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Outer Game creamyturtle/r/seduction07/08/24 01:02 AM
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5

sounds like she started dating someone else
/r/seduction23/05/26 06:25 PM
7

so I was in this situation in college. here's the trick, just ask her out, boldly. like on a date. if she turns you down, fine, but don't give her friendship any more. don't show her you're upset but just be very neutral. and if she asks you what's wrong just say oh I don't like being friends with girls. she doesn't get to have the friendship unless she let's you date her. just like girls withhold sex to try and get male friends, you can withhold friendship in the same way
/r/seduction09/05/26 11:46 AM
5

I've done it with some success. there's a thing called the proximity effect. where the more time you spend with someone the more they will like you. but it requires a lot of effort and charisma to get someone to warm up to you
/r/seduction01/05/26 11:35 AM
3

yeah you always meet a new friend of a friend, or someone at an event or whatever. having a friend vouching for you improves your chances a million percent
/r/seduction07/04/26 10:39 PM
1

yes I actually got my last 2 girlfriends off tinder. but it's really hit or miss, most girls ignore me on there
/r/seduction07/04/26 10:30 PM
3

I meet girls through my friend circle or by going out
/r/seduction07/04/26 10:27 PM
3

me
/r/seduction07/04/26 10:25 PM
26

you have to be secure in yourself and know that your girl likes you more than the idea of taking a flyer on a new guy. you will be able to tell by how she reacts to them. if she is rude and blows them off, if she politely declines their advances and sends them away, or if she half flirts and then later claims she was "just being nice", or maybe she full on entertains them. use those as your guide to what she would do if you weren't there my girl would always act nice but then quickly turn them a…
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:04 PM
30

we knew eachother for years before. honestly I think it's because I was dating her best friend for a while. not sure if she told her I was amazing in bed or what but she started seeing me completely different after that. one night I saw her at a pool hall in town and she basically jumped my bones. and that was that, we started dating it was fun but yeah I literally couldn't take her in public. dudes would push me out of the way to talk to her at bars and I had to constantly run game on her to ke…
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:27 PM
157

demanding, difficult, lots of weird confrontations with aggressive guys hitting on her in public, way too many creepy dm's and guys pursuing her online. oddly when I treated her bad she loved me and when I showed her affection she would think I was weak. pretty girls are all messed up in the head, they live in an alternate reality where everything comes easy and they can be choosy. you feel like a king for landing a super sexy girl like that but the headaches aren't worth it
/r/seduction29/03/26 07:50 PM
674

I mean the point of groups is to make friends, then go out with them, get introduced to girls, etc. you don't just show up at the first hike and try to take a girl home with you. it takes time, you have to build a social circle
/r/seduction16/03/26 04:13 PM
-5

you like tall girls with no boobs who don't shave? that sounds like a man
/r/seduction05/03/26 06:27 AM
2

usually the level of doctor/successful lawyer and above. six figures won't give you enough money or free time to cater to the elite insta thots
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:41 PM
-5

143 pounds? those are some big girls
/r/seduction02/01/26 05:42 PM
-4

yeah or maybe just be yourself
/r/seduction19/12/25 10:10 AM
7

who knew not being fake could pay off
/r/seduction16/11/25 03:47 PM
2

like what? an education, career, or muscles all fall into that category and will help you get girls
/r/seduction15/10/25 01:13 AM
-6

a short king is going to have a very difficult time bagging an instagram model types, and even tougher time holding on to her. top tier girls just have too many options and get propositioned by guys with money, tall dark and handsome athletic types, etc. you would probably have to be famous or have some other magical quality if you want to play in that realm. but yeah, consistent results? sure. you can consistently get with 6s and 7s all day
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:22 PM
11

not great, women rarely act first when the ball is in their court. and a business card is kind of cold and sterile. would be better to have her put her number in your phone
/r/seduction09/10/25 08:36 PM
1

yep
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:55 AM
2

yeah that's what makes it easy, they're not all nervous and uptight. if they reject you it won't feel bad because they will be cool about it. I personally prefer dating black women, and got into a long term relationship with one I pulled out of the strip club of all places. the things she would tell me that her friends and family said they thought about white guys before we dated, it was like I was the boogieman. white guys are liars, they can't be trusted, they have small dicks, all kinds of cr…
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:31 PM
7

bro what are you afraid of? those type of girls are like spiders, they're just as afraid of you as you are of them. they probably never get approached by nerdy white guys. trust me from experience they will react well to you approaching, just go for it
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:21 PM
6

that sounds like a dream come true
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:33 AM
1

this is what happens when stupid people think they're smart
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:54 AM
9

incomprehensible psychobabble
/r/seduction20/09/25 12:57 AM
0

sounds like somebody needs to hit the gym
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:17 PM
0

hi short stuff
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:15 PM
-7

dude he's 5'9
/r/seduction05/09/25 07:54 PM
7

stand by the mirror and flex. then when you catch a woman looking your way, deploy the finger guns and wink at her
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:21 PM
1

I dunno I always feel confident and some people like me some people dont
/r/seduction03/09/25 03:42 AM
3

3 date rule
/r/seduction19/08/25 12:59 PM
3

your rapper journey lmao
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:32 PM
9

just ask her if she wants to watch a movie at your place
/r/seduction09/08/25 03:52 AM
9

there's a very thin line between love and hate. any time a girl shows you a lot of emotion like that, there's a reason. if she wasn't into you on some level she would just ignore you and not waste her energy on you
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:07 PM
4

she probably likes you
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:37 PM
1

bro you're 5 foot 8
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:00 AM
3

I dunno, seems like a loser mentality. I've won over girls that originally wanted nothing to do with me
/r/seduction06/07/25 02:46 AM
1

yeah good luck with that
/r/seduction24/06/25 12:29 PM
1

to insult or undermine someone. and no I'm not watching your stupid video
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:45 AM
-2

just disagree or take a different point of view than them, and josh them for it. negging is lame
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:41 PM
15

bro what
/r/seduction09/06/25 11:47 PM
9

if this actually worked then incels would get girls. you cant just believe your way into being cool and respected by women lol. your frame is how people see you, not how you imagine yourself in your mind. obviously being confident and believing in yourself is important but people dont just magically pick up on that shit just because its in your head, you have to show them
/r/seduction03/06/25 01:54 AM
-1

the 10. you would rather drive a toyota camry than a porsche? make her fall in love and turn her out
/r/seduction25/04/25 09:18 AM
4

like maybe after a kiss where she kisses you back
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:58 PM
1

making new friends will def help you meet women, but it's not super easy. I made new friends by going to language exchange events, UFC watch party meet ups, and hanging out at the casino. with the friends I made there I get invited to lots of parties and am always meeting new girls that are friends of their friends. you just have to be sociable and put yourself out there and you'll get something going
/r/seduction23/03/25 09:31 PM
5

omg a girl looked at you
/r/seduction14/03/25 04:04 AM
8

money doesnt mean jack when it comes to picking up women. only later when youre trying to wife them does it come into play
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:48 PM
11

Ive waited 7 dates before and she ended up being my gf
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:51 PM
0

cheesy advice from a dude trying to sell his ebook
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:00 AM
20

you got some weird ideas about how women work. this might apply to some girls but I've hooked up with many without resorting to these goofy tactics
/r/seduction15/11/24 08:55 PM
11

so your advice is to just be awesome and other people will think you're awesome
/r/seduction23/10/24 10:54 AM
5

no, the guys do all the pursuing at the beginning. the dudes here are very suave and flirty. also the girls are timid and don't really show that they are interested. but yeah, once you are in a relationship with them they smother you lol. super jealous and possessive
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:48 PM
17

