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1

And im telling you how your language reveals your mindset
/r/seduction01/09/24 10:13 PM
3

You aren't owed anything, and the idea that you are basing your girlfriends investment on a text is sad. If i were her I'd be emotionally distant too, you are being controlling and egotistical, and punishing her via stonewall for something you haven't even communicated about on top of it. You have a lot of growing up to do.
/r/seduction01/09/24 10:11 PM
4

Nah fam. If that was the case, she'd say it. There's a reasonable expectation and this aint it.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:45 AM
16

Standing you up and asking for another chance with no explanation as to why it happened, nah fam. Take your dignity and move on. I wouldn't even respond. If there was a good reason for it, she would have told you. No reason to even speculate as to what she could have been up to.
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:24 PM
1

Men who develop and express their true selves are confident and attractive to women
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:53 PM
13

My main advice is to never date at a company you want a career in. With that in mind, if this is what you want, keep doing what you're doing, but be less invested in the outcome. You shouldn't be flirting with other people in front of her to get her to respond in a certain way (the 'exactly what i wanted' part indicates you are), you should be flirting with other people because you shot your shot and she rejected you. Anything else is manipulative and does not indicate you embody True Confidence…
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:29 PM
1

Awful
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:31 PM
57

Yet another post centered around OP not wanting to take a hint
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:34 PM
20

She likes the attention you're giving her but doesn't want to cut off other options yet
/r/seduction29/07/24 05:52 PM
30

So many posts in here are guys not wanting to take a hint
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:25 PM
5

Women are extra careful of men because they can be creeps. Its not 'fair', but it is your job to approach and show her you aren't a creep. Just how it is my man.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:32 PM
42

Genuinely when i got to the abandoned parking lot part i was sure i was being trolled
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:13 PM
3

This is absolutely hilariously wrong.
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:26 PM
3

Just say you like bullies, you aren't as slick as you think
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:24 PM
4

Anyone upvoting this absolute dunce deserves what this sub is becoming.
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:24 PM
4

If you want to continue to have your life filled by women like this, and become like her yourself, sure.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:13 PM
1

The only way to win some games is not to play at all
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:12 PM
41

Is there any hope? Yes. But not with that attitude.
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:15 PM
7

It builds mystery, exudes confidence, and charges up tension
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:02 PM
12

The trick is to treat everyone the same, until they show you they are capable of manipulating and using you for your benefits. Then you cut those individuals off and go about your life. Eventually you will only be surrounded by people who just appreciate you for who you are, and y'all edify each other. The alternative is chronic transactional thinking which is just fucking exhausing, and miserable to be around. I am not familiar with the Ben Franklin effect, and frankly, I don't want to be. It s…
/r/seduction12/04/24 02:29 PM
72

If you ever hold her hair while she's puking thinking that damn i did something so important for her she must love me. WRONG you're the one falling harder in love at that moment. Not her. This is ridiculous incel shit. If you see everything as investing, then everything is transactional. The real protip is to be able to walk a woman to her car, hold her hair while she is puking, generally be thoughtful and kind without losing yourself in every woman you meet. Because that is just who you are. Tr…
/r/seduction12/04/24 12:40 PM
1

Some of them will anyways. And you will find ways to deal with it. Judgemental that women like that aren't your type anyways. It will be ok.
/r/seduction03/04/24 03:49 PM
3

Call attention to it early on and make it a part of your bit. Joke about what you're actually looking at and get people laughing You can play off just about anything with enough confidence. Just don't over-compensate
/r/seduction03/04/24 01:44 PM
10

Idk who you're mentoring but i wish i could warn them
/r/seduction01/04/24 08:00 PM
5

Say youre 17 years old without saying youre 17 years old
/r/seduction27/03/24 08:03 PM
35

You don't. Find your own. Either because its the right thing to do, or because you could never trust someone who left someone else for you. Who's to say she won't do the same to you later?
/r/seduction27/03/24 02:53 PM
2

You can get over her. You just won't as long as you tell yourself "I can't get over her" and hold out hope.
/r/seduction27/03/24 02:45 PM
-3

Same. I cannot have conversations with most women <5y younger than me
/r/seduction17/02/24 02:29 PM
13

Do not do this
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:38 PM
6

Sometimes an ioi is intentionally ignoring eye contact Sometimes thats a sign to leave them alone Point is, we aren't mind readers. some women will expect you to be, but get out there and make conversation anyways
/r/seduction12/02/24 03:27 PM
13

In a few years when you do find a relationship, and are still unhappy, i hope you can connect the dots and realize: its not what you dont have, its how you see what you do have. Thats what makes you happy.
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:34 PM
3

Yeah its not that she hit you up and then ignored her, its that you made plans to make plans, then didnt follow through. She probably had already decided to cut you off but maybe wanted to see if she could at least get an apology first
/r/seduction29/01/24 10:46 PM
1

You know what, with that attitude, you're right. And you'll be right until you're tired enough of being alone to be wrong.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:07 AM
1

Look man, if you're out, you see a girl you'd like to talk to, and you don't talk to her, you've done nothing but fail yourself and potentially her. It's that simple. All to protect your ego. What if it could have worked out? You'll never know.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:01 AM
1

You can't get game without practice and you can't practice without being rejected
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:57 AM
1

It does make it worth it. You do have to have value going into cold approaches though, if you're not genetically blessed then you're gonna have to work a little harder at that part first: get fit, read, go to classes, get finances in order+always be working for more, invest in interesting hobbies that you personally get satisfaction from, learn to dance, etc. It doesn't take much to get you going, and don't think of it as a destination, like with everything else, it's about constant improvement …
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:30 PM
2

You are protecting a defeatist mindset. It's not intuitive, but the only way to get out of your defeatist mindset is more rejection. Without risk there's just no getting what you want, and you are going to get burned 10+ times before you make progress. You need to be willing to accept that, or stay stuck. Up to you.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:08 PM
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You aren't because of this mindset. You'll never attract a healthy and attractive woman for long as long as you think this way.
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:21 PM
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Yeah all women have no clue This sub man, the fact that so many upvote bullshit like this
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:08 PM
3

Be sure to Let us know how things are going 6mo from now
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:34 PM
-1

Sounds co-dependent You got way too invested in someone you've never met, she probably sensed that but was getting something from you, or she hopped to another lilly pad after the initial excitement wore off .
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:59 PM
10

The game is not about winning every interaction, its also about knowing a shallow, vapid woman when you see one, recognizing that navigating her extra shitty shit tests is not worth it, and walking away. The next level is that other women will see that and find it attractive, opening additional opportunities. The shallow woman will have to rethink her mindset (or justify your response away in her head) and you will be nothing but better off.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:11 PM
10

No, usually this is a shit test not an attempt to impress. Do not engage shit tests by qualifying yourself, you have already lost See #2
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:32 PM
1

I'm looking for someone to spend time with and see where things go from there
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:46 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:52 AM
6

It's never worth it in the weeks/months/years to follow. Always weighs on you.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:41 AM
3

It's this.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:30 PM
48

Lol this is really pushy and unhealthy. Its certainly possible to sleep with women on the first 3 dates, but to expect it is just...wow. You are missing out on a lot of great women with these unrealistic standards.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:02 PM
13

Just like us men
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:34 PM
1

'just treat her like shit bro she'll come running'
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:15 PM
9

Nah lol. I am 100% ok with leading, putting out effort first, initiating, paying first, etc. But I'm not gonna keep it up if she doesn't see it, appreciate it, and turn around to chase me back. No one gets to sit back and let good things come to them. The kind of men who are ok with putting in 100% of the effort, just to be rewarded with sex and not much else, aren't gonna make these women happy, and they know that. You're doing both of you a favor by respecting yourself enough to expect more.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:03 PM
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I waited till I was 22 and lost it drunk to a girl I never spoke to again Still better than a prostitute Don't do it Edit: apparently I need to clarify that me and the girl were both drunk, it was consensual, I regret losing my vcard that way, but it was still a better experience than a prostitute would have been. Don't pay for sex. Just don't do it.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:28 AM
5

Play to your strengths, don't go to clubs with Loud music. I don't have amazing hearing but I can hear alright and I still avoid these places, the experience of screaming in each other's ears and pretending to understand+nod is just not my idea of a good time Also imo it just covers up a lot of social anxiety so you're better off 'getting good' anyways
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:10 AM
14

Great way to end up with charges tbh
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:51 AM
1

Yike
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:23 PM
3

You're gross
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:11 AM
8

Cringe
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:03 AM
2

A lot of men struggle with accepting they are wrong, there's probably a lot of reasons but primarily it's probably bullshit 'alpha dominance' garbage Nothing more manly than self awareness and personal responsibility, just don't be a push over.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:17 AM
1

This sub is slowly dooming itself
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:17 PM
1

What does this even mean in practice
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:33 AM
1

This is the way. It's one of the only ways to put yourself out there more than the pile of thirsty chads It shows that you're more confident in yourself and that's a great start
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:07 PM
1

Jesus
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:30 PM
31

This sounds suspiciously specific
/r/seduction01/06/22 09:00 PM
5

The things that get upvoted and agreed with in this sub show that it's full of less aware incels
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:34 PM
2

Take all the energy you're using to obsess and brood over what you can't change, and use that energy to change what you can. Don't defend your own shitty personality traits, don't accept shitty behavior from others. Go to the gym. Have one more genuine conversation with a stranger than you did yesterday. Be more, and eventually you will worry less.
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:04 PM
6

I think maybe the 11pm date times may be a part of the issue
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:10 PM
5

It honestly sounds like you may have some distorted views on how all this works. I'm pretty in tune with my attraction tendencies, but what I find attractive is not what every other guy out there will. You shouldn't be looking to be more attractive than your friends, you should be focusing on doing what you like, maintaining good friendships, ending ones that no longer suit you, having new experiences, and being self-aware enough to know when it's time to change something about yourself for the …
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:48 PM
2

Seek therapy. Not just a counselor, but an actual therapist that can apply CBT/DBT or some other program with results.
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:40 PM
3

There is so much incel bullshit in this sub lately
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:21 PM
0

No
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:52 PM
3

I'm really struggling to understand how your clickbait article is relevant to the discussion we were having about your demeaning perspective of women
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:29 PM
2

You sound toxic as hell and your strategy will fall apart the second you start wanting an actual healthy relationship The types of girls this works on are not mature and neither are you
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:44 PM
2

Jfc the virginity of this comment is legendary
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:51 PM
2

And also to not act like you're actually totally ok with it when they come back around
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:49 PM
0

Eh
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:46 PM
2

No, you give her security, deeper levels of validation only available through vulnerability and intimacy, the potential for children with someone she sees as a good father, etc Stop giving yourself excuses and be better
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:30 PM
1

The Venn diagram of people upvoting this and people who blame women for not liking their shitty personalities is a circle
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:06 AM
9

For some, if they sense you are legitimately not approaching them, that makes you even more attractive
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:25 PM
60

Don't get even, show the same level of commitment you're receiving. Getting even is immature and undesirable and will not do you any favors
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:10 PM
1

My brother in Christ
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:06 PM
1

Don't ask them to split. Tell the waiter you're splitting. Women get annoyed that you ask because it's weak. They would rather you know what is fair and act on it.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:12 PM
1

Too late for that here
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:45 PM
48

Are you 14?
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:23 PM
11

With this mindset you're not gonna get very far
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:44 PM
7

You don't seem like someone I'd take advice from but thanks
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:38 PM
1

Bro, she's not even your gf yet. She's definitely not 'yours'. You don't sound mature enough for a work relationship to be anything but a catastrophe.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:22 PM
3

The key is to not see it as a game. Because it's only useful to see it that way initially, when you're learning to respect yourself. Once you do, it's ok to be willing to front the investment and energy, but if it's not reciprocated you note it, and move forward without a thought. If you keep thinking of it as a game, you'll be one manipulative and that's much worse than not understanding the 'rules' at all.
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:27 PM
0

