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2

Thank you friend!
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:12 AM
1

Dumb question, but is there a chance that she’s actually into it, but I get nervous and that suddenly flips her mind?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:40 PM
1

Dumb question, but is there a chance that she’s actually into it, but I get nervous and that suddenly flips her mind?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:40 PM
1

Dumb question, but is there a chance that she’s actually into it, but I get nervous and that suddenly flips her mind?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:40 PM
1

I’m not the coolest dude, she’s not getting that much clout off of me lol
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:26 PM
1

I would get it if I shot my shot and gave me the friends speech or whatever, but shes being flirty as all hell, and saying and doing some obscene shit. Like that doesn't seem very gay bestie to me if we're talking about doing shit to each other.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:02 AM
1

Can you elaborate please?
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:44 AM
1

Very recently
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:09 AM
5

Ok, will do. Out of curiosity would you ever call her out on it or what?
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:05 AM
1

My only counter to that is that she's also done it when we've been alone. Granted that has been at the office too, but we were still alone.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:58 AM
2

Are people with BPD good at manipulation? Because this chick is straight up good at it. Like I've only ever got these looks from girls with high levels of attraction. And I think it might be just attention.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:42 AM
3

Yeah, but I think I'm just so thirsty I'm brushing them to the side lmao
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:37 AM
2

Who knows, only got what I'm working with lol
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:34 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:30 AM
6

You mean be cold?
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:28 AM
1

Can’t grow a beard in my job sadly 😢
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:39 PM
0

I’m willing to bet you are a handsome if not average dude, I’m batting below, it’s a different game
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:00 PM
1

But I do my man, I got a weak jaw line and flat face, in addition to a large and oddly shaped head. And science points towards women caring about how you look. Check my post history yo
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:52 PM
1

No, but I’m definitely not successful and it’s because of the faults in my face lol
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:43 PM
1

I didn’t ask if I was. I just asked if anyone experienced an increase in attraction after surgery
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:40 PM
-1

Post pics then
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:50 PM
4

I’ve read everything there is to read about the wiki. I’m starting to think none of it matters unless you look good
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:31 AM
1

Nah, it’s the argument that only looks matter
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:23 AM
1

I don’t, I just hate the way I look lol
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:26 PM
3

Tl;dr Looks are the only thing that matters and if you don’t meet a certain threshold you’re fucked no matter what you do
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:58 AM
1

I don’t hate the opposite gender, just the way I look
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:37 AM
5

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ecaaji/results_should_men_ask_for_permission_for_the/ Right in the stats. A total of 53% agree are impartial or don’t want him to ask. The other chunk only “prefer” not that it’s mandatory. And only 1% find it as bad as you make it out to be
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:26 PM
6

That’s great in theory, but majority of women prefer that the dude doesn’t ask and just goes for it. And it’s just not natural “may I touch your shoulder” “may I touch your hand” “may I touch your back” “may I touch your shoulder again” “may I kiss you” all over the course of date is kind of weird
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:12 PM
1

I agree, it’s just a shame that the good reaction and vibes came so early, followed by the most neutral hard to read reactions ever.
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:08 PM
2

The hands thing was in the first 5 minutes of the date, was a little nervous about going for the kiss so soon
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:56 PM
37

IMO hiking is a terrible first date. "Yo, I just met you, let me take you deep into the woods where no one can hear you scream." edit; The play would probably be to establish you want to get to know her, but still want her to feel safe. "I was hoping to get a chance to get to know you one on one. Maybe we can scrap the hike and do something else like (public, nomal date thing)"
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:15 AM
2

I’m currently in Muay Thai and jiu jitsu, and never caught the bug like everyone talked about. Maybe over time, but right now I’m just not over the moon about it.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:19 PM
0

For respectfully asking advice on how to proceed? I think you got the idea I’m running around talking about “she’s a hot piece of ass” or something, and not what actually happened, where I was simply asking what it means if she acted like this
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:43 PM
0

That’s literally what I was doing?
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:37 PM
-1

Because I was trying to get advice on how to proceed
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:19 PM
-6

Too old for this shit
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:58 PM
6

So just keep it pushing like nothing ever happened?
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:51 PM
4

So just keep it pushing like nothing ever happened?
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:51 PM
0

So just keep it pushing like nothing ever happened?
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:51 PM
-4

It’s one of the most common areas people meet their significant other though!
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:37 PM
2

That’s true; still figured people would respect it if I asked them not to speak on it and get their opinion
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:34 PM
7

I’m not being disrespectful or bragging. Like I’m not trying to impress people, or brag. I was literally just asking advice on how to handle a situation in confidence.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:29 PM
-31

I guess because if the shoe were on the other foot I would actually keep my mouth shut? Like if someone asked me, “hey don’t say anything but I’m trying to figure this out…” I wouldn’t say shit
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:17 PM
-9

It’s not like I was blabbing about it to score points with the boys at the office. I asked people, in confidence, advice on how I should deal with a situation. That’s it.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:15 PM
-14

I do. If someone asks me to not talk about something, I don’t.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:03 PM
-55

I guess I didn’t count on people being scum bags and telling. Like if someone says don’t tell anyone to me I don’t tell anyone. Didn’t realize it was a common phenomenon to break that shit Edit; just for clarification once again, I wasn’t bragging or anything. I was just trying to get some advice/outside perspective.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:02 PM
7

Fuck 😢
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:41 PM
-12

Damn thats a shame because I always keep that kind of stuff on the DL
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:36 PM
1

What reputation, that you asked someone out?
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:01 AM
1

I mean I do that kind of shit to my friends too but fair enough
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:05 PM
1

I mean it was clearly a joke but aight
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:05 PM
3

Because it’s the most popular common spot people meet significant others
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:51 PM
-1

Alright, then should I hit her with the “how about next time XYZ?”
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:10 PM
0

So just leave her last reply on read or should I try to smooth it over
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:47 PM
-4

Long story, but I couldn’t really do it in person, is there any recovery/what would have been the move?
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:31 PM
1

So what would you have said then?
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:24 PM
1

So then what’s the play/recovery? Or what would have been the move?
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:23 PM
2

Long story but no phones on site, couldn’t ask her in person.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:22 PM
1

So what would have been the play?
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:18 PM
-1

me obviously
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:47 PM
2

Just because I know there are other women out there doesn’t mean I’m going to be comfortable touching this one if she doesn’t look comfortable or too into it?
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:24 PM
1

Yeah, but isn’t that just a part of the dating process? And don’t we all hit those on dates?
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:44 PM
1

Idk if it’s that deep or if I just wanted the person I was with to have a good time too. Like anyone I hang with I just want to have a genuine good ass time
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:35 PM
0

I’m confused? How am I rewarding bad behavior by ignoring her if I tone back the escalation as well?
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:26 PM
1

But if she’s clearly not into it at the moment, why would you try and escalate? That just becomes creepy
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:11 PM
1

It’s hard to want to be physical when her body language is cold and distant. Is it worth doing when she seems uninterested like that?
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:32 AM
1

I could, but it was met with rejection before. She just throws some hard signs in there so it’s confusing. I do think I played it safe too much at times, but only because she suddenly became awkward and made it so. Idk if I needed to have fun and blast through it to make it happen, but idk
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:21 PM
1

She brought a dude with her! lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:27 PM
1

Idk if there is clear signs of attraction. Like there are at times, but then other times it feels like she doesn’t give a shit in the slightest.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:37 PM
1

Didn't try
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:44 AM
4

I wasn’t even trying to spit game, but if I was, it would have been near impossible with how cold she was when she assumed it was just me. I’m pretty sure it’s even scientifically proven that individuals are more attractive in groups than solo. Even more so if they’re cool with that group.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:15 AM
9

I never said you needed it, I just said it helps. And maybe a guy is more approachable by himself. But not many girls are approaching guys. It’s the guys job to approach
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:48 PM
4

210%
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:43 AM
1

I understand having a room temperature IQ is hard, but let me say it again. Why would I lie about fucking up. Also, check the post for an edit
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:07 PM
3

So if Ricky shit his pants one time back in kindergarten, but has been a good dude since, are you going to loudly scream “Yo that’s Ricky the dude who shat his pants!” any time you see him? Or the dude who was a former alcoholic?
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:16 PM
4

Check the edit on the post; just don't want people trying to doxx shit. I dont understand why you want to know so bad.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:51 PM
5

Kenzie Madison
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:49 PM
10

Yes, I made up a story about how I gave a shitty and not smooth at all two line approach. Thats the kind of story people want to come up with /s
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:48 PM
2

Yes, I would come up with a story about how I completely bombed and embarrassed myself with a shitty two line approach. Thats the fake story I would come up with.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:47 PM
-8

I know quite a few pornstars who regret it and hate being recognized, so I figure I should be respectful. Also, I feel like I’ve tried way too hard most of my life so I figured something laid back and easy would be nice.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:27 PM
-42

I know some industry girls aren’t comfortable with what they do, so I figured I should respect it and not include her shit
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:25 PM
1

Really? Because my entire life, all I've ever seen is the dudes who don't give that much of a shit or are convinced they are the shit win, and the guys who go out and try way too hard come home with nothing.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:25 PM
2

Yeah, but having to constantly crank it up just to keep attention is too much. What if you were good enough just the way you are, or what if you were already hilarious?
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:19 PM
1

I did, initially, but she switched up so much that it was hard to want to try anything on. We went from an escape room to a bar. Before the escape room, everything was fine, we were both touching each other, laughing, deep eye contact, etc. Right after the escape room, the vibe kind of changed, and she seemed uninterested. Like it was hard to want to touch her or anything like that because she just seemed so cold/uninterested. We went to the bar, and it was an absolute disaster from there.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:18 PM
2

If thats the case, I'm tired of being a dancing clown, Ill pass
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:13 PM
1

Its hard to want to escalate when they put out bored/uninterested vibes. Like how do you push it when they dont seem open to it
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:04 PM
1

In person
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:14 PM
2

Thats my point
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:36 PM
2

I don’t think it’s that complicated, but let me try it another way. Don’t try so hard. You’re okay the way you are
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:36 PM
3

I wish I could, but I’m just not interested.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:04 PM
2

I guess, it’s just hard to fight the urge to perform if you want to get laid by a girl you’re talking to. Like to bald face look them in the eye and say “I don’t care” when every other part of your body does care is difficult
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:48 PM
2

Which is 100% accurate, but there are women who will text you like a full 24-48 hours later, and that’s fair to say that they’re not interested
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:16 PM
1

I think his point still stands though, right? You texted back in a few hours, not over a day like OP is talking about
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:37 PM
2

Tinder has always been notorious for hook ups. I think your friends are in the slight minority for getting into relationships off of it. Just keep casting that net man
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:14 PM
1

If you’re into all that, and if she’s into all that, then sure.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:23 PM
3

I included that in my post Am I saying give up your journey for self improvement? No. You should always be working on yourself for your own sake. But get rid of the idea that I had that someday, I will be enough. You are enough today to the right people today. And over time and with enough improvement, you will be enough for a slightly larger pool of people. And Sure, if you walk around making obvious social blunders, and you fix those up, you will see a decent increase in how people perceive yo…
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:05 AM
4

Nah man, I just stressed about this shit too long and realized its much easier to just find people who like you for you instead of constantly performing. Tim Ferris has a book called the 4 hour work week. In it, he talks about he had a few clients who made up 80% of his business, and a shit load who made up the last 20%. He spent almost twice as much time on the 20%. He then realized all the bullshit he was doing to entertain that 20%, and just let them go. He then focused all the free time he h…
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:56 AM
5

If you want to spend time with them, and they want to spend time with you, go for it. If one doesn't want to spend time with the other, don't worry about it. Be happy, and hang with who wants to hang with you.
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:49 AM
12

Its a numbers game man. If you've been on 20-30 dates, you're doing extremely well for yourself. Might I ask how you're meeting these women? If its Tinder, most are in for a good time, not a long time. If you're looking for something more long term and serious, cast that wide net I talked about in real life and just keep meeting people. Meeting in real life seems to be more serious material.
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:46 AM
1

I don't think people say, "work on yourself and just ignore women". Working on yourself makes you more attractive, and makes it easier to get rejected by women. Like if I'm some dude who isn't good at anything, and I have to go hit a free throw, I'm probably going to feel like shit about it. But if I'm Donald Glover with a shit load of stuff going on in my life, I'm not going to care too much if I miss this free throw. I have a concert to perform or a show to write. Same thing with your personal…
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:43 AM
9

If she lost interest, there's like a 97% chance she's not coming back. Like I said in the title, just enjoy the company of those who make it easy to spend time with. Go cast that wide net I was talking about and find someone else who does want to spend time with you. You'll forget all about this girl. And if by some miracle she ever does come back around and makes it easy to spend time with, then spend some time with her. When you take this approach, life becomes a lot easier.
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:37 AM
8

No one has ever said someone was a creep for walking up and saying Hi. And if they did, thats absolutely a them problem.
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:20 AM
2

Not really. I would 100% chose to be happy and confident if I could. Why would anyone ever chose to be upset if that was the case? It’s just partially genetics and upbringing
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:41 AM
13

Definitely not. If I could I would chose to be happy and confident every day if I could, but I just happen to be really hard on myself
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:15 AM
16

I think its hard to just "be" like that though. I'm very self critical, so feeling confident and like I'm the shit is difficult, despite some stuff to be proud of.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:44 AM
9

Lmao op literally asked what he’s physically supposed to do in the moment because he feels awkward, and you say “use it as fuel” Does he just stand their and use fuel like photosynthesis to a plant 😂😂😂
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:10 AM
1

Sometimes yeah, like I feel like I can be kind of left out occasionally when we’re all kicking it or I lose my spot in the light
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:33 PM
2

But what if my being chill is boring?
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:50 PM
1

I literally don't get what the problem is. If someone was throwing money at you, would you not just take it? Theres only one way to get better at it, and its to do it. So just do it. If you don't, youre going to lose your looks and skill eventually and you'll never do it.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:24 PM
1

No we first met in person
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:04 PM
1

It just seems like she lost interest as things went on
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:56 PM
1

I guess, but I met this person irl
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:52 PM
1

What makes you say I'm being needy?
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:50 PM
2

I do that but I feel like it results in me peppering people with questions and unnatural more than anything
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:22 AM
1

But what if the real me can be boring?
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:34 PM
4

I’m 25 with almost zero experience, it’s not that easy
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:27 PM
2

Got nervous, quiet a lot, not as fun as I could have been, not as physical as I could have been, probably could have teased her more, talked about a lot of stupid shit Edit; Other stupid shit not being trying for the kiss at the end because she didn’t seem into it and at one point this drunk foreign dude rolled up and tried to kiss her on the cheek, but it was our first date and I didn’t know if it was my place to stand up and try something or not
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:26 PM
1

I would say so
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:43 PM
1

The problem is it’s hard to get success with women when you’re a bumbling mess all the time around them.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:36 PM
4

I definitely identify with the last sentence and I don’t know how I’m going to get over it
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:46 PM
2

That’s not my point. My point is if women are willing to marry a dude who is out here making people kill others and doing all sorts of scary shit, maybe they’re willing to look past your big nose or your shyness sometimes. Even if you dq Charles, Ted Bundy had women trying to marry him in prison too. Women chase after married men, or men that beat them. Your flaws aren’t that bad.
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:58 PM
4

Thats my exact point though. Women look past men's flaws and the things they can't stand about them all the time. Women claim they can't stand the fact that their husband smokes, but they're still married. They will still see a guy despite the fact he pisses off her father, etc. Women will love men despite gigantic glaring red flags and imperfections.
/r/seduction17/04/22 01:34 PM
2

Charles Manson had multiple women attempt to marry him while in prison. I stand by my statement
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:57 PM
1

Just tell her that. From what I know about the modern dating game for females, it seems like all the dudes are constantly trying to play cool or indifferent. If you are willing to actually put your nuts on the line and share some emotions, you’ll definitely stand out, and you’ll get a strong yes or no depending on how she feels about you.
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:31 AM
1

Thanks for providing some female insight, seems like most dudes disagree with it, but interesting to see with you cool with it
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:27 AM
0

I would argue that it’s not needy at all if you’re giving her the chance to tell you no. You’re literally telling her that you don’t give a shit if she says no and you can walk away. You got to mean it though
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:03 PM
1

Yeah, you have to respect the No and leave it at that the first time
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:01 PM
2

You don’t say that at the start. You give a confident invite, but if you get an excuse, you send this. The way the book makes it seem, it takes a lot of confidence to blatantly take a rejection and walk away fine, so giving her room to do that is better than just letting her come up with excuses or ghosting you.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:23 PM
4

You also get the possibility of showing that you aren’t needy and are willing to walk away, which might make her reconsider things
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:52 PM
5

It’s one text, but fair enough
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:33 PM
3

Fair enough, I would just argue that it’s not that much time or effort since it’s 1 extra text, and you get to know for sure
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:33 PM
12

I would rather know for sure than leave it up in the air or dq myself early
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:27 PM
28

Tbf, they’re already kind of rejecting you if they’re giving an excuse. This way you just know for sure Edit; You also get the possibility of showing that you aren’t needy and are willing to walk away, which might make her reconsider things
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:25 PM
1

Nope, trying to get that experience though. And trying to get confidence. That’s kind of the point of this post
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:08 AM
1

You’re right. It’s just hard watching everyone skip over you when you’re not performing. And I care about those connections, so missing them is unfortunate
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:06 PM
1

I agree with everything you’re saying to an extent. I do disagree with one thing though, and that’s the idea that everyone is going to be all calm cool and collected about this shit. I think it’s normal to get emotionally jacked up about this kind of stuff at times and I think I need to accept that instead of being too cool for it. And as for the hanging out thing, I think there was room for more but I didn’t push it enough and chase what I wanted enough. Be more forward sexually
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:55 AM
11

I think so. I’m a pretty lonely dude, so picking up some of the hobbies they do solo might be kind of difficult or feel weird to do solo
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:30 PM
35

I mean I kind of am. I’m pretty content kicking it by myself in a way, but it makes it hard to make connections or have anything interesting to talk about. I kind of struggle to think about what I want to do and how I can meet people doing it too
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:15 PM
0

And youre not very good at it if the one condition I have is the thing you keep throwing out over and over. “Hey, I don’t like chicken. What are some dishes you recommend that don’t include chicken?” “What, chicken is so good? You should try chicken.” “No thanks, I’m not a fan.” “Are you really not a fan of chicken? Or are you just trying to find other people that don’t like chicken and make yourself feel good?” “It’s not that deep, I just don’t like chicken and want to know some recipes. Don’t …
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:21 PM
0

I could say the same for you, since you’re right here with me. Very nice informative, and factual retort btw 👍
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:56 AM
-2