I'm a gringo who lives in colombia and I can't say I've seen that behavior here. girls here don't like to be chased if they're not really into you. if they do like you they will show it and not stop. they are much needier and if you show them mixed signals they will get upset, instead of showing more interest like an american girl would anyways, people are people and you can find all types anywhere. these are just generalizations and don't apply to everyone
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:38 PM
288

yes you should act as regarded as possible, women love that
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:02 PM
1

no, run away
/r/seduction01/10/24 01:08 PM
2

add a shirtless pic to your profile
/r/seduction21/09/24 05:07 AM
2

kissing randos is a great way to get herpes simplex 1
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:23 PM
1

money doesn't matter as much as you think it does. women just don't want to date a bum who lives in their mommy's basemenr
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:11 AM
1

sounds like you have some wingmen already. just get out there and shoot your shot my man
/r/seduction08/09/24 12:00 AM
1

wat
/r/seduction07/09/24 08:26 PM
3

so
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:52 PM
1

it sounds like she just wasnt that into you bro
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:51 PM
1

have they literally propositioned you for sex? it doesnt sound like you have much experience dating from tinder honestly
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:38 PM
32

not sure how you came to that conclusion. most girls on tinder want to be wined and dined unless ur a ripped 10 with a ferrari
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:38 PM
1

I am a skinny guy with small muscles and I posted a shirtless pic. my matches went up like 5 fold. just sayin'
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:38 PM
4

whatever she tells you, do the opposite
/r/seduction31/08/24 08:34 PM
1

advice
/r/seduction26/08/24 07:46 PM
-4

women are hypocrites, you fell into the classic trap. they say they want you to open up about your feelings and get close to them but if you do, they'll throw it in your face. she now sees you in a different light and it will be very difficult to change that now that you've opened pandora's box. I would start doing a bunch of manly shit like change her car oil and lift weights and be a stoic asshole for a while. gotta show her that you're a big tough man again and she can feel safe around you lo…
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:25 PM
6

I mean I'm 39 and my girlfriend is 24
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:15 PM
1

you haven't even gone on a date with her yet but u trying to claim her. all you did was eat lunch at work with her a couple times and text her lol. there are no rules at this point, and she doesn't even sound that interested in you. then you hit her with the "what do you want" before you've even kissed her or slept with her. you are a stage 5 clinger my dude
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:23 PM
1

I'm from Miami too. one girl it took me 5 dates before she would let me smash, and another girl 7. (I know I'm a soldier) but these girls were vying for a relationship and were showing me a lot of signs of interest. you really just gotta play it by ear. last week I hooked up with a hot venezuelan girl the same night I met her
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:05 PM
18

city boys up
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:51 PM
5

I included my face. then just enabled the option to let tinder sort my pics for me. no link to socials because I'm not into social media like that
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:35 AM
27

yes true but 7 hours is either a really long ass date or 2-3 regular dates
/r/seduction07/08/24 04:02 AM
197

what do you like to do? it could be anything. adult softball league, biking club, a church, chess club. hell maybe you like to collect pokemon cards or go to cat cafes. whatever it is you can find a group on facebook and go to the meetup events I was new to the city a couple years ago and met a dude on reddit after posting in the city's subreddit. we started watching ufc fights together at the bar and he introduced me to a bunch of people. now I have a whole friend circle from that one friend
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:02 AM
1

whatever that means
/r/seduction03/08/24 07:15 PM
4

borderline racist but I'll accept it
/r/seduction02/08/24 11:22 PM
31

acting distant is better until they show overt signs of attraction. otherwise you look like a pick-me and girls dont want something they already know they can get. they want someone better than them. it's messed up but if you talk down to them and act aloof they will be more interested
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:36 PM
87

I think you need therapy my man. I'm an average looking dude but I have high self confidence from a life of conquering challenges. managing to bang that hot girl, scoring a goal in soccer, making someone laugh, getting a high grade on an exam, landing a high paying job, etc. you have to impress yourself, build yourself up through your own perceived accomplishments. you did that with your looks and you should be proud something weird I would do if I ever felt small or undeserving of another perso…
/r/seduction26/07/24 09:54 AM
-2

just say thanks
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:15 AM
7

I have the opposite problem. women are pretty cold towards me at the beginning but then I can't get rid of them. they fall in love fast and get super crazy. like show up at my house at 3am and bang on the door crazy
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:33 PM
6

start lifting weights and tanning. get a higher paying job. buy new clothes. then start surprising her with random behavior. tell her to get in the car we're going somewhere. refuse to tell her where and make it some place special she's been talking about. then on the way home pull over at a motel 6 and bang her brains out you're welcome
/r/seduction20/07/24 07:24 PM
2

I was at your level and met a colombian girl. after living together for 3-4 years I am basically fluent in spanish now. it was tough at first with a lot of google translate and misunderstandings, but ultimately a very rewarding relationship. I'm sure you can find a girl, but just be prepared to suffer. learning a language is not easy and talking in a foreign anguage all day can be very draining
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:47 PM
3

she dont like you bro
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:48 AM
28

you're 21, you're not gonna have much chance with girls in their late 20's. but if you target actual milf's like 35+ it will be easy work women who are 27 will just remember what it was like being your age. not having money, not being mature, looking young. they won't be able to take you home to their friends and date you seriously because most women want a man older and more mature than them, not the opposite
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:32 PM
1

yeah well they deleted my Guide to Being a Fuckboy last year which everyone loved and it's been all downhill since
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:11 AM
44

I tell this to people all the time. the most important thing is to just get out there and meet people, make new friends. every 1 in X girls are going to be interested in you just because you are you and they are them. no real skill needed, and no "game" necessary. you will come across girls who are dtf just from being in their presence obviously you can up this ratio by having height, muscles, money, nice clothes, whatever, but it's still just a ratio
/r/seduction16/06/24 07:43 PM
5

should have taken her up on her offer. she sounds fun
/r/seduction14/06/24 01:53 PM
1

gee I dunno bro maybe ask her if she has a boyfriend
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:44 PM
4

you're doing fine, just keep going. dating is tricky at first and there's a learning curve. after a few more dates you will be more comfortable and able to be more yourself. just relax and try to have fun and you will find what you're looking for
/r/seduction03/06/24 01:42 AM
1

just say hi my name is blank how are you
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:24 AM
51

what a long ass story to tell us you talked to a girl at the gym for two seconds
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:35 PM
-1

yeah this is most likely
/r/seduction29/05/24 07:54 PM
6

sure, for years I had a bigass mohawk. used to get a lot of attention from 'bad' girls or girls with daddy issues looking to rebel. but would struggle with the more straight edge conformist type women. now I have a regular haircut and it's much less polarizing. I can get with any type of girl now but I notice their attraction is less strong. women love that bad boy type but they dont want to marry one. also it blocks out certain types. now they see me as normal and I can maneuver however I like
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:22 PM
0

no! stop immediately! you're loco man
/r/seduction28/05/24 07:00 PM
24

yes but usually they are bigtime hoes
/r/seduction27/04/24 06:29 AM
13

The Perfect Date
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:04 PM
60

you stole this idea from that movie didn't you
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:58 PM
1

umm just try giving him a bj. oldest trick in the book
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:06 PM
7

god gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. if you're so smart, why don't you try listening to what other people have to say so you can get even smarter. you can't learn from yourself, you already know what you know. maybe eat some humble pie and try to look at yourself from other people's perspectives and I think you will very quickly see what you are doing wrong. clothing isn't going to fix your vibe
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:59 AM
5

why can't it be both?
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:43 PM
13

because op is on vacation, he just wanted a one night stand anyways. it's not like this was going to become a blossoming relationship lol
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:25 PM
35

sounds to me like u missed a chance to bang a super hottie over a few bucks. girlfriends are expensive too. it's not like she was working the corner. she has a regular job and she went out with you like a normal girl
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:45 AM
7

how old are you op?
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:30 PM
11

yeah men don't care. we rank looks as #1, with personality and social status way down the list
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:28 PM
14

confidence is #1
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:20 PM
23

height, money, looks, personality, lifestyle, career choice, clothing, interests, etc
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:16 PM
30

I never said that. girls dont care about looks as much as guys do, but it obviously helps. go to the gym to get healthy and more confident and have more energy. the muscles will come later
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:12 PM
145

lol a month. try 9 months and you might see a difference
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:10 PM
5

