No way.
/r/seduction25/10/14 06:56 AM
6

Open-ended questions shouldn't really be brought out of nowhere. You can try pressing about someone's job, for instance, in an attempt to make interesting conversation, but the person might not have anything worthwhile to say or even feel like talking about it.
/r/seduction05/08/14 01:36 AM
3

If you go in and aren't respectful of the girl or of yourself, that is what makes approaches bad. You need to have respect before you can gain it.
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:45 AM
4

Being negative will never help you.
/r/seduction27/07/14 03:13 PM
8

Don't put too much effort into it. Not worth it.
/r/seduction06/07/14 07:47 AM
1

Feel what you want to feel, if he's pissing you off, tell him and don't act like you're cool about it. You could also fuck with him back, but you don't want to stoop to his level; say something that will make him feel dumb for talking shit. "I thought you were the office fag, man"
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:59 AM
1

Just anything. You don't need an excuse.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:00 AM
3

I'd say they either like you or they don't, which isn't the same thing. But they certainly have an on-off switch in that regard that guys don't.
/r/seduction21/04/14 06:17 PM
1

I'm not sure if this will help you, but just remember that you WILL feel better. The whole shitty experience you had will make you a better person and improve your relationships in the future, IF you take the time to think about what you could have done better. Everyone fucks up sometimes, it takes a man to admit it. You're already on the right track, man.
/r/seduction15/04/14 06:35 AM
4

Act more interested, both verbally and physically. Tell her you like her, touch her, etc.
/r/seduction03/04/14 08:14 PM
3

No one said they were.
/r/seduction24/03/14 07:05 AM
3

For human beings, seduction has almost always happened between familiar individuals. Building attraction with someone in your tribe who you've known for most of your life, or building attraction within family confines a la arranged marriages, is not the same as doing it with a girl you're meeting for the first time at a bar in 2014. Not at all.
/r/seduction23/03/14 11:52 PM
2

Everyone you think has something better than you is just as imperfect of a human being as you are. Lots of them have as much insecurity as you do.
/r/seduction16/03/14 09:39 PM
1

Being alpha with dudes is a shitty priority in my opinion. Just worry about talking to girls. Sometimes I roll with some dudes I don't particularly like who try to dominate other guys. I watch them check out some hot girl and turn away, and I'll go up and talk to her myself. I'd rather get laid than have some burly dudes try and impress me.
/r/seduction16/03/14 09:11 PM
10

Don't get lazy/comfortable.
/r/seduction16/03/14 07:40 PM
1

Don't even deal with alpha types, unless they're actually in the way between you and a prospect. You're only stooping to their level by trying to be cool with them (something I've realized).
/r/seduction16/03/14 07:37 PM
3

Yeah there's nothing wrong with wanting to have worthwhile to talk about beforehand. It's hard to think clearly under pressure.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:46 AM
2

DAMN YOU. I've been working on being a semi-nice guy on that shit, and now you're making me want to go back to being an aggressive fuck.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:15 PM
1

That doesn't mean you can't go on a date or three while you're at it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:28 PM
2

Looks & money create opportunities, not attraction.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:07 AM
1

Liking her and giving a shit about it are separate things. You're only in a friendzone if you give a shit. I got friendzoned and gave up all the cute thoughts that I'd ever be with her, and now I feel great. I can't exactly stop liking her, but I refused to let me own bullshit insecurities give her power over me.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:01 AM
2

Do whatever the fuck you want. Consider a few bare things she might not like (too much wedgie, your dick in her butt), but other than that just do it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:57 AM
3

It's easy. "Hey, I'm having a good time, let's keep it going." It's not like inviting yourself to some dude's place to play his video games; you both have something to gain from you going in her place. Just be confident.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:54 AM
1

You did great dude. Next time don't bring up video games, and though it's hard to think straight in that situation, be mindful of how you feel about the interaction. I don't think you always need to close. If she's not giving you vibes and not giving you a reason through conversation to spend more time with her, why bother? Say "it was nice meeting you, but I need to get going" and move on.
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:16 PM
3

