What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?

Hot_Experience5899 · 2022-05-15T23:10:33+00:00

I learnt that you could be the sweetest peach on the tree...but some people just like lemons.

HallandOates2 · 2022-05-16T00:14:25+00:00

Woman can wait a really long time before telling you about their husband or boyfriend

Skizznitt · 2022-05-16T00:47:50+00:00

ALWAYS have firm boundaries and don't ever allow anyone to cross them without consequence. Once you falter even once and allow someone to trample your boundaries without standing up for yourself.. you've lost their (and your self) respect from then on.

themostgianthorse · 2022-05-16T01:32:59+00:00

Being needy or approval seeking will repel women faster than being fat/dumb/broke/ugly, etc.
- The medium is always the message

focus_flow69 · 2022-05-16T03:44:05+00:00

Seduction is simply learning how to read social cues, how to be charismatic and to know when to escalate and lead. That's it. It's not manipulation tactics or do step xyz and girl A will fall in love in love with you.

Social cues tell you how to read the room.

Being charismatic draws people towards you and you provide value.

Knowing when to escalate and lead is action based and the bridge to make your wants and needs become reality. Very few things in life just happens randomly, even if people tell you so. There is always some deliberate action or plan by someone to set things into motion.

DeliberatelyInsane · 2022-05-15T23:17:34+00:00

If you don’t like yourself, women won’t either.

diegggs94 · 2022-05-16T00:04:18+00:00

You can work on yourself all you want, and still meet amazing people that just can’t love you the way you need or accept the love you have to give. It’s incredibly painful

Khower · 2022-05-16T00:43:54+00:00

Honestly one of the best things I’ve learned is that most of the advice on this subreddit is the blind leading the blind

thepontiff_ · 2022-05-16T00:36:55+00:00

I learned from my current situation that if you start having sex with them and their past relationships start showing up unannounced to their place emotionally drunk with a loaded weapon run.

edit: I had to add the full details since folks were saying this is oddly specific.

My girlfriend’s abusive ex showed up to her place drunk unannounced last year while I was there (she was at work) on vacation and as a man I have never felt so vulnerable and scared.

I fucked up by answering the door and instantly felt the bad vibes/my potential last moments. He had 100 pounds on me and would’ve easily overwhelmed me / shot through the door.

I can’t believe I’m admitting this but she got mad at me and told me she views me differently because I didn’t go out there to defend her. I literally had to hide in her bathroom because I was stricken with fear / adrenaline that I threw up. All I could think about was my poor mom having to hear her son was shot or murdered because of the person he was dating ex boyfriend.

Her ex left after my first encounter and came back later very emotional, had a gun tucked and was banging on her windows wanting to talk to her when she finally came back. Thankful the neighbor had a gun and was the mediator but that ordeal gave me PTSD.

Went and bought a gun for protection after that.

dakotanoodle · 2022-05-16T05:02:46+00:00

Sharing common values is more important than sharing common interests.

gaifogel · 2022-05-16T01:03:13+00:00

The most profound thing was that there is such a thing as "game", "seduction" and that it is a skill I can learn. That blew my mind

LeagueAdditional8439 · 2022-05-16T00:10:09+00:00

it’s far more likely that things don’t get sexual BECAUSE a woman isn’t interested, not the other way around lol

well_clearly · 2022-05-16T01:12:50+00:00

Women don’t like ass holes, they like guys that make them feel something.

singlecellfromearth · 2022-05-16T00:42:12+00:00

The quality of the women you attract/meet/date is directly proportional to the quality of your game (inner and outer).

Game means everything - - your inner confidence, your view of life, your outer confidence, how you view the world, etc.

ChieflyEmeralds · 2022-05-15T22:28:32+00:00

The severity of pride.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-05-16T11:04:26+00:00

We generally see people as we want them to be, not as they are.

We idolise them and look past their glaring flaws and faults until the infatuation wears off and then we act as though they arose from nowhere.

Also, once you start acting with a facade you’ve lost, because either they take to it and you need to keep it up, or they don’t and you’ll never know if they would’ve preferred you being yourself

social_mastery · 2022-05-15T23:34:01+00:00

Strangely enough, the best thing I've learned is that women are more similar to men that are different.

I think women are awesome. But they also have their own flaws too and they're just people.