I retired in colombia at age 38 and have been cleaning up. I had a great job in america and never had problems getting girls but here it's just way more fun (if u speak spanish). no fat 35 year old chicks with 2 kids talking down to me on tinder anymore. a lot of gringos show up here and think that you get instant status, but it's not like that really. you still have to compete just like anywhere else. it's just a more open and fun dating culture and people here don't care as much about money li…
/r/seduction27/03/24 03:25 AM
1

I don't think girls are going to be as into my lifestyle of playing starcraft, watching detective shows on netflix, and binge drinking with my buddies
/r/seduction20/03/24 07:19 PM
2

I went on a first date last night and before she left she asked me when we should schedule the next one. you just be yourself and have fun and everything else will come
/r/seduction08/03/24 02:15 PM
27

in college psychology class we learned there are 5 different relationship types. including exchange theory, where one person is poor and good looking while the other is rich and ugly. one type is best friends. one is based on common interests and backgrounds. I forget the others. maybe opposites attract
/r/seduction19/02/24 08:15 PM
21

she doesn't like you bro
/r/seduction12/02/24 04:24 PM
3

maybe just keep using the apps but actually date them instead of just smashing hotties, and you can weed out the weirdos
/r/seduction27/01/24 04:39 PM
8

man I have the exact opposite problem
/r/seduction27/01/24 04:34 PM
24

how do you lick your licks
/r/seduction23/05/23 12:54 AM
105

you forgot working on your career and getting money
/r/seduction03/05/23 11:10 PM
5

yeah... try putting a shirtless pic on there. that's what worked for me
/r/seduction21/04/23 03:19 AM
142

all you have to do is go on a few dates with girls from tinder and you will quickly realize how many of them suck. they might be cute or whatever but a lot of girls have crap personalities, zero ambition, or can't even hold a conversation. once you realize that, it does become like "what can you do for me" type of dynamic and you won't feel so desperate to impress them
/r/seduction20/04/23 05:50 PM
-2

TLDR. giselle is tired of tom banging instagram thots at away games while shes at home with the kids
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:18 AM
2

make her wonder what youre doing. be coy and vague with your answers. LEAVE HER ON READ.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:50 PM
1

if you ghost her she might be interested in you again
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:35 AM
16

you write her a message that says hey weirdo why are u ghosting me
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:26 PM
3

what's a goon to a goblin
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:47 PM
17

god damnit why is life like that? I was buying a vape yesterday and had this girl laughing her ass off at the vape store. because I didn't think she was hot so I didn't care. she handed me the vape and I pretended to run out of the store lol. I never would have done that if I was stunned by some hottie working there. the human brain is so twisted. it's like u don't deserve these hot bitches so we gonna be intimidated by them. fuck that u gotta overcome yourself and be the fucking man. only if yo…
/r/seduction11/10/22 08:12 PM
4

I actually started doing this because girls were giving me weird feedback in public. I think I have resting bitch face which scares them lol. so anyways the first girl I try it on is standing talking with her mom, we make eye contact and I give her the closed mouth smile. she winks at me and smiles! this shit works fellas
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:00 PM
1

you need some kind of neutral person who borderline hates you lol. like your sister or cousin or super close girl friend who doesn't want to date you
/r/seduction06/10/22 08:27 PM
2

I think your best bet is just ask a neutral woman how they see you
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:34 PM
5

well you're gonna be stuck in simp mode if you continue this friendship. constantly waiting and hoping she gives you a piece. I personally would be like oh really? okay then and stop talking to her altogether. let her know that your friendship is conditional
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:43 PM
1

any planned line is going to go badly. just start saying whatever is on your mind. hi whats your name. where are you from. do you go to school here blah blah
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:08 PM
3

that sucks. I never give up hope lol. I knew this super hot babe in college who rejected me for like 4 years. I got tired of her being in my friend circle and just started ignoring her and talking down to her when i'd see her. took about two weeks and this girl went nuts, started texting me asking me to hang out. I kept ignoring her and being cold lol because I was still sick of her ass. so one night I see her at the bar, we start playing pool and she basically jumps me. we get a cab back to my …
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:53 PM
-2

yes, this works good too. when you ignore a girl or talk down to her, they start getting curious about you. because previously they thought your value was below theirs. you may have a chance again with this girl if you play it right and reframe
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:43 PM
4

I don't know, have you tried talking to them?
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:46 PM
-4

not that fun lol. girls are annoying
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:46 PM
10

girls love having guy friends they can string along. they don't know how to make actual friends with people, so they just keep giving men a little bit of hope that one day they might be able to smash. meanwhile sucking the life out of them for ten years
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:53 PM
1

maybe you just haven't dated many girls. you know they will tell you if you're good or not right
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:59 PM
2

bro you called her "lady"... women hate that word
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:22 PM
1

I got into a funny pissing match with a girl at a college party one time. we were on the porch talking and kept making playful jibes at each other. it was escalating to a creschendo like a battle rap in front of a few people and just when I thought we were either gonna bang or fight each other, she tells me she's a lesbian. probably the coolest and funniest girl I have ever talked to, and she's off the market
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:59 AM
0

...most girls are terrible
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:17 AM
0

you should go to latin america. there, when girls shut you down they do it with a smile. they take your advances as compliments and will let you down gently. its like a fun little game. here in USA u will get the stank eye just approaching a girl. the "what do you want" attitude, like they assume ur already in love with them before u even say hi. pretty sad
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:28 PM
2

because women's brains are programmed wrong. they want to be with the alpha, and the experience of dating the alpha is being talked down to. so when a man mistreats them, they stupidly assume he is a strong alpha male. their brain thinks, he must be better than me because he treats me like dirt. as soon as you are nice to them or show them love, they think you're a bitch and move on this is pretty much how all the hot girls' brains operate. girls lower on the spectrum don't do this shit, they're…
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:35 PM
23

so you have the perfect situation where u get regular sex, she's exclusive to you, and you don't have to do any of the corny boyfriend shit like listen to her problems, take her out, or buy her flowers... and you're unhappy?
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:09 AM
3

yeah kind of weird considering she gave him her number, texted him, and also hugged him. women do one thing and say another. crazy concept I know
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:26 PM
3

girls are weird, they want what they cant have. your enthusiasm probably made you look desperate, especially with the prompt texts. next time act aloof and try to ask her questions instead of talking. get her number then ignore her for a day or two, that drives girls crazy
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:33 PM
13

I used to date this girl who was like a 9 in real life, half japanese half white. but on facebook she looks like a 6 or 7. it was the weirdest thing, like the camera just hates her. but take her in public and I had to fend off guys with a stick who try to hit on her in front of me
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:50 AM
0

why would you want to be friends with a girl though? they are the worst
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:14 PM
8

its fun doing this and then 5 mins have gone by and the girl realizes she hasnt asked you a single question about yourself. great way to stay misterious and make her like you
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:53 PM
1

just tell her your truck is in the shop and scoop her up in an uber. maybe get an uber xl if you want to be fancy
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:51 PM
30

just ask your friend for her number already. she's clearly interested
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:28 PM
7

I think you're on to something. the abundant mindset comes from knowing that you CAN get pretty hot women to sleep with you. so despite not having 2 or 3 options on tap right this moment, you know that with a little effort you can receive validation again. once you've been validated a half dozen times the self esteem boost is permanent
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:01 PM
1

actually I started lying about my age because Im 37 but look 27
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:18 PM
1

I think you should have kept making it really awkward until she spoke first. she saw your confrontation coming a mile away and it probably felt good for her to resolve it. next time go full weirdo and ignore her until she's forced to wait on you and even then just place your order and don't make any facial expressions. the suspense will eat her alive, and that coffee shop will be yours again
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:31 PM
1

orgies, not common at all. if you want to get laid, you gotta be that guy that stays up super late talking shit and getting wasted with random ppl. or join a club
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:59 PM
1

brilliant, going to use this
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:21 PM
-2

