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| 1 | Unethical ways of seductionWhat kinds of things did Hades do? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?Kindness is good because it builds trust. When a woman thinks I’m kind, she trusts me enough to get in the car with me, go to places with me and so on. But kindness alone doesn’t get the pussy wet. Kind is a prereq to make her trust you enough to go back to your place, but from then on you have to confidently make moves | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?What was the reason / closure she gave? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 6 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:Video chatting would just be another hurdle you have to jump through to get to a date. My rule of thumb is: basic ice breaking chit chat, and ask them out on a date. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:56 AM |
| 19 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:Definitely. It's common for older men to take her to a wine bar, each have 2 drinks each, 100 dollar tab. Fuck that, just get boba and go to a park for 10 bucks. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Honestly, is night game worth it if my logistics suck ?What is an evil lair? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:01 AM |
| 0 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?But what was the point of going on 4 dates if she wasn’t into me? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 7 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?I feel like those guys are easy to weed out though. If he gets sexual, just block. Always meet in a public place. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 09:47 PM |
| 26 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Idk, I mean on a first date it's most just a meet and greet. So if you get rejected after date 1, it was usually over something superficial. Most women truly don't want to be aroused and pawed at on date 1. Their main goal is to not get murdered. Date 2 is a diff story. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 68 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Exactly. Women know the ins and outs of appearances down to what shade of foundation makes their face look the best. Us guys just know gym and tee shirts pretty much. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about Andrew Tate?He's like that new kid at school who's a giant douche, but he makes people pissed off that you don't like, so it makes you kinda like him. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:48 PM |
| 3 | For those who've asked for the "real reason" or feedback after getting rejected, what kind of things have they said?What percentage of the time have you received closure upon asking? Like not the vague closure, but the “I wasn’t physically attracted to you closure.” | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Which one? A or B | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Why is that window so small? Like my attraction to a woman is constant, it doesn't close up in a week time period. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?I've always wondered why a woman just won't take 20 seconds out of her day to say what wasn't working with her. Rejection texts are usually a vague easy let down riddle. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | College in a month double text now?I would say something like "Hey hey, I was just thinking of you. How has your classes been?" Then shoot the shit and ask to meet up. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | College in a month double text now?I'd hit her up a few days after school starts. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?What does this mean lol | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:39 AM |
| 12 | Who dates the hottest girls, excluding rappers, celebrities & sports athletes ?How does he do it? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I feel like either she likes me or she doesn't on the first date. Like it's pretty much out of my hands. Am I right or wrong?For the first date I greet with hug, try to touch them once somehow during the middle of the date, and I hug or kiss goodbye pending on the vibe (almost always just hug). | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:33 PM |
| 4 | So confused. Missed chancesSounds like you did make a move though and just got it rejected was all. You were touching her thigh and leaned in for a kiss and she rejected it. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 3 | What is your go to first date outfit and appearance?Jeans, teeshirt and 2 bracelets on my wrist. If it's winter I wear a flannel shirt. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?This is very true. I work around a lot of elderly people. They have legit crazy stories of hitchhiking across the country when they were 13 and shit. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How to Appropriately Escalate, Be DirectI mean, what's the alternative? Shoving your tongue down her throat the very first hour in the middle of a coffee shop? Chat her up to build comfort, exchange numbers and then ask her out on a date. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:06 PM |
| 135 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?Yeah that's fine, but we all have autism here. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?What were some of the reasons in the past? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?How does bringing a girl back to your room hurt the kid's well being. He probably won't even give a fuck. When I was growing up, I had family friends come over all the time. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?What is the 2 appearance issues? Also how many dates did you go on with him? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?Truth be told: Isn’t the reason a 1st date doesn’t turn into a 2nd date because of lack of physical attraction most of the time? I’ve been on dates that felt dead from the jump before. But my friends say I just lack game is all | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?Are they unable to put their feelings into logical thoughts? OR Are they able to put their feelings into logical thoughts (much how I can specifically), but then just ommisively word it to leave out the nitty gritty? "I look at you as a friend," instead of "Dude you're hilarious and literally perfect for me, but your appearance can never make my pussy tingly." | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?I do wonder if your ex had much more self awareness than most other women? I feel like most other women would rationalize it as "Our connection is platonic is all. It just isn't meant to be a romantic connection." When in reality it was you not putting the chess pieces in the right order and making moves that friend zoned you. Your ex knew, but I feel like 99 percent of other women would be oblivious? But idk | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:40 PM |
| -4 | 1st date tomorrow. We're getting Smoothies and going up the street to a park to catch the sunset. Unsure what I should do hereI wish I was born a woman. Wouldn't have to herniate a disc in my back each time I try to court a bitch. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:36 AM |
| -6 | 1st date tomorrow. We're getting Smoothies and going up the street to a park to catch the sunset. Unsure what I should do hereShould I text and let her decide? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:57 AM |
| 7 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?It's mostly a logistics issue. Even if you meet someone awesome and the date is going well, it's hard to take them back to parents house because it's embarrassing. That being said: My best friend slept on a blow up mattress in his parents living room of their 1 bedroom apartment. His brother also shared the living room. They were in their late 20s and completely broke. My friend would bring back women all the time from the bar down the street, and then bang them in his parents living room on his… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Great 1st dates never turning into 2nd ones from OLD.I think it would have been a good idea to shoot her a message in the middle of that week just to touch base. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 0 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?For wasting time on reddit trying to decode a woman, what's so bad about that? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 10 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Tell me more about number 2. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How do YOU dance?5 shots of vodka. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 206 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidResponding with disproportionate amount of text. (She sends a sentence, you reply with a paragraph) I hear you. I do think sometimes women just want to "bing bong" banter short witty things back and forth. I have a roommate who has this style of text, and he does get a lot of hookups. But I sometimes wonder if she doesn't respond because I sent a long message, she probably just didn't really like me all that much outside of "dance monkey dance" entertainment. I'd rather just jack off sometimes. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?Never escalate over text. That should be done in person. Chat her up and ask her out on a date. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." It made me think that maybe there were n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." It made me think that maybe there were n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." It made me think that maybe there were n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." It made me think that maybe there were n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." It made me think that maybe there were n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.The thing that has me most confused is: When she broke it off with me, I said "I really wish I would have kissed you more instead of treating you so platonically." Then she laughed and said 'it wouldn't have made it a difference. There was nothing different you could have done.' That really had me scratching my head because now I really don't know what the real reason was that she broke it off. The only closure she gave me was "I look at you as a friend." It made me think that maybe there were n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | I have rule - I ask girl out only one time and never ever again - is that good?This is true, but in my lived experience if I ask a second time, and even if she says yes, she usually goes into that date super disinterested I've noticed. Like if I have to ask twice, then it's usually a shitty outcome no matter what. But if she cancels on the first and reschedules the first on her own like "hey I can't tomorrow afterall, but let's do thursday" then that's much better. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 77 | It's completely normal and OK to suck at first when learning anything new. Social skills are no different.This is what's hard about learning how to date when you're a lot older. You're essentially going through high school at a much later age. You're going to learn A LOT about dating and relationships in the next year or so. Things that young teenagers usually learn for the first time. I didn't start dating till my late 20s myself. I crashed and burned so many potential relationships simply because I had no idea what I was doing. I think dating is comprised of 2 things: The spark (initial attraction… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:33 PM |
| 5 | How much did working out increase your attention with women?I have a theory about this: Being fit won't help you, but being fat will definitely hurt you. Having a stable job won't help you, but being flat broke will hurt you. It's something on it's own that doesn't help, but the alternative definitely hurts. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t I ever get a second date after the first date?Hold off on the making out. Just kiss / hug them goodbye and see if that works better. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | 4th date with gal - ended third with some passionate making out, physical touch but was told another time when suggested going up to her place after walking homeWhatever you do, just don't text message anything about wanting to get sexual with her. All escalating should be done in person. Even if you text "can't wait to kiss those sweet lips," it'll just give her anxiety. I honestly think if she wants to bang, when you walk her home she'll invite you in on her own. "Hey did you have to use the bathroom?" | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | very stupid questionThe goal of a first date isn't to get a 2nd date. The goal is to just see if you guys naturally enjoy each other's company is all. It's good to be outcome independent since online dating is naturally pretty unstable. My mindset going into a date is "I'm just going to enjoy my time with this person is all. The convo, drinks, food, whatever. If I never see them again, it's totally okay." "I hope I like her instead of I hope she likes me." I recommend greeting her with a hug and just letting your p… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughYou know what's weird? I truly believe the average girl is okay with sharing a super hot guy as opposed to having an average guy all to herself. I have plenty of female friends who have been dating high valued men for months, and they secretly know they're not the only one, but they're okay with it. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:02 PM |
| 4 | How are women so oblivious when it comes to things with dating?Some of my female friends who say "don't touch them at all on the first date" sometimes have sex on their first dates. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:38 PM |
| 17 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughI do feel like OP has a slight point. I do think most women nowadays would rather just be single than date an average man these days. 1970s: Diane the school secretary dates Steven the grocer. 2022: Ashley the school secretary says "ew gross, no" to Shawn the Grocer. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Do women use safety as an excuse to ghost men?But women do this too when rejected, right? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What separates a platonic date from one with sexual tension?Some people take longer to warm up than just 1 date. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:32 PM |
| 6 | What is something you've learned throughout your seduction journey?Tell me your thoughts | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What is the right and healthy mindset to adopt if you’ve never had success with women before?I like having a growth mindset. Learning from my dating experiences, both good and bad, that way I know what to do better next time. I also like to be outcome independent that way I won't get my feelings hurt as often. I just tell myself I'm going to enjoy my time with this person is all. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 01:30 PM |
| 12 | PSA: The truth about dating apps from an insiderI swear 3/4 Bumble profiles are so clearly fake. Just model looking photos and stuff. Then when my phone lights up with a match I think "I hope it's one of those 9/10 insta thots that I keep swiping right on," but then ends up being a 3/10 land whale with some acne saying 'hey.' | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Dating is comprised of 2 things: the spark (initial attraction usually experienced on the first date) AND dating skills to drive it in a romantic direction on future dates. The 2nd part is where seduction helpsWhat are your thoughts about what I had to say? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needThe wise words of my friend: "Just be normal you idiot." | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:12 AM |
| 3 | How long should a first date be? Second?1.5 hours is a good time. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Have You Ever Tried to Pick Up a Waitress in Your Favorite Place For CoffeeIsn't the best way to do this is for him to just leave his number for her? That way he's not putting her on the spot or anything, and it leaves the ball in her court | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Have You Ever Tried to Pick Up a Waitress in Your Favorite Place For CoffeeI always felt like the best way to go about this is to just write my own number on the back of a receipt and tell her "I enjoy talking with you. We should text! Totally okay if you can't though." | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | How do I make peace with never getting any closure?To be completely honest with you: I just want to know. Like even if it's something totally brutal, I'd be at peace knowing. I think I may have an OCD thing with closure. Like I just ruminate and think and think. Knowing closing it is all. This is a fucked up analogy but: if I had a son who just dropped dead, the very first question I'm going to have for the doctors / coroners is "What happened to him? What was it?" I know he's dead either way, and it doesn't make a difference, but I still want t… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I make peace with never getting any closure?Do you think she's even aware of what the exact reason is? Or was it just a vague "eh just not feeling it with this guy." Me personally, I can pinpoint a reason why I don't like a girl, but sometimes I really do believe women think and feel things more abstractly | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 04:54 PM |
| 3 | How do I make peace with never getting any closure?I would honestly want to know. I can't speak for other people, but I personally just would want to know. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual directionBut would you go on a multiple dates with a guy that you clicked with extremely well platonically, but there's not a sexual click? Also do you think it's possible for you to lose sexual attraction if several dates go by where he just doesn't make any moves and is nervous? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | I get friendzoned way too much after dates4-5 hours is WAY too long for a first date. A first date should be 1.5 hours. It's essentially a meet and greet. Always greet them with a gentle 2 armed hug and say something like "you look great! It's nice to meet you." I have no further advice than that. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you do/say in this situation?"It's okay. Honestly, I just enjoy spending time with you. We could be hanging out in aisle 6 of Target for all I care." | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:24 AM |
| 21 | For women romance is a phenomenon. For men it's well planned out workOf course the spark cannot be manufactured, but I do think the spark can fizzle out if the guy doesn't drive it in a romantic direction. The story I shared of the guy kissing her at the lake and bringing her back to his home... he was driving it in a romantic direction. The flame grew to a fire. If he would have instead talked about his favorite Game of Throne fan theories on the date, there is a chance she may have lost attraction that was initially there. The flame would have just burnt out. T… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 5 | First Date TipsI greet with a gentle hug using 2 arms. I tell them it's nice to meet them. It's okay to have awkward silences. I cherish those. Compliments on choices are good. "I really like your tattoo." Heck, you can even gently grab her arm to have a better look. Soft eye contact is good One hour and thirty minutes is a good 1st date time. At the end I say "Can I walk you back to your car?" If I get a "ehh sure. Yeah I guess that's okay." I then just walk her back and hug her. If I get the "yeah!" Then I k… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?What causes good physical chemistry? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?But I mean, can you really tell who the love of your life is after a couple of dates? I feel like they're still a stranger at that point. I get rejected when these women don't even know my middle name yet. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 4 | How to get over being friendzoned?I don't understand how she got the friendship vibe when your penis was in her vagina. I don't do that with my friends and coworkers. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.The real reason she ended things. "Hey thank you for letting me know. I totally respect your decision. It's okay if you're not comfortable telling me, but was there a main reason it ended? I'm one of those people who definitely appreciates real talk dating closure. Like "ohhh got it." | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.I ask for honest closure | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Here are the things I've learned first hand from my dating experiences. What's something you've learned?How can I make her more sure about me? Any other wisdom you may have? I love the things you write. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Here are the things I've learned first hand from my dating experiences. What's something you've learned?I'm confused about the cause and effect relationship of being friendzoned. I rack my brain about this A LOT. Is it: A) Because we didn't get intimate by the 3rd date, I friendzoned myself and her attraction plummeted. Like there was a window of time, and when that window passed she moves on. OR B) The reason sex didn't happen is because she wasn't attracted to me like that. She loved joking around and talking, but that's where it stops. In other words, did my inaction cause me to be friend zoned… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider this soft rejection?My rule of thumb is 2 no's and a go. If I ask twice, and get rejected twice, I just move on. That being said it you really want to YOLO it, you could just ask point blank "Hey I think I like you. I was wondering if you want to go on a date with me? I tried scheduling twice and you pretty much said no twice. I totally respect if you don't want to, but I figured I would just ask for completeness." | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 05:57 PM |
| 2 | I made out with a chick on FridayOh well. At least you got to make out a bit. Next | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Think I messed up sending this message. Supposed to be having a 3rd date tomorrowIn my lived experience, I never text anything that's sexual related even if it's (I can't wait to kiss you). All it does is just give the other person anxiety. I'm pretty confident you guys are still going to have your next date though. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I made out with a chick on FridayWhat did you text the next day? | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Can’t keep erection with new partner. Never had this problem before…You can buy ED meds online now. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?But what about those feminine guys I saw in college who got tons of women, but were about 90 lbs soaking wet. They didn't seem masculine at all, and rather shy but were getting it in. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 13 | Have women always had a shit ton of options? Or is this just a recent thing from Online Dating?My second question is why the hell do I have to do so much in life just to attract basic average women | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:31 PM |
| 32 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?This goes to my 2nd question: Do women really "I don't know?" Or do they actually know, but they just don't tell the real reason | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 13 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?Does sex stabilize a woman's interest? In my mind I think it does, yet I do read plenty of stories about guys getting ghosted after having sex. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?Did women always have a shit ton of options, or is that just a recent thing because of online dating? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 11 | Lost interest after 2 dates. How to figure out what went wrong?I say this with love, but I feel like a lot of men don't have loads of options. When my ex broke up with me, I know she could open up Hinge and choose one of her 100 matches for a date. Whereas mine is barren as a desert. I think that's why a lot of guys get attached to hope very quickly. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 5 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Because people using online dating are actively looking to date, but that cute girl working as a cashier may not be looking to date, so she says no when you ask her out or ignores it. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 9 | How do I kiss with my tongue?No pressure | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Do you think she is even aware of the exact reason of what didn't go right? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Is there anything more vulnerable than sex though? | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?I do think she was giving me signals: Lingering by my car at the end of the 2nd date as I'm nervously talking about random shit Looking up at me googly eyed at this lake we went to. I do feel like most women don't make the first moves, but she was giving me signals to make moves. And when she learned how unconfident I was, she puttered out. I could be very wrong though. I really wish I knew the real answer | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Goal of dating is personal growth -my therapist. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?I really think most women don't look at dating as a skillset. Us men compare it to playing baseball. He call men who are good with women "players." We call it spitting game. We look at it as a chess game with different moves lead to different outcomes. For women, I feel like they're oblivious to all the skills that go into courtship. If a guy sucks at dating, even though they could have been a great match, she just moves on to someone who "gets it." | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 03:03 PM |
| -5 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Does making out cause a spark to happen? | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:20 AM |
| 4 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?I've racked my brain sooo much thinking of this. Can you tell me more about it? I'm assuming she may have thought: "This dude is very kind and completely effing hilarious. Sure we can go out again!" But then when date 5 was rolling around she then noped out knowing it's going to get sexual? I do sometimes wonder if I said or did something that gave her the ick. I just don't effing know. A piece of me thinks she just wanted a confident man to plow. I texted her months later asking her what the re… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:03 AM |