If you give them a chance to open up, the almost always will.

And you have about 500 chances a day you're missing that are women walking right by you that you can meet.

So many girls that I met, that I thought was going to go no where are still in my life today.

Most of all, a true, deep, sense of unshakable confidence.

MeteoraRed · 2022-05-16T06:15:06+00:00

The lesser you care about outcomes higher your chances to get better dates.

Aquamansrousingsong · 2022-05-16T02:31:04+00:00

That if you have any doubts, you should listen to that small voice, not ignore it because you don't want it to be true.

Best place to explore it is with a talk therapist. They're not just there for when you're in a bad place mentally. They're there to clarify your thoughts.

TusharDaniel · 2022-05-16T04:24:28+00:00

I had this conversation with a friend a while ago, when I was feeling real lonely and online dating really wasn't working out for me though. But I keep going back to this and I hope it helps somebody.

Some excerpts from the conversation I had with her.

You can't do anything to make somebody like you a certain way. That's not how shit works.

I was on tinder for so long, but despite meeting many, really good guys, I couldn't bring myself to even get to a single date with anyone.

why? Because despite all of this, I truly have absolutely no luxury to date anyone at this point of life. why? Because I have so much to deal with and I have so many things to learn about myself.

You are depending on the opposite sex's validation so much that the main part of your energy is consumed by that and that only. And its been a while since this is continuing because we've spoken about this many months ago. Result? There is no improvement in any other area of your life.

See, 100 people will give you 100 different opinions, all based on what they seek and not what they feel like you lack personally. Some will tell you to be more gentle, some will tell you to be more dominant and many more things. The problem according to me is that you are trying to fit into all these measures. That way you are not even trying to find what's natural within you. And I might be wrong but I say this from all these months or experience with many many guys, contrary to what we feel, the opposite person's opinion about us is mainly dependent on what they can accommodate in their life at the given point than on our personality's highlight.

I know that there are certain bad days, days when we desperately want someone, but that's a part of it. Instead of dwelling on that so much, I'd suggest focusing on oneself and what you like, things that make you grow as a person to be honest.

Witch-Doctor · 2022-05-16T01:18:25+00:00

That’s girls aren’t that important and you should focus on yourself. Ironically, when you do that, people will gravitate towards you because you’re not seeking them out.

MyNameIsAirl · 2022-05-16T03:33:14+00:00

You have to learn how to use your eyes, like I was with a girl once and she kept telling me to stop looking at her the way I was, kept telling me how if I kept looking at her like that she was going to fall for me. Another one, the girl I was with last night, I talk her up hardcore, make her feel special. At one point last night I told her she deserves a guy that looks at her like she is the world, and she asked if I meant the way I look at her. Learning to put raw desire, pure intensity into your eyes is a magical thing. You get to a point where you look a girl in the eyes and you can just see her turn to putty in your hands.

You also have to figure out what the girl likes, like with the girl I was with last night. She loves the way I boost her ego, but not every girl will go for that. Sometimes you have to show them that they aren't the only girl in the world, occasionally I have to remind this girl that she is not the only girl I am interested in. She lives a ways away and there isn't always a lot of notice before she is in town, so occasionally I mention that I was planning on seeing someone else. I go for girls who like to feel like the only girl in the world when we are together because that's what I'm good at. You have to match your abilities to the girl's desires, then you never disappoint and if you play it right you leave them always wanting more.

dawnofdon_ · 2022-05-15T23:31:36+00:00

I’ve learned that a man’s butt is more important…you going think I’m joking but a man’s booty is more important than a glass of water

StrikingConference86 · 2022-05-16T09:15:34+00:00

No woman wants a boring guy

GalickBanger · 2022-05-16T01:36:38+00:00

There’s nothing you can do to make a woman more attracted to you, as long as you’re being your best self. This even includes talking to a girl before you get her number. You don’t need to spend a lot of time trying. If you’re at the bar and you have a decent convo with a girl, ask for the number. You don’t need to spend all night with her. She isn’t thinking “we’ve only talked for 5 minutes, if he would’ve talked to me for 7 more I would’ve given him my number.”