If I was you I would work on hitting on ugly girls first. they're easy to talk to and love attention. then once you've bagged an ugly girl, you upgrade slightly to a mediocre girl. keep building your confidence. once you have a mediocre girl eating out of the palm of your hand, then try your skills with the hotties
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:07 AM
1

women are super weird. have you ever noticed they wear clothes to impress other women, and not men? they will literally change out of an outfit that guys think is hot into a frilly stupid lace outfit that women like. or wear underwear that is not sexy but they think is sexy
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:01 PM
1

my friend has this pretty hot gf he met on tinder. I was on a boat with them and asked her how they met. she said he looked like a total douche on tinder. mind you, this guy works out every day, is an attorney, has a fancy highrise apartment, and dresses well. I never got an explanation out of her but I don't see how she wasn't attracted to him
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:59 AM
6

I had a gf in highschool teach me and I've tried out all her tricks on other women and they worked fantastically. I think your bf's brain is broken, he's just not receptive in the right way to the info you're providing. it should only take 2-3 sessions to get the fundamentals down pat
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:05 PM
2

"I never do this"
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:54 AM
1

well, you could ask
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:40 PM
5

lmao in highschool this girl who sat behind me in spanish class used to ask to borrow my sweatshirt. she would wear it all day long like 3x a week, and the whole school saw it. my dumbass never asked her out
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:01 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:22 PM
1

Napolean?
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:30 PM
54

I would date hot girls and as soon as Im nice to them they split. its retarded
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:54 PM
7

"I don't know how true this is" proceeds to give opinion anyways
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:00 PM
1

you found me?
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:14 PM
3

some girls never message first, its just how they are. you said she bought you stuff so she is thinking about you. I say just play it by ear and see how it goes. a hooters waittress gets a lot of attention so it comes with the territory. personally I would never date a girl that has guy friends but hey
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:46 PM
7

if she's really a 10 she'll be gone by the time u get back
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:43 PM
14

my friend hooked up with our other friend's long term girlfriend in college. our friend group was a bit shocked. they started dating and it has been 15 years now, they have two kids happily married. so idk anymore
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:32 PM
2

self deprecating humor works if you are super successful or famous or whatever, where you have to try and downplay yourself. but for the average joe, it helps to act a tad cocky. if you think you are awesome, other people will too because they will assume there is a reason you act that way. it's retarded but it works
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:50 PM
-1

idk I've gotten some of the hottest girls by ignoring them. they have a phone full of simps who reply at every instant. if she wants to brag, maybe don't even read it so she doesn't get the 'read' check. this will make her wonder what you are doing
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:50 PM
41

that's a shit test. she wants to see if you would be willing to do fancy shit to impress her too. or see if telling u about this stuff makes u jealous. typical woman power move, don't take the bait best move would be leave her on read. second best move just write "sweet". third best move say "okay?". but only write that if u have some kind of semi exclusive relationship already
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:43 PM
4

she was trying to bang obvi. man you are slow
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:00 PM
2

same goes with being rich. they will find a way to consider you attractive
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:08 PM
0

USA
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:43 PM
2

cool but women's brains don't really work like that. for example, try to ask a girl to come over for sex. they will say eww no. but if you ask them to come over and watch a movie, they will watch for 5 minutes then have sex with you. they need a plausible reason in their mind to not feel like a slut, like oh it just happened same goes with selling them a prince charming story. they know you are lying but they want to believe the lie
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:58 PM
4

don't you know the game? they want you to lie and say you're looking for your soulmate
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:53 PM
3

you sound like you're 16 and your gf wears the pants in your relationship. if you cant get her to respect you, then leave
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:36 AM
2

no worries
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:15 PM
1

are you two people? I was responding to the weird guy who said black girls only want his money, but he's never dated one
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:30 PM
5

yeah I don't think you've ever dated a black girl before. either that or you were getting finessed by one
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:45 PM
30

I like that. u tell me im not gettin laid tonight, okay then we going to burger king instead of that fancy place I had picked out
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:07 PM
-2

I agree with this 100%
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:05 PM
2

that's the thing, this really only happens in certain countries. if you go to eastern europe, south america, or asia, women aren't put on a pedestal and you don't have to play all your cards right to get the girl to like you. just show up and be normal in those countries you can be a mediocre dude and get a lot of attention just like the mediocre girls do in our countries
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:43 PM
1

America sucks. we have a bunch of 4's parading around like they're 9's because 284 simps on Tinder told them they're beautiful. even an above average guy has to struggle to compete against the constant barrage of attention any decent female gets here
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:32 PM
52

I read the story but couldn't find the part where you ignored her. you complimented her, gave her your number, agreed to a meet up, and danced with her....
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:23 AM
1

I think you're doing it right. I dated a black girl who had never dated a white guy before and these thoughts always crossed my mind. but she loved me and it was never an issue. women care if u make them happy, and make them cum. everything else is bullshit. Im sure u have other qualities that make up for it in spades
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:39 AM
0

I have this same problem. the trick is to try and smile with your eyes. it sounds retarded but just try it. a mouth smile looks disingenous when your eyes look serious
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:14 AM
2

next time just get her off with your hand and request a bj in return. women like that are sketchhhh
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:07 AM
5

do women like feminine men?
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:04 PM
6

sorry that did sound a bit creepy
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:53 AM
-7

you sound awesome, like a breath of fresh air. sounds like these little boys don't know how to talk to an actual woman who isnt pretending
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:09 AM
1

yeah basically the only way to get her back is to make her jealous. but she already knows you so she doesn't care lol. that's why the only way is to change yourself
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:39 AM
3

https://m.imgur.com/kt8gA
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:38 AM
3

well you can easily bang a stripper for $150 in the champagne room and it's a lot less risky than some backpage hoor
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:33 PM
13

yes I think it's a great idea. another idea that's a bit safer is just go hang out at some strip clubs and get used to being around hot naked women, having them dance for you, etc. all they do is talk to you the whole time, so it's great practice
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:24 PM
1

yes. just whisper something in his ear like, do you want to go upstairs
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:20 PM
2

pretty true. I used to know a girl who was in our friend group for years, we basically friendzoned each other because we knew eachother so long. I would go to her house and watch Sopranos sometimes. well one day I decided to get up off the couch, sit down next to her, and just started making out with her lol. she kissed me back briefly, and I went and sat back on the other couch. the show finishes and she says, you can stay here tonight but not in my bed. I was like okay and went to bed. the nex…
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:25 PM
8

okay now the story makes more sense
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:51 PM
9

bro don't listen to all these negative comments. girls have a hard time turning away interest in public, they're emotional creatures. dude swooped in when u were in the bathroom, don't stress. she's obviously still interested in you so just play it cool and don't let it get to you. you should go find another girl to talk to, because she's obviously keeping her options open as well. just think to yourself if she would be happier with u than that guy she barely knows, maybe u should fight for her …
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:22 PM
13

actually not true at all. all you have to do is pipe one of the girls pretty decent and she will tell all the rest. they will be waiting to jump your bones when she turns her back. they will make funny little comments to let you know
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:17 PM
9

yeah I get the drunken cheating, but what's with the 2am snap? she was probably resenting op for trying to wife her up, hence the "I just wanna have fun" comment. so she purposely cheated on him to force the breakup. like she wanted out of their arrangement but didnt have the balls to do it or any other boy to take her in. she found both of those in one night
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:18 PM
1

yeah she says that until some rich dude comes along
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:00 AM
2

just know that for every beautiful woman, there's a man out there who's sick of her shit
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:23 PM
1

yeah great idea, buy at the peak of a 20 year market run up when interest rates suck. this is the worst time to buy ever. not sure where you got the no tax thing from. you don't have to pay tax on appreciation, but you do on any rental profits. plus if you get appreciation, your property tax will go up real quick when you get 250k you can do whatever you want with it. colombia is not a socialist country lol they're not going to take my property. I've been to all the major latin countries for my …
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:20 AM
0

well there's a lot of those chads nowadays. youtubers, family money, crypto, etc. especially here in south florida. those are the guys dating the 10's. people with their own businesses and real freedom it's not very sexy to have a 9-5 if your girl is making 10k a month off instagram. they look at you like I did it, why can't you do it? they don't just sit around waiting for you get home from the hospital lol while 50 dudes proposition them online maybe your doctor friends are happy. my friend's …
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:16 PM
4

it's not about giving up, it's more like operating in a better market. for example when I lived in Minnesota the best I could date was like 6's and 7's. the average girl there just isn't that hot, so the good ones are taken. then when I came to south florida it is much easier to date 8's and 9's without even trying, because the average girl here is much hotter. colombia is just the extreme of that example, where you can take an average white guy and get a smoking hot colombian girl
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:02 PM
-5

I'm not striking out, I'm talking about keeping super high value women around. they'll date me but I can't take them to the bahamas on a tuesday so things fade out. you might be dating some good looking women, but I'm talking about 9's and 10's. show me a pic of your girlfriend and I'll tell you how good you're doing
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:00 PM
27

men promise women commitment to get sex, women give men sex in the hopes of commitment
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:58 PM
8

man this is why I'm moving to Colombia. I am 6'2'' good looking and make six figures but really hot girls aren't that interested in me. they have their pick from actual millionaires or doctors/lawyers making 200k+. over in Colombia I will be in the top 1% of the dating pool just because I'm tall and white
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:56 PM
2

my guess is he is good in the sack
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:24 PM
2

my friend used to say that to every single girl in college. I've watched dozens of girls react to the same line in one night. it's hilarious, about 80% straight up fall for it, look down at their shoes, blush, and then tell you some story about where they bought them, or how they match their dress. you get bonus points if you take notice of something that matches on their outfit, it's easy work. bitches love compliments, and they put a lot of thought into what they are wearing so if you take not…
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:45 PM
2

just make up some dumbass shit like hey do you know which way is the antie annes pretzels? or the classic, hey I like your shoes
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:41 PM
6

https://i.redd.it/rohfvqd20dr71.jpg
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:37 PM
2

those are employees. they work at the mall
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:34 PM
1

translation: she can't keep a man interested because she gets hit on constantly in front of them
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:13 AM
0

be rich and handsome
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:56 PM
2

what's your job?
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:46 PM
14

100%. when you work a mentally demanding job, it drains your soul. you don't feel like going out or being energetic, and your brain is full of crap from work to think about. so it's hard to just turn that switch off and go be mr. cool guy for a few hours. then when you bring a girl home and do all the fun stuff, you still gotta wake up at 7am and get back out there. it's hard to have a spontaneous late night adventure with work in the morning
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:59 PM
1

this one is right up there with women saying they prefer "nice guys"
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:13 PM
9

that was brilliant. I think I saw my life flash before my eyes reading your post
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:01 PM
16

yeah man I always wanted to have a girl I could 'take care of' but once you get it, it sucks. you become the decider in the relationship and have to empty your bank to support this person, and then they just resent you for it. independent women is where it's at
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:58 PM
3

this is very similar to the story of Jameis Winston, the quarterback for FSU. they crucified him in the press but he was innocent, even had witnesses
/r/seduction08/04/22 11:54 AM
2

No, not really. I don't approach girls unless I've already received some type of signal. Furtive glances, eye contact, coming closer to me, etc. Then I'm batting like 90%
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:25 PM
18

this is good advice but you're going about it the wrong way. never send the dreaded "ok then, you text me when you want to do something". that screams desperation and is an open door policy. women want what they can't have, not what is constantly available. the best way to motivate a flaky girl is to ignore them. never text them first and if they text you, don't reply. you can reply the next day with some lame excuse if you want, but don't start a convo. give her the same type of treatment she w…
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:40 PM
-6

this is how most women are. really awesome when u first meet them, bubbly and beautiful. then you start to hear them talk, or see how they live. and your opinion of them slowly starts fading. meanwhile women have the opposite experience. they meet u and think ur pretty cool, then start meeting your cool friends, or seeing your goals, or maybe you just lay the pipe really well. so her opinion of you slowly grows, because men are interesting and women are boring. they tell boring ass stories, they…
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:47 PM
6

bingo. have u ever been seeing a girl and invited her over for sex? they will say gosh no! Im not like that! but if you invite them over to watch a movie, they will have sex with you
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:41 AM
16

In these moments you have to dig deep and find some self esteem. take this scenario to it's worst conclusion--he gets her number and she eventually leaves you for him. even if this happens, you need to look at the situation and laugh, and say "her loss". you should literally know in your mind that any girl that leaves you is a dumbass, because you are the shit. if she takes off with this guy then she's a moron and never deserved your attention in the first place I would have got back in the car …
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:39 PM
2

totally possible. I've converted a couple strippers into housewives and it's just like you say: when you feel the vibe forming, just start inviting them to regular people stuff. you will see they are hella regular degular just like everybody else and proceed from there
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:00 PM
4

yes she was offended. some girls take that shit super personally, others don't care at all. idk
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:07 PM
5

....and get a bunch of skeezy messages from men to boost her self esteem
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:07 PM
1

the second part. once I actually get them, I want them gone
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:18 PM
1

try to get him to do something fun with you that doesn't involve hanging out at your apartment. if he goes for that, he probably likes you
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:31 PM
112

are you going to tell us the lines or just brag?
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:36 PM
1

the word is aloof. just act slightly aloof but not a cocky douchebag and girls will wonder to themselves, "why does this guy think he's so great? he must be confident for a reason. he probably has a lot going for him"
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:57 AM
4

I actually met this woman before, we were bantering back and forth on the front porch of a college party. it was getting pretty intense because we kept one upping each other with snarky comments. we were cracking each other up. so a small group formed around us, giggling. then right when it was reaching a crescendo.... she informs me she's a lesbian. it's 15 years later and I haven't met a girl that cool since
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:56 PM
0

I can't imagine being best friends with a girl, for that reason
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:15 PM
94

I guess playing hard to get isn't dead. it just doesn't work any more
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:32 PM
17

because girls care more about attention than they do sex. you are having an 'emotional affair' with these other girls lol
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:29 PM
2

all is not lost, just send her a text!
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:52 PM
1

the way to handle this question is answer it "of course not", like they are the weird one for needing instagram to validate another human being. act like instagram is for children like tiktok. I've never had an instagram and never had any problem
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:28 PM
2

my guess is she has another guy she is seeing regularly, and feels conflicted
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:47 PM
3

I would suggest getting an easy part time job a couple days a week at a social place like a restaurant, bar, etc. you will make some male friends you can hang out with and eventually some female friends
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:30 PM
257

wow another girl with a boyfriend who accepts advances from strange men. why is this okay
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:41 PM
5

not really. they're attracted to us because we are tall and white, and in their culture those are status symbols. when I was walking around Medellin women would stop and point me out, give me mad eye contact, try to talk to me at mcdonalds, lol
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:20 PM
0

never tell a girl you like her. just act aloof and dont laugh at their jokes. dont reply to texts. in a week or two they will be begging for it
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:53 PM
43

yeah I learned this the hard way in college. I used to have a mohawk and random people would come up to me constantly with a compliment or comment. one time this black lady at the gas station told me she liked my hair, so I told her I liked her hair too. well her hair was a pink wig/weave lol. so she got super upset. I was just trying to be nice. the best way is to just thank them calmly for the compliment
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:24 PM
4

this whole post was instructions on how to do just that
/r/seduction25/12/21 02:46 AM
2

are they dating steady? if not, I think you're in the clear
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:32 PM
-1

