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| 1 | I just pulled a woman with huge boobs & shes all mine, Thanks seduction!Yeahhhhh....im going to unsubscribe from this sub. This shit is cringe asf and gives big incel vibes | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenSure, but men also act based on social dynamics. That’s why the "bro code" exists. It’s not just about attraction, it’s about relationship context too. | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 05:14 PM |
| 4 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenJust want to point out that Studies indicate that men tend to be more visually oriented and place a higher value on a woman's physical appearance, especially in the initial stages of attraction. | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What makes someone go from attractive to just a friend before anything even starts?Opposite. I've met them in the theatre group and later we matched. And thank you | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 12:08 AM |
| 5 | What makes someone go from attractive to just a friend before anything even starts?My man i shower everyday and look after me. Would you want to be friends with someone who isn't hygienic? | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 12:01 PM |
| 3 | What makes someone go from attractive to just a friend before anything even starts?So am I too open? I’ve been wondering if that might be a turnoff. The last girl who said something like that told me she was initially interested when she first saw me in the group. But after we had to talk openly during an acting exercise our instructor gave us, she started seeing me more as a friend. Honestly, I find that a bit sad. It makes me feel like I have to hold myself back just so others continue to see me as attractive. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible?Living in an urban area, having no life and are unemployed. Whoever needs to go up to 50-100 girls a day, have no game and no social skills/awareness. | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Girl literally told me “ur ugly as f”Highkey thinking you fucked up and said some shit. Who tf says that out of nowhere and since you aint giving any story im doubting you. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 10:10 PM |
| 4 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?If you live in central europe and dont have any success other cities wont help with that but you do you | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you have multiple girls?Lower your standards, try to date a lot of girls, and be constantly available. So or so it's too much work. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 12:33 PM |
| 3 | I approached a milf at the libraryCringiest shit i have read this month. Congrats dude. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 07:53 AM |
| 2 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?Nah, I think you just liked the wrong girls and ended up in the wrong bubble. Maybe there just aren’t that many girls around you either. I’m into art, culture, and music, so I usually vibe with girls who give off that same energy and , they’re anything but boring. On the other hand, I do find people with super basic interests kind of dull - and that goes for guys too. Most of my friends share the same passions, and I naturally gravitate toward people who have something going on. So honestly, it’… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 09:18 AM |
| -4 | Be friend with women!So you think women are only there to fuk or being in a relationship with but not worth being friends with? | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Be friend with women!I did that but now i tend to friendzone more girls then i wanted lol. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 07:38 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between talking and flirting really?That means that you actually already flirt for fun already. The other things you just need to add are physical touch | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How many women do you approach at bars weekly?I let people approach me | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 10:24 AM |
| 4 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.Not true and just false. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | (Longer post) My own story of finally understanding that sex appeal matters more than being handsomeI respect the self-awareness. Your transformation clearly had an impact on confidence and the way people treat you. A lot of people can relate to that feeling of realizing how much looks and presentation matter. That said, I wonder if this change was more about becoming your true self or just adapting to what society values. You said a physical change can completely transform your life, do you feel like this new persona is truly you, or is it more of a response to what society values? I get the … | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Never believe someone who got a higher body count then 40. Everything else are guys who fucks everything which walks and do that with cringy moves or just lie. Tbh in both cases these guys need therapy. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | The economics of dating as a man: when you should be paying for the girlMeh, i always pay for dates or for friends if i enjoy the time with them. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 09:42 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Fingered a girl in the clubWeird shit dude lol | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 10:09 PM |
| 119 | How to get laid at an anime conventionI don't mean to be harsh, but it's true. If you're a decent or even good-looking guy in a well-done cosplay with good social skills, it's often easier to meet people at a convention than at clubs or similar events. Being in cosplay attracts attention, making it easier for others to approach you and strike up conversations. However, it's best not to attend if you're not into anime. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 07:39 PM |
| 6 | 3 Rules To Succeed On Dating Appslol if the girl is so shallow that she notice shit like this she aint worth the time | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Are girls turned off if you don’t escalate to sex on first date?I dont know dude. I got asked if im queer cause i didnt kiss her at the first date lol. It really depends on the girl but most of the time its better to be a bit more physical. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 08:00 AM |