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-05-16T11:25:08+00:00

If they say they want to take things slow, and you follow that, they'll lose interest because there was no "romantic or sexual connection"

These-Calligrapher · 2022-05-16T13:02:25+00:00

To let go of any outcome. I enjoy the moments I spend with whoever im with at the time. If things work out that’s great. If not, then you’ll find someone else who you’ll be able to have an even better relationship with. Just have fun

Looking at past relationships that ended, had I known they were going to end, I would’ve let go of some things and worried less about others bc it was going to end anyway. I would’ve really enjoyed more of my time with them

CA-GMOW · 2022-05-16T00:20:20+00:00

Be indifferent about nearly everything in life.

kellykebab · 2022-05-16T01:31:33+00:00

Interesting question.

Probably the most important lesson I've learned is that women are all the same and they're all different.

Obviously that sounds like a paradox, so I'll explain.

In terms of the women I've had "short-term" encounters with, there is one single demeanor I've found that they all respond to: rakish cad. Basically, almost every woman I've slept with has responded positively to me telling a bunch of mean jokes, being teasing, disclosing very little about my personal life/feelings/etc., and generally acting pretty arrogant.

Of the women I've hooked up with, that has been the most common demeanor I've exhibited.

However, not all women I've acted that way towards have responded positively. Some have shown no interest, or been dismissive, or even been upset.

In other words, of the women I've had 'short-term' encounters with, the exact same strategy has worked. But... that strategy hasn't worked on every single woman.

My takeaway from all this is the following: if women want a short-term arrangement, there is one single "act" that they are interested in. But that doesn't mean all women a) are always up for something short-term, b) will buy an "arrogant" act coming from you in particular, or c) are attracted to you to begin with.

So the idea that "all women are the same" is not true, because if a woman doesn't like you for some reason, no amount of "game" is going to convince her otherwise. But also the idea that "all women are unique individuals" is not true, because there are many behaviors that a man could possibly project that no woman would positively respond to (e.g. being excessively self-pitying).

All of that being said, I don't think guys should play a numbers game and I think they should actually try to be their genuine true selves and then pursue the individual women that respond to that. I don't think "seduction" is the best method to attain relationship happiness for most men or women. And I think traditional courtship should probably be revived.

But... there are clearly patterns to what "works" or "doesn't work" with respect to seduction from a certain mercenary perspective. (One which I no longer share.)

Spacemage · 2022-05-16T04:13:04+00:00

It's cliche, for a reason, but just be yourself. If you're putting on an act you're going to find someone that likes the person you're not and it won't work, for non-short term.

Don't deal with bullshit. Ever. But if you're past your 20s, jump ship immediately. There's too many people, not enough time, and too much fun shit to do to ever put up with a human in 2020+ that can't get their shit together or act right. If someone is working on themselves, that's different than someone who KNOWS they have things to fix but doesn't, and (even worse) also has bad personality traits. If someone yells at you, or worse hits you, get the fuck out. Zero reason to stay. Ever. There's literally not a single argument against that.

Don't have children.

Don't date people with children if you want to have an adult relationship without have more responsibility than freedom. Especially long term.

Have a healthy diet (healthy being the key, you don't need to have a sterile diet).

Exercise multiple times a week. Your physical health is your mental health, and if you're not healthy (within your control) you shouldn't be dating. It's bad for you and the other person.

Don't let someone change you, unless you're looking to change, and only change for the better.

Discover and maintain hobbies of your own.

Don't tie yourself to another person. Work together, not as one.

Don't find value in yourself from someone else. You need to give yourself value first and foremost. No one else should, unless you respect and love them. If they don't make you a better person, question your respect and love for them.

Have fun.

Be safe.

LYDIO005 · 2022-05-16T01:45:26+00:00

I like this as a question..I really had to think about it.,..

but your assumptions are not true..I often think very romantically about men as soon as the first date...

jkearns23 · 2022-05-16T05:32:13+00:00

Listen to your gut always! If something feels off or wrong and you can put your finger on it- follow your instincts

Skumbug · 2022-05-16T13:18:32+00:00

Biggest wisdom i‘ve learned and channeled through all my dating experiences together: don’t date. Focus on yourselves kings/queens.

thepesterman · 2022-05-16T14:05:20+00:00

The most profound thing I've learnt is how skewed the opposite sexes perception of how to attract the opposite sex is. This goes for men and women.

mtgxbuster · 2022-05-16T01:45:48+00:00

That women won't admit they are wrong, and when they are proven wrong, they will gaslight you or bring up shit you've done or said wrong to divert the attention away from them.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-15T23:09:58+00:00

I’ve learned that women are incredibly disloyal, monetary, materialistic, selfish, cheap and lose interest in sex after you’ve been in a long term relationship, or marriage with them. However, they’re great for one night stands.