I had a girl like this in our friend circle in college, she always had a bf so I never tried anything. Then they broke up and some time went by we started talking. Whenever I would start asking her out she would go cold and distant. So eventually I just stopped talking to her, ignoring her texts, etc. This went on for like 2-3 weeks before she snapped and asked me on a date. smashed that night To clarify: my advice for getting hot girls is to treat them badly. they are used to men fawning over t…
/r/seduction20/12/21 01:02 PM
1

sounds like a money/status thing. once girls figure you out, they have to know that you are better than their other options or they will leave
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:00 PM
0

hit the gym, find a way to make 6 figures, and buy some new clothes. then girls will show you with eye contact that they're truly interested. that's when you capitalize. you chased 200+ cold leads, what you need is a warm lead. start going out with groups of friends and meet their friends, this way they've already vouched for you and the girls are open to talking
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:01 PM
35

kind of ignores how the women are already super attracted to him. so he can do any behavior and they would still want to smash edit: Chad in the skit, not Pete
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:41 PM
1

go to strip club. 2. get a few lap dances. 3. inquire about the champagne room 4. have fun
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:51 PM
3

she doesn't want to seriously date you and now that you've played your cards she know she can have you. women want what they can't have. if she texts you ignore her. it's the only way to get her back
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:49 PM
14

next time ask the girl to write her number down for you. when left open-ended like that, most girls won't make the first move
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:23 PM
10

there's usually jealousy in a threesome, but nobody will admit it
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:31 PM
1

find a fat girl
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:49 PM
6

ignore her. girls want what they can't have
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:23 PM
1

I use this strategy, I don't just cold approach every random girl I meet. you enter a room and take note of who notices you. you will feel their eyes in the back of your head. once you have this feeling, then it's time to take action. it's like a warm lead vs. a cold lead. let the girl see you and get comfortable with your presence first
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:53 PM
1

everyone's telling you to dump her but I wouldn't be so drastic. you've only been dating a few weeks. if your game is strong she will fall in love with you and forget this dude. he lives in another country, so if she takes a trip you already know what's up. but until then... work your magic
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:22 AM
2

why would u want to be friends with a girl? either try to date her or ditch her
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:32 PM
1

she likes you, she just doesn't know if ur the one. so just be cool and slightly aloof and she will come to u. stop trying to make her ur gf and she will become ur gf
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:03 PM
99

so easy when u have a cadillac escalade
/r/seduction23/08/21 12:07 AM
2

this is the best way to be. you practice your game on the ones you arent interested in. and being standoffish to high value females is the only way to get their attention unfortunately
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:16 PM
2

well if she sent paragraphs, maybe she is legit and actually feels indebted to you. get her a walmart battery and swap that shit, then act like you DONT want to smash. she will def let you hit it
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:48 PM
2

well if she sent paragraphs, maybe she is legit and actually feels indebted to you. get her a walmart battery and swap that shit, then act like you DONT want to smash. she will def let you hit it
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:48 PM
0

well if she sent paragraphs, maybe she is legit and actually feels indebted to you. get her a walmart battery and swap that shit, then act like you DONT want to smash. she will def let you hit it
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:48 PM
1

by kicking them out in the morning
/r/seduction22/07/21 02:31 AM
2

sometimes it's better when they say no and you still win them over. good job my dude
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:49 AM
1

try to make her laugh
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:36 AM
2

time to learn some spanish! I have a colombian gf and she doesn't speak a lick of english. never would have met her if I didn't practice spanish all those years
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:16 PM
-2

she's probably a nightmare. she's not 18 years old, so to have those bad habits at that age means it probably won't change. she loves hearing herself talk more than getting to know you. I think this is red flag territory. she is accustomed to getting away with it because she's beautiful, and this has only reinforced her bad personality. maybe try a second date but I wouldn't get your hopes up. when people show you who they are--believe them
/r/seduction18/06/21 08:05 PM
7

this has been happening to me and the girl at the vape store. we flirt but I can tell she is unsure of herself because she can't see what I look like. so one day I ask her if I have to wear the mask, and we realize we are both vaccinated. now things are escalating when I go in there every time, too bad I have a gf already lol
/r/seduction03/06/21 04:42 PM
8

yeah man this is my life. I am 6'2" decently handsome dude with a high paying career and I always do well with new girls I meet in person. online I can't even get fat girls to talk to me
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:10 PM
10

if she pulls anything, you know where she lives. I seriously doubt anything strange is going to happen, you sound paranoid
/r/seduction01/01/21 02:02 PM
1

idk, I have the same problem personally. my friend who gets laid a lot will tell girls crazy answers, like they ask him what he does for a living and he tells them "astronaut" with a straight face. they laugh and then the conversation moves on. he never gets into serious convos with them and never let's them "shit test" him. because questions are shit tests that girls use to judge us. they want to know what your job is so they can peg you as a certain type of person. if you keep everything open-…
/r/seduction08/12/20 09:43 PM
1

my guess is you are probably getting too serious with personal questions and answers. a lot of girls like mystery. after they know all about you on the first date sometimes it can get boring for them. try to keep the date light and fun and dont spend so much time talking about careers and education and families and all that shit. try to get her in bed, not make her your life partner and see how it goes
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:20 PM
2

good idea, I'm going to try that
/r/seduction29/06/20 02:13 PM
4

man what am I supposed to do when everyone at work always wants to stop and talk to me but I have a ton of shit to do and I'm just trying to go down the hall to go to the bathroom? If I greet them enthusiastically I will get trapped in a 5 minute convo about how their family is doing, and they will love me. but if I give them the 'sup' I can go on about my day
/r/seduction29/06/20 04:13 AM
40

now that's a straight up hustle
/r/seduction29/06/20 04:08 AM
33

girls are bad at showing they like people. so if you heard it thru the grapevine it's probably true
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:33 AM
8

brilliant and well put
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:36 AM
8

but theyre hot tho
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:10 PM
2

well he's in a position of power being the host and all he has to do is think of slick innuendos or double entendres to get the girls to laugh. humor is mad sexy to women and so is power
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:23 PM
5

and your post really contributed quality content to this sub
/r/seduction03/05/20 05:42 PM
11

yeah a lot of hot women think if you don't have instagram you are some kind of weirdo. like I have to maintain this fake ass profile just so girls can validate me in some way. what happened to actually being a cool person
/r/seduction01/05/20 12:10 PM
4

I guess everyone on this sub was dating supermodels in highschool, geez. sorry if it sounded crude how I typed it; I didn't mean that you should literally "use" these people, just that you should date in your league until you gain more confidence. hell, maybe this guy will fall in love with one of these girls along the way, who knows. but trying to start out with upper-league women when he has very little dating experience is going to be a bad experience, as op has already discovered
/r/seduction30/04/20 10:45 AM
-48

well you kinda can.. here's the plan. step 1, date a fat chick. step 2, date a less fat chick. step 3, date a couple decently hot girls. step 4, date a hot girl. you use the other women to build your confidence and test your skills. once you bag the hottie then you know you are the man
/r/seduction30/04/20 01:56 AM
0

all you have to do is try new things and pay attention to the girl's reaction. if she is making good noises, keep doing that. if she's not, try new things. keep going until you have a roadmap. every girl is different unfortunately, but some of the same tricks work on (almost) every girl
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:37 PM
1

are u using a condom? condoms sometimes have that effect
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:46 AM
1

my gf hates my dog. hmmm
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:13 PM
24

yes, leagues exist. if you're a 300lb fat guy you will probably have no shot with top tier women, no matter how good your game is. same goes for height, and other things. maybe you can bang a hot girl but good luck wifing her without a good career
/r/seduction22/04/20 02:20 PM
0

women are stupid, remember that
/r/seduction10/01/20 08:15 PM
1

I have been dating a colombian girl for over a year who speaks ZERO english. my spanish was okay before we met and now it's pretty darn good but I still feel retarded and can't say things how I really want to. it works but it's different than other relationships I'e had. like other people mentioned, the cultural divide is more important than language itself. she is tough to deal with at home and unbending in her cultural views, but she expects me to bend for her family and culture. It can be fun…
/r/seduction03/01/20 04:11 PM
86