| 5 | What causes girls to not want romantic ties and "just stay friends"?Several girls have told me that they genuinely wanted to remain friends because they liked me but didn’t see a romantic connection developing. In most cases, this happened because I didn't take the initiative to escalate things or express romantic interest. As a result, what began as a potential romantic vibe gradually shifted into a purely friendly one. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?I got an answer from her and she said that i gave lowkey that vibe. I guess at the end its because i didnt go for a kiss. But bruh i asked three times if she still got stomach pain. But i got it. Lesson learned | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?I see where you're coming from, but I didn't quite feel that way. We were really chill and had a great time together—cooking and just enjoying each other's company. I didn't notice a natural moment for any physical escalation, except maybe when we said goodbye. But the train arrived so quickly, and I had to catch the last one, so I just hugged her and said goodbye. I'm not usually the nervous type, but maybe I was just a bit too laid-back this time. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?Im 27 and she is 25 | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?Me normally, I would, but only if I feel the vibe. She was definitely into me—she made several comments about how I look good enough to do well on TikTok, and she responded to one of my answers with 'smash.' Still, I prefer to be more physical on the second date when she knows me better and feels more comfortable, so I can make a move more easily. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?Always found this disgusting af | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?ok bro | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:51 PM |
| 10 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?Would have been surely the better answer lol. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Bruh just get someone to make good pictures. Those are whack. You are good looking enough. Work on your style and get some spontaneous/professional photos and the rest is going to be easy af. And ye i read your comment saying that your happy about your style but nah my man those are either just basic af or give wifebeater vibe. Find something else you dig and most importantly work on your social skills and new photos. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:18 AM |
| 0 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?Actually surprised by the top answers here. Maybe i should actually move away from here. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?Because thats the peak of desperation | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you flirt as a person?Noted. Flapping and squawking loudly on my next date 📝 | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 06:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you flirt as a person?Trust me i do that. I actually do. Still perceived as a friendly dude who is looking for a friendship and not for romantic escalation | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 9 | Is it a red flag if a woman gets invested and attached only after having sex for the first/second time?Oxytocin. Girls fall in love with others after physical touch | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 12:44 PM |
| -1 | She liked my message when I asked her out?Biggest lie in history - she is busy ... Bullshit. Even I sometimes don't have the head or the time to answer because I either have to work or am busy with something else. I take the time to reply unless it's something important. What is it with this sub and the constant lowkey incel vibes. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 03:14 PM |
| 3 | How to not fumble the attractionI was in a similar spot not long ago. However, I changed my mindset and approach to dating. Previously, dates for me were just casual coffee meetings, and if the vibe was right, we’d escalate and see where things went. I didn’t consider whether I genuinely found her interesting or attractive, what my goals were, or what the next date might look like to achieve those goals. Now, I approach dates with more intention and thought. While I still keep it low-pressure and often start with coffee, I giv… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm so close to throwing in the towel and giving upHow did you know what you could change to improve these aspects? | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm so close to throwing in the towel and giving upWhich ones? The dates on dating apps or the girls I asked out and knew beforehand? Regardless, with the exception of one, no, I didn't. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:55 PM |
| 9 | My observations with guys who pull womenNah ye im with you on that. Its just that i noticed that dating is less open/private if every date is out in the open and none of you can meet at someones home. | /r/seduction | 16/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 13 | My observations with guys who pull womenIts more about to have your own place so that both can be more close. | /r/seduction | 16/07/23 09:55 PM |
| 4 | My observations with guys who pull womenLogistics is my biggest problem right now | /r/seduction | 16/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | I broke the curse and had my first time, but I was kind of lame?Exactly! But I think that's also because we as guys very rarely talk about how something doesn't work out. Girls know that but as a guy you think that you will always be hard and never go wrong. As I said I don't know if she noticed if I was still a virgin but even if she enjoyed it. Even if she hadn't, that would have been fine. Would have just said I'm out of practice and she should communicate to me calmly if there is something she doesn't like. It gets a little exaggerated how big of an issu… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesGood question lol | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | I finally know what it feels like to touch and be wanted by a woman. Unreal experience.Dude are you for real? | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Why was I in a auto mode on my first time?I was. Stopped watching since last week | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Why was I in a auto mode on my first time?if possible, visit a doctor, get them to investigate possible causes of erectile dysfunction (they'll check hormone levels etc). It was just this one time. I never had problems getting an erection when I was alone. That's probably because of my mental state. I dissociated while trying to give her a good time instead of both of us being able to have a good time. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Why was I in a auto mode on my first time?Youre right. Didnt know where i can post this. It just annoys me that my partner have to deal with this as well | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Somehow I imagined everything to be much more complicated than it actually is.Ye I was watching daily. Even regardless of that experience I need to work on some stuff. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | She invited me in but i declined.I am? I just didnt want to sleep with her today? | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Did my ambiguity fuck everything up?Not really. I had another date two days ago. I just like her | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you go for the kiss even if the date isn't going that well or the vibes aren't that great?Nope. That would just make it awkward | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:45 AM |
| 2 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?Sure, but people are different. What some see as desperate, others may find persuasive. It depends on the context and the atmosphere. If it's obvious she's not interested, then that's perfectly fine. Most of the time I meet girls who are into so many projects that they forget about dating apps. I understand that some girls don't find that attractive, but I mean, they didn't respond anyway and if they really aren't interested, a rejection is easy. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:31 PM |
| 4 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?1- The first, why did you text her twice. She didn't respond the first time so don't even try again. You look disperate as if she's all that. When guys message twice like that, I just don't bother for some reason. What is there to lose? She didn't answer anyway and people are busy and forget to answer. There is nothing to lose if she doesn't reply. Some dates only came about because I gave it another chance | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Almost hooked up with two separate girlsYeah, so much that. I don't know why, but once I get a little tipsy, it's much easier for me. I can express myself much better and I'm not so afraid to touch others. But at the same time, I can say things that I wouldn't say so casually. Sometimes those things are good and sometimes they are bad. I give myself more to the situation. But I'm also aware of when too much is too much and I can control myself well when I drink. I've seen enough others drink over their limit and fuck up everything the… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?If so the friendzone wouldnt exist. A friend you like does not automatically mean that you see that person as a potential partner. If the attraction is not there at all, then no romantic attraction will be there either. Especially if you see that person as ugly lol. Personality can do a lot but you called the guys as "were physically so ugly at first". Personality alone cant change the fact that you found these guys ugly. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:27 AM |
| -1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Sure but exceptions prove the rule. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How conventionally attractive are you?I mean that confidence matters a lot. You can look very good, but if you are way too shy and blow it every time, you won't know how to make a girl not lose interest | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How conventionally attractive are you?I feel you dude. I wouldnt say that im very good looking but surely above average. Still it took me years till i learned how to not fuck it up because of my past. Just keep it going and youre going to learn how to avoid certain things | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Confidence can make such a differenceDoes she have tattoos? Ask her about her tattoos and what they mean. I just always make sure that everything someone says has a question in it. Or I just watch other people, if they have a particular style, I talk to them about it. Have they changed something? Then I talk to them about it. Sometimes I start with just small talk and then look for things they're interested in and ask them about it. The best conversations are the ones where we both have something to talk about, and sometimes I don'… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Confidence can make such a differenceI switch between her eyebrows and her eyes and look around the room when I need to think. It was annoying at first since I had to concentrate that I keep eye contact and not think about the conversation, but I practiced with good friends and people im comfortable with and after that it was not so difficult when I talked to girls. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 3 | How to keep momentumJust keep texting and send a few messages every few days. Just write her that you're looking forward to seeing her again next time, and when the time comes, keep an eye out for when the two of you can meet up again. It's annoying and the momentum might be fade but hey, the date seemed good, so give it a chance. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:11 PM |
| -2 | how do you game very attractive girls in their mid-20s if you're 10+ years older?What is it with you asking so many questions? | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Im going to have my first time but...I did not say that girls per se say that they want to sleep with me. It happened only twice and once she had a boyfriend and the second time she was drunk. But even if several women would have approached me, I just couldn't do it. I lived in a very religious home and it was not possible for me. I understand your skepticism, but there were several reasons why it wasn't really possible for me. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Im going to have my first time but...Huh wdym? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:47 PM |