AcrobaticMonth7 · 2022-05-16T12:49:47+00:00

As a woman.. Not sure how exactly did you learn that but it's really not true Just to clarify, the fact that she is not looking at you romantically is the reason things are not getting sexual, not the other way round

smith_and_jones4ever · 2022-05-16T13:44:46+00:00

Having sex under a clear night sky outside is the best place to have sex at.

irreversiblethunder · 2022-05-16T17:34:09+00:00

That the most important thing is my own time and myself. You should be your number 1 priority. Always!!

daddysgotanew · 2022-05-16T18:15:20+00:00

Women operate the same way men do when it comes to choosing sexual partners. It’s looks first, then everything else. It’s just that far fewer men pass that initial threshold for women than the other way around.

malwaysfuckn · 2022-05-17T02:32:44+00:00

people are wildly selfish & sometimes people can talk themselves out of basic human decency if it means protecting their own ego. i’ve also learned that some people are wonderful and i can have as much fun with someone i just met as i can with a lifelong friend.

RedWolfCrocodile · 2022-05-16T10:03:17+00:00

Women look at men romantically when they feel safe enough to be open and vulnerable. Because romance means opening up your heart, and the possibility of being badly hurt increases.

Any man who refers to sex as “plowing” doesn’t see sex as making love, but as using an object for his own selfish pleasure, and so honestly doesn’t deserve being looked at with romantic admiration.

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-16T01:13:05+00:00

Never assume. Never let the passion die. Never take for granted.

The second you do any of this, you have signed your own warrant. You might as well pack it in and move in because you aren’t getting that good attention back from her at that point. It’s already moved on to another subject.

And on that note, when it’s done, it’s done. I don’t mean if there’s a little cool off and you pull back and remind her you have options and a life and you aren’t going to be her 24/7 validation source. I mean when things are obviously finished, just move on. Don’t try to keep up contact or hold that torch up. Just pull up your boots and move on.

Even times where I kept fucking a girl because the sex was hot it ultimately just screws with your mentality and psyche and self esteem. You get stagnant and don’t try because bet you’re getting some and this is Donnie you HAD a thing with so obviously she’s still interested.

Shit the last time I did this a couple years ago I was force cucking her new bf’s. She’s call me to come “hang out” which I knew was code for “this guy is lame and can’t get me off and I’m horny” and I’d come over, tell whichever date of the month that she asked me to come over so they needed to get out of my bed and leave or sleep on the couch and listen to her scream while I fucked her. It was our bed together so technically inward right and she would say yeah it’s his bed and his pussy.

I was not proud of that. It was fucking douchy and every time the weekend would end up with me pissed off at her for trying to get me to stay around and “take care of her” like I used to (not interested that’s why I kicked her ass to the curb), and being pissed off at myself for suckering into her game just for familiar pussy and often blowing off one or more other new girls I was working on. It fucked up some pretty good opportunities more than once.

So yeah, move on when you and she is done.

Neo-Rio · 2022-05-16T00:44:06+00:00

The most profound thing that you will learn is that women's emotions are malleable by a skilled artist, and they can be changed at the drop of a hat. And when it comes to their entire reality - they use their emotions to guide them. As long as their emotions are in alignment, you can get them to do mostly whatever you want.

As another pick-up guru put it - you never take her first response as set in stone.

And this is why.

Ok-Restaurant-9356 · 2022-05-16T08:15:38+00:00

I have approached hundreds of women and slept with a lot of different women. Being nice, caring or sweet guy doesnt work for seduction. I don't say they are bad traits but people miss the point. You create attraction with your value (your money, reputation, fame, looks, social skills) and your animalistic side. If you have animal, a wild guy inside of you with a lot of value. You are very attractive to her. It is up to you how to use this wildness. You can use it only for protect yourself, protect your friends or protect her, or you can be a jerk, creep. That is the attractive part. That is why men who are in prison gets hundreds of love lettres by women everyday while the handsome, nice guys sleep alone. They dont have this wildness inside of them. My ideal character and how i percieve myself :

Im a good looking guy with nice attitude. Im geniune, smiling, i make people comfortable. Im social and have a lot of friends. But, i know how to fight i can be a fucking bear when shit happens for protecting myself or my friends/my girl. Not only physical fighting. I can say no or stand for myself in time of need. When shit REALLY happens, i have another plan for protecting myself. With dog, gun etc. This is the attractive part. Stand for your girl, protect her even fight in time of need, you will have the best sex of your life.