You might be giving off off-putting energy that you're not aware of. Either that or you're trying to get to know someone over text when you should only using text to establish some excitement, plan a date, and then nothing until the date.
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:45 PM
4

Why can't you just let a man express himself and let it be what it is
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:39 PM
5

No, I don't
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:17 PM
1

Why would you not apologize for definitely being a douche
/r/seduction26/11/21 06:00 PM
2

It's really not, as I say dumb shit in completely nonsexual situations as well.
/r/seduction26/11/21 05:24 PM
1

I have an equally stupid mouth bro. Let me know if you figure out why we say such incredibly inappropriate shit at the worst time. I never even know how to make it right either, which is the worst part really.
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:27 PM
2

I'm physically uncomfortable
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:22 PM
7

You attract what you believe
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:47 PM
2

Shit like this is why i keep coning back. Directly applicable to me right now, it hurts because its true, so thanks.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:45 PM
9

You sound just like me man! Its a constant struggle but you just gotta remind yourself that discomfort if you're wrong about going in for the kiss is better than regret and shame for not going for a woman who clearly wanted you to.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:55 PM
3

This is exhaustingly calculated, manipulative, and inherently over-invested. All that thinking when all you need to worry about is: Matching your investment level to theirs. Don't let fear of investment deficit stop you from being bold BUT Be strong enough to know when she's not fairly reciprocating, back it off, and if she doesn't chase, then let it go.
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:44 PM
1

Ah that's an excellent one as well.
/r/seduction27/08/15 03:27 PM
8

^
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:41 PM
6

I honestly can't envision a situatiin where this works out well.
/r/seduction07/06/15 01:36 AM
4

You do you. Just do things, and own them. If she doesn't respond well, then just don't do them again. Don't apoligize for things unless you actually did something to hurt her.
/r/seduction29/04/15 10:57 AM
1

oh my god
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:10 AM
16

Goddamnit I laughed so hard at this
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:15 PM
1

What is this, RemindMe
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:01 AM
2

7 had no chance from the get-go
/r/seduction09/01/15 08:39 PM
1

Sup
/r/seduction16/11/14 02:23 PM
0

You need to stoo being a bitch, and do something shocking. I'm serious. Make up your mind that next time you see her, you are going to lay some game down. You are goimg to escalate, and you are going to kiss her. If she goes for it, then you're in. Don't you dare fall back out. If she doesn't dont you dare apologize. Own that shit, and let her know that you simply can't be just her friend anymore. You want more, and you cannot and will not pretend like you want less. You have to be ok with losin…
/r/seduction28/10/14 09:35 PM
1

I have been mostly working on eminating 'internal game', which is tthe most effective for me, and also the hardest to describe, play by play.
/r/seduction17/08/14 07:05 PM
1

It was actually pretty decent until the end.
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:13 PM
1

Genious. I, also, will never read it, but I will try this.
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:01 PM
13

we're on the edge of our seats here
/r/seduction11/08/14 08:53 PM
1

This is the best answer, yet should really never be used with a girl you'd like to be successful with.
/r/seduction11/08/14 08:46 PM
1

What grounds would she have to complain to HR? As long as I'm not inappropriate, I should be fine, right? I'm just trying to understand where this stigma of 'work relationships don't work' comes from. I know a lot of people at my work who have dated, and there's no issues.
/r/seduction07/07/14 02:15 PM
1

Why is that? There's this chick at work who I want to ask out, but she's on the other side of the building. If things didn't work out, I would rarely see her, and her boss isn't mine.
/r/seduction06/07/14 08:58 PM
1

I think you're overthinking it. If a girl shows you attention, she wants you to reciprocate and escalate. Stop worrying about her comfort and go for what you want, because chances are she wants you too. Next time you're wondering whether or not you should be physically escalating, the answer is, "Yes, 10 minutes ago."
/r/seduction06/07/14 08:40 PM
2

They were on their way out of the set, she was cute but not as cute as the one I approached, and she wasn't holding up her end of the conversation.
/r/seduction03/07/14 11:16 AM
1

Ha I did the same thing. Broke the stator or something too. After the stator got fixed, I ended up riding it without the shifting peg for about 2 weeks until the part came in. Got a bruise on my foot from it! I brought it in and it was fixed 30 minutes later, it can't take too long.
/r/seduction03/07/14 11:14 AM
1

I dropped mine too :( broke something really expensive in it. 500$ later, I'm much better at making U-turns.
/r/seduction02/07/14 12:46 PM
9

Approach anxiety. All the reasons you tell yourself when you see a cute chick you want to talk to.
/r/seduction01/07/14 07:40 PM
19

"Friendzoned" implies I only want to talk to women who will fuck me. I am completely ok with having friends, better than nothing. Also, hot women have hot friends, and now I have an in.
/r/seduction01/07/14 06:28 PM
5

Why would she try to hook me up with her friend, then? I mean we get a long well, but I'd say her being willing to sabatoge her relationship is a leap.
/r/seduction01/07/14 04:00 PM
1

I thought it was really smooth up until the kiss, it seemed so out of place. You kept it going alright, and had enough rapport, but man that just did not seem appropriate.
/r/seduction26/06/14 10:32 PM
1

It was actually a very general question... I don't see how it's specific at all.
/r/seduction10/06/14 10:29 PM
3

On top of what the top few comments have said, just don't forget to physically escalate. It's important to be able to empathize, hold conversation, be an active listener, and the introspection that introverts tend to have can really help us get a hold on who we are. Which is the root of confidence. But it's easy to friendzone yourself if you spend too much time trying to figure the other person out, and not enough time showing physical attention.
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:27 AM
1

This might be the single best post on Seddit. This should easily be the first thing any man reads before puberty.
/r/seduction21/05/14 11:27 PM
0

Yeah I'm not holding my breathe, but it just sucks not being able to continue what I've escalated to. It's a complicated situation, because her sister is pretty much in love with me, the girl I'm interested in comes around all the time with her sister and I'm just thinking "What the fuck." Thanks for your insight. I just need to get out more is all.
/r/seduction03/04/14 06:52 PM
0

Yeah, she did say that she's going to see her next month. What would you say the best way to maintain attraction would be, without being 'just friends'? Obviously, a DTR will not work out well, making a move will not work out well. And though I'm totally ok with backing off, I don't want her to think she pushed me out of my frame. A good balance of backing off and still being myself is what I'm trying to envision here, but it's hard because...we live next to each other.
/r/seduction03/04/14 06:27 PM
0

Alright. Well, the girl I was going for most recently just so happens to be my next door neighbor. We both moved in very recently, and she has a brand new long-distance relationship with a girl (she's bi.) We had a lot in common when we met and hit it off pretty well, I'm pretty good-looking as well so that helps. She gave me the green light on several occasions, and I assumed that her relationship wasn't that serious. We messed around on a couple occasions, and then she suddenly started acting …
/r/seduction03/04/14 05:43 PM
0

Would you mind hearing more of the situation I'm in, and giving me your perspective on it?
/r/seduction03/04/14 05:04 PM
1

If you did nothing wrong, ignore her. If you did something wrong, ignore her. The rest of your comment makes sense, except this. If I did something wrong, wouldn't it show that I have enough frame and self-assurance to be able to admit when I'm wrong? I don't know how I feel about the 'always right' mindset that the PUA community so often advocates. I get the impression that it is often overcompensation. Obviously, you should never let a girl make you feel bad about something you didn't to wrong…
/r/seduction03/04/14 03:58 PM
0

The other side of this question is something I've been wondering lately; how much is too much? How often is over-available?
/r/seduction03/04/14 02:24 AM
2

That just changed my outlook. Thanks.
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:07 PM
3

So, at least for you, none of the above necessarily equal 'not interested, like that'?
/r/seduction28/03/14 06:09 PM
3

Interestingly enough, I heard all of the above from from a chick who I messed around with recently, which is what sparked this post. In the past I've always assumed it meant I was about to be friendzoned, but I was pretty forward with this chick and she responded quite well, and still had no other language for me other than what she'd call a cat.
/r/seduction28/03/14 05:13 PM
1