| 63 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?Some ofc lol. But they're just the toxic type you want to avoid | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Im unsure about the next dateSo just don’t try to justify yourself, don’t go on the defensive, don’t seek her understanding, just get it over and suck her neck and her ear for half an hour in a row and that will be enough for now. I guess im going to need to drink a lot of water before i meet her or my tongue is going to get numb then lol. Don’t say you are inexperienced, don’t say you don’t know what to do, don’t say you never touched a woman at age 27. Trust me dude. Just don’t. I am not that inexperienced. I've kissed mo… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I seem to give off a vibe that im a fuckboy?I don't know, man. I mean, I'm just as confused as you are. Maybe it's really because we're more confident around people we don't care about or are comfortable with and a combination of looks/style? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?ah yeee i can see that thanks | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?Huh no i really dont know? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?What is the PC police? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | should i still be friends with this girl?Bruh i dont know. Wouldnt it kinda be unfair to her? You befriended her while you werent interested and now after she rejected you nicely you cant go back as normal friends? A bit selfish fam but you do you | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Is Instagram really needed in today’s modern market?Meh, not really. I mean most use instagram but at the end if someone is interested in you or not isnt determined by insta. I guess some could be a bit confused since they use it as a way to message with someone without giving out the number. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Should I have stayed in the set or left?Nah, it sounds like you had fun that night anyway. Sure, maybe it could have worked out with the girl, but since she was there with her friends, it's not easy and she probably would have preferred to stay with her friends anyway. So it's better that you took the safe option and had fun anyway. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How to get dates with Tinder and BumbleMy problem is that most matches are over 50km away. Like how am i supposed to coordinate that. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateYou worded it pretty bad tbh. Go to that date but be aware that you dont get used. Take it as a nice coffee date or whatever youre going to do and have fun. If it works out then nice if not then bail out early enough and dont take to many red flags in | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?Thanks a lot, dude. No, really. Next time I'll break the touch barrier gradually, like you explained. Makes perfect sense and I probably knew the answer myself, but I needed to hear it from someone else. Thanks again for taking the time! | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?Firstly thank you for taking your time! A lot of points tho were things i struggled with. I did improve a lot like now im pretty atheletic and bigger then my friends, work as an actor and living a pretty extroverted live. The girl i want to approach is someone i met at a party and i was just me and we made out at the end. Correct me if I'm wrong but I like to date so that the first date is more about getting to know each other. People often say that you should kiss right away and if you don't ki… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:34 PM |
| 6 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?Well ok sure i can see that. Now that you have heard my background, what do you have to say to my question? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?People tend not to reply here if I give too much background information. It makes the post too long and gets ignored most of the time. So yes, maybe a background like that would help, but I know I wouldn't get a reply then. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?Youre probably right and thats why i asked. Im still learning and trying to get better. Thats why im asking such random basic questions. Trying to get that more across in my next date. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:48 PM |
| 10 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?I come from a very strict religious family and the college is the first time i can live freely and without restrictions. Before i got 23 i couldnt date anyone. So even after two years things like these are new to me. Ya need to understand that not everyone got the same background. So yes i know that this is a basic ass question but i wouldnt ask if i did know. Sometimes yall really harsh. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?I would have gone for the kiss if she gave any openings. There were none. She kept her distance, wasnt encouraging and since she's the best friend of one of my friends i didnt want to push. Im sure that the girl im tryin to date isnt like that. Just want to make sure to get my point across and not fuckin it up | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsAyo one of my good friends is very lucky with girls but at the same time he got rejected a ton. He does have an easy game tho because he is ridiculously good looking but even he gets rejected. So nothing wrong with that. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?Broo im not making excuses. Im only a beginner who only had 3-4 dates and two of them werent planned and just happened. So im just trying to make it fun for the girl and not wanting to bring out the friendly guy vibe like I did in the last date. I think on my last date the activities we did were a bit too "friendly". Either she just wasn't that into me and we could have done whatever and it wouldn't have worked out or the dates really weren't flirty enough. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl off a dating app, some bad signs what should I do?tbh i actively distance myself from these girls. i dont like show offs and the girl without interest. i want some passion and often girls like these are pretty well basic. similar to fitness guys. there are the guys who like these type of girls but if you dont like that then i wouldnt pursue. but well i mean go for a date and just get some experience. there is not much to lose. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Not getting eye contactPractice, practice, practice. Even for me its difficult. Its not because im nervous or shy. I just like to wander my eyes through the room while talking. But i did notice how eye contact can be really effective. Just try to work on your eye contact while she's talking and keep eye contact if you want to get something across. It will get better slowly. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to a bad texter with short replies?she replies with a hi?? bruh nah just dont respond and when she asks why you wouldnt respond then just explain that since she doesnt like texting you wouldnt waste your and her time with that. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Asked for girls Instagram instead of number…. How do I proceed now?Huh why? Most prefer chatting over insta nowadays instead over whatsapp. Its much more chill. Just keep chatting over Insta and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Somehow only beautiful girls like me and I am confusedI mean nice for you but it sounds more like that you were partying with the girls and didnt escalate with them? Those are different things | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | I have been told I look intimidatingSo? People say the same thing about me and are surprised that I am the opposite of what I look like. But that's not a bad thing? A lot of girls like that. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 12:55 AM |