An real example, we were hanging out with my friends years ago. 3 girls and 3 men. We were waiting and smoking in front of a building in the street where there is a lot of bars, clubs etc. 2 drunk guy came and started to bother our girls. They were saying things like 'i want to fuck you, be my girl etc'. We knew they were drunk so we didnt touch them until they cross the line. One of them took a picture of our girls. I, instinctly, pushed the guy, he fell to the ground. I told them to delete the picture and he did. Then they left. Everybody in that street were looking at us. After that, 2 hot girl came without reason to meet with me. I didnt have girlfriend at that time. We had a little conversations and one of them (really hot) gave me her number and told me she want to hang out when im free. Then they left.

Learn to stand for yourself, your friends, your girl. In time of need, learn how to fight, have plan for the times when shit happens.

Physical-Training-92 · 2022-05-16T04:48:08+00:00

This literally could not be more inaccurate. Feels like full on gaslighting actually

uniqueruntimeerror · 2022-05-16T05:28:33+00:00

mastering yourself is true power.

ji-julian · 2022-05-16T05:43:09+00:00

Manage your expectations. A lot of unnecessary disappointment will be cut out of your experiences with the people you give your time and energy to.

AlexanderCMA · 2022-05-16T09:34:40+00:00

Not sure who said it but it went something like: people will love you, people will hate you, and none of it will have anything to do with you.

They're not dating me just because of me, they're dating me because of the value I provide even if its just validation, making them feel special, sexual value, or a combination of that and more. However, none of it has anything to do with me personally, I could be anyone, it always goes back to them and their wants.

So it's more of a continuous effort that I have to put in to keep them attracted to me, and it's important that I also have to receive this value in return.

And I should define my priorities and set my boundaries and not let the other person cross them, that is what I think is most important.

thaughty · 2022-05-16T13:05:15+00:00

This could be a sign that you're good at sex but not great in other areas

creamyturtle · 2022-05-16T16:25:07+00:00

pretty true. I used to know a girl who was in our friend group for years, we basically friendzoned each other because we knew eachother so long. I would go to her house and watch Sopranos sometimes. well one day I decided to get up off the couch, sit down next to her, and just started making out with her lol. she kissed me back briefly, and I went and sat back on the other couch. the show finishes and she says, you can stay here tonight but not in my bed. I was like okay and went to bed. the next day we hooked up for real, and began dating. it just took her a day to process her feelings and see me as someone dateable

Blaphrodite · 2022-05-16T09:52:27+00:00

Fake news

alaydeenon · 2022-05-16T14:02:07+00:00

If he's not interested in wearing a condom, he's not interested in wearing a condom with everyone. Get tested before sex, and if he (or she) refuses to get tested and show you lab results... They aren't worth it. Also ask for an STD panel that covers all sexually transmitted diseases.

Trust out the window basically.

jo_concerned · 2022-05-16T06:49:32+00:00

That we are all cast into this experience by virtue of being human and our biology dictates our choices more than we care to imagine or like. I honestly think if we could make porn disappear, keep dating apps to their original format (before they were monetized and used ELO algorithms), had a religious community we could be a part of that WAS NOT credulous and filled with wishful thinking and if we could all just accept that men and women were different then I think the world would be a better place.

tl;dr - its all kinda fucked up and maybe thats okay in the end because we are all in it together

Interesting_Cold_850 · 2022-05-16T01:52:54+00:00

Fuck that shit, fuck bitches and get money kid. Fucking looney

iambrian81 · 2022-05-16T01:00:38+00:00

This is completely false. I had girls felt extremely jealous around me and I had zero physical connection with them. You can stimulate a girls emotion if you run proper push pull.