Be bold as hell. You have time constraints. Don't wait for them to make the first move. I can see inexperienced teenage girls on a cruise being shy if you're really bold, be ready to smile a little and act like a friendly dude they can trust. You know, don't ever wait for a girl to make the first move. If you want to meet a girl, go talk to her. If you think it's a good time for a kiss, kiss her. If you're mashing faces and you want her to suck your dick, tell her to. I'm dead serious, take init…
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:09 PM
1

Don't feel bad for yourself. Other people have a head start on you for the girl thing, but focus on everything you have going for you already and build on that. Do NOT try to change yourself. Change your attitude and how you approach situations. There's a big difference. Be a freaking shy dork if that's what you are, there's nothing wrong with it; you can attract girls just the way you are. And don't make the mistake of moving out to be more attractive. It doesn't work except on idiot girls. You…
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:44 PM
2

My tip: let your passion direct you and motivate you. Think about what you want from her and act like it***, and don't feel bad about it. Apply less effort, though, in circumstances where you're going to be around each other and have plenty of time to make a connection. I feel you on the motivation thing. I've got a new approach of, rather than waiting for her to interest me, going into the interaction already assuming she's a cool chick I'd be into. Too soon to say if it's going to do any good …
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:29 PM
2

People aren't ready to connect like that unless you have something to offer. If you're gaming a girl, what you're offering is potential romance.
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:15 PM
1

Make light jokes about her, but avoid topics like her career or weight that will hurt her feelings.
/r/seduction09/03/14 12:13 PM
1

I think she's feeling you and is testing the waters, prying to see if you're more interested in her than just fuck friends. Either she wants to be with you or she just wants the validation.
/r/seduction09/03/14 12:11 PM
2

If you can act or be interested, it won't feel like an interrogation. You gotta insert some of your own thoughts, though.
/r/seduction06/03/14 09:45 PM
1

100% true. Our biology makes it really easy to get stuck in a detrimental attitude that's not necessarily going to get fixed without some real thinking. And society frowns upon men openly discussing their thoughts and feelings towards women, so basic attitude problems can go on for decades without being solved.
/r/seduction05/03/14 10:49 PM
1

"Learning to be a person of normal social competence", that's what some people are on here to do, bro. You're part of the problem, actually, part of society that tells men that they shouldn't care, shouldn't admit any problems, and shouldn't try to improve certain things that should never be admitted as weaknesses. And who gave you the right to judge people for what they do in their free time?
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:03 AM
1

You're damn right. Most of the time, it's somewhere in the middle. I think of breakups as being personality differences combined with our deep-seated desire for new relationships & renewed passion. It's vital for the heartbroken to remember that 1.) there are people out there who will love you for who you are now, and 2.) self-improvement will give you more opportunities, but it has to be genuine.
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:38 PM
6

You're a funny guy who's putting pussy on a pedestal, as they say. I'd give you advice on beating that state of mind, but I'm sure that other people have written about it better than I can.
/r/seduction27/02/14 06:45 AM
5

This approach is flawed. Two big things: seduction should not be about making a sale, it's about getting happiness and satisfaction from one's relationships. And the product, in the end, is yourself. You can add fancy clothes and get fit, which may give you more opportunities, but your personality is the only thing that can create lasting genuine attraction. You can change your approach to situations (how your personality reacts to things), but there's no faking who you are.
/r/seduction27/02/14 12:02 AM
2

I have to get in a goal-minded mentality, actually. It's too easy for me to just talk like friends with a girl, connect but not really in a romantic way. Sometimes I feel like chatting around and don't really care, but I try to keep my goal in mind: see what this girl is all about, see if she's someone I'd enjoy spending time with.
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:24 PM
2

I can relate. When you're traveling, 1.) you have a lot of things to be excited & talk about, and 2.) you end up in places where girls feel the same. So it seems you've come back home and found that neither of these things that made you successful are happening. For #1, you've got to cheer up first, and if you want to get back in that conversation zone, I'd suggest trying to recreate the mentality you have while you traveled. You'll never feel exactly the same, but you can attempt to get close. …
/r/seduction24/02/14 10:38 AM
1

What's made me think a little differently about this is a close friend of mine (girl) who's falling hard for some guy who's actually being a big sweetheart to her (writing her poems, etc.). It's kind of corny and probably not universally attractive, but what I see in aggressive kindness is a display of dominance. To say "I really like you and want to be with you" with the attitude of putting your desires first is pretty alpha, even if it is about intimate feelings. Getting attached can fuck you …
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:50 AM
1