| 4 | I rarely get an eye contact back, why?I am quite extroverted and outgoing, but even I have problems maintaining eye contact. This is not because I am shy or uncomfortable. I just tend to look across the room when I'm talking about something and have to concentrate when I want to look someone in the eye and miss half of what they're saying. Maybe it's the same with the girls you meet. In any case, you're worrying too much about a trivial thing. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Why is ignorance seductive?I know i was just kidding. Damn thanks for sharing your experience with me. I hate how toxic all of that always is. I will keep an eye on it when I fall for people who are not healthy for me and who rather hold me back. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Why is ignorance seductive?Ayo i wasnt the odd guy! lol She was more the kind of girl who doesn't really think much about relationships, dating or feelings overall. What I mean is that she doesn't have guys all over her, but she's similar to the guy I described in that she doesn't really care about anything, which made dating her exhausting. But yeah, probably. Like you said, we want what we can't have. It's just really toxic and it made me realise that the middle ground is always the best. Not paying too much attention, … | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Just got rejected on our second 'date'bruh what? | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Just got rejected on our second 'date'You think she didn't think about this before she told you she liked you, went on a date with you and kissed you? She's not a girl that you matched on tinder and suddenly finds out all these things. She already knew all that. Ye youre overthinking things and dude, even if it is like youre thinking then what would you have missed? You had a great experience that she pursued. Look at it as a win and learn from it. It's not that you lost something. No, you gained. And I'm still sure it's not what yo… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | what do you think about this dating advice? (i want women perspective on this, but men is also okay)Yes lol. Just yesterday i talked with my female friend about that and how she started having feelings for someone who isnt her type just because he is the guy who isnt empathetic at all and keeps ignoring obvious signs. He does it to everyone. Find the middle ground. Dont give to much attention. Everyone likes the chase but it can get toxic and it should be a push and pull by both sides | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:39 PM |
| 13 | Just got rejected on our second 'date'I know how you feel, bro. Chill. She told you she liked you for a long time and suddenly you two are dating. Give her some time and talk to her. Maybe she's just overwhelmed. You both seem to have had a good time and see this as something positive for now. I know you're confused, especially because it was so sudden, but I'm sure she'll explain herself. Just relax and distract yourself with other things. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This some alpha sigma shit and I hope OP doesn’t hear at this advice | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Just lost my virginity at 20, and learned a whole lot about myselfCongrats dude! I completly understand you. It was very difficult for me to meet any girls before i started college cause my parents are very religious and i werent allowed to be out at night. Just recently i started to date some girls and im close to meet a girl tomorow at her home. Still unsure if im gonna be honest about my virginity tho. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Good Looks doesnt help against stupiditySo what would you do? | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Good Looks doesnt help against stupidityInexperience like i said. In the past i had troubles making friends and i switched schools over 10 times. So i never really had a long connection with anyone. Im scared to approach a girl being to pushy and scare them off. Because i had problems making friends in the past i sometimes prefer to stay as friends so that i dont fuck the relationsship with someone up | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with better looking friends?Yeah i feel you. Most of the time im even not really interested in the girl. Like the most recent story the girl is attractive but she´s to engaged in our group. We know how it would mess things up so we all agreed not to approach her. I know that i need to be more confident about these things but it hurts to see how my friends are so much more experienced than i am. Idk fam. Maybe we should work on our confidence. Like i noticed how im suddenly become more confident and the guy i see in my frie… | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with better looking friends?Its kinda difficult to explain my situation. Its not really about how i dont have style or interesting insights about my life. I know i look good and people always compliment my style or hobbies. I grew up alot in the last 3 years. Its just that they ask me for advice. Im the one who hears the stories and give advices. The girlfriends ask me or the guys ask me. Im just good telling others what to do. I dont want to be the always supportive friend. I have to pretend it doesn’t bother me because t… | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with better looking friends?Oh yeah i know that im not that confident in that thing like they are. But im not focusing on my friends. Im pretty extroverted and never really show bad vibes. Its just annoying how im always the guy which they ask if they have relationsship problems. Im trying to get my own shit fixed. Im just good telling other what to do but i cant do shit on my own. Im the one you need to help not otherwise. Im more than happy to help my friends