Otec_Fedor · 2022-05-15T21:41:23+00:00

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SaltoDaKid · 2022-05-16T11:39:53+00:00

Love is war, whoever shows the first sign of love loses. Yes that also an anime.

nickmmk · 2022-05-16T00:52:36+00:00

You’ve learned nothing then

goddessBrown88 · 2022-05-16T04:28:45+00:00

Thrust that ppl show u who they truly are

SomeRedShirt · 2022-05-16T04:33:52+00:00

Wierd take on that

SkinHunger55 · 2022-05-16T07:46:42+00:00

Something iv learned is that its better to get to know someones personality before judging them based on how they look. If u love them enough, u start to love how they look, or not mind it at least. Most of the time, its the ugly guys/woman who are the better partners.

Moneydamjan · 2022-05-16T08:22:41+00:00

how you find them is how you lose them

Dismal-Revolution941 · 2022-05-16T08:24:10+00:00

For me I like take my time before having sex in a relationship so if people lose interest pretty early on that's their problem but Im a guy dating guys so it might be different given men often have higher sex drives.

Justashane · 2022-05-16T11:18:59+00:00

It’s so true, and I always make this mistake. It recently just happened again, and it hurts. I don’t think I can ever change anymore.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-16T14:41:12+00:00

Online dating had me realize I was underrating my league in real life. It gave me more confidence to approach women in public when I saw what I was pulling online

Fulk0 · 2022-05-16T16:00:19+00:00

Most people don't do bad things to you because they hate you. They just do things and sometimes those things are bad for you.

Andrewfairlane · 2022-05-16T16:02:37+00:00

If they are into you, they will literally move mountains to see you, be with you, etc. If you’re confused if they like you or not, keep on moving on and dating. Don’t get attached.

larryd86 · 2022-05-16T16:19:38+00:00

look good and be interesting

ebell1989 · 2022-05-16T17:26:25+00:00

Don't

jpgjordan · 2022-05-16T19:50:44+00:00

Become a lil more observant and inquisitive of people and not just people you're interested in.

Know what people are in to, how they react to certain things and what drives them in an organic way and sincere way.

It takes a while but trust me when I say that emotional awareness provides the best backbone in dating.

GamesOfTheMind · 2022-05-16T20:55:56+00:00

Don't view it as a chore/task/scary thing. Just decide to enjoy it no matter what, and you'll find connections easily.

Mr-Busy-85 · 2022-05-16T22:07:13+00:00

Intuition above all. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s because it isn’t right. There’s a million other people out there.

Spndrift · 2022-05-18T21:28:14+00:00

To nuance u/Everlast23's post,
Yes, it is very important to move forward step by step when you feel there is a connection. Even if you have to switch place and time in between. If you are not comfortable enough to make a move, it creates a feeling of awkwardness in the relationship. That's when the other one "will not really feel it" and lose interest.
But from my experience: women look at men romantically when they feel there is a connection and a good long term fit, even if there is no sex or making out. Yes !
How can I tell ?
I have a 10-years relationship I do not want to mess. I learnt to transform other romantic interests in close semi-romantic relationship. With those women, we know and tell that we share feelings and care for each other, but we focus on our lifes and support each other when in need. It gets easier when you learn to be comfortable with attraction without acting on it.

Other interesting learnings:

Things are easier when you care about people, not about outcomes.
Said differently : move forward but don't push too hard, you've got nothing to prove. Getting anything is cool. Getting nothing is cool too.
Taste vary. You will find great people attracted by you.
If you feel it's getting awkward with someone, take a step back, stay cool. It might just not be the right time. Observe how close she stays with you. If she stays, you can go forward later.
Be comfortable with your emotions. You can have fun by telling how fun it is to share such "great feelings" without naming them. It create some suspense, while being quite clear. Eliciting the emotions indirectly avoids awkwardness and reinforces the feeling of shared connection.
Silence and saying nothing is okay. Close your eyes, enjoy the moment. You will feel more confident and be more attractive.
Don't worry time, you will instinctively feel the people who fit with you. It'll be easier.

Hereforknowlege242 · 2022-06-07T06:44:43+00:00

Be yourself because everyone is already playing somebody they’re not which make you different

Fenrir989 · 2022-05-15T23:38:09+00:00

That's pretty sexist dude

Title	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?
Author	Everlast23
Upvotes	630
Comments	363
Date	May 15, 2022 9:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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