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Field Reportebell1989/r/seduction06/08/21 03:22 PM
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Field Reportebell1989/r/seduction10/04/21 12:22 PM
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Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/asksedditebell1989/r/seduction20/04/21 02:47 PM
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Inner Game ebell1989/r/seduction03/08/22 10:55 PM
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Field Reportebell1989/r/seduction29/06/21 02:53 PM
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Field Reportebell1989/r/seduction13/07/22 12:23 AM
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I knew I had a good one yrs ago when she'd leave her friends in the middle of something. I knew I was falling cause I would do the same lol
/r/seduction19/04/23 08:27 PM
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Welcome to the human race. We're awful and enjoy that pretense that we're not..
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:25 AM
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I'm also seeing other people lol. Sometimes you just want to know if they're seeing you and 2 other people or you ad 15 other people. I could name a lot of reasons why that'd be important to know about.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:38 PM
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What do you mean? Get it from me?
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:08 PM
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What's so wrong with that? If I don't message her in the AM she'll message me first. I don't do a ton of dating fyi...mostly just fwb.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:07 PM
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I'm with you. My game is mids at best. I'm just good looking enough that it works for me though. 5'8 and in shape. If I was 6 ft I probably would have to do even less work 🤣
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:01 PM
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Agreed. Definitely feel out the date or whatever event fully first. I could see plenty if women being turned off like a light switch with that. That is not the hail mary move lol
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:59 PM
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I rarely ever ask girls for their #s in public and I almost always get it...so my ratio is pretty high. Lol Probably ask someone once ever odd month or so.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:53 AM
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Dishonor to he and his family.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:17 PM
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Yall are really bad at reading. I go to plenty of places. This one of the few places I don't go to to meet people. Reason why I sometimes go there sauced.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:30 AM
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I never said that's the only place I go to lol. What? Did you even read the entire post?
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:59 AM
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The worst is girls on dating apps with nothing in their bio except their IG....gross lol Not gonna knock the hustle cause simps are just as pathetic.
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:01 PM
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Don't
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:26 PM
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Oof. I usually plan 1 per week cause pickings are slim and I work a ton so energy is limited. You're lucky to have several in a week.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:15 AM
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I feel goofy every time (not many) I do this. Lol idk. how folks do it.
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:05 PM
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It's the touching for me. Simple but not too subtle. I am a moron.
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:43 PM
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In my experience, telling the ones who actually want to see, no makes them wany it more and more. I've had one girl asking for the past 3 yrs lol. We recently had sex for the first time so that's over with now.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:17 PM
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If you don't get many matches tinder is the opposite of fun.
/r/seduction10/12/21 11:07 PM
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Yeah it was just not my night. At the previous bar after my friends left I struck up a convo with a girl got her IG and we talked a while. I didn't go to the next bar with the intention of hitting on women. I tried talking to all types of folks. I had 1 too many and nothing stuck. I was just an awakward, social mess. Solo and too much booze has always been my weakness. By the time I ordered water it was too late. I was all up inside my head. Next time ima try not drinking so much. I started the …
/r/seduction09/08/21 03:40 AM
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I bombed hard over the weekend. Early 30s athletic build. Not a terrible looking guy. Still don't feel like my age is a factor. Clamed up bad though. Especially after too many drinks. Met some friends for drinks. They bowed out early so I went to another bar solo. Riding solo is my major weakness. Plenty of girls were looking at me too. I figured I either got a boogie hangin out my nose or I looked good that night. I'd never know cause I only attempted to talk to 2 girls and one small group of p…
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:12 PM
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/r/seduction07/08/21 08:46 PM
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One thing I left out (probably a few other things I should've added as well) that's pretty interesting relating to jealous. At one point in the long night we ended up at a bar in a casino. I returned from the bathroom to seeing 3 dudes taking to her. I ain't trip. Barely reacted. Played it cool and jumped in to the convo. The guys assured me they weren't hitting on her which was polite. We talked and they left after a while. (We'd later see them again) She mentioned how she liked that I didn't a…
/r/seduction07/08/21 08:43 PM
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Exactly. I never understood ghost culture. Like I get girls saying no can spell troube for them. But I don't know where she lives and I have only one of her socials. Give a guy a break lol. All good. Seein someone else next week.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:49 PM
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Like how often do you randomly go bowling on a tues night and meet a cute girl that's clearly in to you in a mostly empty bowling alley? I've e kicked myself for not trying in the past and being too passive but this one felt like the got dang planets aligned.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:22 PM
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Tbh it was more her. Granted, our bowling lanes were right next to each other, I intitated plenty of the flirting. It wasn't until she bought me and my 2 friends a round. That plus the overwhelming body language, I know I'd be kicking myself if I didnt ask for her #. Her personality just made it that much easier you know? Beleive me when I say I don't do that often. I'm usually kind of shy. If there wasn't so much body language and what not I probably wouldn't have tried.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:20 PM