but cant they see that it hurts me how im always hearing their… | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 10 | How do I start flirting and for a lack of a better "signal" that I'm interested in them as more than a friendBruh nothing tells you more than her being silent. Its the same when a girl ghosts me. I dont need an explanation. I know she isn't interested | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Got my first rejection but I realized somethingHow do you act with your friend ? I always keep a distance and dont compliment them in the same way I would compliment a cute girl. Or how should a girl act if shes interested in u and doesnt just want a friend? Portray that and use it on her | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | What should I aim for?no not rly | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What should I aim for?i mean i meet a lot of girls. i work as an actor and partially as designer and musician. so i meet a lot of people and most acting girls are pretty good lookin. but i take a long time till i see a girl as dateable. i dont know why but i send most girls to the friendzone even if i know that i would have pretty good chances. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What should I aim for?i understand but im really not needy. im an actor and designer. its not like that i dont meet hot girls or see new people. i just dont fall in love with someone instantly. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What should I aim for?Maybe your right. But im not gonna chase her and just stay as friends with her. If I see an opportunity then I'm gonna take it but if not I'm cool with it. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What should I aim for?That i enjoy her presence and that I like to hear what she says. After that I asked her if she would be up for a coffee. She asked me if it would be as a date and I said yes. Her response was that shes not interested but as friends she would like to drink a coffee with me. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Women do not want what they tell you !That's not true. I know I look good. Atleast better than most guys. But that doesnt mean that girls are gonna storm you just because you look good. They're not that desperate like you are | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | I just dont know how...You know whats fcking stupid? And you are waiting for girls to come to you because you are using your “good looks”. You might get a few girls and pick the low hanging fruit. But to get the fruit at the top of the tree. I never thought about that. It never came to my mind. I dont know why . So thank you and i really mean it. I thought with good looks and nice charms the girls would come from itself. But nah. Its the same like making friends only with different intentions. For a long time i strugg… | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I never wanted to be that guyHm does it sound like that? No I dont go to therapy. I'm pretty confident about most things but I never could experience or learn about dating, flirting or relationships. Just when I moved to a city and started in college i could start to think about that. Before that I lived in a very small village and stayed there the most time. So it's not like that I dont love myself. It's more about being late into experiencing and learning that stuff. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I never wanted to be that guyI'm 25 dude. I'm not actively looking for it and I'm not desperate. I enjoy my social life and the people around me. I'm in college so that's what I meant with classes. It's just that I would like to have someone in my life. I'm not looking to get into a girls pants. That's easy and just plain. Trust me. Maybe my text make me sound like a loner so excuse me if I can't put my thoughts into words. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I just dont know how...The fancy restaurant was just a quick example I gave. Most likely I would take them to a coffee, ice or a walk through the park. Like I said I'm not completely oblivious. It's the step you explained where I need to be a bit more touchy and upfront. I know I need to do it but tbh its gonna be hard. Even thinking about it makes me a bit anxious. What is she thinking? Am I to persistent? Just think about it. I'm 25 in college and have zero experiences and everyone thinks that I had so many relation… | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I don't know wtf im doing wrong and i want to give upI mean i don't rly fake myself in front of other. Im not rly clumsy or the anti social guy. And i didn't set the bar so high by myself it's just mostly the interpretation by others. It's not like that im the typical guy who can't speak with girls, is antisocial, doesn't work on himself or doesn't have any hobbies. It's just because im so inexperienced that im always blocking every move on me. I never learned these things. I don't know how to go one further and what to do then. I know it's stupid… | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I don't know wtf im doing wrong and i want to give upTrust me i know that this is a big whiny post. I just was kinda annoyed. It's not like that i go out and think "hey maybe today im gonna have sex" im not even rly interested in that. Ofc a girlfriend is nice but i just want to have fun. But i always get remembered how im the least experienced and always blocking guy against other and it's frustrating. I just don't know how to be more open about a girl hitting on me. I never learned these things. I'm not shy or can't speak with girls. What do u s… | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I dont know wtf is wrong with meHow could i work on that and what would you consider as "too nice"? | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Friend gave me a number of a girlJust dont contact her. You would come out as a Creep. | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Am i friendzoning the Girls i like?Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Am i friendzoning the Girls i like?Thanks! I think i should work to maintain eye contact. Many times, when I'm speaking to someone and having to really think about the words coming out of my mouth, my eyes wander. So i think this is one thing i should work on. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is everyone thinking that im do get a lot of girls?I appreciate your answer but those people are my Friends. They wouldnt do those Kind of Things. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 09:11 AM |
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