I often hear from others how the first impression of me is that I am arrogant and conceited but after they get to know me I am the nicest guy they know and I am the opposite of what I look like. I know that I generally look like a somewhat intimidating guy but I don't know how to interpret that. I've said before that often it's just the first impression towards others that makes them interested in me but this fades after dating longer. Am I too nice and friendly? Honestly, I'm also a little annoyed by these comments that I'm zero arrogant and conceited and I'm not as the first impression of me is.