Not everyone can constantly be at your superior knowledge level. Some people are just starting to learn this stuff, and it's good to see reminders of basic info every once in a while either way.
/r/seduction27/03/14 07:44 PM
10

Someone needs to fix that man's goatee before my OCD generates an all consuming black hole.
/r/seduction08/03/14 02:11 AM
3

Not being outcome dependent with women is the best, and first lesson everyone needs to learn. If you're not confident, this is the first step.
/r/seduction27/02/14 05:41 PM
1

This is genious.
/r/seduction25/02/14 02:24 AM
1

My main issue is over-investment, which eventually leads to one-itis. I have no idea how to cure myself of this.
/r/seduction24/02/14 01:49 AM
1

It truly is.
/r/seduction12/03/13 04:47 PM
1

Strange, I had a near similar experience with both of the girls I've slept with.
/r/seduction06/03/13 05:30 PM
4

Seriously... It's like the rapture happened
/r/seduction28/12/12 05:40 PM
2

Indeed. My initial attraction based off a girl's physical appearance only lasts for so long. If she can't keep my attention with comfortable conversation, a sense of humor, and an actual personality, I lose interest quickly.
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:00 PM
8

Whoosh bro
/r/seduction23/11/12 10:34 AM
1

We all know the feeling.
/r/seduction17/11/12 01:39 PM
6

You're a colossal asshole. I felt like it needed to be said, even though it was clear OP wasn't going to waste any more time with you.
/r/seduction08/11/12 10:51 AM
4

#1 rule of upvotes: Never ask for upvotes.
/r/seduction09/10/12 10:04 AM
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The man has a point. I've tried opening up too fast to show that I'm confident enough with my self to say what I'm thinking, and it never really worked out that well. They end up thinking you give in-depth answers to simple questions all the time, and it kind of gets the opposite response.
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:30 PM
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If this really works, you just made my day.
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:24 PM
1

Ah. No hard feelings then.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:05 AM
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Thanks, I'll let him know. Yes I was hoping you weren't being sarcastic about that...so is commitment now not a "cool thing" now or something? Yeah he lost out on those two, but if your only desired outcome from playing "The Game" is to get laid as much as possible, you're going to have a long life with a ton of sex, but you'll never have any meaningful relationships without commitment. I commend him for what he did, and there should be a lot less guys running around telling girls whatever it ta…
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:32 PM
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Haha I don't know actually, I haven't talked to him in a little while.
/r/seduction29/09/12 01:13 PM
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I have a buddy who has an umbrella success story too. He was at Chipotle, and it was absolutely pouring rain outside. He noticed two girls were about to leave, and jumped up, and asked them if he could grab his umbrella and escort them to their car. They looked confused and suprised, as he had no umbrella, but they said sure. So he proceeds to go out to his car, in the pouring rain mind you, grab his umbrella from the trunk, and walks each girl to her respective car. He wasn't in it for their nu…
/r/seduction29/09/12 07:37 AM
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The combination of: the thoughts you don't need - those that are negative, limiting, critical, and destructive - you simply let float away and So the next time you say you're going to start exercising, or eating better, or talking to women, or doing something that interests you, and you hear that little voice trying to convince you otherwise, ignore it and go about your life. seriously changed the way I think the way flipping a light switch changes a room from dark to light.
/r/seduction28/09/12 12:31 PM
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Or if you want to be far less intrusive, try, "Ok, but I want you to try my favorite drink." Or something like that. Then proceed to get a drink that you do actually enjoy, but isn't so strong that she won't enjoy it. Now, you've shown that you can joke around a little, but are also attentive to her cues and are willing to work with her, while also keeping the situation in your control. All while displaying excellent taste in alchoholic drinks.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:35 AM
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Whenever I see an article like this, full of 'never' and 'always' and 'guarenteed', I just click the comments and see what an actual girl thinks about all this. Any females with some insight on this?
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:44 AM
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What girl would actually go for this?
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:42 AM
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I like this one alot, it's not too blunt.
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:41 AM
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