Seriously if you can do that and not be awkward and shitty about it then you WILL get #s. Refining your approach will help, but talking to them in the first place is the most important thing; what you say matters, but as long as you can hold a brief non-awkward conversation you already have more points than any other guy on the street her just for having the balls. Personally, though, for day game I'd try and open with a talking point (it's definitely worth using your approach if that fails, tho…
/r/seduction30/01/14 11:32 PM
1

I've been not looking at them as hot girls, but potential connections. Focus on them as people; look at an attractive girl and think to yourself "I wonder what she's all about", and then find an excuse to talk to her so you can find out. This connection is what drives hookups as well as marriages. Shit helps me a lot.
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:43 PM
3

95% of your problem here: you're worrying too much about how people think of you and not enough of how you think of other people. And "seducing" shouldn't be in your vocabulary right now. First you need to create the confidence to make pure connections with people, and then you can think of it as "seduction". An important note: if you're not ugly and you aren't socially oblivious, dating can happen solely through effortless connections. It's just a numbers game: (# of girls you attempt a connect…
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:37 PM
3

Bro if you have the balls to do that then you're already winning the "game".
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:04 PM
2

I don't really know what the fuck I'm doing on there, but I used to send longish first messages and based on how many girls messaged me back, typing all that crap wasn't worth my time. Three sentences maximum, make something witty and memorable, don't sound like a little bitch, and move on to another profile. Making an effort for any one person just because you think they look awesome and a great match, yeahhhh not worth the time. Expect infinite rejections before something works. Also, I'd just…
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:11 AM
1

I think you're going about this completely incorrectly, honestly. The only thing you're failing is your inflated expectations. Accept the truth; you're not a fucking stud, but the fun part is that you don't have to be. Not many guys can approach a girl the way you seem to want to. Lots of guys have great lives and plenty of interactions with girls without ever doing what you're trying to do. I know I never have, but I don't give a shit. You're putting these chicks waaay too high on a pedestal. Y…
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:03 AM
1

Give it a shot. You'll have better overall experiences in person, but doing a little of the online thing has definitely given me some extra preparation for those. Just expect a million rejections and don't get hung up over any individual match. It's more important to say something memorable/different because if she's hot she'll get like 100 messages a day, versus being at a bar where 10 guys max will have the balls to converse with her (beyond making some dumb pass, at least). The point is the s…
/r/seduction28/01/14 12:49 AM
9

A guy with >0 experience with women will KNOW you find them attractive if you bother talking to them and act like you do. No need to state your intentions at all. I've had girls be aggressive like that with me and it threw me off and didn't go anywhere, even though I wish it could have. My approach with guys would be to do as much as you can to make them feel slick like they're picking YOU up. We love that feeling for some reason (at least I do). Plus if you're not awesomely attractive (though I…
/r/seduction19/01/14 01:03 PM
1

I really am a fucking sweetheart to people I care about, but I'm assertive, say what's on my mind, and don't put up with crap.
/r/seduction19/01/14 08:17 AM
2

OK, it can be, and I'll admit that I'm somewhat new and I might be skimming past the BS posts, but the real worthwhile things I've learned so far have been variations on your three tips. It seems like when people post here saying they need help "getting laid", the first few comments shut them down immediately saying "don't make it about getting laid".
/r/seduction19/01/14 06:29 AM
26

First, I'd try and have a little more confidence. Slim and 20 and not ugly puts you ahead of most other women out there, honestly (being slim happens to be the number one thing I find attractive). And as for not being a 9 or 10, most guys aren't looking for or expecting a 9 or 10 and if you are a pleasant enough person you'll be attractive to them anyway. I like your attitude but day game should be approached differently by a girl. Guys like to feel like guys and straight up doing pickup lines w…
/r/seduction19/01/14 06:11 AM
1

Ha well "very clean" is about the complete opposite.
/r/seduction19/01/14 05:53 AM
2

This subreddit is not "how to get laid". The three things you mentioned are actually about the most common advice given on here.
/r/seduction19/01/14 05:24 AM
1

I'm all of those things except I'm only moderately clean and the way I dress would impress some but not all. Makes me feel nice.
/r/seduction19/01/14 01:14 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter