I have had more opens, dates, K and F closes in the past month than I have in my entire life, and I'm starting to realize that I might be blurring the line between being smooth and confident, and playing with women's emotions under the pretense that I'm not responsible for how I make them feel.

I know some of you will probably cringe at that, but I have never wanted the reputation of a player, and I certainly don't want to lead women on if I can be honest about my intentions up front without losing spontaneity and momentum.

So, how do I go about keeping these women around without seeming slimy, while still being able to approach regularly?

How do I answer questions like, "How many women have you been with this year" or other shit tests aimed at trying to see how invested in her I am?

Or rather, what mindset do I need to have to make women not care that they are not the only woman I'm talking to at the time, while being honest about my dating life? I have been reading Models, and really like his honesty approach to everything. I just don't understand how to tie it together with women's natural want to be special and the only one I'm pursuing at the time, when I want to be able to not be tied down until I'm sure she's what I'm looking for in an LTR.