well stop caring so much. women are just people, even the hot ones. you don't need to put them on a pedestal, just start thinking about what YOU want from these women and stop worrying about what they're thinking. not everything is a game unless you make it one
/r/seduction30/12/19 06:51 PM
2

bitches love attention
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:34 PM
1

oh my god a single text message, how painful
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:45 PM
0

it's purely a 'hail mary' strategy. she's already not responding so you have nothing to lose. if you keep yourself as the "hey are you there?" guy, she stays bored. at least if you taunt her you demonstrate your own value and make her question her own thought process. like damn maybe this guy is more awesome than I thought. you gotta ask yourself, what would a high value male do? a high value male would be confused by this dumb girl blowing him off
/r/seduction28/09/19 01:35 AM
4

coulda been a shit test but maybe not. hands are pretty dirty. sounds like she got a yeast infection before lol
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:12 AM
-4

the only way to combat a distant girl is to be MORE distant. send her one last text taunting her like hey I thought we had a good time but I guess not, your loss weirdo. and then ignore any replies from her for at least a week
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:11 AM
-5

don't give women the reward of intimacy (friendship) if they wont let you smash. I heard a comedian say it once, like if me and Joe are friends, Joe would let me use his playstation. so if a girl is really your friend she would let you hit it
/r/seduction20/09/19 05:39 PM
2

start peacocking? idk
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:00 AM
1

I remember in college I would pull hot girls and start dating them and then they would dump me a couple weeks later when they realized I was broke and drove an old cadillac. now girls want me for my money and I can't tell which is worse
/r/seduction07/09/19 11:59 PM
5

practice on ugly girls first
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:03 PM
1

ignore ignore ignore and act aloof af. dont let her put u in the friend zone
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:47 PM
4

bitches love being challenged
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:18 AM
1

this works on regular girls but not on hot chicks.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:21 AM
1

my gf is colombian and she is the queen of shit tests. last week I texted her "thinking of you" while she was working a night shift. she replies back "and what about that?" lmao like calm down detective colombo I'm just trying to say something sweet. I blew her off cuz there's no right answer to a woman's rhetorical question like that, she was just trying to alpha me. the trick is if u cant think of something slick to reply, leave 'em on 'read' and watch them freak out when u wont participate in…
/r/seduction20/08/19 04:27 AM
1

that's still letting her dominate you with the insult, and going along with it. I think it's better to blow her off completely as if this was a strange thing to say, or to flip it on her in some way. like wow you think Im short, how superficial are you? I thought you were a sweetheart but I guess not. or.. do you get a lot of men with that line? cause its not working
/r/seduction20/08/19 04:18 AM
5

I think you texted too much without escalating and now she's bored. try ignoring her until she texts u first and then ignore that too. let a day go by and text her something unrelated. let her wonder about you and let the mystique build again. she knows you too well and you need to send more mixed signals to show you have value. remember, girls want what they can't have
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:35 PM
4

yeah I go in with the premise that all people are pretty lame until they prove themselves. so what if you're hot? do you have anything interesting to say? do you have an interesting life? you will find real quick that usually the hot ones dont have much going for them. they never had to develop their career or social skills because everyone is always kissing their ass. talk to them like a normal person and you're in there like swimwear. my favorite is going up to them at a bar and asking to use …
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:16 AM
2

just remember, she's freaking 5'10''
/r/seduction17/07/19 07:07 PM
-4

that's every girl. strap in, you're in for a long ride
/r/seduction30/06/19 11:15 AM
1

well it depends on the girl but my trick is this. if you don't like eating them out (I don't), then all you gotta do is put your weiner inside but don't really start thrusting. just chill up in there and start playing with her clit. if you massage the clit correctly you will feel her tensing up on you as she gets closer to orgasm. just keep the steady rhythm and here come the waterworks. then she's gonna beg for you to ram her lol ezpz some females you can make cum just by fingering them while m…
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:20 PM
2

you gotta make them cum.
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:16 PM
11

k I left her on "read"
/r/seduction27/06/19 01:49 PM
2

my bitchy ex gf just hit me with the "why did you unblock me if I'm such a bitch?". trying to think of a clever response to this test, any suggestions?
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:37 AM
1

in the movie Tony Montana was a cuban immigrant who started out with nothing, washing dishes. if he can make it you can too
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:05 PM
3

as the famous quote from Scarface goes... "first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the woman" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ7HZATMKBY
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:17 PM
0

key #1 to keeping girls around--make them cum. if you don't make them cum (a lot), they will find another man who will. she probably likes a lot of things about you but thinks there is no sexual connection. try to text her at 2am next weekend and slide in there for one last chance. if you lay the pipe good she will be yours forever my man
/r/seduction29/04/19 06:10 PM
54

yeah, if she's hanging out with other dudes, when she's your girl she's gonna hang out with other dudes too
/r/seduction28/04/19 11:32 AM
1

ok but then what is your social value
/r/seduction16/04/19 03:14 PM
4

do the naked man
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:01 AM
122

one thing I could mention is the trick my roommate taught me back in college. he would use it to get girls to give him head. basically once you have the girl in your bedroom, just keep playing with her clit (on the outside of her pants, inside, whatever) until the girl demands you fuck her (or starts blowing you). you have to think that she already let you get that far, so she obviously intends to go further, she just wasn't energized enough. touch her spot and she will be consumed with motivati…
/r/seduction29/03/19 03:35 PM
3

sometimes people become bitter when they have tried to solve their problems for a long time and simply cannot
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:19 PM
7

learned this the hard way this year. was living with a new girlfriend and going through some extreme stress at work during the same time. I became bitter about life and would bitch and complain constantly. yeah she left me lol trying to win her back now
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:18 PM
1

it was very strange she started texting and calling my phone out of the blue. I still didn't think she was interested in me like that so I just gave her one word answers and blew her off for like another week. finally I decided to invite her to this bar out the blue at night. we shot some pool and then it was on like donkey kong this was when I was like 21 in college. this girl was half japanese and looked like a model. she always had a boyfriend for the 3 years I knew her, this must have been a…
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:33 AM
1

Z will probably tell A, don't worry
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:54 PM
3

I've done this before, I was pursuing a girl (easy 10) in our group casually for a couple years but she always ignored me. So I got fed up and just started ignoring her back. This girl built up a huge attraction towards me and we banged many times. But after a while she realized I wasn't a high caliber dude and she let me go. Moral of the story? Be prepared to actually be a cool person and offer her something unique to keep her interested. Being distant and aloof will only work for so long
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:52 PM
2

yeah I would resort to that if I was unable to gauge their interest
/r/seduction07/02/19 12:26 PM
7

my ex girlfriend got my number by asking my friend for it, then just started texting me asking if we could hang out. she was a bartender at a bar across from our apartment complex
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:28 PM
12

I've done this at bars in college. meet a girl, get her laughing, have a great conversation, and then try to walk away. most girls will insist you get their number at this point, if they really felt a connection
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:25 PM
0

not worth it, period sex is gross
/r/seduction05/02/19 10:06 PM
3

you're the man, brother! keep livin' the dream
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:36 PM
45

are you black though?
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:46 PM
92

wow could this video have been any more vague?
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:24 PM
0

you're a girl. just tell any guy that you are interested in them
/r/seduction13/01/19 11:28 PM
1

just start listening to her. she's probably pretty dumb or boring, I mean she is a woman after all. if you keep putting her on a pedestal then all you will ever feel is the unrequited love. the other option is to find a girlfriend
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:38 PM
9

ignore her question and continue the dominance
/r/seduction27/12/18 06:03 PM
3

well, ignoring women seems to be very effective at making them like you. everybody wants what they cant have
/r/seduction26/12/18 12:34 PM
17

if you are a beta male and are having a hard time thinking of yourself with high esteem, just start watching people. if you watch closely you will see that most people are rather petty, foolish, or confused about their own ideology. once you know this, you can start to see through their bravado, and realize that nobody knows everything and nobody is better than anybody. you can even put yourself slightly above these people (in your mind). my point is, if you can't build your own self esteem, at …
/r/seduction26/12/18 12:21 PM
4

spit on it bruh
/r/seduction25/12/18 03:38 PM
1

yeah, pretty much. my old roommate was a big player and he would call this "putting the pussy on a pedestal". just because someone is great doesn't mean they're better than you. we see girls all the time with lame ass looking dudes. but for whatever reason that dude makes her happy so yeah, never count yourself out
/r/seduction15/12/18 04:40 AM
7

the trick is to not pay attention to their looks and all that stuff. just pay attention to what they say and do, and you will quickly find most women very dull or foolish. then your mind will gain the upper hand and although they are gorgeous, you won't be able to see them in the same light. this process usually happens around month 3 of dating when you get tired of her shit; but if you can do it from the very beginning you will learn to find women who actually have good qualities instead of jus…
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:40 PM
2

disregard females, acquire currency
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:17 PM
1

youre falling in love my dude
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:53 PM
3

dinner implies it is a "date". a walk is like getting coffee, she can leave any time
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:57 PM
8

man this hits home. I met a new girl at the office this week and she literally told me this is her cell phone number and I should text her if I think of any little thing. I have been camping on it for 2 days now like a pussy wavering between my emotions when I should probably just text the girl already
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:40 PM
3

that's a future inmate dawg
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/18 11:06 PM
1

she didn't realize shit, she dove back in and tried to hit him again. what video were you watching?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/18 10:57 PM
1

because now I don't know if your advice will actually work or if you were just saying stuff to sell books
/r/seduction30/09/18 05:52 PM
1

you had me until you said check out my book
/r/seduction30/09/18 05:39 PM
1

when my gf is mad at me I can tickle her and always make her laugh/smile. maybe it doesnt work on every girl tho
/r/seduction31/08/18 12:54 AM
1

my old roommate in college used literally all of these with great effect. his famous line was "well maybe if you play your cards right..."
/r/seduction31/08/18 12:53 AM
3

just go up and say stupid shit to ugly bitches. get an ugly bitch to be your girlfriend. upgrade from there using the same technique
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:11 PM
1

it beats seeing her out in the future and knowing that she alpha'd you
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:54 PM
-5

I would patronize her back. be like "oh so sorry to bother the queen. didn't mean to waste your time with my friendly offer."
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:17 PM
4

yeah you should switch up your routine on her, and when she tries to call you out on it like "hey DragonkinAF why didn't you walk home with me yesterday after class?" just be real casual and say like "nah I'm good on that, bro"
/r/seduction18/08/18 03:44 PM
1

haha dude trust me she's a lame ass girl just like the rest of them. maybe she has interests but don't forget she's still a woman, with all of her woman inadequacies and self doubt
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:04 PM
2

i guess i dont buy your explanation that paki women wont date you
/r/seduction23/07/18 12:36 AM
1

mine is 100%, but I havent dated that many girls
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:09 PM
3

yeah, bitches love ploys
/r/seduction13/07/18 10:40 AM
2

I would suggest going to college. I went back and got my masters degree in a new city and instantly made like ten new friends for life. when you are in the same group going thru the same things, you will bond with others quickly
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:21 PM
3

yeah I don't know, that kind of sounded like a setup. like she was going to use you to make her boyfriend get jealous or something stupid like that. I personally would have done the same thing you did, unless the 'boyfriend' was long gone
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:15 PM
35

no, it's kind of like your reputation and lifestyle precede you. like when you're at a party with friends and someone asks you what you do, or when a girl talks to your friend about you. or you meet people at your work who view your status, or new clients, etc etc. for me it's kind of like now whenever I put forth effort to meet new people, I am more quickly rewarded with their affectations. I am not dressing differently or wearing a rolex. women in their late 20's and early 30's are more motiva…
/r/seduction31/05/18 01:01 PM
45

this is awesome. I spent 10 years working on my career and myself and now the women flock to me in my early 30's. they see me as a 'catch'. so yeah, considering women's point of view is important, but it really is all about YOU
/r/seduction31/05/18 11:23 AM
1

ah interesting, no I haven't. I work for a manufacturer/distributor so we don't really sell other people's stuff
/r/seduction31/05/18 11:20 AM
1

well it may have helped that I started the job during my last semester getting a masters degree in economics. i work in ecommerce
/r/seduction31/05/18 01:27 AM
4

what a tragic world we live in these days. we can't just use our words and actions to show people who we are, we have to maintain a database of better-than-reality pics to explain our social prowess. tisk tisk
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:03 AM
6

this is pretty true. i had a job making $14 bucks an hour and I didn't care about the job much, so I would always stand up for myself and call people out, even the manager above me. well the owners hated this at the time, and I thought my reputation was bad. later on I quit this job but lo and behold a year later, the owner called me and asked me to come back as the manager. I guess they had experienced many of the problems with the manager I was trying to point out. well, here I am 5 years late…
/r/seduction30/05/18 05:45 PM
2

wait so what's the line about the top of the deck? inquiring minds need to know
/r/seduction27/05/18 05:41 AM
1

use the same responses on her when she's talking and patronize her until she stops. or when she tells you your story is lame, say you're lame
/r/seduction12/05/18 10:07 AM
9

great advice, start with 6's or 5's or whatever and test out your different lines. once you can keep an ugly girl interested, just use that to build your confidence and go after a 7. if you dont get her, who cares? you can always go home and call your 6 for a bj
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:55 PM
3

I think the main thing is you need to stop giving a fuck. I know it's easier said than done, but when you truly don't care what people think of you then they will be attracted to you. it seems like you are seeking validation in these encounters (via statistics or getting numbers)
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:53 PM
6

good for you bro. it's a numbers game, I like to use (ugly) girls to practice on to build my confidence up first, then go from there
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:38 PM
2

reminds me of my roommate in college, he would tell girls "only if you play your cards right tonight..." and taunt them in the same way
/r/seduction19/04/18 11:03 PM
3

yeah good for you for standing up for yourself, she's a douche for changing the expectations. hope she feels bad
/r/seduction11/04/18 07:48 PM
3

I always know in my mind that I am an awesome fun interesting cool smart person so whenever they reject me it comes across as hilarious because this foolish person in front of me just missed out on the perfect opportunity to get to know ME.
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:17 PM
2

yeah I always send a really blunt second message just to make sure, and if they don't reply then fuck 'em
/r/seduction31/03/18 11:49 AM
2

yep, any hookups prior to the 7 hour average are probably dirty sloots not worth your time
/r/seduction31/03/18 11:05 AM
1

no, the 7 hour rule is the Average time it takes a guy to have sex with a girl. it's by no means a hard and fast rule, just a guideline
/r/seduction31/03/18 10:14 AM
1

from the Pick Up Artist forum http://www.pualingo.com/7-hour-rule/
/r/seduction31/03/18 02:21 AM
-1

it's the 7-hour rule. it typically takes 7 hours of a girl knowing you before she lets you smash. the leaving-and-coming-back routine shortens this 7-hour requirement significantly. it feels like they've known you for longer
/r/seduction30/03/18 10:24 PM
7

judge not lest ye be judged my dudes
/r/seduction29/03/18 09:37 PM
0

the answer is to chill and keep progressing in the relationship. if things get more serious, you can ask her to cut it off with her male friends. if she refuses, then go date someone else, or show her another female and let her feel how it feels. a girl who actually cares about you would not do those things you describe in front of you, in my opinion. but you guys are young so who knows
/r/seduction25/03/18 11:50 AM
5

yeah :\
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:23 PM
16

yeah, just for a man that seems better in the short term. women are emotional creatures
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:23 PM
-7

quite the opposite my friend, I'm the one stealing the girls
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:22 PM
40

girls will sell out their bf in a heartbeat for a better man, regardless of the current relationship status
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:48 PM
15

I learned in college the only way I could date the pretty girls was to mistreat them and act better than them. As soon as I show them any respect they disappear. Sad really
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