| 16 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?This is what confuses me. I went on 4 dates with this woman where I'd always get nervous and not really make any moves. We just had a couple of pecks here and there. She then sends me the "I don't think we're heading in a romantic direction. I just look at you as a friend" text. I then called and told her how I think I friendzoned myself and if I could do it all over again I would have kissed her more. She just laughed and said "there was nothing it could have done differently. It wouldn't have … | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | First date called me “sweet”How did you kill the friendly vibe? Like how were you different this time? | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Lack of romantic chemistryIn my lived experience, it's totally fucking dead 100 percent. I would personally just ask for honest closure, but I have doubts she really even know why she's not feeling it. She's probably oblivious that she doesn't feel romantic attraction because she wasn't plowed by the 3rd date. You do what you want though. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Lack of romantic chemistryEarnest question. IDK if him kissing her more would have created more romantic chemistry OR If him kissing her sooner / more would have made her nope out sooner because she wasn't into him. In other words: Was she not into him because he lacked sexual confidence OR was she simply just not into him. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Lack of romantic chemistryWell just use it as a learning experience is all. Now you know what to do better with someone new. Also, don't beat yourself up too much. Who knows what would have happened on the alternate time line. She coulda noped out no matter what. But yeah, definitely don't go more than 2 dates without kissing her goodbye, that's for sure. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Lack of romantic chemistryNext time, kiss her sooner. Treat her like a girlfriend instead of just a friend. I think a lot of men have "friend zoned" themselves before. This same EXACT thing happened to me. Were you the one to pull away from the kiss first? | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Lack of romantic chemistryWould him being more sexual create more chemistry OR would it have pushed her away sooner? Idk if him not kissing her enough was the reason she noped out OR if the kiss itself made her nope out. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Lack of romantic chemistryHow long did you guys kiss for on the 5th date? | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to move beyond the arm on the shoulder?What are the safe areas? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | How to move beyond the arm on the shoulder?Slide your hand up and gently turn her face and kiss her. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:27 AM |
| 138 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?Fuck them. I want to play chutes and ladders tho | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:01 AM |
| 14 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?Instead of the usual chit chat boring coffee date. I would like to bring a board game we can both play as we get to know each other | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | How to get dates with Tinder and BumbleI'm pretty sure this is reposted from another user. Do you have any of your own ideas? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 12 | Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages hereI would have: 1) Used proper grammar instead of slang grammar 2) Instead of saying "whatever," I would have said "I know. I became texting pals with a stranger for a bit thinking it was you loll." 3) After she said "I'm off today so relaxing." I would have then asked if she ever been to some local boba / coffee shop. Then after she says no, I would have said "we should check it out!" | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:08 PM |
| 4 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?What words do you say? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 38 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Yeah that's my approach to dating. I think "well either she's going to like me or she isn't. It's out of my hands here." I can't fool a girl into liking me. At least not substantially. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Say a guy goes on a few dates with a woman. He gets caught up in his head and doesn't make any moves. She then rejects him saying "I look at you as a friend." Then he tells her that if he could do it all over again he would have kissed her more and been more confident and that he feels like he friend zoned himself. Then the girl laughs and says "there's nothing you could have done differently." Is that true? Or is she just unaware it would have made a difference. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateI think that if a kiss doesn't happen by the 2nd date, your footing is now already messed up. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?What other unpopular opinions do you have? I enjoy the things you comment, so I'm hella curious to more | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 21 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Seriously. As a tall dude, the only thing that has ever came up of my height was "you're really tall." Then that's the end of it. Majority of Hollywood heart throbs are like 5'9. (Marlon Brando). Also being very tall kind of sucks going in for the first kiss. I have to bend my knees to get my head a foot down. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Are fwb women happy?Defo not interested in her for completeness. My question is totally authentic. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: I would rather have honest closure than a vague easy let downJust real talk. Are really that dumb to not be able to rationalize their feelings? Because when I hear guys say stuff like this, I think that they are. But then I ask my female friends, and they're like "oh dude, we know exactly what we didn't like about him." | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up in this situation?I don't see what the big deal is about telling her what you're going through. I feel like that's the point of relationships is to help each other. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up in this situation?Have you guys had sex yet? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Got dumped after 4 dates, don’t know whyShe was anxious about having sex with you. She figured "oh wow date 5 and he's wanting to come over my place, Idk if I want to have sex." Then the more she thought of it, the more worried she got and noped out. Something similar happened to me as well. I think you probably had the opportunity to bang somewhere within those 4 dates. I think she liked you. That window of time has now passed. Modern dating from apps moves fast and is very unforgiving. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Does sex stabilize a woman's feelings for you?How long was it before you guys made out? I sometimes think heavy making out can replace sex as far as feelings developing. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 66 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsI always wondered about this. Like even though my women friends are understandably upset about their situation, I feel like they're still doing better than me though. At least they have someone to hang out with / have sex with. I'm usually just soul crushingly alone. I feel like I would rather be in their situation a lot of the times. If I had a cute female professional sending me witty memes, doing my dishes and having sex with me, I would think I'd be quite happy even though we have no real fu… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:35 PM |
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