But here's some solid advice beyond fashion: Don't be a dick to someone giving you advice you're asking for just because you don't like the advice. Allow me to retort. I openly stated I am not a fan of what is posted on /r/malefashionadvice. The very first thing you recommend is /r/malefashionadvice. If I came to a music sub, asking for music recommendations that aren't death metal (because I don't like death metal), and the only thing you comment is how death metal is awesome, we aren't really …
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:44 AM
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Respectfully, I don’t care what you think about a fashion subreddit. And I don’t care to convince you one way or the other about what to think about it. I just don’t like what I see there, and that’s it. It sounds like you are the one who is trying to affirm what others think about it. And yeah, sorry, I’m not a blazer kind of guy. That’s my whole point.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:14 AM
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Feminine probably wasn’t the right word. I guess it’s just extra sometimes. Like I’ve seen dudes say “getting groceries” and they have on a blazer, pocket square, and just way too much going on. I’m a simple dude, I don’t need to be too extra
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:32 AM
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That’s the thing though, she is offering alternate opportunities to hang out, albeit with a bit of a twist
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:48 AM
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We work in a hospital together, opposing shifts. The nights im off are the nights she’s working, and vice versa. Also, our first time hanging out was a vacation day I took out of my time. Shouldn’t she meet me in the middle and take some of her time
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:30 AM
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I kind of have. I told her she’s cute and a lot of fun and I would like to hang with her again
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:59 PM
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But that’s the weird thing. I’ve already given them the option of just not hanging out with me. I told them if they’re not interested, it’s okay, but she keeps inviting me to stuff
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:58 PM
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But that’s the weird thing. I already gave them the option of just saying no I don’t want to hang out, and I haven’t pressed it. They just keep asking me to stuff
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:57 PM
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Lol I’ll give it a shot
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:53 PM
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She never specifically mentioned wanting to be friends, so idk what to think
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:42 PM
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You’re probably right, but I just think if I wasn’t interested in a woman, I don’t think I would be hitting her up to come hang out with my friends. Edit; she also never mentioned wanting to be friends so idk what she actually means
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:41 PM
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The argument he makes in his chapter on receptiveness is that you’ll eventually tip them one way or the other. So whatever you said or did was eventually enough to tip them toward yes. It’s not like you cracked some code, you just pushed them one way
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:41 PM
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Thanks for your time. So I guess my next question is do you go for the kiss even if your unsure?
/r/seduction26/02/22 09:59 PM
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Thanks for your time. So I guess my next question is do you go for the kiss even if your unsure? I’m
/r/seduction26/02/22 09:58 PM
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Thanks man I appreciate it when you put it that way
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:01 AM
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Nah, it was like a 10 second encounter. Home dude didn’t even really speak English I think
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:41 PM
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I guess you’re right. I just figured give her space to make those kinds of decisions first before I get involved
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:53 PM
1

Hey what do you think I should have done about the drunk dude who tried to kiss her?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:40 PM
1

Hey thank you. What do you think about the drunk dude who tried to slide up to her and tried to kiss her? Should I have done something?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:40 PM
1

Hey btw, what do you think about drunk dude trying to slide up to her?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:38 PM
1

Hey so what would you have done about drunk dude trying to slide up on her?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:38 PM
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I take responsibility and know I got to improve, but we can definitely blame society
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:16 PM
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That was really well put. Thank you, I'll have to keep that in mind!
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:25 PM
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Thanks man. I really appreciate it. I guess I could ask her whats wrong or what changed. I've just heard a lot of women tell stories about guys asking how the date is going while they're on the date and they say its super awkward.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:17 PM
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I don't think I was being antagonistic. The answers I gave were true to myself. I would smoke weed occasionally if given the opportunity. I would get tattoos if I found something I cared enough about and liked design wise. I am not religious. I wasn't changing these answers just to rattle her. These things are just who I am. And I wasn't being a dick about it. She was literally the one saying weed is trashy, and the kind of bold statements like that. I didn't claim religion was stupid or whateve…
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:15 PM
0

Nah I know I got to get to doing, I guess I was just looking to see if anyone else ever made the jump from simp to pimp
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:55 AM
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Why do you need to improve? Because what society has taught or told you isn’t sufficient to getting the results you want. What do you need to reflect on? How you failed, and what you need to do different, which, is probably what society told you. I’m not going to argue any more. You think I’m some woman hating piece of shit, which is absolutely not the case. I just feel like the way I was raised and what I was told isn’t effective for attracting women, and like I have a lot of relearning to do. …
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:22 AM
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I would argue we all don’t get a long fine. Since this sub literally exists as a way to teach men to improve their dating lives. This sub wouldn’t be as large as it is if everything was just fine and dandy with the advice we were all given, would it? There wouldn’t be multiple subs for it, would there be? The dating industry wouldn’t be a billion dollar industry if the advice society gave worked, would it?
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:12 AM
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I do have some trauma that I need to overcome, but so do so many other guys who have girlfriends. The question is will I even ever get over a lot of this trauma. And why do I need to become an enlightened monk when other dudes have obvious problems and still meet women just fine.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:51 AM
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I do take ownership. I take ownership that I suck at dating and I'm not attractive. But I think its also in part due to a lot of the advice I've been given. I feel like I've spent my whole life being raised to be a people pleaser, but its not what people like. Just one quick example off the rip, society will tell you to constantly be considerate of what other people want to do, and make sure everyone is having a good time. But women will openly tell you that they want someone who takes command a…
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:48 AM
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Never said anything about hating women or anything but okay.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:37 AM
1

What does this even mean? It doesn’t contribute anything to the discussion. It doesn’t support it and provide evidence and further anything. It doesn’t disagree and provide insightful counterpoints.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:45 AM
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My only counter point is that industry giants like mark Manson and mystery openly admit to being a little bit nervous
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:29 PM
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I get the theory behind this, but I just don’t believe it 100%. You have dudes like Mark Manson who pioneered this theory, and he still openly admits to being nervous when talking to new people. You have the old school PUA dudes like mystery who openly claim they still feel a little nervous.
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:16 PM
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I try to. But sometimes I still get a little choked up. I mean you have to feel at least a little nervous sometimes right?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:20 PM
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Absolutely, but I think it’s kind of like I put in my post. Is this validation and win part of something that you value? Or is this win just you stroking your ego? Generally, I feel like I duck up in pursuit of number 2
/r/seduction26/01/22 01:01 AM
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I think that falls in line with the good addition to your life point. Like yeah, this chick gave me the good good I needed. Vs “I need to bed this chick so I can feel like a real man!!”
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:46 PM
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I’m not going to pretend like I’m Casanova or anything, but in my experience, when a girl likes you, she makes it easy as possible. Maybe a girl who has you on the back burner will flake and test you before the first date, but not someone actually into you
/r/seduction28/12/21 12:59 AM
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Move on. I know how tempting it is when you don’t have success to cling to your one shot at getting laid, but this girl ain’t it. She flaked once, and is trying to fuck with you by bringing up other guys. Don’t give her the satisfaction of chasing her anymore. Be the bigger person and decide she doesn’t live up to YOUR standards of having basic respect
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:59 PM
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Thanks for your time and answer. And honestly, I think a lot of my connections were pretty spontaneous, but your point kind of enlightened me as to why. Being young you can kind of form those deep bonds quickly and over almost nothing. I think I based all my interactions off those kind of connections when in all actuality it can take time to get close to someone. I guess I could take a chance on people I’m not 110% with
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:22 PM
1

So you’re saying there’s more to it than just having the balls to do it
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:38 PM
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I don’t think he’s saying it is equivalent, I think he’s just saying that if you really wanted something, you would do it despite being afraid
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:14 PM
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Did it ever work?
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:41 PM
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0/2 rip lol
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:09 AM
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0 Moved to a new city, don’t really have many friends that I actually click and feel comfortable enough to go out with
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:16 PM
4

Bro I can’t get laid with any single girl, how am I supposed to do it with multiple?
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:59 PM
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But that’s still part of the catch 22. You can’t get laid, you kind of feel like shit. You feel like shit, you can’t be confident. Repeat
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:04 PM
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I don't think I'm following?
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:24 PM
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I agree, it is a big deal, but I don't think you should worship it like a god. Like sure you have a dick, but your self worth shouldn't be based upon what you plunge it into. There are a lot of great people remembered for great things, and very few of those are for based on what or how they fucked.
/r/seduction08/09/21 07:48 PM
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I think it was a combination of a lot of journaling and soul searching. Like I would just sit there and think, “Why do I feel terrible? Because I feel lonely. Why do I feel lonely? Because I have a hard time making friends. Why do I have a hard time making friends? Because I put a lot of pressure on myself to be a rockstar and liked by everyone. Why do I want to be liked by everyone? Because I think it will help me get laid. Why do I want to get laid so bad? Part of it is because sex is fun, but…
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:47 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:48 AM
2

Free?
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:48 AM
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Bro I can feel the viruses radiating off that link
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:32 AM
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I appreciate the tip about the "let them do the 70% of the talking". I'll keep that in mind. So you think it was your weight loss and skills that made her interest in you?
/r/seduction07/09/21 10:19 PM
1

So what was your secret/what did you start doing?
/r/seduction13/05/21 05:16 PM
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I appreciate the story but I don't know if thats really "Zero to Hero" I think you just kind of stayed on hero lol
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:13 PM
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Its kind of hard to get dates or whatever when you walk up feeling like a bumbling mess at times
/r/seduction28/04/21 08:03 AM
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