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Them some facts you spittin there fam.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:39 PM
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I'm having someone over for a day or 2 next week. Had that set up for a little while. I'm good.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:29 PM
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It took a few days. That weekend she worked and she works the nightlife and can't have her phone so she's hard to reach. That following Mon we set a date for thurs. She asked 2 days in row leading up to it if we were still on. She was pretty in to me from the gate.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:25 PM
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She has adhd but I also got that vibe as well.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:24 PM
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I didn't even know that girl existed. She told me the other girl was looking. lol
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:23 PM
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Before I deleted her # i said "sooo you're ghosting me. Bet. Shame, I liked you too." I aint trippin. Seein someone else next week. (Been planned for a while but still lol)
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:22 PM
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I aint even trippin. Got someone comin up from forida next week.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:14 PM
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Nah. She knew my place was a mess from moving packing. She live with her bug ass family. All the smooching was in a parking lot. She insinuayed shed be over my new spot. She even implied she was gon be my date to a wedding in oct. Lol
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:12 PM
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Met her with her family on a tues night at bowling. We connected immediately. Flirty, lots of eye contact. I could tell she was in to me. I got her # and she text me first hrs later hoping I,d invite her to drinks in the city with my friends who also met her that night.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:10 PM
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Nah, she in the back of my line now fam. I got other applicants myself.
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:15 PM
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I aint trippin. I'm talking to 2 other people. Just trying to find some semblance of reason since this the first time I been ghosted.
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:09 PM
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Oh wow. Yeah that's a big ol wtf. I mean I guess a long enough amount of time went by she thought it was an unspoken agreement yall were just friends? Lol idk
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:05 PM
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Her and my work schedule prevented another date before the next week. Beleive we talked quite a bit about setting another date up. It seemed like a sure thing. And yeah the lack of communiction was a red flag. Her reasoning seemed sound most of the time. She worked over night and I work during the day then she takes care of her sibling for her parenrs. But still if you're really in to someone the way she seemed in to me you'd find the time.
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:03 PM
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Yeah I also considered that lol. My luck and timing was pretty shit. She lives with her family and I told her my apartment was a mess cause I was moving. The weekend after. Yet she insinuated she'll be over my new apartment in the future. So idk.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:57 PM
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I don't understand how women can get these things in their heads. I'm currently seeing someone right now..purley physical. I've communicated that with her on several occasions. There will never be a romantic relationship. Yet every once in a while she'll try to slip some shit in there. "All you do is smash me and leave." "We never go anywhere." I felt like the state farm late night husband. "Well, I told you all I wanted was sex soooo." Lol
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:56 PM
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Interesting. Yeah I wondered what I might have done/said to turn her off. I'm sure it wasn't during the date. Since she was pretty responsive after the date as well. Like I said we stayed up all night literally.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:47 PM
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Yeah, that was probably pointless since the last text she sent was one word on Wednesday but fuck it lol. Wait what. lol All 3 girls thought yall were an item? Lol
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:42 PM
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I've thought about something like this. Not sure I want to give her the satisfaction. Plus it feels slightly desperate. Ahh fuck it. What I got to lose. Lol Not like I'm not talking to other people as well.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:34 PM
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Oh I aint trippin. Beleive that lol. Already deleted her # and am currently talking to other people. So I'm no saint..but I don't ghost people. I communicate. Just lookin for some semblance since this the first time I been ghosted. Is what it is.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:17 PM
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The whole karma thing has some sense to it ngl lol. Sure I'm talking to 2 other people right now but I don't ghost people. Communication is important to me. Even if I'm not that in to you.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:15 PM
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This is possible. But I'm not so sure. I got her number and she messaged me first a few hrs later. She waa definitely super in to me. But she's also got like 10k followers on IG so I always assumed someone was in her DMs and all that.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:12 PM
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Last week I set a time and place but she was out of town. A day or 2 later is when the distance started. That was last thursday. She says she has to take care of her little brother and sis which is a second job since parents are always gone. I didnt want to assume that was bullshit but maybe it was. http://imgur.com/gallery/7ymt7HV
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:01 PM
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Staying up all night making out with someone is a wierd way to tell them you're not in to them lol.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:48 PM
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Probably right. I'm not trippin. Not like I'm not talking to other people as well.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:15 PM
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I guess it seems strange to me because you click with someone. I can see being ghosted after an average date or something similar. Folks get delusional and what not. But I can't remember the last time I clicked so well with someone.
/r/seduction06/08/21 03:43 PM
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I guess cause it's my first time being ghosted I was taken back a little.
/r/seduction06/08/21 03:36 PM
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Happened to me the first time with an ex. She was cool about it. We were togetger for 2 years lol.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:21 PM
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Sadly I don't see her often enough but that would have been a great goow up line. Thanks!
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:28 PM
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That sounds like a good way to get in to a game of chicken ol
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:22 PM
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Man's had no intention of lifting that weight. He knew he had you at "deal."
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:05 PM
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Just playing devil's advocate here. If you get rejected enough time that will leave an impression.
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:30 PM
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I wish I had the balls to do that. Good for you OP. Ignore all the negative comments.
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:30 PM
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Very, very good point.
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:29 PM
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I know the feeling. Not to be hit on but just being talked to. LoL I don't go to the gym to socialize. The people that do drive me nuts.
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:48 AM
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This. Body language especially in the face is super important. If all we have to go off in the face is eye contact it makes people extremely hard to read.
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:26 PM
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I have literally watched guys attempt to hit on or simply talk to women as they work out and be completely ignored. Hitting on women at the gym is a fools errand.
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:25 PM
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I wondered that. I like to think I'm pretty good at reading body language and eye contact is a sure flag that someone is interested in you. I though for sure she would walk by me and we'd lock eyes and I'd say something. But she looked right through me it felt. In my head it told me not to waste my time.
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:37 PM
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Here is the very strange part. Once in a very blue moon I have this charm switch that flips uncontrollably and I can do these things. Happened a while back. Me and a buddy went out to a bar but he got draged away early by his GF I had a few drinks in me and was not ready to go home. I made my way to a bar/lounge by myself and chatted people up. At one point holding a sole girls attention with convo for well over an HR.
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:35 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. I tried yesterday at the store. Someone was looking at the same flat bread I was looking at and I was going to remark about the calorie difference but man I just couldn't even do that.
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:33 PM
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OP in your honest opinion, are you a pretty good looking guy?
/r/seduction20/04/21 02:40 PM
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Good for you op. More courage than I have. My reject-o-meter doesn't have much capactiy. LolvWhat baffles me are the guys who get rejected nine times out of 10 and keep going back for more.
/r/seduction18/04/21 12:59 PM
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I literally came here to recount my almost exactly similar experience with a bartender girl. LoL
/r/seduction17/04/21 07:54 PM
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This is good stuff. I often if possible take down numbers even if they have boyfriend's for that exact reason. Sadly though my past 2 attempts ended in just friends after 1 of them became single. Still unsure how I messed that one up. Felt like a sure thing until she told me just friends. The recent one I still have hopes for in the future since we have so much in common.
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:45 PM
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Sounds like you just have type B personality. Whether in trying to talk to a woman or any old shmo in public my head always gets in the way more often that not....figuratively speaking lol
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:42 PM
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Rude
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:02 PM
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That's a good point I think I'll edit the post to include what didn't work.
/r/seduction10/04/21 03:00 PM
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Please for the love of god no one take this person seriously. Hopefully just a troll.
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:29 PM
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Especially the ones who are naturally flirty and get disgruntled when you can't tell the difference between their platonic flirting and romantic flirting. A string cheese line of difference lol
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:27 PM
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Same. I'd say I've been with more women that came on to me first than the opposite.
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:26 PM
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See I think the issue with mixed signals when it comes to women is that they send them expecting to entice and get you to make the first move. And once you don't make the move they don't know how to proceed because they're so used to being courted and approached etc.
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:25 PM
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Yeah idk I'd say plenty of women look for materialism (money, cars etc) just as much as behavior and personality. Obviously not all but a considerable amount nonetheless.
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:24 PM
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Tell that to my overbearing anxiety.
/r/seduction17/03/21 03:17 PM
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